I would never knowingly date a guy who used to be an abuser, slept with everyone in the city, use to be an addict etc because i would be too scared those traits would pop back up sometime in the future
100% I know a woman who married a former addict and he relapsed. She’s suffering in that relationship now she’s got kids with him. Men can probably fool careless, foolish women to marry them despite a chaotic past, but a smart woman ain’t risking it.’
The thing is Men want love and real love from a women Which women don't give They are stressed in return and sleep around No one holds their hand when they need it the most and they choose the wrong path as a result I am from a decent family and my family always told me about sexual relationships since I was 6 which everyone should do Coz I am a decent earning guy today with a body count of only 1 And I want a women who's a virgin or body count less than 2
As I women I have ALWAYS cared about my partners pasts. I’ve known my husband since we were 2 years old and he has ALWAYS been a classy gentleman and his family is the same way. It DOES matter.
@@umadkhan50 I agree bro, some segments of the Manosphere is becoming part of the problem in terms of erasing traditional moral values. It's frustrating to watch.
Ma'am he's talking in general. He's not talking about you individually. If Drake approached most women, most women wouldn't give two quarters about his past because he's Rich and famous. Males generally don't operate in that way.
Nope. I care about the past of the man. Because they don't know how to move on. I have done the work, disciplined myself and just had 2 serious relationship, i Don't want a man with body count in double digits
nope 👎🏼 it’s actually the SAME for men , they dig past tooooo , and usually bad reputation is a risk of “ repeating “. Sorry I know you want it to be all about it’s ok for a man to be whatever, but no …. A high value woman won’t say yes easily to those types of men !!. They want someone without a risk too , just like men want that from a woman .
The truth RP doesn’t talk about is the damage that guys do to themselves when they’re extremely promiscuous. Yea, it’s a few of them that can even try but I’ve seeen so many that say they did it so much until they don’t want to. That’s just unhealthy. A rapper recently said he stopped. These guys defo ruin their ability to settle with a woman for the sake of a family and can never get fulfilment from relationships. Should women risk settling down with a guy like that…. Bad idea
Ok Hope yours is lower than his. Because you having Sex for the First Time (loosing your V Card) is an experience you can only have once. After That your pussy wont be the Same. My dick will still work the Same way. A penis and Vagina is Not the Same. No man Wants a Women That has Been through alot (war scars/wounds) but women want men with such scars. A man with a high Body count is USUALLY A HANDSOME, CHARMING Good effing, SUCCESSFULL/Smart guy. (Not talking about Guys who Pipe fat Women etc.) But a WOMEN IS DEGENERATE AND PROMISCOUS AND MAKES WRONG DECISIONS/ is Easy to get but playsi Hard to get. Women (who had More Sex than years on this Planet get mad From the Key and Lock analogy but Its all the truth. Just some Women prefer to marry cvcks and simps and stay in their safety bubble WHERE THEY DONT HAVE TO SHOW ANY ACCOUNTABILITY WOMEN JUST WANT A GOOD TIME AND DONT DEAL WITH THE HARSH REALITY.
I don’t think a woman’s high body count ruins her future … it’s just the type of people she chooses to surround herself with and the type of perception that they have towards life in general … that’s why it’s important to surround yourself with like minded individuals who understands and are more accepting to different situations in life !
Yes, none of the men I know who are in successful relationships with women and have had children with them give a sh*t about their body counts, this is in the UK, so opinions might differ, but they're sensitive men who are attuned to their partner's feelings and states of mind. One woman friend has been renowed for being 'on the prowl' when single, and they couldn't be happier together with their son. There's too many men pontificating about womens' body counts and filling young and impressionable minds with crap, in my opinion.
@@Gentleman.. ok that’s ur opinion! But there are so many people on this earth with different mindsets .. don’t get me wrong there are a lot of men that think like u .. but also there are other men out there that really don’t care .. they value other things and they look beyond her past and what she has done … and they are willing to accept .. just depends on a persons perception!
@@timothydraper3687 exactly .. it’s about different types of perception and there are other people out there willing to accept u and look at a person beyond what they have done in their lives .. they have an understanding and they are ok with that !
