RELATIONSHIP SKILLS For The Modern World (CONTROVERSIAL! )| John Gray | To Be Human Podcast
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CONVERSATION WITH JENNAH-LOUISE & JOHN
00:00 Quote
00:59 Introduction
02:58 How to experience a higher love in your relationship
10:09 How to have a Soul Mate Relationship
16:08 Mars & Venus in the bedroom
17:59 You just need to understand each other & communicate
18:03 Beyond Mars & Venus; how our hormones affect everything
24:42 What does it mean To Be Human?
26:07 John’s thoughts on being gay & bisexual; the indoctrination of a confused world
28:52 Levels of a relationship
33:32 The woke society
35:51 John Gray cancelled for being sexist
38:41 Making love twice a day at 70
40:05 ‘There is no such thing as a they or a trans’
41:29 How to decrease stress
47:38 Addiction to masturbation is soul killing
48:08 ‘Corrupt forces running the world’; Bill Gates, Bill Clinton
53:51 ‘People that hate me are into diversity’
54:53 Our job is to make mistakes and learn from those mistakes
55:24 Practical steps; decrease stress
01:02:21 ‘You can’t grow as a spirit not in a heterosexual relationship’
01:04:53 We are too decadent
01:07:27 Lasting passion in a relationship
1:14:31 What does it mean to you To Be Human?
SUMMARY
On today’s podcast we have the passionate John Gray. John is a speaker, teacher and coach on love and relationships for the last 40 years, and is the author of the famous book Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus and his new book Beyond Mars & Venus: Relationship Skills For Our Complex Modern World.
What I personally love about this conversation is being able to connect with John and get to know him and his opinions on a deeper level. I remember when I was very young I came across the book ‘Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus’ and always thought it was such a fascinating book. Everyone seemed to know about it and have something to say about it. What I didn’t know about John, that he shares in this podcast, is that he was ‘cancelled’ in the early 2000s for being what he notes as ‘sexist’. This is about half way into the episode and certainly when the conversation begins to turn from what I would say would be the teachings I am familiar with in John’s work to those that were now new for me. John shares some controversial opinions in relation to people who identify as transgender, bisexual and gay; some of which I will note here I do not agree with. One of the fundamental values of the To Be Human podcast is the freedom of self-expression, so I want to note, though this conversation is controversial, it does not mean it should be silenced. I’m on a journey of self-exploration, and I find some of the more polarising conversations of my life have provided the most clarity; so I request, even encourage, that you lean into this and be mindful of your judgments no matter what way they may fall.
I will preface this; I was indeed more of a listener in this podcast, than a conversationalist. Enjoy this passion fuelled episode with John Gray.
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I really love John's advice for heterosexual relationships. A lot of what he says makes sense and some find it hard to accept but our biological sides are active participants in our human experience so ignoring that is bound to cause confusion and problems. I was a little surprised by some of his opinions on homosexuality, but I really can't speak to that as a hetero woman. I totally support the LGBTQ community. But I believe one should never throw the baby out with the bathwater and John has a lot of very valuable wisdom and insights here. That being said, this was not the best interview I have seen with John. It went off the rails because the interviewer was not guiding the talk. She seems sweet, and likely has given some great interviews, but based on the disclaimer, she stopped participating in the interview because she was not in agreement with what John was saying. I feel a strong interviewer could have found a way to participate and guide things even with such polarizing opinions. However, I do feel the same as the interviewer though in that I am not in agreement with everything John thinks.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment Jane! It was certainly a conversation I did lose my way on, not just out of partial disagreement but I am indeed better developing the skill of assertiveness. This was a main factor in starting a podcast and I am grateful that this conversation revealed where there is work still to be done. I have grown and become more confident because of this. Thank you for being here and being part of my own personal To Be Human journey 🤍
how does one and how do you support the bi, trans and homosexual community?
@@vashposh He doesn't. He says they are "confused." I now think he is overly religious and republican.
I don't think they were opinions. He stated they were from research, didn't he?
@@jennah_louiseI’m subscribing just on the graceful way you replied to this
“In a time of deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.”
