5 HORRIBLE Mistakes Men Make When Texting Women!

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Komentáře • 164

  • @dhananjayks3697
    @dhananjayks3697 Před 3 lety +37

    Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.

    • @SpaceCityCards2012
      @SpaceCityCards2012 Před 3 lety +1

      You have that right. You have to validate yourself. If they do not value you, then that is on them. They do not deserve you. I'm sure that there are plenty of other women out there for you.

  • @marvinsumlin5098
    @marvinsumlin5098 Před 3 lety +36

    I am so frustrated with all the games..guessing....I just want a conversation...not all the bs
    ...it's so annoying

  • @jonathanvazquez9685
    @jonathanvazquez9685 Před 2 lety

    This was excellent! Thanks Apollonia; you're the best in the business!

  • @okoriekennethchukwuebuka9353

    You're good at what you do. Thanks for this.

  • @opusandtarquez
    @opusandtarquez Před 3 lety +20

    Too many emojis are a killer. Definitely immature. Texting like a 16 year old girl is not the business!

  • @faraimaringa7323
    @faraimaringa7323 Před 3 lety

    This was good. Watched a lot of your videos, and they are great. But this was clean and can be recommended to anyone. Merci Beacoup!

  • @outlawstarr5209
    @outlawstarr5209 Před 3 lety +23

    Good morning Apollonia, happy Taco Tuesday.

  • @tony.johnson666
    @tony.johnson666 Před 3 lety +6

    Thank's Apollonia, loved this video. A lot of good advice. I love the way you put the humanity back into the scheme of things. It makes things so much easier to set boundaries.

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  Před 3 lety +1

      You are so welcome! Also, thank for this comment. Happy you notice. :-)

  • @BB-uz4tc
    @BB-uz4tc Před 3 lety +2

    Hey AP keep up the great work.:)

  • @twelveoclock4877
    @twelveoclock4877 Před 3 lety

    Thank you! U are so real and transformational and the cool thing is that its so simple. Your the best! Thank you Apollonia..

  • @vt3musicproduction
    @vt3musicproduction Před 3 lety

    Very sounds sensible advice !
    Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @kevinbengi
    @kevinbengi Před 3 lety +1

    Hi am from Kenya. thanks for the amazing relationship advices. it really helps

  • @MenMovement
    @MenMovement Před 3 lety

    Great material Apollonia. Thank you 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @guitarplayer1902
    @guitarplayer1902 Před 2 lety

    thanks for the tips on emojis. I usually like using them but I will take these tips into consideration! I will watch my usage.

  • @dougackerman4182
    @dougackerman4182 Před 3 lety

    Great information

  • @davidharris8797
    @davidharris8797 Před 3 lety

    Good night Apollonian 😴 good info 👌👍

  • @johngonzalez4298
    @johngonzalez4298 Před 3 lety +3

    This was a great video AP, very informative. Saludos desde Miami, Florida, USA 🇺🇲

  • @meme-zv7kw
    @meme-zv7kw Před 3 lety

    Great advice

  • @dallasdandy6276
    @dallasdandy6276 Před 3 lety

    Hey Apollonia. I know I critique your content much but I missed you. Nice to see you back. It's been awhile since you did videos back to back. Always love hearing you and looking at you.

  • @omerismail7599
    @omerismail7599 Před 3 lety

    thanks for your beautiful advice apollonia

  • @axxis402
    @axxis402 Před 3 lety +1

    I like your videos Apollonia I wish you could do a segment on maybe you have already on dating women from other countries. Know some of the things that you say apply but also there is a language barrier at times and how this could be accomplished successfully thank you.

  • @oscarggg7864
    @oscarggg7864 Před 3 lety +1

    Gorgeous, thanks for all your great content

  • @OmniKrauzer
    @OmniKrauzer Před 3 lety +6

    Come clean, come correct, be precise💯

  • @CW-pu4yb
    @CW-pu4yb Před 3 lety

    You can't take away the essence of the emotional connection you are...... GREAT ADVICE.

