Never Get Frustrated Again: Jocko Underground 023

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    Frustration
    Military and it's bureaucratic bullsh*t.
    How to fill a leadership void without jamming it up.
    Dealing with lack of confidence as a blue belt.
    Money vs passion.
    Bragging and showboating culture in a group.

Komentáře • 265

  • @Rawdiswar
    @Rawdiswar Před rokem +75

    Jocko getting angry with a printer is his most relatable self.

  • @jproper
    @jproper Před rokem +186

    Jocko is that badass uncle we all wish we had. Dropping gems 💎 .

    • @dave1205
      @dave1205 Před rokem +5

      He’s the badass uncle I thought I had then realised he wasn’t that badass once I became an adult

    • @jacobdavis9654
      @jacobdavis9654 Před rokem +5

      Father figure in some cases ,

    • @mikeadcock1985
      @mikeadcock1985 Před rokem +1

      Uncle Jake

    • @kennethcurtis1856
      @kennethcurtis1856 Před 9 měsíci

      For some of us, he can be our child.

  • @tylerpacker6047
    @tylerpacker6047 Před rokem +200

    When Jocko said, "...my wife is going to be...saying hi" after talking about how he was ready to work out, I almost fell out of my chair laughing.

    • @butteryflakycrust4864
      @butteryflakycrust4864 Před rokem +32

      ..”going through the morning procedures of ‘hello’..”

    • @louiswillemsen780
      @louiswillemsen780 Před rokem

      @@butteryflakycrust4864 😂😂😂

    • @everynameistaken567
      @everynameistaken567 Před rokem

      The fact that you think this is funny instead of relatable tells me you aren't married lol

    • @Zaysayer
      @Zaysayer Před 11 měsíci +1

      ​@@everynameistaken567 And why do you assume it isn't funny BECAUSE it is relatable?

  • @shadowmask3350
    @shadowmask3350 Před rokem +82

    Jocko looks well rested he must of increased his power nap from 30 seconds to 33 seconds

  • @ribeyemanster
    @ribeyemanster Před rokem +54

    The thing I appreciate about Jocko is I hardly ever hear profanity from his lips. So good to hear sound advice and knowledge that my 12 year old grandson can listen to. Kudos Jocko!

    • @lopezmotorsports
      @lopezmotorsports Před rokem +2

      He's a sailor, he'll drop F-bombs when needed. Droppin' warheads on foreheads! GO NAVY! BEAT ARMY!!!

    • @joshuajones1319
      @joshuajones1319 Před rokem +5

      I was told in a leadership class, profanity is used by simple minded people that can't think of a different word to use..

    • @707josh
      @707josh Před rokem +2

      @@joshuajones1319 I was told the same by my uncle who’s a marine

  • @jesseglenturner
    @jesseglenturner Před rokem +147

    After being paralyzed at 17, I fought frustration quite a lot. Still do, on occasion.
    It's definitely one of the toughest emotional challenges to conquer.

    • @npalmi88
      @npalmi88 Před rokem +14

      Damn, sorry to hear that, at least you’ve got the internet. Probably the best time in the history of mankind to be paralyzed

    • @jesseglenturner
      @jesseglenturner Před rokem +27

      @@npalmi88 Yes'sir. Just another day! Limitations are often frustrating, but they can also push you to think outside of the box and find new solutions to age-old problems... Just gotta step back (proverbially speaking, in my case 🤣), take a few deep breaths, and tackle the issues without the anger.
      No doubt there's never been a better time to face such physical challenges! Things have noticably improved even in the 30 years or so that I've been in a wheelchair.

    • @jessee7334
      @jessee7334 Před rokem +7

      I can only imagine. Something wrong with my foot last few weeks and being on bedrest is pushing my anxiety into overdrive. The key, of course, is acceptance. You are one resilient SOB! Respect 🤝

    • @jesseglenturner
      @jesseglenturner Před rokem +6

      @@jessee7334 Thanks! My family would probably call it "hard-headed" 🤣

    • @jessee7334
      @jessee7334 Před rokem +1

      Don't listen to that miserable troll. We hurt others when we hurt ourselves. Trust me

  • @MarkSmith-hq4rr
    @MarkSmith-hq4rr Před rokem +497

    The last time Jocko got frustrated, Chuck Norris apologized.