So resfreshing to see someone be HONEST about the state of our society
I'm 100% on board with this man. I want a man like John. This world, America, needs men like him. We've lost the balance between the sexes.
Thank you for sharing beautiful 🤍
Yeah, mainly because the female privilege and male-bashing you've run off all the good guys
Could listen to John all day! He’s absolutely spot on about the state of society today; the porn, perversion, depravity, immorality, irreligiosity, wokeness. Everything is inverted & upside down, it’s awful. John is a breath of honest fresh air!👏👏👏
Yes u are right on !!!
Every generation has challenged the generation before and if we did not we would not have changed. For instant LGBTQ community is now not illegal to be in a relationship. Black/brown are allowed to vote..........women are encouraged to have careers.
I love him!!
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Thank you for hosting him ! We need to hear him while mainstream media tries to cancel him . He says it as it is without fear .
# TRUTH SPOKEN. "You cannot CHOOSE Your Gender". Sexual IDENTITY is GOD-GIVEN at Conception/Birth.
I see your point but what about people who are born with both sexual organs?
This was just phenomenal! This entire podcast should be aired on national TV!
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Yesssss!!!! Amen!!!!!
Make men like John again. Make women more feminine again.
So wish all our young people could be taught all this. Just imagine a lifetime living in bliss. Together forever. This is what our world needs. True Love ❤️ 😍
It’s sad that there was a “need” for a disclaimer before the video. His statements that are unfavorable in modern culture are still facts and facts should trump feelings. He never said to treat a transgender or gay person with disrespect.
Very well said!
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I’m 27 and grateful for this man. He has so much knowledge. Thank you. ☺️
Really appreciate not cutting out the taboo opinions that are different from our current society! Don’t be afraid to be canceled by different opinions. We need them!
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I know John; he and I have worked together several times; I have worked with ALL of the most famous human potential leaders in the world including Marianne Williamson and Wayne Dyer. And John is the most sincere, real, kind, and truthful of them all. I so love and respect this man.
Such kind words! 🖤
In my world, I really like to yell from the mountain tops for those I know personally who are the real deal! Since I left that comment, I have nearly finished my new book Marriage Magic. John has requested a copy of the pdf so he can endorse it. He’s a very busy guy but makes time for others!
I see why he is "cancelled" you CAN'T say true thing these days and he is spitting out straight facts! Love the interview!
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By far your best interview john! You are a blessing for today's crazy world. We are happy to have you here. 😘
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John tell it brother!! The silent majority is real! 💜
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John Gray.. honest and uncensored.. love it!!
Very courageous in his honesty 🤍
The disclaimer was not necessary. Dr John Gray is speaking the truth, may God bless him greatly! His work is desperately needed.
It's refreshing to hear that John Gray is red-pilled about the Agenda and how the world works, at the moment! His wisdom seems to know no bounds, as he is so well-informed on so many areas of life.
John Grey has always made sense. Always loved his genuine practical advice.
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John has such a way of explaining the checks and balances of men and women like nobody else ❤️
Thank you for sharing lovely 🤍
John crushed this! Miss his talks so much ❤️
I feel lucky or privileged to listen to his talk.
I love that the interview is uncensored 💕
The disclaimer seems intense, however I think it’s to protect yourself from those who disagree with John’s view.
I actually love that you let John talk it was great listening to what he had to say and hus honesty.
Thank you for sharing the interview! 😇
Thank you for your kind and thoughtful words. I appreciate them 🤍
The disclaimer was a bit much. Not necessary. Makes it sound like what he’s saying is wrong. We’re grown up enough to make up our own minds based on what he is saying.
Yeah, really immature 🙄 these people just can't help virtue signaling at any opportunity.
