Online Dating for Med Students & Doctors
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- čas přidán 16. 06. 2024
- There's a lot I need to share with you about online dating as a medical student and doctor. Here's what I've learned over the last 8 years.
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 - Introduction
00:46 - Online dating
01:06 - Downsides
01:38 - Upsides
02:10 - Is online dating good or bad?
03:06 - Should you enter a relationship?
05:36 - My dating experience
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Dr. Jubbal is teaching us about dating like we have to give a test on it lol
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Ah shit, here we go again
*Pulls out Anki*
@@SunSunSunn Got 100 reviews every day on my Dating Deck
@@kevinjubbalmd Do you beleive that a medical student or doctor would be willing to date someone who also has a college education but is not a medical student and is not a doctor?
@@davidsoto4394 Bit of a late response, but as a medical student myself, I would definitely be open to dating someone outside of the medical field. It can be very nice to have someone to ground you and remind you that there is much more to life than medicine!
Med student dating: Are there flashcards for this??
Yeah should I share my Memm dating deck?
Hahaha lol
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Yeah share the Anki deck pls
The quality of this content is A1.. the b-rolls, side bar info.. its all visually pleasing.. also GREAT TOPIC..
ga
Im sort embarrassed to admit but I used to be one of those guys that watched all these dating gurus on youtube and to be honest I learned a little bit but their "pickup" stuff never seemed to really work for me. The improving yourself aspect and attracting likewise people has been the #1 most important thing for me. Thanks as usual Dr. J
Am I the only one who thought Dr. Jubbal was starting a Med Student/Doctor dating app? Lol
This would be gold
Tinder, Grinder, MedSchool Insider..... I see a rhyme ! 🤣
@@jayw8726 Insider? I hardly even know her!
@@jayw8726 why did I read it singing lol
@@whalisten You are in a dire need of one maybe. Haha
The only guy that “optimizes” optimal dating in relationships in the most optimal flipping way!
Honestly the editing on this video deserves more credit, looks super professional and clean 👍🏽
Great way to articulate the concept of inner game. Trying to come across all professional but we all know you a true player
love your content Kevin - very authentic and I echo your sentiments about having 'ups and downs and spectacular failures' - it's all part of life and the journey!
now this is a content single nerds need
I wish there’s a female perspective too! Even though I can’t speak for all my female colleagues, I found struggle with online dating especially when it comes to really getting to know the person. The misconception about people in medicine is that we are nerdy and unsociable. I would say most of us can establish a good conversation but that doesn’t necessarily mean we are enjoying the date. While it’s nice to date someone in medicine so we have a common ground and understanding, a lot of men don’t want to have a partner who’s also practicing medicine. They wouldn’t mind dating the pharmacist, the speech pathologist, nurses, but female doctors are often a no-go (anecdotal - from friends). A lot of my friends ended up dating outside of medicine or just marrying their boyfriends from college. Online dating may have worked for some of my colleagues but they never lasted.
It’s so great to hear you talk about this topic! I would love if you can invite a female colleague to discuss this and maybe set it up like a live podcast? Anyway that’s it :) love your videos! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and advices with us!
That is so true, especially if they know you're still doing residency and have exams to do while most of them have already started their lives by the time we're in residency, however I stopped thinking of what they think and what they say cuz we need to be confident that if someone likes us they will like us for who we are 🙂
Unsolicited comment from a female MD:
I met my bf through Tinder in the middle of med school, going for 2.5 years now. He is far from the field of medicine (or what we like to call "non-showbiz" in our culture 😂). Actually, from what I hear from my friends, they tend to like non-showbiz SO's more. Personally, I like non-showbiz because I don't want medicine to be my only world, and it's great to learn about my bf's passions and expertise. I just feel very lucky to have met someone who understands my circumstances and he has always been a great source of support for me. He's even the one who pushes me to do my best when I have wanted to give up so many times. Seeing him was one of the few things I looked forward to (especially after tiring overnight hospital duties). It's also nice since I didn't actually use Tinder to look for a relationship, and I almost didn't swipe right on him, yet here we are. Residency is coming up, which will be another challenge for us.
So maybe my advice is to be open to dating, however you want it (online or organic or whatnot), just be mature about it. Know what you deserve. And education still takes first seat. ☺️
I’m a male med student and honestly my ideal IS finding a girl who is also a med student as I feel that they would understand my life better. I have no qualms or insecurities about having a wife who is on the same (or even higher) footing as me educationally. I find it a little weird that it seems so many men have a problem with that, but then again, I am an introverted introspective person whereas most men probably aren’t. Lol
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Watching this video is like being adviced from that older brother who I don't have.I'm not dying for dating ,I just open my mind and my life.
Wow I did not expect you to make a video about online dating. Loved it, and my med friends and I have been touting these principles for a while so it's nice to see you put it all together so well
This is a much appreciated topic because work-life balance is key. Thank you for sharing!
I love the effort you put into your videos. The segments are very helpful. Thank you Dr. Jubbal!