  • @user-vc5rp7nf8f
    @user-vc5rp7nf8f Před rokem +133

    jocko: "the other day i was frustrated"
    Echo: "what happened"
    jocko: "my wife said hi to me at 6am"

  • @cloudconnected1476
    @cloudconnected1476 Před rokem +61

    Thing that helped me a lot is perspective that I gained from sentence I found on internet while randomly browsing:
    "Anger is punishment that you lay upon yourself for stupidity of others."

  • @radical_drift572
    @radical_drift572 Před rokem +24

    "going through the morning procedures of hello" That is gold oh my goodness XD never change Jocko, never change

  • @dwbvdvis
    @dwbvdvis Před rokem +12

    "Going through the morning procedures of.. 'Hello'" 😂

  • @DANGARANGS
    @DANGARANGS Před rokem +20

    Can't wait to be never frustrated again.

  • @mercedesw211classic
    @mercedesw211classic Před rokem +64

    Jocko gets frustrated with printers 😄 I can definitely imagine that.

    • @KagedTyrant
      @KagedTyrant Před rokem +2

      I hate printers 🖨️ s

    • @victorvivenzio6503
      @victorvivenzio6503 Před rokem +2

      Jocko vs Printer- I'd hate to be the printer

    • @portaadonai
      @portaadonai Před 11 měsíci

      The mighty Jocko, brought down by a annoying HP printer

  • @762459
    @762459 Před rokem +17

    When Jocko left home for basic training. He told his dad.."you're the man of the house now"

  • @hunterholistichealth
    @hunterholistichealth Před rokem +14

    I love how is most frustrating day is most people’s most productive & disciplined day 😂

  • @cozyfurns5036
    @cozyfurns5036 Před rokem +49

    Jocko looked like he finna slap me if I ever get frustrated again. And now I am scared to dare.

    • @stomper5432
      @stomper5432 Před rokem

      jocko doesnt associate with people who use the word "finna"

    • @dinketti
      @dinketti Před rokem

      Exactly 💯😁😉

  • @ChristopherSalisburySalz

    Jocko's frustrating morning sounds like everyday life. I don't think I have a single day that everything goes according to plan. When you have kids chaos is the only constant.

  • @jjmaguire8281
    @jjmaguire8281 Před rokem +6

    Missing a workout will definitely make you frustrated. Especially when it's your routine and kinda sets the tone for the day.

  • @gennnyko6340
    @gennnyko6340 Před rokem +15

    Jocko and Echo are awesome. I love how Jocko can be relatable in re frustration, while remaining 100% aspirational , inspirational and a role model.

  • @TraumaChaplain
    @TraumaChaplain Před rokem +4

    So in summary, frustration is a distraction from solving the problem.

  • @paulhaulbrook1681
    @paulhaulbrook1681 Před rokem +13

    Frustration is born from being surprised when things don't go our way....and printers ARE evil.

  • @B-leafer
    @B-leafer Před rokem +4

    "A certain protocol in the world which shouldn't be violated.."
    Roger that.
    Gotta love ya Rocko

  • @AlvinHazelton
    @AlvinHazelton Před rokem +10

    @3:40 "The morning procedures of saying hello." 🤣 (that cracked me up - he's ready to "GET AFTER IT" - I can see a new rule in Jocko's home... "No hellos until workouts are done" 😜)

    • @grizzy32
      @grizzy32 Před rokem

      Thanks for watching😊, feel free to send me a message to acknowledge your prize📥

  • @MatthewSmith-cp3hu
    @MatthewSmith-cp3hu Před rokem +11

    when i get maxed out i have trouble determining what value a task will have and everything becomes top priority in my mind ... immediately i am frustrated because i can't accomplish them all

    • @wildernessrick9278
      @wildernessrick9278 Před rokem +2

      I feel like I can definitely relate to this.
      I'll just parrot exactly what Jocko said and say, "Get to work."
      I've found that if I just start doing SOMETHING, very often to hierarchy of priorities becomes self-apparent, or happens naturally. Often in the form of starting a task, and realizing "Oh, well, I can't finish this task until I do *that* task", or something along those lines.
      Just "get to work". Start doing something. It's easy to fall into a "paralysis by analysis" situation. ✊🏻🙏🏻✊🏻

  • @insanitygaming20
    @insanitygaming20 Před rokem +5

    Your vids help a lot of people , thank you .

