The Philosophy of The Bad Boy
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- čas přidán 26. 06. 2024
- #masculinity #selfimprovement #sigmamale
Time Code:
Intro: 0:00 - 0:47
Know what you want, then go and get it: 0:48 - 2:26
Don't ask for permission for anything: 2:27 - 3:52
Be adventurous: 3:53 -6:04
Don't apologize for your imperfections: 6:05 - 8:20
Respect yourself ruthlessly: 8:21 - 9:25
Outro: 9:26 - 10:08
let’s face it, when growing up we were greatly misled by our aunts and mothers who told us we have to be good boys who stay safe away from all risks & dangers, and having to treat women like literal goddesses/angels and give them all they need.
Bad boys are rebels and have a "devil may care" attitude - meaning, these guys cannot be locked down into relationships, unlike most ‘nice guys.’
Bad boys know their value and hold themselves with high esteem. They seek no approval from others and never go out of their way to show people they are worth it.
They are authentic and will never go out of their way to be uncomfortable just to have someone’s approval. Having this mentality will help you be someone who is comfortable being who you are and not as someone who tries really hard to make others like or love you
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“It’s better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war.”
It’s okay to be a good person but just don’t forget to set boundaries and push people away when they don’t bring anything good to your life. Protect your loved ones, respect everyone, and be a leader. It’s not that hard.
The Art of War
Yes
Beautifully stated!!
But you need to be careful how good you are because if you are too good to someone who already started using you, they will despise you even more when you reject them, than if you were a jerk from the start.
You’re literally fighting ghost 🤣💀💀💀 iTs nOt ThAt HaRd to stfu
The best topic. All men should be kinda "bad boy". It means only that you put yourself on the first place in life. It is anyway how it should be. Be ruthless!
Absolutely, the issue at the moment is that manly traits like these are perceived as negative and shunned in society, labelled toxic masculinity. And I agree, in some cases, they are correct, I think the only way forward for men and bad boys alike is to harness their potential behaviours through shadow work, ultimately enabling them to still have their say whilst holding respect and not being written off as toxic. Your shadow is your key to becoming a man 🤍
Bad boy is a bad term, it should be men who are strong, have a ethical or moral core & are not prepared to take on stupidity. It’s actually the Good Boy who is really bad, because in most cases they are deceptive.
@@clevelandwilliams5922 bra.... You gonna have to explain that in another way. I'm so confused 🤔 lol
Be anyway you wanna be Good Boy,Bad Boy who gives a f do what makes you happy
Yes, anyway when you were lill kid,neighbour had been raped you,and it's been clear like a day,you love partizan
If you’re being nice, consider that you might be a doormat to some people.
Be good, be respectful, be kind, be courteous, live with honour, but never be too nice. Keep people who disrespect you out of your life. Took me a long time to learn this. Stay safe brothers.
Those don't work ever. Damn all that crap. U gotta be ruthless and out for ur self only. Whoever is with u is either on ur team or they're against u. Most things need to be black and white unless risk is involved. Finances or ur life. Other than that it either is or isn't mentality. Too many options causes grey area and wishy washy. Hell naw.
@@daviedood2503 live by the sword die by the sword. Be ruthless if you want, being there done that but it never works out well. Each to his own. Eventually someone will test you to see whether it’s who you really are and the truth always come out.
@@aspiringadventurer7410 not saying going around like a BULLY just looking for it pal . U took it wrong. But this holier than thou, durr hurr Imma warrior hero doing good for the planet and mankind crap will just get u beat up. 🤣🔥 Not to mention taken advantage of. Horribly.
0:49 Men who knows what they want and go after it. Be selfish and selfless.
2:27 men who doesn’t ask for permission for anything.
3:56 men who are curious and adventurous. Rebellious.
6:06 Men who are unapologetically their own imperfect character. Just don’t hurt people and be unapologetic. If you hurt someone apologize.
8:25 Men with ruthless self respect. Know who you are gonna let in and let out of your life.
