Blythe Baird- "She Doesn't Need to See the Menu"

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  • čas přidán 26. 01. 2014
  • Thank you to Germ Magazine for publishing my poem in their February issue! This one is a slam called "She Doesn't Need to See the Menu." www.germmagazine.com/she-doesn...
    Original version on my tumblr, blythebrooklyn.tumblr.com/post...
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Komentáře • 182

  • @diz.420
    @diz.420 Před 7 lety +1156

    It's crazy to hear the difference between this and "When The Fat Girl Gets Skinny." They're so similar, but so different. I love this. And I'm so sorry you had to go through so much. You're so beautiful and strong.

    • @madde8509
      @madde8509 Před 6 lety +3

      Dizzelez Ynf they are the same person. Please don’t think I’m being rude not trying to.

    • @alyssawinters6745
      @alyssawinters6745 Před 6 lety +13

      This one was a rough draft of when the fat girl gets skinny and when the fat girl gets skinny was the final copy

  • @ameliakopper3145
    @ameliakopper3145 Před 7 lety +622

    Is this the rough draft of "When the fat girl gets skinny"?

    • @BlytheB
      @BlytheB  Před 7 lety +319

      yep!

    • @emilynielsen575
      @emilynielsen575 Před 7 lety +59

      I LOVE IT. THANK YOU FOR POSTING THIS I LOVE SEEING BOTH OF THEM WOW

  • @maddyrab9322
    @maddyrab9322 Před 5 lety +133

    “Breakfast is plain oatmeal no milk flavoured by tap water” seems like a simple line but I’ve never related to something more

  • @theradicalace
    @theradicalace Před 6 lety +232

    hearing similar lines from this and "when the fat girl gets skinny" is chilling

  • @tiarenee5514
    @tiarenee5514 Před 7 lety +279

    i am bawling. I'm in recovery currently and this hit home. Me and my friend got sick together. We encouraged each other to stop eating. She was skinny. I was not. It's been four years now and I was 96 pounds 4 months ago. Now, I'm 110. I'm getting better. I was about to skip dinner tonight, about to relapse. You just encouraged me beyond explanation. Thank you.

    • @haleybain8915
      @haleybain8915 Před 7 lety +28

      I hope you're doing FUCKING WONDERFUL.

    • @beakeller4317
      @beakeller4317 Před 6 lety +8

      Bless your soul you are so brave and a fighter it's inspiring 💓

  • @yasmeen5931
    @yasmeen5931 Před 8 lety +660

    Do you plan on making a book with all your poems? I would totally buy it

    • @BlytheB
      @BlytheB  Před 8 lety +43

      +yasmeen zainul i already have one out that is available for purchase HERE: whereareyoupressstore.com/collections/frontpage/products/pre-order-give-me-a-god-i-can-relate-to

    • @taylorhall4429
      @taylorhall4429 Před 8 lety +47

      +Blythe B I bought your book, and it's my favorite thing ever. I carry it around everywhere and read it all the time.

    • @brittneyseitz4171
      @brittneyseitz4171 Před 8 lety +18

      +Blythe B will you be getting more of your book in stock?

    • @lanakanu2460
      @lanakanu2460 Před 7 lety +7

      Blythe B why cant i find it anymore

  • @laurenx4603
    @laurenx4603 Před 7 lety +159

    I feel like this poem evolved into "when the fat girl gets skinny" either way they are both great.

  • @iSmilexDD
    @iSmilexDD Před 10 lety +213

    I literally cannot get over how perfect this is. Huge support

    • @BlytheB
      @BlytheB  Před 10 lety +29

      wowza. thanks girl! i appreciate it!

  • @draculoser2280
    @draculoser2280 Před 8 lety +142

    your are one of the few sublime poets who make me cry through an entire poem and recite each word as if they were already my own. thank you for having a voice that is strong enough to speak for more than one soul.

  • @jalexlucker8312
    @jalexlucker8312 Před 9 lety +77

    I want to show this to my girlfriend in hopes it will encourage her to recover. I'm trying everything I can to help her, and let her know how beautiful she is everyday, and do anything I can to get her to recover. I'm a bit nervous about her reaction, but... I need her to recover.

