ARE YOU AN ALPHA? - Simon Sinek - Why Leaders Eat Last
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- In this in-depth talk, ethnographer and leadership expert Simon Sinek reveals the hidden dynamics that inspire leadership and trust. In biological terms, leaders get the first pick of food and other spoils, but at a cost. When danger is present, the group expects the leader to mitigate all threats even at the expense of their personal well-being. Understanding this deep-seated expectation is the key difference between someone who is just an "authority" versus a true "leader."
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"Why leaders eat last"... proceeds to explain why leaders eat first.
They get eaten first aswell
In a wolf PAC the weak eat last
@AdmiralBoneToPick
You have a point.
@@diegogamboa3773 That too.
I was thinking the same thing... it's a little confusing, although it feels right. Wouldn't you give the best slice to "the gods" or to your wife and children?!? Maybe self sacrifice can come in many ways, and we should honor those who sacrifice on any level of the hierarchy
This is why Kobe never passed the damn ball
RIP
im dead
Rip mamba 🙏
He did pass eventually...
Rip
Some leaders of the modern-day fail to see this and blindly say, "I'm just doing my job". Last time I took a class at college, my teacher was in fact the opposite kind of leader. He was friendly yet serious, trustworthy, knowledgeable, and provided proper assistance to those who weren't even in the class. Since he had the power to do so, why not do it. People may say, "that's because you paid him to do so". Maybe but nobody goes to the lengths he took.
Ah, the "opposite kind of leader", the actual leader, instead of the mere pretending one.
Most ppl would be surprised at their level of alpha-ness
How so
Yep. It's not something one notices or even thinks about on a daily basis
Not very accurate, but I do like his other stuff.
Or lack thereof
@@JustAThought_0 yes there are many selfish people and authoritarian bootlickers who foklow them that believe they are alphas.
"Leaders eat last"
That really is true because I'm in a management position at work and I break last (if I even get a break) because I make sure everyone & everything is taken care first. I break when the work is done, not when it's time for everyone else to metaphorically "eat". The people are my burden & responsibility; I do nothing for myself until they're taken care of.
hevquip well good golly. Noddy badge for you.
hevquip i have the same but i do it for my unturned server
hevquip one of the good ones. not a scumbag manager like most
hevquip You should just eat some too, buddy. What you're doing is bad for your health.
RIPxBlackHawk he is the manager of janitor duties in the building
Years ago I was a shift supervisor with security at a hospital. I always made sure my officers got their dinner breaks before I took my own. I never asked them to do something that I myself wasn't willing to do. And when we had to take down a violent patient I was always the first one through the door. I learned that from my NCO's in the Army Infantry - lead by example.
A violent patient? LoL what did she do?
believable
Heavy is the head that wears the crown. It makes so much sense!
I think this channel needs to be in every school at least one hour per day.
Maybe change the title? It say 'why leaders eat last', but the video states that alpha eat first.
But that would be less clickbaity!
The point he ends on is that while Alpha's "eat first" a leader will "eat last" meaning a leader understands that he/she must use their alpha qualities not for themselves, but for the good of the whole. They must sacrifice to protect those underneath them.
AK Milli Not really. They didn't equate an Alpha to a Leader. The comparison was of the qualities that a leader has, being similar to an alpha. "... must use their alpha qualities..."
Something small that someone could miss, but the easiest way to express this idea is that a Leader is a sub-category of Alpha.
AK Milli and alpha is not always a leader. A leader doesn't have to be an alpha, but an alpha is usually a leader
“Eat” doesn’t mean eat in the title lmao it’s more so putting your safety at risk for everyone else. Thus you “eat” last, so everyone else can “eat”.
I have a problem with giving money to Mother Teresa
Rightly so. She's dead.
I have a problem with giving money to Nelson Mandela.
as a non Caholic, I have a problem with it XD
Im high as fuck, i thaught i was in Harvard and shit
@@taylorh7155she kept all the money for herself, and the patients never saw a dime? Which hospitals do you know of that pay money to the patients? People in Calcutta Hospitals died at astronomical rates? It is as if there were a lot of really sick people there, or something. Oh, and the last part, about converting people to her religion, well if you follow Catholicism, you would know that they believe the only way into heaven is through the faith, so in her mind that was probably the only way she could save them, spiritually, since they were sick and dying physically.
Very true from my experience.