2:27. Can get in so deep shit for doing that .
You can pretend to be a bad boy, or you can be your real authentic self. You choose.
Fax. Thank you. These needy and nerdy ass CZcams "bad boys" in reality just want a girl to notice them. Be yourself. Now that's cool and the ultimate form of "bad"
i think i’m a bad boy because my mistress always bends me over and spank me during secs😊
@@kiaadams104 It's not about that it's about not being a pushover.
There is no self in regards to philosophy. You have to use what's there.
@@kiaadams104 Emotional thinking like this is ignorance.
Ironically, the bad boy is so attractive because he behaves true to his nature and doesnt let philosophy seed doubt into his mind
The thing is, the modern definition of "nice guy" is a spineless man with nothing to offer aside from being a doormat, with a lot of pent up frustration and emotions from the fact that they lack the skills and strenght to suceed in life. I don't think being a nice guy and a bad boy are necessarily incompatible. I've always been a genuinely nice guy. A friend needs help, I'm the first one to answer. My girl calls me in the middle of the night, I'm waking up and going to her immediately. A colleague needs a favor, I do what I can. I try to be kind with everyone and I'd take a bullet for the people I love, without expecting anything in return. At the same time, I don't lack any of the traits mentioned in this video. It is about finding a balance and especially it is about finding confidence in yourself and being able to act according to your own will and not molding yourself around other people expectations. There is nothing wrong with being "good"
I needed to see another comment like this. Some people will take these advice way too far and seemingly make it as if being the "bad boy" is the only right way. The more I watched, it wasn't that I was intimidated or disagree with certain points of the video, it's just that the bad boy approach isn't always the best approach in life. I understand standing up for yourself, that it's okay being selfish, breaking the rules, and put our needs first, but many of these traits can be twisted and become toxic traits and we can become blind by convincing ourselves it will pay off, it will our pride to becoming vanity, our dismissal of our flaws and not properly fixing them in the future will lead to destruction, respecting ourselves too much can cause us to resent or dismiss the value in others. But I know myself, I am neither good or bad, but when people I know want my help, I'll try my best to.
Essentially being a bad boy, is the sub product of being a man. That means you’re willing to do what you want and what you need without anyone’s external input or opinions to dissuade you from your goal. Nothing anyone can say or do can swerve your purpose, dreams and aspirations. As a bad boy, you do and think in what you believe in and nobody can say or do anything about it. You stay true to what you believe in no matter if it’s good or bad
Its all about looks
@@SteveDean-fh8ne Sure man… I see what you mean
@@SteveDean-fh8neis your opinion
Sometimes you need to be a lion, so you can be the lamb you are. - Chapelle
His mom actually said that
" Sometimes you gotta cut a mf'er - Bowery King
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Thank you for this...I needed this
This is one of the best channels I have ever ran across on CZcams! Certainly the best on masculinity.
Tom Sisson
This explains why some women visit and befriend heinous criminals in prison. They like to be associated with them for the excitement knowing deep down it’s dangerous and choose to ignore the rationality of such a crazy friendship. Eventually though they come to see the error of their stupidity, it comes up to bite them on the butt.
Includes Some serial killers have some fandom.
Harley Quinn
Freaking great content brother. Definitely gave some jewels in this one.
That’s not being a bad boy it’s just being confident and not giving af about other ppls opinions
There's a concept that most people don't seem to understand. It's where you care about the weak forces while defying the strong forces. That's goodness.
I prefer that people be afraid of me than that people feel sorry for me! Don't be afraid of people saying you're selfish. Those who say you are selfish are the ones who want something from you.
🇲🇽🥷😈🔥⚔️❤️ love and respect to all past present and future kings
Keep the vids bro Greatly appreciated
Y’all are to be applauded (& congratulatted) for the sheer sake of authenticity.
Great work.
Amazing, thank you so much!
