What are the steps to healing after adultery? | Dear Future Wifey Podcast on Tour

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  • @jayb3473
    @jayb3473 Před rokem +106

    It’s sad that people will betray their spouse, but NEVER their friend.

    • @flo-dd5sw
      @flo-dd5sw Před rokem

      Lies!!! Jesus is our friend yet we betray Him daily. Social media is filled with posts about fake friends.

    • @nnena3631
      @nnena3631 Před rokem +5

      Great Point!!!

    • @rawtruth2017
      @rawtruth2017 Před rokem +4

      That’s good ❤ I agree

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 Před rokem +10

      ikr lol they more faithful to the streets and their homeboys !!!

    • @angelinahlynah
      @angelinahlynah Před rokem +5

      We have less responsibility and expectations with our friends compared to our spouses. So there’s pain with betrayal of a friend but it cuts deep when it’s someone you are intimate with; like a spouse.

  • @carlaowenswilson9460
    @carlaowenswilson9460 Před rokem +76

    When she mentioned that she asked God why didn't he say anything about the cheating. I felt the same way. But when I started praying and asking God to show me what was going on, God showed me in dreams. The Word of God says ask and we shall receive.

  • @kayfleming5180
    @kayfleming5180 Před rokem +222

    We need our men to become intentional & committed to being husbands BEFORE they marry. Men are the “householders.” If they’re out of order, our families will be out of order. Heal brothas. Heal.

    • @carlissapine1953
      @carlissapine1953 Před rokem +6

      Yesss... my CURRENT issue... he's now showing signs of immaturity and insecurity; which I'm having to cover him and make up for his lack of abilities PERPETUATING his lacking of security or ability to FEEL confident BUT he won't take THE NECESSARY initiative because HE didn't fully prepare for husbandry

    • @kayfleming5180
      @kayfleming5180 Před rokem +6

      @@carlissapine1953 have you tried marriage counseling, both Spiritual & professional counseling? So many of our men lack the skills to be effective husbands because of the lack of positive role models in our families. I believe counseling is a great tool to help.

    • @carlissapine1953
      @carlissapine1953 Před rokem +6

      @@kayfleming5180 well... he's ward off all counseling with his immature outbursts of yelling & blame shifting ppl at our church have given up on him; professionally... That requires insurance he's not, & he's too damn arrogant TO SPEAK HIS TRUTH right now. 37 years old. Soon to be 38 & just an asshole. I regret taking a FAITHLEAP saying yes to a Heartbreaker.... I have given the benefit of the doubt... but idk... we just need to END; where is the $$ For a divorce when it's needed... lol

    • @kayfleming5180
      @kayfleming5180 Před rokem +1

      So disheartening to hear your story. Many of us have been exactly where you are and now we have peace. I filed for divorce myself, for $185. This was in 2007, so cost was probably a lot lower for a Paralegal. I found a local Paralegal, paid her fee, and she filed the paperwork. My divorce was uncontested, which made the process easier. I kept custody of our daughter, with my ex in agreement and we decided on an amount for child support together. Thankfully I married a man that understood our daughter was priority. Maybe this route could work for you.

    • @zero1188
      @zero1188 Před rokem +1

      But you have to choose the men that want that stuff and stop trying to change them

  • @nnena3631
    @nnena3631 Před rokem +225

    I'm getting REALLY tired of infidelity (on the man's part) being part of the fabric of every long term marriage story...smh

    • @iriemo721
      @iriemo721 Před rokem +45

      Right. It’s almost normalized. It’s sad. And then it gets dressed up and religious-ified and we talk about the strength of the women and how God worked on her heart and the man’s “brokenness” etc etc.
      I do appreciate the honesty of the couples, it’s a very personal encounter that they didn’t have to share.

    • @meshiawarren2387
      @meshiawarren2387 Před rokem +106

      It would be great to hear from couples that have been together a long time with no infidelity in the marriage in the narrative.

    • @MichelleNgome
      @MichelleNgome Před rokem +17

      @@meshiawarren2387 Yes please!

    • @kayfleming5180
      @kayfleming5180 Před rokem +54

      Same here. It’s almost as if it’s a given that cheating will be apart of a long term marriage. 😞 We must change this narrative by being healed BEFORE marriage.

