Exclusivity Means He Pays Bills Now
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- to be exclusive to someone means they Must Take care of your Bills and more
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Hello Shera, I am curious if you have a video for women who work (as I intend to do that). I am very interested in knowing your perspective on how to that without doing 50/50 (as I don't want to provide for a man). Thank you for everything you do for women.
shera where are all your videos from the last 3 weeks/?????
@@_ladiosanegrashe put it behind a membership because people started posting her on their own channels so yeah shes gonna go on the legal issue route on that + is on her community tab
@sheraseven1 how do I join your members only "Level up 2" for your exclusive videos??
Shera I want to say you are a gorgeous woman and thank you for dropping jewels on us!
Gold diggers, narcissistic women, selfish women will always be ahead in life and get taken seriously 💍 . Women who stick around thru thick and thin will get left, There’s no pot of gold waiting at the end of the rainbow for Them 🌈 💰
Truth!
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I wouldn't be so sure of that though because maybe he has a good insurance plan and if you park it for awhile he might put you in his will and you can keep saving until he figures out what he wants to do with his life next if you didn't marry love it will be less distracting so you should be more focused on your saving goals.
If you married someone broke but cute you might be screwed because he's got to much life ahead of him for you to focus on your career so shera was right in making sure there way older then you and to tired to go out sometimes there not as strong as they used to be and even though you might not like him at least he doesn't want to go out every weekend and nobody will try to steal him from you.
There isn't at all. Women just don't seem to get it.
Exactly there's men lying about "my dream girl who sticks to thick and thin! With me!" 😂😂😂 the same old story Over AND OVER a full face lies that every generation heard after being thrown out for a woman of leisure afterwards
I told my Indian mother about the concept of 50-50 she didn’t understand. She said only broke ugly men do that sprinkle sprinkle 😂
😂😂😂😂 not ugly
Yes, in a lot of cultures, if a man has to rely on a woman’s finances to support the household, he’s viewed as “weak” and “a woman”.
There’s a clip going viral of an American man trying to get a Moroccan wife, and he told the matchmaker that he expected this potential wife to pitch in financially. Let’s just say the matchmaker schooled him on how it works in Moroccan culture, and he was left with the boo-boo face.
Yup I dated indian men and they paid for everything
@@durgalakshmi2793i loved my indian bf. never had to lay a damn finger 😅
@venny4489 the first dates I ever had was from nonblack men. I regret not marrying my indian ex. Sorry but some of these black men are dusty
My man is a provider. Everything he makes I get. And if I want more he figures out how to get more money. He adores me and would do anything for me. Any issues he works to fix. And he’s emotionally intelligent! I got me a good one
Congratulations! So glad to hear!
Yes, yes you do
Damn right!
that’s right girl! ✨✨
I’m happy for you!
When women start rejecting 5050 then Men will stop Expecting it
Exactly
For the people in the back READ THAT AGAIN ! #WomenAreRejecting5050
💯💯💯💯💯💯
Frfr!
Well said
If you get a man to talk about himself he will fall in love with you & pay for the oxygen you breathe okay. 100%. Sprinkle sprinkle ✨✨
@@munix9351I agree with you 100%, some women get worried when a man calls them boring, only a dusty would call you that. Us as women are not clowns to be entertaining fools or anyone.
@@munix9351 wow that's some amazing advice!! you just helped me alot. I think i get nervous in the silence and feel i have to "entertain". let me reflect on this. Thanks!
@@munix9351 so men dont dont like funny girls because i have a crazy goofy sense of humor should i tone it down lmfao im ddefintely the type to try to fill any awkward silences especially over the phone
@@prettybabessss tone it down, bring it out when he does something worthy. You are not a puppet. Silence is good!!!! Practice sensual quiet conversations. Practice seductive conversations. For example he asks you "how was your day". Draw it out like you are a writer. " it started really quiet, in the afternoon I sat in the garden and let the sun glisten on my back. I felt so tender and warm it was just what I needed" .... poetic convos make you memorable. Just be calm. When he starts investing then you can be more funny.. until then guard your energy.
This isn’t always the case! But I certainly I would not mind hearing a provider men talk about himself.
