The Genius of Great Communicators
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- čas přidán 28. 03. 2021
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Who’s the greatest communicator you know?
Thank you for the tip
The prophet Muhammad (Pease be upon him)
The Lord and savior Jesus Christ. After him Donald Trump.
Styx Hexenhammer
John C. Maxwell
Communication is an underrated skill
It's a dying art... U r right. Sadly.
100% agree! Underrated and probably the most valuable skill you can learn.
It became a skill because everyone sucks so much at it
RPG games seems to understand this pretty well 😂
Speechcraft is a must 👏
Sir yes sir.
*Behind every strong person is a story that give them no choice*
I think they had a choice, they just made the hard one. That’s what makes them a strong person.
This is one of the greatest comments I’ve ever read on youtube.
@@fidelagudo9643 Real recognize real.
Non-verbal communication plays such a huge part when communicating with others. Looking at someone shows that you are paying attention to them and it's all about them.
Read where recent studies indicate millenials think direct eye contact is a sign of aggression. As is a firm handshake. But the media said that. So I can't verify it. Lol. If true ...what a bunch of straight up pussies.
@@sandprather7898 A very good point. I will add that you provided the best definition of the resulting outcome. When they are allowed to perceive the interaction in their own way they fulfill their own destiny. It's funny but being a little older (49) I can still remember the times I was told how to act in society rather than pick the path that made me the most comfortable. Maybe the global society needs a good slap now and then to tell them not to be so triggered.
Read the book What Every Body is Saying by Joe Navarro. It’s an ex-FBI agent who specializes in body language and goes over what certain cues mean. Very interesting read.
@@georgemuhoro THX, that sounds like a good read 👍
@@CIA-gs2os “when they are allowed to perceive the interaction in their own way”
That’s powerful. You’re right, it’s so easy to be stuck in your own head instead of actually LISTENING
Prolonged eye contact can get awkward... I find eye contact is effective when listening or trying to make a point, but don't be afraid to look at what's going on around you
This is very true. Most people tend to think in extremes, like “all eye contact or no eye contact there is nothing inbetween.”
When I was diagnosed with aspergers, the psychiatrist told me I needed to work on looking people in the eyes when talking to them or listening to them. I brought up this point that it’s awkward to stare like a madman at people, so they told me maintaining eye contact doesn’t necessarily mean, you know, staring at someone like a madman. You can, and really should, look away a little bit maybe every minute or so, just briefly, just to let the other person know you haven’t fallen asleep with your eyes open while staring at them lol
@@amaracea Agreed! Thanks for the insight! I know a lot of artists and when they tell me stories or are listening to one of mine they tend to look away to visualize what they're interpreting... doesn't mean they're not engaged, in fact just the opposite
Just like Andrew tate
Pat, you're definitely one of the best communicator I know. You have the ability to explain a subject in a way that makes everyone understand your point of view and think through a different angle. It's not given to anyone so thanks for inspiring me
I am the funniest CZcamsr of all time I watched my latest video and laughed for 69 minutes straight I am extremely funny I am dangerously funny and I have two girlfriends who think I am extremely dangerously funny and they watch all of my videos thanks for listening dear ppaul
@@AxxLAfriku are you gay?
Communication equals wealth. Thank you for sharing Mr Bet David.
lol, i'am still poor
In Switzerland, where I’m from, this is basic. No one will communicate without eye contact. This is seen as the minimal sign of respect one should give in a conversation.
Yes, but it could be hard for someone with like ADHD.. :)
Yes, I find that I actually struggle to think as clearly/effectively if I’m devoting a portion of my thought process/brain power towards simply focusing on this internal thought playing through my find of “I need to maintain eye contact with this person or they will think X of me,” that thought throws me off and hurts my ability to think as well about the task at hand
Eye contact is difficult for one reason and one reason only:
Because you consider yourself lesser than the person you are speaking to.
That’s it. That’s the only reason. It is not a sign of disrespect, it is actually a sign of (misplaced?) respect. It stems not from rudeness but from a lack of self-confidence.
it can be a bit of a cultural thing too, in many cultures it's very rude to stare people down.