You say that until you get with someone who's past catches up with them. And if anything you're the sheep. Blindly accepting 304s... Shame on you. Know your worth. 💯
@@YoGeeBear317 calling women by 304 prouve that u are such an immature misogynist judgmental toxic bigot person.and the problem u try to shame me on my decision!! Body counts has no relation with the loyalty.i know alot of traditional virgins who cheated on their husbands so stfu. Retarded complicated sheep kid.people can change and renew.
@@YoGeeBear317 The one who smokes does not mean that if he enters into a new healthy life, he will return to smoking only because he used to smoke in the past. No, this is wrong, but he can stop and stay healthy. The same applies to a girl whose body count is high. What she did in the past remains in the past, and you cannot judge in advance. On a person because of his past act, you are short of mind. Having sex when the person is single is considered pleasure and desire, and nature pushes for sexual plurality, so there is no problem. If she does this, then it is an innate matter in us. We all love sharing sexual experiences with others for the sake of pleasure, but after long enjoyment he will search A lot about emotional stability, so they will enter into another lifestyle, which is the relationship.grow up u have to understand that
@@YoGeeBear317 What are you talking about? All this talk about women's body counts, is the repression of female sexuality which started with the Bible, it's not any kind of new thinking, that book was written by men who blamed a women for humanity being 'fallen', who had a problem with gays, menstruation, suggested that women should look up to men like men look up to god, and believed in a magic apple tree and a talking serpant, so who would listen to them? A woman friend has always had friends joke about her being a nymphomaniac, and has settled down happily wth the father of their son, who was deligted when she became pregnant at 40, and couldn't care less about her body count. It's just a way of repressing women, no more than that...
Ummm....Sorry we also care about men's past too..like how was he with his previous patner...was he a misogynist, was he a perosn who wanted to be baby man child, did he do drugs, did he Study well, been kind to his fellow mates whether girl or a guy.... Every thing...just like how u guys do about women...and also a man shld and I think also does think about our future what are our goals carrier interest, Healthy lifestyle.... every thing....Nobody wants half history...we all want to be healthy and happy
Really? Is that why a lot of the prison population is spoken for? Y'all fetishize murderers and criminals. 🤣🤣 A vast amount of women will go for shitty men with the thought of "I could change him." You probably can't. But most men have accepted the fact that "you can't turn a 304 into a housewife." 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
I dont understand why this concept is so difficult for women to understand. We all know that the vast majority of women are waiting at the finish line for the winners, the successful guys, but only for future stability. They have no problem going backwards for the bad boy loser who has nothing going for him, to sleep with. This is the type of behavior that racks up the big bodycounts. While they are waiting for daddy warbucks to arrive at the finish line, they are sleeping with a bunch of men that they don't really want a future with because they know there is none. A guy on the other hand, is appropriately concerned with a woman's past because when he is looking for wife material, he isn't going to chose every guys leftovers, the single mothers, the mental patients, the used and damaged ones with a car load of emotional baggage and a huge body count. They can cry about how it shouldn't matter, but reality says it does. So don't be surprised when you round the corner at 30 or 35 yrs old , still single, and the only thing you can round up is a guy to pump and dump you. You have given away all of your value in the 10 to 15 years prior by getting ran through and acting like a garden tool. Sorry ladies, that slap of reality stings a little.
There's a lot of lip service online about this but the men who legitimately care about a woman's sexual integrity typically prioritize marrying virgins when they themselves are young, still in their 20s. Men in their 30s and higher talking about body count sound ridiculous. What have they been doing all this time, they could've put a ring on a virginal woman by now
@utamu80 there's a huge difference between a man with a high bodycount and a woman. The downside for a man is he is seen as a player, it's usually an act to assert dominance. With women it's not only an emotional connection of some extent, but she runs the risk of unwanted pregnancy, which will most likely land her into single motherhood. A man will never sit down and say "I feel used " after the act if she never talks to him again. Where if it happens to the women, especially multiple times, it starts to cause some emotional trauma.
