I just got out of a relationship with a guy who was less successful than I, but I initially fell in love with him for his kindness and caring attitude. He initially loved how driven and motivated I am, but over time I started to feel a change. It’s like he was jealous of all of my results, although he was seeing all the hard work I was putting in. Where as he always had excuses for why things aren’t working out for him and actually called himself a “victim of his circumstance”. This person had no ambition, and wasn’t going anywhere, but hated me for what I was doing with my life. So that ended… :(
"Don’t ever let someone tell you that you can’t do something. Not even me. You got a dream, you gotta protect it. When people can’t do something themselves, they’re gonna tell you that you can’t do it. You want something go get it. Period." - Will Smith
There's a lot of truth in this channel. I earned my status as "rich." I have a big passion for trying to educate other people on how to become rich. I used to be frustrated that people didn't listen to me or reviled me for having wealth. Instead of complaining or doing the same old thing, I modified my behavior. Now I only impart the wisdom of my experience to those willing to listen. What's wild to me is that people think that getting rich is some well-kept secret. It's not. It's the most open secret in the world that wealthy people WANT to share. But it is people's minds that trap them. Living a lie that "wealth is impossible unless you're a trust fund baby" is more comforting than the truth--the truth that anyone can become wealthy. Take a look at lottery winners. How many of them kept their wealth or built it? Only about 30%. The other 70% went broke after winning millions. It's strong evidence that building and retaining wealth has far more to do with character, discipline, and choices.
Like honestly, the biggest "secret" is getting comfortable with being uncomfortable. Everyone can do it. Everyone has the ability to do it. But so many refuse to.
I used to be a Leftist/Socialist and was always miserable. I blamed the rich for everything that wasn't going well in my life. But then I realized that the people I associated with were always in a bad mood and they just dragged me down. And to pull myself out of poverty, I needed to take matters into my own hands and not wait for the government to "save" me and I also needed to stop looking at success as "selling-out." This is why many Leftists stay poor and angry. Honestly... Who cares if the game is "rigged"? Learn to play the game and become those who benefit from the system. Capitalists are much happier and I still have big dreams so I pursued them. Leaving that Leftist mindset was the best thing I've done in a while and now I'm the happiest I've ever been.
Often when you understand the psychology of a hater, you'll realize that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. The hater is confused, insecure and actually hates themselves; and is just looking for someone else to unload the heavy load they are carrying, so they can feel better. That's pretty sad.
F off with this bs. It;s one thing to postironically watch this vid, it's the whole other thing to make commenta that actually support the it's-all-in-your-head postmodernist bs.
I was living in a 3rd world country with a meager salary several years ago when I started watching your videos. Many of my colleagues and friends laughed at me whenever I say I have big dreams and ambitions for my future (like living in a progressive and innovative country) and always working hard and overtime. My family even told me to just stop and give up. I treated your top 15s as goals and standards on how to be a better version of myself. Fast forward today, I'm now in Canada and in a better-paying career. I still have a long ways to go and am in the works of starting my own business but you've helped me a lot to advance and climb to a new level. There are still lots of things to learn and no time yet to rest on laurels as there are new bosses and obstacles to overcome. But I plan to conquer them all! Looking forward to a better life and future ahead! Thanks, Alux!
This video really hits home for me. I have worked decades to be successful. I have sacrificed and took some really big risks. My close group of friends and associates know this. My success has caused me to lose many, but not all, of my friends. It’s disheartening to see my old friends hate on me because I made my success but were they really friends to begin with? Losing many friends has taught me to cherish my family. I am just happy and thankful for everything that I have. Now I only associate with people that have positive energy . Plan your work and work your plan! Thanks for the content, Alux
Well done James. Those 'friends' were never that, because if they were they would have celebrated it and even been part of your success - and not been envious.
I visited my family yesterday after years of working on myself, and as much as I enjoyed being around them, I hated that the conversation was the same. No one talking about business, everyone eating the wrong foods. I didn’t want to judge but I understand patterns. I will not settle. I will break generational curses. I am willing to learn what it takes. Thank you Alux for getting me on the right track🍀 I’m so focused on the long term, I just hope I’m a role model for the next generation.
So glad I’m reading this comment. Recently, ive been kinda turned off by the idea of being around family and that has never happened before. I think cause I’m actually looking forward to bettering myself and financial situation and being around them is not stimulating me in the areas I want growth in, in any shape or form. It sucks that that’s a feeling and a thought cause I feel guilty of that abut at the same time, I can’t shake it. Reading this comment basically made me feel like im not the only one.
@@alexanderjakubowski5673 a bit of advice, don't judge someone until you know their story. Maybe your family is awesome and supports you and you're ultra successful already. Though the first indicator of that would be that you're happy and encouraging and that would be contrary to the content of your post. Speaking for myself, I was raised in an abusive family, in a small farm town, existing on the border between lower middle class and poor. I had to make a difficult choice to stay away from my family and work on myself. I can tell you what is left of my family doesn't understand what I'm doing, the rest are dead, mostly substance abuse and suicide. There is no "I'm better than them" included, it's about "I made different choices than them" and I lament I can't help them see or choose this other path. In the OP's post they say, "I just hope I'm a role model for the next generation..." I read that as setting an example of a path to follow that doesn't lead to ruin. Unless you've grown up in a toxic environment designed to destroy you, you couldn't possibly understand so maybe back off a bit. You would have done yourself a service by asking for clarification, not being a condescending ass about it. Some families you can't have a relationship with even if you want to, they'll destroy you! I'm inclined to believe this is what @Gabriella & Company meant, they see a better less painful path and the family doesn't want anything to do with it.
This is so true. I’m sadly dealing with this problem in my day to day life. Not sure if it’s luck or the fact I work hard to achieve my goals but no one is ever happy for me. Colleagues of course! But friends family? No they just tell me “you’re bragging” “ you’re an elitist” “you think you’re better than everyone else” It’s sad to say but at this point I DESPISE average lazy people who do nothing with their lives. You’re alive ONCE why would you do nothing about that? Why wouldn’t you want to achieve great things! Or at the very least do your best!
WE ARE THE SAME. The irony is the more they try to shame me by calling me elitist the more elitist I actually become because i see them for what they are…parasites. Who ultimately want to gain the most by doing the least. To have the glory while taking 0 risk
I think one of the many reasons why average people hate the success of others is because they judge them through their own values and not even consider what the other person values or is thinking. A personal example for me, I achieved a pretty high grade in a piece of coursework, but I still wanted to do better and wanted to go further. They gave a slide showing all the grades below the one I had achieved and what grades people need to get to get the highest overall grade. I then asked the question "what about the grades for those who achieved a first why is that missing?" After this class a friend told me that apparently I got some of the dirtiest looks from people all over the classroom, and even a guy who people called "really friendly" pulled a scoffed a disgusted face at me. When I asked why they told me that because it came across as cocky and that it was essentially bragging about my high grade. I then explained to them why I asked that question (because I want to achieve better results) and said what others were thinking was not the case and my motivations to be the best version possible even if I achieve "excellent results" I don't think they understood either and to be honest I did get a little defensive and did say "if they can't understand that then f**k em" which probably didn't help my case. But I know they were judging me because they were probably thinking of those who didn't do as well as I did and me asking that question was me rubbing my "cleverness" or whatever you want to call it in their faces when in fact I was never thinking that and if any one of them came up to me and asked if I could help them do better I would do my absolute best to help them.
It's very hard to step out of average, when you do not know your value. Mindset is the engine, that moves the body. Show someone thier worth, and life starts to look very promising. Here is where the great teachers are needed.
“Why do you think average people hate the success of others?” Because it highlights so much within themselves. Wasted time, fear, poor choices and laziness to name a few.
The laziness! Omg the laziness it disgusts me. I run a small team of devs and made the horrific mistake of allowing “friends & family” to do easy supplemental work. They’ve been nothing but an embarrassment. The other team members are smart work hard and love learning vs my “dear” friends and family who have me as a great recourse to teach them everything they need to know (many asked me to teach them) as soon as it gets down time to learn oh they become angry or radio silent. And still here’s the FUNNIEST part. They want a full revenue share. Isn’t that hilarious?! For doing NOTHING. It’s insulting and infuriating and to watch them do nothing with their lives expect money for doing nothing while simultaneously calling me nonstop while im working to discuss “boyfriend and coworker problems” I don’t get it?!!
@@nicolette1598 one word: denial. everyone has a surface layer of lies that they tell themselves to make up for their failures and insecurities, the human brain does not perceive things logically, it perceives things as 1's and 0's. 1 for pleasure point and 0 for pain points. why do people play video games or go on social media for 10 hours a day? because it releases a overwhelming amount of pleasure points. logically they KNOW this isn't going to get them where they want in life but the brain doesn't perceive things in a rational context. the only thing your brain cares about is AVOIDING PAIN AT ALL COSTS. so it will do whatever it can to go after the most amount of pleasure points even if it completely destroys their life. for example, if getting drunk and partying is equivalent to about 100 pleasure points and doing menial tasks is about 50 pain points, no matter how much willpower they have, they wont be able to resist being lazy. this system was designed back when we were caveman where it could be used to motivate us to go hunting and stuff but during the modern age when out brain is constantly overflowing with dopamine, it completely backfires.