Mother never misses and that’s why y’all mad at her sprinkle sprinkle
I only play Shera on headphones. I never played out loud. Women stop giving men information to be used against you. Stockholm is one hell of a drug 👀
They act like men don't hear how an ex treated them just to take notes about how to torment them.
Men are deviants
@@kumikor3392It's true
This is common sense! Like why would you show all your cards to the person you need to use on? These women are SLOW
I work at Walmart and the AMOUNT of dusties that come in with beautiful women...struggling to pay for a 8 dollar meal. The prettiest girls settling for mediocre poor dudes. SMH.
That makes me SMDH, because beauty is a MAJOR advantage to have when trying to find a provider man. My guess is they haven’t had exposure to what’s outside of their neighborhood, and the only thing they know about men is what’s in their neighborhood - broke dusties. OR - they bought the BS about “building up your man to be a good woman”.
IMO the pretty girls don't focus on study or being smart because they have never had to...thus they are extremely naive. Education is important in life.
@@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living I keep saying this. Beauty does not guarantee financial independence or wealth. Its all about your attitude and mindset. So many pretty girls out there broke asf
@@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living these are women COMING into the neighborhood though trying to sponsor dusty dudes
I know right. The lady that does my manicure is 28 and one of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen in person. Flawless hair, skin, teeth, bone structure and all... Yet she was telling me how she was so deeply in love with her Dusty boyfriend who made her pay half whenever they went on dates. It is so sad.
She’s right about not playing her videos around your man! I played Shera’s video around my man and the first thing he said was “why you listening to that” 😂😂😂 plus he feels I’m only with him for money (and I am) 😩
😂😂😂
😂
Lmfaooooo
at least your honest
girl stop telling on yourself 😂 use headphones
Your tips work girl! My ex begged for forgiveness and told me he’s gonna pay my bills. Said he felt bad he didn’t do enough. Like pay my bills and buy groceries etc. He really stepped it up! Now he isn’t paying all my bills, but he paid $1000+ last month and paid me about $400 so far for July. It’s the 7th. The more he wants attention the less attention I have for making money, I made that clear. My time is valuable. If he stays the night I don’t work on my side business so I make him feel guilty so he pays me. I had a seven yr relationship where I was waaay to nice and I ended up with nothing but lost time and feeling used. Never again! Doing things differently this time and it’s working!
Hope it works out for you. You deserve it 🩷
@@aileenmac1 thank you!
Counting down when he gets tired of u..
@@lc-il6wr it doesn’t matter if he gets tired of her .. at least her bills will be paid 😂
That’s awesome
The first time i watched this lady's video i was amused by her wisdom,a year ago.Then the next day i went to a shoe store and saw a wife along with her kids shopping for her husband.she was looking like his mother altho the same age,tired and aged of being a pickmeisha.she and her kids were dressed so poorly while he was getting some nice shoes.That was my first dust exorcism.
Opportune sign, - rejoicing for you that Shera's message, which can seem mercenary at first, - is important for us to salvage our vibrant spirits long term.
yes after listening to these videos , getting different mindset you see how much it is around you as the norm. They have no problem making women the soul provider
@Skincare Beauty 😂😂😂😂
Omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂this comment took me out😭😭🫢
Get a provider, get his money, start a business, get you a bag and free yourself! In that order 👏🏾✨
wow
My husband gave me money constantly for my business. They're out there. I was grinding for myself. He believed in me.
@@SimplyAdiva how did y’all meet?
@asha4189 I'm in real estate, he was looking for a place after his divorce.
@@SimplyAdivalove that for you
Who would play this video around a man. Omgg girls please use your head it will save you.
Me. He knows his place 😂
@@ChocolateThunda1345 ♒️🤌🏾
Lol right?! I’m not playing this around my husband 😂
@@MJWife07
Yup! I use headphones too, sometimes I turn the phone down. These women are letting a man hear this is cheating themselves. He IS taking notes and WILL use it against her🤦🏾♀️Also share the info with buddies.
@@MJWife07 that's weird
“I ignored him for three days straight” Shera I love you 😂
@@SpokenWisdom-mn6hmluckily you're not the only millionaire on earth. Like she said it's not JUST about bills and money. There are 21 year old millionaires now , you're not special because of your millions 🥱
@@KarineJP👏👏😂
@@KarineJPwhat he thought he doing? 😭😭🤣🤣 he need to make his own channel, so we can watch him talk about it/ cry his River. And if you a millionaire, wyd in the comment section here fr?
