Mufti Ismail Ibn Musa Menk of Zimbabwe. Mufti Menk discussing the Relationship between Parents and Children and various issues that may exist along with their solution.
Alhamdullilah, May Allah continue to Bless and this great schorlar of this time, He has change me as a person, strenghten my relationship with my spouse. JazakAllahu Khair Sheik.
So grateful that we have somebody like mufti mens to keep it real for our generation, and highlights that parents can also be the ones in the wrong. Growing up im always patronised, into thinking parents and perfect and always right. Glad im not crazy in thinking that the mistreatment I have experienced at the hand of my parents is actually wrong. I will not act on it but im satisfied knowing that its not my fault.
I agree disrespecting our parents is bad and it's a big sin. But what about parents ill treat their children ? I really want u to make a video about it.
shaheer khaled only that abuse (physical, verbal, emotional, mental) any type of abuse is unacceptable in Islam especially within a family but I to would like to know more about this subject
May Almighty Allah bless Mufti Menk for his concern towards Muslim Ummah to be among those that that Allah will be pleased with them when they meet Him
dear Mufti menk what do I do with my parents who don't wish to keep me with them because im divorced and lost my job so they find me a burden.now their son is married and is living with us. I am being treated with harm and im 40
MAY ALLAH MAKE MUFTI MENK LIGHT AND A BEST TEACHER IN THE WHOLE WORLD SUCH THAT WE UNDERSTAND AND PRACTICE HIS TEACHINGS .I LOVE YOUR PREACHING AND LESSONS AND HOPE TO NAME MY BOY YOU NAMES INSHA-ALLAH
Assalamualikum, I searched this video up because I’ve always felt that I don’t wanna be around my parents, and because we never end a conversation in good terms.. I’ve learnt many things from this video but I’ve also realized that my parents are no where near perfect. Every point you’ve made in this video indirectly associates with my parents. I want them to know this but I am too embarrassed to bring it upon or to them. They might think I’m ungreatful. Or they might bring up a hinge and make me feel as if I’m the one wrong.. and the whole situation will start again.. Please tell me how I can speak to my parents because this year I wish to have a heart bond family InshaAllah. I’m working on myself aswell. I’m not that we’ll of a Muslim but inshallah I’m trying my best since Ramadan.
My God, I feel this. For me, it isn't quite as bad, but. Subhanallah, it feels like no matter what we say, we are in the wrong, and we must wait out the lectures... Inshallah we will renew our relationships with our parents for the sake of Allah, if it is indeed good for us to do so.
javid lone , don’t waste your life worrying, try and make a separate life . Trust me you will be happy, I know how theses fathers are , they take away your self respect, your dignity, courage, they tear you apart , but just gather courage, don’t worry Allah will help you. But take your steps out and do something for your self. Be independent. Don’t depend on your dad, Then you will see the difference, you can also help your mother also once you come out of it . My husband has done same to my son. These narcissist are jealous of their own children, they destroy you . Just RUN . I’ll pray that you get a good life . InshaAllah.
May god bless you! Your lecture are always powerful with truth! This one is by far the one that touched me the most! Do anyone seen this lecture with Arabic translation/subtitle?
javid lone , after every night there is a day . You are young, take you life in your hands, and pray and move ahead. And stop being a victim, and sympathetizing your self. Don’t sit and keep thinking , search a way out , and you will find one. InshaAllah.
Any speech about daughters rights. If father absue his daughter or have domestic violence on his daughter without any big reason what Allah says about this.
@@savera3976 They are hypocritical. They are letting culture and their nafs corrupt their practice. We all have sins to which we are weak, but this kind of abuse is one grave sin that cannot be ignored. Beyond privacy, this is shameful. May Allah protect you and all the other daughters of the world trapped in abusive homes.
My father hit me cursed me because i am sensitive and i get triggered easily and i am fragile . Stop listening to his voice and his eyes je tried to choke me because i make his life miserable because of my illnesd i have ADHD and PTSD .
TROCHU style , leave , heal yourself, do something for yourself, try to be independent, work hard , study well, just do it for your freedom. Keep it as a goal. See Allah will help you. InshaAllah. This illness is also not your fault. One who has a narcissistic father get these mental disorders, don’t blame yourself, be kind to yourself, Plz stay from him . How old are you??
Mother or wife? 🧔🧕 Answer: Mother, mother and mother. A mother's love is true and genuine. A wife's love is limited and not genuine. A mother's pains to her children are totally coming from her inner heart. A wife's pains to her husband are not coming from her inner heart. A mother's love is unlimited whereas a wife's love is only limited. A wife cant take a mother's place at any stage. A mother tolerates, whereas a wife never tolerates and that's the truth. A mother cares her children in a equal manner but a wife doesn't know how to care her husband. A mother is the best lady who can tender her love and kindness towards her children forever. A wife, it depends. If the husband has lots of money, then surely the treatments will be an extra one. If the husband is poor treatments will be like as to a beggar. Finally, one day a wife becomes a mother and takes a mother's place. So remember any wife becomes a mother one day and this happens. Have a nice day. Written on: 05.02.2022 By: Dawood
he is not well and he gave this lecture to the people. May God bless him.