  • @julianb1550
    @julianb1550 Před rokem +17

    Frustration is anxiety. Being anxious is like juggling, you have to intentionally give energy to and focus on the feelings and thoughts and it takes a lot of attention to do that. If you can step into the moment and realize you're juggling, drop it and let it go. All those feelings and thoughts fall to the floor just like the juggling balls would and you can continue your day without the juggling. Imagine how much more effective you would be if you didn't need to constantly be juggling? That's why we tell people to Drop it, Let it go, Knock it off. The IT being the "stuff" we're attaching to and giving our energy to and what's behind our suffering. Who knew Jocko would be such a Buddhist?

    • @rmmm6725
      @rmmm6725 Před rokem +5

      Frustration is not anxiety. Now a days people love to say they have anxiety like it’s a necessary step to be in the cool club. Not having the resiliency to deal with life isn’t anxiety. As a combat vet I know exactly what anxiety is, many people experience it but I hear people way to often live anxiety like it’s a badge of courage. What you described is having resiliency to stop allowing outside factors invade your mind and cause you to lose focus. Have a good day

  • @Ezerathicus
    @Ezerathicus Před 10 měsíci

    I really like at the end there is a brief description about what that episode entails, very cool addition!

  • @river102977
    @river102977 Před rokem

    Love your honesty Jocko

  • @MM-ho1rw
    @MM-ho1rw Před rokem +1

    That part about his wife saying hi is just so relatable.

  • @leeashbycoach6605
    @leeashbycoach6605 Před rokem +1

    Self care and self compassion is where its at. reduce stress and feelings of frustration - especially for things outside of your control.

  • @Johnny_Dregs
    @Johnny_Dregs Před rokem

    I needed to hear this.

  • @kebertxela941
    @kebertxela941 Před rokem +1

    This video started in my huge playlist right as I was getting frustrated backing in the truck,lol.

  • @diegonayalazo
    @diegonayalazo Před rokem

    Thanks J/E

  • @mamandapanda185
    @mamandapanda185 Před rokem

    Funny that's exactly what I was feeling, first thing in the morning, when I read the title in my feed. SO, just like worry/anxiety, it really doesn't change the out come of the situation for the better.

  • @Gettysburg2013
    @Gettysburg2013 Před 7 měsíci

    This is so relatable and shows Jocko is a real person just like everyone else. It makes extreme discipline feel that much more attainable.

  • @camdenritter7652
    @camdenritter7652 Před rokem +1

    "The morning procedures of 'hello'" 😂 that is followed by the special operation to the garage gym

  • @CodeRed1991
    @CodeRed1991 Před rokem

    Thanks Jocko

  • @spsxssd86
    @spsxssd86 Před rokem

    Haha I love this. Relationships are a part of the path. I hate small conversations with family when I want to get my to do checked off but then remind myself I'm so lucky to have loved ones.
    Last night I wanted to finish my pages and get to sleep as I was meant to be asleep 1.5 hours prior, but she kept speaking to me and I had to put the book down for 20mins but couldn't complain because normally I'm moaning that she's quite and reads at night 🤦‍♂️😂 all appreciated and a part of the path

  • @jonathanperry8331
    @jonathanperry8331 Před rokem +7

    I remember seeing Lone survivor and I had no idea who Marcus luttrell was. Then I finally saw him talk about redeploying to Iraq after he healed up and the first thing he mentioned was Jocko willink. He admitted to being kind of afraid of you.