At 8:55.
Doctors should NEVER state in their dating apps that they're are physicians. The number of people looking to be attached to fame and money increases X fold.
Be humble and find someone who is not after your career or money.
Unless you're a female doc! many of us unfortunately deal with insecure/ intimidated men who are scared to date a woman who will make more than them 🤷♀️
@@probablystudying5811 like folloeing the queen bee
@@probablystudying5811 why not just date the men who make around the same or more than you?
@@raisaa1537 why limit your options?
Dr. Jubbal this video couldn't have come at a better time. Surprisingly just got back from an unsuccessful date. Im currently in med school, first time ever starting to date through the apps. It's a lot to take in but this video really helps me put things in perspective. Much love
Lol y do I feel this channel is going to blow up much bigger than med school insiders.
"What makes your problems go away is fixing your problems." Truer words have never been said.
These tips are not just for men, they are equally as important to women, for people in general. Btw, your lifestyle and way of thinking makes you so damn attractive, it has truly been a blessing following your work.
This is a great video, relationships can teach you alot whether it's good or bad, I don't have alot of dating experience tbh, I started reading books not get pickup lines but atleast to know the redflags ,what I like and what I don't, but of course real life experiences are better
It's so much fun when you try to visit your friend and learn what they do. Its so fun!
Inventing the dating Add-on for Anki...
Oh god ! What did you do to him ?
Dr Jubbal is becoming a Dating Guru Now !
Dating in med school is definitely hard! Especially if you are long distance because you are so busy & when you have free time it’s hard to muster energy to do anything besides watch TV😂 props to those who can manage it! I think dating other pre-professional students is great because you both understand what the other person is going through
Love it when every vid at the beginning u say hello if u r new here my name is Kevin jubbal former plastic surgery resident which shows how confident u r about ur choice to quit(just like what I did last month but I'm still not confident abt what I did lol)
The best way to pique someone's interest is to be interesting. Also, nobody is responsible for your happiness but yourself. When you learn to enjoy your own company, others will too.
True
"It can accelerate your learning..." through spaced repetition by matching with plenty of people?
I love this channel and it worth more than being recommended for only medical doctors and students. Learning from you have motivated me to start my personal channel chief, more power to you Sir.
Well said
Spend time by yourself, and develop some life skills, and hobbies. Pamper yourself, and accomplish goals. All in all , make sure you are happy with your own company before you jump into a relationship.
Dr Jubbal you need to address this midlevel NP independent practice and scope creep issue. The AANA has changed it's name from Nurse Anesthetist to Nurse Anesthesiologist. What's next? Nurse Surgeon Physician? The title doctor is already gone. Get an online DNP thingy, call that a phd and boom, doctor nurse.
Nobody with a large platform is talking about this. Everyone needs to be aware of this.
Clearly, you have never taken the time to speak with and meet an actual DNP or DNP student. We are not physicians were are Advanced Practice NURSES. You’re welcome to message me if you’d like to chat. 🙂
First off doctor is not special to physician, anyone with a doctoral degree is a doctor. I do agree these online programs are not adequate. CRNA However should be nurse anesthesiologist, they have doctorate degrees and just like physicians they study anesthesia, the confusion is kept a minimum by the NURSE anesthesiologist . The “ologist” is also not special to physicians. I’m not a nurse, so I’m not biased towards them, I believe in some specialties the creep is real and very much a concern. However physicians are acting way more entitled to titles and names than should be available to more.
Your arrogance screams loud. First, you come to his channel making a demand ("you need to address") over something you are clearly very pressed about. NP online programs exist, but they are rare and are generally restricted to certain specialties, such as psychiatric mental health. Online nursing programs are more common at the entry level into nursing, not advanced level. Since you seem to have so much time on your hands to be triggered by NPs and petty over titles, try using some of that time to actually research NP programs/education. Google is your friend. Arrogant individuals like you are so obsessed with this false narrative that NPs and PAs want to be physicians, it clearly keeps you up at night. After all, you came to a video about dating screaming about the role and scope of an NP lol. Go have a Snickers and several seats.
And please keep NPs and PAs as SEPARATE. Our training is drastically different. PA education is solid hardcore medicine. There is absolutely no chance for a PA student to not be a full-time PA student. We do not want to be lumped to the other midlevels that can be training strictly online/ have no prior work experience/ coursework consist of Essays.
Your such a good role model thank you for your videos
Im in my first year of a 7 year bs/md, and have Crohn's too. Just left a 2 year relationship and you just made me realize that it would have been hella fun if I brought my ex for my infusions every 6 weeks. Damn now its too late.
Awesome video as usual Dr. Jubbal 🙌🏾
Glad you enjoyed it!
Hello please can you make a video on what or paths in gastroenterologist. Thanks. Big fan of your content from Nigeria 🇳🇬 ❤️
I really enjoy watching your videos and seeing your advice. You are truly an inspiration. Unfortunately, I will never be as smart and successful as you are. I’ve already tried to get into medical school multiple times and have failed every single time. As far as I am concerned, I am a failure
Seems like med students just want a preview of the residency match-making algorithm
You just do it right with these videos
In agree with this content Dr. Jubbal we have to fix ourselves 1st. This is so true. How you gon win if you ain't right within?
