The Ups & Downs of an Authentic Marriage | Boniface & Mary Nyoike | Rawder Kidula Show

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  • čas přidán 13. 04. 2024
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Komentáře • 271

  • @faithkamau2505
    @faithkamau2505 Před 3 měsíci +25

    The best gift you can give your spouse is a more Christ- like you 💯💯

  • @agnessanga
    @agnessanga Před 3 měsíci +19

    Just yesterday i had a disagreement with my husband and being the one that is saved in my relationship it was such a heavy burden forme to carry and it got me really emotional and I cried to God to help me out and here today the first channel I came by is this great talk. Thank you holy spirit for always guiding us to the truth. Rowder thank you for this,may God bless you .

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  Před 3 měsíci

      Wow! To God be the Glory! May the Holy Spirit keep guiding you. Thank you for watching.

  • @sarahnafula2955
    @sarahnafula2955 Před 3 měsíci +8

    You can cohabit without God but you can't do marriage without God!!!
    Am just loving how everything the lady was saying was all about the Holy Spirit helping. If people talk of pre- marital counselling for 3 months..a committed follower of your channel who ain't married yet like me is getting free pre marital counselling. God bless you Rawder!! I pray that God will expand your territories and also bring Godly couples from other nations.
    I would love to suggest Pastor T and his wife's testimony , Ernest Wamboye and The Omondis( Jane Aller and her husband)

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Wow, thank you for the recommendations. This is indeed a lesson.

  • @marthakmirembe
    @marthakmirembe Před 3 měsíci +13

    These shows are so inspirational. Please Rawder whenever you feel like giving up think about people like us❤❤

  • @maurinedommy1510
    @maurinedommy1510 Před 3 měsíci +4

    This is the most educative and authentic marriage conversation I have ever heard

  • @mercymusa805
    @mercymusa805 Před 12 dny

    This is a couple commited to God in their lives and their marriage is full of wisdom.
    Thanks Rawder for bringing them to the show.

  • @esthercheruiyot5167
    @esthercheruiyot5167 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Such a lovely couple full of wisdom
    " marriage will trouble all carnality out of you to create a Christ like person"

  • @mamakej
    @mamakej Před 2 měsíci +3

    I have been married longer than them, but I am learning so much from them. May God continue to bless theiir marriage.

  • @paulmuragewachira2732
    @paulmuragewachira2732 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Mutual submission to God then to each other equals marital success & bliss!🎉🎉

  • @brightlife3890
    @brightlife3890 Před měsícem +1

    This is the first couple that has let God have all the glory even in this conversation I'm so blessed. God bless you and your host too

  • @gathongabeatricewambui3009
    @gathongabeatricewambui3009 Před 3 měsíci +4

    So much wisdom which has been eloquently articulated. I can listen to these two over n over.

  • @julietwainaina3937
    @julietwainaina3937 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Best show ever. Great lessons from people led by the Holy spirit

  • @sebentilezanini1085
    @sebentilezanini1085 Před měsícem +2

    What they have comes with understanding that when God is first...as a spouse we will be accountable one day for how we handled our homes.
    Humility and maturity goes a long way....

  • @lydianyagah3423
    @lydianyagah3423 Před 3 měsíci +9

    This program is mentoring me before marriage. Thank you rawder keep going

  • @marymadonnah4881
    @marymadonnah4881 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I think one of the best I've watched.. this is definitely a couple that prioritizes growth and the word of God. They're full of revelation, it's flowing from the abundance of their hearts.

  • @user-sd5ei3dy9h
    @user-sd5ei3dy9h Před 3 měsíci +3

    Wow, Rawder, this was a full package; am enlightened and given more reasons to deposit in my marriage more than what I withdraw from it. Beautiful couple.

  • @InspiredbyBNatifu
    @InspiredbyBNatifu Před 2 měsíci +2

    Such a lovely interview. Rhoda, thanks for allowing your interviewees to flow and speak naturally.
    You get to appreciate this lady Mrs Nyoike. She grows on you like fine wine...The more you listen to her share how the Holy Spirit transformed and changed her perspective on submission, the more you appreciate her journey of growth and maturity as a wife and mother.

  • @esthernzioka1698
    @esthernzioka1698 Před 14 dny

    This is a balanced , well coordinated family. Learning...❤

  • @washera_k.
    @washera_k. Před 12 dny

    This is I believe the best explanation for marriage and parenthood....I have thoroughly enjoyed this show ❤.....

