Dealing with narcissistic parents
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Woah this got heavyyyyyy! It's not easy dealing with a narcissistic person, especially if it's a parent! We'd love to hear about your experiences and opinions on this! Stay tuned for the full episode out later this month! đ - Komedie
I love the expressions on Roseâs face. She is so into everything that Rosie is saying!
I have dealt with a narcissistic, abusive ex and I can honestly say I wouldn't wish a narcissistic parent upon anyone. My ex had a narcissistic parent themselves and they started behaving in exactly the same way as that parent. Because they were abused in such an awful way, they themselves now think it's justified to perpetuate abuse. It's very sad.
Don't get me wrong: I'm not claiming all narcissistic people are monsters, as some do seek help and try to work on themselves, but there are people like my ex who are proud of their ways and don't want to change. I'm sending hugs to all children of narcissistic parents and abusive parents in general.
âI can heal myself without needing an apology. âDang. True.
3:01 Rosie âYou look really pretty.â canât agree more!!! You two look gorgeous in this video. đđđ
My mother is a textbook narcissist. She can say some of the meanest, nastiest things, & has absolutely zero compassion, sympathy, or empathy for anybody. Everything is about her. If you dare be upset over anything, she gets angry at you, & says that worrying about you is making HER ill, so you need to pull yourself together. đ Iâve never felt comforted by my mum in my entire life, & my sister & I were made to feel like a chore to her. Itâs taken me until Iâm in my mid 30s to understand that itâs her issues, & not about us being unloveable.
TOTALLY digging Roseâs sexy librarian look. I mean Iâd borrow a book from her. đ Canât wait for the full episode! I always enjoy hearing your thoughts, even if they put my brain into overdrive! đđ§ â€
as someone who grew up with a narcissistic parent, itâs really hard. the things you get blamed for, or flaws that get projected onto you, all in the name of âonly wanting the best for youâ...it really, really impacts your self esteem.
very interested to hear what you guys have to say on this topic.
My mother is a narcissist and really I have no self esteem because of the emotional abuse. Damn if you do, damed if you donât đ„ș I didnât even realize what was going on until I was 35 when I went to therapy
Yes they project i got one now.. doing it its so completely bizarre what goes on in their twisted reality
I was married to a narcissist , they will NEVER apologize, because theyâre never wrong! Youâre right, you need to realize that making yourself happy and taking away their power is the only way to feel better
Iâm on a school trip and hiding in the bathroom so I can watch this đ€Ł . From someone with a narcissistic brother and father, you both made really good points and I actually agree with everything that was said. Itâs a sad world â€ïž
Woah. I used to watch every single video back in the day in high school when i was placed in foster care with an abusive narcissist family member, and as i was figuring out my own sexuality. Yall represented a happy, loving relationship. I thought i had that in college, and when thst didnt work out i felt too sad watching new rose and rosie videos.đ But here i am, and yall are still as funny and amazing đ still goals!
I like Rose's ponytail & Rosie's new fringe that suits them. They look so well & still very much in love. đđđžâïžđ xxx
Oh my goodness Iâm in tears ! Iâve been waiting years for someone in my family who has abused me throughout my childhood and early teens to finally apologize to me so I can move past it ..what both of you said is so TRUE! Iâm just giving him power ! And Rosie complementing Rose . Iâm so sorry Rosie for everything youâve been through ..I get it but you are thriving ! â€ïž I hope I can get to your mentality some day â€ïž
thank you so much for being the way you are, guys, thank you for being here
Not needing others to help you heal is a tough one. So many think they need to seek others approval to feel better. For some, itâs so hard to learn that the power lies within.
Both my parents, but especially my mother, were narcissistic and abusive. (My two younger siblings agree.) Not only has my mother an inflated sense of her social standing, but she's never apologised for anything. Ever. Not once. In 67 years of life. Because she's never, ever wrong.
Having steps behind you are steps in the right direction.
Rosie is such a good person .
Afternoon ladies, both looking lovely as usual. Looking forwards to seeing the full version of this soon. Much love as always xx
Wow this is the earliest Iâve gotten to a video before, canât wait to watch!
I can't imagine growing up with narcissistic parents but I have dealt with a narcissist, I love what you said about healing Rose, it's so true and it's kind of the path I took with my own healing! Also have to agree with the fact you both look great!
Love you both, honestly so relatable!!
Both are so beautiful and cute
I love when you two sit down and chatđđ
Both looking gorgeous. Looking forward to the full episode. đžâ„ïžâïž
You two look so good right now. đ. Podcast Sounds really interesting. Look forward to listening to the whole episode.