  • @mikespiller4426
    @mikespiller4426 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much for this 🙏😁

  • @tauriqabdullah6130
    @tauriqabdullah6130 Před 3 lety +2

    One of the best content creators on CZcams! Thanks for the help. So much wisdom and sincerity. I don't know if are aware of Myers Briggs 16 personalities. I get the feel you an Infj/Intj

  • @christopherluka1326
    @christopherluka1326 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you babe

  • @danielsantana540
    @danielsantana540 Před 3 lety

    Great vid

  • @Ronkingdaley82
    @Ronkingdaley82 Před 3 lety

    Great teacher

  • @mikejarrells431
    @mikejarrells431 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks. I don't get giddy now. Emotional independence rocks. 😉

  • @shanehixson6706
    @shanehixson6706 Před 3 lety +2

    I didnt learn anything new but I am grateful this was all common sense!

  • @jaywalken2269
    @jaywalken2269 Před 3 lety +3

    Love your video's, I have been dating an amazing woman for 2 yrs now and we had a few bumps along the way. We lived together and that was good for a while but she lost her independence and we fell into a rut, we have taken a few steps back and I am learning from my mistakes and some of your video's how to not fall back into that rut and be an overall better partner for her...THANK YOU!!!!

  • @kennethhenderson4006
    @kennethhenderson4006 Před 3 lety

    Thanks, not so many emojis! I appreciate your advice.

  • @adriankj3938
    @adriankj3938 Před 3 lety +1

    G”day. Really enjoy your videos and have learned a great deal.

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  Před 3 lety

      Thanks 👍

    • @adriankj3938
      @adriankj3938 Před 3 lety

      @@ApolloniaPonti Could you please do a video about the friend zone and no contact situation and the best ways to navigate through a situation as such. 👍

  • @francisakoto-sampong6189

    Much love from Ghana 👍

  • @ronaldflagge2282
    @ronaldflagge2282 Před 3 lety

    Thank you.

  • @Shinkyogan
    @Shinkyogan Před 3 lety +6

    i used to do 5....but through mastering myself, i realized it actually depends on what type of woman your dealing with....you are 100% correct! if a woman likes you, she WILL(no pun intended) want to hear from you!

    • @JohnM...
      @JohnM... Před rokem +1

      Not necessarily. If she likes you she SHOULD text you first.

  • @sjallow9601
    @sjallow9601 Před 3 lety

    Thank you my dear sister

  • @JuanDominguez-
    @JuanDominguez- Před 3 lety

    Balance is key for success 💯

  • @Creativecanines
    @Creativecanines Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for this one before I even watch 🤩🤩🤩

  • @jdubya3055
    @jdubya3055 Před 3 lety

    Thank you

  • @arabtv9308
    @arabtv9308 Před 3 lety +14

    Make a video on how to start a conversation with any girl because sometimes we guys don’t know what to text?

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  Před 3 lety +3

      Yes! I have a couple already. Just search in my videos.

  • @Kotello
    @Kotello Před 3 lety +1

    Hi thanks for the tips! I have one question, how can I subscribe to a video?

  • @timgillenwater5989
    @timgillenwater5989 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much for all your help I am a widower and thinking about meeting someone

  • @nateb1194
    @nateb1194 Před 3 lety +1

    Hey AP! I hope you see this comment!
    I’ve finally watched all of your videos from start to now, took me about a month. I’m in a situation where my lady loves me but isn’t in love with me. Only been together for a few months, but everything is so good, in every stand point except she’s overthinking everything and double guessing. While I’m sitting here living life normal and I have that ride-or-die grinding type of love lady by my side, and her beautiful little girl. Little do I know she’s having insecurities with not having a car, being too fresh out of her relationship with her baby’s dad (6 months out). So I tell her how I felt the whole time and I’m not phased by the obstacles in front of me because I work for what I want and I want a strong healthy relationship. I have no problem letting time flush my love for her out. She told me she needs time, I can understand that so I’m letting her figure her stuff out. For me it’s back to normal life plus more intense gym workouts and good book reads. I know I’m doing the right thing because of you Apollonia! Thank you so much! If there’s anything you’d like to add please do :)

