How to Get the 16 Personalities to Come to a Party With You
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- čas přidán 21. 07. 2021
- To all extroverts with introverted friends.
(I'll just flag again that this channel does not condone manipulation. Ha ha.)
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#16personalities #mbti #myersbriggs #16types #typology - Komedie
I love how you’re not even trying to get the INTPs to come TO a party with you. You‘re just trying to get them to go NEAR one 😂
Baby steps, INTPs. Baby steps.
Nah nah nah, some INTPs love going to parties to get fkn munted LOL. Gotta give the old noggin a break, y'know?
@@snoweh1 I hear you, but my Se blindspot can’t afford to get any clumsier than I already am. Can’t imagine the destruction. It would be devastating.
The idea to evoke the curiosity of the INTP is very clever. There is no need to lock him/her then. 👍
@@GermanTaffer Then who is gonna stop the ESFP from prancing through the door and opening up a second dance floor? No, no, the lock is essential (:
@@janaretlow8699 And as an ESFP I would totally do that XD
ISTP's know you're lying when you promise to never ask about their feelings again.
Maybe...
-ISTP
It is literally too good to be true-
More like wishful thinking... I'm ISTP and my husband is ESTP are common bond is getting stuff for free for just showing up to events and raffles.
Yes they do!
Never ask about ISTPs about their feelings again? They know you really mean other people’s feelings.
As an INTJ, I can only be deeply in awe of the ESFJ's and ESFP's uncomplicated approach to parties.
😂 It really is uncomplicated in our minds
So true. It seems like such a fun way to live. Even though I'm an ENFJ and love connecting with people, the thought of going to a party scares me to death. What broken emotions will I encounter? What weird interactions between crushes will I see? Will the party vibe be fun or awkward? Will my Fe be called upon to fix an emotionally bad situation that I won't be able to handle? 🤔😬
@@cathyhart3946 Man, this sounds more complicated than mine, and mine is complex in itself. I’m an ENFP who obsesses over alone time to explore ideas. Someone asks me to go to a party and my first instinct is always, “Nope, I don’t have time, I don’t want to, I can be doing better things.” (Is that true? No. I have the time. I just hate giving it away and committing to something- a blank slate of a day looks so much more appealing then, well, a scheduled event. Especially a scheduled event with people.) So I’ve learned to tune out that initial response, since it’s there whenever anyone asks me to do almost anything with them. Then afterwards, it’s a matter of whether or not I realistically think I’d enjoy myself. Most of the time I conclude “yeah as soon as I get over the initial five second shock of seeing the shining sun of social interaction after being in an introverted cave for ages, I’ll adjust into my giggly extrovert skin and I’ll be happy.” Which is basically what happens. Every time.
The thing people need to do to draw me in more is to invite me wayyyyy in advance (if it’s far away, it looks more like a cool idea than an impending commitment) and to make it sound like a new and novel concept (“I’ve hung out with the same old people before and they’re fun and all… but wait, we’re all gonna be going out to get rolled ice cream at the new place that just opened? I’ve never had rolled ice cream before. That sounds so cool. Yes, I can come up with theories about human connection based on what flavors people pick and how they describe the texture differently. I will also get to see people smile. Yay, I have to go now 🤩”)
@@sophiaredwood5825 My daughter is an ENFP and your take sounds spot on. To her, an event has to be unique and/or something she personally feels is the *right* way to spend her time. Such Ne/Fi thinking. Her friends sometimes call her boring because she doesn't automatically join the crowd in whatever they're doing, but in reality they are intrigued by her choices and you can tell they don't find her boring at all.
I think a lot of the MBTI videos misrepresent ENFP's as crazy acting extroverts, and even though I imagine some ENFP's to be like that, I think many are missing the essence of the type.
@@cathyhart3946 Ah yesss! 🤩 I definitely relate to her, hahaha. I feel like sometimes I can identify with the chaotic vibe that videos pose ENFPs with, but it’s really only sometimes that that part of me is present. It’s more of a facet that ENFPs can have, though their Ne/Fi is capable of producing many other outcomes. I would guess the same is true with a lot of other types (if not all) so it’s probably why sticking to somewhat of a stereotype is the easiest way to ensure every different variant of ENFP can find commonality and relatability somewhere. Though I would agree that the actual essence of the type is a bit closer to the individuality ENFPs can have in how they make their choices, and in where they decide to pour out that crazy energy in the first place :))
I love that to get the INTP to come you basically describe a wizard's tower being attached to the party venue. Also, being an INTP who has gone to parties that did not have wizard's towers, I now feel cheated, and have adjusted my future expectations accordingly.
Hahahaha
Lol!
#ENTP I wanna go a wizard's tower too😭
"If you do this thing, then we'll leave you alone."
IXTPs: "Counteroffer, you choose to leave me alone now, and I don't remove you from my life."
HAHAHAHA
Nice one 👍🏻😂
Perfect!😂
To be honest, asking me to go to a party would end the friendship on the spot. INFP.
