How I Changed My Life In One Year

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  • čas přidán 28. 04. 2024
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Komentáře • 45

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl Před měsícem +32

    Your journey of embracing new hobbies like playing the cello, gardening, and tennis is truly inspiring! It's a great reminder of how stepping out of our comfort zones can not only transform our self-perception but also enrich our social lives.

  • @lmpreston1
    @lmpreston1 Před měsícem +22

    One hobby I started was Friday board games, paint night and movie nights with our family. Oh my gosh, board games stuck and has been something we still love to do. I also didn't have a green thumb either, but plan to pick that up again. Many times we don't take time out to reflect. We also started taking a mini-retirement vacation for 1 month every 3 years to totally unplug. It was the best thing we ever did. Glad you are sharing this.

  • @ClarinetsForever223
    @ClarinetsForever223 Před měsícem +14

    And I love the "off the cuff" unedited videos - it makes you feel even more relatable.

  • @laurawharton2836
    @laurawharton2836 Před měsícem +15

    Wow! Once you dedicate the time, you can learn anything!

  • @JayBello108
    @JayBello108 Před měsícem +11

    This video was precisely what I needed. I have been feeling stuck for a while and this video was to gentle firm kick I needed. 😊😊Thank you!

  • @jennayasmith6597
    @jennayasmith6597 Před měsícem +20

    This video has come at such a good time. I'm facing a challenge at work and what is really affecting me is the narrative I've told myself about it and my ability to handle it. I need to do the work to change that narrative.

    • @OneBigHappyLife
      @OneBigHappyLife  Před měsícem +10

      Yes! Back when I was working a job that I hated, I would actually send myself an email at the end of the workday with just one word in the subject line: Deinvest. By the time I got to the office the next day feeling all stressed and starting to tie myself up in knots at the thought of spending another day there, I'd open my computer and see that email reminder. That was all it took for me to remember to breathe and let it go, because I wouldn't be there forever. Good luck!

    • @tammy9000_.
      @tammy9000_. Před měsícem +2

      @@OneBigHappyLife I absolutely LOVE THIS!!! I’m definitely applying this!!!

    • @quiqui87
      @quiqui87 Před měsícem

      @jennayasmith6597 your statement spoke to me! I hope everything turns around for you as well! best wishes to you in your journey and praying the best for myself as well!

  • @BeFruitfulMomma
    @BeFruitfulMomma Před měsícem +19

    You've definitely motivated me to take up two hobbies I've had on my list for almost a year now. Tennis and swimming. Thank you for sharing your story... I love hearing the social aspect of tennis and also you and your hubby doing this together. I'm excited to get started.

    • @OneBigHappyLife
      @OneBigHappyLife  Před měsícem +6

      I learned how to swim when I was 30 years old. It was so that I could do triathlons. I'm so glad that I took the time to learn that skill. Good luck!

    • @MagsNLily
      @MagsNLily Před měsícem +2

      @@OneBigHappyLifeI’m 30 now and always wanted to learn how to swim. Was trying to register my 6 yo daughter for swimming but she’s more interested in gymnastics. I should lead by example and try to get my fiancé to join me as something we can do together.

    • @RealwithGod510
      @RealwithGod510 Před měsícem +1

      tennis is amazing! ive been doing it without training since high school and now with my hubby! local cardio tennis is also fun

    • @BeFruitfulMomma
      @BeFruitfulMomma Před měsícem

      @@RealwithGod510 I'm excited about tennis and getting my hubby to join me.

    • @BeFruitfulMomma
      @BeFruitfulMomma Před měsícem

      @@OneBigHappyLife Thank you! I used to swim a lot as a child. But stopped swimming in college and haven't done much of it since then. I'm now 47 years old and joining my children during their lessons to improve my skills. Swimming is definitely a must have skill.

  • @ClarinetsForever223
    @ClarinetsForever223 Před měsícem +5

    Thanks for sharing, Scarlett. I lit up when you said you learned cello and dove into things that were a little scary. You're so inspirational and not just in one way - a big happy way 😉

  • @ndiferekewilson2839
    @ndiferekewilson2839 Před měsícem +10

    You're so classy and eloquent. You're a great communicator. Thanks for sharing. ❤

  • @holleelifestyles2844
    @holleelifestyles2844 Před měsícem +2

    This was so beautiful and wonderful to hear! This year a new hobby Im learning is having better Self Confidence! Because from there, I can LEAN INTO ALL THE GOALS Ive set for myself. So Therapy has been a huge help with that 💖

  • @kjerstirich7158
    @kjerstirich7158 Před měsícem +4

    Love this! 💜 we have a Tonal too, the 10-15 minute workouts are surprisingly effective too…I do those when I am short on time!