@@williamwoolf8072 I agree with that but some of us have self control and will power. Something I’ve noticed with people who have such rudimentary behavior traits, is that their parents taught them it’s okay to be average and to seek basic stability, as well as telling them either not to try too hard as certain careers are not attainable, or Poo pooing on people who do do well calling them “prideful” etc. I mean, if your own parents are telling you to only seek a basic life because you’ll always have them…I truly believe it creates this toxic mindset and they never learn how to push themselves. In a nutshell, the parents who tell their children they did a a great job on subpar work, extra curriculars etc. Vs the way I grew up was nothing was ever good enough lol, so I have an insane amount of self awareness and the ability to look at myself and own work and say “No that needs to be better and it needs to be fixed now”, as well as an urgency to the fact life doesn’t last forever and it’s important to do what you can with the time you have. So yes you’re technically correct, however luckily many of us are actually evolved to do the opposite.
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The main reason which average people hate the successful people is given the fact that average people are where they were decades ago whereas successful people are always going forward people with the focus on realizing their ambitions.
This is why I love this channel!!!! You always say the truth , and is so real I love you guys so much been a long time follower of this channel1. I personally think people hate because they either don't see what they can do or they know they can do so much more or even not so much more but they know they can be better so instead of going within to figure it out they just look at others success and immediate response is to put them down, its low-self-esteem and self worth and being scared as well. When one of my residents at my job (I'm a concierge at luxury apartments) said to me about billionaires no one should have that much money that's disgusting, I ignored it. I had to because I didn't want to take that internally, why should I ? I'm tired of hiding how I feel about my life path. Why should I lower my desires and dreams to fit in with a bunch or norms? When in reality I had to take a step back and realize its only an opinion at the end of the day I'm still going to go through going to school and go to med-school and become an orthopedic surgeon. I'm 35 years old and I worked as wardrobe stylist and fashion model. I know I'm destined for greatness so I'm choosing to ignore the rest and I will not allow anyone to tell me I should be ashamed if I become a billionaire. please excuse my French but Fuck that!! Everyone has the same opportunity to become wealthy and I like very nice things and I work for what I have I will not allow anyone to make me feel bad for anything I worked for or even anything gifted to me. If I like it I buy it plain and simple. No one has the right to tell another human they should be ashamed of working hard to have what they have! I don't praise Elon, Jeff, Kylie and the rest but I totally admire them and how they work. All this makes me all the more grateful for everything I have and ever will have. Which I also feel is lacking with people with that degrading mentality. Sorry for my rambling on!
As someone who has found success I can honestly say everyone does not have equal opportunity. I grew up in a moderately wealthy family and went to the best schools in the United States. Most people do not have that option or an option even close. I got to travel a decent portion of the world, not to mention was able to move to California at an early age giving me a sea of opportunities people in Chicago could only dream of. Location, and wealth is definitely a factor in success. So I’m sorry you’re wrong not everyone can be successful. There are the lucky few that can but imagine being poor and having to work two jobs..how will they even have time to study or learn other things? They simply don’t.
The average are not willing to leave their comfort zone and they don't have a willing desire to learn and grow from their situation. We as the ALUX family, are more than willing to learn and grow through our situations.
@@Craig121000 Unfortunately my friend, you are choosing this path in order to lay down and accept what has happened. You can do anything that you put your mind to. If you decide to get up and figure this situation out, then you might be for the better. If people just laid around Accepted the pandemic, then where did all these pandemic millionaire's come from?
The problem is that our education system doesn’t encourage entrepreneurship. It is still entirely focused on creating new 9/5 workers. And kids are still raised in the belief that you can become rich with a 9/5, you just need to wait until you are promoted to CEO.
@@Yugiboii yes this works as long as you are single and have an above average income. In my early 20's I had more than 50k in savings in my account, I owned real estate and was trading at the stock market. Then I married and got kids and my fortune melted faster than a snowman in July.
In my school actually we have this topic in subject Information Technology(IT), however it gives a shallow details and not on depth. Even further we don't have teacher who understands and explains what I want to know and would help me ,therefore I have to study on my own.
I think some people hate successful people for a few reasons. The lack of success in any area of their personal life, not understanding how to become successful with the gifts they have, and not knowing oneself and lacking gratitude for the life they have.
Average people envy success because they know it could be them if they put in the work but they know they're mentally lazy and so hate is their default reaction...the hate is really how they feel about themselves
Average people trivialize the success of others because they use that perspective to justify why they are not successful. I personally love to see people become successful, it brings me great joy.
@@nicolette1598 It's unfortunate that these people don't realize they are actually causing their own inability to become successful due to their beliefs and thoughts. For me, I try to seek out places where like-minded successful people are likely to be. It's far more satisfying than never leaving home... try it Nicolette!
Don’t let envy or hate towards the successful people out there keep you from learning from them and being inspired by them. We’ve got to stop settling for mediocrity and thinking that success is “only for them” when anyone with a brain and is able to retain knowledge can learn whatever they need to learn to be able to make better decisions that could lead to a better outcome than the average outcomes they’ve been seeing.
"Success is like being pregnant, everyone congratulates you but no one knows how many times you've been f*cked." Just stay consistent, you'll be successful, I promise you that.
I’ve noticed the people in this world think they’re the smartest are actually the least educated the ones in this world who realize how little we know and are the most hard on themselves always become the most innovative and successful. The systems praises and rewards sheep, the ones with potential are always labeled and ridiculed.
Because everyone has a voice.. including the sheep! (& there's more sheep than the exceptional) Also: A sheep lives its life being scared of the wolf, yet it ends up being eaten by the sheppard!
Just to let you know, it's almost impossible to become a hater on someone else and be successful at the same time, if you want to be successful then stop hating on others and focus on achieve your goals in order to be successful
I believe that the average hates on the successful because they think that their success came easily not knowing how hard they've worked for they have now. As you said Alux, "the average wants a slice of the cake while the successful wants the ingredients and recipe to make their own cake."
I am allergic to average. I focus on my gifts and talents, keep a positive mindset and have a willingness to learn from difficult experiences. My keys to being resilient and staying in the game.
Average people hate success of others because of the aggression that they can't achieve in their lives what someone else has achieved. I feel like there are two ways to react to someone's else's success. Hard and the easy way. Easy way is to divert that aggression of what you couldn't get to the person who got what you wanted to get. And the second hard way, is to learn from them and apply the learnt principles to get your own success. Sadly we choose the easy way.
Hateful people want what successful people have but they do not want to put in the work to be successful. They would rather hate and they feel that success should be handed to them instead.
Jealousy and envy rules this world that’s why! It doesn’t cost to envious but it cost a whole lot to be successful. So people choose the cheaper route in life
Average people hate other's successes, because they hate themselves. Low self esteem, low self worth, low self sustainability... Instead of working harder, they complain and feel worse about themselves.
When you're starting out on your journey to success. People will laugh at you ,criticize you and hope that you don't make it. I don't listen to them, because I rather try and Failed 10 million times than reach age 70 and regret not trying.I'm at my lowest level in life right now and I refuse to give up I will never accept defeat my "Goals my WHY" keeps me up at night their too big for me to turn back the only way to go is up.
You got this Adrian! Your motivation and drive will help you achieve your goal. Remember because this is something I forget often, there will be a point where you start saying to yourself “I wanna quit, I can’t do this” that is a good sign because in my experience if you push past those thoughts you will quickly reach your goal as that is the last obstacle to the way to the top of the hill. Never give up you got this and it’s cool to see someone with so much drive! Don’t let anyone stand in your way❤️
100% I quit my corporate gig 8 yrs ago to start my own business. Most of my friends seemed "unsure" it was the right idea with 100 reasons to keep my head down. 8yrs later, I've quintupled my corporate income and during the pandemic, I got a lot of phone calls about "you're lucky you dont have to ask your boss for xxxxx (time off, remote work, etc...."). The lockdown was the best thing that ever happened to me.
I think average people see a reflection of what they feel they "could have" done but were too afraid to. Average people think that the outcome is the goal, rather than the journey.
@@Craig121000 Not true. The information is out here for everyone. The difference is that an average will make an excuse just like that one and say they cant access it. A successful person will find it
As an average person I don't envy people who made it to their success, I envy rich people who have it easier. I envy those beauties born with their perfect height, body shape and facial structure. Maybe, maybe I can become at least half of it, but I hate that they don't have to put as much effort, spend so much time on it, while I'll have to. And I hate that I can have only half of it at most. I'm talking about not just rich people, I'm talking about filthy rich, those who don't let "others" into the circles of the wealth. You know what I'm talking about there can be no pretence. And I'm talking about those goddess-like beauties, whom almost everyone considers beautiful. Will I have it? Speaking honestly, I don't think so. Do they have it much easier than many people, obviously.
Average people hate the successful because they feel less powerful than the successful. Ego hurts because they get more attention and respect than them.
A lot of average people are not willing to make the necessary sacrifices and choices it takes to rise to the next level(s) to fulfill their potential. Also, some average people quit in the middle of a major life transition because of fear, doubt, and their insecurities, so they never get to see what’s on the other side of their would-be transition. Don’t quit!
