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  • čas přidán 27. 04. 2011
  • Mufti Ismail Ibn Musa Menk of Zimbabwe.
    Mufti Menk discussing the Relationship between Parents and Children and various issues that may exist along with their solution.

Komentáře • 98

  • @monjiaitaly
    @monjiaitaly Před 11 lety +16

    he is not well and he gave this lecture to the people. May God bless him.

  • @abubakarsuleiman7916
    @abubakarsuleiman7916 Před 9 lety +42

    Alhamdullilah, May Allah continue to Bless and this great schorlar of this time, He has change me as a person, strenghten my relationship with my spouse. JazakAllahu Khair Sheik.

  • @abreshmi1
    @abreshmi1 Před 3 lety +5

    So grateful that we have somebody like mufti mens to keep it real for our generation, and highlights that parents can also be the ones in the wrong. Growing up im always patronised, into thinking parents and perfect and always right. Glad im not crazy in thinking that the mistreatment I have experienced at the hand of my parents is actually wrong. I will not act on it but im satisfied knowing that its not my fault.

  • @kairaba64
    @kairaba64 Před 12 lety +19

    Thanks go to Allah for given us a Mufti like u.I wish u long life,Ameen.

  • @shaheerkhaled9398
    @shaheerkhaled9398 Před 4 lety +58

    I agree disrespecting our parents is bad and it's a big sin. But what about parents ill treat their children ? I really want u to make a video about it.

    • @fatimazahrah6748
      @fatimazahrah6748 Před 4 lety +9

      shaheer khaled I hope we can get some response to this because I’d also like an answer

    • @shaheerkhaled9398
      @shaheerkhaled9398 Před 4 lety +2

      @@fatimazahrah6748 do you know anything about it or have any knowledge???

    • @fatimazahrah6748
      @fatimazahrah6748 Před 4 lety +12

      shaheer khaled only that abuse (physical, verbal, emotional, mental) any type of abuse is unacceptable in Islam especially within a family but I to would like to know more about this subject

    • @shaheerkhaled9398
      @shaheerkhaled9398 Před 4 lety +3

      @@fatimazahrah6748 I hope we do get more information about it

    • @princehasan4565
      @princehasan4565 Před 4 lety +4

      Me too hoping that he is going to give this kind of abusing the children by their parents.

  • @asramubeen1742
    @asramubeen1742 Před 4 lety +4

    Looks like he is unwell. Bt still makes an effort to deliver his speech! Hats off to u.

  • @islam4eva1431
    @islam4eva1431 Před 11 lety +9

    mashallah this brother is really good and he knows how to explain situations

  • @karimkazia
    @karimkazia Před 10 lety +5

    Listen to this and take heed . its very true. parents should never ever fight in front of the kids. no matter what! and also respect your kids!

    • @aleezalovesyou001
      @aleezalovesyou001 Před 4 lety +1

      Sadly I go through that everyday... I searched for this video just for that reason..

    • @karimkazia
      @karimkazia Před 4 lety +2

      Aleeza Ali may Allah make it easy for you and bless your family with patience and unity Ameen

  • @kash4u2nv
    @kash4u2nv Před 12 lety +4

    mufti menk is the best speaker i heard. hes a joka and at the same tym teaches very important lessons and his speeches are very well spoken

    • @ramatushitu3195
      @ramatushitu3195 Před 4 lety

      May Almighty Allah bless Mufti Menk for his concern towards Muslim Ummah to be among those that that Allah will be pleased with them when they meet Him

  • @zahraaabdallah8273
    @zahraaabdallah8273 Před 5 lety +3

    I like my sheikh so much. Subhaan ALLAH. Jazaak ALLAHU KHAIR Aljazaa.

  • @muftimenkofficial
    @muftimenkofficial  Před 13 lety +23

    @Madhofd He does sound a little different due to the audio quality.