    • @crespeakslife
      @crespeakslife Před rokem +6

      @@iriemo721 whew yes!!!

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před rokem +9

    Why most people cheat it's not because the other person is coming in short or has flaws it's because the cheater is broken ❤

  • @cshell75
    @cshell75 Před rokem +73

    I’m glad God restored these marriages. However, as someone who dealt with infidelity in a past marriage with my daughter’s father, I don’t EVER want to experience that again. Men, please heal. Women, please heal. Do this BEFORE you marry.

  • @mstkfit
    @mstkfit Před rokem +63

    This has me MIND BLOWN!!! I am shook by the creativity of God in how He’s expanding this platform for both the church & the world ! Just BLOWN 😮😮😮😱😱

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  Před rokem +23

      Now you see how I feel. I've been randomly crying at the goodness of God all week

    • @carlissapine1953
      @carlissapine1953 Před rokem +1

      Yessss. . Me too...

    • @reginawheeler966
      @reginawheeler966 Před rokem +1

      Yes Selah God is Amazing I'm with you. I pray God uses me the same way!!To God Be The Glory!!!

    • @mo_love7089
      @mo_love7089 Před rokem

      Yes !!!! His divine providence !!

    • @mo_love7089
      @mo_love7089 Před rokem +1

      @@DearFutureWifey thank you laterras for keeping it LIT and starting this movement.

  • @christinesydney8692
    @christinesydney8692 Před rokem +16

    I never understood why get married just to cheat... when can someone heal when thr hurt is living in their home .. smh just wow so many toxic relationships in this world .sad.

  • @BOOTSY3
    @BOOTSY3 Před rokem +24

    Another way to see it is… someone out there needs to see or hear these types of testimonies. Our marriages are to glorify God. A lot of things we go through as couples ( even infidelity), aren’t about US. It’s about OTHERS seeing GOD work through and in us to draw them closer to Him. God will use whatever and whoever to gain relationship with us.

  • @leesyja4371
    @leesyja4371 Před rokem +22

    After repeated infidelity, several apologies but eventual divorce, how does a woman safely trust and rebound , grow and become grounded?

    • @shanbraz6011
      @shanbraz6011 Před rokem +10

      At some point the focus needs to stop being on how much a woman can heal and the focus bleeds to be heavy on men to actually have character. There’s little true emphasis Widely on men putting in the work to not destroy people they’re in relationship with.

    • @zero1188
      @zero1188 Před rokem

      She need to trust herself first

    • @tatianadaniel3569
      @tatianadaniel3569 Před rokem

      ​@@shanbraz6011This!!!!!! We wouldn't have to KEEP healing if our men didn't KEEP wounding us.

  • @eutropiarhodes20
    @eutropiarhodes20 Před rokem +30

    Forgiveness, breath, love yourself, don't blame yourself, take time to get to know yourself, get a therapist, reset, knowing what you don't want gets you closer to knowing what you want...be open to receive love.

    • @carlissapine1953
      @carlissapine1953 Před rokem

      That's what I'm doing ... praying for A NEW LOVE into MY LIFE... NEW everything

  • @vjesus4083
    @vjesus4083 Před rokem +17

    Can we have long Term relationships that don't have infedility ,I believe they exist. It will also encourage some of us .It seems like this is a problem that visits a lot of homes ,Why, can we for change stop blaming the devil n take responsibility

  • @marissamarchan4101
    @marissamarchan4101 Před rokem +5

    “If you cheat, you have low self esteem.” Say it louder 🗣

  • @beesknees213
    @beesknees213 Před rokem +4

    His first question threw me off. Neither of them said something wasn't being fulfilled in their marriage. I'm glad the husband (the adulterer) quickly cleared that up.

