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  • čas přidán 26. 10. 2022
  • Hi Guys! ‪@lostleblanc‬ and I filmed a pretty honest Q&A for you, answering the most popular questions y'all have been asking about our relationship! We talk about cheating, fighting, getting married, kids, everyday life, and more! Hope you all enjoy it :)

Komentáře • 246

  • @HGTD2
    @HGTD2 Před rokem +116

    Take care Ruby, he doesn’t give vibes of a good partner. And this Q&A just makes this feeling I have against him even stronger.

  • @asmitadhungana3790
    @asmitadhungana3790 Před rokem +41

    Just one point:
    If you're accompanying him on a travel vlog for his channel and are giving all the best shots for the video, acting as the main model (which you definitely are most of the times), it's not called: "Your travels get funded by him."
    Rather, he's paying for your travel costs so that you can shoot for his campaign and his videos can become as beautiful as they get.. and there should be separate payment for you for all the lengthy travelling you do for those videos, your modeling skills and the separate fan following you bring to the channel... if there's already not some profit sharing in each video where you're the main or the second main character.
    I get it that you two are a couple and might want to keep these professionalisms on the side, but you literally run a part of that channel...

    • @lilithgrrrl
      @lilithgrrrl Před rokem +3

      Agreed!

    • @sammystaceyyes
      @sammystaceyyes Před rokem +3

      Agreed x 10!!!!

    • @m.b.8521
      @m.b.8521 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Exactly this

    • @thefranfranify
      @thefranfranify Před 7 měsíci

      THIS!! ^^^ cover your ass girl @rubyrojas my ex just completely cut me off our shared company we started together and my name was barely on any of the paperworks because I trusted him like a faking idiot

  • @andreahiga
    @andreahiga Před rokem +34

    Ruby you are way too beautiful and way too insecure for your own sake. I don’t think the fact that Christian had never sent his dad a pic of any of his former girlfriends is something to feel good about. First, I don’t think is true, he’s been in long relationships before and I find it hard to believe he’s never done so before. And if it was true, what did those girls meant to him them? Or he just thought they weren’t pretty enough to be worthy of sending a pic to his dad? it’s like you are some kind of trophy or object for display, as he seem to value you for your beauty above every other quality you have. Also, who takes a girl to a sauna, jacuzzi and couples massage on the first date? Was he as horny as he was disrespectful to think he could’ve get lucky with you so fast? Also, that excuse of sleeping around to compensate for the lost time? Is that what he thinks about his previous relationships? Please be careful, you seem like a really nice person, you can can have the world, don’t be so needy for his approval, he is the lucky one here. Don’t like the patronizing vibes either, or how impatient he seems to be, telling you about how he doesn’t like you being so indecisive. Not sure he’s on the same page about marriage, seems like is not a goal for him or doesn’t considered ir necessary. I think the one thing he truly loves is his job, maybe that’s why it seems to be a priority for him as it gets him by when you are not together. Probably shouldn’t be in a relationship then?? Or at least should be with someone who’s priority is also her job/projects, cause it can be hurtful if your purpose is your life with him and his is just not.

    • @claudiachirinos9300
      @claudiachirinos9300 Před 11 měsíci +6

      In his previous relationship he was psychologically abusive, going into gaslighting, and cheating too, so you’re not that far with your observations

    • @patriciaespiguinha1190
      @patriciaespiguinha1190 Před 9 měsíci +5

      @@claudiachirinos9300 True. I used to love his content, and still do, but when it comes to relationships he's a walking red flag. I understand the whole feminine/masculine thing Ruby mentions here but those principles should never be used to justify unhealthy dynamics. Unfortunately, it seems like that's what's happening here. The fact that he keeps mentioning that he loves how soft and submissive she is.... That's concerning. Ruby deserves so much better.

  • @juvi999
    @juvi999 Před rokem +100

    Ruby, you and your body are now part of the content of Lost Leblanc that is monetized. Many more viewers come to watch videos if there is a cute girl in them. So I hope you are smart enough to have an agreement with Christian and you are compensated no matter of the status of your personal relationship now or in the future.

  • @rebexstar
    @rebexstar Před rokem +32

    I don’t like your boyfriend. Im 41, and there’s something about him…. ?!
    Ruby just protect your heart. He’s def into himself and being in very long relationships then he gets bored and moves on. Tread lightly …. Thats the best advice I have to offer.

  • @squaidie12
    @squaidie12 Před rokem +4

    Thank you for taking the time to sit down and make this video! It was really nice to get a little peek into who you guys are behind the travel vlogs. I love that you guys were willing to be so venerable and share both the beautiful and the struggles. Hope to see more of this side of you two! Wishing you all the best!