@@amaracea or it can be difficult for the reason that I said too
Pat, you are the kind of human being that inspires me to be my best.
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!! Too bad Jesus doesn't inspire you to be your best
Read a book, and there was a statistic along the lines of: "Verbal fluency and strong communication skills are the number one predictor and skill to getting ahead in your professional life and corporate world." In my opinion this holds true to personal life as well..
hi,totally agree. what's the book name,thanks
Eye contact is everything
Well, no, I mean you still have to actually listen, and you have to talk if you want to say something, and also that eye contact has to be conscious and not you drifting off while happening to stare in their direction 😂
New topic of the month of April. Communication.
10 SM post
3 reports of EFFECTIVE communication
4 videos on do's and don'ts and stories of effects of communication.
Who else here has loads of thoughts and feelings about things but struggles to communicate them effectively?
How can we combat this? I really hate that I struggle with this in everyday life.
LOTS do & especially younger generation(s).
@@wdev9327 Practice more and more and more. Finally it will get easier.. :)
🙋♂️
@@OugaBoogaShockwave Older generations do as well. You just don’t know because they hide it well. They, people like the Silent Generation, Boomers, and Gen X, were raised in generations that taught them not to reveal their true feelings and that if they’re misunderstood to blame the other person for not understanding them. This makes it look like they’ve got everything put together when in reality they’re just better at pretending than younger generations are.
Would love an in depth video about going through all the elements of great communication. It is such an underrated skill and in such a technological advanced world we life in today the communication and social skill of people have never been so low. Alot of people these days have become so used to communicating on their computer and phone that they basically forgot how to communicate effectifely in person!
I like your comment thank you. However communication skills have not changed. You still need to know and understand the language you are speaking. And build your vocabulary to the highest level as you can handle.
@@ericcollins16 thank you, I definitely agree with that and that’s why I advocate people to read more. That helps alot with expanding someone’s vocabulary.
Abuse of technology is literally making people these days awkward, anxious, shy and depressed, especially using social media
Shared this to my FB feed. My favorite interviewer in the known universe. Ty, sir, once again. People shud all do that w their kids.
What makes a great communicator: Be PBD.
True 😂
Another kiss ass comment
I know your type when you are in workplace hehe
@@Kzombie give credit where credit is due.
What's PBD?
Great lesson and being able to communicate effectively is one of the most valuable skills anyone can learn
Sometimes all you need is a fresh perspective.....many times I have to remove myself to see through another's eyes. Good stuff...
When uncle PBD speaks, you listen! Thank you uncle Pat
Communicating ideas make the world go round. Communication is literally everything
I respect You for teaching your son the importance of eye contact! He will definitely grow with “backbone” and be an honest man. Not needing to fear others, it’s a noble trait that many lack and the world needs more honesty within individuals! God Bless
"What we have here, is a failure to communicate." -- Cool Hand Luke
Patrick, you are so on-target with this sage advice. THANK-YOU!
This is an evergreen advice Pat. Thank you very much!
Saying what you literally think with the emotion you feel has got to be one of the best communication tips
Moral:
1- While taking see in eyes& talk. 2-Give your undivided attention to people
Thanks PBD for always Inspiring US!!!🙏🏽🔥🙏🏽
God bless you! 🌷
Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
Much needed!! Thanks for your video!
Thank you Patrick, this was soo lovely. Soo lovely, I need to tell you this, the best talks I heard last year , were your talks with mafia people you had on your channel. Thank you so much for conveying so much depth, and value.
And I am taking this challenge, it's many times good and we thought they already know or should know ..
Thank you sir, I've watched probably about 50 or 60 of your CZcams videos and this one kinda hit me the most.
I've been trying to get better at talking to my daughter and you gave me some great ideas
Thanks again
Lord knows I need to work in communicating better especially with my daughter. Thank you pat
by far the best content on YT, if you are going to watch youtube make sure the time is spent on this kind of stuff. THANKS
Awesome Pat! Thank you!!!
A great communicator understands tone / pitch of voice.
