STORYTIME: Why I STOPPED Drinking & Smoking! (DON'T JUDGE ME!)
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This video actually meant so much to me, I always feel like I'm the only one who just doesn't like drinking or want to drink and i always feel like I'm literally the only person my age (I'm 17). This video just made me feel a little more normal and that its okay. I hate that I always have to justify why I'm not drinking. anyway, thank you so much
Don’t worry sis you are not alone...i am 19 and i don’t drink or smoke at all...( not worth your lungs and liver )
I know how you feel
i feel the same too!
I feel the exact same way and my friends always say to me "sure, sure. you say your not going to drink but you will" they just do not understand I have no interest
Ellie-Jean how can u shadee leedss like that when its my firm i beg 😂😂😂
"I don't know why I'm laughing, astagfirullah" 😂😂😂😂😂
humairaa I died 😭😭😭
Went out twice when I was 18 and I haven’t been since and I’m now 22. Personally I’ve always been made to feel as though I’ve got three heads because I don’t drink! 😂 The binge drinking culture in the UK is insaaaaane!
Emily Deguil it's even worse in south Korea. Heck they drink everyday! In comparison to them we aren't that bad!
ARMY M.C It’s like that in the area of the UK that I’m from! It’s just so normal to drink excessively everyday. I’ve been told that I make people feel bad about their drinking by not drinking.... Fail to see how that’s my issue 😂 but I didn’t know that about South Korea!
Emily Deguil lol! Really?! Yeah in south Korea , it's normal to drink alcohol everyday! Still wonder why they fail to see that excessive drinking is bad for the liver and that it can intoxicate people and lead to possible injury or possibly death.
@@armym.c3031 yh its part of our business life, you probs wont get a job if you say you dont drink in the interview lol
I’m really proud of you for talking about this Ibz because it’s easy to be made ashamed of your past. I’m someone who knows I don’t want to drink or smoke ever, not solely for religion but because I honestly don’t see the point of either of them. However, it does make me feel like I may be socially isolated at uni because I don’t drink or smoke. I hope this video makes more people see that smoking and getting flat out drunk isn’t actually fun and helps them become more conscious of the side effects :)
You've come so far MASHALLAH!! Praying for to keep slaying and excelling 🤗🔥🔥
I'm Muslim and I have never drank or went clubbing. But tbh disregarding Islam, I still wouldn't do it. I can see the effects of it and it's not good.
okay? are u bragging about it? the video is enough to tell us that its not got good effects. useless comment
You ain't really missing out on anything, it's kinda trash
ajsuflena Why would I brag? I love ibz, sorry that u took it that way.
alakazam fam good then. 😊
ajsuflena what are you even saying lmfao
The truth is that a lot of youth in the Asian /muslim communities are curious about this kind of thing we can act like it doesn't happen but it does so thanks for making a video about it
"you can make friends without drinking" youre giving me answers and reassurance that i never thought i needed. thanks so much ibz.
I stopped drinking cause I didn’t enjoy it. It was more of a social thing like oh everyone else was doing it. I started at 18 and stopped at 18. Best decision I’ve made✨
Me too!, honestly drinking just isn’t me and I’m glad that i don’t do it !
“Try going to Leeds”
That’s my firm pls pray for me 😂😫
Kate Gleave good luck😂
When by chance u find ur best mate on CZcams !!!😂
Kate Gleave I don't understand the bad rep that Leeds have? Can someone explain
Leeds is a decent uni but it's a breeding ground for degenerate sesh heads and the like. It can be a struggle to find people who aren't into that scene
Lool
Respect you for the guts it took for making this video! Personally I find it stupid for anyone to judge anyone else on if they drink or not tbh.
I've got so much respect for u man❤️ people don't realise that no ones perfect and everyone's got a past. As long as you're on a journey to improve yourself that's all that matters
Remember that sharing is caring babes. Ibz did us a favor by speaking up so don't be leaving hate comments
“I don’t know why I’m laughing Astagfurlah” 😂😂😂
Yess Ibz!