  • @specwarat
    @specwarat Před rokem +1

    Sounds similar many of my work days, or nights. I'm an ex boat guy (SBU-22)/Army Nurse Corps 1LT(Ret) with a combined service time of 25 years. Presently an RN working 12 hour nights Fri-Sat-Sun. I work from my own SOP's. There is regularly frustration that arises in this job; there's almost always something that attempts to pull me off track. The challenge is to take the frustration & anger when it arises and channel it into getting things done... as paraphrased from the podcast, using default aggression to make things happen in order to complete the mission.

  • @kaltonian
    @kaltonian Před rokem

    I have learnt that the feeling of frustration is a positive......
    because you want....you need you have to change...that's what frustration is to me, embrace it because it means you don't want to put up with it any more .

  • @dcrog69
    @dcrog69 Před rokem +3

    Jockos never gonna sleep in again.

  • @derekcoaker6579
    @derekcoaker6579 Před rokem

    Jocko 2024!

  • @Commonchaffinch2
    @Commonchaffinch2 Před rokem +4

    JOCKO frustrated, JOCKO lost discipline the night before causing a downward spiral the next day. This man’s accountability is extraordinary! If only our whole nation took as much ownership as he!

  • @gnarlycharlie69
    @gnarlycharlie69 Před rokem +1

    “I didn’t sign up for this today” 😂😂😂😂

  • @Blue-Robin
    @Blue-Robin Před rokem

    This came at the most perfect time...

  • @thedudeabides3930
    @thedudeabides3930 Před rokem

    "The morning procedures of saying 'hello'..."

  • @larryapl
    @larryapl Před rokem

    Good morning all!

  • @redsix5165
    @redsix5165 Před rokem +4

    Jocko- I dont get frustrated easily. Also Jocko- getting frustrated after being late for one workout.

  • @SpectreFleet
    @SpectreFleet Před rokem +6

    Words out; Jocko skipped pullup day🤫

  • @JCImageInc.
    @JCImageInc. Před 11 měsíci

    That thumbnail..... monster. You're the legit shit dude, thanks for the message!

  • @ericreardon486
    @ericreardon486 Před rokem

    He can’t take one day of rest!! What a savage. Get to work when you’re pissed about anything. Nice lesson Jocko man!!

  • @AquitaineIronOak
    @AquitaineIronOak Před rokem

    Gotta process that frustration in the most efficient order to evolve… only when no other option is available is it acceptable to throw down

  • @heretic5579
    @heretic5579 Před rokem +1

    Printers. Jocko and I share a frustration.

  • @Ragnarok691
    @Ragnarok691 Před rokem +8

    The moment you get frustrated and show it, you have just failed. The situation is not going well and it takes perspective to step back and correct course. Getting frustrated does noone any good, it only hurts you and everyone else around you.

    • @Rama_Rama_Rama
      @Rama_Rama_Rama Před rokem +1

      And how to overcome it?

    • @ricardoestrada5878
      @ricardoestrada5878 Před rokem +1

      @@Rama_Rama_Rama worry about the things you can control , not what you can’t. You can’t control the stuff that comes at you but you can control how to react to it

  • @BeeOutside85
    @BeeOutside85 Před rokem

    "....ya know, say hi...."😂

  • @jaywoo5545
    @jaywoo5545 Před rokem +2

    Frustration is a sign that your life is too comfortable

  • @Tacit_Tern
    @Tacit_Tern Před rokem +3

    *Jocko Willink is the Reluctant Leader we need.*
    .....We know you've done enough, but your Nation needs you.
    🇺🇸 *2024* 🦅

  • @arleneliftschrist6240

    I’m so glad I’m not the only one who gets thrown off by someone wanting to talk in the morning like I need wake up/ workout first.

  • @noneofyourbiz6885
    @noneofyourbiz6885 Před rokem +2

    I’m like yeah yeah help me deal with frustration then you realize dude rolls on a hair pin trigger 😂

  • @dcrog69
    @dcrog69 Před rokem +3

    This friggin cliffhanger has me extremely frustrated lol.