@@SpokenWisdom-mn6hmlol
my fiance and me have been together for like 3 months, hes always paid all of my bills and he always tells me he'll provide for me lmao. he's just bought all the women in my family jewelry from overseas. he's perfect and spend 30,000 thousand dollars on me the first month we were together, just had to wait for the one.
✨ SprinkleSprinkle ✨ go girl .. lock it down and get that bag. Get a FAT secret savings account from him.
Your boyfriend is rich?
He proposed to you within 3 months damn you go girl
@@beeznhoney4323don’t tell him about the account either!
Wow!😮
I am 18 . I have been watching you on and off for about 1 year now. And now i got me a man that's 6 years older then me and is a data analytic at an investment firm . We have made it official this week. Thank you ma'am . ❤️
@Blanco Tequila the important question
@Blanco Tequila draining it 😎
@@cyrene1657 so happy for you ❤
@akiko barbie No . He is the son of my dad's doctor . We met at a family event .
Only 6 y older ? Enjoy until it last !
Lmfaooooo “stop asking me about other people not likening you or I’m gonna start to not like you either”😂😂 shera omg
Yes lol that part was hilarious
Whistle blower big mad cause shera getting to the biggest bag 😂
It’s giving obsessed bc she’s made at least FIVE videos about her.😂😂 I peeped she’s using her name as a hashtag to drive her views 😏
Shera, as someone who has been watching you since 2018, I see why you feel like tiktok isn't for you and I agree 100%. The people on there are too mainstream and just follow what is trending. Your advice, wisdom and outlook on life is not for the majority, because you keep it way too real!!
You look STUNNNNNNNNNING, Shera!!!!!!! Thank you for changing my life in so many ways so many years ago…. I owe my level up to you and the level up is never, ever over! Sprinkle sprinkle ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
Shera is doing too much with the jewelry..she's like a sorcerer..
So true feeling entitled and nonchalant will get you what you want in life. I’m sorry ladies for all the brainwashing that was done to y’all but you must feel like you are the prize no matter what and you will see how much you’ve been missing out on .
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Finally!
Facts. I've been embodying the audacity of a mediocre white man, and my salary had increased by 20k and I've been feeling lighter in life. The less you care the better.
“See some tomato juice and some gray hair? That’s where your money at m’am” 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
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50/50 men are straight up dangerous I was on Reddit the other day and came up on a question asking "what would you do if a man didn't pay for the first date" all I said was that I'd probably never speak to them again because it shows a universal sign that the man isn't interested and I find it rude that he ain't putting his best foot forward. There was this guy I had to block because he kept telling me that I deserved to be graped and toetagged and he even wished it on my future daughter. These are the scummy men we are dealing with I had to block him so fast I shouldn't of even said anything in the first place but it's kinda how like you see a meme on FB and you just say something I shouldn't even of bothered but MAN that's very telling of the disgusting men nowadays
Men that spend too much time online are dangerous. Basement dwellers, many of them. They don't have much of a life and tend to be racist, extremely misogynistic or mentally ill.
These are the women- hating incels. They're probably locked away in prison with felony gRape records because only a sick evil male goes that far.
@@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living yeah no joke he said he hopes my future daughter gets graped and murdered and same with me these men are insane I should of not comment on Reddit never argue with dusties
truth! I wouldn't either. Blocked!
What a weirdo! That's scary
31:45 is GOLD!!! Do y'all hear me? *GOLD* not knowing your value will completely f*ck up your life! in every area. Not just relationships with men. but family members, parents, friends, etc etc. Thats why women, especially bw make so little compared to yt women and men of all races because we don't know our worth and therefore we live in FEAR. That spirit energy of fear will ruin every aspect of your life. So glad I'm waking up! I wish this had come sooner but i"m here for it now. Mèsi anpil Sheera for helping women EVERYWHERE!! You are blessed beyond measure
so glad tik tok introduced me to you , i've been binge watching all your videos! im 23 years old and your my mentor now , Thank You.