Thanks for letting us know man and I'm so proud of you for stopping drinking and smoking etc
i really liked hearing your story Ibz. i started drinking by 18, i got completely black out drunk and could not come home to my strict family. and that led to me moving out bc i couldn’t reconcile my lifestyle with their expectations. i really like your perspective of drinking culture, because when i’m drunk, i’m very happy, talkative, but i don’t like the fact that i black out a lot, and throw up a lot, and it makes me want to stop because i feel like i might get dependent on it. i’m mostly someone who is quite negative a lot (bc i have depression) and when i drink, i always feel happy. i know alcohol is a depressant but i feel so good and always have great conversations and encounters around people, i feel like i’m the best version of myself when i’m drunk, because i lose the barriers that normally stop me from being happy and open. but this video made me consider whether i can be that person without drinking . 💗
It’s really nice that you’ve shared ur experience even though some people will throw shade on you, but it just shows how much you’ve learned over the years and it shows that you can stop and don’t have to carry on if you don’t want to so to anyone out there it’s possible to stop don’t feel pressured to do anything because your friends are doing it ! ❤️
Smoking and drinking is the worst and I am soo proud of you and the fact that you have found your limit and used it to stop. Mahsallah keep slaying❤❤👌
I love you for this. Such an inspiration and a great influence for young people. From a Muslim, we humans aint perfect and being in a religion doesnt mean u follow everything. So ignore them fake Muslims judging u for speaking bout this smhhhhhhh. 💓💓
Mary공부 yesss preach sister 👏👏
Mary공부 being in a religion means you *attempt* to follow everything to the best of your ability, not choose what you want to follow. Have a lovely day:)
Yaaaaaaaaaaaas
@@Qurann21 at the end of the day we are all human and all that matters is we repent
Boyyy you are brave for making this. Mad proud 🖤🖤
Ive never been clubbing drunk. You can always always have fun at clubs sober don’t give in to the peer pressure, in fact i have so much more fun than most. You should be so proud of yourself, honestly stay sexy xxxx
Wholeheartedly agree with this, I’ve had some amazing nights out at uni 😂 and the best part is that I remember EVERYTHING that people say or do 😎
It's sad that ppl feel embarrassed by this like other brown ppl like no so what if ppl drink and smoke or did it's a personal choice you do you but so proud of you ibz even tho I just turned 17 like the fact that you can openly talk about this is really inspiring and honestly look up to you a lot you're really inspirational 💛
Okay this made me feel better. I don’t drink either but not for religious reasons and this made me feel like oh okay uni should be alright then
Thank you so much for making this video! I’m 17 and have decided not to drink anymore, as it really doesn’t agree with me well too, so this is so reassuring for me to hear that it’s not too much of an issue.
When I saw the tea was this piping hot I made sure I watched when I had my dinner sitting right in front of me so I could enjoy to the fullest extent hahaha
TheGlassRose1 this comment 😂👏🏻
I honestly find this so reassuring. I don’t drink and never will (I’m 17) but whenever I tell someone in my year that they instantly judge me, think I’m no fun or a stuck-up goody-two-shoes. I just personally don’t want to drink because a close family member is a recovering alcoholic and I’ve witnessed the horrible consequences of alcoholism - I don’t ever want to be that. But it’s my personal choice and I have no problem with people that do drink. I just wish that it was okay to choose not to drink! I can still go out and have a laugh! I don’t understand why our society has this view that all teens have to drink to have fun :/ honey I’m fabulous even without vodka! ;)
IK this is off topic but who else misses Harshiah?😂
Totally agree with your points, you don't have to drink or smoke at uni to be popular and there is more to uni than just those elements. No one is perfect, we are all on our journey and twitter akhs need to watch their own actions before they come after other fellow muslims for their "shortcomings". I have also not been smoking or drinking since coming to uni and I survived first year alhamdullilah. As long as you find your squad that respect your choices you are fine
Love this video ibz, so real and honest ( like always) love ya. I've had some horrible anxiety feelings smoking and it put me off for life. You have to go through these experiences though as cliche as it sounds... "to find yourself." Xx
i’m desi and muslim and honestly the fact that you’ve grown and stopped doing it is amazing mashallah, anyone who hates doesn’t appreciate your growth, all the love 💓
Power to you for making this vid! It takes a lot to actually pick yourself up and make such big changes in your life. And then a lot to talk about it publicly. Openly addressing these issues is the first step to helping people who fall into these situations and also those who want to stop but feel like it may isolate them from the social scene. Proud of you ❤️
The first 10 seconds I was like "YESS GIIIIRL! ALRIGHT ! SHOW THEM"
You perpetuate the drinking culture by partaking in it so just stand ur ground and soon more ppl will feel comfortable to admit drinking is not a necessity for them.