@@69dewballs I don't disagree with your points but as a woman I'm more concerned about a man's ability to be disciplined and faithful in a marriage. Men with high body counts have rarely exercised sexual discipline and I would be concerned that he would be cheating as soon as there is mild stress in the marriage. Not to mention that the chance of him getting bored with his wife are much higher.
@utamu80 I am not saying he is a good choice as a boyfriend/husband, I'm just saying that any good man, looking for an ideal woman that he safely believes would make a good long term partner to start a family with, is not looking for a woman with a high body count. Sure, there are some men that will say it doesn't matter to them, but they are also the same men 5 or 10 yes down the road complaining thst she was cheating on him . The more men a woman beds with, she loses a bit of bonding ability. After so many, it has just become this sport to brag about with other like minded women. But to a good guy, he just sees her potential to cheat on him in the future when she decides that the married/family life is too boring and she wants the thrill of her 20s back. But by no means would I say that a player of a man makes a great choice as a long term partner. Just the consequences for the two, male and female are vastly different. The consequences for her could alter her success with relationships for the rest of her life. There is already a huge stigma about guys dating single mothers, adding promiscuity to that list might keep her single for life
@@69dewballs as I said before, I don't disagree with your points. I don't actually need the lecture and a lot of this stuff is common sense lol. It's obvious that the self labeled good guys and good girls are resentful of people with high body counts feeling entitled to sexually disciplined partners.
Look at the movie pretty woman. Double Standards are ridiculous. If she turned her life around then the right man will love her for her. They clearly aren't the right men.
@@timothydraper3687 Well it's about personality as well Used women shouldn't expect their men to earn a dime either They shouldn't marry a decent guy either then Keep it equal If you want a decent guy, be a virgin If you have a high body count ,marry a playboy If a guy wants you to be a virgin expect he's not Then he will do everything in his power to make your life paradise in return If you want a virgin men Your should earn a decent money and don't be picky while dating either
@@Gentleman.. What do you mean by 'Used women' exactly? Why not, 'experienced' or 'sexually confident'? If it's about personality, then, shouldn't the point a woman has arrived at when they meet a man be what counts, rather than their sexual history? Body count means diddly squat.
Because a woman’s best days are often behind her. When you meet her at 25 she’s already on the decline so seeing how she behaved while she was in her prime will tell you a lot about her character, even if she gaslights and claims that she “changed”
That's true. A man looks at a woman's past, and a woman looks at a man's future. A woman cannot argue with a man's past - she can hope to be in his future. A man looks for the perfect woman for his present, paying attention to her past so that she is a virgin. When a woman starts to get old, a man will find a new virgin in his future who will meet his standards.
A lot of men don't actually like virgins, they like women that will have sex with them quickly. Not sure why that's not brought up on these debates, I've known many men who say they don't prefer virgins because they find them difficult to deal with.
"..or a Cardi B type girl..." LOL.
Awwll 😮
I would never knowingly date a guy who used to be an abuser, slept with everyone in the city, use to be an addict etc because i would be too scared those traits would pop back up sometime in the future
As long as you have looks and height, you could be the most abusive man on Earth and women will still flock
100% I know a woman who married a former addict and he relapsed. She’s suffering in that relationship now she’s got kids with him.
Men can probably fool careless, foolish women to marry them despite a chaotic past, but a smart woman ain’t risking it.’
I think he meant sexual past ...let's not deflect.
@@loveworld5026 there is such a thing as too much for men. It becomes a little icky to think he had no control or discipline
@@loveworld5026 He specifically said homeless, and was an asshole before. Did you watch the 10 second clip?
A man’s past does matter…if he slept with many women he’s probably going to jeopardize the relationship by cheating
nope.cheating can came from all human.even virgin girl can cheat on u
Money matters to women ☕☕ simple. If you earn millions of dollars chicks will come to you .. That's why there are lots of girls of millionaire yatch
@@thanos4570 and beauty matters to men
@@sensei9084 beauty matters to women too
The thing is
Men want love and real love from a women
Which women don't give
They are stressed in return and sleep around
No one holds their hand when they need it the most and they choose the wrong path as a result
I am from a decent family and my family always told me about sexual relationships since I was 6 which everyone should do
Coz I am a decent earning guy today with a body count of only 1
And I want a women who's a virgin or body count less than 2
As I women I have ALWAYS cared about my partners pasts. I’ve known my husband since we were 2 years old and he has ALWAYS been a classy gentleman and his family is the same way. It DOES matter.