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That's not how I took the disclaimer, I took it as she doesn't agree with his opinions on it. Your reading of it is off. You're projecting
Great talk as always from John! But the disclaimer is ridiculous 🤦🏼♀️
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I have listened to many relationship experts but I think Dr John Gray is the most accurate and the best! 👍🏻
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This one of the best talks i have heard from john
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Thank you John Gray. Thank you, host, for facilitating the conversation. I hid my face in my hands when he said, “when a woman pushes her feminine side away and enters her masculine side, she becomes HEARTLESS.” My husband has expressed that he’s seen woman soccer players be absolutely ruthless on the field. He made comparisons and showed me videos. A woman soccer player would knock down another player purposefully and violently and he’d say, if those were two men playing they’d stop the game and give a hand to the other one to get up. When John said that women make the best fighter pilots I felt so embarrassed. I felt embarrassed because I could feel the truth of it within myself. It’s almost my own female interpretation of a man’s experience. Because I believe men are ruthless, because men can idealize ruthlessness, it’s as if I am proving to the rest of the world that I am most ruthless, without exception. That’s the feeling I have, that’s what went through my head when he said that about women fighter pilots.
Then when he went on to say about the world’s pedophiles and women and men who don’t love each other, and how that’s the root cause of the world falling apart..yes, I hid my face, as I sat alone listening to this, because I know how true it is. I have erred from the proper path. I am flawed.
Every time I listen to an interview with John gray I want to just jump my husband and give him so much love.
I am currently working on men are from mars and look forward to investing in his other books to attain an abundance of peace in my marriage, deeper love in my heart and to illuminate and expand upon the truth that this man continues to share.
God bless, and to everyone reading this comment, I love you! You’re so brave and you’re so wonderful for wanting to bring deeper peace into your relationships. If you’re married like me, I wish you great sex, deeper levels of connection and many, many happy and healthy years to come with your spouse.
Cheers! Great talk.
When John said women can be cold or they make the best pilots. That shook me to the core because women are known for caring more then men but I believe women can be cold as John said
@veberation I was shocked by that but it probably explains how females callously pursue abortion. However, it could also be trauma-response related.
@@ExploreXplore394They sure can be. I’ve known cold heartless women.
Thank you for sharing beautiful 🖤
I talk to many women as a stylist. Same thing over and over. Women are doing everything in the relationship...we are jaded and tired.
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Everything John Gray said is 100% true. Love him. 💗
I love that book, I read it when I was very young and never forget how beautifully explains the feminine and masculine thought process
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John Gray has helped me understand my self and understand how I can have a good relationship with my husband. His knowledge is gold. Thank you!
So lovely to read beautiful 🤍
This is so incredibly wise and spot on. Thank you so much for having him on your show. And thank you so much for still letting the episode air even if you didn’t agree with everything that was said. It takes a big person to do that. I personally love this man so much, he has helped me beyond words.
Thank you for your insightful words! 🖤
Thank you for your honesty! We need more influencers like you john!
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I LOVE IT that John is a 'Conspiracy Theorist ' just like me ❤
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I fully agree with Mr Gray ❤️
Thank you for sharing lovely 🤍
John is 100% right on! Truth! How refreshing! ❤
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John Gray, just love him.
Lovely to hear beautiful 🤍
I love him too
I was being really harsh to a man I’ve been seeing. He said, “please try and refrain from going off on me.” It was a sudden shift within me and I’ve been 100% pleasant since then
loved this! i am a recovering a femi-nazi. i was so far removed from my femininity for so long, and the womens movement suited me just fine while i was so far out of touch. i wished i had gotten to know myself much sooner in life. i wish i had been open to learning from my experiences earlier on. but it took me a long time to evaluate myself and get the tools to heal my childhood issues. for most of my life i was super independent and saw that as a mega strength. being avoidant and in my masculine energy debilitated me in relationships and in finding the masculine partners i truly desired. i am super grateful for john, his wisdom, and his ability to bring in science and literature as well as his experience as a therapist to this topic.
I'm curious, now that you have given into the patriarchy did you find a husband to be subservient to?
This the most animated and real I have seen Dr John be in these relationship discussions. I am beyond myself to hear all the truth b*mbs he has dropped. It’s happening now. The Great Awakening. Keep your hearts open in your male and female sides. Bravo. We need more of this honest talk.
What a wonderful talk!
John is so real, and to the point.
I wish for the world to get back to a balance soon.
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He nailed it 100%. Superb discussion.
Well john
It all make sense
But let me I was married for 24 years.