  • @druscillahenry3224
    @druscillahenry3224 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Wow wow.....i always think the episodes are good but everyone of them is better than the previous one. Thanks to you Rawder and the 2 guests. I learnt alot for sure, actually i got challenged to be better....i want to be a better wife because of this episode, no one has taught me like this before. I wish all marrieds can get a chance to listen to this episode. This is a message for me from God, thank you Jesus.

  • @Fortune-iz1kv
    @Fortune-iz1kv Před 2 měsíci +1

    Wowww!!! This interview has changed my perspective on so many things! This couple is blessed with God's wisdom kabiisa! I have learnt many many things but one of them is that my spouse is simply a tool God is using for my sanctification. So they are not the problem just God refining the gold in me for a much better output! Its a mindset shift for me! Thank you so much Rawder for allowing God to work through you for the sake of an institution He loves and values so much!

  • @marykerema9537
    @marykerema9537 Před měsícem +1

    This couple is just a vibe learning

  • @judithwambui9592
    @judithwambui9592 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I bless the Lord for the wisdom He has bestowed on this wonderful couple. Boniface and Mary, you have really allowed God to use you in your marriage. I agree with you totally... submission to God first, then to your spouse and marriage.God bless you favourably.

  • @charitykioko8993
    @charitykioko8993 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Marriage is a so beautiful thing....thanks Rawder for hosting this great couple.... personally am blessed and inspired by them

  • @unimaxxcreations9298
    @unimaxxcreations9298 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Wow...this couple spewing wisdom like nothing..they're not even trying. Wueh👏👏well done. This is on repeat in my downloads (if there's such a thing)...thanks Rhoda

  • @jennymayna5334
    @jennymayna5334 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Wow... marriage was not created for happiness but for holiness/sanctification

  • @annechawe8363
    @annechawe8363 Před měsícem +1

    I love the way Mary emphasised everything back to God and a relationship with Him.

  • @bettymukolwe6600
    @bettymukolwe6600 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Such a lovely interview. Am sooo blessed. Rawder and the lovely couple.. Thank you

  • @dianamangudu1322
    @dianamangudu1322 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Rawder you're such a 😍 beauty. I bless the name of the Lord.
    You have come back bigger and better 💪 and the LORD will surely honour you and reward you because you have known His name.
    I learned a lot, much more than that is the conviction of the Holy Spirit concerning something I am praying for😉.
    God bless you richly.
    Two are better than one, I will bring a testimony and praise report based on this. I love you Rawder.
    Many thanks to your spiritually anchored guests. May the Lord continue to sustain your marriages.

  • @Joy-mwende
    @Joy-mwende Před 3 měsíci +2

    Submitting to the full counsel of God's word and the holy spirit. What a blessing!

  • @user-yw1te6fn5q
    @user-yw1te6fn5q Před 3 měsíci +2

    What a couple-great wisdom, love your books-kweli we are what we surround ourselves with. Kudo!

  • @okiyasylvia7385
    @okiyasylvia7385 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Wow...i didn't want it to end!am inspired,am rebuked and am a better wife thanks to this conversation.Lots of gems shared.
    God bless you Rawder and your team.

  • @nyabwabu
    @nyabwabu Před 3 měsíci +7

    @Rawder fresh starts are exciting. With you all the way

  • @corazonaquino5431
    @corazonaquino5431 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I love the conversation.. Mr Nyoike is full of Wisdom.

  • @MarryOnChain
    @MarryOnChain Před 3 měsíci +2

    Marriage is a sacred union between two individuals who promise to love and support each other through life's journey. A wedding celebrates this commitment with family and friends, uniting two souls in a beautiful ceremony filled with joy and love. It marks the beginning of a new chapter filled with love and happiness.

  • @user-bn1fl6go5o
    @user-bn1fl6go5o Před 3 měsíci +7

    Amen,soo inspiring I'm here on behalf of those who are Planning for their wedding 😅😅😅Rawder Thanks soo much and May God bless you,I've been helped!!!

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  Před 3 měsíci

      Amen. May God grant you the grace to apply the lessons..

    • @Joy-mwende
      @Joy-mwende Před 3 měsíci

      For sure..I'm glad I listened even before I get there. This was such a blessing.

  • @mirriammutwiwa1658
    @mirriammutwiwa1658 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Great and inspiring story from Mary and Bonny. I am so blessed by their story.

  • @damariskamami3501
    @damariskamami3501 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I didn't want this to end ❤❤

  • @damarisochola542
    @damarisochola542 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Hee Mary, soooo good to see you, and what a transformation, just know am proud of you and you have challenged me, God bless you,

  • @corazonaquino5431
    @corazonaquino5431 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Thank you Rawder for bringing this couple on board... Wuuue have learnt alot from them

  • @miriamrarumu1749
    @miriamrarumu1749 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Thank you for sharing your marriage journey. Lot of take home. Your love for God for the many years i have known you is consistent. Stay blessed with your family.