Yeh this new age shit is ridiculous
@@umadkhan50 I agree bro, some segments of the Manosphere is becoming part of the problem in terms of erasing traditional moral values. It's frustrating to watch.
Noone said it doesn't matter to a few women like yourself but you are of statistical insignificance. So ur opinion isnt valuable
The majority of women won't...that's his point. Ofcourse there is a minority that would. But majority of MADE MEN would care about your past.
Ma'am he's talking in general. He's not talking about you individually. If Drake approached most women, most women wouldn't give two quarters about his past because he's Rich and famous. Males generally don't operate in that way.
100% bullshit, people are judgmental, everyone has a judgment on the partner's past, present and future
Nope. I care about the past of the man. Because they don't know how to move on. I have done the work, disciplined myself and just had 2 serious relationship, i Don't want a man with body count in double digits
nope 👎🏼 it’s actually the SAME for men , they dig past tooooo , and usually bad reputation is a risk of “ repeating “.
Sorry I know you want it to be all about it’s ok for a man to be whatever, but no …. A high value woman won’t say yes easily to those types of men !!.
They want someone without a risk too , just like men want that from a woman .
The truth RP doesn’t talk about is the damage that guys do to themselves when they’re extremely promiscuous. Yea, it’s a few of them that can even try but I’ve seeen so many that say they did it so much until they don’t want to. That’s just unhealthy. A rapper recently said he stopped. These guys defo ruin their ability to settle with a woman for the sake of a family and can never get fulfilment from relationships. Should women risk settling down with a guy like that…. Bad idea
After I found out a mans ”body count” I said we could not talk anymore. His body count was 8, stop saying lies. These men need me on the panel😅
A man’s value is more buildable, a woman’s value is more permanently tarnished.
Bro is sleep talking
Well Well Well Cardi B is a professional 304
Facts!!!!!!!!
Body count: how many people I killed
Mine: 0
A man’s body count matters to me as a woman
Ok Hope yours is lower than his. Because you having Sex for the First Time (loosing your V Card) is an experience you can only have once. After That your pussy wont be the Same.
My dick will still work the Same way. A penis and Vagina is Not the Same.
No man Wants a Women That has Been through alot (war scars/wounds) but women want men with such scars.
A man with a high Body count is USUALLY A HANDSOME, CHARMING Good effing, SUCCESSFULL/Smart guy.
(Not talking about Guys who Pipe fat Women etc.)
But a WOMEN IS DEGENERATE AND PROMISCOUS AND MAKES WRONG DECISIONS/ is Easy to get but playsi Hard to get. Women (who had More Sex than years on this Planet get mad From the Key and Lock analogy but Its all the truth. Just some Women prefer to marry cvcks and simps and stay in their safety bubble WHERE THEY DONT HAVE TO SHOW ANY ACCOUNTABILITY WOMEN JUST WANT A GOOD TIME AND DONT DEAL WITH THE HARSH REALITY.
R u Married yet
Would you marry your celebrity crush that’s probably promiscuous?
@@flyingdutchman2442 it's irrelevant, fantasy scenarios never happen, it's real life we focus on and most women attract and marry average dudes
@@utamu777 That’s womanese for yes.
I don’t think a woman’s high body count ruins her future … it’s just the type of people she chooses to surround herself with and the type of perception that they have towards life in general … that’s why it’s important to surround yourself with like minded individuals who understands and are more accepting to different situations in life !
Yes, none of the men I know who are in successful relationships with women and have had children with them give a sh*t about their body counts, this is in the UK, so opinions might differ, but they're sensitive men who are attuned to their partner's feelings and states of mind. One woman friend has been renowed for being 'on the prowl' when single, and they couldn't be happier together with their son. There's too many men pontificating about womens' body counts and filling young and impressionable minds with crap, in my opinion.