  • @DEMETRIUSblaze
    @DEMETRIUSblaze Před 3 lety

    Apollonia you shine with wisdom and that Jean Gray truth from X-Men, I'm guilty of the last one if I were into a woman cause I'm a introvert tend get lost in my own world, and spelling my spelling at times and grammar is unique my own. So if had a woman were into one which I am. She's a family friend daughter I'm bad at letting feelings be known

  • @tomaszsosnowski9279
    @tomaszsosnowski9279 Před 3 lety +8

    Call her and avoid the pitfalls of emojis, spelling errors, unread texts. Especially if you have a deep low voice and use dynamic inflection.

  • @donghyukkim8327
    @donghyukkim8327 Před 3 lety

    she is the master of dating coach.

  • @ericl.727
    @ericl.727 Před 3 lety +18

    Men are not told anything 😂; we are on our own. That's the problem.....

  • @juanbaez2561
    @juanbaez2561 Před 3 lety

    APOLONIA PONTI VERY PHOTOGENIC AND ATTRACTIVE..

  • @javielbarber2110
    @javielbarber2110 Před 3 lety +10

    Fellas u have to outpatient a woman and stimulate a woman psychologically

  • @earvinlewis1
    @earvinlewis1 Před 3 lety +17

    I'm old school...pick the phone up and CALL me...or better yet, come see me in person!

  • @anthonyvasquez5128
    @anthonyvasquez5128 Před rokem

    Funny how I come across this video because I just exchanged numbers today with a woman who I have come to know about two weeks ago.

  • @CookaSoupNieceEH
    @CookaSoupNieceEH Před 3 lety +20

    I'm dating a woman and we talked about our childhood. I sent a picture of myself when I was 2-3 years old (naked). Does this violate your rule nr.4? For full disclosure, she laughed her ass off.

  • @Lovo369
    @Lovo369 Před 3 lety

    Hi, can you recommend a good coach for women?

  • @50rayko
    @50rayko Před rokem

    i love you already :)

  • @kidsomagnificent
    @kidsomagnificent Před 3 lety

    Now the last 5th mistake I will definitely keep in mind because this girl I’m digging on the Snapchat I thought about taking a step back from texting just to keep from being needy just so things would be afloat but now I know not doing texting period waiting for her will also kill the vibe not knowing she still likes you.

  • @harshgulati9006
    @harshgulati9006 Před 3 lety

    Hello apollonia mam. Thanks for this video. Mam could you please make a video on how to impress and attract girls who are living in other countries on text messages???

  • @The.random-Cars-on-streets

    first viewer♥️

  • @davidharris8797
    @davidharris8797 Před 3 lety

    I text a girl she came over and asked if we gonna faq I said yeah but not usually b4 the first date she one we faq b4 the first date hi is a good approach

  • @jitualwa6620
    @jitualwa6620 Před 3 lety

    Hey mam you're awesome
    Can you make a video for heart broken girl , actually there is a women who was in relationship with me from past 3 months but in the middle she felt broken because of her past relationship which was of 5 years and now i think after heart broking her feeling for me was lost and she was taken time from me and now she want me in life as a friend and don't want to think about relationship with me and I'll feel for her so what should i do
    Plz reply

  • @alberthenriette8976
    @alberthenriette8976 Před 3 lety +8

    Great advice...but at the end of the day, the depth of your pocket can make a great difference.

  • @damanybrown5036
    @damanybrown5036 Před 3 lety +1

    Sexting was not told to us it is assumed because we are turned on visually so we transfer what we find sexy and think that it is empathized for a woman to enjoy this because we do!

  • @laminator2
    @laminator2 Před 3 lety

    is this a new video? Apollonia? edited...I just so used to seeing Natalie haha

  • @tomertvx
    @tomertvx Před 3 lety +2

    i sent her a message, but if i saw and feel that she's texting back to me in few hours the the messages are low and no going i just walk away cut content... i hate Hard to Get but that's the game...