Well said and well put together
Loved it 👌😎 well put together. The last one is extremely important and is a clear sign of a badboy who has mastered his shadow. Only then are you able to dictate and enforce your self worth 🙌
In the end good will prevail. Light no matter how dim it shines, light will always cut through darkness.
Thank you for the videos ❤
If you clicked on this video, you're not a bad boy, maybe you want to be one. The bad boy doesn't seek validation not from other bad boys, the society or CZcams. Being a bad boy is an agonising path. be careful cause it's easy to break than mend.
The confidence that bad boys exude, attracts half bloods because of their attitude but the bad boy knows this is not an "attitude" this is not "cool". This is simply just who he is.
This is single handedly the dumbest assumption I’ve seen online.
Thanks for undermining those individuals with an insatiable amount of curiosity to be satisfied about certain undiscussed topics in life.
@@preetmichael931 you're not Thomas Shelby. I don't care about your pretentious delusions.
@@manassikdar1 Thanks for the news flash, never said I was but you’re still talking shit tho, I standby that. You’re right in a certain sense, but you have overlooked and assumed everyone is like you and that’s why we “clicked” on the video. You’re not that guy bro, in fact I think you probably copy and pasted your knowledge from elsewhere lol.
I watch your videos every day to get knowledge on how to be great
Man this is exactly what I needed to hear. I started thinking maybe Im the problem bc I'm not like society's norms. So glad I ran into this channel
Yup…. Beta dad🤢🤢🤢🤮🤢🤢
I needed this, thank you.
Thank you for sharing
“When I get mad all I see is red”
Another great video sir. I'm happy to see more subscribers on your channel. Your videos are absolutely motivating!
Thank you for sticking around this long my friend. I do hope I contribute a little bit in making your life better 👊
@@Forged88 You have contributed a lot my friend. May the most high keep blessing you sir!
This is so well written and eloquent mate
Soo much underrated channel
Being the good boy has done nothing good to me
I'm not sure I qualify for this one.
Though my parents did seem to try to get me into trouble, for reasons I think I understand now that I'm almost 30. I remember this one time at a Christmas party some stranger wanted me to do shots of tequila with him. My parents encouraged me to join in. I was resistant at first but eventually gave in. I was either 16 or 17. In situations like this my parents with vacillate between praise and concern. It was very confusing. So many of us in this generation grew up being taught to "respect authority" even if they don't deserve it? "Work hard" for what? I job I may hate? "Get good grades" In an education system that doesn't teach us anything practical? blahblahblah all the while never teaching kids how to THINK FOR THEMSELVES. Ask questions. How to enjoy ourselves without feeling guilty. How to socialize with REAL PEOPLE, make friends and not just authority figures. No one was ever happy or at least satisfied with themselves by being. "a good boy 🥺🥺🥺".
I do however own multiple leather jackets because I think leather jackets are cool. 😎
True haha, yeh .. the badboy is def a "got it or ya don't" aura. So I'm staying with friends ATM, a couple, who has invited an alpha male into their bedroom life. I have met him a few times for brief conversations in passing, and have never mentioned the reason he was there. Fast forward a few weeks and my friends say to me that so and so is intimidated by you (being me) and how it got them thinking why. 🤷♂️🤔 I straight away said it's the bad boy vibe.....
@@one_in_all_in man said alpha male 💀
@@blackairforceenergy2127 tell me about it. Sad state of affairs if couples are bringing in "alphas" to help in the bedroom.....
@@one_in_all_in whats with white folks doing cuckholding very stramge
What is this thread? 😵💫
great video❤
Bad boys greatest weapon is knowledge
Hell no😂
i needed this
"Schlong" i will be having that word in my arsenal 😂
Thanks Mister!
I am not a “bad boy” I am a grown ass man but for you young bucks good advice. Heed the message well. Good vid my man👍🏾
Brilliant video. Cheers.
So much potential, so much potency here! KaBooom!