  • @shywonderful81
    @shywonderful81 Před rokem +16

    Another great episode!! For ppl who are “tired” of these conversations re: infidelity….SMH. This topic isn’t being glorified it’s being exposed!!! How can healing begin if it’s not confronted without shame? I’m thankful that these type of platforms exists so ppl can have healthy & functioning relationships. KEEP UP THE AMAZING WORK LATTERAS. Blessings 🙌🏾🙏🏾💜

  • @fefeN777
    @fefeN777 Před rokem +7

    Pastor Eben kinda reminds me of the rapper Master P a little bit! "Make em say unhhhhh my God, God, God!! (Pastor Eben's version) 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @carmelleellis7368
    @carmelleellis7368 Před rokem +2

    WOW!!! I’ve been married for 26 years and infidelity hit my marriage for the first 9 years! (That I know of) It’s like death😪💔. Getting over it is truly Jesus AND therapy! Kudos to the panel💜. Thank you Leterras for all you’re doing for the Kingdom!! Much love and respect for you❤

  • @adrianalizbette12
    @adrianalizbette12 Před rokem +22

    I love these two couples, 🔥🔥🔥❤💯 their testimonies and how they built their relationship after infidelity, the past of how they grew up, why they are the way they are, and of course it wasn't easy to forgive but, truthfully, their love, communication and God's love made them stronger. 🎯💯
    Honestly, I needed this for my Sunday... It was a total blessing.❤🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
    Thank you Laterras.

  • @purpose2grow764
    @purpose2grow764 Před rokem +5

    I'm acting out, You see me acting out, now show me the attention I need... POWERFUL STATEMENT

  • @sarahodhiambo6720
    @sarahodhiambo6720 Před rokem +20

    When you know who you are , you know who you are not ..

  • @LuvJesusinfinity
    @LuvJesusinfinity Před rokem +14

    Omg this was good❤ the authenticity of the panel was amazing…. I can relate on so many levels…. But the most important thing I received is when Karlin (please forgive me if I said her name wrong) she said she didn’t get even because of God that alone gave me chills because that is definitely me

    • @sheridandunn234
      @sheridandunn234 Před rokem +1

      Yes that was the most profound part of this message, don't get even, seek God. If God is in your life he will show you You and work on you and heal you before you can repair the marriage.

    • @carlissapine1953
      @carlissapine1953 Před rokem +3

      I am RIGHT THERE... I DIDN’T AND DON'T WANT TO CHEAT BACK FULL THROTTLE ALL BECAUSE OF GOD... PERIODT. I don't want to lose the Holy Spirit upon my life... for a character flaw in my spouse... GOD ALONE IS WHY I AM STILL HERE... plus I don't have the $$ to pay no lawyer to even go thru the process plus... the line for a court date is at least more than a year out... I think ...

    • @carlissapine1953
      @carlissapine1953 Před rokem +3

      Plus every time...God keeps pricking my heart...

  • @safiyabrown8616
    @safiyabrown8616 Před rokem +4

    Salute to Pastor 👑 Eben Conner! From sponsoring a 2-yr healing journey, to being excited about a podcast coming into the church, to creating such a safe space for people to visibly be LIT. I salute you Sir!
    In Jamaica, they would say of Pastor Eben, "Man a Man!". Wherever that church is, it's GOD BLESSED.

  • @patricebrown777
    @patricebrown777 Před rokem +6

    Forgiveness took place in me watching this. The testimony of these kings about God's intervention brought some understanding and, healing to my heart. Thank You, LORD.❤

  • @eac-guy7272
    @eac-guy7272 Před rokem +5

    Unfortunately some men believe that it's not cheating when he goes out to another woman (or man)and comes back home. Coming back home to them means he still loves his wife

    • @debwilli2031
      @debwilli2031 Před rokem +7

      I bet if the wife steps out on him the same way....his thoughts would change

  • @giftamata
    @giftamata Před rokem +18

    He was attracted to the challenge. He recognized in her what he was lacking. She knew who she was.

  • @vernelllevingston1800
    @vernelllevingston1800 Před rokem +25

    Adultery come from not being truthful In the Beginning Of any relationship Not being truthful of your triggers That can damage any relationship Deal with your triggers Write down what they are So you can deal with them before you get into any relationship Go see a counselor Pride before the destruction If you don't deal with your pride it will bring destruction and tear what you got down And it's hard to build-up again B and be honest in the trenches and the beginnings Let God be in the middle of it

  • @iriemo721
    @iriemo721 Před rokem +16

    Maybe I’m jaded cuz..I was sitting watching like: meh…sounds good. A bunch of catch phrases and wooooo moments. As usual the woman staying is viewed as the work of God in the womans life, or God showing his grace to the man. What a spin.
    Maybe these talking points and cute phrases will help other people in the same situation.
    Erica’s hair cut was cute. So I did find something worth watching 😂

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  Před rokem

      Are you married?

