Getting To Know Him On A Deeper Level - Gdansk
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- čas přidán 23. 08. 2024
- We had a lovely daytrip to Gdansk and to see the Malbork Castle.
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MJ it always happened, the separation anxiety but you have to accept the reality of a long distance relationship, enjoy while you two are making good memories together.❤️❤️❤️
I love your level of maturity in this relationship. You seem to be taking it one day at a time, enjoying your time together but realizing the challenges involved with taking it to the next level. In real time, you’ve spent the equivalent of maybe three months together. You still have a lot to learn about each other. Wishing you two the best!
NOSTALGIA always comes before parting:
Read “IF” by Rudyard Kipling … and you will be so proud of your accomplishments. Think of your growth as a person.
Some questions: Did you offer help in some household chores there? Did you do your part of offering expenses?
He is not ready yet… it’s new relationship… a must know each other first in long term… it looks like he is thinking. What is nice …he invited you back to his birth place to know his families and cultures. That is a very precious moment to remember. While you were there you should have also contribute your share of responsibility. Not just being a guest and gf… in my opinion. So that … him and his Mom can get to know you more in short time you were there. Good luck … best wishes🍀🙏👍✌️🤞I do not think he will stay in the Philippines for long term. Poland is so clean vibrant full of history… weather wise he used to it … he will not take tropical climate 24/7 all year round… in my opinion as well🍀🙏✌️🤞👍
MJ is ready to settled down, but how about u Mr Poland?😅
Thanks Mj, for sharing some of your experiences from this trip. As an American, the views of this European country and culture have been a different experience for me too.
I've observed that your Polish language has been developing well. When the desire is there, it comes easier in any language I think. Your command of the English language has been growing too, over time.
Gdansk did seem to have unique vibe, as you said, with all the beautiful boats and waterways and old world architecture.
I love you in that elegant sweater--a souvenir from Krakov! I'm glad that you and Robbie had a wonderful time together.
I don't think Robbie likes you A LOT. He might like you but not A LOT. If you know what I mean. I also dated a foreign guy, now married to him, and we were doing LDR as well and so everytime I visit him or he visits me we always maxed out the days in our tourist visas. He works too so I just stayed home waiting for him, stroll around. The important thing is he sees me when he gets home from work and we spend more time. Good thing I'm also working remotely so it worked out really well for us. I also never got the feeling of guilt from him whenever I get separation anxiety. I cried a lot in the airport too even days before that as well but never got the negative feeling of guilt or him making me feel bad about being emotional. He actually likes it cause it meant I really love him and enjoyed our time together.
I don't know Meljean. Robbie doesn't look too in love with you. I tried letting my husband look at your vlogs as well and he said Robbie's a little too nonchalant borderline towards not caring. He pointed out how he doesn't cater to your slight needs like when you say you're cold or when you alluded to wanting to move there. It's hard to explain but don't rush it. Also, starting over again is okay. I stayed single for 2 years and focused on the Lord before I met my husband. I knew he was the one because everything just falls into place without us putting too much effort. It just works, really. There was a lot of peace. I was treated like a queen lol. Super gentleman in actions and in words. Man of God too. Anyway, praying for you!
Make space for your THE ONE. If you get too distracted with this relationship, you will not make space for that guy who will truly love you. Do not drag this out too much and letting this relationship drag even longer for more years. This dude is not IN LOVE with you. The most masculine guy will still be cuddly and sweet with his woman if he truly loves him.
To add, work on yourself as well MJ. Not a bash but I think you know you're too maarte for your own good. White guys like simple girls. Girls who are not materialistic too. They like it when you're matured. Stable emotionally. Basically they want peace in life. If the girl is too maarte, acting classy/princessy, not helping with chores, full of drama, then I guarantee you they will not put a ring on you. For now, I think that you're still too maarte. Sometimes a bit too pretentious too acting classy when you're from a poor family. I would say stay humble. You might get offended with this comment but it's for your own good. You will soon realize that this is for your best interest. Stay grounded and simple. God bless.
Thank u for sharing the beauty of Poland.It’s indeed one of the best countries in Europe
Wow, did you see the way his eyes went up when she said she wants to move there, it seems he’s not that into it. MJ be you and travel, stop looking to this man for approval. ,
@@praisenmotionoutreach.mini421 yes his body language is not so good, even in their daily lives, he’s more like measured.
I don’t know . There’s some kind of awkwardness when they talk to each other . She keeps calling him Honey and he’s feeling very uneasy . Very different people . He’s just being hospitable . Better not put your hopes too high .