  • @74aamer
    @74aamer Před 3 lety +1

    Won’t be going to do that again

  • @Spdx913
    @Spdx913 Před 3 lety +1

    I hate texting

  • @TheMisterioChannel
    @TheMisterioChannel Před 3 lety

    Question I told a girl I like that I really liked her a lot ,when asked how she feels about me she said " not the same as you feel " . Did I mess up my chances with her ? In advance Thanks . Love your videos

  • @delanowilliamson6738
    @delanowilliamson6738 Před 3 lety

    The last 1 was funny lol

  • @okayman2057
    @okayman2057 Před 3 lety

    When you are dyslexic but people don't know you are. It's tough af for me man.

  • @bencrosbie
    @bencrosbie Před 3 lety

    Ah so its okay to text abit between the date arrangement and date time. some girls lost interest before the day of the date but that makes sence lol

  • @gamerbum3348
    @gamerbum3348 Před 3 lety

    So we went ice skating and to the movies these were separate dates but then we were supposed to go get sushi yesterday but she said she had to clean her house because her mom said so we didn’t go I said no big deal we can do it another time she said sounds good thanks and she has not texted me since yesterday what should I do

  • @antonmihajlov5322
    @antonmihajlov5322 Před 3 lety

    Hi Appolonia, can do a video about how to start texting her if we dont know her personally for example on Facebook. And maybe a video where you had good exchange of texts but you want to take it to a sexual level. Cheers!

  • @jasonguzman7083
    @jasonguzman7083 Před 3 lety

    question.... this girl im talking to, all she does is play games through text, what should i do in this situation? please help

  • @backpackprepper6658
    @backpackprepper6658 Před 3 lety +1

    🤣🤣🤣ok I'm found guilty at the sexting part. Cause I asked my crush if I ever lost my mask she can replace it with her panties. And this might be the reason why I'm being ghosted so much

  • @kperks4463
    @kperks4463 Před 2 lety

    With girls I’ve dated I started out texted them a lot then we would FaceTime for hours and then I would take them out on a date and all those relationships lasted at least 6 months so how is that wrong?

  • @blasianprince6458
    @blasianprince6458 Před 3 lety +2

    Well some time over do everything

  • @reallove3028
    @reallove3028 Před 3 lety

    What do you mean by build attraction people are attracted to each other naturally

  • @Useragreement101
    @Useragreement101 Před 3 lety

    Can you do a video on meeting the woman's parents?

  • @darrickbrisco5016
    @darrickbrisco5016 Před 3 lety +1

    This executive with the New York Mets was texting a female reporter nudes and other text and she wasn’t responding well he was fired today

  • @johnlopez9014
    @johnlopez9014 Před 3 lety

    I met this woman weeks before the pandemic, we have continued through IG. At times I have made the mistake of wanting to know more about her n she would respond very quickly. We message from 10am to 1am. Months have gone by n things are more relax( thank goodness) she’s given me her number n we just recently started through WhatsApp. But what I noticed is, lately she’ll respond to me at WhatsApp but when I wanna continue in IG, I’m ignored. She still watches my stories, she’s always the first one. What gives?

  • @Addias342
    @Addias342 Před 3 lety +1

    Lol, where was this advice last week?

  • @sheltonturner2023
    @sheltonturner2023 Před 3 lety

    Ok what do I do when I text her and ask her why is she so shy around me and she does not respond back?.... she flirts every now and then plus I always make her laugh sooo why didn't she answer my question???? I'm confused?

  • @davidharris8797
    @davidharris8797 Před 3 lety +2

    My spelling sucks my iPad sucks it’s always changing my words I catch it later 🤦‍♂️

  • @manasmhatre8200
    @manasmhatre8200 Před 3 lety +1

    I like a girl , but she is getting hard to get coz she had a bad relationship with her ex. We have a friendly connection , but she need too much space ,she gives me hints sometime, what should I do

    • @XxXDemonhunter
      @XxXDemonhunter Před 3 lety

      Maybe wait, maybe move on. Your choice. Depends on the hints she is sending you. If she is serious or just fooling around.