Also when it comes down to it they are too lazy to put in the work needed to achieve whatever they “want” to do. My friend wanted to learn cinema 4d as you can see on my page I made tutorials literally catered to her. I tried to make them funny silly whatever and if she would have actually watched them she would have learned pretty much all of the basics in less than 20 min vs many of the CZcams tutorials for c4d will take several hours to learn such. She also agreed to work at an event with my other colleagues using the basic knowledge she had a week to learn. Day before event which is today she goes radio silent because the truth is she was only doing it to impress her coworkers who according to her were “jealous” when they saw her using the program via her laptop. Many of these ppl do not have any goals. They say they do but it’s a LIE. They see things other people do that they deem “important” and want it for themselves. This girl I am mentioning has wanted to do a plethora of jobs and even went to college a handful of times for completely different careers such as “biochemistry”, “nursing” at one point she wanted to join NASA mind u she dropped out of highschool. These people just want what others have and have ZERO ability to figure o it what they want for themselves due to being blinded by insecure and repeated failure. What I’ve come to realize is these people exist for a reason because without them no one would deliver our doordash orders, no one would work labor intensive jobs so unfortunately they are a necessary evil. *sorry for the rant I am currently dealing with ppl like this and ugh I’m just sad and disgusted
Robert Frost said, “I don’t want to live in a homogenized society. I want the cream to rise...” Don’t expect perfect equality for all. Let there be greatness among us. Be inspired by it. It’s possible. Don’t regress to a childish penis envy. Glow in the powerful light and euphoric sense of possibility.
Unless you develop a disability (and lose your mobility), right? Then you can know more than the rest, have the right mindset, speak 7 languages...you will never again play on the same field.
@@jvnd2785 History has witnessed some outstanding achievements by people who struggled with physical disabilities. The following are examples of people who achieved greatness despite having physical disabilities. Stephen Hawking- ALS (amyotrophic lateral sclerosis) Stephen Hawking is a theoretical physicist, cosmologist and author. He was a recipient of the Presidential Medal of Freedom, the highest civilian award in the Unites States. He was a professor of mathematics at the University of Cambridge between 1979 and 2009. Hawking has a rare early onset, slowly progressing form of amyotrophic lateral sclerosis that has gradually paralyzed him. He communicates using a single cheek muscle attached to a speech generating device. Hellen Keller- blind and deaf Hellen Keller was an American author, political activist and lecturer. She was the first deaf and blind person to earn a bachelor of arts degree. Christy Brown- cerebral palsy Christy Brown was an Irish writer and painter who had cerebral palsy. He was only able to write or type with the toes of one foot. His most recognized work is his autobiography, titled My Left Foot published in 1954. Sudha Chandran- amputation Sudha Chandran is an Indian film and television actress and an accomplished dancer. In June of 1981 she lost a leg to gangrene following a road accident. She continued dancing however and went on to become a well-established Bharatnatyam dancer. Stevie Wonder- blind Stevie Wonder is an American musician, singer, songwriter, record producer, and instrumentalist. He has recorded more than 30 top ten hits and received 25 Grammy Awards. He has been blind since shortly after birth. Franklin D. Roosevelt- polio Franklin D. Roosevelt was President of The United States during the turbulent period of the Second World War. He developed polio in his early 30’s and became paralyzed in both legs. For the remainder of his life he was in a wheelchair including while he served ably as President.
I do not hate or envy the rich people who have made their millions with ethics and intelligence but rather I feel admiration and an example to follow, the rich people that if I detest and abhor are those who enriched with corrupt gambling, annihilating competition, bribing politicians, etc and unfortunately they are the vast majority of rich.
I once hated on the rich and the things they’re able to get away with then I found a little success on my own and now understand why they need and use all the resources they have.
They hate the fact that they didn't have the courage to go through the path the successful people did. In the end they're not only hating the successful ones but also themselves for being cowards .. 😙
First, accept your envy. Second, realize that it doesn't help you grow. Then, change to growth mindset. Comparing yourself to others' success is consuming energy. The process is honestly not easy but you can start with small step at a time. You're not gonna change to a new person overnight. But it will definitely be better.
I hate the feeling of being average. I don't hate others success I hunger for my own. Each milestone my friends hit is a celebration. Each milestone I hit is a goal reached.
you know how they said that workers shouldn't talk about their wages? i don't care and I told anyone who wanted to know because i work twice as hard, helping others, teaching new team members how to do their job, doing jobs outside of my position description and etc. i know my work ethic and others work ethic, if they're angry at my team leader or HR for giving me a higher wage even though i have less seniority if they file a complaint against me, i will negotiate more because i deserve more than my fellow team members and I'm a team player i transferred back to my old department and less than six months my team leader handed me two titles (senior and trainer) and i got $5/hr more comparing to the previous department
Average people hate the success of others, because it reminds them of what they could’ve been! But they were too busy doing nothing, and they ended up missing the opportunities leading to that success!
Hello Aluxers! Pro tip: You can never become what you hate! If you hate the rich, you will never be rich! Learning how to learn is the ultimate skill one can possess! Next Sunday we are launching Learning Mastery! Go to www.alux.com/learn
That thumbnail is so rude and disrespectful to Sofia Loren. She is not mediocre. Seriously gonna put a label on her like that is disgusting. Alux ya be making some stupid as thumbnails and videos sometimes that's why you're losing viewers.
I am an Aluxer!! And the reason most people hate success and learning is because they are lazy, do not want to put in the work, and feel as though it should be given to them instead of going out to get it themselves.
Average hate the success of others because it’s a projection of insecurity. Look to the experience of good students that are bullied in school. Look to fact Carlton Banks and Steve Urkle are punchlines but Will and Eddie were relatable and more in touch with where the audience was and considered attractive and desirable. It’s not an accident.
Like James Franco says "They hate us cause they ain't us" Many times those that hate on those that are killing it, are the same ones that still sponsor their product or service. Example; Apple and Amazon. Heck, I will even throw Walmart in the mix as well. Think about it.
The rich gets richer because the poor thinks every opportunity is a scam. To be a successful trader and investor in the game try to take risks if you win you'll happy, if you loss you'll be wise.
Investors make up the top notch hemisphere of the wealth. That's the more reason why one should save and invest to secure profits and ensure success......⚠️
I think this pandemic has taught people the importance of multiple streams of income unfortunately having a job doesn't mean financial security. So I really appreciate your transparency and giving people a fighting chance during these troubling times.
Currently I'm 34 years old with a goal to have $5M networth in 5years. I understand that the only thing we can't get back in life is TIME. I want to be TIME RICH. I'm 1/5 of the way there. I know I will make it with discipline. I'm a financial developer and live well below my means. No house payment ever again! If you are curious on how to get your life on track, from my experience, the best thing that has tripled my networth in 1year was my fiduciary financial advisor Mr Andrew Willis Heather. You can use something else. It just takes a clear vision and discipline. Avoid debt cut costs to be Time Rich! Maybe one day, I will own that business I have always dreamed of and enjoy my family life even more.
The average hate success because it's an affront to all the things they could have done with their lives but chose no to. Some choose to cut class, others chose to stay. Some choose to spend their money on boose and drugs, others chose to save and invest. Some choose to wait for opportunity to just fall on their lap, others chose to make opportunities happen. Two years ago I found myself training someone with less experience but more education than I had. I could've chosen to blame the system, play a bunch of identity cards, or finish my education. I chose to get off my ass and finish my Bachelor's degree. Do social factors matter, yes, of course they do. But at the end of the day, it's still a free country and personal responsibility is what makes the difference between mediocrity and success.
Oh thank you. Where to start. You nailed it. Jealousy. Jealousy masked as if I can’t do it no one can, there is no way you are doing better than me. I work harder than any one. But setting your measure in success based on doing better than some one else will always limit your possibilities. That only person I have to impress is myself. And it’s working out pretty well so far.
Excellent comment. If I may add to "I work harder than anyone." => According to studies nearly everybody works harder then average... ;-) They all should get a soviet medal for "working hero".
The first few seconds of this sounded like me. I’m stoked on my life and anyone who is succeeding with I theirs. Then there was the twist. Some people are not happy for you! Major WTF moment for some. “I thought we were friends and should be proud of each other?”. Jealousy is a toxic mother fucker that keeps many people from doing anything that matters and holds down those whom care about the opinions of those people. It’s hard enough to succeed. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for it. Thanks for coming to my TED talk. 🤘🤓
Because I have called, and ye refused; I have stretched out my hand, and no man regarded; But ye have set at nought all my counsel, and would none of my reproof: I also will laugh at your calamity; I will mock when your fear cometh; When your fear cometh as desolation, and your destruction cometh as a whirlwind; when distress and anguish cometh upon you. Then shall they call upon me, but I will not answer; they shall seek me early, but they shall not find me: For that they hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the Lord : They would none of my counsel: they despised all my reproof. Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices. For the turning away of the simple shall slay them, and the prosperity of fools shall destroy them. But whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil. Proverbs 1:24-33
👍 tak sie to zaznaje i odczuwa wewnętrznie i zewnetrznie jakby tak było ze ludzie sa z nami tylko jak mamy sukces lub ze hejtują gdy go odnosimy. 👍 a to bzdura. Bo są z nami jak czują sie dobrze a czuja sie fajnie jak my czujemy sie fajnie. 💰 Jak czuja mozliwosc i to ze to chca powiedziec przekazać Nam to wyjdzie pozytywnie jesli czuja inaczej to powstrzymuja sie od mowienia 💰 a ta niezapelniona nisza wiary w siebie sprawia ze rosnie w nich napięcie i w koncu mowią nie to co chcą i mowia o nas negatywnie a myslą same najlepsze rzeczy 💰 Czlowiek ma taką nature wlasnie o Innych nie umie myslec negatywnie a o sobie nie umie nie myslec negatywnie 👍 Nasza natura jest zbyt doskonala tylko dajemy sie manipulowac Zlu ktore np sprawia ze doswiadczamy sie negatywnie wzajemnie i samych siebie tez zaznajemy jakby inni chcieli nam pokrzyzowac szyki 👑 a tak nie jest jest na odwrot ale zlo tak dlugo i uparcie to wmawia ze zaczynamy w to wierzyc oczywiscie w teori jest takie ryzyko ❤ ale jesli ma sie dobry kod myslenia np taki jak podaje teraz i ze od Boga pochodza tylko mysli i kojarzenia i odczucia budujące dodające nadzieji i ze musi byc coraz lepiej i ze bedzie zajebiscie i koniec to sie da pokonac zło
Average people hate successful people because you remind them of their shortcomings. They fall short in aptitude, attitude, disciple and knowledge. That’s a reality they don’t want to accept. It’s easier to hate.