FYI Robbie call her honey too but in moderation
man are less talkative isn't it
I personally don't believe anything in this, Robbie is very cold towards everything and sees her as a guest to return the hospitality she gave him in the Philippines
Robbie is so nonchalant and he taking care of her but it’s obvious that he is not really into her when they roaming around there’s no holding hands and robbie is not sweet at all like he easily get upset if she said something. He just let her walk around and he was just following all the time in distance. Mj is so obvious she’s inlove with robbie but there’s something wrong with robbie. I just hope he is really into her.
@@janecammayo5301 It would be awkward for men to be too idk romantic in way of speaking/describing?
Yes but i did not hear Robbie calling her honey also
MJ talks about her separation anxiety as if it's something new to her. She wants LDR and am sure she knows how her life will be, unless she looks for her local PH guys and forget the foreigners maybe she'll live happily ever after but she always said she's clingy which is also her problem. Only MJ could solve her wants/needs.
@@sharonchoo-hum1714 Yeah, most men Filipino or foreigner don't find clingy women attractive or wife material.
@@terpen7375 I strongly feel when she starts to whine and complain, one thing comes to mind "looking for attention" like when she starts with the baby talk, annoying
Be brave..Tell him you will miss him, but empower him to make the next step. ( just by being Mel Jean.).a special soul !!!!
Please dont cry. It will let him down.
Dont be childish.
No way be sad..let him see how glad and thankful you are having him in your life.
Everything will become okay.
God bless you.
Such a nice place Ms MJ.. enjoy your time with Robbie.. thank you for sharing the beautiful Place Poland ❤❤
Worries of tomorrow,
take away from the happiness today.
Always , well said .
1. Dont rush this relationship, take it at your own comfortable pace.
2. LDR means it will be tough at times but if it is meant to succeed then it will.
3. You both have to be realistic in that one or both of you will have to move. Can you work anywhere? Can he work anywhere? Be realistic and fair to eachother.
4. Enjoy life!
All things are temporary..
Enjoy the rest of your time with Robbie, MJ ❤
in life you choose a path, you cannot be in 2 places at the same time.
At her age of 30 didnt matured still oa in relationship
Blah,blah,blah@@dadacasper3609
Ohh my Goodness OA?don't say like that you maybe you are the OA I think ...,hahhaahhaa
@@dadacasper3609be sensitive … in times of woe!
Well said.
In my experience, seperation anxiety when you are about to leave your LDR partner just makes thinks bad and robs away from the now and the joy in what you have now. One day at a time. Get to know each other more and I say plan your next trip/meet up together. As you have said, you never know tomorrow brings. So enjoy it while you are there. Leave with good memories. Have something to look forward to again. I wish you and Robbie the best in the future!
MJ, don't worry too much, enjoy while u a there with Robbie......
The beauty of Poland, never cease to amaze you 💕
Been to Gdańsk many years ago. It was one of the stops of our Scandinavian cruise. Poland has many beautiful sites. Thanks for showing us those that grandma has not been to. Like their amber stones. I also collect magnets of places we’ve traveled to. Careful with alcohol (can cause liver damage). Love the beautiful flowers in the garden. Hope you had offered to cook or do some of the chores at Robbie’s place. I would feel uncomfortable not helping or just allowing my host to do most of the chores. If the mom is around, she is observing you whether you are masipag or not. In our country, we have help that make life easier for us. Hope your relationship has a happy ending. 🙏🙏🙏
MJ I know you said the food is great but I see the expression on your face when you tried that 3 day dish. It cracks me up😂.
But brownie points to you for going without rice for that long.
On a different subject, I'm not sure if that beautiful message at the end was a way of saying you guys broke up or just sadness because of immigration issues.
Either way, let me just say you're a very pretty, smart girl with a successful channel and many viewers who adore you.
Just some advice and observations. You don't have to take the advice.
Concentrate on growing your channel. You're good at putting out great content that everyone is interested in. The more you grow the better for you.
If a guy happens to come along, great. But let him work for your hand and be up front with him in the beginning if you like him. If you're not on the same page about your future, say sayonara.
Also try not to date subscribers. If you find someone maybe you should keep him under wraps. We don't need to know him. Your channel is still great.
With Robbie he probably is scared with all the marriage and baby comments.
And the nosy ones about his job and his house. It's an Airbnb guys😂.
You're a pretty put together young lady, you'll be fine. ❤ Take care.
Nice! Inspirational, encouraging words
Are you serious...he is proving repeatedly that he's a self centered person who constantly trolls you...and you are obviously trying waaaaay to hard to pretend there is more there.