    • @iriemo721
      @iriemo721 Před rokem

      @@DearFutureWifey no I’m not. Why do you ask?

    • @veev25vs
      @veev25vs Před rokem +2

      I felt that way too. These stories help me learn the flags. Cuz I’m tired

    • @cedrickwashington7843
      @cedrickwashington7843 Před rokem

      Thank You so much. Beautiful catch phrases. Women cover is they are so Godly. Believe it or not that’s why they cheated. If a man thinks for a moment they stood idle whether emotional or physical we are poorly mistaken. I was excited when the narrator mention something about this is not about God. Sounds good but reality is you learn allot more from a divorce than you do staying for habit. Glad they were able to weather the storm.

    • @ericasyoung6975
      @ericasyoung6975 Před rokem

      @@iriemo721 some relationships are worth fighting for. Not all, but some.

  • @rhondaclarke2625
    @rhondaclarke2625 Před rokem +1

    I swear, I am learning SO much by watching this podcast. I'm not sure if I'm looking for a relationship or not, but I am so much more informed as to how relationships should work, and what they should look like. These conversations are much needed in our community. We gone grow and heal together, family!

  • @BlackPlightPeople
    @BlackPlightPeople Před rokem +2

    I am believing now that allowing a person to heal may not be for you to be in a relationship or marriage with that person~but for another person because of that person’s purpose and destiny 💜🔥🙏🏿💜.

  • @doshinall
    @doshinall Před rokem +15

    Laterras, let me just say, I am amazed at the fruits of your labor. Talk about manifesting dreams! You are an inspiration as well as the guests on your platform...just nuggets of wisdom throughout. I am an artist, graphic designer, video editor, etc...all the things they said we needed to CLAIM when I was in school. The fact is, I've done very little with my visual gifts. Relationships...well that's why I tuned in the first place! LOVE YOUR CONTENT! I am not shacking up! You had a subscriber here a few episodes back. Just love where your vision has taken you.

  • @chblck
    @chblck Před rokem +7

    This episode was NECESSARY!! I truly appreciate the transparency. Thank you for sharing!

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 Před rokem +16

    What a surprise it’s the husband 😮

    • @t-shindalankston3621
      @t-shindalankston3621 Před rokem +3

      🤣🤣

    • @t-shindalankston3621
      @t-shindalankston3621 Před rokem +7

      You're right, not surprised at all

    • @4LADYSWEET
      @4LADYSWEET Před rokem +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @nnena3631
      @nnena3631 Před rokem +11

      Yea, I'm getting REALLY tired of infidelity (on the man's part) being part of the fabric of every long term marriage story...smh

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  Před rokem +4

      You heard the wife testify of how she cheated in a previous marriage

  • @lingarcia1063
    @lingarcia1063 Před rokem +9

    24 years of marriage... The wife looks like 24. 💃💥💖

  • @MeeMee-fd6lm
    @MeeMee-fd6lm Před rokem +4

    Thank you for this podcast. I'm learning, I'm healing, I'm getting confirmation and I'm being encouraged. My fiancé and I are approaching marriage in our 40's, and our perspective on marriage is different from when we were younger. Thank you to Laterras and the both couples, especially the Kings for your transparency because some of us can learn how to recover and some of us learn avoid and maintain. I mean no two people are the same but you all highlighted some key points that set a foundation for recovery and or avoid the same mistakes.

  • @hellosunshine3647
    @hellosunshine3647 Před rokem +1

    I loved this! These two couples are awesome and I’m so glad their marriages were restored. They seem genuinely happy. I love Rodney’s wife! She is so funny lol but she is so real too! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @Iamkrystamarie
    @Iamkrystamarie Před rokem +2

    This was so so good! ❤

  • @cbembow1
    @cbembow1 Před rokem

    This is awesome! I needed this!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @DivineIntelligence7
    @DivineIntelligence7 Před rokem +2

    I needed this I’m 24 and struggling with some of these things and it’s good to hear these things from older unions

  • @MsMusqi
    @MsMusqi Před rokem +1

    Laterras, once again, these two couples shared their testimonies. Healing, honesty, and forgiveness are necessary.

