How to Have More FUN!
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In this episode of The Charged Life, high performance coach and #1 New York Times bestselling author Brendon Burchard discusses four simple ways to have more fun and enjoyment in life. This is Brendon speaking freestyle, recorded in one take without prompter or notes. Post your questions for him below, and he might do an episode answering your question freestyle.
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SUMMARY:
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Fun is not something you “have,” it’s something you generate.
More fun and enjoyment in life are results of greater presence and intention to create fun and joy in all you do. Here’s how to have more fun:
1. Tell yourself, “It is my intention to be present and have fun in this moment.” Most great fun in life comes from an immersion in the moment. In immersion joy arises. In immersion humor can perpetuate. In immersion in the moment and presence in the Now you have access to a greater level of energy and awareness all around you that you can transform into fun.
2. Record the moments of joy and happiness in your life. Many people can’t easily recall the top 10 times they’ve had fun in the last year. It’s not because they didn’t have fun, it’s because they never integrated that fun into their memory and being. They didn’t think about it, reflect on it, journal about it, and so it never stuck in their heads and hearts. If you want fun to be a part of you then you must feel it, recall it, integrate it into your identity.
3. Create a “this brings me joy and fun” list. Do you even know what exactly brings you joy, pleasure, passion, happiness, fulfillment? If you are aware of WHAT and WHO brings those things into your life, then you can have them on a target list to do or be around more often. Also, create a “these things do not bring me joy and fun” list, and immediately stop doing those things so often - delegate them, quit them, transition them, avoid them…but do not do them with regular occurrence any longer. Take command of your life and rid it of passionless things.
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ABOUT BRENDON BURCHARD
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Brendon Burchard is one of the most widely followed personal development trainers of our time. He is in the Top 100 Most Followed Public Figures on Facebook, and a #1 New York Times bestselling author whose books include The Charge, The Millionaire Messenger, and Life’s Golden Ticket. He is the founder of High Performance Academy, the legendary personal development program for achievers, and Experts Academy, the world’s most comprehensive marketing training for authors, speakers, coaches, and online thought leaders. For these works, Larry King named Brendon "one of the top motivation and marketing trainers in the world."
After a car accident at 19 years old inspired him to turn his life around and follow his dreams, and then having the blessings to become a multimillionaire writer and trainer by the age of 32, Brendon has dedicated his life to helping others find their charge and share their voice with the world.
Meet Brendon at www.BrendonBurchard.com
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ABOUT THE CHARGED LIFE
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I've learned that one of the best ways to have fun is to enjoy the random. Get out of your own head about how things have to be and if they go bad, laugh at it.
I once dropped a noodle into someone's coffee and got yelled at for it... but all I could think was how ridiculous it was to be so worried about a noodle that wouldn't affect the taste of the coffee, wasn't dirty or Grose, it was just there at the bottom of the cup when you finished.
It was something funny, random, (and to tell the truth I did it by accident.) And it was harmless. But some people's immediate reaction is to get upset. My immediate reaction is to laugh at these things. Even if it had ruined the coffee, it's still something to laugh at. Why get upset about such tiny things, why worry about it even if things go bad. Save your cares for when they are really needed.
Don't be addicted to your phone like me
preach
The talk has so much depth in it. The ultimate direction of life is to have good quality time. To make somebody’s day. Beautifully said.
"I was at a wedding and I danced like a chicken" hahahahahaha 😂
I am addicted to you sir!
going through your videos one by one...love your energy!
so full of life...
top ten things for me having fun.
1.memes
2.bmx
3.youtube
4.music
5.hanging out with friends
6.making videos
7. ping pong
8.pranking
9.videogames
10.eating
im having fun most times. but sometimes not. ima try to have more fun. thanks
Cool, now try to interact with people, have fun with people, friends, family, energize your life! sooner or later youll be forgeting to watch memes and youtube, cause you'll havinig Waaaaay more fun,.
Good Luck!
for years now iv been in this pit of unhappiness and the one thing iv craved more than anything is the feeling of true happiness. . and iv just spent the last half hour or more watching your videos and it's strange I have this sense of change just over come me .. wow I feel like to put it bluntly sorting my sh!t out .. thank you. . really thank you
Brendon thank you! I'm all the way here from Brazil keeping track of your work and videos, and it has been such a blessing! Wanted to let you know about it!
The way to have fun is by helping others -- service, to others, give -- knowledge, money, material things, support, etc. etc.
i think most people are not having fun because they're having "fun" by other people's standards, getting tagged along to do things that their friend's think is fun, and ect, so what you said about define what's fun for you is perfect! you gotta do what's fun to you!
drugs...