  • @justynasitko2398
    @justynasitko2398 Před rokem +2

    I love how honest and open you both were in this vido. It’s refreshing to hear how you work on building your relationship and not trying to fit into anybody’s expectations. ❤

  • @arfrfdf9132
    @arfrfdf9132 Před rokem +41

    Esa parte de que Christian dijo que es muy hombre y dominante, y tu muy femenina y pasiva... no sienta bien conmigo.
    Tiene unos ojos muy severos, me pregunto si ama a alguien que no sea a si mismo

  • @Misstayyy_2
    @Misstayyy_2 Před rokem +24

    I absolutely loved this QnA! I love the trust, transparency, and devotion in your relationship ❤️

    • @rubyrojas
      @rubyrojas  Před rokem +4

      Thank you thato!! We really appreciate your support! These are all important qualities in our relationship and we’re happy you can relate!! Thanks for sharing 😊

  • @LauraUribeG
    @LauraUribeG Před rokem +7

    Wow! Ruby I loved this video. You've helped me to see things in a new way, I am single right now and you've inspired me to think about my relationship goals and my reality as a woman because I've found out that I also want to have my own kind of traditional- modern relationship and lifestyle, thank you so much to both of you for being so open and so different ❤️

  • @ChristianWetterstroem

    Thanks for being so open! Loving all the inspiration you give-

  • @Joyceventures
    @Joyceventures Před rokem +80

    It was interesting to see what works for you both and I appreciated the transparency. At times personally this was uncomfortable to watch (not hating, just sharing my thoughts) - putting aside beliefs about traditional models of relationships, I noticed that Christian interrupts you a lot and shifts the conversation to be about himself, the way he speaks about the relationship came off quite patronising at times, he seems to always want to have the final word, he speaks on your behalf on personal matters that I don’t think are his to share unless you had previously said you were ok with that (eg. number of people you’ve been physical with) and the way he speaks about your arguments makes it seem like he genuinely believes himself to be more logical and ‘correct’. It honestly soured me a little as I like Lost LeBlanc videos but I hadn’t heard Christian speak so personally before and after watching this I felt like he was not the same person as the Christian I watched on his channel. That said I recognise that perhaps all these things I was uncomfortable with tie in with the ‘traditional relationship model’ that was mentioned and are specific to a dynamic where the male is the leading figure and the female provides supportive feminine energy - I’m not sure. It could also just be different to what I would personally tolerate. Just goes to show different things work for different relationships. Ruby, you seem like a nice person with a good heart. Our different views aside, I hope you are happy and continue to make the decisions you feel at peace with. I enjoy your channel and hope you continue to have a great career 😊

    • @Darianaplayroblox
      @Darianaplayroblox Před rokem +25

      Felt the same, I feel like because he tries to make everything more about himself and his ideas. Plus she seems like a nice girl.. he should try to admire her more. Now I think Katy from whatthechic was right on what she said about christian and the comments he used to make about her and leaving her without furniture and alone in that country.

    • @angelachannyc
      @angelachannyc Před rokem +7

      Seems like Ruby is a kept woman...

    • @NomadJones
      @NomadJones Před rokem

      it really soured my opinion of him too... Ruby, don't let this man be your only plan, he may use his financial hold against you in arguments and threaten to leave you with nothing, I had an ex exactly the same. Very controlling but you don't see it at first, also, a weird one, but NEVER fake your orgasms with this man, if you already are coz you want to please him then the relationship is doomed and you'll never be fully connected. Stay happy beautiful girl

    • @dimiro2638
      @dimiro2638 Před 11 měsíci +2

      ​​@passion69he cheated wayyy before and then abandoned her ex gf in Canada, during pandemia, ... while Ruby was inviting him to see her in Tulum, and like they said, they were talking a year before that, I guess Ruby was trying to get him knowing he had gf, which makes me think she doesn't have values, she doesn't respect a relationship...anyways they are one for each other...it seems she knows he is narcissistic but she doesn't care because the type of life he gives to her. She doesn't look happy, it feels all so calculated... Who can be happy with a guy like that? No way.

    • @patriciaespiguinha1190
      @patriciaespiguinha1190 Před 9 měsíci +3

      I completely agree with you. I've been watching his videos for years and I love his content, but in this video he comes across as very self-centered and narcissistic. In my opinion, it has nothing to do with "traditional relationships" - that's just a superficial excuse. You can follow more traditional values and still be a good partner/have a healthy relationship. However, good partners don't behave this way. It's a shame because Ruby seems like a beautiful, kind-hearted person.