  • @BeiingCassandra
    @BeiingCassandra Před rokem +1

    Man this truly was a Blessing ❤

  • @fredlwal
    @fredlwal Před rokem +10

    I wish me and mind wife would have done the counseling, things would be so much better.

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 Před rokem +2

      my husband refused counselling...i filed last month; he didnt want the divorce but he didnt wanna work on the marriage

    • @annagrace1159
      @annagrace1159 Před rokem

      @@peacefaith560 I pray that God gave you patience not to move forward with divorce 🙏 💯 Separation with the hope and work of reconciliation is precious to the Lord.

  • @atlantasfaithsmom
    @atlantasfaithsmom Před rokem

    This was outstanding! ❤️

  • @pamk1967
    @pamk1967 Před rokem +1

    It's the" having something to submit To" for ME!!! But God!!! This was another one that shook the rafters Laterras!! Great transparency in those God gave you are guest. Bless you Al💕💕❤️l👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @callmeabutterfly1625
    @callmeabutterfly1625 Před rokem +4

    It would be good to include an answer and question segment that your podcast guest could answer. The questions could be from your audience. Questions could be collected at the hallway mark of the podcast so your staff can choose who could ask their questions. I'm so interested in hearing thoughts from your audience.

  • @RealChicksRock
    @RealChicksRock Před rokem +4

    This episode is going to help so many people. Thanks to the couples for sharing!

  • @sylviahairston-roberts9799

    Yessssss this is a very amazing conversation with everyone on the panel. Thank you EVERYONE 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @josannebritto6898
    @josannebritto6898 Před rokem +2

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭THIS WAS SO GOOD AND NEEDED. I REALLY ENJOYED AND LEARNING FROM THESE COUPLES. I'M JUS SHAPING PRAYING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY TUNE IN AMD WATCH. GREAT PODCAST L.🥰🥰

  • @luvernshepherd9844
    @luvernshepherd9844 Před rokem

    This was good!💯💯💯

  • @shaecarter1837
    @shaecarter1837 Před rokem +1

    Okay this background looks amazing! Bravo Laterras 💐🥳

  • @nanaaddae8623
    @nanaaddae8623 Před rokem

    This episode is very revealing. Thank you all for being so vulnerable! ❤️ You've blessed my heart

  • @gwendolynwhigham6834
    @gwendolynwhigham6834 Před rokem +1

    My God his was one of the best podcast. Thank you to God be the glory.

  • @nexus3403
    @nexus3403 Před rokem

    This was sooooo good! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💕

  • @cealy6669
    @cealy6669 Před rokem +2

    There were so many gems and nuggets in this episode. God is gentle. He gives us so many opportunities to come clean about a thing.

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před rokem +1

    Women thrive in clarity , tell her the vision make it plain to her and she will help you get to the vision , in encouragement in prayer in emotional support ❤

  • @chosen4206
    @chosen4206 Před rokem +2

    This Was so amazing Laterras!🔥🔥🔥 God has truly blessed you...Sooooo beautiful Thank u sir...What a wonderful Panel absolutely beautiful💕💗❤beautifully done!

  • @lolablake4544
    @lolablake4544 Před rokem

    I love this segment ❤Thank You Latteras ❤

  • @brendabenavidez1910
    @brendabenavidez1910 Před rokem

    This was so amazing thank you guys for sharing .. much love and many ,more years together

  • @kimhobbs678
    @kimhobbs678 Před rokem +4

    This was an amazing podcast today!! Hallelujah praise the good Lord for this word!! I appreciate you Laterras first and your family guest for the transperancy and courage to speak and love 💕 I look forward to being a guest on your platform one day to speak and heal others as well

  • @reginawheeler966
    @reginawheeler966 Před rokem

    Yes It was Amazing!!!🦋💖🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @JustUdoro
    @JustUdoro Před rokem +9

    This is such a meaningful watch/listen for me. I may never have my questions answered, but my healing is continuing because of God’s gracious re-focus on who created me and for what purpose. Wow…oh to be in this room if y’all (podcast) ever come to Houston…heck I may just make a trip of it and head to Dallas next time. My goodness! Okay, back to watching…🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  Před rokem +7

      I plan on coming to Houston when a church extends the offer.

