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@@Justme-tz1tt husband who knows how lovable you are and doesn't want you being loved , at all. Had it happen . By whole in law family , jealousy sucks.
Well I mean when you have children your whole life becomes about them because they depend on you for literally everything. Why is it bad that he's not ready to have her be completely consumed by being a mother. He just wants to enjoy their relationship while it's just about them
the one who doesn't want to have kids must start this discussion. because getting married by default automatically means wanting kids. not two options. only one. so unless he never said he doesn't want means he wants. otherwise why the hell get married at all
@@eff9266 that's not true. People get married for many reasons, but mostly because they want to commit to each other. Some married couples don't have kids, some unmarried couples do. Kids are an entirely separate subject.
@@mads7157 no it isn't, you saying "some" explains it all, some exceptions might be there, but generally people marry to start a family, the one who doesn't want a family and still wants to marry supposedly for "other reasons" should tell it beforehand.
@@Aalsibandi many people do desire to be married before having children, but that doesn't signify they get married in order to have children, nor does it mean all married couples desire kids by default. You should never assume whether a person wants kids or not, and as I said, conversations regarding kids or any lifestyle decision should be had before marriage.
@@mads7157 not many, the percentage of such people would be way too low especially they're from the west, apart from West and some European countries, the point of marriage was to start a family, that's why the concept of marriage was introduced, the ones who do it for other reasons are the ones who should talk about it upfront before proposing or accepting the proposal, because that's not usual in most of the countries that you want to marry but don't want kids.
Absolutely not. When a woman becomes a mother, all her attention and time goes to her kids. It's not crazy to be in love with your partner and want to spend time just the two of you before having children.
You know, I would be very concerned to have a saddistic megalomaniac as the father of any children, but oh womens love can change anyone, right 😅. So romantic
One thing that upsets me the most about relationships and dating. Is that when you try to be up front about your wants and needs, For example I don't want children. And when I ask a guy this question early on, I had one who said this is too soon of a discussion and I replied absolutely not. I just don't wanna waste your time or mine. So, do you want kids? And they said yeah someday and I said well I don't. He was quiet eventually I ended it. I know it freaks people out to be upfront but idc at this point.
Not everyone wants to be a parent and not everyone is fit to be a parent. But this conversation for sure must happen before getting into a relationship or a marriage not after it
Not wanting kids is okay but his reason for not wanting kids is just shocking ..i thought he would say something like "i don't know if i would be a great father maybe after some therapy "
Why was this book and movie so popular? Its basically about a woman falling in love with a controlling sociopath. Why?! Just why?? Don’t want to share you with anyone. If that doesn’t scream “danger, danger, warning!!” 🚨
Because he's rich and handsome and the women who read it can fantasize about being with him. I never really understood the appeal either. The whole story just seemed, ironically, very childish.
Not everyone wants kids in marriage…and that’s totally fine. People should start thinking if they want kids before marriage and look for the right person who doesn’t want kids either. Their marriage would last a long time.
Certain “Men” will tell you what you want to hear before you commit. Once they know you have invested your love into them that’s when the truth comes out. NOT NOW means “not until I say so”; which usually means NEVER. DO NOT EVER GIVE THIS MAN WHAT HE DOES “NOT” WANT… you will pay dearly in the end and unfortunately so will your children.
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It’s hard to like this movie, whole thing was too cheesy & cringe, she’s awkward and a terrible actress too. I saw no chemistry between them and they made her character dumb.
I would add that this whole horrific "story" is sick. He is a narcissist, he is abusive, she is a victim and that stup!d no one that wrote this sh!t tries to sell it as romantic and a love story 🙄 when it's only a s!ck sexual fantasy of a s!ck mind.
I think this conversation must take place BEFORE marriage, dont you think? So you can prevent accidents like choking on your food when your spouse mentions the topic "children"😅
This is one of the reasons why people get divorced: putting the cart before the horse. How are you just having this discussion after wedding? Shouldn't this have to be one of the most important things you get to know about your partner before getting married? If he says No now, then what?
@@eff9266 what if he had said never? The reason she should have found out incase she wanted kids and he didn't so she'd know whether to go ahead with the wedding or not.
As a woman, I really hate the pressure women put on men for marriage and children, even if only jokingly. How pathetic and pleading and begging it sounds. If he wants, he tells you. What is this "forcing"
Exactly the type who will run off and cheat because he "didn't feel special anymore" when she has to shift her focus a little to a baby that is literally dependant on her for survival.