I got veneer teeth and it helped my confidence massively . I smile so much more now. You can get very natural looking ones if you don’t want the perfect ‘Hollywood style’ smile. Composite bonding and invisible braces are very popular now too. It’s expensive but I see it as an investment in myself.
I had an issue with being scared to ask for money from my last BF. We met just before the economic crash in 2008.
I lost my job, he had two, he was going through a divorce. I had to go on public assistance and was struggling. The best he did was take me out to dinner or buy groceries.
Then he won $50,000 on a Super Bowl bet. And did not offer to give me any money. And I was scared to ask for money to catch up on my rent. I seethed in silence.
Instead he took on a road trip to West Palm Beach and we stayed at his friend’s house. He poked his chest out for paying for the trip.
I wasn’t a kid when this happened and now I look back and think…”WFT was wrong with me?”
I believe it was due to me believing the BS about women being older and having less options.
Thanks Shera for getting me out of that defeated mindset.
Ma’am I can just cry when I think about any time I reached in my pocket
I knew better but was in a bubble
Never again
it kills me when women believe they should settle because theyre older. Older women are winning the MOST when it comes to hypergamy please dont let social media and these dusties tell you otherwise. They got their heart broken younger and did some ''livin'' so they know better, the majority of luxury brands clients are older women for a reason, how many younger women get men to buy them houses? Im so glad youre doing better, dont ever believe otherwise
I agree - don’t believe the BS that you’re in “the danger zone” after 27, and you have to accept what you can get after that age. It’s a shaming tactic to get you to accept some dusty bum instead of getting someone that’s really in your league. Trust me, I’m living the truth AND witnessing it with other women. I get approached all the time from men of all ages, and I actively date provider men (I’m 51, and yes, that picture of me was taken 3 months ago). Also, Lauren Sanchez is 53, and she just got engaged to billionaire Jeff Bezos.
@@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Bingo! Lauren Sanchez, Marjorie Harvey, Wendy Dang, That 50 yr old lady in Toronto Lisa climans who sued her wealthy boyfriend for spousal support, the list really goes on!Ask any nurse or retired homes staff who’s more lonely between men & women, its always men. Truth is, if Men dont get their shxt together by a certain age theyre screwed 🤷🏾♀️ They were all talking about Gisele Budchen for leaving Tom brady because she was a washed up model (which is cap) but looked what happened? their Billionaire neighbour picked her up 😂 40yrs old strippers still make bank in the club & dont get me started on homeless cr@ckheads who give heads for money or older prostitutes. Women ALWAYS have options. These men are delusional
@@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Livingsprinkle sprinkle ✨✨✨
This is a sacred study for the Divine Femi9, NOT to be shared with ANY Man 👏
Shera please trademark/watermark the phrase 'sprinkle sprinkle'. That way all the haters who say it risk paying you money.
Yes because everybody on tik tok saying it!
On Instagram too lol she's revolutionary
Can you do this with certain phrases? How?
I can say whatever I want and I don't have to pay her anything.
Remember the song "Bills bills bills" by Destiny's Child? That was my jam for a while ❤. Unfortunately even though that was my jam, for a long time I was taught to believe that I was selfish and immature and now I finally realize when I'm so much older that the reason I didn't want to be exclusive was because I picked dusties who weren't paying my bills. I was conditioned to not value myself.
I was in a group on Facebook and they were laughing about some girl that literally had to pay half the bills that that half was almost her entire income and the guy had five times the income and wouldn’t even split it right well, I told them that she wouldn’t be in that situation if she had a real man a true protector and provider. I said that I refuse to date guys like that I would never date a 50-50 man only a provider and I got kicked out of the group! I am always telling these ladies to guard their wombs, get a provider, never do 50/50 because it’s never 50/50 he benefits and you lose. And I hope it catches on. Man it makes alll them dusty males mad!!! Hahaha!!!
What’s the name of the group do I can block and avoid it?
Ayooo 😂😂😂😂😂that’s wild! Just trynna help them out and u get exiled. They obviously don’t want the help
There's the youtube channel 'dating beyong borders' that also has content on Facebook.
There was an interview with a ukrainian girl who said she dated a german for 4 months and he broke up because she didn't split on dates.
She said she could also invite him to movies and do things for him but when was up to dates the man should pay the bill, that's her culture.