Unfortunately hi pass away 33 years ago in a car accident..I raised 2 boys on my on
& I've done very well..let me tell you my true story
I never seen my late husband
Going into the cave..& when we made love hi never pull away from me ..but closer to me after making love & do it again,, & still holding me until we fall asleep..
This is unique
Soul Mates
My true
Experience. That i miss so much..
I'm enjoying this video. It's great in this confused, chaotic place..I do not want to be this independent! I had to start making sure I was ok at a very young age. Ended up w custody of my youngest brother. Chose a bad partner and had kids. Now it's me n the babies. No childcare, not receiving help and it can be stressful. I garden, make soap, work (during school hours) care for my children.. I trust and lean on God. I have been working on not being so rigid, realizing that if I let up a bit the world won't end. God has shown me so much about submission, and the trust I would have to place in a man to submit to him. Learning that letting a man know he's helpful, wanted, and appreciated when he does small and big things is not scary ( I love doing this, but it's been exploited) I've been learning more about femininity..awesome timing.
Thank you for sharing lovely 🤍
@@jennah_louise definitely. Our testimony may unlock hope on someone else
Thank you for sharing your vulnerable thoughts. It is nice when a man knows he is appreciated, hopefully he will want to continue to do more for you because it sounds like you deserve it.
SAY IT JOHN SAY IT. I WISH PEOPLE HEARD HIM THROUGH. WE NEED MORE INFO LIKE THIS SPOKEN OUT LOUD FOR BALANCE TO OCCUR IN OUR GLOBAL SOCIETY
With healthy polarity, pours clarity. He keeps things simple and light! I am so grateful for his perspectives. Its humane and invaluable
I think John was up front and real. His books and message resonate with me.
Thank you for letting him speak. 🙏🏽
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Amazing! I can't believe all the things I just learned today! Things that I was so confused about before!
Is there a John Gray support group on CZcams or Facebook where we can converse about various issues that John Gray talks about?
Michelle Marchant Johnson website might have a Facebook group or women's support group
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This is EVERYTHING!!! Thank you, John
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truth is being craved by the majority, keep God as the centre and Jesus as the way and we will be fine. because John is right Love will win!
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One of my favorite videos. He touched on a lot of important topics. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for your kind words 🖤
I didn't watch all of it yet, but I don't see anything controversial here so far 🤷🏻♀️
Jennah-Louise,
first of all, thumbs up to you!
Thank you for short simple introduction and rock and roll!
I know other videos when interviewers go on and on and on and on for four-six minutes until they finally allow the person to speak. And regarding John Gray .............there is no more to say 👍
Thank you for your kind words! They mean a lot 🤍
I love John!!!!! Amazing person! He gives the best relationship advice
There are certainly some gems in there! 🤍
John Gray you are wonderful and an inspiration. I’m so lucky to know about you in my 20’s 🙏💞
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I think you are great John especially about the hormones different between man and women 😊
What a wonderful talk!
Thank you!
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Fabulous video Thanks so much for putting it out there ❤❤
Thank you beautiful ❤️
U are the holy grail of relationships.. right on the money about it all ! I’ve been following u since your first book ! ❤
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Thank you for sharing the brilliant experience and teaching of John Grey. A light in the dark for the west. 👍
He is 100% right! Nothing against bisexuality or gay people. Really, everybody should be happy and live the life they want. But these things are really endokrinated by media too much. Everybody wants to be special with their sexuality. Shows it everywhere and feels cool without realizing it's nothing special. I think what he says is really helpful!
John Gray! Thank you so much for clarity, knowledge and wisdom. You're such a positive influence in moderns times. We need more people like you!
Thank you for your kind comment 🖤
Thank you John for your honesty.
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He is awesome 👏🏽
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This is hands down the BEST insights I have ever heard regarding relationships and men and women and love and life…..how to be a healthy human being. It’s about life. Bcz life IS all about relationship and LOVE 💗 Wow❤❤❤ wow wow wow. God bless this man ❤❤❤❤😮❤❤🎉 I will be watching this multiple times. soooooooooo good. Thank you, John and thank you for posting this interview ❤❤❤
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Men and women are different !!!