Hi Brendon,
thanks for your really inspiring videos :) most of the time i get the fuel to create an awesome day by watching your videos :)
In this video you have pointed out to the intention of creating fun and silly and ridiculous moments which creates a temporal feeling of happiness. in my opinion these type of happiness will go away immediately and i can't enjoy them. In fact, I'm looking for something that makes me enjoy my life and my existence more permanently. I have tried both ways of having fun and to me the permanent feeling is much sweeter and joyful than the temporal one. Trying to find something funny just for the purpose of laughing for some minutes doesn't make my soul to be happy. in my opinion real joy in life comes from helping somebody in some way that makes you feel important so that you can become proud of your existence :)
Keep posting cool videos :)
Always the best advice. Always answers in full detail. Amazing fun Brendon!! You are the best
watching you makes me happy, you're magnetic my good fella
I remember experiencing a lot fun for a week with my friends in Mexico. I was there for our 20th High School reunion and it was great. We were all happy to see each other again and we had fun for days. After that week the to do lists back at home were a breeze. The mind needs fun. Fun is very healing and the mind needs it. Perhaps our perception perception of fun needs to be re-evaluated. Mine needs to have a close look and be re-evaluated.
Thank you !
you really changed my life Brendon.Motivational videos are shit they just tell you about goal setting but they really don't talk how to change your mental state. its your videos that guided me how to control my mind to remain happy and focused on my goal..
I'm a huge journaler as well. I've never thought about writing down what I have fun doing, though. My next entry is definitely going to be a list of things that I love to do! Peace and blessings:)
Great to hear this on sunday...get ready for the new week! thank you brandon!
Brendon killed it again. Great episode! #BrendonBurchard
Watching your videos is FUN!!
i cant believe this video only has +2300 views! Lunatic! phenomenal video Brendon, Thanks a lot!
You always make my day! So inspirational.
thank you so much for theses video, I love them.
This was great! I really enjoyed it. I think that for me to have more fun i would have to stop stressing over the small stuff and like he said just have a more playful mindset. Change in my life has come from a change in thinking. Want to be more fun? Think like a fun person would!!
You got it!!! Have Fun!! And everything Else, he mentioned!!
I need to watch this video again and again because sometimes I get too serious in life LOL
Thanks Brendon, much love from Bali ❤️
Most of my fun I've had in Bali :-) Surfing, vipee, sky garden (no more), ...
I wanted to like this video while watching more than once! LOL you're amazing, thank you! Been looking for this answer for quite a while (:
Thank you so much for this valuable advice Brendon!I It helps us have a richer and positive sense of life!
You are a huge inspiration source to me Brendon, and I try to live and preach your way of life every day. Easier said than done some times. But I have found that by focusing in on one theme every week, I can get a substantial progress continuously. So I started a channel to put out videos; weekly challenges focused on personal development, to inspire others to do them as well. Much of my content is based on your teachings and I basically listen to your podcast every day. This week I’ve found inspiration in this video and based my challenge on it! You, and Tony, are my true virtual mentors I will carry with me for live. Thank you so much.
Wonderful video. Added to my favourites :):)
Thank you. You make my day. You give me hope.
Thank you, Brandon for your insight. I am a person that makes jokes, have many friends who like her. But with this input I can not agree more. Well done!
tq and well explained and shared...having too much fun is taboo for some people. Tq for explaining the importance and benefit of fun!
You are indeed the most inspiring person on youtube.
Love this. Thanks Brendon!
A-M-A-Z-I-N-G !!!!
You're an inspiration!
Great video! I can relate to the situation of a boring life because im in my gcse years and im going to try to change my life and have more fun.
i think you just may have cured my depression.. thank you
Your energy is amazing!
You inspire me, and have helped me through a lot very quickly. You're honestly phenomenal. Thanks,
Thank you so much, Brendon!
Your awesome man. Subscribing now. Keep it up. Thank you
Thank you Brendon !
I don't only listen to you, I full make a mind-map of ideas that you state!
I love this so much!
I almost forgot about the reality of fun, (scary) Today I'm going out there in the world to have fun. I"ll find something to do, maybe a few things for the day. Thank you for the inspiration. :)
Wow, this is so inspiring.
BamBams moose just wow !
Spoke directly to me I cannot stress the importance of presence
OMG your videos helped me so much thanks you ❤️👌🙊🙊😄🌟
Listening to your video's are fun. :D
Loved it❤
Sir , your clips are really inspiring
Great video, thank you
Beautiful, Amazing Man!!