A few years ago I was in a bar with a couple of friends. The biggest, strongest friend (who had always been our caretaker) was so drunk he went to the bathroom for an hour and didn't come out. Left me with our two friends, one was an overweight placid guy the other was a small nervous guy. We were playing pool. Three guys came into the bar and two of them immediately came over to me and started trying to offend me. Getting too close, invading my space. Smacktalking etc. I could see their betas were glancing around at my friends, and it became apparent they wanted trouble. Their alpha, the biggest guy by far, was sitting at the bar with his back to us. I didn't get a good look at him but I knew he was at least 6'3" and probably 3-4 stone heavier than me. I was very nervous, I knew I wouldn't be able to fight all these guys (and they were bad guys) and I knew I couldn't rely on either on my friends who were present, and a little bit of me felt responsible for getting them out of harms way. So I "pretended" to be alpha, and got cheeky back, and stood up tall and kept control best I could.
Finally after what seemed like forever, our big friend came out of the bathroom, and he stood there silently near the doorway looking at the three guys. I had no idea how long he'd been standing there when I spotted him, I'd been playing pool and trying to keep my eyes on my two extremely nervous friends. Then my alpha friend put down his drink and walked over to the biggest one of their group and sat down next to him and put his arm around him. Looking him straight in the eye and smiling, he asked if he could buy them all a beer and started feeling the guys nipple inside his shirt. Then he stood up and laughed and said "yeah I'm not gay! Just joking! Hey you guys want a fight? Or a beer? I'll buy you a beer. Or I'll kick the fuck out of you... nah I'm just joking! Let me buy you a beer! THREE BEERS PLEASE DARLIN! You wanna beer, yeah?...." and I swear to god all three had left the bar in the next 2 minutes.
That's alpha, he knew instantly he had to do something, he wasn't nervous, he knew what to do and he ENJOYED doing it. He got a kick out of it. Then he came over and rubbed my shoulder and said "well done, sorry I was being sick ha! lets play pool" and we carried on playing.
So yes I was nervous, because there was trouble and our alpha, our protector wasn't present. Yes I (we) expected him to fix it and step up. Yes he DID step up without fear or considering his own safety. Yes he got the job done. I guess he was just more alpha than their alpha!
This story has nothing to do with the point of the video, and also very cringy to read.
@@NoobWithEpix Try not to be an offended snowflake. It's just a story about life. Have a good day though.
@@TheVanillatech I'm not offended at all, I was just pointing that out, cuz you missed the point of the video. But I guess that's how it works
@@NoobWithEpix You said you were offended in your comment. You need to make your mind up. It's a sign of weakness that you flit around and act confused. Make a statement and stick to it, be strong! That's why I am always clear, to the point and precise.
It's seem that it wasn't me who didn't understand the video, doesn't it Rapaz?
lol
A Beta can be an Alpha if he carries a 9mm Beretta
This intro, the music and the drawing, is simply superb. It brings me a type of joy or comfort that everythings gonna be alright. Please don't ever change it :)
"no one has a problem that your boss makes more than you."
I always knew Karl Marx wasn't human.
If you read his speech you with know that Karl's anger was because the rich failed their duty, their social responsibility. More of less like this guy at the end
If this was a joke, it was funny. If it wasn't, it's sad. I'm going with a joke and a thumb's up. I hope I'm right.
I don't hope so but I think you didn't understood Marx right
Well, he actually says they work less and people should be paid about what their work is worth.
He was not human, he was humus (literal bat shit).
At the end he is angry dude
pufix _ dude im sitting here drinking and that shit got me pumped outta nowhere
pufix _ - I was just waiting for the part where he bursts into song about marxism.
Capitalism has turned Real Betas into Fake Alphas💲 Psychopaths always rise to the top in a broken system
Toxic you clearly didn't understand the lecture or have the base knowledge and critical thinking skills required to begin with.
Go hit the books.
LOL
Alpha doesn't always mean the toughest or most badass in life. You just control social situations more than others. Sometimes because you can't stand to not be the center of attention
Colt made all men equal- 150 years ago…
I'll give you 6 star rating to your storytelling skills 🤩 , oh my gosh how good it is !!!
ironically I watched way more of their/your videos during the school year than after
haha it took me a minute to get it
To anyone confused about "should the alpha/leader eat first or last", here's how it is: the alpha/leader eats first, so that they can provide. If the alpha/leader is not fed and able to protect, then he's not fulfilling his role as a leader. It's not to say "oh, alpha/leaders are selfish" no, not at all! But in order to be able to help others out (especially those who depend on you) you need to "eat first".