Thanks for the video Ibz
I'm glad that you have spoken about this as an Asian and Muslim. People usually keeps these things hush, which I understand why because it's a taboo issue - especially within the Muslim community. I admire how you have spoken about this so publicly. We need to talk about this more. Living in the Western world where drinking especially is such a common, everyday activity, it makes it hard for those from the Muslim background to refrain from the activities. Mad respect to you!
such a cool video ibz !!!! the way you talk about religion is really positive and you show its a conscious personal choice and not about follow rules. scripture is often a good place to look for wisdom on the way to live your life- not as a rule book but as guidence maybe and like u said see how it coincides with your own experiences. alcohol isnt for everyone it sometimes just doesnt sit well and thats okay but out culture especially in UK doesnt really allow for that so its really cool to see u speaking up about cls itd important and NORMAL to make decisions on whats best for you and your body
Preaaachh
Finally back with the story times 🤟🏾⏳
Honestly such a good speaker 💯
“try going to leeds......good luck”
omg it’s my insurance uni and im brown and have never even had a sip of alcohol 😳😳
I am Muslim but I don't judge because I don't think its right as we all sin,just in different ways .Just wish people were more open minded
It takes courage to face the embarrassing things we've done and bad decisions we've made, but even more so to put it all out in the open like this. So much respect for you for making this, and being a light for other people who might have needed a video like this to spur them into evaluating themselves and their lives. Thanks x
You look amazing in this video! I can't wait for the university guide 💖💖
Getting my IGCSE results in 5 days. WHOOOOP!
sorry BUT HOW ARE YOU NOT AT 100K you're honestly so hilarious and so real ly ibz
Okay, honestly I love this so much. I'm so proud of you and your journey. I really hope you're granted all the answers you're looking for and be your best self. InshAllah.
This is the video for me. As a 17 year old who doesn't drink and will probably never drink due to choice, it's so very important hearing others make the choice not to drink 💕💕
I really needed this because I don’t drink or smoke at all and I’ve been so worried about how I’m going to make friends at freshers when I won’t fit in. Thank you Ibz
Thanks for this video. I used to feel so odd being the only person out of a large group of people who don't drink or smoke. I knew a lot of people who smoked from early ages like 11 years old but people would always ask me why I don't smoke and I used to feel uncomfortable. But now I'm at peace. Many thanks 👊👍
Sometimes we got to live a little then face the regrets after!!
YOU DO YOU BOO!!! religion / culture ain’t got nothing to do with how your journey is like everyone has to make the mistakes to realise it’s not what you like 😭 this video was acc really insightful for me and for understanding some of my friends. ibz u real 👏🏽
Hey Ibz!! I’m sure you’ve heard this a thousand times but I just wanted to tell you that you’re such an amazing person and your videos always make me laugh. You’ve inspired me to apply to Cambridge this year and I couldn’t be more grateful for you! xx
this is the best way to learn about religion; asking why things are is better than blindly following and possibly even resenting religion.
MY QUEEN 👑 ❤️ you literally do not know how happy I become when you post .Along with the super awesome content and your charming personality ~~ that’s why I subbed long ago sista!
Im from the Asian community honestly the main thing is that you managed to turn it around and just look at how amazing your doing. Unfortunately being Asian for SOME people in England can have lots of different problems and life can get tough but honestly I’m proud of you Ibz!