"I love how he takes care of me"...honestly... he's feeding you cuz your his guest!! OMG
exactly😊
Robi is still apprehensive and seem not so sure about you..rarely sweet and responsive to your emotions in convo
This vlog is the BEST in terms of discussion in the diversity of opinions. No bashings, just different POVs. There’s a lot of lessons to be learned but I always say this … KNOW THYSELF … the rest will follow!
@@deetl True. Everyone seems to be looking at this from Robbie’s point of view-whether he wants to be with her long term. But this is also about her exploring whether she wants to be with him. Both are testing each other out at this point in the relationship.
@@newsy4261 finally, we all have sentiments for MJ and we are just viewers in their lives. We are sad when she is sad, we are happy when she is happy. One thing I noticed after reading the comments … we treat MJ as our beloved youngest sister, all concerns are for her. She is vulnerable and disadvantaged, we pity her. Overall, WE LOVE HER, as she is! Now, I’m emotional!
@@deetl Yes. However, I think some of the younger viewers are suffering from Cinderella syndrome. From what we see in the few minutes of the vlog, he does seem to be a good catch, but MJ knows far more about him than we do. I hope she doesn't forget that she is a great catch too. From what I can tell, he would be lucky to have her.
@@newsy4261we have the same sentiments … she is a good catch. She is smart, intelligent, caring, lovable, articulate, classy, flexible, persistent, patient and beautiful. She can walk with kings and huddle with masses effectively and graciously.
@@deetl she's a very strong woman and hoping she can do it.
Parang walang love affection si Robbie kay Mj. 😢
Mukhang di mo napanood mga last videos nila they were so sweet ngayon lang iyan dahil umatake anxiety ni MJ so Robbie might pissed off.
Hi Mj & Robie. Always excited to see your blog. Just enjoy your remaining time together.
When they were eating breakfast it seems so awkward …..
😔😔 Oh Dear MJ!! I can only imagine the sadness you are feeling. However, you have to remain positive ALWAYS. Remember… we shape our own moods. Rather than think of it as “I’m leaving” think of it as “I’m leaving with a loving smile after spending a few good days with the love of my life”. All for you 2 to do it again ☺️ it adds excitement to the relationship . We have to accept situations as it is. Just until either of you are able to make a distant change ❤you don’t want to run Robbie away. You 2 are perfect for each other. You have mature a little love!!! Make Plans for future trips right away so it will give you both something to look forward to. It’s like looking at the glass Half Full… rather than Half Empty. Balance yourself MJ ❤❤❤😌
From what I observe watching all your vids with Robbie in Poland. You guys are compatible in some ways, and because of age and level of maturity, love is just not enough. You are a princess, and Robbie is a builder, farmer, organizer etc, Robbie is a busy person, whilst MJ loves chilling, driving, eating out, roaming in cities, helping her community with foods and monetary. She and that Singaporean rich guy probably have compatibility when it comes to classy outlook which MJ portrays. Robbie, with his age, i think he realizes that his most priority is his family, second is Timmot and last is MJ.. both spent 15days together and Robbie showed his life with MJ. Now MJ you should be the one adjusting when you come to Poland again. You should help him in building, cut those fancy nails and go farming with him, cleaning and cooking foods. MJ should show and let Robbie’s family eat Filipino foods that you cook..
yeah, indeed
@@cezrola I agree…except that’s not who MJ is 😅
@@milanice5730 that says it all. Maybe it just wasn't meant to be.
@@terpen7375 Am just hoping she can overcome her anxiety and fears and her spirits uplifted by friends and family 🙏🏽
I agree with you... to me Robbie is a very homely person, hardworking and love to do his own thing. He is a very useful person around the house and cares much for the family. He loves his home in Poland. If you can adapt to his kind of life and the food they eat then go all out with the relationship. The decision is yours to make.
Robbie is assessing and reassessing whether or not her personality and preferences will fit into his lifestyle and goals.
This is what aged men do. Sometimes when they are okay being single, they will ghost the lady or just tell reasons in order to break the relationship 🥲
Hopefully she is assessing and reassessing too. He shouldn’t have the only say on whether they fit together.
Why is it always Robby being judged of being cold, etc. How about MJ too? Had she shown sweetness, affection towards Robby? European men mostly are not showy with their feeling but if you show them sweetness, they reciprocate. It needs 2 to tango.
Don't do the sulking just because you are not in good mood and not talking for 6 hours and ruin the day. You are getting to know each other and that will not reflect good on you.
@@lillianokeefe1689 this is he best response, and I believe you are correct! This is exactly how I am seeing their situation playing out.