Why aren't we able to do the same with family functions
*Eternal sighing*
As an INTP I want a video for learning how to turn down the 16 personalities when they ask you to go to a party..
BAHAHA
Yey I want that too!!!!!
Hahaha. INTPs intrigue me.
But I always manage to get them to socialize with me.
The more quiet and uninvolved someone is, the more I get intrigued and challenged.
~ENFJ
@@daphventurer7475 my dad is an ENFJ, and he has the same questions! He's like "are you okay? Are you happy?" I'm like lol, I am having a great time in my head don't worry! 😂
That's a video I definitely need to see!
-INTP
Me as an ISTJ : "I'm not going no matter what she says..."
Kristin: *pulls out a schedule*
Me: ".... dang it... i'm in"
First comment is another ISTJ for the win! Gotta love how our representation is growing!
I mean if it's on the schedule it's probably has an appropriately short window.
So I guess I could go.
ISTJ
As an INTP, the most interesting things at parties are finding other peoples book shelves or music rooms.
I like the food
I see funny videos on youtube and show it to one of my close frnds 😂 and they shouted at me coz i was not talking at all
I'd also settle for a peek at their movie collection as well.
@@alivia9652 I think he's joking... maybe take it lightly
@@Bongi344 😐 sorry ... Idk sometimes I get angry 😅😅 I am not doing well you know . . I will delete this reply
INTJ, and I'm genuinely conflicted.
I _do_ enjoy berating idiots, but that library you offered the INTP also sounds pretty good...
Yup. I feel the same way. ;)
I thought that was going to be the INTJ!
@@tnic3255 Me too, actually.
Yup.
Same here.
I am INTJ too and I actually don't like to talk to idiots, but I would love to have a chat with smart and wise people.
I definitely agreed with the INFP one, "and you can leave whenever you want" Yes, please.
Okay, if I can leave whenever I want, does that mean that I can leave as soon as I step into the building?
-An INTP
ISTJ scheduling just "social time"? No, no, no. The exact activity goes in the calendar at least a couple of weeks ahead! :D
- a proud ISTJ
Most of the time, I'd say "Same," unless it's a small party with maybe two or three people-Another proud ISTJ
1000% agree - A like-minded ISTJ
As an INFP the one for the INTP hit me really hard. I spiral staircase that leads to a library and I won't be bothered? Yes please 😂
Honestly same for me too, I'm an INFJ
omg right?!?!
~INFP
Yeah I thought that was gonna be INFP 😅
Same here! Also the mention of chess in the thumbnail :p
Staircase... Library..? . As a INTP it sounds for me like a magical unicorn still to discover. 😍😍
I don 't expect that another person is there too. And if so I have to explain, why I am there.
I'm not sure. Can we lock ourselves in the library with the cats? -INFP
Hahahahaha
I think the infp one was partially accurate- mention the spiral stair case to us with a library of books plus a one on one conversation with you and we can leave whenever and bonus if on our way in and out we overhear the INTJ talking to someone. That sounds like a perfect evening. On the drive there we can stop at a scenic overlook to take pictures and on the way back we can listen to nostalgic music!!
ENFP next day after the party in the shower: probably wondering what all stupid things they told a strange
n-n-never happened to me ever, don't know what you're talking about.... *sweat*
Or realizing you unintentionally lied about an aspect of your life or an opinion you have because your brain panicked and said something fully improvised. Either way it's a next day "....why did I say that?!"
It’s just that time delay between our ENFP mouth and ENFP brain doing it’s thing again!…
ENFP female here. I would leave the party worried I said something wrong. And that I talked too much. Haven't been to a party since 2020. I really look forward to the food and drink and music. Or meeting "the One". I could relate to all the ENFP things people said
😂😂😂 yesssss
As an INFJ, that was pretty accurate, but there's also the overthinking about the person I've been stalking on Instagram if they like me or no they probably think I'm a nerd but they haven't even met me but yeah she gets the vibes and...
Yeah I should shut up.
But what if I'm right?
Then there's the mood swing during the party when I don't want to be there anymore
@@sunchips18 she probably would've left the party before because as we were sitting in a corner analysing her to try and find the perfect pickup line that'd match her humour, we didn't pay attention to the time and missed our chance, now we're going home thinking about what we could've done and it would've been the perfect thing to do, and from that we imagine our life if we did actually went to talk to her, and end up falling asleep in front of Netflix
@@robinsonorsini2869 “Why am I so chronically single?” The INFJ asks themself while enabling their self-fulfilling prophecy. XD
Mood swing halfway through the party is spot on! 😂
Haha true!
I also thought INFP and INTP would have worked. x)
I agreed to go to 2 concerts in the coming weeks b/c my friend really wants to go and doesn't have anyone to go with -- so yep, it's a real INFJ thing.
If only I knew why the ISTP one was so convincing... But no, the library on the top of the spiral staircase is for me... But maybe if you added those cats...
-- INTP
And also Chess games......