  • @DavidsonHangOfficial
    @DavidsonHangOfficial Před rokem +1

    Thank you for being so honest! Amazing would love to hear more.

  • @spelagersak9792
    @spelagersak9792 Před rokem +3

    I loved the openness of your answers to the questions, and the part about different communications from partners really got to me, because I am having the same issue in my relationship, which I still consider a very healthy one, and it is relieving to see that also other couples in a long healthy relationships are still having the same issue. I am very happy for you guys, you truly look very happy together, and that is what is important!! 🤭✨

  • @LeticiaVicario
    @LeticiaVicario Před rokem +32

    In this model, how does it work if one/ the man in this case is no longer there to provide? Then... I am not sure Ruby if you actually WORK on his channel too. Your image and precious body is always there, making the footage look better. So not sure he is funding you BUT hiring you without a salary. Try not to appear to see the difference in views

    • @huqiqi4882
      @huqiqi4882 Před rokem +9

      I was thinking about the same thing…Ruby should actually work on her own channel I think if she is with this big CZcamsr you know there’s so much she could learn from him. But she only uploaded a few videos 😢what if lost Leblanc break up with her😢

    • @lilithgrrrl
      @lilithgrrrl Před rokem +3

      Agreed, she should be compensated for her role in making his videos, especially after all this time

  • @AnemosFPV
    @AnemosFPV Před rokem +3

    It’s so cute watching you guys together. It’s so obvious that you both love each other sooo much!

  • @BisayangHilaw
    @BisayangHilaw Před rokem +9

    Love these podcast type of videos from other creators. As someone who is in a similar position with my relationship and work, it’s nice to see how others navigate it

  • @allthai100
    @allthai100 Před rokem

    Ruby you are extraordinarily classy! I love the way you respond to some of the opinions in the comments… you hold your own so well! There is no shame that someone wants to take care of you and letting him. I love that you don’t harbor toxic femininity traits. No one wins when you are trying to “win”. Love that you two fall in harmony with each other.

  • @nsg6530
    @nsg6530 Před rokem +23

    Christian - you need to learn to let ruby talk and learn to take a back step, or this will manifest.

    • @laciko12
      @laciko12 Před rokem +4

      Good luck with that, all he needs is an armcandy for his videos...this is not going to last

    • @AnemosFPV
      @AnemosFPV Před rokem +3

      What are you guys talking about, these guys really like each other. It’s cute.
      Watching at 7:10….watching the rest
      She loves the shit out of him! A lot! She always liked him!

    • @lettyseleke3859
      @lettyseleke3859 Před 4 měsíci

      Very true they love each other so dearly I was smiling throughout t entire video and i got so shocked to see all these negative comments about Christian after watching the entire video and Christian is so sweet,soft and humble when he is not working, Ruby enjoy your man my dear, that which u know about him is what kept u in this relationship continue moving from glory to glory guys, more and more blessings upon your lives, we cover your relationship with the precious blood of Jesus Christ, love u guys, beautiful channel beautiful everything,

  • @Kristinahouwer
    @Kristinahouwer Před rokem +3

    Lovely genuine video , especially Ruby ! Much love to you both

  • @wilmareunderhay427
    @wilmareunderhay427 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for sharing this, such a open and honest Q&A, really enjoyed watching, giving us a glimpse of who you are, I love the transparency. My husband and I can totally relate to your relationship dynamic. We watch all your travel vlogs ♥️

  • @sylvieanddanny
    @sylvieanddanny Před rokem +1

    Loved this, thank you guys!

  • @iamstacyswift
    @iamstacyswift Před rokem +73

    Sound like he didn’t heal at all and just right into a next relationship 😅😅😅

    • @tommytaylor1452
      @tommytaylor1452 Před rokem +3

      Sometimes that's the best way to move forward.

    • @rhonarandom
      @rhonarandom Před rokem +1

      Literally did the same, we're still together after 5 years 😂

    • @dimiro2638
      @dimiro2638 Před 11 měsíci +8

      He sounds so fake omg

  • @nico-2580
    @nico-2580 Před rokem +2

    Thank you guys for sharing everything so openly. I still have quite a bit to learn as well but if only I was still with my ex, I could have just shown her this to learn how a mature relationship looks and feels like, and that it's us vs the problems, not vs each other. Thanks for sharing all the challenges and how to navigate around them! And also yes, Ruby, I think it's weird that Christian doesn't like surprises despite being the most adventurous person ever! xD And yes, to Christian, please share more about all the side topics you mentioned today! I genuinely feel like I learn more from you guys as a CZcams Travel Duo than from psychology videos/articles.