@@sowbhagyalokanath1567 but why would she get pregnant before discussing and agreeing to plan and to get to? ok if just accidentally but did they at least tried to prevent? or just like that lol? yee haah, let it be what it will be, whatever
The fact that so many ppl liked the way he behaved when he was so controlling is what always baffles me. And somehow, the movies made him better than the books. So think about that
THIS GIRL IS SO SMART...SHE ALWAYS KNOWS EXACTLY HOW TO DEAL WITH TOXIC WORDS FROM THIS MAN... I MEAN ALL THE RED FLAGS SHE TURNED THEM TO WHITE FLAGS😂
All of you in the comments saying she should leave and they should have discussed all these things before they got married, maybe you guys should see the "Fifty Shades of Grey" movies and/or read the books.
I never understood why anyone found this series to be about romance, love , etc… I never read the series or watched the movies but seen bits and pieces of it and found it cringe worthy.
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1 of the reasons for having divorce these days. Maybe now a days it takes too much time to know what ur partner thinking and what he/she likes to have.
Ah, after marriage, the best time to talk about whether you want children or not.
Seriously so dumb. But the worst part is that this actually happens…
Fr… these are the talks couples should have while they’re dating and engaged, not after they’re married. 🤷🏼♀️
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Right. This scene killed me. She was honestly so dumb not to discuss this beforehand 💀
This should have been discussed long before the wedding.
Thank youuuu 🎯
What if he lied before marriage?
Just made baby, without kids a marriage is almost nothing.
True.
Lmao when would they have had time w safe words and spankings? 😂
Every sentence he said in this clip was a red flag lol 😂
Including, “this is a great steak?”
Jk
He is a walking red flag. A psychopath
@@emmmahezwwell I mean seeing as he was trying to use it to divert from a serious conversation I would say yeah it’s still a red flag lol
Damnn right 😅
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Whenever I hear that line abt ‘not sharing you with anyone.” Run 🏃🏾♀️
Yeah like what?? Father who is jealous of they own kid!!
@@Justme-tz1ttChristian is narcissistic and an entitled manchild. Ana should have RAN
@@Justme-tz1tt husband who knows how lovable you are and doesn't want you being loved , at all. Had it happen . By whole in law family , jealousy sucks.
Yep, that is what a narc feels regarding his kids...
Well I mean when you have children your whole life becomes about them because they depend on you for literally everything. Why is it bad that he's not ready to have her be completely consumed by being a mother. He just wants to enjoy their relationship while it's just about them
These are conversations that should have been had long before the wedding! smdh.
Sometimes you are so in love, that is not on your thoughts.
Please have these talks BEFORE legally binding yourself to another person
the one who doesn't want to have kids must start this discussion. because getting married by default automatically means wanting kids. not two options. only one. so unless he never said he doesn't want means he wants. otherwise why the hell get married at all
@@eff9266 that's not true. People get married for many reasons, but mostly because they want to commit to each other. Some married couples don't have kids, some unmarried couples do. Kids are an entirely separate subject.
@@mads7157 no it isn't, you saying "some" explains it all, some exceptions might be there, but generally people marry to start a family, the one who doesn't want a family and still wants to marry supposedly for "other reasons" should tell it beforehand.
@@Aalsibandi many people do desire to be married before having children, but that doesn't signify they get married in order to have children, nor does it mean all married couples desire kids by default. You should never assume whether a person wants kids or not, and as I said, conversations regarding kids or any lifestyle decision should be had before marriage.
@@mads7157 not many, the percentage of such people would be way too low especially they're from the west, apart from West and some European countries, the point of marriage was to start a family, that's why the concept of marriage was introduced, the ones who do it for other reasons are the ones who should talk about it upfront before proposing or accepting the proposal, because that's not usual in most of the countries that you want to marry but don't want kids.
“I’m not ready to share you with anyone”…😅sir you sound cray
😅😅😅😅I know right 🤣
Absolutely not. When a woman becomes a mother, all her attention and time goes to her kids. It's not crazy to be in love with your partner and want to spend time just the two of you before having children.
Crayfish 😂😂😂😂😂
I feel like, "Do you want children?" is a discussion that should take place long before the wedding.