  • @ADVANCEENERGYSAVERS
    @ADVANCEENERGYSAVERS Před 3 měsíci +3

    I love this.. Thankyou Rawder❤

  • @emilymn4468
    @emilymn4468 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Absolutely wholesome. Thank you Rawder and to the Nyoike’s. What a testament of the truth of God and how sufficient it is if employed in our lives. May God help us to abide.

  • @lynette4708
    @lynette4708 Před měsícem +1

    Am beyond blessed,they are of the best couples and marriage mentors you've ever brought.I believe I can listen to them a million times over and over.They are so richly endowed with good council.

  • @margaretkamau7834
    @margaretkamau7834 Před 3 měsíci +2

    @peggynjesh
    Here to support you dear. God's Speed.

  • @joyceatieno1350
    @joyceatieno1350 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Woow...can't wait for more videos...❤

  • @monicamburugu9815
    @monicamburugu9815 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thanks Rawder. Marriage is beautiful 😊

  • @fideleomondi6766
    @fideleomondi6766 Před 3 měsíci +1

    So inspiring!

  • @milkahgesare2555
    @milkahgesare2555 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Wow what a conversation this changed my all view of marriage

  • @NancyNyambura-ge8bi
    @NancyNyambura-ge8bi Před 3 měsíci +2

    Truely it's been very educative. Let Christ be the center

  • @julietokoth
    @julietokoth Před 3 měsíci +3

    I am impressed by the story of their wedding. God indeed provided abundantly

  • @judymaneeno2443
    @judymaneeno2443 Před měsícem +1

    Wow,this is quite beautiful,best interview,thank you Rawder.everything centred on God.i truly love that

  • @gracegachoka2186
    @gracegachoka2186 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love your good work Rawder. Keep going

  • @mamlemn
    @mamlemn Před měsícem +1

    Wow Rawder. God bless you and your guest, I get to learn a whole lot of good counsel on your show all the way from Ghana, West Africa. Mr. and Mrs Nyoike have taught me even more, Wow I love the fact that God is given the absolute allegiance throughout the conversation. God bless them, I would love to meet them someday😊🙏🙏

  • @MarryOnChain
    @MarryOnChain Před 3 měsíci +1

    Marriage is a beautiful union between two souls, a promise of love, respect, and companionship. Weddings are joyful celebrations of this commitment, filled with love, laughter, and cherished moments. It is a special day where two hearts become one, surrounded by family and friends, creating memories to last a lifetime.

  • @sashaachieng8254
    @sashaachieng8254 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Living out your purpose Rawder! Be encouraged in this new journey. You have our support always♥

  • @mamlemn
    @mamlemn Před měsícem +1

    Now i have decided to listen to this again and again and take note of everything. Wow! God bless you 🙏🙏

  • @user-mq2bv8wv7b
    @user-mq2bv8wv7b Před 3 měsíci +2

    Wow! Insightful and inspiring conversations + amazingly awesome souls😘. Jesus at the centre of it all💯. Am blessed. The Nyoike's..may you continue glowing and growing for God's glory.
    Rawder I will never tire to tell you that you are a timely answer to generations❤💙 Keep shining dear. The new start is absolutely better even with the titles of the shows🤭😘 Baraka tele!!

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  Před 3 měsíci

      Amen! Thank you so much for watching and the support. AMEN!

  • @fridahnjeri2062
    @fridahnjeri2062 Před měsícem +1

    Good talk ,but even women need to b understood n respected

  • @verohmakau86
    @verohmakau86 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Awesome!

  • @annejaoko751
    @annejaoko751 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Playing your role as God ordains

  • @ruthawuor4876
    @ruthawuor4876 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Rawder, we are with you all the way. God's speed

  • @jacklinewanja4190
    @jacklinewanja4190 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This is was so inspiring to listen to make yourself and proverbs 24

  • @elsieawuor2710
    @elsieawuor2710 Před měsícem +1

    Wow wow wow! So much wisdom, feeling blessed by this conversation. Thank you Rawder, for hosting this wonderful couple.

  • @user-ze4hy9bk6h
    @user-ze4hy9bk6h Před 3 měsíci +1

    Really educative ...