Great video!
You should also feature LGBT doctors too, so we can get information from them as well.
I met my partner on Tinder, someone who is totally unrelated to Medicine (he is a chef) and it is one of the best decisions I have taken in life.
Good idea
Congratulations ❤
@@thesolopreneur77 Thank you 😁
Yes! Good idea! I’m dating someone in the medical field and it’s been a learning experience so far.
Hey Dr.J can u make a video on how students from developing countries can apply to med school and what they have to do to be successful surgeons in the US
Although looks can be the reason for the initial approach Looks don't matter when it comes to sustaining the relationship. I think working on yourself and being financially and mentally independent is also attractive.. and can be even more attractive than your looks.
Another interesting thing is that you have to have a good relationship with yourself to have a better relationship with someone else.
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Excellent. I say this frequently. 🥰
It’s solid fact that women are 100x more interested in you when you actually begin seeing someone. The ways of universe haha
taking notes. shall make anki flashcards.
Big Brother Jubbal MD
Im confused did he say he ended the relationship he started med school with at the end of his med school career? And then started dating someone new after?
That must be so hard 🥺
As a past plastic surgery resident, how do you feel about confidence related to getting enhancements through surgeries like breast augmentations or rhinoplasties?
Just commenting for the algorithm 🧡
Hey Kevin what's up man..I am a premed student applying this upcoming cycle. I m goin back home on a winter vacation this year, I notice you refer book alot on your channel and med school insider channel. if there's one book you have to recommend for a students to read what would it be? It doesn't have to be medical related.
My two recommendation books are " gifted hands by ben carson" and "brain on fire by Susannah cahalan." Thanks bro
Dr Jubbal is a former PUA, i swear to god
Muchas gracias wuen video
studyin to get into med school alone left me single
ps:
*i got into medschool and in my 2nd year*
You are amazing
Love aka a shared hallucination between 2 individuals. Acquire wealth instead
Why not both
do you ever fear that someone is only dating you for money or prestige instead of who you are?
Many people and I myself have Gamma type of personality.
I hope the girls in my med class look good cause im open to a lil wifey
Is it experiencial learning when its my closest friend who went through it all and i was there at the sidelines munching on popcorn and taking mental notes on what not to do? Learn from others mistakes..that sort of thing 🤷♀️ Like I am pretty sure I don't need a relationship to experience all the drama that comes with one. Medschool keeps me busy enough 😂😂
But how am I going to fix my problems if I don't even know what they are?
Why did u stop using Instagram ?
My ex is an internal medicine doctor and I met him online. We had fun and enjoyed each other but the age gap made it a little different
Why? What happened between you two? How was it?
@@isabellalora6533 it was good . we still talk and hang out but he has a few personal issue
@@isabellalora6533 he is 20 years older than me im 7 years older than his child
@@therealsouthernbelles what personal issues did he have? Mmm...
Hi 😊
Do you think I should date someone from my own class in medical school? I’m worried about gossip and rumors.
I think that's a minor concern in the grand scheme of things. Just have integrity
Ok...time to pursue a doctor lol...jk
But I am curious, what is the likeliness of someone in med school dating someone who may not be as smart as them? I believe I am relatively smart, academically, but I feel that I could be out of someone's league simply because of that factor (may be why I got rejected) :'(
An Australian guy who 7 years old from Shanghai in China immigrated to Australia. He was born 1985 and English is his first language. he is good guy no smoke no wine, respect people, women and love family. He dreamy seeking of an Eastern Europe single doctor girl or single medic student girl to marriage. If single doctor or medic girl like talk to this guy, please use English only. This guy living in Melbourne.
Hello
Hmmm
It's not a zero sum game if you're poly!
Nasty
I wish the upsides outweighed the downsides... lol
I'm one day late:(
No thanks I'm a lone wolf.
Anyone else here hate tinder?
Stay single until you get the M.D. 😤
I want to date you
I’m sure he gets that often. 😂
We no longer look for relationship experts for relationship advice.. we look for people who learn about human anatomy for relationship advice.. 😂 finest use of medical certification.. 😭
So you want to be Physiotherapist
Is 33 young 😂😂😂
I feel like you hate dentists 😭
Why
@@kevinjubbalmd you don’t have any dental content on your channel and there really aren’t any CZcams channels for dentistry
Asiz ansari forced a girl’s hand down his pants or some creepy shit I’ll get dating advice elsewhere
That's haram lol
BIDEN 2020 !! IT is election day ! vote vote vote BLUE !
what dating apps do you recommend?
I don’t love any of them.
its frustrating because im a software engineer dating a 1st year med student and i want to travel and have fun in my twenties but hes busy studying all the time T_T
Sounds about right 🤷♂️