You know, I would be very concerned to have a saddistic megalomaniac as the father of any children, but oh womens love can change anyone, right 😅. So romantic
One thing that upsets me the most about relationships and dating. Is that when you try to be up front about your wants and needs, For example I don't want children. And when I ask a guy this question early on, I had one who said this is too soon of a discussion and I replied absolutely not. I just don't wanna waste your time or mine. So, do you want kids? And they said yeah someday and I said well I don't. He was quiet eventually I ended it. I know it freaks people out to be upfront but idc at this point.
Not everyone wants to be a parent and not everyone is fit to be a parent. But this conversation for sure must happen before getting into a relationship or a marriage not after it
You get all that settled before marriage.
If a man doesn’t want children he shouldn’t be having sex.
Not wanting kids is okay but his reason for not wanting kids is just shocking
..i thought he would say something like "i don't know if i would be a great father maybe after some therapy "
Creepy and very uncomfortable conversation
Good lord I'm saved in time.
Important things shouldn't be talked about when someone's having a meal. You'll end up getting in arguments.
This is red flag #3😂
Today more and more women say things like Christian... because unmature egoism is very popular around women that assume "power"...
I feel that he does not only want to have a baby but marriage.
This guys and his perfect answers lol
Why was this book and movie so popular? Its basically about a woman falling in love with a controlling sociopath. Why?! Just why?? Don’t want to share you with anyone. If that doesn’t scream “danger, danger, warning!!” 🚨
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Because he's rich and handsome and the women who read it can fantasize about being with him. I never really understood the appeal either. The whole story just seemed, ironically, very childish.
Not everyone wants kids in marriage…and that’s totally fine. People should start thinking if they want kids before marriage and look for the right person who doesn’t want kids either. Their marriage would last a long time.
Wow, now we all see the red flags in Christian Grey, but in 2015 we didn’t see it. How time changes😂
This the conversation to have before the marriage before having s3x before anything.
Yes
. Women, we’re aren’t insecure on this one, please
I'm not ready to share you! Good point.
Certain “Men” will tell you what you want to hear before you commit. Once they know you have invested your love into them that’s when the truth comes out. NOT NOW means “not until I say so”; which usually means NEVER. DO NOT EVER GIVE THIS MAN WHAT HE DOES “NOT” WANT… you will pay dearly in the end and unfortunately so will your children.
Yes
So cringe
This is so creepy.
I see a red flags hear
here
Yes, this is how you must walk on eggshells around your partner being serious all the time.
Soon you’ll lose your confidence & go crazy. Lol
Lame excuse from Christian😮..this should be discussed on dating stage.
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It’s hard to like this movie, whole thing was too cheesy & cringe, she’s awkward and a terrible actress too. I saw no chemistry between them and they made her character dumb.
I would add that this whole horrific "story" is sick. He is a narcissist, he is abusive, she is a victim and that stup!d no one that wrote this sh!t tries to sell it as romantic and a love story 🙄 when it's only a s!ck sexual fantasy of a s!ck mind.
I think this conversation must take place BEFORE marriage, dont you think? So you can prevent accidents like choking on your food when your spouse mentions the topic "children"😅
This should be called when a man is just not that interested in you. 🙄🙄
I love all these movies!!!
Dude u r sharing with u r own children. Seriously u don't want to share 😂
this explains why i dont want to have kids i havent seen this movie in years
This is one of the reasons why people get divorced: putting the cart before the horse. How are you just having this discussion after wedding? Shouldn't this have to be one of the most important things you get to know about your partner before getting married? If he says No now, then what?
what's wrong with not now?
@@eff9266 what if he had said never? The reason she should have found out incase she wanted kids and he didn't so she'd know whether to go ahead with the wedding or not.
I love this movie❤❤
Well, he turned out to be just like any other man.
Uhm not all men are the same?
One word - Narcissist
This was a good movie
My fav movie ever,alot to learn aside the sex
That sentence is sus anyway😂
Would convince the lady and also give her butterflies😂wow, smart move muchacho...avoiding easily with 2 goals in 1 shot
Se debe conversar antes de casarse sobre este tema,pero la respuesta de Christian aunque fue egoísta fue muy tierna 🫠
Am not ready to share you with anyone....Ruuun
අපේ මෝඩ රවිනයා 🎉 Happy birthday
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Beautiful conservation during meal a child gives us a reason to see future
As a woman, I really hate the pressure women put on men for marriage and children, even if only jokingly. How pathetic and pleading and begging it sounds. If he wants, he tells you. What is this "forcing"
If I ever get in a relationship, I'm making it clear from the beginning that I wanna get married and have kids.