A spiral staircase? Up to a mystery library? *YES*
@@arunimachakraborty4596 Yes, everything's better with chess!
-INTP
I was convinced the ISFP was gonna be me and then I was like, what? This is the polar opposite of my personality type. The INTP one didn't have the essence of party to me and I'd say who needs a library when you have the Internet.
exactly ISTP one was literally convincing!
INFP watching the INTJ one "lets hear the man out"
(Also the INFP one is much apreciated, i always leave early)
When she said, "you can leave whenever you want to." I felt so grateful/understood.
@@adipsous I think this is the one where she fails to understand the INFP. There is no way I would go in the first place and being told a friend wants "quality time" would freak me out to begin with. Our friendship would end instantly.
Conspiracy theories for the win. (Infp)
Omg right?? My reaction was "wow I want to hear this theory", not because I would agree but because it sounds so entertaining. Also the INFP one would convince me to go to a party with a friend for sure :)
INTJ here: every INFP I know, and I know quite a few including my sister, is the first to leave a gathering. Even before me. The funny part is that there is a required gathering for one of my projects every month, but this group's INFP is married to our INFJ. This means all it takes in one look, and the INFJ will rush to his wife's rescue to remove themselves from the social situation. Everyone loves this chill couple, so no one will try to stop them. It's the perfect cover for me to pull an easy Irish Exit without the ESFJ host noticing. Thank you to all the INFP's who have given the IxTx's enough cover to escape a party.
Well done with the invitation to the ENFP. It sounded absolutely terrifying to me (INTJ). The over-enthusiastic delivery, the lack of pauses in the conversation, every single activity mentioned, the last-minute invitation (yes, anything same-day is last-minute), the idea of meddling in other people's private lives... I'd genuinely rather get a root canal. At least those are usually over in an hour.
To be honest with you, that sounded like it was meant for enneagram 7. As an ENFP 9w1 I’d prefer to just either disappear in the library or people watch. I’d love for my Ne to gather ideas (I’d probably love to listen to the debate between the INTJ and the theorist), but I don’t need to socialise much. Aaand I don’t like to match make 😬
Same!!
- ENFP
As ENFPs are the introverts of the extrovert world, and love individuals but not groups…this sounded TERRIBLE to me and I would absolutely not come. Also, matchmaking sounds like the most against-type thing I could ever involve myself in.
And I know my INTJ husband would hate it for exactly the reasons you described. 😂 How about a nice quiet evening at home, discussing what the future is going to look like? (Hearkens back to Kristin’s skit where the INTJ and ENFP discuss how they are going to move to a deserted island because civilization is about to collapse).
@@miahan8988I'm not gonna bet $100 on you being an extrovert tho. Actually I've heard that INFPs can be 9w1 enneagram too
ISFP: How is it soo much more comforting to know that the host wants me to come? Party crashing makes me anxious lol
I am an ENFP and resonated here. We just had a 4th of July party where I am not really close with the hosts, but was invited through my friend. I needed a lot of reassurance the host truly wanted me there. I think the difference might be -- I would ultimately go with that assurance, but the ISFP would never be fully convinced, lol. No?
@@tnic3255 I'd probably still be a bit skeptical, but at least hearing that would probably be a major selling point in getting me to go 😂
@@tnic3255 Me as an extraverted ISFP; I wouldn't ever think that way, if I'm invited by someone, that's all I need... When I use to drink and "party," I loved being invited to everyone's house, or going to all the clubs. The ESFP comes out in me. But, I don't live that kind of lifestyle anymore. But, hey if there is a bbq on, I'm there and won't want to leave! Definitely knowing they have a pet, is also a huge plus for me.
Lol don’t forget she also made sure to mention it’ll just be “three or four other people”... that would help me for sure but I’ve fallen for that iffy “three or four people?” trick too many times by now!
yes, how did Kristin know? I've turned down invites when a person invites me to someone else party and the host didn't know I was coming. 🙃
As an INTJ, I suggest going with either the ISTP or the INTP approach. The INFP one may also work, but only if we're really good friends.
Agree. The intj one feels more like for Entp
As an INTJ, the INTJ one genuinely made me feel tempted
@@cokeaholic._.6457 as an ENTP nope, I couldn't be bothered. We like to play with people's strong opinions, we don't have an urge to correct someone it's other types thing and actually more of a J thing if you think of it.
As an ENFP I find it a little daunting to meet new people because my social chameleon side has to figure out how to be most comfortable at the party. But if I can dress up, drink, and know at least one person, that's enough for me!
as long as i know one person i’m set
At l e a s t one and I’m good!
I mean I don't mind making new friends but I need one other friend to already be there
@@lunanighter7289 ^^^ this right here
at least one person is sooo accurateee
0:55 ISFP here and this sounds like an ideal night out. No crowds, no pressure, some easygoing fun, and a couple of new furry friends.
Same as INFP. Board games with a couple of people ? And cats ? That's my kind of social fun :)
If you are up for a challenge you can call the INTP in to. But if it's ending in some boring just chill out and do nothing, with some alcohol type of night you won't ever hear of me again.