Brilliant brilliant content
Through the shxt i been through and speaking bout some of the people I know and preach to me prior this video. All this is true. Very true. Think I've succumbed self realization I am a bit of a fella living in this mindset yet with good intent and people around me know it. Buzzy video kuz...
I loved this video, but I don't agree with the part in the video, where it said to "embrace your flaws and imperfections" and do not try to fix them. You HAVE to fix your imperfections, and constantly improve yourself. If you don't adapt to society, and conform to a certain degree, you're not doing yourself any favors.
I can't describe myself better than this! Thanks!!
My brother i have a small request!! Pls make a video of importance of regular martial arts training and embodying the warrior spirit in our lives with regular fitness and martial arts training!
Mmmmm 🤔 true .... Inshallah 🙌
Lots of other youtubers that specialize in this niche. Go search for them.
hello Mr. Tate 😅
Very cool man🤟🔥
This IS true Masculinity ❤👋🏾🙏🏾👍🏾
Nice work. A+
“You’ll look like a cheap yakuza knockoff”
As black American with irezumi. ( yakuza tattoo) this hit home for me 😢🤣
villain arc in progress
Mind blowing articulation and content.. Mr.forged, would you give us a self-introduction?
Do you make your own thumbnails? or do you outsource it? Because they look fantastic.
Some I made it myself, but most of the time I outsource them and edit them to try to make them more polarizing/contrasting to the eye
'If we have no muscles how can we help old woman with her heavy grocery'
Actually 😂😂
"Don't ever play with guns" 😈😈😈
No.... Correct.... Razor blades are much safer 😎
Play with bats
@@cowoverthemoo Fook bats. Filthy animals 🤮 what's wrong with you lol
I think the best we can extract from the video is not "Assume a new persona", because thats not very viable, but to reflect on our atitude and a "bad boy" atitude and think about what we want to change in ourselves. For example, a bad boy might not be afraid to unplease others meanwhile you can be a person who always puts not bothering others in front of your own needs, seeing this you can start to be diferent.
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I love this
These are for those who are too good but for my part i am too bad and i have ruthless agression i control people around me directly or indirectly when i enter silence is the noise i set masculine boundaries in my room i define my territory.. i defined myslef
Yin and Yang. Living life on the edge of chaos and order. In perfect harmony with nature. Assertive in times of danger, agreeable in times of security. Such is a relationship.
Is the word "Philosophy" an understatement or an overstatement here?
Yh maybe concept should’ve been used
None it's the base of a man it's a stage a young teen or adult goes through
I believe it's the right statement. Philosophy is the art of simplifying and explaining things.
You've done a very good job listing the acts and whys of the acts of "bad boys", and in the end you simplified it and listed it all.
Your verbosity may pain some people, but keep going, it's pleasant to listen to you - you can articulate ideas enough to induce very vivid and detailed pictures in your listeners' minds. Your voice displays assertiveness and conviction.
Know however that verbosity and complexion may draw away many people. Simplicity is always appreciated, but I do not personally have a problem with comprehending your message.
Just pick your audience, a broader one with less potential for understanding, or a narrower one of well-read individuals.
My advice is either continuing with the hard essence of your channel, or loosening it a bit to gain traction - your message deserves a greater audience in my opinion; and then choosing how to double back down on your style.
Good luck, brother.
Pretty much in the middle.... It's truth
@@pot7979 yeh I hear ya. It's the best way, ESPECIALLY, for true badboys to take on board. Hard love you may call it, a real badboy isn't fazed by the delivery
Excellent video the message at the end “read the room” should be a constant for every man before showing true colors
great
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I was but ashamed of having mentally weak and physically "short and unattractive". But, I want to achieve my most powerful alpha-side of myself and I keep training myself mentally and physically.
Keep it up
The best way to get alpha is to remain calm.. not get angry.. shame leads to a lack of self-esteem. I'm sure you ain't ugly. You don't sound ugly.