    • @nachhilfehvm
      @nachhilfehvm Před rokem

      lmfao true

    • @nachhilfehvm
      @nachhilfehvm Před rokem

      I guess he already said the solution earlier though: Frustration is a distraction and you have to supress this feeling and focus on making the solution work

  • @jayshotta2818
    @jayshotta2818 Před rokem +3

    Jocko pls make more podcast on anger management and self control if you haven't already!

  • @tfranc347
    @tfranc347 Před rokem +2

    Yeah that’s the thing about your day getting messed up. There’s nothing you can do about it now. Just do your best work going forward. If an opportunity comes up, take it, make adjustments, do a quick HIIT workout instead of your scheduled stuff. And just do better tomorrow

  • @levikainalu5825
    @levikainalu5825 Před rokem

    "My wife is kinda stoked I'm talking to her" LMAO

  • @SN00PICUS
    @SN00PICUS Před rokem +3

    How awesome would it be to see John from Warrior Poet Society and these fellas have a talk? SEALS v RANGERS GO!

  • @Bones-cr3nd
    @Bones-cr3nd Před rokem +2

    0700 Your son requests the squat rack, GOOD. I wish my son hit me up with this and I had this problem. Pretty cool your children are already this disciplined.

  • @mandymay653
    @mandymay653 Před rokem +1

    Jocko, first, You are the man and thank you for sharing such amazing knowledge with us. However, with this one, I feel you missed something. What an amazing opportunity you had to workout with your Son and His Friends! For me, a forever whitebelt who studies Martial Arts, it would have been so mutually beneficial. Your son is probably waiting for the day that you say, "sure kiddo, let's do this workout Your Way today." To get that from Jocko, as his Dad, would be like watching Sylvester Stallone in Over the Top all over again. You really have all the time in the world for work, but the time spent with your kiddos is absolutely Priceless. You are an inspiration to me daily and a forever frustrating super annoyingly motivating "GOOD" in the back of my mind when I have to push thru sometimes. (Typically that's with the kids, so to you Sir I say..... GOOD!) Much Love and Respect my Friend!

  • @krisitak
    @krisitak Před rokem

    GOOD.

  • @pyrohead3166
    @pyrohead3166 Před rokem +1

    1:30 to 6 is only 4 1/2 hours jocko, that’s still a definite

  • @danvancool
    @danvancool Před rokem +1

    I laughed pretty good when Jocko said printers. My patience is legendary but printers sets me off pretty bad, something about the why I'm wired. Its also not a personal interaction so I don't work on that "trigger."

  • @jamajnasoares5702
    @jamajnasoares5702 Před rokem

    Me alone aloney first at Work.
    GOOD morning.

  • @johnmadany9829
    @johnmadany9829 Před rokem

    When I started listening to this, I thought I might have some advice for Jocko.
    Of course I was wrong.

  • @AZ12345678900000000
    @AZ12345678900000000 Před rokem

    Story of staying up until 1:30 AM and being tired in the morning makes him very relatable!! finally a human trait!! Lol

  • @bakionigeri6414
    @bakionigeri6414 Před rokem

    Jocko has a son?? Now there are TWO of them! 💪🏻💪🏻

  • @mattwong756
    @mattwong756 Před rokem

    Hey, we’re in good company. 🙏🏼

  • @matthewplank4886
    @matthewplank4886 Před rokem

    Thank you. I'm worse than broke, but will support when operational. I plan to stick with your recommendations. I'm hell when I'm well, but may be too far gone. FOR REAL. ITS BAD MAN. I won't speak of it again.
    Will understand if you want no part of it.
    I liked your laundromat novel

  • @MichaelJames707
    @MichaelJames707 Před rokem

    🙏🏼

  • @axs-xq7cq
    @axs-xq7cq Před rokem +1

    Thank you Jocko for everything that you do, I will try not to say anymore stupid shit anymore too..

    • @axs-xq7cq
      @axs-xq7cq Před rokem

      Unless you all want to join my goddamn little commie terrorist group that I might be making, where the last two words in the name stand for fucken Liberation Front, ha..I never asked for this, but it's what might just have to be..