  • @bethoconnor8428
    @bethoconnor8428 Před rokem +2

    I’d love to see more videos like this from you as a couple! I feel like I learnt so much to implement into what I’m working on with my partner so a big thank you!❤

  • @juju2356
    @juju2356 Před rokem +4

    Can you please do a video on how you communicated your standards on the whole provider topic? a lot of girls feel bad about it or as if they are asking too much nowadays, so this would help a lot. Thanks for speaking so openly about it, it was really nice to hear, that it functions so well in your relationship dynamic :))

  • @sammystaceyyes
    @sammystaceyyes Před rokem +15

    From what I've seen from you online, you seem like such a genuine, kind-hearted, incredible person. It worries me that your partner describes you as submissive and a good girl in the same video. Even if these things are true and not meant to harm, I wonder how much of those qualities are a result of patriarchal conditioning and are actually limiting your most true and empowered self beneath all of our societal and familial conditioning. Because you're still so incredibly young, I really hope you will have a lot more time to yourself, without any outside influence, where you can question examples like this that are tied to our deepest conditioning. I also recommend reading into how spiritual misogyny and conservative grifting are hidden behind new age concepts such as "feminine & masculine" etc. Also Women who run with the Wolves, if you haven't read that book yet! I see a lot of my younger self and all of my younger girlfriends in how you presented yourself in this video. I wish you all the best

  • @maxgruss
    @maxgruss Před rokem +4

    It was great to watch & listen to the whole video. I have to say though, I happen to be watching Russel Peters, the Canadian standup comedian today, and getting some laughs on and off. At the 50:00-50:30 mark when Ruby kept saying soft and softness, a few times over, the reaction from Christian, just blew my top off with crying laughter 😂 You made me laugh more in a short time, than watching all of Russel Peters today. Thank you so much for the laughs (totally unexpected), but also thank you for opening up as you did, which makes you both number 1, to follow and watch on YT

  • @annadrawsnow
    @annadrawsnow Před rokem +2

    Such a beautiful Video & you two are such a cute couple! I also love your values Ruby & how you took your time at the beginning of the relationship with Christian.🧡Thanks for sharing 💫💯

  • @alejandralush
    @alejandralush Před rokem +1

    You guys are adorable. its been great to watch you grow. Ruby is so sweet and gorgeaus, I love her aura.

  • @nashlee1319
    @nashlee1319 Před rokem +3

    I truly love both of you. Sending lots of love and light to you guys 💗💫💫💫

  • @Samssara
    @Samssara Před rokem +9

    Thank you guys, for opening up so much about your relationship and your personalities. It was heartwarming and sweet. Ruby, you are an angel!

  • @Creepingdeth
    @Creepingdeth Před rokem +2

    Good video guys, my wife and I watch your travels on a regular basis. I've been subbed to Christian since his GoPro days and it's great to see him growing with a great person. Looks like Ruby handles all of the best food locations lol

  • @babybellalovesbeagle
    @babybellalovesbeagle Před rokem +13

    Yikes I hear alot of me, me, me........everything is centered around him.

    • @kewlcat361
      @kewlcat361 Před rokem +4

      Agree. I stopped watching his content a few years ago but I do think Ruby seems like a nice person. I can’t stand him anymore though. He gives off privileged and slight misogynistic vibes. Saying he likes her being home & catering to him. “Modern traditional” i guess, it just sounds like only cares about himself.

  • @kylephillips5757
    @kylephillips5757 Před rokem +1

    love you guys so much ❤️

  • @abigzv5931
    @abigzv5931 Před rokem +16

    prepares food for me", pleaser*, she's stays pretty", i love you guys but, if youre planning to have kids, christian you better find better things to love about ruby, beacause womenn change when we become moms... (sorry my english is bad) hi from Mexico.

  • @shaditina292
    @shaditina292 Před rokem +4

    omg this video was amazing and even educational in a sort of way, pls Christian, definitely make a video about the last subject, I would love to share it with my partner if so. thank you so much for the openness guys. Also, I love Ruby every time more and more, girl pls keep putting interesting content out there! teach us how to be just as feminine, maybe you can even do workshops thou. Much love

  • @clyde1365
    @clyde1365 Před rokem +11

    Ruby, you’re drop dead gorgeous, sweet and genuine👍I’m happy for both of you

  • @graciousintentions
    @graciousintentions Před rokem +8

    My Husband and I love the traditional roles as well, I’ve never felt more myself or loved as I do as a mom/wife homemaker. So happy for you two, your love radiates! I would love to see some of your recipes ❤

  • @reyhanehshayesteh1477
    @reyhanehshayesteh1477 Před rokem +1

    Ruby you’re the most respectful guy that I’ve ever seen .❤❤

  • @atlasofamber4142
    @atlasofamber4142 Před rokem +1

    Loved getting to know you guys more!

