MY STAND-IN ตัวนาย ตัวแทน | EP.4 REACTION Highlights

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[@XlotusflowerX-ec9yl]

I have seen two types of reactions after this episode.
One side, the people that pity Ming and only see the part where he waited two years for Joe to return and who forgot the emotional, mental and the physical abuse Joe went through at the hands of Ming.
The other side where people just PRAY FOR MING’S DOWNFALL.
Ming doesnt respect Joe or his feelings at all and treats him a possession.
He is manipulative, possessive and abusive, therefore he is an abuser.
Ming has verbally abused Joe and now add physically abuse.
Some have tried to dismiss Ming’s behaviour for example as him just being a young guy who is unstable and immature, now all that may be true but that DOES NOT and IS NOT AN EXCUSE for ABUSIVE BEHAVIOUR.
I could care less if Ming has been waiting for two years for Joe to come back.
Ming waiting for Joe like that wasnt romantic at all in my opinion.
Ming knocked Joe out and put him on house arrest, all because of his jealousy or just because Tong told him to ect, the reason doesnt matter because it doesnt not make what he did any less bad or make it disappear.
Ming is responsible for his actions, period.
I really don’t know how I could see Ming in any different light after this.
The abuse and the level of evil and selfishness to sabotage Joe’s life for favor with Tong leaves no redeemable qualities in my book.
Joe is such a sweetheart and deserves better.
His and Ming relationship is toxic/abusive and I truly do not want them to end up together!
In my opinion it has already been shown through out the series that this relationship is abusive but you’ll find more as the series goes on.
I’ve seen many people say how they dislike/hate Ming but also some people have been putting the blame on Joe.
Some have said that because Joe made this or that choice then what happens is on him or that if Joe goes back to Ming then what ever happens is on him/his fault.
Some have even said that Joe is bigger/stronger and so he could just defend himself in any given situation.
All of those statements are VICTIM BLAMING.
Joe is a victim, and the victim blaming that I have seen is devastating but also unfortunately not suprising.
It could be that some do not understand how abusive relationships work and how that affects you mentally and physically.
Since the beginning there have been red flags but sometimes you are unable to notice them and before you know it, your in a abusive relationship that you cannot get out of and the cycle of abuse has been created.
Getting out of a abusive relationship doesnt happen over night and it isnt easy, because you may not be even aware that you are in a abusive relationship to begin with or that youre being abused.
For example some are able to leave an abusive relationship themselves and some leave with the help of others but there are also many who only get out of a abusive relationship when the abuser wanted to end their relationship.
In some cases once a person is out of an abusive relationship, they are able to stay out and not return to their abuser but there are also people who unfortunately have ended up leaving and returning to their abuser multiple times, until ultimately finally breaking the cycle of abuse and getting out of the abusive relationship.
All that being said, There is NO such thing as a perfect victim and therefore non of those things make you any less of a VICTIM.
Ming at some point realizing he loved Joe, wanting him back and feeling guilty because of how he treated Joe in the past and how Joe felt pushed into a corner & took a job he shouldn't have and it cost him his life or Ming loving Joe and Joe loving Ming…
That still DOES NOT mean they should end up together.
If Ming says sorry and is sorry and is ready to be forgiven, that DOESNT mean Joe is under any obligation to forgive him.
Joe has the right to his feelings and what ever he maybe feeling, hurt and anger ect cause all of that is valid.
He also has the right to say how he feels after everything that happened between him and Ming.
I really hope this series doesn’t go that way I think it will, where the abusive person gets a redemption arc.
There is no redemption for Ming in my opinion.
The happy ending for this series should be something along the lines of Joe getting out of his relationship with Ming and getting Ming out of his life completely.
Joe getting help for his trauma and being able to rebuild his life again, ultimately finding his happiness again alone or with someone new.
I have to admit that this is a biased opinion.
As i’m someone who has been through abuse and experienced being in a toxic/abusive relationship before.
So for anyone who reads this, this is just my thoughts/opinions.
I respect and think everyones thoughts and opinions are valid, as we all are different and therefore see things differently.
I would love to hear anyones thoughts as well, as I love getting to hear different pov’s on things.
My only wish is for everyone to be respectful, thank you.
Ps.Sorry for this long comment and Thank you so much your reaction.
Its always interesting hearing your opinions and getting to hear your pov on things.
Stay healthy and I’ll see you next time.

[@ladyjaizreact]

Exactly my thoughts. I have already watched episodes 6 and 7, and I will be posting the reactions soon. Personally, I really don't want Joe to end up with Ming. It would be disappointing for me if the writers choose to take their relationship in that direction. However, I do acknowledge the importance of Ming receiving the necessary mental help he requires. He's not okay at all and at this point he's dangerous for others and himself. My poor Joe. He's surrounded by a lot of toxic people. Can't he have a break? I'm so sad for him.

[@ladyjaizreact]

Your comment was so true. Thank you for it.

[@veraanastasiaramirezrozas1633]

@@ladyjaizreactI have slight issue with how the top commenter assumes that people had forgot how Ming treated Joe. No one forgot anything. Even the ones who like Ming's character aren't that oblivious. It's that some people took the time to actually step back and see all the sides of Ming. Analysed him till no crumbs were left behind. Tumblr had made wonderful analysis on his character. I never once had actually defended his actions. But I can understand him. And I feel for him too.

[@liyana_sadalee1662]

I'm begging you... pleas don't drop this series😢😢😢😢