  • @ak47god53
    @ak47god53 Před 3 lety

    I made mistakes that hurted my gf and broke her heart and changed my ways to better for myself and her and we have a kid but still hasn’t moved in because of my mistakes and yesterday she told me she feeling attached to another guy. I don’t know if she’s trying to revenge me or mess up my thoughts even if she admitted that wanna get in my head a few times and told me she loves me and said “ you can get attached to someone and still love the person you love” and I need your help

    • @ak47god53
      @ak47god53 Před 3 lety

      I told her I’ll give her space and she says” I’m gonna miss you if you leave” so it’s like going around in circles and she still comes sees me and I do the little things that makes her happy but I fr need a good advice

  • @michaelscott6216
    @michaelscott6216 Před 3 lety +2

    Ignore number 5
    Never let a fish tell you how to catch a fish

  • @renzo4180
    @renzo4180 Před 3 lety

    Number 4 is just the lack of self awareness.
    You have to be able to read the situation. You haven't peaked her interest yet and if she's not actually in that kind of mood... don't send her any pictures. It's like your trying to force her to like you and no one wants that.

  • @ryana-6762
    @ryana-6762 Před 3 lety

    A girl that I'm seeing who likes me like she always replies to my messages however she always uses emojis and bad spelling? does that mean I should friend zone her? I would rather give her the benefit of the doubt because it seems quite shallow to judge her by her texts?

  • @chriscollesano8463
    @chriscollesano8463 Před 3 lety

    I had a girl text my late one night. I was half out of it so I was using voice text ing . She said some thing about being fat which I replied you aren’t fat but it came out as , you are fat. I said I didn’t mean to say that it was a mistake and she replied with , hmhmm. Haven’t heard back from her that was over six months ago

  • @supashep1
    @supashep1 Před 3 lety

    Only text to set up a date.

  • @672912
    @672912 Před 3 lety

    Spelling is on both sides of the fence. Sexual connotation in a text message is in a lot of cases, because that is all she knows or leads people to believe. Example, What are some of your hobbies: Shopping, clubbing. Most of the time women will lead you to believe or prove they are ignorant. Pictures... have you seen how sparsely dressed women are today, asking her to take off her clothes? Why, she is already showing off everything. This is a rather fraught predicament on both sides.

  • @BastienEntertainment
    @BastienEntertainment Před 3 lety +1

    “What has the world come to.” You can definitely say that again! Hahahaha!

  • @alisahed8376
    @alisahed8376 Před 3 lety

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Bwh-rm3py
    @Bwh-rm3py Před 3 lety

    One woman's too much is the next woman's not enough!

  • @Devlins10
    @Devlins10 Před 3 lety

    I use too many emojis sometimes lol. I'm 45 grow the hell up ! Hhahaha

  • @lukalukadublin
    @lukalukadublin Před 3 lety

    Just call her, don't freeking text and make drama

  • @ronwambo75
    @ronwambo75 Před 2 lety

    You keep on talking about your other "coaches," I think u should be filming it and uplaod it or better still have it like a show of sorts.

  • @k8rade313
    @k8rade313 Před 3 lety

    Ok so like... I’m a lesbian and I’m pretty feminine and I do all of these mistakes but it’s been working on a bisexual woman I’m seeing but she knows I’m in law school and stuff and she’s completely put together like older 20s, just got promoted, very confident, beautiful, and she doesn’t seem to care about any of the rules I’m breaking over text, so idk that these tips are gospel

    • @raphaelostrowski6336
      @raphaelostrowski6336 Před 3 lety

      I feel it works different with lesbians. Girls are more defensive for good reasons against guys. A lot of fuckbois ruin it for everyone

  • @davidharris8797
    @davidharris8797 Před 3 lety +1

    My