M.J don`t worry to much magkikita pa naman kayo ulit, pero wag mo pakita sa kanya nga bad mood ka, kasi ayaw mga European ang ganyan lalo na pag hindi mo sila kausapin nga walang dahilan, Try mo maging masaya kahit paalis kana. Good luck to both of you God bless.
Absolutely right, I hate it.
Tama asawa ko American kahit sila ayaw din ng ganun.
Foreigners doesn’t like too much drama
@@aishalouguinocor1441 Yes saka gosto nila pag nasa bahay ka nila tutulong karin kahit anong gawain para magostohan ka ng magulang or kamag anak, kasi laking Europe ako kaya alam ko kong ano ugali nila, kaya sorry sa tagalog ko.
When my husband & I were still knowing each other & I did the back & forth looong flight every three months, few days before departure so many crying moments , when love is there just don’t pretend nor hide your feelings
MJ please dont let your seperation anxiety drive Robbie far from you. If you are secure in your love you should not be having any anxiety at all. All will happen in the right time.
Yea if she keep going like that she cannot find same as robbie again
Agreed if you feel secure, you shd no feel anxiety
That's her issue, her anxiety comes from her insecurity most of the time because she's not matured enough to deal with the situation
Take action If you are serious about each other, Otherwise, you (both) have to live with those negative thoughts. Just my humble opinion. At the end of the day, i believed they know where they stand.
I tell you guys I have anxiety problem like MJ it’s not easy and uncontrollable so don’t make a issue about her having it.
I can say ice cream really plays agreat role when it comes to moods Mj😊. Mood changer that is. Well, that is normal, I myself experience that too..mood swings, maybe. But I’m glad that mood swing didn’t last for long😂. At the beginning of the video you seem so sad, but that ice cream put back the smile in your face and eyes again. That is normal Ms Mj, that proves your authenticity and we, your fans, love you for that! Enjoy the remaining days left you are there with your sweetheart. Wish you all the happiness❤❤❤❤
well said, i just noticed it too MJ seems sad...MJ just enjoy your vacation
I smell something.. i hope its not what i think..i hope you two are in good shape.
I feel u MJ. I know the feeling of ldr, its very hard, u both have patience & trust in a relationship. U did your part well, u went there alone just to be with Robbie, so it's up to Robbie if he level up your relationship. Put a smile on your face, go back to your family & let God works on your relationship, just trust HIM. If u are meant to be, u are meant to be. Have a safe travel , MJ! 🙏 God bless 🙏
Thank you for sharing this part of your life. Take it easy, and be safe going back home.
For a Filipina to live in a small town in Poland is a muuuuch larger and more difficult step than for a Pinay to move to the US. Just think of language, culture and (in most cases) climate. There are not millions of Filipinos living in Poland. You're pretty much out there in the cold.
Secondly, MJ would have to sacrifice a looot to move to Poland. Not just a cosy life in the midst of her family (which would be hard enough). She also has built a beautiful home of her own which is pretty much at the center of her life. Besides, she would have to give up her vlogging-career which she built up diligently and with quite some success - which gives her independence and satifsaction. So far, her channel is of interest to Pinoys AND Non-Pinoys. That would certainly be no longer the case if she lived in Poland.
Winters are long in Poland and the language is difficult to learn. She would be socially uprooted and totally dependent. A very big, difficult and costly step, a step which, in my opinion, should only made after first having spent some winter months in Poland.
Most of Filipino's leave in small settlements.
I agree about her sacrificing a lot yes but I think that she could be in Poland at least part time, and re aim the vlog about her and Robbie in Poland and in Cebu when they go there. I’d hope she tries to maintain the vlog in any case ….
I absolutely agree with you in everything you stated in your summary.
MJ is very Filipino and Robbie very Polish. Both come across as genuinely sympathetic and really good people. But neither can I imagine MJ living in cold Poland, nor Robbie living in a Visayan barrio. And herein lies the dilemma (or maybe drama).
Robbie would be a perfect match in many ways: He is very down to earth, authentic and mature, qualities which MJ may still want to develope a bit.
Likewise, it seems that Robbie (unlike his predecessor) can see and appreciate the deeper qualities of MJ. The more authentic and mature she becomes, the more these qualities will manifest. She IS a beautiful woman, inside and out.
Having said that, MJ now comes across less OA and more authentic than before. After much hardship (break up, house building/repairing, father's health problems, separation) she definitely has matured. (In due time she will also get rid of antics like "Tada!" and "Beautiful People!"..) Also, her vlogging skills (story telling, camera, editing and sound) have improved. I wish her - actually them! - the best of luck!
Very well said, i noticed her being herself no sugar coating at all..Mj is Mj thats her style..i love her as she is but like you said she is more herself and i truely enjoyed her vlogs with Robbie❤❤
Love conquers everything.