It reminds them of what they are too afraid to go after, and it comes out as anger and jealousy. They aren’t made at you, they are mad at themselves and that is their defense mechanism.
This has been great video. I have watched about 5 times trying absorb it all. The goal should always be to uplift yourself and those around you. Never be upset at another's success. Congratulate them.
Your title of today’s video was so relatable like this made me realised that I was the average one , I use to envy my friends who use to win or get appreciation for something and I use to think that anyone could have done , that it could easily have been me but I never got anything…. Now I am realising that it’s time to uplift my personality and I have to learn from them rather than to envy them …. But honestly its really tough because that envy this is not so easy to throw away like I want to but so quickly judge people and I really want to change that…!!!!!
If you don't learn you don't progress But most importantly if you don't implement what you learn then you don't get anywhere. Taking action to achieve a dream is more important than planning how to get there. So take the action. Lear how to learn and implement it. Cheers 🥂 !!
In America, even if you're poor, you have more tools than anyone ever had at any point in history. Being poor is a choice. Let people hate the truth if they want, it's still the truth.
@7:37 I think that average ppl hate the success of others because they know that they will no longer relate to ppl who make strides towards building their way out of mediocrity.
Not average. I think the average hate on the successful because they feel like the successful have something that they don't. When in reality they do have it. But because they are focused on what they don't have they may get envious. In addition to that they may lash out. It's better for them to notice themselves in the successful and work on bringing that out of themselves. I honestly didn't know so I put myself in the shoes of a hater. Wich honestly I have been at points in my life and still experience from time to time. I just remind myself to wish them more success and work on myself.
Average people make a limit to their success meaning they start making short term goals and as they achieve some goals they start getting comfortable with it + distractions relationships , internet . They end up feeling satisfied with their own hardwork and blame the situations for not getting success
Thank you Alux, Our community is one of the reasons my life is GREAT. According to my, average people are not willing to put in the effort to be successful, instead, they expect success to come naturally while they sit idle on their couches.
Average people hate the success of others because they think they deserve what the successful people have. They don't care to work for it. They don't aspire to be better. They have no gratitude for where they are. They want the big winning lottery ticket given to them on the proverbial silver platter. It doesn't work that way. It never did. It never will. The opposite of the successful person is the victim. Keep up the Good Work, Alux!
Had enough of my average life that wasn’t looking in the best direction. Started cutting lawns during the start of COVID while working my part time job at the gym. Was pushing hours everyday and then last summer had an investor come on and we’ve done snow in the winter and now are on our second grass season. Embrace the risk. Thank you ALUX for everything
Hating people aren't happy, & happy people aren't hating..That coveting will get you no where fast, & many are just hypmatized wit hatred! Thanks for the video Alux, we love you over here at TNE!
Hannibal Lecter : First principles, Clarice. Simplicity. Read Marcus Aurelius. Of each particular thing ask: what is it in itself? What is its nature? What does he do, this man you seek? Clarice Starling : He kills women... Hannibal Lecter : No. That is incidental. What is the first and principal thing he does? What needs does he serve by killing? Clarice Starling : Anger, um, social acceptance, and, huh, sexual frustrations, sir... Hannibal Lecter : No! He covets. That is his nature. And how do we begin to covet, Clarice? Do we seek out things to covet? Make an effort to answer now. Clarice Starling : No. We just... Hannibal Lecter : No. We begin by coveting what we see every day. Don't you feel eyes moving over your body, Clarice? And don't your eyes seek out the things you want?
Envy and hate are every successful individual's propeller if this last sees it as an opportunity to update or upgrade his skills and knowledge ; but if successful people look at it as an hindrance to their endeavors they risk losing everything . I haven't been experiencing hate or envy just because I'm far from being called successful;so I don't mind having some additional obstacles or hindrance on my way 😆😆
100% accurate.Every single person, friend or family has been a jealous child over me making progress. The more I make the more childish they got lol Don’t deal with any of them anymore and don’t miss any of them either. What is their to miss once people show their true colors like that? Not a thing so cut them all lose and drive on.
Why envy and hate of the successful? It is a reminder of the average person, that they are just mediocre - which is painful. I've been there myself. Luckily I could change my mindset for success and and wish every successful person their success without any envy. Instead, I am steadily working on my own success and try to learn as much as fast as possible from those, who've walked the path of success beforehand.
Some average people think that the rich become rich by various illegal ways, that they would never do. But sometimes, it's diving deep into it and deriving the best possible solution. Finding the loopholes, showing up etc. , it's not cheating. !!
Although I agree with the spirit of the video the profile pic of Sophia Loren and Jayne Mansfield is mislabeled. Yes Sophia was giving her chest some side eye. But who wouldn’t steal a glance at that plunging neck line. It wasn’t because Sophia was average in fact she is exceptional and that party where the photograph was taken was to officially welcome her to Beverly Hills since she was already a super star in Europe. Jayne Mansfield wore that revealing dress to steal the spotlight. If anything she was the hater of other peoples success.
The flip side of that is people who all they do is learn and take no real actions and have nothing to show for it. My in-laws are highly educated and always taking courses. They’re broke, have horrible attitudes and have little to nothing to show for said “education”. They just judge and hate successful people, so strange.
I don't like successful people, obsession with gym, right food, relevant books, constant progress etc. Simply don't. Try to overcome it, but I really envy them, cannot enjoy their success etc. Sorry.
I have finally learned this lesson recently. Average stay average because they choose based on potential. It is almost like religion. Successful ones choose based on action and facts. Great video Alux!
Two things. What does success mean? does it need to be money or is there other knowledge tool that could replace it? To me, money is security and freedom above all. But…I know you can still feel freedom with just so less USD in another corner of the world. Second, when you see so much rich people that made their wealth under dark or at least in a non-ethical deal. Drug dealers, corrupt politicians, or companies that promote corruption in politics like Odebrecht. As a citizen I do feel resentful at them, and they are so many. They use the police force, the military force. It’s the state, it’s an oligarchy. You cannot like that form of making business, paying por laws to be approved for the few that get really rich. How can you succedd in an environment of business?
I just got out of a relationship with a guy who was less successful than I, but I initially fell in love with him for his kindness and caring attitude. He initially loved how driven and motivated I am, but over time I started to feel a change. It’s like he was jealous of all of my results, although he was seeing all the hard work I was putting in. Where as he always had excuses for why things aren’t working out for him and actually called himself a “victim of his circumstance”. This person had no ambition, and wasn’t going anywhere, but hated me for what I was doing with my life. So that ended… :(
"Don’t ever let someone tell you that you can’t do something. Not even me. You got a dream, you gotta protect it. When people can’t do something themselves, they’re gonna tell you that you can’t do it. You want something go get it. Period." - Will Smith
I have a dream the next pop star singer
This is from a movie 🎬 and it's true!
He’s right! As long as u dream within reason for example “I wanna be famous” probably won’t happen but everything else can be done with hard work.
@@nicolette1598 You’re the problem.
Will Smith would slap you.@@nicolette1598
There's a lot of truth in this channel. I earned my status as "rich." I have a big passion for trying to educate other people on how to become rich. I used to be frustrated that people didn't listen to me or reviled me for having wealth. Instead of complaining or doing the same old thing, I modified my behavior. Now I only impart the wisdom of my experience to those willing to listen. What's wild to me is that people think that getting rich is some well-kept secret. It's not. It's the most open secret in the world that wealthy people WANT to share. But it is people's minds that trap them. Living a lie that "wealth is impossible unless you're a trust fund baby" is more comforting than the truth--the truth that anyone can become wealthy.
Take a look at lottery winners. How many of them kept their wealth or built it? Only about 30%. The other 70% went broke after winning millions. It's strong evidence that building and retaining wealth has far more to do with character, discipline, and choices.
Like honestly, the biggest "secret" is getting comfortable with being uncomfortable. Everyone can do it. Everyone has the ability to do it. But so many refuse to.
I used to be a Leftist/Socialist and was always miserable. I blamed the rich for everything that wasn't going well in my life. But then I realized that the people I associated with were always in a bad mood and they just dragged me down. And to pull myself out of poverty, I needed to take matters into my own hands and not wait for the government to "save" me and I also needed to stop looking at success as "selling-out." This is why many Leftists stay poor and angry. Honestly... Who cares if the game is "rigged"? Learn to play the game and become those who benefit from the system. Capitalists are much happier and I still have big dreams so I pursued them. Leaving that Leftist mindset was the best thing I've done in a while and now I'm the happiest I've ever been.
Often when you understand the psychology of a hater, you'll realize that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. The hater is confused, insecure and actually hates themselves; and is just looking for someone else to unload the heavy load they are carrying, so they can feel better. That's pretty sad.