  • @liftedburblife
    @liftedburblife Před rokem

    Something awesome when youtube glitches out and I'm reviewing a short.And a podcast sound was bleeding through my short then crashed .then went back to my sound after I got it back up and running .

  • @curtismckiernan6640
    @curtismckiernan6640 Před rokem +2

    Sounds like that moment was forgotten to be grateful to even have a garage, let alone an exercise set to put in it.

  • @badsiknius4862
    @badsiknius4862 Před rokem

    I love how the YT captions said "Ninjago" instead of "Jocko" at the end.

  • @samuelgreen8449
    @samuelgreen8449 Před rokem

    This is hilarious lol 😂

  • @jessejones6409
    @jessejones6409 Před rokem +1

    “PC load letter… What tha fuck does that mean?”

  • @christophdollis1955
    @christophdollis1955 Před rokem

    It frustrates me that I haven't heard this before.

  • @kasrashoughi5163
    @kasrashoughi5163 Před rokem +1

    the fact that u even left the workout room after already starting to warm up is one damnnnn sir u got so much discipline to control ur emotion and know that hey even if its out of ur normal routine youll still get it done no question.
    thats leadership right there. Thats so hard man.

  • @tylercoombs1
    @tylercoombs1 Před 9 měsíci

    Jocko don't worry about it, every IT person's worst nightmare is a printer. lol

  • @georgecrisci5440
    @georgecrisci5440 Před rokem

    I was frustrated today and the algorithm said here the fuck ya go

  • @ruzgar767
    @ruzgar767 Před rokem

    LETS GOOOO

  • @MC-24
    @MC-24 Před rokem

    1:52 I don’t know, I’ve done some of my best work after hip-tossing an office chair followed by a full on air-karate spazz attack.

  • @ishadowxhunter-0135
    @ishadowxhunter-0135 Před rokem +2

    Frustrated Jocko is scary Jocko

  • @Dev-ou1nj
    @Dev-ou1nj Před rokem +2

    Jocko got frustrated at chuck Norris once the energy has powered the sun ever since lol

  • @tamcaplan3552
    @tamcaplan3552 Před rokem

    Am not sure why you didn't pull me out of this bad situation 😅 that's frustrated.

  • @andrewromeril7978
    @andrewromeril7978 Před rokem +19

    I'm gonna say it. Jocko needs a pop filter and you GOTTA push Echo's mic up.
    It subliminally gives less weight to the things he says over Jacko's

    • @mamandapanda185
      @mamandapanda185 Před rokem

      Just putting the mic off axis will limit or stop plosives.

  • @gen3kali877
    @gen3kali877 Před rokem

    That face screams, “I want my mint chocolate chip ice cream, and I want it now!”

  • @bobojenkins5805
    @bobojenkins5805 Před rokem +1

    this is my head there are many like but this one is mine and square.

  • @stevengillespie6535
    @stevengillespie6535 Před rokem

    I was trying to put a polesaw away in the garage in the rafters. It kept falling down. On the 3 time I was so pissed I took it outside and threw it like a javelin and shouted fuck you saw! My wife called me a moron. But idk it kinda felt good launching it. I had to pick it up the next day because I refused to do it on the same day I threw it.

  • @edwardseaton4492
    @edwardseaton4492 Před rokem

    Check out what Andrew Huberman says about the connection between frustration and learning.

  • @northern_moss
    @northern_moss Před měsícem

    Man I'm frustrated by the relentless drop in standards in every facet of life. Doesn't matter what it is. Driving, customer service, messy floors and trash in a business, stupid questions, every thing there is man. Wtf is tearing at my brain.

  • @Kieran.Rob53
    @Kieran.Rob53 Před rokem

    What are the chances we could get a link to or the name of the outro tune?

  • @emmanuellerivard756
    @emmanuellerivard756 Před rokem +1

    Jocko, we have the same common foe! I get extremely angry at any printing devices. My own special Hell would be writing all my sins I did in my life in details on Windows Vista, in Comic Sans, then having to print each page with a different printer.