Robbie soo handsome Mj its hard to part with this special Polish man
Separation Anxiety............so many of us have experienced this and can only let you know that we understand. LDR's especially those from such different cultures and distance have a difficult time surviving. There needs to be that close connection for love to grow and LDR's just can't provide that. The visuals on her channel regarding this relationship brings much to the table. Reality.........there is a connection, but not leaning towards a permanent connection.
MJ, remember the privilege of at least given a chance to travel and once again see Robbie and have a great experience and memories to look back...
Be grateful for that amazing opportunity to see more about the country were Robbie 's came from...
Cherished everything that
great moments...
Don' t imbibe negative thoughts or feelings...
Just enjoy every time of the day and stop the feelings of being anxious...
Just hold on...
If it's meant to be...
It will happen...
Again, in "God's" perfect timing...
Always keep focus on the bright, best side of life possible...
It's a matter of choice...
It's already to personal to pre-empt/meddle to whatever level
of relationships you & Robbie have...
You and Robbie are the only one knows about
the kind of level your relationships you have...
Don't be too hard to Robbie...
if ever your not in the mood too share your feelings or what's
bothering you...
Of course, his wondering
too what might be the reason of sudden change
of your actions...
Be aware also of the feelings of that fellow too... Just saying...
LDR relationships are not that easy B'couz Alot of sacrifices for both parties...
But, if both of you are secured as individuals... No amount of hindrances
can ruined a stable relationships and a good mindset...
And if "God" is in the center of every relationship...
Nothing is impossible...
As to be Possible truthfully, Pure, Sincere...
Ciao! ❣️
Well said.
The dog is so cute...MJ , i am LDR too for 6 years... sometime you have wonder if it works and now i am married with my husband 33 years. Just trust the process and dont force anything. Pray to God that both of you will patients and consideration. That God will give you the eyes to see , the heart to believe. Without God in the middle of relationship it work. Keep on praying and ask God if Robbie is the man for you and He will let you know. God bless you and Robbie. Be safe coming back home.
😊 me also and my bf ldr for 3 yrs but we're good everyday talking and planning to get married na
Robbie don’t like the baby talk of Mj😂
Secret to getting over and coming to terms with separation, cry and cry with each other until you stop. Roll in the emotion of grief for a time then it's easier to deal with later, won't hurt so bad
My wife is one of ur subscribers she loves ur channel 😊but watching one of ur vlogs when you said I would love to live here I was so shocked on the expression of ur partners face I’m so sorry that I spoke up and said take care safe journey home 🙏🙏
Yes i notice that while iam watching
Gdańsk and Malbork Castle are beautiful and built on an epic scale.
This has been such a wonderful trip MJ, its only natural that you will miss Robby when you both return to an LDR but you will always have the memories to look back on and can continue to videocall eachother as often as your schedules allow. You managed before and you will again until a more long term solution happens.
Poland is such a beautiful country. I like wat I see. 👍🙏😍
Additionally, when you made a remark “oh I wanna move here” he didn’t respond with “ would you?” Big hint! Has he ever been married? How old is he? He may just want to have a friend… unfortunately I may be correct.
There is substance in your statement.
@@lindaquisenberry3689 maybe that’s a conversation he prefers to have privately or maybe they have already talked about it. Lots of possible reasons for his reaction, which I didn’t see as negative just noncommittal.
His silence and facial expression said it all, yes. I also sensed a bit of tension during that specific conversation and throughout the morning, his arms folded during the walk, nervous silence and short convo on the way home, and especially at home when he didn’t wait for her to sit down to eat (that was a first, I think), got up just as she was about to sit down, her sitting alone in her favorite swing. It’s like night and day from yesterday’s vlog 😢
@@milanice5730 what was that about?
@@milanice5730 now I feel like I need to watch the whole thing again.🤔
Omg please take care Robbie it’s difficult to find a really gentleman and respectful responsible and caring he has everything that a woman loves to have a partner in life he is a very family man congratulations and take care of him ❤
Robbie is a keeper. Not sure about her though.
Such an interesting place🎉
Well preserved majestic architecture!
Mj you were not having separation anxiety but PMS...... even Robbie knew it 😅
@dorisgarcia227. OMG too funny. MJ always acts the part when she's looking for attention and am sure Robbie is not into her behaving like a kid! Just saying
After almost a year together, I was surprise that marriage and starting a family was not mentioned. Your both in your thirties so time is a ticking.