The outrage of men in the comments...and women.
@@TIAOFNEBULA I think women taking L’s
@@redleeks6253 that’s sad. But I have heard it was the cultural norm in Europe. I don’t blame the Ukrainian girl, I wouldn’t be upset if someone asked me to pay. I would think he wasn’t interested in me anymore.
I never thought about the older gentleman being excited about the movement!
ii actually know quite a few couples where the woman and man are both on the same level of gorgeousness but the whole time im thinking " i know they must be having a power struggle throughout the relationship". happened with me and my ex he was extremely gorgeous but we constantly fought over the mirror like chill my dude lmfao. difference between me and them other hooochie mamas that was after him was that i didnt compliment him on his appearance, when we first started talking he had to beg me to get my number. i think that set me apart from the other women that wanted him cause i treated him regularly, never blew up his phone or did any pickmiesha activity
4:31 in the 90s exclusivity means you pay all my bills. That was the NORM
10:04 never move in unless he paid all bills
“You ain’t Abraham Lincoln, shut up!” 😂🤣 I love you Shera ✨✨
So sensible; far better than the old benchmark where exclusivity meant you just slept with one man, dusty or similar.
Amen!! Women take so much risk to be exclusive and have sex. They need to at least be paying all bills.
I left medical.I have decided I dont want to be a career woman.I couldnt even get the time to dress well and go out.All my barbra and pickme career oriented aunts and cousins think u cant get anywhere in life if u dont bring anything to the table.
End of the day all the education and working hurts women, it doesn’t help them.
Use your experience to work for you. Write a book about leaving the medical industry. Always make money from your experience 🥰🥰
Right. I'd leave too but it funds my mortgage etc....but I am not getting in relationships until fully provided
we have all been brainwashed to be the breadwinner.. my ex made me feel less than because i didnt bring to the table what he did
@@mitz1919 wow. Sick society
If you’ve actually invested in yourself you shouldn’t be scared to ask men for money.
they're never afraid to ask for s exual stuff 🤮🤑🤑🤑😂
A lot of mother/ sister in laws hate on their sons’/brothers’ wives because they’re attractive and their husbands can’t stop perving at them
younger men are not always the most attractive. the most attractive men i know are in their 40's and 50's. as a 30 year old woman i find that the most attractive men are in their early to mid 40's and 50's.. they've grown into their faces and body and they speak and dress better and ooze more confidence. even when i was 20 i never find younger men attractive as they all looked like my little brother or like a kid lol.
You are right! Older men look better. My ex was 34 he looked horrible pot belly and all lol i hated the way he dressed always sneakers... I've met men in there 50s that look way better,it's the way they Carry themselves ... I will never go for young guy ever again..
@@Lvc-l6l thats why i never understood why women were scared to date older. black men age like fine wine baby. i even know some white men that age beautifully
@prettybabesss You are in for a world of hurt if you date bm.
@@ohanaohana8844 💯 right! Anything less than an older Bmale with his PROVEN ish together is a guaranteed recipe for StruggleLove💔Pass!🏃🏾♀️
I agree!! The most handsome men I’ve ever laid eyes on are 55 and up; Johnny Depp, Brad Pitt, Sly Stallone, John O’Hurley, etc. And those are just celebrity examples lol, they exist in real life as well. A guy my age can’t do anything for me except point me to his father or grandfather. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️👌🏾
For the natural ladies especially those with locs...this is anecdotal but...I cut my locs this year and straightened my natural hair. I am also older. I have had natural hair for over 20 years. Those styles attracted dusties, hoteps and villians. By ONLY cutting my hair (and covering my tattoos) the men that approach me are leaps and bounds beyond the ones I attracted in the past. I showed old pictures of me younger with locs and tattoos to one of my current "friends." He loved my long locs and was in awe of my tattoos, but he said that he would not have approached me because he would assume I would not be attracted to his type. So it's not how attractive or well-kept the locs look; my loc'd head is in the advertisements and promotional material for a prominent loctician--the were long thick and neat. It's how the man perceives who you'd like to date. Again, I am older, by that slight tweak, I have changed the quality of men I attract. Sorry, but if you are serious about the level up--get a wig, weave, or blow your hair out. Once you get him, take them wigs off or reattach them locs. My locs are in a bag in my closet lol.