Alhamdullilah, May Allah continue to Bless and this great schorlar of this time, He has change me as a person, strenghten my relationship with my spouse. JazakAllahu Khair Sheik.
So grateful that we have somebody like mufti mens to keep it real for our generation, and highlights that parents can also be the ones in the wrong. Growing up im always patronised, into thinking parents and perfect and always right. Glad im not crazy in thinking that the mistreatment I have experienced at the hand of my parents is actually wrong. I will not act on it but im satisfied knowing that its not my fault.
Thanks go to Allah for given us a Mufti like u.I wish u long life,Ameen.
I agree disrespecting our parents is bad and it's a big sin. But what about parents ill treat their children ? I really want u to make a video about it.
shaheer khaled I hope we can get some response to this because I’d also like an answer
@@fatimazahrah6748 do you know anything about it or have any knowledge???
shaheer khaled only that abuse (physical, verbal, emotional, mental) any type of abuse is unacceptable in Islam especially within a family but I to would like to know more about this subject
@@fatimazahrah6748 I hope we do get more information about it
Me too hoping that he is going to give this kind of abusing the children by their parents.
Looks like he is unwell. Bt still makes an effort to deliver his speech! Hats off to u.
mashallah this brother is really good and he knows how to explain situations
Listen to this and take heed . its very true. parents should never ever fight in front of the kids. no matter what! and also respect your kids!
Sadly I go through that everyday... I searched for this video just for that reason..
Aleeza Ali may Allah make it easy for you and bless your family with patience and unity Ameen
mufti menk is the best speaker i heard. hes a joka and at the same tym teaches very important lessons and his speeches are very well spoken
May Almighty Allah bless Mufti Menk for his concern towards Muslim Ummah to be among those that that Allah will be pleased with them when they meet Him
I like my sheikh so much. Subhaan ALLAH. Jazaak ALLAHU KHAIR Aljazaa.
@Madhofd He does sound a little different due to the audio quality.
dear Mufti menk what do I do with my parents who don't wish to keep me with them because im divorced and lost my job so they find me a burden.now their son is married and is living with us. I am being treated with harm and im 40
You are so so right Mufti I wish I could find more people like you you are a men of honor
Subhanallah mufti menk saab superb lecture jazakallah khair
MAY ALLAH MAKE MUFTI MENK LIGHT AND A BEST TEACHER IN THE WHOLE WORLD SUCH THAT WE UNDERSTAND AND PRACTICE HIS TEACHINGS .I LOVE YOUR PREACHING AND LESSONS AND HOPE TO NAME MY BOY YOU NAMES INSHA-ALLAH
NO NEED TO SHOUT
Alihamundurila Alihamundurila thanks alot our lovely mufti menk
بارك الله فيكم
for Mufti Ismail and the uploader
SalamOalicom warahmatollahi wabarakato...
Masha Allah..
i realy adore Mufti menk they way he teach Islam...
My Allah prolong his life insha Allah..
Mashaallah,I just learnt a lot from this SubhanaAllah..Wat ablsd being..May Allah s.w,protect you and your family...
Mufti may yaa Allah bless you with all my heart may his Mercy be upon you and protect you always may you entered the jantul firdaws
May Allah swt protect and reward you and your family jannat al firdowsa amiin
Ameen
Assalamualikum, I searched this video up because I’ve always felt that I don’t wanna be around my parents, and because we never end a conversation in good terms..
I’ve learnt many things from this video but I’ve also realized that my parents are no where near perfect. Every point you’ve made in this video indirectly associates with my parents. I want them to know this but I am too embarrassed to bring it upon or to them. They might think I’m ungreatful. Or they might bring up a hinge and make me feel as if I’m the one wrong.. and the whole situation will start again..
Please tell me how I can speak to my parents because this year I wish to have a heart bond family InshaAllah. I’m working on myself aswell. I’m not that we’ll of a Muslim but inshallah I’m trying my best since Ramadan.
I m 30 year old.i never got the love from my parents
All my childhood went in vain as i always was abused by my father nd i do cry lonely
My God, I feel this. For me, it isn't quite as bad, but. Subhanallah, it feels like no matter what we say, we are in the wrong, and we must wait out the lectures... Inshallah we will renew our relationships with our parents for the sake of Allah, if it is indeed good for us to do so.