It’s the difference between a fixed mindset and a growth mindset that makes all the difference.
Absolutely!
100% a fixed mindset gives up easily and bearly makes effort , shout out to Carol Dweck for giving us this thesis
Amen!!!
F off with this bs. It;s one thing to postironically watch this vid, it's the whole other thing to make commenta that actually support the it's-all-in-your-head postmodernist bs.
I was living in a 3rd world country with a meager salary several years ago when I started watching your videos. Many of my colleagues and friends laughed at me whenever I say I have big dreams and ambitions for my future (like living in a progressive and innovative country) and always working hard and overtime. My family even told me to just stop and give up. I treated your top 15s as goals and standards on how to be a better version of myself. Fast forward today, I'm now in Canada and in a better-paying career. I still have a long ways to go and am in the works of starting my own business but you've helped me a lot to advance and climb to a new level. There are still lots of things to learn and no time yet to rest on laurels as there are new bosses and obstacles to overcome. But I plan to conquer them all! Looking forward to a better life and future ahead! Thanks, Alux!
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This video really hits home for me. I have worked decades to be successful. I have sacrificed and took some really big risks. My close group of friends and associates know this. My success has caused me to lose many, but not all, of my friends. It’s disheartening to see my old friends hate on me because I made my success but were they really friends to begin with? Losing many friends has taught me to cherish my family. I am just happy and thankful for everything that I have. Now I only associate with people that have positive energy .
Plan your work and work your plan!
Thanks for the content, Alux
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Well done James. Those 'friends' were never that, because if they were they would have celebrated it and even been part of your success - and not been envious.
There are no friends mate. Just mirrors (good friends) or family.
Love that... Plan your work, work your plan.
I visited my family yesterday after years of working on myself, and as much as I enjoyed being around them, I hated that the conversation was the same. No one talking about business, everyone eating the wrong foods. I didn’t want to judge but I understand patterns. I will not settle. I will break generational curses. I am willing to learn what it takes. Thank you Alux for getting me on the right track🍀 I’m so focused on the long term, I just hope I’m a role model for the next generation.
So glad I’m reading this comment. Recently, ive been kinda turned off by the idea of being around family and that has never happened before. I think cause I’m actually looking forward to bettering myself and financial situation and being around them is not stimulating me in the areas I want growth in, in any shape or form. It sucks that that’s a feeling and a thought cause I feel guilty of that abut at the same time, I can’t shake it. Reading this comment basically made me feel like im not the only one.
Maybe you need to get over yourself if you want to have a relationship with your family. You are not better than other people.
Maybe they just dont care about business? People can be happy without being rich yknow
Thank you
@@alexanderjakubowski5673 a bit of advice, don't judge someone until you know their story. Maybe your family is awesome and supports you and you're ultra successful already. Though the first indicator of that would be that you're happy and encouraging and that would be contrary to the content of your post.
Speaking for myself, I was raised in an abusive family, in a small farm town, existing on the border between lower middle class and poor. I had to make a difficult choice to stay away from my family and work on myself. I can tell you what is left of my family doesn't understand what I'm doing, the rest are dead, mostly substance abuse and suicide. There is no "I'm better than them" included, it's about "I made different choices than them" and I lament I can't help them see or choose this other path.
In the OP's post they say, "I just hope I'm a role model for the next generation..." I read that as setting an example of a path to follow that doesn't lead to ruin. Unless you've grown up in a toxic environment designed to destroy you, you couldn't possibly understand so maybe back off a bit. You would have done yourself a service by asking for clarification, not being a condescending ass about it.
Some families you can't have a relationship with even if you want to, they'll destroy you! I'm inclined to believe this is what @Gabriella & Company meant, they see a better less painful path and the family doesn't want anything to do with it.
This is so true. I’m sadly dealing with this problem in my day to day life. Not sure if it’s luck or the fact I work hard to achieve my goals but no one is ever happy for me. Colleagues of course! But friends family? No they just tell me “you’re bragging” “ you’re an elitist” “you think you’re better than everyone else”
It’s sad to say but at this point I DESPISE average lazy people who do nothing with their lives. You’re alive ONCE why would you do nothing about that? Why wouldn’t you want to achieve great things! Or at the very least do your best!
WE ARE THE SAME. The irony is the more they try to shame me by calling me elitist the more elitist I actually become because i see them for what they are…parasites. Who ultimately want to gain the most by doing the least. To have the glory while taking 0 risk
"Criticism is the cost of entry" - I needed to hear that.
I think one of the many reasons why average people hate the success of others is because they judge them through their own values and not even consider what the other person values or is thinking.
A personal example for me, I achieved a pretty high grade in a piece of coursework, but I still wanted to do better and wanted to go further.
They gave a slide showing all the grades below the one I had achieved and what grades people need to get to get the highest overall grade. I then asked the question "what about the grades for those who achieved a first why is that missing?" After this class a friend told me that apparently I got some of the dirtiest looks from people all over the classroom, and even a guy who people called "really friendly" pulled a scoffed a disgusted face at me.
When I asked why they told me that because it came across as cocky and that it was essentially bragging about my high grade.
I then explained to them why I asked that question (because I want to achieve better results) and said what others were thinking was not the case and my motivations to be the best version possible even if I achieve "excellent results" I don't think they understood either and to be honest I did get a little defensive and did say "if they can't understand that then f**k em" which probably didn't help my case.
But I know they were judging me because they were probably thinking of those who didn't do as well as I did and me asking that question was me rubbing my "cleverness" or whatever you want to call it in their faces when in fact I was never thinking that and if any one of them came up to me and asked if I could help them do better I would do my absolute best to help them.
*"The person who wins, is the person who wants it the most."*
This changed my life.
Bruh I see you on 2 channels now
bro ur in all channels comment 😂
I bet you're one of those people who stalk me eg some guy without a moustache
Did it really? It's such a basic and potentially dangerous phrase, can't imagine anyone reading it too deeply
I don't think so, someone can really really really really want it but not put in the work.
It's very hard to step out of average, when you do not know your value. Mindset is the engine, that moves the body. Show someone thier worth, and life starts to look very promising. Here is where the great teachers are needed.
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@@angelachanelhuang1651 with what?
“Why do you think average people hate the success of others?”
Because it highlights so much within themselves. Wasted time, fear, poor choices and laziness to name a few.
The laziness! Omg the laziness it disgusts me. I run a small team of devs and made the horrific mistake of allowing “friends & family” to do easy supplemental work. They’ve been nothing but an embarrassment. The other team members are smart work hard and love learning vs my “dear” friends and family who have me as a great recourse to teach them everything they need to know (many asked me to teach them) as soon as it gets down time to learn oh they become angry or radio silent. And still here’s the FUNNIEST part. They want a full revenue share. Isn’t that hilarious?! For doing NOTHING. It’s insulting and infuriating and to watch them do nothing with their lives expect money for doing nothing while simultaneously calling me nonstop while im working to discuss “boyfriend and coworker problems” I don’t get it?!!
The laziness and right below this is a women screeching about modern day slaveru
@@nicolette1598 one word: denial. everyone has a surface layer of lies that they tell themselves to make up for their failures and insecurities, the human brain does not perceive things logically, it perceives things as 1's and 0's. 1 for pleasure point and 0 for pain points. why do people play video games or go on social media for 10 hours a day? because it releases a overwhelming amount of pleasure points. logically they KNOW this isn't going to get them where they want in life but the brain doesn't perceive things in a rational context. the only thing your brain cares about is AVOIDING PAIN AT ALL COSTS. so it will do whatever it can to go after the most amount of pleasure points even if it completely destroys their life. for example, if getting drunk and partying is equivalent to about 100 pleasure points and doing menial tasks is about 50 pain points, no matter how much willpower they have, they wont be able to resist being lazy. this system was designed back when we were caveman where it could be used to motivate us to go hunting and stuff but during the modern age when out brain is constantly overflowing with dopamine, it completely backfires.
@@williamwoolf8072 I agree with that but some of us have self control and will power. Something I’ve noticed with people who have such rudimentary behavior traits, is that their parents taught them it’s okay to be average and to seek basic stability, as well as telling them either not to try too hard as certain careers are not attainable, or Poo pooing on people who do do well calling them “prideful” etc. I mean, if your own parents are telling you to only seek a basic life because you’ll always have them…I truly believe it creates this toxic mindset and they never learn how to push themselves. In a nutshell, the parents who tell their children they did a a great job on subpar work, extra curriculars etc. Vs the way I grew up was nothing was ever good enough lol, so I have an insane amount of self awareness and the ability to look at myself and own work and say “No that needs to be better and it needs to be fixed now”, as well as an urgency to the fact life doesn’t last forever and it’s important to do what you can with the time you have. So yes you’re technically correct, however luckily many of us are actually evolved to do the opposite.
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The main reason which average people hate the successful people is given the fact that average people are where they were decades ago whereas successful people are always going forward people with the focus on realizing their ambitions.