Mmmm I beg to differ. I get compliments and approached by men with my locs and I have tattoos. I feel it’s the way you carry yourself and how you wear you locs. Oh and they aren’t dusties 😂
@@LocsnBeautybyHarm I am glad that works for you. I have had a husband (hotep) and two fiancees (not dusties lol). Because I am conventionally pretty, I have been "approached" by male humans since puberty. So for me, it's not about being "approached," it is about the TYPE of man that feels more comfortable approaching. To each his own though. Changing a hairstyle is not a foolproof guarantee, and neither is losing weight, but having a more universally appealing look helps a woman cast a broader net. Again, purely anecdotal, based on my experience only.
@@cantrelate9712 Yes a sleeve. back tatts and on my torso.
😂😂😂@ my locs are in a bag in the closet!
Good luck attracting a well off man with a wig... Might as well call yourself a tranny. Nothing wrong with black women wearing locs or their natural hair. As a high value man I prefer the natural types especially black women with locs. I prefer long hair on women and if it's natural even better. I don't like tattoos though. I think it was your tattoos and weight that attracted dusties not your hair. I see many black women with locs with high value men. I see more black women wearing wigs with dusties then with natural hair. No man wants to feel like he is with a man who wears a wig and the afros don't fit in most high end places. Long locs look the best on black women and this is my opinion as a non black man. I'm starting to feel like lower tier black women will say anything to justify wearing a wig. No man wants to date a women who tries to emulate another race of women's look. Straight hair looks wrong on most black women unless you could pass for another race. Short shaved hair on black women look even worse.
It’s my money and I want it Now! Lol
I love your channel Shera! I was a pickmeisha and thanks to you i have completely change the way i think about dating and men.Sprinkle sprinkle from France 🌟🌟🌟
Amen 🙏 if he wants exclusively with you he pays all the bills
what if you ain't living together some just say it to try get free sex
Now why are y’all watching shera in front a of man? Exposing your hand.
ihope people are not honestly doing this. doesnt matter if he's a so called good man lmao men switch up. i would nevaaa lmao
the fact that you have to tell women not to watch these videos around men 🤦🏽♀️
Why show them the game?
The fact you can't talk like this around men though. I like doing it though 😀
Seriously lol!! Just giving your playbook to the other team before the next game lol.
Shera is just looking more and more leveled up!
If all women did this, men would be forced to step up.
Well I was listening to you in 2019 and started to level up but than got brainwashed by my ex and stayed in dusty relationship and made some major financial mistakes
Please listen to Shera . By the time I become "woke" i had spent 11 years in a half dusty marriage. When I started holding him to a standard and holding him accountable for not keeping the house clean, getting a job and see a doctor for ADD ,sleep in the bed with me more. (Yes he liked staying up late plaging video games and movies) getting help from a counselor etc. Thats when he walked away. Its so hard to accept but I thought he would change. He never chose a path to self improvement. I was on a spiritual awakening. Take everyone for face value not for what you think they can be. I do not regret it because I had my daughter but my life could have been so much easier if i would have acknowledged sooner that he never really cared enough to be a better man for me. SHERA IS SPEAKING THE TRUTH. 50/50 will never work emotionally for a man bc they will never fully full their ego bc youre doing half the work . Men need ego and respect to be happy in a relationship. Women need protection and providing in order to feel fulfilled from a man. See how the cycle doesnt work . He knew he could never be the man i needed so he left so i could go find it. It hurts but this is my life now. Now i will never choose a man based on mostly physical attraction again.
Wow, this literally sounds like the dusty I married. He played video games all night every night for the almost 11 years we’ve been together. He only started working two years ago when he lost his disability benefits (a job a helped him get and provided transportation, I know super pickme). When I started asking him to do more as a husband he essentially gave up on wanting to be a better husband for me. Luckily I found Shera and started leveling up so his loss 💅🏾
Iv been a people pleaser settling all my life im gonna practice being narcissistic like Shera. Im over being nice.
23 watching this ❤, and I wanna say she’s right . I date older and have since 21 and they provide , never let them get comfortable. and always hold with accountable the first time , ask idc what you ask for ask .
How older do you date & where do you run into these older men? They’re so hard to find in the Midwest lol.