  • @jodytoupin1225
    @jodytoupin1225 Před rokem +17

    Ruby you are gorgeous! Even though Christian's channel is funding your travels, you are part of the reason why his channel gets so many views. You are your own person, and can stand on your own if need be to get your own views and be your own person as well! ;)

  • @beyondpaths
    @beyondpaths Před rokem +2

    I related to that part about arguing so much :)) we also argue about the same stuff. And yes, men have a different perception of reality than we do, and it's frustrating when it clashes. I always end an argument based on "this is so silly, is it really worth arguing about?" and try and figure out a middle way of fixing the issues. I hate the fact that we are fighting, more than what we fight about, because yes, egos are big, but if you love someone that much, it always comes above it.

  • @djcq88
    @djcq88 Před rokem +3

    Y’all living a great life together!

  • @TravelTheCraftyLife
    @TravelTheCraftyLife Před rokem +1

    Love you guys ♥️

  • @AngieVP
    @AngieVP Před rokem

    Love you guys!!

  • @familyontherun
    @familyontherun Před rokem +7

    The sweetest couple, we love you guys!

    • @rubyrojas
      @rubyrojas  Před rokem +1

      Thanks guys!! We appreciate it ❤

  • @chrissrelaxation-meditatio4610

    You guys are really a younger version of us and it's beautiful -Will see you in Bali hopefully in Feb 2023

  • @sdtimeless
    @sdtimeless Před rokem +14

    Arguing is part of every relationship. They best skill is just to be able to pause and reflect before reacting.

    • @rubyrojas
      @rubyrojas  Před rokem +2

      Yes!! Of course we will all be in a bad mood at times but it’s how you communicate and treat eachother n moments of anger that matters 😊

    • @Apollomuscles
      @Apollomuscles Před rokem +1

      Idk man I get these submissive asian girls that do not contest me

  • @Tariq-_-
    @Tariq-_- Před rokem +1

    My favorite content creating couple ❤️. I am in rough shape in my long distance relationship and it is night and day from our normal selves. I am an introvert by nature and have improved leaps and bounds in communication. But misunderstandings can brew and fester bad feelings w/o the intimate moments that sweep them under the rug. Thanks for your advice and hoping for the best. 🙏🏽

  • @preciousandeternal8727
    @preciousandeternal8727 Před rokem +2

    💫You guys are just sooooo Beautiful together…. So wonderful to feel your vibes!! I love how you love🌹❤️🦋🙏🏻💫

  • @marix6412
    @marix6412 Před rokem +4

    You are an
    authentic gentleman @Lost LeBlanc by taking care and helping Ruby to get to know the world more and better. I admire you both!! 🙋Here a mexican also Ruby!

  • @thefranfranify
    @thefranfranify Před 7 měsíci +7

    I want to be honest ... you are so freaking sweet Ruby... I found you through his channel and this is a side of him I feel I hadn't seen on his channel... he seems sort of uninterested... kind of controlling and perhaps narcissistic ? maybe I am reading too much into his demeanor , sending love and please cover your financials when it comes to appearing on his channel... you make his videos so much more beautiful and you should be compensated for everything you do.

  • @darlenejordan3613
    @darlenejordan3613 Před rokem +2

    Your relationship sounds very similar to mine & ive been with my man for almost 10 years now :) love your dynamic!

  • @asyamuzlera
    @asyamuzlera Před rokem +1

    I think you guys have a very natural healthy relationship and you’re both very mature probably more then most in your circle or the world. There is never 2 captains of a ship but a captain and co captain and they work as a team but the captain makes the final decisions and same in an airplane etc. You’ll both be successful in life and in your relationship together. God bless! 😊

  • @MaseFade
    @MaseFade Před rokem +4

    When I heard you speak on marriage I was like oooooh…. Dang it 😂. Was looking forward to you too both being ready for marriage! Me and my wife got married when we were 21 and 27. A big misconception people think with marriage is that it’s going to be kids/family right away. It’s not that at all. You base everything off or your time and wants. Commitment to families should increase but marriage is a lifelong commitment to each other and while that could be scary, it’s also a huge gift in life that people overlook. I have friends who’ve been together for years and years but think marriage isn’t for them. I sure do wish they would give it a shot. ❤

  • @Fine_art_aerial
    @Fine_art_aerial Před měsícem

    YAY The Frosted Tip Wonder!! Please get Christin to bring back the frosted tips Ruby!! lol

  • @speedy6997
    @speedy6997 Před rokem +7

    They won’t get married I’m sure😂 it’s just working out for now because you both are benefiting, that’s not love.