    • @saimakhan2168
      @saimakhan2168 Před 4 lety +1

      dear Mufti menk what do I do with my parents who don't wish to keep me with them because im divorced and lost my job so they find me a burden.now their son is married and is living with us. I am being treated with harm and im 40

  • @sisterkaro1635
    @sisterkaro1635 Před 3 lety +1

    You are so so right Mufti I wish I could find more people like you you are a men of honor

  • @haffezkhan
    @haffezkhan Před 11 lety +3

    Subhanallah mufti menk saab superb lecture jazakallah khair

  • @alishe2
    @alishe2 Před 11 lety +7

    MAY ALLAH MAKE MUFTI MENK LIGHT AND A BEST TEACHER IN THE WHOLE WORLD SUCH THAT WE UNDERSTAND AND PRACTICE HIS TEACHINGS .I LOVE YOUR PREACHING AND LESSONS AND HOPE TO NAME MY BOY YOU NAMES INSHA-ALLAH

  • @mariamnantale4701
    @mariamnantale4701 Před 5 lety +3

    Alihamundurila Alihamundurila thanks alot our lovely mufti menk

  • @abulweenatv
    @abulweenatv Před 12 lety +4

    بارك الله فيكم
    for Mufti Ismail and the uploader

  • @lovelyjehanabhaj7263
    @lovelyjehanabhaj7263 Před 11 lety +2

    SalamOalicom warahmatollahi wabarakato...
    Masha Allah..
    i realy adore Mufti menk they way he teach Islam...
    My Allah prolong his life insha Allah..

  • @farhiyaa.923
    @farhiyaa.923 Před 9 lety +3

    Mashaallah,I just learnt a lot from this SubhanaAllah..Wat ablsd being..May Allah s.w,protect you and your family...

  • @laminsawo7091
    @laminsawo7091 Před 4 lety +4

    Mufti may yaa Allah bless you with all my heart may his Mercy be upon you and protect you always may you entered the jantul firdaws

  • @zeynabw599
    @zeynabw599 Před 10 lety +3

    May Allah swt protect and reward you and your family jannat al firdowsa amiin

  • @aleezalovesyou001
    @aleezalovesyou001 Před 4 lety +27

    Assalamualikum, I searched this video up because I’ve always felt that I don’t wanna be around my parents, and because we never end a conversation in good terms..
    I’ve learnt many things from this video but I’ve also realized that my parents are no where near perfect. Every point you’ve made in this video indirectly associates with my parents. I want them to know this but I am too embarrassed to bring it upon or to them. They might think I’m ungreatful. Or they might bring up a hinge and make me feel as if I’m the one wrong.. and the whole situation will start again..
    Please tell me how I can speak to my parents because this year I wish to have a heart bond family InshaAllah. I’m working on myself aswell. I’m not that we’ll of a Muslim but inshallah I’m trying my best since Ramadan.

    • @javidlone5935
      @javidlone5935 Před 4 lety +3

      I m 30 year old.i never got the love from my parents
      All my childhood went in vain as i always was abused by my father nd i do cry lonely

    • @ayyylmao101
      @ayyylmao101 Před 4 lety +1

      My God, I feel this. For me, it isn't quite as bad, but. Subhanallah, it feels like no matter what we say, we are in the wrong, and we must wait out the lectures... Inshallah we will renew our relationships with our parents for the sake of Allah, if it is indeed good for us to do so.

    • @methib3306
      @methib3306 Před 3 lety +2

      Ayyy lmao , abusive father’s never change. They are unfortunate humans who doesn’t appreciate Allah’s blessings. My husband is the same.

    • @methib3306
      @methib3306 Před 3 lety +1

      javid lone , don’t waste your life worrying, try and make a separate life . Trust me you will be happy, I know how theses fathers are , they take away your self respect, your dignity, courage, they tear you apart , but just gather courage, don’t worry Allah will help you. But take your steps out and do something for your self. Be independent. Don’t depend on your dad, Then you will see the difference, you can also help your mother also once you come out of it . My husband has done same to my son. These narcissist are jealous of their own children, they destroy you . Just RUN . I’ll pray that you get a good life . InshaAllah.