Y’all really out here looking for grampa sugar daddies.. yolo😂🤡
@@nathanielelzie8898And? Go date younger girls who don’t mind dating younger guys. There’s still tons of them.
@@Starfire34503 I’m 24
@@Starfire34503 I’m in my prime slut and I get bread
There is a Neo soul song that talks about a woman being taken for a long walk as a date. I loved that so much I wanted to go for long walks in park with dusty. Put a leash on me and call me dust mite. BIG MISTAKE. #sprinklesprinkle
Ma’am!!! I hollered!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
none of those singers maried a man who has more money than they did.... I liked the neo soul for young people in college... but not for grown folks with expenses lol
Omg I’m crying 😂😂😂
💀 ⚰️ 😂😂😂
That's what the girls like 🤪🙃
Shera is not a narcissist. She's living in her feminine energy. Her feminine energy, the purpose she lives her life for, has nothing to do with you. I recently started looking into and trying to move out of masculine energy. Once I started to understand the concepts behind feminine energy vs masculine energy, I interpret Shera differently now. I happened to see a clip of Shera on TikTok and not long after, my algorithm brought me to living in feminine energy. Of Shera's advice is not for you, then it's not for you. Men and women who let themselves feel angry with her content are just living in their masculine energy. Maybe that's what's right for them? Maybe they need to open their minds? It's up to them. That's just how I feel.
She's a narcissist!
“Tell them to STEP with they STEPSELVES” lmaoooo! Always laughs with you Shera!
thank you for ur active posting and advice! ur the best financial advisor i know!
Dang shera, you're all over social media. I said to myself, my girl IS viral!💃
i dont even like talking to my friends too much online. i dont like doing all that texting and talking on the phone lol catch me in real life where the vibes are better.
You got way too much time on your hands commenting on these videos si often. Are you a jobless dusty? Seems like it.
No notifications. CZcams you need to do better.
I was 19 when I got married. Have no concept of “life”My husband has paid for everything since day 1. He’s 10 years older and from the Middle East. Sprinkle sprinkle (im American …and real cute 🥰)
I LOVE U SHERAAAA I’m so happy I found you at 17 I’m listening and taking it in!! Sprinkle sprinkle ✨
we're in the red pill days with men so you defintely not gonna be getting no kind of unconditional love from them. i feel like if you wanted unconditional love you would have better luck dating between 2010-2016 cause these new age men are not trying to fall in love at all. they've been consuming too much toxic ted talk from their grandfathers
But haven't they always been that way. 🤔
@@chayo4537 they have but these generation and time of men are another level of i don't want to do anything to earn a woman and they don't have access to women before like they do now
Yes, but I think that’ll change because the red pill rhetoric is not working. The marriage rates are dropping fast, and more men are experiencing loneliness like never before. The women have smartened up, INCLUDING the ones that are not as high value in the dating market, and if the man doesn’t want to spend another night with Rosie Palmer and her five sisters, he needs to smarten up as well, and listening to redpillers is making him single.
Yes, listen in private headphones agree with her. Ruining it
Women who put men onto shera channel ....he gonna use this game to get the women he really wants #staywoke
#wokehijack
Shera, when you told the woman to reverse it on em and say "Yeah I'm transgender" to get that money, I literally died!😄💀☠️ It is a compliment as many of them are Indeed beautiful. Girl I love you so much. You are the TRUTH! Sprinkle, Sprinkle
Shera thank you for your wisdom, kindness and grace for women like me.
"i ignored him for a three days" lol. ✍put ✍him ✍on✍ hold
You changed my life baby ❤
This is MY communittyyyy🎉🎉🎉 ladies let’s level up… only way we can get all men to ACT RIGHT
Great job keeping yourself cool and calm on this live girl❤
Can’t wait to apply my skills soon.
I love it Shera seven is the best she short blunt and to the point ....always on point the best teacher on you tube for woman lol
Shera you’re gorgeous!! I love listening to your advice cannot wait to apply it all when I’m ready to date or find a provider ❤
✍️ I’m not going to be exclusive with any man unless he’s totally providing for me
I’m not putting my options off the table if you’re not going to give me the lifestyle that i feel I deserve ✍️🫡
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And yep, DO NOT tell SD you’re seeing other people! $$$ will be cut! Lie babes! Lie!