This is why I love this channel!!!! You always say the truth , and is so real I love you guys so much been a long time follower of this channel1. I personally think people hate because they either don't see what they can do or they know they can do so much more or even not so much more but they know they can be better so instead of going within to figure it out they just look at others success and immediate response is to put them down, its low-self-esteem and self worth and being scared as well. When one of my residents at my job (I'm a concierge at luxury apartments) said to me about billionaires no one should have that much money that's disgusting, I ignored it. I had to because I didn't want to take that internally, why should I ? I'm tired of hiding how I feel about my life path. Why should I lower my desires and dreams to fit in with a bunch or norms? When in reality I had to take a step back and realize its only an opinion at the end of the day I'm still going to go through going to school and go to med-school and become an orthopedic surgeon. I'm 35 years old and I worked as wardrobe stylist and fashion model. I know I'm destined for greatness so I'm choosing to ignore the rest and I will not allow anyone to tell me I should be ashamed if I become a billionaire. please excuse my French but Fuck that!! Everyone has the same opportunity to become wealthy and I like very nice things and I work for what I have I will not allow anyone to make me feel bad for anything I worked for or even anything gifted to me. If I like it I buy it plain and simple. No one has the right to tell another human they should be ashamed of working hard to have what they have! I don't praise Elon, Jeff, Kylie and the rest but I totally admire them and how they work. All this makes me all the more grateful for everything I have and ever will have. Which I also feel is lacking with people with that degrading mentality. Sorry for my rambling on!
That’s the right attitude in life Hank! Go crush your dreams!
As someone who has found success I can honestly say everyone does not have equal opportunity.
I grew up in a moderately wealthy family and went to the best schools in the United States. Most people do not have that option or an option even close. I got to travel a decent portion of the world, not to mention was able to move to California at an early age giving me a sea of opportunities people in Chicago could only dream of. Location, and wealth is definitely a factor in success. So I’m sorry you’re wrong not everyone can be successful. There are the lucky few that can but imagine being poor and having to work two jobs..how will they even have time to study or learn other things? They simply don’t.
Pity comes for free, envy must be earned. The more people envy you, the more successful you must have become in the meantime...
The average are not willing to leave their comfort zone and they don't have a willing desire to learn and grow from their situation. We as the ALUX family, are more than willing to learn and grow through our situations.
@@Craig121000 Unfortunately my friend, you are choosing this path in order to lay down and accept what has happened. You can do anything that you put your mind to. If you decide to get up and figure this situation out, then you might be for the better. If people just laid around Accepted the pandemic, then where did all these pandemic millionaire's come from?
I agree 👍!
And if we don not leave our comfort zone, so what? Let us be.
The problem is that our education system doesn’t encourage entrepreneurship. It is still entirely focused on creating new 9/5 workers. And kids are still raised in the belief that you can become rich with a 9/5, you just need to wait until you are promoted to CEO.
You can get rich from a 9-5, saving and investing your money while you’re young can definitely help in the long run
@@Yugiboii yes this works as long as you are single and have an above average income. In my early 20's I had more than 50k in savings in my account, I owned real estate and was trading at the stock market. Then I married and got kids and my fortune melted faster than a snowman in July.
In my school actually we have this topic in subject Information Technology(IT), however it gives a shallow details and not on depth. Even further we don't have teacher who understands and explains what I want to know and would help me ,therefore I have to study on my own.
Misery loves company. People hate on those who are successful because they have not yet reached the mindset of their own. It’s really jealousy !
The foundation of the Democratic party - resentment..
Why should we mingle with mediocre the hell with them
Yep, that's it!
And laziness.
@@eddieveemusic yes definitely that too!
I think some people hate successful people for a few reasons. The lack of success in any area of their personal life, not understanding how to become successful with the gifts they have, and not knowing oneself and lacking gratitude for the life they have.
Average people envy success because they know it could be them if they put in the work but they know they're mentally lazy and so hate is their default reaction...the hate is really how they feel about themselves
Average people trivialize the success of others because they use that perspective to justify why they are not successful. I personally love to see people become successful, it brings me great joy.
Brings me joy too! It’s scary and sad it’s not the same for the vast majority of ppl which is why I hide in my house and never leave
@@nicolette1598 It's unfortunate that these people don't realize they are actually causing their own inability to become successful due to their beliefs and thoughts. For me, I try to seek out places where like-minded successful people are likely to be. It's far more satisfying than never leaving home... try it Nicolette!
Don’t let envy or hate towards the successful people out there keep you from learning from them and being inspired by them. We’ve got to stop settling for mediocrity and thinking that success is “only for them” when anyone with a brain and is able to retain knowledge can learn whatever they need to learn to be able to make better decisions that could lead to a better outcome than the average outcomes they’ve been seeing.
"Success is like being pregnant, everyone congratulates you but no one knows how many times you've been f*cked."
Just stay consistent, you'll be successful, I promise you that.
Lol
I really laughed hard at that one 🤣
Great analogy! 👍😊
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Amen
I’ve noticed the people in this world think they’re the smartest are actually the least educated the ones in this world who realize how little we know and are the most hard on themselves always become the most innovative and successful. The systems praises and rewards sheep, the ones with potential are always labeled and ridiculed.
Because everyone has a voice.. including the sheep! (& there's more sheep than the exceptional)
Also: A sheep lives its life being scared of the wolf, yet it ends up being eaten by the sheppard!
Just to let you know, it's almost impossible to become a hater on someone else and be successful at the same time, if you want to be successful then stop hating on others and focus on achieve your goals in order to be successful
I believe that the average hates on the successful because they think that their success came easily not knowing how hard they've worked for they have now. As you said Alux, "the average wants a slice of the cake while the successful wants the ingredients and recipe to make their own cake."
I am allergic to average. I focus on my gifts and talents, keep a positive mindset and have a willingness to learn from difficult experiences. My keys to being resilient and staying in the game.
Average people hate success of others because of the aggression that they can't achieve in their lives what someone else has achieved. I feel like there are two ways to react to someone's else's success. Hard and the easy way. Easy way is to divert that aggression of what you couldn't get to the person who got what you wanted to get. And the second hard way, is to learn from them and apply the learnt principles to get your own success. Sadly we choose the easy way.
Hateful people want what successful people have but they do not want to put in the work to be successful. They would rather hate and they feel that success should be handed to them instead.
Jealousy and envy rules this world that’s why! It doesn’t cost to envious but it cost a whole lot to be successful. So people choose the cheaper route in life
Average people hate other's successes, because they hate themselves. Low self esteem, low self worth, low self sustainability... Instead of working harder, they complain and feel worse about themselves.
When you're starting out on your journey to success. People will laugh at you ,criticize you and hope that you don't make it. I don't listen to them, because I rather try and Failed 10 million times than reach age 70 and regret not trying.I'm at my lowest level in life right now and I refuse to give up I will never accept defeat my "Goals my WHY" keeps me up at night their too big for me to turn back the only way to go is up.
You got this Adrian! Your motivation and drive will help you achieve your goal.
Remember because this is something I forget often, there will be a point where you start saying to yourself “I wanna quit, I can’t do this” that is a good sign because in my experience if you push past those thoughts you will quickly reach your goal as that is the last obstacle to the way to the top of the hill.
Never give up you got this and it’s cool to see someone with so much drive! Don’t let anyone stand in your way❤️
100% I quit my corporate gig 8 yrs ago to start my own business. Most of my friends seemed "unsure" it was the right idea with 100 reasons to keep my head down.
8yrs later, I've quintupled my corporate income and during the pandemic, I got a lot of phone calls about "you're lucky you dont have to ask your boss for xxxxx (time off, remote work, etc...."). The lockdown was the best thing that ever happened to me.
I think average people see a reflection of what they feel they "could have" done but were too afraid to. Average people think that the outcome is the goal, rather than the journey.
@@Craig121000 Not true. The information is out here for everyone. The difference is that an average will make an excuse just like that one and say they cant access it. A successful person will find it
As an average person I don't envy people who made it to their success, I envy rich people who have it easier. I envy those beauties born with their perfect height, body shape and facial structure. Maybe, maybe I can become at least half of it, but I hate that they don't have to put as much effort, spend so much time on it, while I'll have to. And I hate that I can have only half of it at most. I'm talking about not just rich people, I'm talking about filthy rich, those who don't let "others" into the circles of the wealth. You know what I'm talking about there can be no pretence. And I'm talking about those goddess-like beauties, whom almost everyone considers beautiful. Will I have it? Speaking honestly, I don't think so. Do they have it much easier than many people, obviously.
Average people hate the successful because they feel less powerful than the successful. Ego hurts because they get more attention and respect than them.
A lot of average people are not willing to make the necessary sacrifices and choices it takes to rise to the next level(s) to fulfill their potential. Also, some average people quit in the middle of a major life transition because of fear, doubt, and their insecurities, so they never get to see what’s on the other side of their would-be transition. Don’t quit!
Also when it comes down to it they are too lazy to put in the work needed to achieve whatever they “want” to do.
My friend wanted to learn cinema 4d as you can see on my page I made tutorials literally catered to her. I tried to make them funny silly whatever and if she would have actually watched them she would have learned pretty much all of the basics in less than 20 min vs many of the CZcams tutorials for c4d will take several hours to learn such. She also agreed to work at an event with my other colleagues using the basic knowledge she had a week to learn. Day before event which is today she goes radio silent because the truth is she was only doing it to impress her coworkers who according to her were “jealous” when they saw her using the program via her laptop.
Many of these ppl do not have any goals. They say they do but it’s a LIE. They see things other people do that they deem “important” and want it for themselves. This girl I am mentioning has wanted to do a plethora of jobs and even went to college a handful of times for completely different careers such as “biochemistry”, “nursing” at one point she wanted to join NASA mind u she dropped out of highschool.
These people just want what others have and have ZERO ability to figure o it what they want for themselves due to being blinded by insecure and repeated failure.