INFJ and same. This literally describes kind the parties my friends and I have.
Phew! You alnost scared me for a moment. Took me a little time (only a few seconds happily) to realise that furry friends ≠ furries
ENFP here, I don't need to meet lots of new people, but Karaoke would instantly convince me 😂
So interesting, I am an ENFP and the people would get me (or used to -- not as much anymore -- more selective now) but Karaokee wouldn't. I felt like this portrayal of ENFP was more ESFPish. Do you know your enneagram type? I feel like that can change the "flavor" of the ENFP. I'm a 6, so more cautious and not as "party type" as, say, a 7. The ENTP fit me better this time, but I don't like drinking games either. Just the low key and the talking lol.
@@tnic3255 Not sure about my enneagram type (might have been 5?), I just really like music and singing xD But I also tend to be rather cautions ;)
Sorry to butt in: I’m an ENFP 9w1 (962) and as a withdrawn type I’d prefer to be invited like the INTP or ISFP, that’s more up my alley. But yes, I wouldn’t be overwhelmed by a gathering of many people, my Ne would just happily gather data.
@@miahan8988 Don't be sorry, you're very welcome to butt in! :D It's cool to hear how different people's experiences are.
@t nic @OmoLisa Hm, I like meeting new poeple, singing, debating and crashing parties when I am in the right mood. 🤸Or I leave early and continue reading my book...😂 On the enneagramm-thing I have 4 types that manifest themselves equally (type 2,4,7 and 8), so it doesnt really count, I guess.🤔
I feel like most of these would work on me (ENTP). I thought the ENTJ was mine until they started to try and use sneaky tactics, then I was like def not going to a party if you think I’m falling for that
ENTP so accurate haha, my mental progression was like "pizza- hmm tempting, drinking games- even better, talk about whatever- so what time are we getting there?"
ENTP here, main reason to go to a party.... people get more philosophical and discuss things more deeply when they have had a few beers, lmao.
Yes! INTP perspective: I merely tolerate the early part of a party to get to the good bit at the end when all the exuberant people have burnt out their energy and people are just sitting around drunk talking about the sort of random philosophical rubbish that they look at me weirdly if I bring up at any other time. 😂
Exactly.
Also, I find it funny when people try to make me open up a little more about my feelings. LOL, amateurs.
@@zak3744 An even better way to get people to talk philosophy that I've found is to set up the party yourself and schedule time in it to talk philosophy, but do it after the food and put it in as part of a really long text containing details about the party near the end, where most people won't see it. That way, no one will know it's coming, but you'll still be able to tell them you told them this was going to happen. Also make sure to prepare a few questions ahead of time to direct people in the right direction and get them to think a bit. They might be resistant to it at first, but after a couple of minutes enough people will participate in it for it to be fun. This tactic served me well at my last birthday party.
@@thecommenter2711 Well at least they are more receptive in that state, if you bring deep topics in other circumstances they just change topic, or there is awkward silence.
@@thecommenter2711 Yes, but still keeping distance about feelings, in my case. 🤣
I try to avoid those weird things I from time to time feel
I am an ENTP and my best friend is an ENTJ and that is EXACTLY how I get him to go out . . or do anything else for that matter. You basically just reenacted my conversation to him Haha
lmaoo soo true!
So funny 🤣🤣🤣
That was actually a good deal with the ISTP 😂
*Smart ISTP*
They say there's a lock on the door... no mention on which side of the door it's on. Be careful!
You saw right through me!
I mean, I don't really mind being locked up in a room full of books
@@miglemigle9575 Until you realize that there are only romantic novels in there.
Always assume extroverts are lying anyway. They have no principles when it comes to luring people into bad places.
Request: 16 Personalities stranded on an island.
Leaders emerge, conflicts arise, alliances form, romances develop, various types finding their tribal role.
e.g. INFJ starting a cult, ISTP building a raft and sailing away alone, etc. Stereotypes are fun.
Idk if you live near a beach, though.
Yes, Kristin, please!🙏🙏🙏 Even if there is no beach nearby, you can use the green screen
Ah, the things I could do if I had the resources...
I’m an ENTP and I’m helping the ISTP with that raft and doing whatever is needed to make it worth their while.
As an INFJ who is really aware of the "INFJ uniqueness" It really bothers me how every time someone needs something from us they find a way to manipulate us by triggering our weak spot which is the 'Fe' and the desire to put everyone's needs above ours, it happens over and over again because even though we get hurt, the pleasure of others is superior then our emotions for the moment...
I've seen it in movies, series, I've experienced it in real life, it really does happen a lot...
And the fact that we are 'Ni' dom just makes it worse because while people just ask a question and think its done, we might overthink it for months!
Like, if you know there is a man in that party that I don't wanna see, and you really don't wanna go alone, if you keep the pressure I might come with you eventually because you are a close friend and I wanna make you happy but those couple of hours can make me fall into deep thinking and bring back memories I repressed and might even lead to depression...