A great communicator also speak with enthusiasm, passion, and conciseness with the ability to elaborate with simplicity if need be.
Never had it explained this way before. Thankyou Pat👊🏼😎
Pat your the best communicator 💯
Great candid video
Inspirational, Thank You!
I love how he is raising his children! Awesome!
PBD,
Way to lead by example! CRUSHING IT!
Engaged insightfully, delivering
Relevant/ purposeful highest Value!
Together We Win! 🇺🇸
Thank you! Appreciate your videos 🙏🙏🙏
I just found you from another video. One of the main reasons why I look at people in their eyes, is because of micro expressions. You made a very good video, and sounds like you're a good dad as well. Yes, thinking child-like is important.
Amazing insights!! Have a blessed 2021! :)
Thanks Pat for this, need it
Great video as always, thanks Pat! 👍
Great video. Thank you!
A firm handshake while looking someone in the eyes is very important and goes a long way!
Love videos like this
Great information! Communication is the key!
Excellent❤thanks PBD🙏
this is for me , alyws when i'm watching your videos i naver said i wish have money like him or success in life like him , i awlys said i wish i can be good talker like you , you have this method to make ppl focus in what you saying
Awesome! Thank you 😊
this is great thanks
Nice place you got there Patrick. Very Inspiring...
I pass on your videos to all the youngsters I know of... Thank You...
Brother your a role model to us, many thanks ...
young fella's blessed to have such a father
exactly
You are so great innovator, keep up the good work! Greetings from Finland, I have been following You since 2016. And also watched the all the videos from the start that has been interesting for me (as a starter entrepreneur).
Great info.
Thanks PBD
Thanks David
The most important skill which takes time and lots of practice to get good at it but it pays of because it make an impact in life
Thanks for sharing
Thank you.
It's the little things that make all the difference, because you learn that the little things that have a HUGE impact.
My coworker was trying to explain the situation at work to our Foreman the other day and my Foreman had to ask him to repeat several times because the whole time my coworker was talking, my Foreman was trying to pick something off the roof of his mouth. It made me uncomfortable to observe the "conversation" and my coworker told me later that it really ticked him off. Eye contact is SO important!
Being a great listener makes you a good speaker.
Superb !
Legendary Advice, as always
Well said, Pat 🙌
One of the things i notice with myself, is that I simply forget to look people in the eye. My mind just keeps wondering and it takes a few minutes till I get focused in mentally on the person. When our mind is riddled with anxiety and other issues, it's hard for us to concentrate and be present in the moment with the people we are talking to.
Yes 👍 man keep up the good work 🙏🏻🙋♂️👍
EYE CONTACT!! Really makes a difference
Super official! Thanks
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I have so much knowledge but because of not communicating well i feel powerless , but will improve
Amazing so true brother welcome to Florida
In the 70's there was a book called COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION- the layers. This us absolutely true.
Awesome!
Amazing communication and amazing house bro 👍💪
Nice video 💯
More communication videos please
I’ll be talking and explaining something to my mom and right in the middle she will interrupt and start talking her thoughts!! ALL THE TIME! Big pet peeve of mine!
𝑰𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 ¢𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒂𝒅𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑽𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒛𝒊𝒂 𝑨𝒏𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒘
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Hey Pat fantastic content as always. Do you have any book recommendations on effective communication?
Communication is the fundamental ability everyone who want to be success needs to have.
You are a good man. Father bless this family!!
𝑰𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 ¢𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒂𝒅𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑽𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒛𝒊𝒂 𝑨𝒏𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒘
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Hard to look you in the eye while I'm also eyeing that palace behind you. Sorry. Looks like a place on Florida's intercoastal . Beautiful
Nice digs. (You can tell where my mind wondered.)