  • @mdl8507
    @mdl8507 Před 3 lety +2

    May god bless you! Your lecture are always powerful with truth! This one is by far the one that touched me the most!
    Do anyone seen this lecture with Arabic translation/subtitle?

  • @ishrathjapan7390
    @ishrathjapan7390 Před 10 lety +7

    May Allah bless u n uploAder!

  • @blushiikitti988
    @blushiikitti988 Před 4 lety +4

    32:45 i was laughing so true, may allah swt bless him and all of us in this ummah

  • @zahraaabdallah8273
    @zahraaabdallah8273 Před 5 lety +4

    Wallaahi is very true

  • @najwakalodi6555
    @najwakalodi6555 Před 11 lety +1

    Mashaallah great speech

  • @Ubah3725
    @Ubah3725 Před 5 lety +4

    Mashallah

  • @aminabuhari3727
    @aminabuhari3727 Před 3 lety +1

    MashaAllah Tabarakallah 👨‍👧

  • @AbdulRahim-vw8zw
    @AbdulRahim-vw8zw Před 3 lety +1

    Insha Allah power full talk
    Insha Allah I have to change lot. Insha Allah I will change from now itself.

    • @seetruth304
      @seetruth304 Před 3 lety

      czcams.com/video/8xZ3pCUUNqU/video.html
      Reminding children that living in their parent's house after puberty is a privelage

  • @AishaRanaArtStudio
    @AishaRanaArtStudio Před 4 lety +2

    MashaAllah very informative (y)

  • @AnwarKhan-rt4ig
    @AnwarKhan-rt4ig Před 8 lety +1

    masaha Allah very nice

  • @zahraaabdallah8273
    @zahraaabdallah8273 Před 5 lety +2

    Subhaan ALLAH

  • @javidlone5935
    @javidlone5935 Před 4 lety +4

    All i will complaint to Allah on day of judgement
    Is i will ask him wht kind of sin i have done tht u gave me lot of troubles

    • @ItzAya7
      @ItzAya7 Před 4 lety +1

      Whatever you are going through Is a test from Allah. Always know that Allah is by your side

    • @methib3306
      @methib3306 Před 3 lety

      javid lone , after every night there is a day . You are young, take you life in your hands, and pray and move ahead. And stop being a victim, and sympathetizing your self. Don’t sit and keep thinking , search a way out , and you will find one. InshaAllah.

  • @savera3976
    @savera3976 Před 4 lety +8

    Any speech about daughters rights. If father absue his daughter or have domestic violence on his daughter without any big reason what Allah says about this.

    • @bernakarsikaya4364
      @bernakarsikaya4364 Před 4 lety +2

      I also want to know that..

    • @savera3976
      @savera3976 Před 4 lety +1

      Aliza if it is haram then why they do follow islam in others things and when comes about daughter they will not follow islam .

    • @ayyylmao101
      @ayyylmao101 Před 4 lety +2

      @@savera3976 They are hypocritical. They are letting culture and their nafs corrupt their practice. We all have sins to which we are weak, but this kind of abuse is one grave sin that cannot be ignored. Beyond privacy, this is shameful. May Allah protect you and all the other daughters of the world trapped in abusive homes.

  • @suraiahkhan6995
    @suraiahkhan6995 Před rokem +1

    What is the Dua he said at the beginning? Allahumma la ilma Lana.... Can someone please share

  • @josephkhazi765
    @josephkhazi765 Před 12 lety +2

    it is tru

  • @trochustyle954
    @trochustyle954 Před 4 lety +5

    My father hit me cursed me because i am sensitive and i get triggered easily and i am fragile . Stop listening to his voice and his eyes je tried to choke me because i make his life miserable because of my illnesd i have ADHD and PTSD .

    • @sofumer4124
      @sofumer4124 Před 4 lety +1

      May Allah help you

    • @beeg9323
      @beeg9323 Před 4 lety

      May Allah give you shifa and give hidayat to such parents. Ameen!✨

    • @trochustyle954
      @trochustyle954 Před 4 lety

      Inchallah ya rab thank you

    • @dnonsense8450
      @dnonsense8450 Před 4 lety +1

      May Allah help u with this

    • @methib3306
      @methib3306 Před 3 lety +1

      TROCHU style , leave , heal yourself, do something for yourself, try to be independent, work hard , study well, just do it for your freedom. Keep it as a goal. See Allah will help you. InshaAllah. This illness is also not your fault. One who has a narcissistic father get these mental disorders, don’t blame yourself, be kind to yourself, Plz stay from him . How old are you??