Yes, though they were only together for a month in Cebu last year and 15-17 days this time at Robbie’s home and a few days to a week last year when she and Robbie met for the first time in Poland last year
I think Polish people are private and into present people. I mean they want to live their lives at this moment so being a vlogger for MJ to Ruby is a big adjustment including culture and beliefs. Cheer up MJ everything will be okay🤍♥️
You two love each other very much, don't worry about leaving poland 🇵🇱, you will be back together soon, remember love conquers all, May God bless your love ❤
If Robbie truly has intention of taking this relationship to higher level, he would know by now. If I were you, I would enjoy it while you’re with him but don’t harbor over whether he is going to propose marriage and when. Just live your life and enjoy every moment as an experience. God will lead you the way .
true. MJ must enjoy her vacation in Poland and don't take love seriously.
LDR, Mj you will learn day to day your strong person you can do it we know you're happy with Robbie we will wait the right day ring the bell and walked in the middle of the isle May God Blessed
Been there and Dili gyud lalim😢😢😢 sending hugs day❤️❤️❤️ pohon
You always look gorgeous, but when you wear a ponytail... WOW!
Touring Poland 🇵🇱 through M & R lens thank you ❤
I enjoy this vlog of yours MJ for sure❤️❤️
MJ I really understand your feeling, its being human in your feelings. Anybody that's been there will surely understand. Try keep it together for the last days, its difficult but try. Love your realness. Love you from Cape Town ❤❤
Piękna historia z dodatkiem egzotyki jaki wnośi MJ , niech ta opowieść trwa i niech zakończy się szczęśliwie bo tyle romantyzmu jaki wnosicie to nawet w najlepszych filmach nie uświadczysz .
You look great in a pony tail. That way you don't forget with it so much and then your hair doesn't look so oily. It's a bad habit especially to your audience. You're a beautiful lady but you can be annoying with your "TA DA" and hair figiting. Please enjoy your time with him and show me you care ❤️
That's funny - I was having the same thought. Love the pony tail and there was no distraction of MJ always messing with her hair on camera.
Important question MJ! Our neighbor's 19 year old daughter was struck by a vehicle yesterday while waiting for a multicab to her University in Cebu City. The driver was using his cell phone and not paying attention, he drifted off the roadway and hit her. She fractured her arm, cheek and nose. I'm going to pay her medical bills and would like the name of the reconstructive facial plastic surgeon that performed your rhinoplasty procedure, so I can confer with him/her regarding reconstructing her nose. Thank you in advance. My sincere appreciation.
i hope MJ have a time reading your comment.
@@gloriachumnikai9364 We shall see. She is not the best at responding to questions.
@@32505 Thank you!
Do not worry about tomorrow, let tomorrow worry for itself… each day has enough trouble of its own Mathew 6:34… Just pray everything happens for a reason… if you will be moody and you kept showing actions that he might not like or annoy him then Robbie might think you are a red flag… Of course who would want LDR but that’s the reality and you choose that from the start. So cheers and enjoy the warmth of hello and the sad of goodbyes …
Thank you for showing the beauty of Poland. I find it interesting how so many people are leaving negative comments about whether you could continue in a long distance relationship. As you said, you are only showing us small snippets of your days. I for one think that if the love and commitment is there, any relationship can work. Stay strong and you will make it thru.
Woww, that is beautiful and romantic story. Enjoy to the fullest. God bless you and Robie.
Maybe you can do a more historical vlog with dates and names to go along with the cities ?? That should occupy some of your thoughts and time traveled. Being homesick is normal.
I like that! Good idea!
I agree. For example, Frederic Chopin was born near Warsaw. Why not include some of his piano music in the background instead of Handel or Strauss?
In Gdansk, why no mention of Lech Walesa and Solidarity in 1989? That was right when Robbie was born. Poland would be a very different place today if that had not occurred.
Mj seems so sad after 17days vacay.Are you guys got engaged?Robbie is a way different compared before when he was in Cebu.Hope I was wrong,but I observed him not really into Mj now.
But we dont know what tmr brings for them.
Goodluck Mj and cheer up😊
it seems the girl is chasing the guy crazily, but the guy just tajr it easy .
you should have gone to sopot, so close from gdansk! ask robbie about it MJ....
You know you have separation anxiety, then don't go there anymore, or don't be in a ldr.
MJ is getting emotional agn.
I don’t know what is your style but I will not stay if the relationship is not sure.
Because she like foreigner she doesnt like pilipino
Then after that she will make complain for ldr but she choose other nationality
@@dadacasper3609 she prefer other nationality to date with than Filipino men which is her own race
@@dadacasper3609 she can’t find Filipino who is responsible like Robbie, he owns a house, maybe I’m just thinking, Robbie had a nice job, still at peak of his age. Robbie isn’t thinking about family only his family with mom and sister. I don’t know what kind of life they had there in Poland.