Omg its been YEARS. I just stop to see their videos,and now i came back and im still in love of the 2 like in the old timesđ. I remembrr to celebrate the 50thousand subscribs. Im from the old school of this 2đ saludos from Argentina,
I absolutely despise the saying hurt ppl hurt ppl. And it is because Iâm hurt more than a lot of ppl and Iâm not mean to anyone but myself. I try my hardest to see all sides of things even my opposite core beliefs. Just because u r hurt does not mean u should hurt other ppl. Iâve been abused in every form more than once more than twice even and Iâd never ever make someone feel the way I felt. Itâs an excuse
It's not always something one is aware of though. You can hurt someone due to a lack of boundaries for example, without having any ill intentions.
+ The saying doesn't say ALL people hurt people. I also think it can be taken as "People who hurt others have often been hurt before" (For example, NPD is thought to be a result of early childhood trauma afaik), rather than "EVERYONE who has been hurt by someone WILL hurt others". Like, it may not go both ways or be a 100% black or white thing.
@@Steertanzer oh yes I 1000% agree with u. Nothing is black and white. Thereâs always room for gray yellow and purpleđ however as Iâm sure u r aware there are so many ppl who just take the saying for wat it says literally. I also should have specified that Iâm far from perfect. Iâve hurt ppl in my past but nowhere near the type of hurt that these ppl do. I mean im a recovering addict I was never out on streets just doing stuff like unfortunately other addicts have had to be but I was not perfect. I cheated on so called boyfriends before the age of 16 but then I had my first real long term bf and never cheated again in life. We are all human we make mistakes. I just think ppl use the saying as kind of an excuse sometimes. I was hurting so I cheated but then goes and cheats again and never learns. Am I making sense? Lol ok im done rambling
@@cleosworld9096 Ah, okay. I don't think I've heard it used as an excuse, but from that perspective it totally makes sense, what you're saying.
You heard it here first GO Deep! All kidding aside it is great when you still have sparks with the other person in you life these two are throwing lightning bolts today cheers!!
Las amo! Estuve en pareja 18 años con un perverso narcisista (soy lenta para aprender, jajaja)y lo que es peor, tuve una hija con él. Ella es mi vida, pero su padre la destruyó psicológicamente y hoy ambas estamos en tratamiento, pero como dijo Rose, dejé de esperar su aprobación y me puse primera en prioridad para poder salvarme y salvar a mi hija de él. Las abrazo desde Argentina!
âIâd say go deepâ and CUT đđđđ . Niceeeee ending, arose. Also, Rose looks soooooo good đ„
2 wise girls, love them! đđđ
Ladies just to explain, 62-year-old male who finds you both really genuine, its obvious to anyone who has been watching your content for many years you are totally in love, wish I could be a little bit less mushy but that's the way I see it hope you are both well, Ziggy is growing into a fine boy and a credit to you both pat on the back for you both.
That was honestly a great 3 minutes pls can you make your podcasts watchable!!
My Dadâs side of the family are gaslighters big time.
You guys look Incredible
Iâm a member but canât find access to the full podcast episodes, anyone able to direct me? đ
My Mum does this to me. My psychiatrist says it's not gas-lighting.
Wtf they lost subscribers đźđźđź what happened?
I am so over this terminology. If you don't like someone, if you do not agree with someone, if you have different opinions, values, beliefs.... etc etc it doesn't make the person a narsicist. Just means they are not the friend or partner for you. Say goodbye and move on.
1:02 WTF DID I DOOOOOO???!!!!!
I want to listen to the full episode so bad but itâs not showing up on the community tab for me
@@frogswule yep got the notification and now listening to it đ
I'm sorry, where can I watch the whole episode when i subscribed? Im so confused :/
The whole episode will be available to listen to if you become a member! Baby Frogs and higher have access to full podcast episodes â€
The episode will be out later this month! And you'll get a notification when it is! đâ€
@@RoseAndRosie Ohh, thank you! I subscribed right away, but was still confused, thank you for clarifying!
Go Deep!
Is this on Spotify? I canât find it đ
@Fwogs Rule3 ah I knew it was a teaser but didnt know if it was gonna be put out as a regular podcast. Thank you!
Hey girls đ
dating someone with narcissistic personality disorder, diagnosed, but refused to accept her diagnosis.. gonna like this episode
Far too deep for me on a Friday
Wuvssssssss!!!
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