So please be careful with your fellow INFJ's cause we are loyal friends and we just want to be loved and respected🤗
I really love your content Kristin, you are awesome❤️
and of course it's nothing personal, I just wanted people to know🙂
Sorry to hear that - hope you have friends that respect your boundaries and don’t get mad when you point out, that they are, in fact, manipulating you by triggering you (even if it’s unintentional- a good friend will listen to you and see that they overstepped). Anyways, I also hope you find an ENFP someday, they can help you with the “setting boundaries” part and help you stop feeling guilty about putting yourself first when necessary. Ultimately Fe won’t let you get rid of your desire to help others or make them feel good (something I love about you guys) but a strong, mature Fi user (that appreciates you and wants the best for you) can help you step up for you in situations that would be damaging or they can act as some kind of bodyguard in the beginning, while you are still experimenting with setting boundaries.
I love that you guys are so caring, but just as you said, it hurts me when I see people trying to manipulate you. Hope you, and every INFJ out there, will one day be surrounded by amazing, mature people who will respect a simple “No” and drop the topic just like that!!
@@nataliepeter7738 thank you so much!
I really appreciate your comment :)
All good points and a valuable insight. Thank you for your comments ❤
Agree with you, fellow INFJ. I’m new to this CZcamsr and checked out about a half dozen of her videos. Well acted and amusing, but the emotional manipulation makes me cringe.
I saw another one about how to get a personality type to open up and “being vulnerable to an INFJ” so they will reciprocate will probably work. But keep in mind that a lot of us are intuitively aware of what you’re doing when you manipulate us. Make sure that the payoff is worth how we see you. ie. The ends justifying the means.
(Me, an INTJ, in how I'd respond in each scenario)
ISFJ: Dear God, how do you even know my whole family?!?
ESTP: Yeah, no. Also, even I know that not charging for pizza and beer past the door is the bare minimum for a decent party.
ENFJ: Darn it. Fine! That's what I get for caring and having nothing scheduled. But let me first program a fake call to come in every 20-40 minutes as an "emergency" out to leave.
ISTP: Deal!
ESFJ: Either that's a victory dance and you've come to gloat, or you're about to ask me something I'm likely to say "no" to and so now you're just having fun with it. Either way, I'm scared.
ISFP: Who'll be there, what do they already know about me, and will this be an intervention of some sort?
INTP: Why is this party not in the classy library? As tempted as I am to go there and spend most the time there looking contemplatively out the window, I'll have to say "no". But can you take pictures of the library? I could use some design ideas.
INFJ: (See ENFJ)
INFJ 2: It was light reconnaissance! Also, how do you know about it?
ENTJ: I know what you're doing and I hate that it's working. Still I need some time to think about it. And if that's really what they think, tell them I... send my regards.
ENTP: No thanks.
INFP: Interesting; let me think about it.
INTJ: One, does he not know about satellites? Two, point him to the r/BirdsArentReal subreddit if he doesn't already know about it. And three, give me his details so I can think of ways to use him as a patsy for my own ends. Actually, don't - that sounds wrong and seems like too much work for too little personal gain to change the world. Wait. Do it anyway. It'll be nice to have that option.
ENFP: No.
ISTJ: How did you gain access to my schedule? I'm both disturbed and impressed.
ESTJ: You do know that if she gets electrocuted and they come after you, I'd have no choice but to testify, right?
ESFP: K. Have fun.
Love your responses! However, as an ENFP, I have to remind you that sometimes our mouths are incapable of forming the word “no”. If we don’t want to go, we’ll probably say yes, and then just not show up. Of course, then we’ll also feel guilty. So, after debating for awhile, we’ll show up late (later than usual), and wonder why everyone is leaving so early and convince them to stay longer. That’s when the party really begins!
@@nickpickle1079 Actually, these are just how I(NTJ) would respond in each situation - not how each type would respond.
@@migsmethinks5801 👍
The intj one might convince me but man the istp is like a gold mine, i should raise my bar for going to parties it seems. -Istp
Hahaha 🤣🤣
I find your MBTI videos so accurate and hilarious! Thank you so much for making these lovely videos for us to enjoy
-A dreamy INFP
Thank you for this lovely comment, Olivia! It's my pleasure 😁
@@dearkristin 💖💖💖
I feel like ISTP and ESTJ could be switched and still be effective.
I had the same thought!
As an ESFP, I can confirm that this is accurate asf. Like, all you have to do is say “party” and i’ll be there 😂
I've been searching for ESFPs on this channel for an eternity! You're pretty rare, I have to say
Not in general, just on this channel
Kristin: "there's a library at her place, where you can read books while we party downstairs"
Me (INTP): BOOKS!...I mean party yayyy! obviously, I'm in, it'll be an experience reading I mean drinking and talking, oh and no noise reaching the library, that's amazing, I mean... A little noise is fine as long as the books are something different (authors I've never read) and amazing stuff to read.