You would think they would have this discussion before getting married 💀
Where can I watch this movie
How can someone find this romantic?
My best ❤
Run
Dude is not ready to share mama with his own baby😂😂❤and that's really sexy
😂😂😂
Exactly the type who will run off and cheat because he "didn't feel special anymore" when she has to shift her focus a little to a baby that is literally dependant on her for survival.
Yaaak why she behave more like mother than wife
Bcoz she is already pregnant so
@@sowbhagyalokanath1567 not like that but patting him on head , giving kiss on head ...i feel gross after watching it
@@jyotinanoma6227 oh okay 😆
@@sowbhagyalokanath1567 but why would she get pregnant before discussing and agreeing to plan and to get to?
ok if just accidentally but did they at least tried to prevent? or just like that lol? yee haah, let it be what it will be, whatever
Tf is wrong with that lol its also seen as cute gestures
Ele já comeu da minha comida, eu sei cozinhar
What if your partner doesn’t want to have kids?
You should talk about this before marriage 🤦🏼♀️
Na super...
The fact that so many ppl liked the way he behaved when he was so controlling is what always baffles me. And somehow, the movies made him better than the books. So think about that
❤ love you
THIS GIRL IS SO SMART...SHE ALWAYS KNOWS EXACTLY HOW TO DEAL WITH TOXIC WORDS FROM THIS MAN...
I MEAN ALL THE RED FLAGS SHE TURNED THEM TO WHITE FLAGS😂
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😂sweet for me 😜
Ok I need to try the brown YSL mascara because I tried the black lash clash and I did not like it
All of you in the comments saying she should leave and they should have discussed all these things before they got married, maybe you guys should see the "Fifty Shades of Grey" movies and/or read the books.
why is this a movie?
Sí
Because they decided to make an adaption of the book?!? 🤨🤔😏
Because it is not concert🤣
What movie is this ? And what was.the name of book
@@broin9Fifty Shades of Grey❤👍
I don't want to share you with anyone ❤❤
Is there s 50 Shades of Grey show now on #Fox ??🙀
Why would they not talk about that before they got married
This movie glorified domestic abuse and narcassism. This movie gave a fairy tale ending which is not reality!
Camiseta branca
The dumbest thing about this scene is this should have already been discussed
Some people get pregnant without getting married like Klaus and Hayley from The Originals
I never understood why anyone found this series to be about romance, love , etc… I never read the series or watched the movies but seen bits and pieces of it and found it cringe worthy.
It's not her fault that she's pregnant. Is both responsability
Movie name?
50 Shades Of Grey ❤
No listo para compartirla todavía pasa un mes y ella se embaraza que mala suerte del señor Gray
Always and forever watching 🦋🦋🦋
وه يعني غاير حتى من ولدنا عليا ....مقوى سعدي ههههههه هاني ماشية نرقد خير ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤هذا هو الحب و ألا لوح ❤️❤️🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪 نعشق انسان اسمو أسامة صمتي مطلق مزبل حالتو حليلة موش مزيان 🇹🇳🇹🇳🇹🇳🇹🇳🇹🇳🇹🇳🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
He is not ready to be a father 😮🤓🌟
AMEN 💯 🙏 LOVE THESE MOVIE'S ❤️ 😊
Children with narcissist, good luck girl
Christian is a red flag but like Anna I'm kinda colour blind...the character development tho
Well that’s not toxic at all 🙄
Claro que no quiere hijos…lo impresionante sería que por tenerlos no haya cometido crímenes pasionales
have kids but not with you
Love to have a copy of you and me
Is this not a conversation people have before marriage anymore?
1 of the reasons for having divorce these days. Maybe now a days it takes too much time to know what ur partner thinking and what he/she likes to have.
That's a pure jealousy Gray you're seeing right here....
Now im in the mood to watch FSoG 😅
big red flag
This movie is such a trash glorifying abusive behaviour and somehow BDSM fits that?? How the heck is that healthy
Felem Magisch 😅
Not a love story
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My word the delivery of this scene is so wooden.