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Happy watching here again
Thank you MJ for sharing the Beautiful place there at Poland 🇵🇱 ❤
Watching 2020 movie Mulan. You are loyal, brave and true Meljean but you must not based your destiny on another, but in your self. Because others have their own life stories.
Very nice, positive about life and at the same time very sensible, and also trying to cheer her master up a bit.😄
Life is there, live it
I couldnt blame Robbie for frowning upon your being moody for hours.
You acknowledged it was bad of you MJ.
Such wasted time ☹️ 1:43
Yup. I used to break into my moody moments with some regularity when I was a lot younger. My boyfriend at the time that I cared so much about got tired of it and said it was part of the reason we drifted apart. Though we remained good friends until his death years later, the breakup was hard on me. But it did teach me to control what I called then my typical tampò moments because they’re not only hard on myself, but also on the people around me, especially my loved ones. That was one Filipino trait I was glad to remove from my life 😅
@@milanice5730 I'm sorry to hear about your ex bf.
Hopefully MJ will read this &
learn something while it's still early. Thanks mila
Sa linguahe natin. Dapat nga puro positivity ang papakita niya at kilos Lalo nasa iBang kampo siya. Makakadagdag din Yun mga points na Yun sa Ganda at personalidad niya. Walang masama dun.
Parang linalagay mo pinaka
Magaling na paa forward hehehe
@@timmy7636 This was some 60 or so years ago when I was just a neneng (young lass). Robbie said something about every two days. That’s definitely a sign that it may get to him, if not before, it is starting to now. MJ is smart. She’ll know what to do
That's normal that you feel that way MJ, your feelings are valid. What's important is you two are doing your best to visit each other even if it's miles miles away. Someday when everything fall into place, you two will be together and never leave each other again. 🤍
Does Robbie talks to you about planning of getting married? Or does he propose marriage to you already or not? Because maybe he has no plans of settling down and wants to be bachelor forever, and he just wants to have girlfriend like you and after that he will remain single for the rest of his life. I think you should open up to him about this topic so that you'll know his future plans and for you not to regret or feel hopeless waiting for his actions to marry you and start a family life together as husband and wife either you'll live both in Philippines or in Poland.
Very well said. Same feeling as you being a woman.
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I absolutely agree with u.. it's true 😊
No rush into marriage! Enjoy being single and the time will come ! Don’t force him into things that he is not comfortable with especially marriage! Enjoy each other company! It meant to be it meant to be !
That’s so not right to ask him about that ! It will be time when he is feels comfortable to talk about that ! Getting marriage is not a good solution for now ! Enjoy being single and each other company! No rush and make him feels comfortable! I know MJ that maybe u want to settle down with him soon ? It might not last that happiness for a while or it might not solve your what ever u are thinking that makes u happy! My sister and her boyfriend they dont want to get married because they afraid they will get divorced just like most of the married couple ! They don’t live together they have their own space each other ! They only see each once in a while that makes them stronger their relationship! Be patient no rush ! Time will come !!!!
Thank you for sharing and I wish you both all the best!God bless always and have a safe trip!
I hope that with your short stay in Poland with Robbie, you were able to discern whether both of you will make a happy marriage. From my own experience in my love life, the determination and great love of my late husband to get married made things possible and i am glad i had a beautiful and happy marriage to a man worth remembering for 58 years. Our marriage was just simple, he remained faithful to me and our six children. Di kami mayaman, very ordinary family and i glad i remained faithful to him even after death. Walang namagitan sa amin, sheer faithfulness for each other. I pray God will bless you with the same. Love you Robbie and MJ.
Ang ganda ng house ni Robie
Wow, congratulations MJ & Robbie! You now have 148 K viewers!🎉
Thank you for sharing to us the beauty of Poland❤enjoy and treasure the moment with him ❤God bless you😇
Does the bread dry out if left out?, or is it made in a way that it won’t dry out?, does it stay out all the time or just at a meal? Thank you…
Chleb po pisiłku wkłasamy do woreczka lub drewnianego chlebaka. Można go sspożywac do kilkudni. Nie wkładamy do lodówki.
Codziennie można kupić świeże pieczwo lub bułki.
MJ I can teach you everything, move to Gdańsk! 😊❤🎉
Just enjoy! Seize the moment! Life is too short! Ce la vie, your “time “ will come. If it’s meant it’s going to happen. I had a life that was nothing but frustration but I prayed and stayed strong, one day Prince Charming came and to make the long short . It was a bliss More than I have dreamt . Just be happy.