  • @freedom2outshine670
    @freedom2outshine670 Před rokem +1

    You guys are a great team and inspiring a lot of people to travel.

    • @rubyrojas
      @rubyrojas  Před rokem +1

      thank you so much!! we try our best and are happy to hear that because the world is so big!!

  • @arghyamridula
    @arghyamridula Před rokem

    This was great !

  • @shakitas8227
    @shakitas8227 Před rokem +2

    You’re a beautiful person, Ruby ❤️

  • @laviniaterec3028
    @laviniaterec3028 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Thé fact that hé bought you all thé déserts while with his last girlfriend hé would Say she should eat less....that is totally narcicistic. So many red flags in this vidéo. Ruby girl watch out and bé objective. Respect yourself enough to stop it when hé will get toxic. You are such a sweet girl...a magnet. This will bé a life lesson for you so listen and learn. I Hope you wont sée my comment in a Bad way, im just someone speaking from expérience. Good luck beautiful.

  • @linavillalobos6968
    @linavillalobos6968 Před rokem +5

    Ruby desde el comienzo que los sigo he pensado que tienen una relación muy bonita y espero que con el tiempo siga fortaleciéndose, tan lindo el diciéndote que eras la mujer mas hermosa que haya conocido en su vida, muchas bendiciones y éxitos!!

  • @maxitaxiish
    @maxitaxiish Před rokem +1

    What a beautiful couple. Very self aware and super mature for a young couple

  • @dianeortiz4803
    @dianeortiz4803 Před rokem +12

    Yes ,,,,, the submissive comment made me uncomfortable 😢Ruby is amazing Christian is a very lucky man❤ thank you for the transparency

  • @lostleblanc
    @lostleblanc Před rokem +54

    Love youuu and excited to keep growing together

    • @nottamara
      @nottamara Před rokem +3

      @@nolan9221 ew bro

    • @PearseAshley
      @PearseAshley Před rokem +1

      This is so cute!

    • @saraflores642
      @saraflores642 Před rokem +16

      Ruby could do soooo much better

    • @rubyrojas
      @rubyrojas  Před rokem +7

      Love you to the moon and back ❤❤❤

    • @masterpropper2485
      @masterpropper2485 Před rokem +4

      ​@@saraflores642 My answer to Sara Flores' comment is actually for ​ @Ruby Rojas: When somebody says something like this, chances are high that you might have found just the right guy 🥰

  • @JoshChristiane
    @JoshChristiane Před rokem +4

    Such a beautiful couple ❤

  • @pachcompany
    @pachcompany Před rokem +1

  • @Paaaa32
    @Paaaa32 Před rokem +8

    I meet my boyfriend in tulum also !! i actually saw Christian many times around tulum during that time I think both complement each other very well beautiful couple . Ruby you seems to be a very genuine girl and real I understand why he fell in love with you .

    • @rubyrojas
      @rubyrojas  Před rokem +2

      Wow Paula how funny!! That’s so cool, maybe we have seen you at some point haha and thank you so much!! You are so sweet❤ I try my best to be kind and genuine always!! These are #1

  • @michaelflores23
    @michaelflores23 Před rokem +7

    I like the discussion around 38:00. I've often found the 50/50 balance hard to find, especially with certain backgrounds/upbringings.

    • @rubyrojas
      @rubyrojas  Před rokem +2

      Yes!! Absolutely. We are all very different. The beauty is in the communication and partnership and understanding. And of course upholding each others values and beliefs

  • @andrew213rn
    @andrew213rn Před rokem +14

    This is super encouraging to see such a well balanced relationship with the masculine and feminine energies being correct

    • @rubyrojas
      @rubyrojas  Před rokem +3

      So glad you can connect!! That’s exactly what we strive for ❤ everyone will be different but this is what works for us 😊

    • @clyde1365
      @clyde1365 Před rokem +1

      I have same relationship with my husband and we’ve been together for 30 years.. first 10 years were very challenging but here we are 30 years later and still going strong, loving and respect each other.

    • @erinanddanielcox6006
      @erinanddanielcox6006 Před rokem +2

      being "correct'? wow. cringe-city.

  • @IsabelGomez-rg8qd
    @IsabelGomez-rg8qd Před rokem +19

    Min 39-41 submissive submissive. You’re his maid, his cook, his cleaning lady, his sex submissive. Very sad

    • @AdelDetrousse
      @AdelDetrousse Před rokem +2

      it's the happiest story ever.