  • @playitbyearny
    @playitbyearny Před měsícem +3

    You are awesome ❤ I love how you jump right into change and doing things you want to explore or had negative perceptions ❤️♥️❤️

  • @edenserekeberhan694
    @edenserekeberhan694 Před 16 dny

    Love this! I am so glad I met you and your family because you join our club to play tennis!!

  • @MagalyJLerma
    @MagalyJLerma Před měsícem +6

    It’s mom brain ! 🧠 I loose my train of thought as well 😂❤

  • @tsolo5147
    @tsolo5147 Před měsícem +7

    Thank you for this video. All of this information was impactful, but what hit me the most was the parenting piece. I need to allow my children to experience how they are wronged instead of jumping to the resolution. Patience for processing the emotional aspect of my children instead of bulldozing to my fix it kit.

  • @Roaming_with_carolina
    @Roaming_with_carolina Před měsícem +3

    Thank you for sharing this! I am just starting my own sabbatical to work on myself and figure out where I want to go next. The trial and error bit really resonates as that's what I plan to do for the next few months; to try all the things that sound good on paper and see what I actually like doing. Thanks again for the great video!

  • @Suflh
    @Suflh Před měsícem +3

    Thanks for sharing this ❤❤

  • @VoyageHER
    @VoyageHER Před měsícem +4

    This is beautiful 💜💜💜

  • @michellemoore2329
    @michellemoore2329 Před 24 dny

    Love your video. Thanks for sharing

  • @atlehangkereng9580
    @atlehangkereng9580 Před měsícem +3

    Welcome back 🙏

  • @rochellerichard3702
    @rochellerichard3702 Před měsícem

    This was very encouraging.

  • @katlennat1680
    @katlennat1680 Před měsícem +3

    Congrats on the tennis tournament

  • @sabrinagoodman582
    @sabrinagoodman582 Před 27 dny

    Great video. I ate up every word

  • @nomadicvibesofelle
    @nomadicvibesofelle Před měsícem +5

    Love this, especially the parenting piece. This is something that I am working on as well.

    • @OneBigHappyLife
      @OneBigHappyLife  Před měsícem +5

      Being a parent is by far the hardest role that I've ever taken on. But all we can do is continue to work at it and grow into the best parents we can be. :-)

  • @tandajohnson8617
    @tandajohnson8617 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you

  • @firesign4297
    @firesign4297 Před měsícem +2

    Great way to look at everything 🤗
    Side Note:
    I still cannot bowl 😳 but i go with my husband and nephews just to take pictures and make memories....
    And they just love that im there😳😅😅😅

  • @momentswithmajesty
    @momentswithmajesty Před 29 dny

    Making time for hobbies like tennis and carving out time for fun really stood out to me and it’s something I want to implement.

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage1020 Před měsícem +6

    Love that you went from:
    “This is challenging - therefore it must not be for me”
    To
    “This could be a fun challenge to overcome, and learn from or gain friends as well as skills”.
    My kids have recently started playing hooky. Because school is finally a challenge for them, now, and home is less challenging. They want to stay in their comfort zone, at home. But they have to stretch. They will grow and learn more if they face those challenges until they can overcome them or focus on the gains to be had on the other end.
    I have to show them by example that we can face challenges and make mistakes and kind of suck at new things at first, and that’s normal. But that doesn’t mean we give up just because it doesn’t feel stellar right off the bat. We don’t give up on ourselves like that. Or our goals.
    It’s important to suck sometimes. Nobody is great at everything all the time. It’s humbling and can help us be more compassionate to those struggling around us.

  • @nancyalaeddin8447
    @nancyalaeddin8447 Před 18 dny

    Hi, thank you for the inspiring videos. You mentioned in previous videos how you managed to get your law degree even though you were making very little money, I wonder how did you manage to fund your law degree while supporting yourself and your daughter?

  • @annesther726
    @annesther726 Před měsícem +4

    It's so true that with finding a hobby or physical activity, it's about finding what you actually like to do.
    Thanks for sharing! I am about to be 38 and am in the process of rediscovering friendships and interests. It's hard and uncomfortable, but I am extremely motivated in part because I want to be that example of resilience for my daughter 💓.

  • @moxiejae321
    @moxiejae321 Před měsícem

    Wow❤

  • @jaynicole95
    @jaynicole95 Před měsícem +2

    💚💚

  • @5rgyyuyrgg
    @5rgyyuyrgg Před měsícem

    Happy Mother's Day!

  • @edwardjrobinson2
    @edwardjrobinson2 Před 6 dny

    Resourceful. Innumerous information can be gleaned from this one video alone. Bellissima!

  • @jetradaniels9528
    @jetradaniels9528 Před měsícem

    I'm so sorry for this off-topic comment....but you and Falynn Pina could be sisters 😮