  • @MrMurphytomato13
    @MrMurphytomato13 Před 7 lety +52

    My best friend has anorexia and this made me think about her and I can't stop crying

  • @ashleyallensworth5646
    @ashleyallensworth5646 Před 2 lety +4

    I've listened to When the Fat Girl Gets Skinny so many times. It's fascinating to see how this poem evolved and how her confidence grew. I hope you're still healing.

  • @Grace-cf5zy
    @Grace-cf5zy Před 9 lety +45

    This and Girl Code are breathtaking.

  • @chasingthestarsxoxo1084
    @chasingthestarsxoxo1084 Před 6 lety +13

    “If you are not recovering, you are dying.”
    I felt that😭

  • @masayrs
    @masayrs Před 2 lety +1

    I first found your work years ago when I was deep in the depths of my disorder. I’m almost two years clean now, and I still come back every few months to remind myself why I’m doing this. Thank you

  • @cza977
    @cza977 Před 9 lety +40

    I just discovered your poetry tonight. Damn, your words really cut to the bone.
    Keep it up.

  • @daniellanunez4121
    @daniellanunez4121 Před 8 lety +17

    so so powerful. ive never had someone explain my anorexia so perfectly. this was so touching

  • @neurotransit
    @neurotransit Před 7 lety +16

    Ahhhh the most talented poet I have disccovered this year!

  • @rjsimpson1795
    @rjsimpson1795 Před 6 lety +11

    "If you aren't recovering you are dying."

  • @OpheliaCyber
    @OpheliaCyber Před 10 lety +14

    This is one of the most moving and touching pieces I have ever heard. This is beautiful Blythe. You have a true talent. I sincerely hope that you can finish your poem with 10.

  • @maggieh3587
    @maggieh3587 Před 8 lety +10

    Your poems are a blessing to this world, and to me. I don't know how many times I've gone to these videos when I'm struggling again. You're such an inspiration

  • @patriceanderson4661
    @patriceanderson4661 Před 7 lety +10

    "heal" is not a word anyone throws around enough!!! It was powerful to hear that one word. Not everyone has had to have the same issues to understand it... but it's something everyone has had to do at some point to some degree. It needs to become the focus so the "getting sick" doesn't have to be anymore :o)

  • @memerivera1876
    @memerivera1876 Před 8 lety +3

    This is so powerful im literally crying omg astounding job !

  • @littlebeansrebornnursery7678

    i jusr discovered your channel and im in tears at how much your works relate to me....i feel like you're talking directly to me. thank you.

  • @piposnake8008
    @piposnake8008 Před 8 lety

    your poems bring tears to my eyes thank you for posting these it hurts how badly these relate i hope youre well

  • @elitedragonslayer_3.143

    turning this strength you've obtained into an art is an amazing thing. I've been there and many other places, and I truly appreciate your works. about to watch some more, so thank you!!

  • @julia-7129
    @julia-7129 Před 7 lety

    I've been watching your poems and I'm so in love with you. I hope you find recovery. I'm so proud of your strength

  • @emikelscooters610
    @emikelscooters610 Před 7 lety

    i listened to your videos and fell in love. your poems are so powerful with such powerful lines. thank you for being such an inspiration and amazing person and strong voice

  • @anagarrett8871
    @anagarrett8871 Před 4 lety +2

    I never thought I would cry over a poem

  • @cloe56
    @cloe56 Před 4 lety +1

    So much talent! all her poems give me goosebumps x

  • @neivedawson7674
    @neivedawson7674 Před 8 lety +2

    I have been watching my best friend get sick, thank you for this, it makes me feel hopeful for her, our, future. I hope I get to watch her recover. Thank you.

  • @lisamckeen6433
    @lisamckeen6433 Před 5 lety

    This is so amazing, thank you for putting this out there. It helps me cope with my problems

  • @nickybee800
    @nickybee800 Před 7 lety +1

    Omg I absolutely LOVE YOU! *bravo!*. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful poem with us!

  • @chriscocookingspray9266
    @chriscocookingspray9266 Před 4 lety +1

    Hearing this and any of her recent slam poetry just shows how much she's changed. Her voice is so incredibly different now, it was soft in this video and gentle but now it's rough and loud and powerful.

  • @adibmir9791
    @adibmir9791 Před 8 lety +4

    I needed this. Thank you.