    • @lettyseleke3859
      @lettyseleke3859 Před 4 měsíci

      @isabelGomez; it’s sad for u not them that is why they are together they r ok with it so let it be, I truly love this couple and they love each other🙏❤️

  • @pollypaull
    @pollypaull Před rokem +9

    I hope you guys are endgame. But you seem more in love than he is and he seems a bit off tbh. Love the traditional style relationship part tho, that's how it should be. But I hope he doesn't break your heart and you both continue to love each other!

  • @PinOnTheMap
    @PinOnTheMap Před rokem +2

    I feel like my partner and I would love a couple like you as friends. exactly the same, I’m more submissive and really enjoy stepping into my feminine, he’s more dominant and very much loves his work and being the masculine in the relationship and we haven’t ever really come across another couple like that similar age group as us ❤️ I love love

  • @juleslea
    @juleslea Před rokem +1

    I love you both ! You are a beautiful couple! Hello from canada.I live in Montreal, and raised in Kelowna.

  • @yogawithlexandra
    @yogawithlexandra Před 9 měsíci +4

    I usually dont comment on videoes, but I thought to comment on this one after reading some of the comments about your relationship.... I think there nothing wrong with having different gender roles :) Christian seems like a provider and a protector, and Ruby seems very much like a soft feminine elegant woman, i think it is super beautiful! It reminds me like the relationship me and my boyfriend has, and we love how that balance us out to become or best selves :)

  • @edstravel
    @edstravel Před rokem +1

    Thanks for sharing guys

  • @johnmartens8063
    @johnmartens8063 Před rokem +8

    This deserves a million views. You both have given us a snippet of the real ruby and christian behind the travel vlogs. Wish you both all the happiness in the world.

    • @lostleblanc
      @lostleblanc Před rokem +2

      Two imperfect people working to grow together ❤

    • @johnmartens8063
      @johnmartens8063 Před rokem

      @@lostleblanc no one is perfect, by working to grow together makes us workfect :)

  • @ShauninParadise
    @ShauninParadise Před rokem +2

    Ruby is rock solid as a human.

  • @vav2868
    @vav2868 Před rokem +4

    What hair color do you ask for at the salon??

  • @MaZoukaDance
    @MaZoukaDance Před rokem +1

    Look into non violent communication by Marshall Rosenberg!
    My partner and I have been having similar communication issues for years and this has been one of the only things that has really helped.

  • @jellyshine21
    @jellyshine21 Před rokem +5

    i think this is the first time i seen christian be serious lol , seems like he respects and loves you very much.

    • @lostleblanc
      @lostleblanc Před rokem +7

      I really love her. And this was also my 4th podcast of the day so I was a little fried 😅

  • @christinabustmante
    @christinabustmante Před rokem +1

    Thanks for sharing ❤

  • @jennabonnichsen
    @jennabonnichsen Před 11 měsíci +2

    I sense Ruby needs her mate to support her ability to shine and be playful ❤🎉

  • @rumik-stahnke6512
    @rumik-stahnke6512 Před rokem +5

    So sweet and cute video guys 🤗😁Thanks for sharing and take care 👍😁Well done 👏😁

    • @rubyrojas
      @rubyrojas  Před rokem +2

      Thanks rumi!! Always love seeing your comments, I am so happy to have a supporter such as you!! For sure one of my #1 fans I look forward to you always hahaha😊😊😊

    • @rumik-stahnke6512
      @rumik-stahnke6512 Před rokem

      @@rubyrojas good luck 👍😁

  • @alainehwamb5664
    @alainehwamb5664 Před rokem +1

    Yeeei!! 🇰🇪Kenya Rubi.. Love you too💚💚

  • @mimitokumine946
    @mimitokumine946 Před rokem +2

    I am a BIG fun of Ruby from 🇯🇵 🥰❤ Her smile and energy make me so happy! I have really enjoyed this video! Everything☺️ Super Cute couple and I want my relationship to be like Ruby and Cristian’s❤ My country 🇯🇵 is open now💓 I look forward to watching Both of you in Japan soon❤ I would be super excited to see Ruby in my county💓 Daisuki Ruby chan😊

  • @andreaIMC
    @andreaIMC Před rokem +14

    Ruby, you are so young to be a housewife. If you are not Ready to get marry yet, it’s not there. Go live your young years building your carrer and chasing your dreams . You seem a pretty nice girl.