So TRUE!!!
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Amazing!!!!
Thanks so much for speaking out!! We need it!!!
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Fascinating. Thank you so much John Gray for restoring some wisdom in the planet.
EPIC TRUTH! Thank you!
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As my understanding, we must avoid to depend ourselves into someone else. We must able to build the Interdependence with ourselves. We will more healthy and more have Me-Time, have great self-esteem and more happy.
Refreshingly classic advice...
# John Gray SPEAKS TRUTH. People in Denial of TRUTH are TRIGGERED!! CHRIST JESUS IS RETURNING IN POWER, GREAT GLORY, & JUDGEMENT. HE is Coming to Receive BELIEVERS Who are Sinners SAVED BY GOD'S GRACE & HE Will Welcome them INTO HIS Eternal Kingdom. Those Who are GOD-HATERS; UNBELIEVERS, DEFIANT, UNREPENTANT , & Loving their SINS Will Receive their REWARD/ Hell Fire Eternal Separation From their CREATOR GOD. # Time to REPENT & LOVE The LORD & Read HIS Holy & Preserved Scriptures/ The Holy BIBLE. John 3:16 Says " For God so Loved the World that HE gave HIS Only begotten SON, that whosoever Believes in HIM will not perish but have Everlasting Life". Praise The LORD !!!
Thank you, John - great explanation 😊
He is totally spot on in his assessments of the world. Great conversation.
Really good information. Thank you John. So interesting
This guy is great
I love ❤️ this show. Great information 😊❤👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Great video! John has so many valuable things to say and for us to learn from. Being conscious to how we’re living subconsciously brings about so much healing and joy.
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Thank you John Gray so refreshing that you are on the right page on so many things! And you know and are addressing so much that we are not hearing in the main stream media! ha Covid, the Vaccine, which is really not a vaccine at all! Lol So interesting listening to you! Health advise and more!
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Phenomenal interview!
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Everything he’s saying is fact! Listen and heed all of it!!
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Wow! So much information from Mr. John Gray. That was like getting a doctorate in male-female relationships and all manner of sexual issues! So much new and unique information and research in such a short segment! 💝💖
Divine Feminine is rising.❤
I agree with most of Johns views Very helpful in our crazy world 😃✨🙏
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Oh man I love this guy ❤
trying to focus on the video
and it's so hard.
I just can't. too many thoughts
and feelings in me.
I've fallen in a trap again. a terrible horrible painful awful trap.
falling for yet again: another
unavailable person.
dear God, why do I do this to myself?
I'm old now and I've never ever had love.
never ever have I been in a real romantic relationship...
the pain of this is so horrific:
it truly rapes my soul.
I think this is what Jonathon Aslay calls a trauma loop. He has a great channel. I am sorry you are going through a tough time. Sounds like self love is more what you need to find. I believe if one can achieve true self love, acceptance and self forgiveness, most other things fall in place. Sending you much love.
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To be human is to learn to love unconditionally
So beautiful 🤍
# NO, You have that wrong. To KNOW & LOVE GOD & HIS LOVE for HIS CREATION (CREATED Human Beings) Will Teach us how to Love Others as we should. Human Beings are born into a Fallen World/sin-filled; so we have a Fallen Nature. would say that most MOTHERS Love their children "unconditionally".
I’m glad you speak the truth!!
Wonderful Wonderful video ,thanku :)
You're right! You're right, John!! Amen!! ❤
Dear Dr John Gray you are so funny. I love your sense of humor. Genuineness. You're authenticity. I am finding femininity I really like it
Wow!!!! I didn't know John Gray to be such a no bullshit, tell it like it is, truth warrior....well, sir your common sense have made me a new fan...Amen and thank you!
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The two John Grays.
The first *John Gray* - an insightful and I would argue _'genuius'_ relationships expert and Author from USA.
Not to be confused with the second *John Gray,* British philosopher and author of seminal, post humanism, philosophical work - "Straw Dogs: Thoughts On Humans And Other Animals"
Thank you John ❤
Disclaimer is unnecessary
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Goodness !😮
What a rant
Some good parts
Though
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