  • @juliawambui2302
    @juliawambui2302 Před 3 měsíci +2

    In this fresh start i am in . Marriage works keep up Rawder

  • @brianoteba8554
    @brianoteba8554 Před 2 měsíci +1

    great conversation,

  • @lynetteadhiambo9482
    @lynetteadhiambo9482 Před 3 měsíci +2

    What a rich show! God bless you all for this Kingdom work

  • @sisterneo4018
    @sisterneo4018 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This information is what we need,may God bless you

  • @corazonaquino5431
    @corazonaquino5431 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Marriage is a place that creates a perfect context for sanctification

  • @michellemiddii2419
    @michellemiddii2419 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I have learned so much in this video.

  • @nderitulucy5579
    @nderitulucy5579 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Great conversation, I have loved the way they have brought the spiritual aspect of their marriage, allowing the leadership of the Holy Spirit, that was something for me

  • @harunmaina265
    @harunmaina265 Před 3 měsíci +2

    there is so much faith that we need to put into relationships,

  • @carenndeta1265
    @carenndeta1265 Před měsícem +1

    Powerful 🎉

  • @justineoable
    @justineoable Před 3 měsíci +1

    This couple really displayed the beauty of marriage. I loved the words of wisdom and teachings they provided the audience. I will definitely replay this video. I feel blessed to have watched this episode and I learnt a lot. Thank you for bringing these two on the show!!!!

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  Před 3 měsíci

      Thank you! We bless the Lord, there's truly a remnant!!

  • @ruthmuriuki249
    @ruthmuriuki249 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Woooow wooow. You guys are such a powerhse❤. I have learned quite a lot. I have loved how they have grown together 💪.

  • @beltawaithira3352
    @beltawaithira3352 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Very informative..

  • @cynthiambatia469
    @cynthiambatia469 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Learnt a lot

  • @lucyotuoma4394
    @lucyotuoma4394 Před 2 měsíci +1

    My best so far

  • @corazonaquino5431
    @corazonaquino5431 Před 3 měsíci +4

    My take home. Marriage is heartwork

  • @carolchebet3994
    @carolchebet3994 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Kalenjins with short hair were just chilling😂😂,lots of love

  • @monicamburugu9815
    @monicamburugu9815 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Lovely and blessed couple

  • @annejaoko751
    @annejaoko751 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Christ like spouse - very powerful

  • @rabeccamatemba
    @rabeccamatemba Před měsícem +1

    so interested

  • @judymaneeno2443
    @judymaneeno2443 Před měsícem +1

    Marriage is hard work and heart work

  • @jeremiah08kush
    @jeremiah08kush Před 3 měsíci +2

    Submission: honor, supporting the vision, speaking well of your husband

  • @mercyawuorswetah9316
    @mercyawuorswetah9316 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Wise man

  • @corazonaquino5431
    @corazonaquino5431 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Now i know what submission is. I love Mary's voice😂😂😂

  • @kevinotango6767
    @kevinotango6767 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Hello rawder, the show was great and I liked they way they were just God mindful..do they offer counselling services?? If they do, how can i reach them?

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  Před 3 měsíci

      Please whatsapp me on 0703866243. Thank you for watching..

  • @corazonaquino5431
    @corazonaquino5431 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Submission is supporting the vision of your husband

  • @Dchepkemoi
    @Dchepkemoi Před 3 měsíci +1

    What a beautiful couple👏

  • @marylucymagwambo6130
    @marylucymagwambo6130 Před 2 měsíci

    Mary, am so proud to see who you have become... Av know you from way when we were young and employed at that kasalon.. The worked your way up to open your own.
    I was a regular client😊 may God bless your marriage.

  • @jacintamusembi4445
    @jacintamusembi4445 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Learning alot on this episode.
    1. You're truly rependeding when you don't care who knows
    2. You don't by running away from God or even from God's family
    3. If we want to grow We need to be in a place where we can receive counsel........

  • @Latoya835
    @Latoya835 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Wow, this resonates🎉🎉🎉🎉..does he have a channel

  • @TrizaIthuli
    @TrizaIthuli Před 3 měsíci +2

    wow

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy Před 3 měsíci +3

    I love how eloquent you the couple is

  • @carolinembaka7136
    @carolinembaka7136 Před 16 dny

    Cultivating authentic relationships book cost and where i can get it

  • @njagifree1157
    @njagifree1157 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Confidence boost 😂: "It's just one no in another about 5 billion women in the world..." Wow!

  • @eugeneokech5870
    @eugeneokech5870 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Starting and continuing with God matterd🙏🙏

  • @annekanyi
    @annekanyi Před 3 měsíci +3

    👏👏👏👏