You should do a QNA with men
Men are worried naturally about the body count of women
No matter how much they hide
They will be sad deep inside
@@Gentleman.. ok that’s ur opinion! But there are so many people on this earth with different mindsets .. don’t get me wrong there are a lot of men that think like u .. but also there are other men out there that really don’t care .. they value other things and they look beyond her past and what she has done … and they are willing to accept .. just depends on a persons perception!
@@timothydraper3687 exactly .. it’s about different types of perception and there are other people out there willing to accept u and look at a person beyond what they have done in their lives .. they have an understanding and they are ok with that !
the level of evolved debate the america has
men vs women😂😂😂
that's the big lie of redpill sheep.i dont care about women past i look for change and I forgive the mistakes and I try to open a new page with her
You say that until you get with someone who's past catches up with them. And if anything you're the sheep. Blindly accepting 304s... Shame on you. Know your worth. 💯
@@YoGeeBear317 calling women by 304 prouve that u are such an immature misogynist judgmental toxic bigot person.and the problem u try to shame me on my decision!! Body counts has no relation with the loyalty.i know alot of traditional virgins who cheated on their husbands so stfu. Retarded complicated sheep kid.people can change and renew.
@@YoGeeBear317 The one who smokes does not mean that if he enters into a new healthy life, he will return to smoking only because he used to smoke in the past. No, this is wrong, but he can stop and stay healthy. The same applies to a girl whose body count is high. What she did in the past remains in the past, and you cannot judge in advance. On a person because of his past act, you are short of mind. Having sex when the person is single is considered pleasure and desire, and nature pushes for sexual plurality, so there is no problem. If she does this, then it is an innate matter in us. We all love sharing sexual experiences with others for the sake of pleasure, but after long enjoyment he will search A lot about emotional stability, so they will enter into another lifestyle, which is the relationship.grow up u have to understand that
@@YoGeeBear317 What are you talking about? All this talk about women's body counts, is the repression of female sexuality which started with the Bible, it's not any kind of new thinking, that book was written by men who blamed a women for humanity being 'fallen', who had a problem with gays, menstruation, suggested that women should look up to men like men look up to god, and believed in a magic apple tree and a talking serpant, so who would listen to them? A woman friend has always had friends joke about her being a nymphomaniac, and has settled down happily wth the father of their son, who was deligted when she became pregnant at 40, and couldn't care less about her body count. It's just a way of repressing women, no more than that...
99.99% men care
And you are that 0.01%
Ummm....Sorry we also care about men's past too..like how was he with his previous patner...was he a misogynist, was he a perosn who wanted to be baby man child, did he do drugs, did he Study well, been kind to his fellow mates whether girl or a guy.... Every thing...just like how u guys do about women...and also a man shld and I think also does think about our future what are our goals carrier interest, Healthy lifestyle.... every thing....Nobody wants half history...we all want to be healthy and happy
Really? Is that why a lot of the prison population is spoken for? Y'all fetishize murderers and criminals. 🤣🤣 A vast amount of women will go for shitty men with the thought of "I could change him." You probably can't. But most men have accepted the fact that "you can't turn a 304 into a housewife." 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
Nah bs lol.
So if your body count is 20
You will marry a playboy right?
I dont understand why this concept is so difficult for women to understand. We all know that the vast majority of women are waiting at the finish line for the winners, the successful guys, but only for future stability. They have no problem going backwards for the bad boy loser who has nothing going for him, to sleep with. This is the type of behavior that racks up the big bodycounts. While they are waiting for daddy warbucks to arrive at the finish line, they are sleeping with a bunch of men that they don't really want a future with because they know there is none. A guy on the other hand, is appropriately concerned with a woman's past because when he is looking for wife material, he isn't going to chose every guys leftovers, the single mothers, the mental patients, the used and damaged ones with a car load of emotional baggage and a huge body count. They can cry about how it shouldn't matter, but reality says it does. So don't be surprised when you round the corner at 30 or 35 yrs old , still single, and the only thing you can round up is a guy to pump and dump you. You have given away all of your value in the 10 to 15 years prior by getting ran through and acting like a garden tool. Sorry ladies, that slap of reality stings a little.