For example: when you're on an airplane and the oxygen masks drop and you have seconds to make a life or death decision, do you put your mask on or your kids? You put yours on, then help your kid, and then help others. But if you help others first, then you run out of oxygen and die, and you can't help anyone if you're dead.
so they eat first
Jean-Luc DeCoster not even close
No , if you have kids I hope you feed them first before yourself. I’m pretty sure you wouldnt be disrespectful enough to make a meal and eat it infront of everyone and then feed the other 10 people or so the left overs. It’s like saying if there’s a flood coming, you get onto the boat first then help other people and your kids, but by the time you try and help your kids half of them or more have drowned , then that’s where you fail at being an alpha male protector/provider. Everyone should put their kids first man, it’s common sense. I think people need to stop trying to associate humans with animals, we are on a much higher level of consciousness compared to a gorilla or any other species. I think you mean “you can’t help anyone if the people you’re meant to be protecting and helping are dead, because you’ve been too selfish to help others first before yourself”
Mr Yowie Man You’re completely missing the painfully obvious point
I call false analogy
A perfect explanation of how the majority feel about our 'leaders' in current society...No wonder I don't follow them or 'have their back' .....
Agreed, I feel that's why so many of us look up to people like Elon Musk. The ones that are truly "for the people"
@@foxtroft426 I like how he's not a big shot salesman, he's more interested in results and getting on with it...He speaks plainly rather than trying to be larger than life and impress with his personality...I'd actually bother to vote if he ran.
I feel like he’s making a lot of assumptions that aren’t necessarily true
Edit: To be clear, this comment was a very polite way of saying that the dude making the presentation has no idea what he’s talking about and is clearly bullshitting. It’s not scientific just because you’ve made a fucking power point about it. Now please stop commenting.
evolution for hundreds of thousands of years is a bitch
Let me guess: You're rich, right?
assumptions made from statistics and research is more important than your feelings buddy. If you get offended when someone tells you something you don't already agree with, chances are that your feelings are a bit miss-informed.
If you have any research or stats that would prove his arguments to be wrong however, throw them at us please! :)
@@ojobreaker7743 Thats not how it works, the speaker is making the assertions, the burden of proof is on him, and i don't see any list of cited sources.
the pendulum swings both ways buddy.
@james crowe considering this rambling shit is based off the speakers feelings and not much else, i guess they are important.
It's good to finally see a good example of what leadership means. I've always struggled to explain to people, but this is how I would always want it explained.
This might be my best animation yet. I am SO proud of this one. I teamed up with Simon Sinek again to produce this presentation about what it means to be a leader. Who is a true ALPHA? Who is dominant? Please share this as much as you can. I really feel like this one could go viral. Thanks!
After Skool keep up the good work! These are awesome! 👍
Thanks! Will do!
I know im going to come off as an idiot here but i dont understand the evolutionary purpose of the menstrual cycles. Wouldn't it be better for the less alpha females to have their menstrual cycles on a different day so that they can live on and reproduce? It seems counterintuitive to stop reproduction when it's your best chance
Not a bad theory
Who is Simon sinek?
holy fuck. the amount of "speakers" that end every sentence with ".... right?" like bro do you really need to ask us if youre right? its just a compulsory thing people do to assert dominance while speaking so they feel comfortable
Agree with you, I hate it...
Alpha is based on context and perception. The best professional baseball player is not the alpha at a men's gymnastics meet. The most shredded physique competitor is not the alpha at a sumo wrestling match. It is a fluid concept.
Damon Savvy he already said that in the beginning of the video
Im gender fluid as well.
it is interesting how Jesus also said that to be a leader, you have to be the servant, to be first you have to be last.
good point!
RIPxBlackHawk Not always, just quite often (especially flat-earthers!). I think it's unintelligent to discredit authors who say they met someone and writing what that person said, when you weren't there and it was thousands of years ago. Unless you have evidence that disagrees that Jesus existed or that he didn't say this, the men who wrote about him have enough credit (more than you) to be believed.
It would be like going to a court case about an incident that happened before you were born and saying that the witnesses are liars and the court unintelligent because they believe the testimony instead of your opinion. You'd come across as the stupid one...
Jesus might have said that. We don't know.