Life over tasks👏🏽👏🏽
This is great!
Great video!
thx !! hat will enhance my energy
great! need to apply this.
Can someone tell what music he uses in his videos? it's uplifting.
Brendon...You are a true mentor. I watch your films and training and it's just so amazing. I miss this positive energy for life that we get in the USA.
See, I've been in Poland for 10yrs now and trying to live this life you talk about. More importantly, I try to share it with others.
It would so great if you set it so your video's can be translated.and subtitled. It's amazing what you can do with a 'Fiverr' translator and amara.org/. It's possible to get your videos(
To have fun is easy, but to have fun without drugs and alcohol - that's challenge! Try to make video on that!
Seek and ye shall find... ask and ye shall receive... everything begins with choice... what do you really, really want...?
7:22 but that wrongly implies that you don't have fun on your own; it must, for if friends are the wellspring of fun, then being alone is being without that wellspring. But being alone can be a gas too, I submit. I would offer a counter saying: "Poor is the man whose pleasure depends on the permission of another." Madonna put that in one of her videos also.
Brendon,
How about if you try to initiate fun, but your concept of fun isn't fun to other people, or they are not willing to have fun with you. What if you have friends who aren't fun, and you wish to initiate more, but they don't want to have fun (as in they cut it off at the last second). They obviously don't want to hang out, especially if it perpetuates. At that moment, is it a decision to leave those friends behind and find new ones, or be ambitious enough to try to find their level of fun? Thank you, your video is inspiring. God bless.
Uthank you so much!!
- being funny and cracking jokes with your friends.
- friendship is the wellspring of fun
- I love producing writing and recording music
- learn the piano and the guitar
- learn luganda
- go to Uganda
- interact with people during your day
sooo AMAZING!!!!! :) :) :) :) :)
Roll on FUN!
EPIC!!
Great video :)
I need to fulfill myself in more fun activities.
Thank you
yeah!!!
You are an example of a fulfilled person doug
I have fun every day.
So what I understod from this video that fun hardly can be experienced when you're alone. I'll never experience fun. )
sooooooooooo remove school?
You could make school fun???
+Judar Mauran on my country you can kkkk
Actually school is very fun ...all my most fun times I had they are in school
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Hello sir, i created a website in where i talk about how to have fun. Can i please use this video on my site.
Generate fun, intention
Immerse in the moment.
What is fun for you? Fun list
Can I delegate washing the dishes? Mmm no. But maybe I can rap while I do them.
Mind=blown.
❤
I subscribed.
hey beautiful person reading my comment, If you feel like you know what to do but maybe there's still something missing.. try this simple thing, All Progress & Self Improvment can happen if we can consciously align breath, focus, & a mantra(about breath& focus &mantra)(we mention these 3 within the mantra), with each inhalation say the mantra, with each exhalation say the mantra again. If a human being can sustain these 3(breath&awareness&thought) consciously and in alignment, it will lead to becoming fully joyful &awakened. Thoughts about what's right and wrong are not needed after that. Because If There's no misery within you would you do something that is wrong?.. just try this & be free from your mind.. . !
want to have fun. It is summer and I don't want to die of scarlet fever so I stay inside. I don't think being inside is fun. It is hard to make friends inside. Now what do I do? wait till summer ends and have fun again or go outside now and die of scarlet fever? This is a serious problem.
Go to a class and you'll meet people. Get to find a new hobby and make new friends
Epic
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I remember myself and two of my cousins went to a club we over paid ? But we was in Hollywood wired and it was wired that night my cousins was mad that we over paid to get in that club, but I remind them that we are making memories and they got it they took into consideration I just got out from doing 30 years Straight ,so a bad day on the street is better then any day in prison
good video
"So many people's To-Do List every day are tasks, not LIFE, and that is why they're miserable. They've gotten lost in the minutiae of what must happen versus who they could be that day. That's where their life starts to derail and they lose that charge that is so magical in life. So what's your fun list?" - Brendon
very interesting
I will have you know that your ad that played before my video did not help me have any more fun at all.
How to have more fun: Find an ad blocker!
Oh and have more sex with hot women. That too.
what about what you dont like is work😂😂😂 I cant quit that 😭😭
Who is watching this in 2020?
I'm going to make a list. Then put it in my mason jar....lol
This was fun to watch ;) See what I did there...
My needle is moving BECAUSE of YOU Brendon ;)