*A few hours later*
Kristin: Time for party!
Me: *speaking to myself* Ok, so the objectives are clear, I have to cross the minefield of eyes, disappear publicly, climb the stairway to heaven, and enjoy the blissful moments thereafter.
It is nice to have a place to get some air, porch, balcony, little side room nobody goes into. I can also be bribed with food, though.
@@lynnes1864 Food, books, Internet connection (rare but still may work on obscure cases)
Please if you find that library, call me - infj
As an INTP I love parties when I'm with my group of friends/people I feel comfortable with
Am an INTP and I love going to party's... provided that there are not many people there (ideally just close friends). And I'd love to play chess drunk, that sounds fun as hell.
Same
Also INTP - I once went to a NYE party and actually DID spend most of the night playing chess drunk. I'd never played before and a guy there I knew offered to teach me. I lost the first game, second was stalemate, third and fourth I won. Never played again since though.
Drunk sudoku is also fun.
As an INTJ this made me want to connect more with ESTPs.
Aww hi! estp here and my closest friend back in highschool was an intj. We complement each other so well, let me tell ya
The INFP one is extremely accurate. This is the solely reason I go to parties (spend time with friends I haven’t seen in forever) lol and even if I don’t leave early, I like to know I have the freedom to do that if I want to 😄
Exactly 😄
Same. Wait, why do us INFPs have the freedom when it comes to these things though? 😳🤯
I was waiting the whole video for the ESFP to only need “I’m going to a party tonight” 😂 you never disappoint
If I heard that, I would NEVER assume I was invited. Not an ESFP, as if you couldn't tell.
You had me at spiral staircase. The rest was just more icing. - an INTP
I literally laughed out loud at the INTP and ESFP. ESFP, made me laugh again!
While I found the ENFP one kind of compelling, I felt much more spoken to by the ENTJ one. I am now questioning my existence.
I was mostly listening to find mine, and yes, I'd 100% go to that party with either invitation. [INFJ]
Same
Hahaha. This is brilliant 😂😂 Also, I just love sitting down with a tea and reading the comments on these videos. There are so many people with funny and interesting things to say. Thanks for my morning's entertainment!
Absolutely!
I really thought the ISTP one was going to be the INTP. Then I heard a spiral staircase to a Library and a door with a lock on it..... :)
The party you pitched to ENTP sounds like heaven. And yeah I'm entp btw
Just tell the extroverts that this is an open house party slated to have a record number of attendees and tell the introverts that it's just a handful of people they know, probably just going to watch a movie and comment on it.
I liked the INTJ one! "Change the batteries in all of the birds." LOL I hope the INTJ can change his mind. Haha
Ugh, does he seriously think that any robotic bird system would not have each bird automatically return to a central charging station? That would be so inefficient. That's why certain birds migrate at different seasons so that they can get large scale maintenance and upgrades without looking suspicious.
@@maxmogavero952 😂👍
Hmm. This is all very interesting !!!
INTJ here. If I can fight a conspiracy theorist, I will be there and I will bring a collection of links to articles saying why his theory is impossible.
Hahahaha!!
As an INFP it depends on how I’m feeling if I’m in the mood for a party
As an infp, it all depends on my mood
True!
As someone who thought they were ISTJ but is actually an ESTJ: Stop trying to electrocute your friend and just give me the phone. And give me my schedule back please
I used to have this close ESTJ friend back in high school that would bolt her way to you if you mentioned any "wrong" way of doing something so she can not only correct you, but also help, but in an intimidating way. Loved seeing the other kids get terrified.
waaah hello, may i know how did you come up with the realization that you are estj and not istj? cuz i have the same problem hahah. thank you in advance.
@@seren5335 oh absolutely! :D I was typed by a friend who is taking a course on MBTI and typing so we talk a lot of MBTI and she knows what questions to ask and what to look out for. She typed me ISTJ at first because she was in the beginning of her learning and we both agreed I'm not a traditional extrovert (my batteries are drained by socializing). However MBTI extraversion is not the exact same thing as "traditional" extraversion which is often confusing and I was talking in a very Te way the entire time so she was a bit confused how I could be an ISTJ but also a Te dom at the same time lol (I talk and think a lot about task and resource managing for example)
I keep getting ISFJ on a lot of MBTI tests online but they seem very feeler biased so I take them all with a big pinch of salt haha
One traditional typing question to help figure out your dominant function is "What can you do for hours and hours until basically your body forces you to stop because you need to sleep or eat etc?" since engaging your dominant function will usually be very, well, engaging and energizing :D For me that is video games which doesn't say much, but what I mainly look for in video games is an opportunity to resource manage and complete tasks essentially which is very Te. I like managing money, items, experience points as well as organizing side quests so I can clear as many as possible at the same time etc. JRPGs are usually great for doing this :D I play other games too, but this is the main part I can get lost in for hours
@@Wardfire wow thank you so much for your answer! i got new perspective! i also confused at how the intro and extro in mbti work lmao but yes the traditional intro & extro are way different from mbti. again thank you for your answer 😊
@@seren5335 No problem, I love talking about MBTI! :D Feel free to ask more lol. One of the shortest explanations of MBTI extraversion and introversion I've seen is that for E the outside world is the real or primary world, but for I the inside world is the real or primary world. E-people might for example find it easier to organize their thoughts by speaking them out loud or in some other way putting them out into the outside world (I certainly do, I talk to myself a lot and it's great :D) whereas I-people prefer to organize their thoughts in the inside world.