14 jesus grl 14 Amen bro. To know Jesus and kingdom of God is the greatest thing on this planet. He said that to demonstrate that the greatest thing to do is to serve and love others. Try it. Hate on people and see how terrible you'll feel. Love on people and see how good you'll feel 😉
14 jesus grl 14 no doubt you're a fan of Jesus, girl!
Explains every politician. So who's willing to step up knowing this informaiton?
R4idenXS I mean we kinda need a shitload of people to do it so unless there's an evident shitload of people, there will probably not be a lot
R4idenXS I'm with it
R4idenXS I'm with it
R4idenXS It doesnt explain every politician. Look at Vaclav Havel.
R4idenXS power to the peopleeee, fuck the systeeemmm!! Total anarchyyy!!
This video just explained South African politics in 6 minutes, Bravo man
1:29 The dudes behind the tree are savage AF
This is by far my favorite CZcams channel, the drawings are as inspiring as the words! Thank you After Skool
So basically, with great power comes great responsibility. Love it
I love the "It's good to be the king" reference... kudos...
Damn, that was savage. Bad-ass speech, Simon really knows his stuff. Great example of a "good" alpha. If only all our leaders had this attitude!
I watched the whole video mistakenly thinking the title was, "Why Leaders Eat FAST."
*Oh, I eat fast! What's the science behind that??*
Urban myth - menstrual cycles only occasionally align. And yet it is still stated as fact.
Though I am angry that Kings no longer are at the front in battle.
+David Boson
Hope you didn't get your urban myth info from snopes! When I was an instructor in the Army... you can bet your britches the females in a platoon got in alignment - anytime you went to the woods for training that sure enough was a simultaneous event (kotex, anyone?)
How smart of you Endlesspathable to take one example and apply it to how everything works everywhere....
+that one guy
What are you talking about? I'm responding to the one specific thing David Boson brought up~ so who has problems staying on topic?
Snopes? Reliability in itself is debatable regarding snopes.
Even if the claimed synchronization phenomenon occurs, and even if human pheromones cause it, so what? It’s a matter of curiosity, not of clinical importance. When there is a reason to manipulate ovulation or menstrual timing, pharmaceutical hormones work very well. The paucity of evidence for human pheromones suggests that if they do exist, their effects must be too small in magnitude to be very important.
+David Boson
No problem then.... I'll continue dealing with reality, and you can continue dealing with theory.
I learned this subconsciously. This is explain why boat captain are the last one to jump off ship till everyone leave.
Just found out I’m an alpha, so now I’m gonna go ask out my crush.
How did it go?
Alpha will not ask
@@m_zbrv3967 yep
Bull shit
What about being so alpha that girls have to ask you out?
Old crusty war vet, completely agree with your assessment of the "Alpha."
This is stuff I've been preaching for years
Something tells me this guy doesn’t like bankers... lol
Neither should you..They are the root of billions people misery(inflation is caused 100% by banks).unless you think that your day's worth of work is equal to a sandwich
Oy vey, what an anti-semite!
@@dehazelaar4324 fock off
Only people who like bankers are the fake alphas.
After two years
This really aged fine as wine
After listening to this, I judge myself as a Beta..XD
Hehe awww💘💘💕💕
As a United States Marine, after listening to this; I judge myself a beta. We're all Betas and Alphas along the spectrum considering the circumstances and our own inner core competencies and confidence.. put me in Combat, and I know what I'm doing. Put as first chair of the Cellos in the London Symphony...and I'm beta as FUQ. Oh and that will be one shatty piece of music.
Practice your Kung-Fu!
You grow to be an Alpha.
Keep your head up kid.
Your time is coming.
Todd Hebert It was charisma the determined leadership in primitive society not elbows to the face at dinner. Scientist have studied primitive societies: if you were a bully and a troublemaker the rest of the tribe would just wait till you slept and then cave in your head with a rock. A far cry from awarding leader status.
I am naturally not an alpha. Even if someone sees me as one, I see them as an alpha too, so it's just an awkward situation where we try to follow each other, be quiet, and not make eye contact.
oh god you resurrected 15 year old me's dumbass thoughts this is so embarrassing I'm so sorry
I bet this video is based on scientific research and entirely factually correct.
lol
Yep! Not like the guy who popularized the alpha wolves theory later debunked his own theory or anything! Nope!
@@ourladypeace3 What does that mean excuse my ignorance?
I’m sure there is no personal experience mixed in
ady gombos 😂
He became really passionate towards the end
I can’t tell you how many times I watch this as a reminder
I'd have an issue with Mother Theresa. But you'd have to understand the history of her.