No seriously! Men hate when you tell them your options are open the entitlement is crazy !
women got to stop trying to take the easy way out. its easy to sit on your couch and scroll through tinder to find a date for the night but the real men are OUTSIDE. i dont know any men of integrity and money that spend their days scrolling through them dating sites. youre gonna be disappointed time and time again until you hop into the real world. its a reason why those particular men cant find women in real life and youll see for yourself soon enough. shera was right about the chemistry and connection being 100000% better in real life time. getting to smell someone's cologne or perfume makes a world of a difference. men you would probably never give a chance to online have you gaining a new perspective on them cause you met them in real life and see how they walk and talk and how good they smell. i think a lot of women resort to online dating because they don't feel like getting ready, putting on makeup, doing their hair, the whole body care routine. if they do the whole online dating thing they dont have to put effort into their appearance they can sit on the couch in pajamas while chatting up some guy. its very low effort on BOTH energy. i get that it can take a LOT of your time and energy to look good but i'm telling you it's worth it. men are generally more respectful in real life and want to form genuine connections. & i also think a lot of women look at social media dating and tinder dating as a way to escape from reality and they probably filter their pictures heavily and are scared to go out because they know they know they dont look like that in real life so it makes them feel insecure so they hide behind a keyboard the whole life. but honey that man gonna know that filtered picture is not how you really look EVENTUALLY. you can only hide for so long
Men don't have good hygiene. So you're smelling and looking fresh or whatever and his breath stinks and he don't have good hygiene. So... that's like brushing your teeth right after eating
@@chayo4537 some of them have good hygiene lol
Lol hiding behind a keyboard hehe
"Ladies.....get some headphone" 🤣🤣🤣 common sense though. 17:16🤣🤣🤣🤣
I wish i knew you 10 years ago.. my life would be so different now better late than never 😅
Since I’ve started listening to Shera I’ve cut out a lot of dusties and gym bros ❌ I’m only dating providers and older
Sadly my mother is dating a dusty and nothing she can do about it since she’s stuck in this, paying 50/50 sigh so I have to date a provider to show her how it’s done
Shera speaks my love language!
“You ain’t Abraham Lincoln -ssshhhhhut uppp” 😭😭😭🥴❤️🫶🏼
17:00 has me hollering! 😂😂 Shera you are comedic gold and not even on purpose 😂
Get some headphones frrr. Men will always say things like this is who is influencing you… basically manipulate you
22:30 if no money is going from their account to yours stop caring
26:46 need to be memorable and have umpf
29:10 real life chemistry > dating apps
Ty❤
"if no money is going from their account to yours stop caring"
Ah - prostitution. . . . . .
@@incurableromantic4006who said anything about giving it up?
@@incurableromantic4006your BROKE
I’m a new subscriber. I found my tribe❤
I wish you was my momma, but I’m grateful for this
I’m cracking up at this livestream. Shera, we friends in real life in my head 😂 23:37
Pastor Shera one thing you never do is LIE!!! ❤️❤️❤️ alllll facts 🏆
This some real advice 💯💯💯
How can u hate her.
She's a sociopath. That's what she said she was .so why not?
I’m physically sick that I’m still deep deep deep in the throws of being a pickmesha
It takes time. Listen to her when you nap or something.
So happy I came across this channel. Will literally start implementing your advices
when she said “behave financially” LMFAOOOOOOOO like training an animal 🤣🤣🤣
Dating in the real world helped me find the provider man I’ve always wanted sprinkle sprinkle 🥰
I notices, there were times, when people told me, about something about too happen. In this world, would had been upset, making unhealthy decision, and doing things, I should had been getting into .
After watching your video, since 2022, think differently, about things now.
I recall you saying, always, have a plan, if something about too accur.
You said, never depends on a job, or other benefit, cause anything can happen.
I always use headphones / with these thin walls around me
Shera is giving wisdom
Goto churches dusty puzzy
Your videos have enlightened me and opened my eyes to the reality of dating. I have found my peace. Thank you! Ya'll please stop asking the same questions over and over and binge watch her previous videos. The answers are there...
The Neosoul movement 🤣🤣🤣 I SCREAMED!!!
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