There's a lot of lip service online about this but the men who legitimately care about a woman's sexual integrity typically prioritize marrying virgins when they themselves are young, still in their 20s. Men in their 30s and higher talking about body count sound ridiculous. What have they been doing all this time, they could've put a ring on a virginal woman by now
@utamu80 there's a huge difference between a man with a high bodycount and a woman. The downside for a man is he is seen as a player, it's usually an act to assert dominance. With women it's not only an emotional connection of some extent, but she runs the risk of unwanted pregnancy, which will most likely land her into single motherhood. A man will never sit down and say "I feel used " after the act if she never talks to him again. Where if it happens to the women, especially multiple times, it starts to cause some emotional trauma.
@@69dewballs I don't disagree with your points but as a woman I'm more concerned about a man's ability to be disciplined and faithful in a marriage. Men with high body counts have rarely exercised sexual discipline and I would be concerned that he would be cheating as soon as there is mild stress in the marriage. Not to mention that the chance of him getting bored with his wife are much higher.
@utamu80 I am not saying he is a good choice as a boyfriend/husband, I'm just saying that any good man, looking for an ideal woman that he safely believes would make a good long term partner to start a family with, is not looking for a woman with a high body count. Sure, there are some men that will say it doesn't matter to them, but they are also the same men 5 or 10 yes down the road complaining thst she was cheating on him . The more men a woman beds with, she loses a bit of bonding ability. After so many, it has just become this sport to brag about with other like minded women. But to a good guy, he just sees her potential to cheat on him in the future when she decides that the married/family life is too boring and she wants the thrill of her 20s back. But by no means would I say that a player of a man makes a great choice as a long term partner. Just the consequences for the two, male and female are vastly different. The consequences for her could alter her success with relationships for the rest of her life. There is already a huge stigma about guys dating single mothers, adding promiscuity to that list might keep her single for life
@@69dewballs as I said before, I don't disagree with your points. I don't actually need the lecture and a lot of this stuff is common sense lol. It's obvious that the self labeled good guys and good girls are resentful of people with high body counts feeling entitled to sexually disciplined partners.
He is right
Look at the movie pretty woman. Double Standards are ridiculous. If she turned her life around then the right man will love her for her. They clearly aren't the right men.
Exactly, the men who care are full of crap.
@@timothydraper3687
Well it's about personality as well
Used women shouldn't expect their men to earn a dime either
They shouldn't marry a decent guy either then
Keep it equal
If you want a decent guy, be a virgin
If you have a high body count ,marry a playboy
If a guy wants you to be a virgin expect he's not
Then he will do everything in his power to make your life paradise in return
If you want a virgin men
Your should earn a decent money and don't be picky while dating either
@@Gentleman.. What do you mean by 'Used women' exactly? Why not, 'experienced' or 'sexually confident'? If it's about personality, then, shouldn't the point a woman has arrived at when they meet a man be what counts, rather than their sexual history? Body count means diddly squat.
Because a woman’s best days are often behind her. When you meet her at 25 she’s already on the decline so seeing how she behaved while she was in her prime will tell you a lot about her character, even if she gaslights and claims that she “changed”
What the huh? You'll be on your decline too then.
Adam, I think this is misguided. You sound like you don't have a lot of experience with women. You're just regurgitating redpill talking points.
Yes.
That's true. A man looks at a woman's past, and a woman looks at a man's future. A woman cannot argue with a man's past - she can hope to be in his future. A man looks for the perfect woman for his present, paying attention to her past so that she is a virgin. When a woman starts to get old, a man will find a new virgin in his future who will meet his standards.
A lot of men don't actually like virgins, they like women that will have sex with them quickly. Not sure why that's not brought up on these debates, I've known many men who say they don't prefer virgins because they find them difficult to deal with.
Offset is crying right now