A couple hours on this topic might be helpful thank you🤍
I appreciate it Pat, the eye thing I've always kinda knew & stuff but I personally desperately need to rebuild my confidence back up and passed the point it was when I was 15 and won my first sports championship as a starter and also got the MVP oh, and the sportsmanship trophy that year and every other year I got the sportsmanship trophy in that one league. So when I was talking to my boss I'm pretty sure it's the confidence thing of listen to some Jordan Peterson and he has the answer for me I just can't seem to get my family to be on board with positive reinforcement and encouragement no matter my efforts it never seems to matter I can give 110% and most of the time that will get me more negative feedback constantly and I think I'm aware of why that is, I can always learn more I reckon but when I was talking to my boss about a year ago over a small minor incident and it was something I just had no idea that I even did because it was something very minor but it was also something very very key in understanding. There was a Salesman guy that never did a good job to be honest but I never had his job so I can't say for sure that I could do any better but I worked on a beer truck and all of the other salesmen got along with their drivers and did a good job there wasn't a lot of empty holes the store managers wasn't bitching at us went while we was delivering the beer over empty holes and other things in the salesman's area but in my hometown and a gas station I went to quite a bit and do all the workers there, the cashier I was talking to she asked me where was this guy at she hadn't seen him in the past couple weeks and it was that salesman and this is after conversation for 2 minutes probably, & she what is mainly the only one talkin and it was very normal for every store we went to that that certain person sold they all bitched about this guy and nobody could stand in and I'm very nice I don't ever have any problems with people and I'm pretty sure I understand myself in that aspect to I'm very self-aware lol but I told that lady when she asked me where he was, "that I'm not exactly sure, I heard that he was demoted"
& literally that was it and i guess she told that salesman and he went & ended up complaining to my boss which for almost 2 years, I hardly got to speak to him. Mainly cuz of Me avoiding him as much as possible, over fear & aniexty.
So as I'm talking to him it is very hard to look him in the eye even though I told the truth and I couldn't even remember I said that because it was so minor but he explained why it wasn't good and I moved on from it but that interaction could not have helped me whatsoever because I'm telling you I damn near cried and I've never really known how to deal with that... have any suggestions? I think a mentor to move in with would be amazing for like 6 months maybe a year preferably. I have no problem with pulling my own weight and not taking a dime that I haven't earned.
I don't have hardly anyone except my two boys that look up to me and I know they see that lack of confidence & stuff. Other than that Pat im the best damn 27 year old Dad there is in my entire state i feel like. Im proud of it more than anything else.
Visual sense can be dominant for most people when making eye contact. It’s a type of nonverbal communication. Our eyes are what attracts a person the way we look at them. It can include many things such as, attraction, affection or hostility.
And most of the time they tell you more then words 👀
Nice Pad Pat
Sometimes some people secretly disklike themselves and mentally internally punish themselves by smoking because they’ve lost inspiration-ambition and wether or not they smoke to give the appearance of looking tough or Kool; it may show lack of forgiveness or the need for a caring ear to help them heal. Then again abuse and hardships that children face may lead to these behaviours, I feel this way because I have found that clients in my salon speak openly and honestly when they are comfortable and yes respect Me. I support herbal Medecine; however smoking cannabis versus tobacco is different because of the chemicals in tobacco need a whole new discussion.
I love your channel! can you please recommend few books about how to develop these skills? Thank you
Thank you Mr. PBD.... 💪🏼❤👍🏼⚔🇺🇸🙏🏼
𝑰𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 ¢𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒂𝒅𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑽𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒛𝒊𝒂 𝑨𝒏𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒘
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🧠 excellent.
This is good information. On the other side of the question, though, did you ever hear of the book LOOK ME IN THE EYE, by John Elder Robison? When I saw it in the bookstore, I knew I had to read it; so when I got home, I found it in our public library.
Thx Patrick! Never thought of this before ;)
Thanks again Pat for sharing. You're one of the greatest communicators I've met. Perhaps my other mentors and former bosses Rick Goodwin and Marvin Gurley were also some of the best.
𝑰𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 ¢𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒂𝒅𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑽𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒛𝒊𝒂 𝑨𝒏𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒘
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Tom Bilyeu pops up into my mind when talking about looking the other person in the eyes when they speak. If you watch his interview you will get it.
He almost never breaks eye contact tho..too much eye contact can single you want to confront them
That’s me ✊ everybody tell me that. I explain things to people in ways they understand.
Always providing value man... Wonder how you’re like on the other side, haha