Yeah I'm low key scared of being peer pressurrd to drink as I've never experienced peer pressure really all the people I know are super supportive!! Hope those I meet at uni are too
this video is a WHOLE MOOD
Nah something’s burning in the background what’s all the smoke looooool
Ishan Ali it’s an incense
It's a humidifier
OMG U ARE EVERYWHERE
Ishan Ali I see u everywhere loool its an infuser
Lol there is smoke in your profile pic care more about that
I see that boujee essential oil vapour machine 👌👌👌👌👌 listennnnnnnn it looks lit
Loool it’s called a diffuser 😂😂
So proud of you for telling this story Ibz must have been quite hard for you❤️
2:19 Moment of appreciation for this moment pleaseee.
Literally today, I remembered when I pulled the chair out before my friend could sit on it in yr10 assembly and her booty just hit the floor and started laughing but then I remembered God probably didn't find that funny.
everyone is on their own personal journey and no one has the right to be hurtful towards you because of the decisions you make. We have been given free will and we learn from our mistakes its part of being human. love you loads
First off you look amazing 😍. Secondly, it's really amazing that you were able to talk about your experiences and thanks for kinda giving us a warning about the effects of smoking and alchol. Love you Ibz 😘💕.
Forget everything, the main thing is that you decided to stop even though these can be highly addictive and hard to even cut down, let alone quit. Goes to show that you have immense will power and are dedicated, great video to spread a good message. Wish you the best in the future.
It was really brave of you to share your story, esp regarding things that you've done that you're not too proud of. I hate when I have to always explain myself to others when I tell them I am not a fan of drinking and smoking. I don't understand why most people in my age(18) think that getting drunk or high is the only way to have fun :( I believe that doing stuff like that isn't worth it because they don't even bring genuine joy. So yeah, thank you SO much for uploading this video Ibz! Thank you again for being such a positive influence! Love you so much xoxo
I literally have mad respect for you. Coming out nd admitting this shit ain't easy esp when you got a chapli in the background😂
Thank you Ibz. This was a really brave thing to do and I respect you for being so open about your experiences. I was personally worried about the drinking culture at uni before I started, but I was surrounded by people who didn't pressure me into drinking and respected my choices. I personally can have a great time in a club or at a bar or pub without drinking, I enjoy the atmosphere and the people so much more without drinking.
Although I have found societies that don't have drinking cultures (sporting societies are the worst for drinking cultures in my experience) and always offered non-drinking events. I did feel a little excluded with fresher events as at my uni there were hardly any non-drinking events which meant it took me longer to meet my friends.
However, for anyone who is worried about drinking culture, there are always people who don't drink due to personal choices or religious reasons and societies are a great way to meet others. You will find your people and make memories you will cherish for the rest of your life.
That steam thing is mesmerising 😮😮
Okay before i start watching the video, i just wanna say how much I'm proud of you and how much i appreciate you. You're growing stronger snd stronger and glowing damnnnn
Inshallah ibrahim things work out for you and your relationship with Allah and the deen continues to strengthen. Youre a good person and i hope you find contentment in life. Youve addressed a taboo topic in our community. Drinking but esp smoking has become a very serious issue among the muslim youth. Inshallah this brings more awareness to the situation. Youve given an important reminder that things that are haraam are haraam for A REASON. May Allah grant you everything you wish in this life and the hereafter. May you be rewarded with Jannah.
Video recommendation: could you do a video talking about your journey to religion and your current beliefs? Talk about your journey back to Islam and trying to be a practicing muslim ie. Praying, fasting etc. ik its quite personal and your audience arent all muslims but I believe itll help many of our youth who will be able to relate to you. May you remain unapologetically Muslim and may you get ajr for these videos ❤️
Off topic but could ya also make a video about reconnecting with your pakistani roots or just growing to appreciate it in general. Alot of kids seem to be ashamed of their roots. Id just find your views very interesting 😊
love ya 💕
I’m soooo dead after the spinning thing you was doing with your head 😩😩😂
"idk y im laughing astugfiralllah" LEGIT MY MOOODDD to everything kmss
I’m Muslim and I think you’re amazing 🔥🔥💕
D'you know what that's made me feel so much better honestly. I hate the idea of smoking anything anyways, but I do drink and I'm a little bit lucky I guess being a lightweight because it gives me the excuse not to have as much as everyone else. The idea of clubbing scares the hell out of me mostly because the idea of being that drunk in public and not being able to get home makes me die inside. I love going out and having a good time though so it's nice to have that reassurance. Cheers Ibz for bringing your sober seasoning
so much respect to you for posting this. i know so many people (muslims) in the same situation
I love it! “The minute I take off my contacts I don’t exist!”😂😂😂😂 I AM YOU! MINI IBZ! If I have my glasses on there is no way unless I’m on fire that I am leaving my house😂 love you IBZ- stay lit af you gorgeous human being-- what an inspiration!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
It's so reassuring to know other people feel this way too.