Ayyy lmao , abusive father’s never change. They are unfortunate humans who doesn’t appreciate Allah’s blessings. My husband is the same.
javid lone , don’t waste your life worrying, try and make a separate life . Trust me you will be happy, I know how theses fathers are , they take away your self respect, your dignity, courage, they tear you apart , but just gather courage, don’t worry Allah will help you. But take your steps out and do something for your self. Be independent. Don’t depend on your dad, Then you will see the difference, you can also help your mother also once you come out of it . My husband has done same to my son. These narcissist are jealous of their own children, they destroy you . Just RUN . I’ll pray that you get a good life . InshaAllah.
May god bless you! Your lecture are always powerful with truth! This one is by far the one that touched me the most!
Do anyone seen this lecture with Arabic translation/subtitle?
May Allah bless u n uploAder!
32:45 i was laughing so true, may allah swt bless him and all of us in this ummah
Laughing why
Mirza Rayan Baig irony
Wallaahi is very true
Mashaallah great speech
Mashallah
MashaAllah Tabarakallah 👨👧
Insha Allah power full talk
Insha Allah I have to change lot. Insha Allah I will change from now itself.
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Reminding children that living in their parent's house after puberty is a privelage
MashaAllah very informative (y)
masaha Allah very nice
Subhaan ALLAH
All i will complaint to Allah on day of judgement
Is i will ask him wht kind of sin i have done tht u gave me lot of troubles
Whatever you are going through Is a test from Allah. Always know that Allah is by your side
javid lone , after every night there is a day . You are young, take you life in your hands, and pray and move ahead. And stop being a victim, and sympathetizing your self. Don’t sit and keep thinking , search a way out , and you will find one. InshaAllah.
Any speech about daughters rights. If father absue his daughter or have domestic violence on his daughter without any big reason what Allah says about this.
I also want to know that..
Aliza if it is haram then why they do follow islam in others things and when comes about daughter they will not follow islam .
@@savera3976 They are hypocritical. They are letting culture and their nafs corrupt their practice. We all have sins to which we are weak, but this kind of abuse is one grave sin that cannot be ignored. Beyond privacy, this is shameful. May Allah protect you and all the other daughters of the world trapped in abusive homes.
What is the Dua he said at the beginning? Allahumma la ilma Lana.... Can someone please share
it is tru
My father hit me cursed me because i am sensitive and i get triggered easily and i am fragile . Stop listening to his voice and his eyes je tried to choke me because i make his life miserable because of my illnesd i have ADHD and PTSD .
May Allah help you
May Allah give you shifa and give hidayat to such parents. Ameen!✨
Inchallah ya rab thank you
May Allah help u with this
TROCHU style , leave , heal yourself, do something for yourself, try to be independent, work hard , study well, just do it for your freedom. Keep it as a goal. See Allah will help you. InshaAllah. This illness is also not your fault. One who has a narcissistic father get these mental disorders, don’t blame yourself, be kind to yourself, Plz stay from him . How old are you??
thank you so much for this information. Salam
@Madhofd Maybe he is not feeling too well
anybody know who was the reciter in the beginning? thanks
Wht will one do if his father abuses him thrice a day
There aren't many info on this, may Allah give you the patience you need
aiwa :)
Said all ghamdi was the editor in the beginning
I would recommend you to watch this video...
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It is also about parents
😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
32:29 😂😂
brother Mufti you dont sound feel good. Jazakallah - shamila sakkaff -Dehiwala.
Mother or wife? 🧔🧕
Answer: Mother, mother and mother.
A mother's love is true and genuine.
A wife's love is limited and not genuine.
A mother's pains to her children are totally coming from her inner heart.
A wife's pains to her husband are not coming from her inner heart.
A mother's love is unlimited whereas a wife's love is only limited.
A wife cant take a mother's place at any stage.
A mother tolerates, whereas a wife never tolerates and that's the truth.
A mother cares her children in a equal manner but a wife doesn't know how to care her husband.
A mother is the best lady who can tender her love and kindness towards her children forever.
A wife, it depends. If the husband has lots of money, then surely the treatments will be an extra one. If the husband is poor treatments will be like as to a beggar.
Finally, one day a wife becomes a mother and takes a mother's place.
So remember any wife becomes a mother one day and this happens.
Have a nice day.
Written on: 05.02.2022
By: Dawood
well,its very hot and he feel not well because of that......
English Maui j
Why most of your lectures are rights of children . Less and less respect for grandparents or parents?
shahzad saeed , it’s for the narcissist and abusive parents.
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Reminding children that living in their parent's house after puberty is a privelage
Are you a muslim????
Of course he is
Who is u bro ??? From where r u ????
I'm not bieng offensive but yes u is just by his name. Please tell me that wasn't offensive.