MrGrombie oh yeah fuck that psycho bitch.
I see you also watched that one episode of bullshit by penn and teller lol
MrGrombie yes its weird. What do you think if i ask you about religion?
For everyone who doesn't know, Mother Theresa willfully and conscientiously neglected treatment for those under her care. She had a romanticised view of suffering, allowing most of her patients to die painfully, despite readily available cures. The only reason why she was considered a saint was due to the fact that the church considered her 'blessings' to be miracles (and not, for example, any medication).
If you want to read some more about her, here's a link to get you started:
www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2013-03/uom-mta022813.php
Jimmy Bojaj wow someone actually sat down at a computer and typed this then approved of it being posted on the internet for everyone to see. embarrassing
The menstual sync theory is wrong. If syncronization is intended to exclude competition, as you said, the resulting selective pressure would exclude future synchronization, because those in sync would not pass on those very genes. It is more likely that synchronization improves the mating chances of the women.
It might just be left over from lion-style harem of human history and it hasn't affected a woman's ability to propagate her genes negatively since.
Think about it: in a pack, the alpha gets a harem. Men just like sex, so if a woman is spent, he can impregnate another one down the assembly line. If the cycles are not in synch, then the alpha has to be having sex constantly instead of in a concentrated period. They need to hunt and do other things, and so they can't have sex all the time, reducing propagation rates.
As far as specific aligned to alpha, it might just be an artifact of chance or there could be just the baseline effect of not being as physically fit and so die off more quickly even in the system working as normal. Aligned to the non-alpha would increase chances of instability in alignment, which would affect propagation as said above.
Maybe there is no evolutionary reason and it's just all an artifact of chance that hasn't negatively affected us like the appendix or tonsils.
newton9837 dude in wolf pack alpha female bites vaginas of subordinate females so dey cant have sex, basicaly if u cant be sure all are not fertile then fighting will happen as alpha female want all resources for her kids not others, but humans evolved monogamy(rare for primates) and this sync of fertility cycle to avoid inner conflict, so males dont spend all energy fightin over females and females can be less cunty with other females
abudabisas thats makes sense actually
None of these really demonstrate any positive selective pressure for this adaptation. There is always the why not explanation, but I feel something as important as this would require some positive pressure.
u have two tribes, one has females fighting over whos kids get most resources, other has females all chill with each other, the fighting tribe will select for strong vicious females like hyenas, other tribe will select for more peaceful and social females that help each other thus end up having more babies and destroying the overly inner agression tribe, da fuck dis not positive?
Being Alpha AKA a leader takes the right mind set and they need to inspire and lead by example to truly be a good leader
This alpha idea is ingrained in wanna-be-man with self-confidence at foot step level
Finally someone who gets it.
So animals that have alphas I.e. wolves are wanna-be-men with self confidence at foot step level?
NorwegianNig
I believe he meant *THIS* alpha idea, specifically.
that the alpha wins ? i dont follow
Ronin Kasko
That leaders are subservient.
That was amazing. I’m so happy I found these videos. Especially the Alan Watts on
This kind of animation is just astonishing. Great work!
When you realize you have potentially lesser eyes who can potentially become better, regardless of who you are title or not, leading by example is where the benefits of good leadership come from.
the last statement in this is a mic dropper! great
I would have a problem if someone gave $400 million to Mandala and Teresa because they're dead !
Mother Teresa was not what most people think. She was no saint..
Ben Thomson Mandela wasn't perfect either, but they were remarkable people
Iván Schulz-Corona It was an example and time progresses past the point of publication.
P.S. I'm the dominant.
That's the top comment...really impressive...
wow, eye opening
you completely defined what is needed to be defined, good job sir!
Wowe... Well that turned around at the end 😂😂. I like that phrase - [To be an Alpha] you must fulfill the responsibilities of the Alpha.
Become a leader do meth until you completely deplete you serotonin
Become leader till the peak , then become a low energy fellow during downer
if you're doing meth, you're probably too stupid to be a leader.
😂
O.Z.
I don't think that this person was referring to the weak, pharmaceutical version of meth (which will also screw up your brain if taken long enough) but the made-in-the-bathroom (or clandestine lab), industrial waste product, illegal version of the drug favored by most addicts (and also found in most club drugs in NYC, to add an extra "kick" and addictive properties).
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Not just the animations but also the commentary, good job dude. Great vid.