What I’ve come to realize is these people exist for a reason because without them no one would deliver our doordash orders, no one would work labor intensive jobs so unfortunately they are a necessary evil.
*sorry for the rant I am currently dealing with ppl like this and ugh I’m just sad and disgusted
@@nicolette1598 Thank you for your openness and transparency! It's refreshing actually!
I needed to read this at this moment. Thank you for saying it.
Robert Frost said, “I don’t want to live in a homogenized society. I want the cream to rise...” Don’t expect perfect equality for all. Let there be greatness among us. Be inspired by it. It’s possible. Don’t regress to a childish penis envy. Glow in the powerful light and euphoric sense of possibility.
Unless you develop a disability (and lose your mobility), right? Then you can know more than the rest, have the right mindset, speak 7 languages...you will never again play on the same field.
@@jvnd2785 History has witnessed some outstanding achievements by people who struggled with physical disabilities. The following are examples of people who achieved greatness despite having physical disabilities.
Stephen Hawking- ALS (amyotrophic lateral sclerosis)
Stephen Hawking is a theoretical physicist, cosmologist and author. He was a recipient of the Presidential Medal of Freedom, the highest civilian award in the Unites States. He was a professor of mathematics at the University of Cambridge between 1979 and 2009. Hawking has a rare early onset, slowly progressing form of amyotrophic lateral sclerosis that has gradually paralyzed him. He communicates using a single cheek muscle attached to a speech generating device.
Hellen Keller- blind and deaf
Hellen Keller was an American author, political activist and lecturer. She was the first deaf and blind person to earn a bachelor of arts degree.
Christy Brown- cerebral palsy
Christy Brown was an Irish writer and painter who had cerebral palsy. He was only able to write or type with the toes of one foot. His most recognized work is his autobiography, titled My Left Foot published in 1954.
Sudha Chandran- amputation
Sudha Chandran is an Indian film and television actress and an accomplished dancer. In June of 1981 she lost a leg to gangrene following a road accident. She continued dancing however and went on to become a well-established Bharatnatyam dancer.
Stevie Wonder- blind
Stevie Wonder is an American musician, singer, songwriter, record producer, and instrumentalist. He has recorded more than 30 top ten hits and received 25 Grammy Awards. He has been blind since shortly after birth.
Franklin D. Roosevelt- polio
Franklin D. Roosevelt was President of The United States during the turbulent period of the Second World War. He developed polio in his early 30’s and became paralyzed in both legs. For the remainder of his life he was in a wheelchair including while he served ably as President.
@@jeremyherschler, oh, yeah...physical...but how about developing 20+ seizures every day (it came out of the blue at the age of 30)?
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🖤🤯Wow
I do not hate or envy the rich people who have made their millions with ethics and intelligence but rather I feel admiration and an example to follow, the rich people that if I detest and abhor are those who enriched with corrupt gambling, annihilating competition, bribing politicians, etc and unfortunately they are the vast majority of rich.
I once hated on the rich and the things they’re able to get away with then I found a little success on my own and now understand why they need and use all the resources they have.
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They hate the fact that they didn't have the courage to go through the path the successful people did. In the end they're not only hating the successful ones but also themselves for being cowards .. 😙
Yes!
Pure facts.
First, accept your envy. Second, realize that it doesn't help you grow. Then, change to growth mindset. Comparing yourself to others' success is consuming energy. The process is honestly not easy but you can start with small step at a time. You're not gonna change to a new person overnight. But it will definitely be better.
I hate the feeling of being average. I don't hate others success I hunger for my own. Each milestone my friends hit is a celebration. Each milestone I hit is a goal reached.
Jealousy is the tribute which mediocrity pays to genius.
Average people hate channels like these! Rich mindsets love channels like these because we are learning! Keep up the content!
*"When something is important enough for you, you do it even if the odds are against you."*
I hope this message helps you. 🙂
The world rewards action, not potential. Thanks again for this wonderful content!
You're welcome!
@@Craig121000 I'm interested in your story. What happened?
Ohhhh yes! I am agreeing... I'm in poverty learning my way out lol. I have 0 successful friends. Everyone is always mad at me for not participating in their poor actions. Family does not support my decisions, but here's the difference! I don't give a fμ©k what they think. I am on a positive mission and they are still complaining about everything in life. I remapped my mind and its clear.
There's nothing average about Sophia Loren.
you know how they said that workers shouldn't talk about their wages?
i don't care and I told anyone who wanted to know because i work twice as hard, helping others, teaching new team members how to do their job, doing jobs outside of my position description and etc.
i know my work ethic and others work ethic, if they're angry at my team leader or HR for giving me a higher wage even though i have less seniority
if they file a complaint against me, i will negotiate more because i deserve more than my fellow team members and I'm a team player
i transferred back to my old department and less than six months my team leader handed me two titles (senior and trainer) and i got $5/hr more comparing to the previous department
Average people hate the success of others, because it reminds them of what they could’ve been! But they were too busy doing nothing, and they ended up missing the opportunities leading to that success!
"THE WORLD REWARDS ACTION AND NOT POTENTIAL" This line should be in all caps and bold and large. Truer words may not have been spoken yet 👍👍👍
Hello Aluxers! Pro tip: You can never become what you hate! If you hate the rich, you will never be rich!
Learning how to learn is the ultimate skill one can possess!
Next Sunday we are launching Learning Mastery!
Go to www.alux.com/learn
Yes
Be the drawing point ✍️ among the erasers ✏️
That thumbnail is so rude and disrespectful to Sofia Loren. She is not mediocre. Seriously gonna put a label on her like that is disgusting.
Alux ya be making some stupid as thumbnails and videos sometimes that's why you're losing viewers.
Lollllllllll thats what I tell everyone ahhhaaa
I am an Aluxer!! And the reason most people hate success and learning is because they are lazy, do not want to put in the work, and feel as though it should be given to them instead of going out to get it themselves.
My favorite quote is “if your not a risk taker stay the hell out of business-Ray Kroc”
Average hate the success of others because it’s a projection of insecurity. Look to the experience of good students that are bullied in school. Look to fact Carlton Banks and Steve Urkle are punchlines but Will and Eddie were relatable and more in touch with where the audience was and considered attractive and desirable.
It’s not an accident.
Like James Franco says
"They hate us cause they ain't us"
Many times those that hate on those that are killing it, are the same ones that still sponsor their product or service. Example; Apple and Amazon. Heck, I will even throw Walmart in the mix as well.
Think about it.
The rich gets richer because the poor thinks every opportunity is a scam. To be a successful trader and investor in the game try to take risks if you win you'll happy, if you loss you'll be wise.
Investors make up the top notch hemisphere of the wealth. That's the more reason why one should save and invest to secure profits and ensure success......⚠️
Yep most people are afraid to invest and that's why they'll never get rich.
I think this pandemic has taught people the importance of multiple streams of income unfortunately having a job doesn't mean financial security. So I really appreciate your transparency and giving people a fighting chance during these troubling times.
@@adamshaw9007
Exactly but what have kept you financially stable during this pandemic for it seems jobless people made lots of millions.
Currently I'm 34 years old with a goal to have $5M networth in 5years. I understand that the only thing we can't get back in life is TIME. I want to be TIME RICH. I'm 1/5 of the way there. I know I will make it with discipline. I'm a financial developer and live well below my means. No house payment ever again! If you are curious on how to get your life on track, from my experience, the best thing that has tripled my networth in 1year was my fiduciary financial advisor Mr Andrew Willis Heather. You can use something else. It just takes a clear vision and discipline. Avoid debt cut costs to be Time Rich! Maybe one day, I will own that business I have always dreamed of and enjoy my family life even more.
They don't hate successful people. They hate themselves for not being a successful person themselves.
The average hate success because it's an affront to all the things they could have done with their lives but chose no to. Some choose to cut class, others chose to stay. Some choose to spend their money on boose and drugs, others chose to save and invest. Some choose to wait for opportunity to just fall on their lap, others chose to make opportunities happen. Two years ago I found myself training someone with less experience but more education than I had. I could've chosen to blame the system, play a bunch of identity cards, or finish my education. I chose to get off my ass and finish my Bachelor's degree. Do social factors matter, yes, of course they do. But at the end of the day, it's still a free country and personal responsibility is what makes the difference between mediocrity and success.
Oh thank you. Where to start. You nailed it. Jealousy. Jealousy masked as if I can’t do it no one can, there is no way you are doing better than me. I work harder than any one. But setting your measure in success based on doing better than some one else will always limit your possibilities. That only person I have to impress is myself. And it’s working out pretty well so far.
Indeed, "the only person I have to impress is myself" 👍
Excellent comment. If I may add to "I work harder than anyone." => According to studies nearly everybody works harder then average... ;-) They all should get a soviet medal for "working hero".
The first few seconds of this sounded like me. I’m stoked on my life and anyone who is succeeding with I theirs. Then there was the twist. Some people are not happy for you! Major WTF moment for some. “I thought we were friends and should be proud of each other?”. Jealousy is a toxic mother fucker that keeps many people from doing anything that matters and holds down those whom care about the opinions of those people. It’s hard enough to succeed. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for it.