But also an important thing to note is that functions such as Te, Se and Ne do not intrinsically need or rely on other people to "do their thing". Fe might be a bit more reliant on other people, I'm not sure, but I don't think an Fe dom always needs other people to engage their Fe either (you can probably engage Fe through e.g. a video game). Introverted functions can also be engaged by interacting with other people, such as Ti for example discussing logical systems or Si participating in a group tradition etc. :) None of the functions exclusively deal with human interaction so yeah, completely different from "traditional" extraversion and introversion :D
As an INTP, having my friends at a party always helps to open new doors with other people. Out of everything in this video, I would go to a party just to see the cats as long as I'm not a total stranger at the party.
The first INFJ one is EXACTLY equal to my boyfriend. He is sooooo 100% like that, it's really cute :3
OMG .. what you did to the ENTJ was wicked XD. 🙃
INFP, but hearing you trying to convince INTP with the library Puh a wide grin in my face
Actually, if I really thought someone might start mucking about with 220V using household hand tools (the ESTJ bait), I might go just to see that nobody gets dead.
If you’re certified and know people there,maybe offer a discount to do it right?
@@jameswilkerson4412 Well, some folks say I'm certifiable...
Why....why do I envy ISTP so much here??!!!
- INTP
Edit: nevermind, I like the offer for INTP
You had me at "you can leave whenever you want" - INFP 😅
As long as there's wifi in the library, I'll go 😌
a party without wifi is not a party
Hell yes from the ENTJs once again! That is spot on!
I seriously need Kristin to make a video differentiating ISTJ and ESTJ because I'm a baffled STJ.
How to convince an introvert to a party: Make sure you always add "There will be food and you can leave whenever you want."
and ENTP either, but we are ambiverts anyway
As an ISTJ:
First i really appreciate when someone respects my schedule and values my time, so that's enough to convince me!
And i don't need an special request for coming to a party, just tell me earlier so i can be sure that I can or cannot come,
easy and simple!
P.S: Great video♥️
I don't go to parties where music is louder than people's voices. Communication is the highest priority. ENFP
I get u completely. My best friend's an Enfp too and her need for communication is more than anyone else's.
I am ENFP and just now I realised that how I usually go to parties with my friends... Usually they come to my house hour earlier and make me ready (like put on make up and stuff on me cause I have cool make up products but I don't know how to apply makeup like not even lipstick) anyways so we get ready and VOLIA we just go to the party... Now I think about it I wonder whether was I even invited to any of those parties or I just crashed it...
So yeah you just have to dress me and I am ready to go... My friends are ESTJ (her style is more of a dark and bold) INTP/J (her style is also dark but not bold,, it's more kinda casual)and ISFJ (her style is normal casual with little floral)...my closet has everything so I think it depends on my mood.. ESTJ is the one who usually dresses me but the other two always tell her to tone it down.. And now I have no idea why am I even telling you this
... For fun 😂
Since when do ENFP’s need a reason? You do you !! :•)
@@nickpickle1079 😁😁 they definitely don't
I genuinely cannot think of a better one for INFP than this. You got me. You win.
Okay, I think that just by telling me there would be dancing, karaoke and people I know, you would have already convinced me 👌🏼
The INTP one sounds more convincing for me... But can I add being able to leave anytime to that? XD *-An INFP*
Local INFJ here has to say this: YOU MONSTER! TWICE OVER! Two traps of either friendship and/or romance! How dare you be so accurate! How. Dare. You!
Loved the video. Keep it up!
Thanks! 😁😁
BRAD AND SOPHIA OH COME ON THEYRE LIKE A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN I HAVE TO GO.
-ENFP
*Me an ISTP* : she better have a really good offer to convince an istp to go to a party
-"OKAY... 2 months, Uber eats delivered to your door two nights a week, access to all of my movie streaming services, and i'll never ask about your feeling again"
*Me* : Fair enough
her: kind, "we can leave anytime you want"
me, an INFP who got constantly guilt-tripped to do something for people: WHAT
Aw 😔
I’m a rare INFJ😉and I find your descriptions of my type hilarious as well as accurate. Thank you so much for the laughs👏👏👏
Rare! RARE! HAVE YOU SEEN THIS COMMENT SECTION!?
-INFJ
@@prof.reuniclus21I guess MBTI is interesting for many INFJs.
- INFJ
Ya I pretty much just go to parties for the people I know only lol - INFP
Absolutely true for me too!
-isfp
So I'm an INTJ that does actually goes to parties just under some very specific circumstances.