    • @rubyrojas
      @rubyrojas  Před rokem +4

      Hi Andrea! Thanks for commenting your thoughts! I appreciate the concern, but please don’t get mistaken I am not a housewife! Haha I am actively working on and pursuing my career as an entrepreneur and have amazing support from my partner in doing so 💖 in fact he has been able to help, guide, & advise me in positive ways that have helped me grow to levels I never imagined 🥰 💪

  • @dvlpr
    @dvlpr Před rokem +3

    Enjoyed the story of how you guys met

  • @AllThingsSoul
    @AllThingsSoul Před rokem +7

    Women value marriage until the man they love tells them it's just a piece of paper. Then suddenly, she feels the same way, too. Men will shack up with a woman forever unless she makes marriage a requirement. I can understand saying you're a little young to get married but I don't understand why it's necessary to say that marriage is just a piece of paper. You know that isn't true. Marriage is a contract with consequences for breaking it just like all the other contracts you've signed in your life. So, are all those other contracts meaningless pieces of paper, too, or just the marriage contract?

    • @m.b.8521
      @m.b.8521 Před 11 měsíci

      He is trash

    • @etfremd
      @etfremd Před 7 měsíci

      Marriage is much less than a piece of paper in the USA…obviously they are not ready…but I am rooting for their romance with the fruits of children…maybe in 4-5 years. If it was me…I would be locking her up with marriage sooner rather than later…

  • @basictoglamchictravels
    @basictoglamchictravels Před rokem +1

    Ruby you are too gorgeous 😍 💖

  • @harrypaul2388
    @harrypaul2388 Před rokem +1

    🇰🇪 Kenya to the world!

  • @natasa89
    @natasa89 Před rokem +19

    Ruby seems like the nicest person

    • @rubyrojas
      @rubyrojas  Před rokem +2

      Omg Natasa this is so sweet!!! I try my best and am so happy for all your love and support ❤❤😊

    • @lostleblanc
      @lostleblanc Před rokem +1

      She is ❤

  • @user-rs4fx7bd9v
    @user-rs4fx7bd9v Před rokem +22

    “All in kinda person…open to trying new things..She’s going to do whatever will make her partner happy”…So you fund her and she’s open and all in? Sorry guys, some answers sounded quite weird for 21 century. Ofc girl will be loyal, you’re paying 🙈
    whatever makes you both happy))

    • @rubyrojas
      @rubyrojas  Před rokem +9

      Hi there marina, thanks for taking the time to comment your thoughts. Of course a simple Q&A will never give anyone the real picture of our relationship. The point of this was to communicate a sliver of how our relationship works. You may or may not agree with our beliefs & values and that’s ok!! You may also be a bit confused as there isn’t much time to truly dissect each question as we would like. But this is just us explaining what works for us. The point to that explanation is that we do uphold a “modern traditional” way of treating eachother and finding the right balance of feminine & masuline polarity. This is so important to a relationships success and we have gotten closer to perfecting it. What works for us may not work for you! But at least I can respect your differing opinion & not judge you for not holding the same ideals or opinions as I have.

    • @beyondpaths
      @beyondpaths Před rokem +2

      @marina It works both ways, if you're in a relationship with someone for a long time, and you truly care for that person's well being, you want that person with you wherever you go, but they might not have the same financial situation as you (let's say you make the big bucks), wouldn't you want that person there with you regardless? Like, even with friends, if you wanna go out lets say, but they might not afford it in the moment, you could offer to pay for a meal or whatever else, let's say movie. What is the point of having money, if you can't share the simple joys of life with someone you care about? Especially at the caliber at which Christian is. At one point, money becomes nothing more than paper, and it makes me so happy to know i can share beautiful meals, or travels, or experiences with the person i love.

    • @erinanddanielcox6006
      @erinanddanielcox6006 Před rokem +2

      @@rubyrojas your answers are very patient and professional.

  • @goaskniki
    @goaskniki Před rokem +2

    Are Ruby and Christian actually Rachel & Shane from The White Lotus season 1!?

  • @bro_math
    @bro_math Před rokem +1

    You are my new gods.

  • @Travelogeez
    @Travelogeez Před rokem +4

    So cute

  • @jacquied2013
    @jacquied2013 Před rokem

    On the contrary, I felt Christian was so transparent and genuine.

  • @alananderson5202
    @alananderson5202 Před rokem +8

    The nature of this business creates narcissistic people. I liked Fun for Louis until he filmed a girl bleeding from a head wound and cared more about his channel than her wellbeing. Stay away from CZcamsrs. Maybe just the male ones.

  •  Před rokem +10

    A person should have own career - not depending on someone else no matter what !!!

    • @rubyrojas
      @rubyrojas  Před rokem +2

      I totally agree! I do have my own career and believe everyone should pursue their own passions and work they believe in