Ya your right Meljean you should know him more if you both compatible it really hard to say sorry when it's too late or if you really comfortable around him or if you just fair each other😮
From my observation it seems like Robbie is a more serious guy and on the other hand MJ is a more romantic, giggly, emotional person. That honey thing I don't know...lol. He can sound and act crude sometimes but maybe that's his personality. Maybe he is not ready to settle down yet since it's a big move and enjoys a more friendly, casual relationship for now. LDR is not easy we will have to wait and see. It will be very difficult when you leave and go back to living alone again especially after having so much fun together and you guys will be so far apart. It's all part of the game of love. Enjoy every moment whilst together. Love that little dog !
Beautiful music
I feel you mj i have been same situation but life goes on hehe
Robie is nice to you while you are there in Poland
Wouldn’t it be great if Robbie gave her a ring to lock the relationship. If it is as serious as it seems a commitment would be bad. Hope it works out for the best but that little talk is giving me doubts❤
a promise ring maybe?
Lovely couple and beautiful flowers.
MJ please ignore some of the comments here. However please try to control your emotions. You lost 6 precious hours that you cannot regain. Whenever you are with Robbie forget the world live love and laugh. For those that say Robbie is not affectionate give it no attention. He holds your hand he looks into your eyes with love i see how he loves and cares for you but he restricts how much he displays it publicly. If he wasn't serious about you he would never pushed for you to join him and his family. Men who are only interested in sex don't take you home to meet momma. Remember that. Be patient and trust God. 🙏🏼 for you and Robbie. ❤
I absolutely agree with you..MJ. just enjoy the moment with Robbie..best of luck to both u. If you're meant to be, you're meant to be. God bless u both 💖
Remember people, Robbie is a mature gentleman!! He definitely cares for MJ. He has more on his mind than sex. If that's all that's on your mind, you have a relationship that will fizzle out quickly.
@@darlenemorris9550 totally agree he's matured and for MJ she's 30 which should be more than matured but she still have lots to learn. I can see Robbie tries to teach her when he was in the PH especially taking care of things around the house. We all learn something each day
I feel like I’m watching a movie. Waiting for the next chapter. Best wishes to you both. 🎈🙏👍🌹
nababawasan ang love nya sa kakatampo mo.. he is observing your personality..focus on the happy side. dont expect marriage proposal yet. maybe thats why you are tampo all the time. Just Pray always.. Been there..❤❤❤
Enjoy while ur together my dear
Treat him nice , and dont let your separation anxiety get you. Don't worry about tomorrow . Trust God , it'll happen in God's timing . I've waited for 2 years and it's all worth it.
Ang lungkot n Ng aura Ng face mo M j khit pilitin mo mging msaya ramdam n UN lungkot s paghihiwalay nio ni robby😢
@@user-he2wc9ir5g I feel it! And she seems to be alone in that segment. A reflection? One last look at the site? MJ cannot hide her emotions. She can connect well to her viewers the message she wants to impart. I was touched and felt really sad for her.
@@deetl Hi, Dee. I finished watching the video finally. I’ll have to watch it again, as I am distracted right now by visitors at my home. It’s summertime/tourist season in Alaska. 😅 MJ did a wonderful job talking to us at the end of the video. Speaking extemporaneously, she was her articulate, intelligent self, though listening to her, I found myself thinking that she should seriously listen to her own words for all LDRs out there and heed them. I talked mostly about Robbie’s demeanor today because it was what she was calling the separation anxiety that caused her unhappiness in today’s video and which changed radically Robbie’s and her demeanor in front of the camera and the face of today’s video from yesterday’s. It seriously made me feel that Robbie might be reassessing their relationship whatever it might have been: a blossoming romance or, as one or two posters have pointed out here, a close friendship in the making. There’s no doubt they care for each other, but I don’t get the serious vibe of commitment from Robbie, which I think MJ is needing, especially today. Hence, the distress and unease MJ was experiencing. I don’t know. We don’t know for sure. It’s possible he and MJ don’t know. It’s not always black and white. We can agree that they’re wonderful, caring, compassionate human beings. May God bless them both and guide and protect them 🙏🏽🩵🙏🏽
I know n feeling ate Mj❤ pero ur bless pa din Po kc nkasma mo c Robbie at nkapnta k s knla at nkilala u family nya. Robbie is Good Guy, Sna kau Hanggang s huli. God is Good 🙏🙏🙏
If you think his sweet, caring,loving,thoughtful that you are looking for yes he is very hard working, independent, responsible, I know it can't be perfect but your feelings if you are sure he is the one😊