    • @JustUdoro
      @JustUdoro Před rokem +5

      @@DearFutureWifey oooooo I’ll see who I know!! This needs to be in HOUSTON! 💯❤️

    • @optimalscore
      @optimalscore Před rokem +3

      Yes please come to H-Town....it'll be a turn out for sure!!!!!!

  • @InTheRecoveryRoom
    @InTheRecoveryRoom Před rokem +2

    Wow.. I’m so encouraged to see REAL relationships.. with open authentic dialogue !!!
    #bravofuturewifey

  • @mccbern06
    @mccbern06 Před 2 měsíci

    This is so needed for men to hear! Thank you.

  • @jehannedufresne3998
    @jehannedufresne3998 Před rokem +1

    I have 2 words: Aw-mazing!! 👏🏽 👏🏽

  • @peachykeen4242
    @peachykeen4242 Před rokem +4

    I really enjoyed this session. Very transparent and uplifting. 😊

  • @manifestationofgod1379

    Thank you Mr. Laterras!!!

  • @MSG9876
    @MSG9876 Před rokem

    This is a blessing...praise God

  • @quanlynn6128
    @quanlynn6128 Před rokem +4

    ❤❤❤ LOVED IT ❤

  • @andreamiller9748
    @andreamiller9748 Před rokem +5

    Letteras, you never disappoint! I love these discussions. I hope you know what a blessing this is to so many couples. Your guests are brave and will be blessed for being so transparent with their lives/marriages. Much love to all of you!💞

  • @4LADYSWEET
    @4LADYSWEET Před rokem +19

    🏡 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
    If men are the leaders of our households…is it then ok for women to follow the leader and cheat as well?

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  Před rokem +2

      Hilarious!!!

    • @jess_is
      @jess_is Před rokem +2

      Yes it is!

    • @debwilli2031
      @debwilli2031 Před rokem +1

      Never lower your standards or become immoral to settle a score. It's best to leave the circumstance. Always go high. You will be favored

    • @tatianadaniel3569
      @tatianadaniel3569 Před rokem

      I've been saying that very same thing for a while now. Men want to be the leader but don't want us to follow them down the path of bad behavior🙃

  • @reginawilson5868
    @reginawilson5868 Před rokem

    This was awesome

  • @shawncolefdi
    @shawncolefdi Před rokem +3

    I appreciate the couples being transparent and being able to keep love ❤️ alive for better or worse no matter how others may think and salute to the moderator for keeping this free counseling by the word of others testimonies ❤❤❤❤

  • @lyricscott1811
    @lyricscott1811 Před rokem

    This was good ❤

  • @sheridandunn234
    @sheridandunn234 Před rokem +1

    I love this. I pray he could bring this to our church one day. I watch the podcast all the time, only being married for 3 years this helps me through it.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  Před rokem

      Where is your church?

    • @sheridandunn234
      @sheridandunn234 Před rokem

      @@DearFutureWifey The Movement Fellowship Church in Birmingham, AL with Pastor Kris Erskine

  • @veronicacollins7453
    @veronicacollins7453 Před rokem

    I wasn't going to watch this, wow I've truly enjoyed this !!!

  • @ahsamone7691
    @ahsamone7691 Před rokem +1

    I love this and these couples too

  • @cleanup_crew3582
    @cleanup_crew3582 Před rokem +3

    Man you did it again for me lol....Idk who is better, you or Hasani Pettiford and his wife. Yall are always on point. This episode was god tier and both of these couples were so helpful and its good to see ppl thriving after heartbreak. Cheating/adultery is just not talked about enough and it happens constantly.

  • @tamarathomas5009
    @tamarathomas5009 Před rokem

    Amazing!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @niquap7764
    @niquap7764 Před rokem +8

    I pray you find the woman God ordained just for you. 🙏🏽

  • @shareenladd1048
    @shareenladd1048 Před rokem +1

    Very good! Loved seeing the men take responsibility ❤

  • @veronicacollins7453
    @veronicacollins7453 Před rokem

    Great guest!!! Love the laughs, the honesty is great, keep it up, your gonna have a TV show soon !!!