  • @monjiaitaly
    @monjiaitaly Před 11 lety +1

    thank you so much for this information. Salam

  • @neutral915
    @neutral915 Před 13 lety +2

    @Madhofd Maybe he is not feeling too well

  • @mohdafzel
    @mohdafzel Před 12 lety +2

    anybody know who was the reciter in the beginning? thanks

  • @javidlone5935
    @javidlone5935 Před 4 lety +2

    Wht will one do if his father abuses him thrice a day

    • @lunix3259
      @lunix3259 Před 4 lety +1

      There aren't many info on this, may Allah give you the patience you need

  • @monjiaitaly
    @monjiaitaly Před 11 lety +1

    aiwa :)

  • @concealedpearl1
    @concealedpearl1 Před 12 lety

    Said all ghamdi was the editor in the beginning

  • @ibrahimhussein3289
    @ibrahimhussein3289 Před 4 lety +2

    I would recommend you to watch this video...
    czcams.com/video/MH_IjKxD8ew/video.html
    It is also about parents

  • @zahraaabdallah8273
    @zahraaabdallah8273 Před 5 lety +2

    😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @beautyofbengal6119
    @beautyofbengal6119 Před 4 lety +1

    32:29 😂😂

  • @ShamilaSakkaff2023
    @ShamilaSakkaff2023 Před 12 lety +1

    brother Mufti you dont sound feel good. Jazakallah - shamila sakkaff -Dehiwala.

  • @dawooddawood5609
    @dawooddawood5609 Před 2 lety

    Mother or wife? 🧔🧕
    Answer: Mother, mother and mother.
    A mother's love is true and genuine.
    A wife's love is limited and not genuine.
    A mother's pains to her children are totally coming from her inner heart.
    A wife's pains to her husband are not coming from her inner heart.
    A mother's love is unlimited whereas a wife's love is only limited.
    A wife cant take a mother's place at any stage.
    A mother tolerates, whereas a wife never tolerates and that's the truth.
    A mother cares her children in a equal manner but a wife doesn't know how to care her husband.
    A mother is the best lady who can tender her love and kindness towards her children forever.
    A wife, it depends. If the husband has lots of money, then surely the treatments will be an extra one. If the husband is poor treatments will be like as to a beggar.
    Finally, one day a wife becomes a mother and takes a mother's place.
    So remember any wife becomes a mother one day and this happens.
    Have a nice day.
    Written on: 05.02.2022
    By: Dawood

  • @Kapiteinramsamsam
    @Kapiteinramsamsam Před 9 lety +2

    well,its very hot and he feel not well because of that......

  • @craigerb3579
    @craigerb3579 Před 10 lety

    English Maui j

  • @shahzadsaeed9401
    @shahzadsaeed9401 Před 4 lety +1

    Why most of your lectures are rights of children . Less and less respect for grandparents or parents?

    • @methib3306
      @methib3306 Před 3 lety

      shahzad saeed , it’s for the narcissist and abusive parents.

    • @seetruth304
      @seetruth304 Před 3 lety

      czcams.com/video/8xZ3pCUUNqU/video.html
      Reminding children that living in their parent's house after puberty is a privelage

  • @SalmanMoyeen
    @SalmanMoyeen Před 11 lety +2

    Are you a muslim????

    • @tms5579
      @tms5579 Před 5 lety +1

      Of course he is

    • @rakibulhoque4574
      @rakibulhoque4574 Před 5 lety

      Who is u bro ??? From where r u ????

    • @dnonsense8450
      @dnonsense8450 Před 4 lety +1

      I'm not bieng offensive but yes u is just by his name. Please tell me that wasn't offensive.