IBZ love how real this is, thank you for sharing your experience❤️❤️
keep doing you! honestly an inspiration
IBZ MASHALLAH MY BOI!!! God bless you, thank you so much for your story and your vulnerability, it’s an incredible marker of your bravery and kindness. Indeed, we are all on our own journeys and it’s no one’s place to judge you. I identify a lot because I also come from a Muslim background and have qualms about drinking/smoking (not just for my religion but also drugs scare the hell out of me) and starting uni soon seems like the most terrifying thing in the world....but this was so reassuring. Maybe it’s just hard to find people like me, but that’s because they’re hiding in the library?? I had the preconception that the only ways to have fun in university are those clubbing/drinking groups. Well, before watching this anyway. You’re so ICONIC and I would choose sober amazing Ibz over people falling over each other smashed at a party any day
Triggered at when he said ‘try going to Leeds’ 💀
Kept it REAL BRO!!! MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT!!!
I love tht "I can Singggggggggggg" ur journey is amazing this is so inspiring thankyou
I have a similar story.. first year of uni I abused it so much, until March and then I had the similar 7 day recovery thing. Now I very very rarely drink and I do it responsibly
Big respect for talking about this 👊🏼
I haven’t even started the video but this is the quality content I signed up for
love your honesty. It takes a lot to come out and say that.
Thank you for sharing your story!! 💛
So proud of you ibz, you are an inspiration!!!
Good on you Ibz! Absolute legend.
Thank you for being honest. Keep slaying! Love you x
PLEASE MAKE A 2018 RESULTS DAY PREP VID - THANKS
Mashhallah love this video it's soo organic !!💙❤👍
muslim here and i think your story is admirable, i hate how some of us can be so judgmental when god knows that we go through our own struggles too. i could never judge another muslim for the choices they make because it is between them and god!
I'm so proud of you Ibz! This was needed
I don't drink either because i'm muslim but not gonna lie sometimes i really get tempted to just to see what its like
iskada I don't drink because I'm an atheist 🙌
Don't do it, it all starts out as "just trying it" then some people get hooked on it. Stay strong sis/bro don't let shaytan mess with you 😊
even if you had drinked and smoked before, we do not have the right to and should not judge you because no one is perfect and we all make mistakes and we should appreciate that you came clean and stopped doing those. people who belittle you and shame you for doing this should just STFU because no body is perfect beacuse we are human at the end of the day not angels. we do make mistakes and what matters the most is realising those mistakes.
I think you’re confused, bro. The outrage is most likely due to it being a sin to make your private sins public to everyone who doesn’t know.
This was relieving to watch as someone who doesn’t really drink (I say doesn’t really cause I will like have a drink with a meal or 1 or 2 to socialise but I won’t get drunk) cause I’m going to Durham and my friends there have said it’s a lot harder to make friends if you don’t drink and that scared me lmao I just hate the idea of being drunk? I’ll drink 1 or 2 drinks or drink with meals, but that’s it, i just hate the idea of losing control on myself or making myself sick because I’ve dealt with chronic illness so I don’t wanna f my body up lol
Thank you so much for making this video. When I went to uni last year I didn't drink and did have some people trying to pressure me to drink but alcohol doesn't go well with me, I don't get as bad symptoms as you but it just makes my tummy hurt and super bloated and definitely not lit lol so I prefer nights out without it. I'm going to a new uni this year and was debating if I should try drinking again but this video gave me the confidence boost I needed to just go with my gut and know that alcohol isn't required for a good time
Loving the new Indie Ibz.
I was considering drinking alcohol (even though I'm a muslim too-don't judge) just because I wanna experience how it 'feels' to be drunk. Maybe not, thanks Ibz!
i love your honesty