  • @trulyblessed5786
    @trulyblessed5786 Před rokem

    Wow, so Lit!

  • @meshiawarren2387
    @meshiawarren2387 Před rokem +16

    The word "King" in referencing men is being used a lot. Some men want that "King" Title and they are peasants, and do not want to learn and grow. All Kingdoms Have Standards.

    • @teecharee6069
      @teecharee6069 Před rokem +4

      Clowns wearing crowns

    • @meshiawarren2387
      @meshiawarren2387 Před rokem +4

      Need clowns wearing crowns on a T shirt. Lol.. this is not burger King.. you can't always have it your way..

  • @mikag1137
    @mikag1137 Před rokem +3

    Simply Beautiful and Evident that God truly Restores and How they Endured as their Vow's were being tested. I have discovered that We are not Aware of God's Love until we are faced to do so Unto Each Other as He does Unto Us Daily to Love Unconditionally. Truly they have Mastered The Vow"For Better or Worse" Of Season. What an Honor May their Marriages Be Blessed with Joy and Love and Protection they Deserve within their Covenant.

  • @brendabenavidez1910
    @brendabenavidez1910 Před rokem

    Amen thank you God for Pastor Conner

  • @tialaboard3222
    @tialaboard3222 Před rokem +7

    Inspiring couples this gave a perspective that sometimes infidelity can make a marriage stronger because to get better, heal, and grow accountability has to first take place. Seeing this episode makes me realize that infidelity is nothing to fear in a marriage if it takes place, but should be taken as a symptom to heal from if we properly examine our partner’s past trauma, and they are willing to do the work to restore the marriage. Job well done…I also want to add how much Erica reminds me so much of Sarah Jakes Roberts all down to the sound of her voice. It’s honestly a little scary be blessed 😇

  • @cassandragriffin1489
    @cassandragriffin1489 Před rokem +2

    Awesome couples. I love how they Grew up and not stay stuck in there Mess.

  • @ladytruckershawnaboo975

    Hey my friend. I love what you are doing. God bless you. Soon the name of this podcast shall change to create room for your beautiful God fearing Woman of God!!! Many blessings!!!!

  • @salyndaowens2637
    @salyndaowens2637 Před rokem +1

    Lol. My husband and I always kiss before we leave the presence of one another and when we return. To God be the glory.

  • @safiyabrown8616
    @safiyabrown8616 Před rokem

    I'm not shacking. Never been a shacker 😇
    Subscribed 👍🏽. Newbie in the game 🎯, but here.

  • @kingdomtalk3264
    @kingdomtalk3264 Před rokem +1

    Bruh this was much needed bc you know my story!

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před rokem

    LT be unpacking staff 😂😂🎉

  • @timbawangu3038
    @timbawangu3038 Před rokem +2

    😂😂😂😂"Let's unpack that" that's so accurate

  • @MzSeptember
    @MzSeptember Před rokem +1

    This just jumped into my Spirit 🤔
    I pray that my Future Husband is watching Dear Future Wifey. 🙌🏾

  • @brendabenavidez1910
    @brendabenavidez1910 Před rokem

    Congratulation on the 24 years and many more

  • @VonnieVon86
    @VonnieVon86 Před rokem

    Just LOVE❤❤❤

  • @pennycandyshack6762
    @pennycandyshack6762 Před rokem

    Awesome Awesome...Amen.

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77Blue Před rokem

    What has materialized with the Lit society! Is it evolving? Or was it just a season

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77Blue Před rokem

    YEP THAT IS THE FAMILY I COME FROM LOUD PASSION AND RAW

  • @BlackPlightPeople
    @BlackPlightPeople Před rokem

    Some of us are so thirsty that we do not want to ask questions or we ignore the truth that is in plain sight.

  • @beautyforashes5297
    @beautyforashes5297 Před rokem +3

    my husbands addiction to marijuana almost cost him his life. Marijuana opened the door to lust, and gave birth to and affair. He didnt get to enjoy the affair, because the same day I found out and almost killed him. Were currently in the process of healing and restoration, but its definitely not easy.