Cheers!
tfaorx qis p
the comentary isn't his...
hes a fucking piece of shit
I'VE BEEN TOO THE MOFO MOUNTIAN TOP. Now we rollin' like Reeves. BEING A LEADER MEANS STEPPING UP WHEN STEPPED UPON TOO THOSE WHO FOLLOW YOU. WITH GREAT REWARD COMES AN EVEN GREATER RESPONSIBILITY
VERY LOGICAL EXPLANATION! Thank you!
Me: (reads title)
Also me: don’t do it, don’t do it....
Me (again): *OMEGAVERSE*
In our society we think the alphas are the neoliberal broilers or the instagram body building narcisists. But in reality a alpha can be a nerd who is staying at home reading books etc.
The 80's Wolf like L from Death Note. Indeed. 😁
Ya it's not the biggest baddest guy at the bar who tries to puff his chest out like he's better than everyone.
An alpha is someone with high testosterone, not a beta low testosterone man
Tell yourself that pat pat
Holly sh*t! that was so damn well done that i had to clap a bit as well.
These videos have given me such an edge at work love em!!
"Menstrual synchrony research declined after the published critiques in the 1990s and around the turn of the century.[9][10][11][12] The two studies published during this decade incorporated the methodological critiques into their designs and used more appropriate statistical methods.[13][14]
Yang and Schank conducted the largest study to date with 186 Chinese college women. Ninety three of the women lived in 13 dorm rooms, 5 to 8 women per room. The other ninety three women lived in 16 dorm rooms, 4 to 8 women per room for a total of 29 rooms. The women were given notebooks to record the onset of each of their cycles and they collected data for over a year for most of the women.[13]
Following the statistical critiques of Schank,[11][12] they argued that circular statistics were required to analyze periodic data for the existence of synchrony. However, menstrual cycles are variable in frequency (e.g., 28 or 31 day cycles) and in length. They pointed out that there are no statistical methods for analyzing messy data like this, so they developed Monte Carlo methods for detecting synchrony.[13]
They found that in 9 of the 29 groups, women's cycles converged for one cycle closer than expected by chance, but then they diverged again. Upon further analysis, they found that for women with the cycle variability reported in this study, on average 10 out of 29 groups of women would show this pattern of convergence followed by divergence. They concluded that finding 9 out of 29 groups with convergence and then divergence is about what would be expected by chance and concluded that there was no evidence the women in this study synchronized their menstrual cycles.[13]
Ziomkiewicz conducted a study with 99 Polish college women living in two dormitories. Thirty six of the women lived in 18 double rooms and sixty three lived in 21 triple rooms. Women recorded their menstrual cycle onsets on menstrual calendars provided to them and 181 days' worth of menstrual cycle data were collected. The mean menstrual cycle length was 30.5 days (SD = 4.56).[14]
Based on the mean cycle length of the women in this study, the expected difference by chance in menstrual cycle onset was approximately 7.5 days. The mean difference in cycle onset was calculated for the beginning, middle, and end of the study for the pairs and triples of women. Ziomkiewicz found no statistically significant difference from the 7.5 day expected difference at either the beginning, middle, or end of the study. She concluded that there was no evidence of menstrual synchrony.[14]" Wikipedia. yeah its wiky, but also, i find intriguing these studies, and yet, this guy comes with some ALPHA WOMAN revolutionary theory, and i dont even know why....
Kyech K don't know why people keep perpetuating this synchronization myth if it's been debunked so many times. This guy also added that it's the alpha female's cycle? Based on what research?
Alright relax copy and paste lord
#freetyler1
yo
i'd never expect to see a tyler1 fan here lmao
He is the number 1 alpha male
hehe xd
Last thing I expected in this video, but thinking about it that's my fault. Cracked me up, thanks for that
This perfectly describes the leadership in my workplace (bad) and Congress
The movie "10,000 B.C" explains it best. "Every man must draw around him a circle. Inside the circle are his kids and his wife. Some men draw bigger circles that include his brothers and sisters. And some men draw bigger circles still, that include all of his kind" or some shit. That's what a real leader is.
Well if you are one of the 80% of women who believes in synchronicity - brace yourself. It isn’t a thing. Since McClintock’s study there has been enough research with negative results to move menstrual synchronicity into urban mythology. Many studies have tried to replicate McClintock’s findings - some have succeeded, but more have not.
Criticisms of McClintock’s work include statistical errors - not controlling for chance in the results and inflating the initial differences in the onset of menstrual cycles that led to synchronicity being over stated.