Thanks for coming to my TED talk. 🤘🤓
Because I have called, and ye refused; I have stretched out my hand, and no man regarded; But ye have set at nought all my counsel, and would none of my reproof: I also will laugh at your calamity; I will mock when your fear cometh; When your fear cometh as desolation, and your destruction cometh as a whirlwind; when distress and anguish cometh upon you. Then shall they call upon me, but I will not answer; they shall seek me early, but they shall not find me: For that they hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the Lord : They would none of my counsel: they despised all my reproof. Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices. For the turning away of the simple shall slay them, and the prosperity of fools shall destroy them. But whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil.
Proverbs 1:24-33
👍 tak sie to zaznaje i odczuwa wewnętrznie i zewnetrznie jakby tak było ze ludzie sa z nami tylko jak mamy sukces
lub ze hejtują gdy go odnosimy.
👍 a to bzdura. Bo są z nami jak czują sie dobrze a czuja sie fajnie jak my czujemy sie fajnie.
💰 Jak czuja mozliwosc i to ze to chca powiedziec przekazać Nam to wyjdzie pozytywnie
jesli czuja inaczej to powstrzymuja sie od mowienia
💰 a ta niezapelniona nisza wiary w siebie
sprawia ze rosnie w nich napięcie
i w koncu mowią nie to co chcą i mowia o nas negatywnie a myslą same najlepsze rzeczy
💰 Czlowiek ma taką nature wlasnie o Innych nie umie myslec negatywnie
a o sobie nie umie nie myslec negatywnie
👍 Nasza natura jest zbyt doskonala
tylko dajemy sie manipulowac Zlu
ktore np sprawia ze doswiadczamy sie negatywnie wzajemnie i samych siebie tez
zaznajemy jakby inni chcieli nam pokrzyzowac szyki
👑 a tak nie jest jest na odwrot
ale zlo tak dlugo i uparcie to wmawia ze zaczynamy w to wierzyc
oczywiscie w teori jest takie ryzyko
❤ ale jesli ma sie dobry kod myslenia np taki jak podaje teraz i ze od Boga pochodza tylko mysli i kojarzenia i odczucia budujące dodające nadzieji i ze musi byc coraz lepiej i ze bedzie zajebiscie i koniec
to sie da pokonac zło
Average people hate successful people because you remind them of their shortcomings. They fall short in aptitude, attitude, disciple and knowledge. That’s a reality they don’t want to accept. It’s easier to hate.
It reminds them of what they are too afraid to go after, and it comes out as anger and jealousy. They aren’t made at you, they are mad at themselves and that is their defense mechanism.
Exactly!! It frustrates them even more, because deep down inside they know they could have done it better than the person who is successful.
This has been great video. I have watched about 5 times trying absorb it all. The goal should always be to uplift yourself and those around you. Never be upset at another's success. Congratulate them.
Your title of today’s video was so relatable like this made me realised that I was the average one , I use to envy my friends who use to win or get appreciation for something and I use to think that anyone could have done , that it could easily have been me but I never got anything….
Now I am realising that it’s time to uplift my personality and I have to learn from them rather than to envy them ….
But honestly its really tough because that envy this is not so easy to throw away like I want to but so quickly judge people and I really want to change that…!!!!!
If you don't learn you don't progress
But most importantly if you don't implement what you learn then you don't get anywhere.
Taking action to achieve a dream is more important than planning how to get there.
So take the action. Lear how to learn and implement it. Cheers 🥂 !!
In America, even if you're poor, you have more tools than anyone ever had at any point in history. Being poor is a choice. Let people hate the truth if they want, it's still the truth.
People get mad at others success because they know they could be successful too but they don’t take action.
@7:37 I think that average ppl hate the success of others because they know that they will no longer relate to ppl who make strides towards building their way out of mediocrity.
Not average. I think the average hate on the successful because they feel like the successful have something that they don't. When in reality they do have it. But because they are focused on what they don't have they may get envious. In addition to that they may lash out. It's better for them to notice themselves in the successful and work on bringing that out of themselves. I honestly didn't know so I put myself in the shoes of a hater. Wich honestly I have been at points in my life and still experience from time to time. I just remind myself to wish them more success and work on myself.
Today is Teacher's Day in india. So Happy Teacher's Day Alux ❤️.
Jealousy is a bitch! Work hard for yourself and you Will make money too.
Average people make a limit to their success meaning they start making short term goals and as they achieve some goals they start getting comfortable with it + distractions relationships , internet . They end up feeling satisfied with their own hardwork and blame the situations for not getting success
Jealousy causes the Losers to hate the winners.
Thank you Alux, Our community is one of the reasons my life is GREAT.
According to my, average people are not willing to put in the effort to be successful, instead, they expect success to come naturally while they sit idle on their couches.
Average people hate the success of others because they think they deserve what the successful people have. They don't care to work for it. They don't aspire to be better. They have no gratitude for where they are. They want the big winning lottery ticket given to them on the proverbial silver platter. It doesn't work that way. It never did. It never will. The opposite of the successful person is the victim. Keep up the Good Work, Alux!
*Don't stop when you are tired, stop when you are done.*
~David Goggins
Had enough of my average life that wasn’t looking in the best direction. Started cutting lawns during the start of COVID while working my part time job at the gym. Was pushing hours everyday and then last summer had an investor come on and we’ve done snow in the winter and now are on our second grass season. Embrace the risk. Thank you ALUX for everything
It's all in the mind average people hate to think for themselves
Hating people aren't happy, & happy people aren't hating..That coveting will get you no where fast, & many are just hypmatized wit hatred! Thanks for the video Alux, we love you over here at TNE!
Hannibal Lecter : First principles, Clarice. Simplicity. Read Marcus Aurelius. Of each particular thing ask: what is it in itself? What is its nature? What does he do, this man you seek?
Clarice Starling : He kills women...
Hannibal Lecter : No. That is incidental. What is the first and principal thing he does? What needs does he serve by killing?
Clarice Starling : Anger, um, social acceptance, and, huh, sexual frustrations, sir...
Hannibal Lecter : No! He covets. That is his nature. And how do we begin to covet, Clarice? Do we seek out things to covet? Make an effort to answer now.
Clarice Starling : No. We just...
Hannibal Lecter : No. We begin by coveting what we see every day. Don't you feel eyes moving over your body, Clarice? And don't your eyes seek out the things you want?
Average People Disliked This Video...what a shame
Average people stop learning and stop growing! That’s why they hate who don’t stop learning!
Thank you soo much alux!
I ll see you at the top.
That's right Rahul! The moment you stop learning, your mindset stand still!
Envy and hate are every successful individual's propeller if this last sees it as an opportunity to update or upgrade his skills and knowledge ; but if successful people look at it as an hindrance to their endeavors they risk losing everything . I haven't been experiencing hate or envy just because I'm far from being called successful;so I don't mind having some additional obstacles or hindrance on my way 😆😆
Average people are upset that they are stuck in a situation that they do not want to be, or someone is achieving the dreams that they once had.
100% accurate.Every single person, friend or family has been a jealous child over me making progress. The more I make the more childish they got lol Don’t deal with any of them anymore and don’t miss any of them either. What is their to miss once people show their true colors like that? Not a thing so cut them all lose and drive on.
Why envy and hate of the successful? It is a reminder of the average person, that they are just mediocre - which is painful. I've been there myself. Luckily I could change my mindset for success and and wish every successful person their success without any envy. Instead, I am steadily working on my own success and try to learn as much as fast as possible from those, who've walked the path of success beforehand.
Some average people think that the rich become rich by various illegal ways, that they would never do. But sometimes, it's diving deep into it and deriving the best possible solution. Finding the loopholes, showing up etc. , it's not cheating. !!
Although I agree with the spirit of the video the profile pic of Sophia Loren and Jayne Mansfield is mislabeled. Yes Sophia was giving her chest some side eye. But who wouldn’t steal a glance at that plunging neck line.
It wasn’t because Sophia was average in fact she is exceptional and that party where the photograph was taken was to officially welcome her to Beverly Hills since she was already a super star in Europe. Jayne Mansfield wore that revealing dress to steal the spotlight. If anything she was the hater of other peoples success.
Because people see that they lack the drive necessary to become and MAINTAIN success!!!!
The flip side of that is people who all they do is learn and take no real actions and have nothing to show for it. My in-laws are highly educated and always taking courses. They’re broke, have horrible attitudes and have little to nothing to show for said “education”. They just judge and hate successful people, so strange.
I don't like successful people, obsession with gym, right food, relevant books, constant progress etc. Simply don't. Try to overcome it, but I really envy them, cannot enjoy their success etc. Sorry.
if you're not suffering, you're not sacrificing
Most people hate the success of others simply because they're "stupid" and so comfy in their tiny little box there are imprisoned in. :))
On a simple level yes, you are corect.
I have finally learned this lesson recently.
Average stay average because they choose based on potential. It is almost like religion.
Successful ones choose based on action and facts.
Great video Alux!
Been an Aluxr for a while because of topics like this, not to mention the Sunday special's.
This inspired Krouzz Tv.
Thanks Alux
Best of luck then!
Two things. What does success mean? does it need to be money or is there other knowledge tool that could replace it? To me, money is security and freedom above all. But…I know you can still feel freedom with just so less USD in another corner of the world.
Second, when you see so much rich people that made their wealth under dark or at least in a non-ethical deal. Drug dealers, corrupt politicians, or companies that promote corruption in politics like Odebrecht. As a citizen I do feel resentful at them, and they are so many. They use the police force, the military force. It’s the state, it’s an oligarchy. You cannot like that form of making business, paying por laws to be approved for the few that get really rich.
How can you succedd in an environment of business?