-ESTP and ENFP friend are coming (I can be socially dependent on them for a period of time)
- I have mask of some kind on (so that both covid and people being unsettled by my facial expressions are largely solved) Could be a normal face mask, or something more costumey.
- I have my messenger bag full of coping mechanisms, things I need to work, and likely a knife
- I have a reason for being there. (Because of social experiments, getting people to play a video game I made (cheap play testing), showing off music, friend of mine is showing off music)
- I am my own ride home
I wanna have an enfp only part to see how fun it would really be to have a party with a whole bunch quirky people like myself who also love karaoke , and daydreaming about stuff they'd like to do in the future but not actually doing that . Imagine being surrounded by people who also wanna talk about ideas , thought and dreams and we can all explain and explore other ENFPs imaginations that'd be so cool ; even cool every brings thier journals or whatever they use to write about random stuff THEN WE ALL DISCUSS THAT STUFF AND INSPIRE EACH OTHER 🥺✨✨✨ who's up for this
maybe? Maybe not if theres gonna be like 10 more people and they're all extroverted and extremely girly
As an INTP, the only words you have to say are "board games".
Although the ISTP part was quite on point, If I was over hearing the conversation ESTJ is listening to, I would die of internal screaming on my way to that party.
-ISTP
As an INFP I would go just for how comprehensive is that friend, ... but only 30 minutes, no more. You nailed it Kristin.
This is actually a really good way of figuring out your personality type 😂 the only one that convinced me to go corresponded to my type lol
Love the total opposite approach to getting INFJs to join!
ngl The ENTP approach would totally work on me, but I'd also be bugging the INTP because I have a huge crush on the concept of Belle and books and spiral staircases.
Even though I'm an INTP, I don't actually read books. If there is a Wii console there with tons of games, I'll come. The only problem is that when I want to live, I can't because I'll be trapped in this room. Mabye I'll bring a parachute and jump out of the window
As an ENFP 9w1 I’d love to disappear in a library or listen to the conversation between the INTJ and the theorist. I’d love to gather data but I wouldn’t feel the need to actively socialise, just to observe. It’s fun :) I’d also go cuddle the cats
INTP: Library good call
Other acceptable options include empty gaming room or a secluded closet or bedroom, with a phone some headphones and wifi password
As an Intj, I wind up going to and attending more parties than what I would like.
THIS IS THE PERFECT OPPORTUNITY!
I’m INFP but I was really only swayed by the INTP one 😂😂 and ISFP. You can’t go wrong with cats
Lol 😂 same!!
Same. Any animal really. Even a fish tank to stare at!
I'm INTJ, but I found the convincing of INTP most accurate for me this time. Also ISFP was pretty good (cats guaranteed!), ENTJ (they wanna ask me for advice - I rather give advice when asked than than go and argue unasked), a bit INFP (the part about leaving when you have enough).
INTJ portrayal wasn't convincing this time. Just going somewhere to argue about something - no, not really, I personally probably would keep my mouth shut even being already there, ENTPs enjoy pointless discussing way more, especially if they have opportunity to troll others a bit and enjoy the show.
I don't care about opinions / beliefs of strangers. Going somewhere where I know my knowledge would be welcome / needed is whole another level, also possibility to hide and enjoy books or opportunity to meet cats sound reasonable. But convincing strangers? Nah, I'll pass on that. They can think the gov needs to change batteries in birds. 😂
@@loisrabies8713 except dogs, they wanna too much attention and have no self-respect. All dogs I met were too servant-like and it was SO annoying. 😑
If someone cared about my schedule maybe I'd come to a party for the first time, but for now I'd better stay at home and work - istj (who loves being with people but only when planned it beforehand)
Omg the INFJ was so accurate! I hate parties in general but especially if it’s on for a long time. Yes, I do think the only incentive to drag me to a party is if there’s gonna be somebody that I’m interested in or yeah, I feel sorry for my friend who would be all alone. This is such a great video! Loved it.
The INFP one was so heartwarming. You got me I'm coming along 🙂
All 16 personalities? Whew, that's exhausting. I"d rather learn how to invite Dear Kristin to a party!
I have a feeling you'd just ask. Not putting words in her mouth, but (lockdowns aside), I get the feeling she's a people person :)
Hopefully every INTP knows where that background music is from…
Kerbal Space Typology
What is it from?
I love the girl who came up with the ESTJ plan.
Just found your channel, your acting,writing is very good i subscribed..
ESTJ one is brilliant. I read your description, so I will definitely not be taking notes for when I need help with fixing my sickly friend's oven that happens to look eeriely similarly to my own with a few electric saw thingies.
As an INFJ, they both are VERY accurate!
me, an infj wants:
- 🍻🥂🍷
- close friends (or i ain't coming)
- nice & exclusive place
- sad & depressed rants
- music
ISTP here. The pizza and beer would have done it. But I would have held out for more.
I'm an INFJ and ISFP totally convinced me ngl (especially the part with two cats)