A study of Dogon women in west Africa, who were segregated into menstrual huts, found no synchronicity over 763 days and no effect of the moon on periods (and these were ideal test conditions, as there was no electricity).
study of 186 women in Chinawho lived together for a year also found no synchronicity. But the researchers pointed out that the start of periods varied for women, and cycles were often variable, which could give the false impression of synchronicity. Menstrual cycles can vary from between 21 to 35 days. Stress, weight loss or illness will all disrupt periods. A study of 26 lesbian couplesfound no synchronicity but did find individual menstrual cycles varied by up to 10 days. So despite the internet refusing to let this myth die - you are the owner of your menstrual cycle and no friend, however close, can control it.
Yeah, well try being a woman ina house with another woman and tell me it doesn't exist. Just because you can't see time doesn't mean it is not real.
How about testing that shit on normal women?
Sounds like a Dogon Bad Study to me.
Not a scientist, but he mentioned the alpha female thing. If you're in an environment where there may be no established or emergent alpha due to lack or time or too much competition that can also be a factor. Just a thought I had reading through this.
As well as all the "alpha" stupidity. There is no such hierarchical bullshit on humans. Not even on wolves, which is where some idiots gratuitously extrapolated the model from to humans. The same person who "discovered" such hierarchical organization on wolves latter dismissed it, as he realized that those where just family packs where the "alpha" male and female where just the parents of the rest. Of course they would lead, the young ones had to learn from them. Even when he tried to remove the book he wrote about his first stance, no publisher accepted, because they're fucking assholes who only care about economical profit (and it sold a lot). Therefore, misinformation spread like plague and idiots without any scientific rigour extrapolated it to humans.
This is the era of (mis)information... lack of information is being replaced with loads of false information and that's not a small enemy...
Basically a respectable alpha takes care of people and the alpha that's not respected takes advantage of people.
wow ...........that's a clear view on things friend, thanks for this show well done. [all that in less then 7 min ] ✔
Absolutely amazing.
All those dislikes, probably people who are not alpha
Nice, love these videos. My ramblings: In a society ruled by conformity, all people will attempt to be alpha at some point. And in the midst of extreme specialization, the roles of alphas in a work setting is questionable, to me at least. Working in teams, I've noticed that people who don't know how to consciously reduce their "alpha-ness" really make me question their input sometimes. And, others generally regard them with disdain. The one who's considerate of everybody's strengths, and steps back to allow others to shine, is a great leader. Not to mention, in a team where the alpha is separate (the boss) and clearly above everybody... no one benefits from peoples' singular desire to rise up in status. Respect and trust is earned, not forced. To me, this is a very redeeming quality in humans, but that's neither here nor there. Hierarchy in society is very fluid within the middle power/status group, especially on the macro-level, above the family unit, but otherwise it's not at all. I won't be advising myself to become more alpha... I'll just let happen what will happen...
I agree with everything you said about leadership, it's all so true! In this video I found that him saying that humans inherently try to form a heirarchy is kinda false though and completely contradicts what we classify as good leadership. Being a leader doesn't mean you rank higher than someone, and even the term alpha is wrong to use here in my opinion, being a good leader is about guiding your people so everyone can reach their full potential. A leader is on the same level as anyone else. This is also the reason why the capitalist system is completely flawed and why so many people are unhappy with their jobs and their bosses (which this guy said no one cared about but that was completely wrong).
So much of modern society and the global economy seems to be ran by intentions/motives rooted in ego or an egocentric nature at the least. If this is the case it would seem to explain (at least in part) why the alpha/beta dynamic is so relevant in its place in modern life.
Real leadership is rare in the business world. The business world is really a knife fight. A marketing person fights the competition to get the business but then might get stabbed in the back by a fellow employee that is trying to take over his/her developed accounts. A good marketing person carries a very sharp bayonet, not a knife.
Love it.
Dude got all alpha angry in the final few mins. 😂
Truthfully these days to many think being the leader is being a loud, pushy, "dominant" / controlling. Being an alpha and a leader is a whole lot more than that.
I never even THOUGHT about it before...when I grill for the family, I ALWAYS make certain everyone has gotten their food before I make my plate.
Interesting.
I can assure you Simon, I absolutely do have problem if a boss makes more money if he can't do his job or if his job is easier. They become boss by being an asshole, not by being good. And i have a problem and am offended by anyone who thinks they're an alpha or higher status, i don't accept it at all - not because I believe I am higher, but because I believe all are equal.