@Zombie Nation
speaking without affection. It makes people sound ugly..it can make a 10 quickly turn to a big fat zero or it can turn a big fat zero into a 10.. affection goes long way
That's all ego,edging God out. I prefer a humble spiritual balanced approach
Remember that spirituality also doesn't mean seeking the world's favor. Remember, God is gentle, but he isn't tame. He's like starlight.
Do not strive too be a “good boy” or a “bad boy”, be a great man instead
You can be a "bad boy" and a great man, the examples he shared are solid advice.
A good and brave man 🤍
I finally found it
I use my bad character when it’s necessary to protect my genuine energy, my pains and struggles values my self automatically as a man so that way it’s safer for me, even thou i deal with all most everybody I encounter with a positive mindset, it’s just being real to yourself and understanding that it’s important to protect your self when necessary and realizing that without you, you can’t care for who you want so self care is necessary as a man it’s the way way we can have true happiness and be fearless, to be a strong man you have to be dangerous but it’s how you react to your situation more that matters and that’s where self discipline comes in naturally after valuing yourself, You will set rules for yourself that people as to respect if they want to be around you
Can we talk about the actual BAD boys in movies and irl who do get all the women and power despite being amoral criminals who deserve less than 99% of what they have?
Low quality women will chase after bad men.
because they are attractive, no matter your badboy, goodboy personality whatever, if you're attractive you can even talk about the shit you shit had corn and women will still want you. But the second reason why "badboys" are also attractive? simply because they don't follow society's rules, they do what they want that's what any masculine man does, that's in our nature, to dominate, to lead.
@@Caine61facts 🔥 😂
@@Caine61I guess they’re all low quality in my area.
discipline is an essential tool in achieving freedom, because freedom does not mean always do what you want. Freedom is having the liberty of also restraining yourself when you want to achieve something difficult.
If you want to achieve a better physique, get a better career, or improve your relationships, then you will have to do things that you don't want, because any act of change and improvement implies the death of an old habit or part of self. Being free means not being tied to an identity created by you, or imposed by other, that no longer serves you; it means to have the ability to change in order to achieve the things you want.
I listened to it first time it was ok i listened to it second time more careful better third time even more so and wrote notes perfect baba number 1
The Chosen One walks alone.🦁
I walk alone, for good. 🦁🤍
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My father used to say if I was nice you wouldn't be born
so I was always a bad boy, only I wanted to seem like a good one, because being the good boy I suffered, I was destroyed myself and I liked it
Ok
@@pra6kata285 ok
3:12 what's the movie name?
Transform yourself
Commitment
That was fucking excellent
6:11 my reel sound
I wish I was a man so I could put myself first.
I’m such a bad man I wear a pink shirt that says “Dum Cumpster” on the back
There's a song that's saying these lyrics,
"I don't give a damn' bout my bad reputation."
For me it's pretty accurate.
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I am selfish by way of apathy 😢. In return I have no children. Never wanted any. - restaurant cook age 44
Nice video, I took a look from it
But I don't risk anything to be loved by women
who else paused at around 3:20 to see the words in the movie in the background.
… being masculine
& having command presence
My kids hated that Johnny Cash song. I kept that shit on repeat! At 45 years old, I call myself "A dinosaur". (The last of a dying breed) 💯
Of all thumbnails, he chooses G Eazy.....
Got you to click either way, so it worked
@@marshallpeters3853 fan boy mad
@@truth294 Your point?
I would never try to be perfect or idle in any image but in being myself. It gets me in trouble sometimes so i can contest to this logic. But havent we all done theoretically stupid shit at least once in our lives. im pretty sure its in human nature.
Looks like Jared Leto’s Joker
"If you gentlemen like to do xxxxxx just dont listen to others if they call you a nerd."
"Dont play video games, because i say so"
lol
He's just saying why people play video games, not telling them not to.
U hava to Look certain way to have bad boy halo, like having good looking face+muscular+super lean with defined abs
03:54 🔥
These are all qualities of a good man not a bad boy
A good man also has to genuinely care about others' well-being.