So basically, a second American revolution? Ok I can do that.
Just did the test. I’m a Gamma.
Few people want to step to the challenge of leadership for fear of failure. For themselves. When you care about yourself first no progress can be made. A true leader puts the needs of others before their own and accepts failure as a whole. Accepting failure is part of being a good leader. Anyone who says they have never failed is a liar and not to be trusted. Those who can accept it without blaming others are fit to lead.
WOIW, the end is nothing less than awesome you nailed it!
Sometimes being a Alpha is letting other “Alphas”do the work then when its time you step in to clean up the mess
I thought I was an alpha... Never received 25M... I have to change my point of view after this..
Wow ! This took a turn at the end .
All leaders are Alphas, but not all Alphas are Leaders.
That's why Leaders eat last ... to sacrifice their self-interest for the sake of others.
I never get nervous meeting someone, even if they're supposed to be really important. I might have a few years ago when I was a lot younger, but in the last couple of years it's like I've shut off that fear. Still get nervous around girls though.
I've met plenty of people who get mad because there boss is getting paid more than them LOL
I always tell them to change jobs if they legitimately believe that. Your boss does that? Quit and go somewhere where your skills and work ethic are rewarded.
If they're convinced that all bosses are like that, no problem. Start their own business. Set it up and run it the way you see best.
Oh, and "but I can't because... whatever BS reason". No, they could if they wanted to. Most don't and I think that's because they know the truth. That truth is that THEY aren't worth that much. They don't determine how valuable you are to the market, the market decides that. They don't actually provide enough value to succeed. It's like when ugly people claim that they're hot. I know, it's a crude example but hear me out. They don't determine that. Other people decide it. If someone is really attractive, other people react accordingly.
He’s assuming you have a good boss. Nobody has a problem with a good boss, who recognizes your talents and promotes you when you deserve it. Most of the people that you talk to, might has bad bosses, as they are way too common in the world.
@@RandomPerson-nd2ey I'm absolutely and 100% not upset my boss takes in more money than me. The idea that allowed me to accumulate wealth in the first place came from the mind of my boss. This idea for value creation quite literally would not exist were it not for my boss who thought it up.
Why would I, as a programmer, be paid as much as the guy who thought the idea up and took on the risk? It actually makes no sense, and on top of that, we live in a society where a boss is allowed to give the employees as much or as little capital as they choose.
If I thought my skills weren't being rewarded at par, I would leave. It's incredibly simple to me. I have a particular set of skills that makes me valuable in certain areas and worth nothing in others. What is the big puzzling question here for these people?
@@galehunter2519 Then they can get a new job?
Great at distinguishing the synthetic diamonds from the real thing. It reflects the feelings in society today because it’s dead on in many cases. However one must remember that it’s never a smart practice to paint all people in a segment of society with the same brush. Nothing could be more harmful to the people who genuinely are trying their best than to be wrongly lumped in with their social loafer counterparts. Thanks
Alright, that was pretty damn good.
I got some goosebumps.
Banking was conceived in iniquity and was born in sin.
The bankers own the earth.
Take it away from them, but leave them the power to create money, and with the flick of the pen
they will create enough deposits to buy it back again.
However, take it away from them, and all the great fortunes like mine will disappear and they ought to disappear,
for this would be a happier and better world to live in.
But, if you wish to remain the slaves of bankers and pay the cost of your own slavery,
let them continue to create money.”
- Sir Josiah Stamp, Director of the Bank of England(appointed 1928). Reputed to be the 2nd wealthiest man in England at that time.”
Im trying to lower my status so no one will notice me
Lol that's easier than one would think. For men, Eat healthy and exercise every day. Once the body is developed so it's ratios are similar to a Greek statue, people quit saying hi to you, strangers won't smile at you and no one approaches you(exception: homeless people asking for money). Well, that's at least how i ended up invisible haha hope this helps.
Pff, I already know that I'm the omegaest omega to ever omega
I was told i was a sigma, i dont play by social constructs. Strong enough to be without the social construct and am capable of building my own.
Dude watching these vids while high is crazy
I must be lost. I thought this was the Led Zeppelin channel.
"...When she's off the market. Everyone's off the market." LOL
The banker spin at the end got me
the ending was word for word describing what is going on with the populus fighting against wallstreet. I bet no one at the time this was uploaded thought that reddit and gamestop would be the key players lmao