  • @butterflyhope5182
    @butterflyhope5182 Před 7 lety +1

    In tears. That was so powerful. I relate to your words and emotions so much. I wish to one day reach a place of healing as well. I hope you are feeling strong in your recovery. You are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing your experiences and talent.

  • @sherylmonks3401
    @sherylmonks3401 Před 10 lety +8

    You're amazing, Blythe. Keep writing. Send us more work soon.

  • @livfrankspauline2787
    @livfrankspauline2787 Před 7 lety

    Thank you for this! This is so good:). I love your work so much!!

  • @koayleebear4041
    @koayleebear4041 Před 6 lety

    I really needed this. You have helped me start the road to recovery. Thank you so much.

  • @user-ys1gl8wd5f
    @user-ys1gl8wd5f Před 7 lety

    You are so strong.
    Exactly at this moment you are a great inspiration. I am sorry for everything you have got through. Hope that you feel much better with every day passes. Thank you!

  • @carmensierra3935
    @carmensierra3935 Před 7 lety +3

    your work reads like a mirror to my childhood
    all my diaries then journals to blogs mostly Tumblr and xanga
    proana
    depression
    unworthy
    lonely
    all i internalized and kept private until i found you and your button poetry pieces
    shocked by how similar our lives were
    saddened that it is so
    thank you so much for puyting your work out for the public
    Thats brave and honorable
    inspiration :)
    thank you

  • @xtonibx5770
    @xtonibx5770 Před 5 lety +3

    I love how she said "If you aren't recovering, you are dying" in both this and "When The Fat Girl Gets Skinny"
    I love all of the similarities between the two poems. Wow.

  • @skylarlankford4105
    @skylarlankford4105 Před 7 lety +2

    I have absolutely fallen in love with you and your poetry !

  • @lilsnowball99
    @lilsnowball99 Před 9 lety +7

    Im crying... Ohmygosh that was amazing

  • @randomhandle09.
    @randomhandle09. Před 7 lety

    I love your poems sooo much. Your an amazing inspiration.

  • @AspieAnswers
    @AspieAnswers Před 6 lety +1

    You're an amazing young woman with so much to offer. Sorry to hear that you had to endure this. Yet, we can see that you're a survivor. I wish you all the best for your health and future. May years be a brighter one for you through all the success and opportunities to come. I would like to see if you create a book through all of your poetry...

  • @mattiashammarstrom8605

    Wow. God damn it. I've been a fan for a while, but this swept me off my feet completely. Shed a few tears, and not ashamed to say so. Subscribed!

  • @frightfulfaces3019
    @frightfulfaces3019 Před 10 lety +4

    This is so fantastic wow

  • @izzybohn7521
    @izzybohn7521 Před 7 lety +12

    this is so great watching the growth between this video and "when the fat girl gets skinny" incredible

  • @lovelykat3578
    @lovelykat3578 Před 7 lety

    you have literally the best poems and voice ohmygod

  • @edin9
    @edin9 Před 7 lety

    I absolutely adore you! Your words have so much power. You truly are amazing

  • @blackeyedbutterfly
    @blackeyedbutterfly Před 7 lety

    so beautiful. thank you for sharing!

  • @avianaembry1536
    @avianaembry1536 Před 3 lety

    I'm crying watching this. I've been through this.

  • @_mrshym3ll0w0_7
    @_mrshym3ll0w0_7 Před 4 lety +1

    I love her poems

  • @X0XbatgirlX0X
    @X0XbatgirlX0X Před rokem

    It’s been 8 years and I still think about this poem

  • @ljamesgets
    @ljamesgets Před 6 lety

    I'm scraping the walls of my head away to try and find the words to explain how this poem made me feel. There is nothing that flies so fast to the heart than hearing your own story told back to you in someone else's language. Thank you for turning tumbling thoughts into a lifeline. You are so talented: this poem has moved me so deeply. I cannot say thank you enough.

    • @Freegreenwanderer
      @Freegreenwanderer Před 6 lety

      Hey, if you like spoken word you may like my stuff. Check it out and let me know what you think! :)

  • @elizabethmack7877
    @elizabethmack7877 Před 6 lety

    This is so powerful i love it

  • @kimberlyfeist7169
    @kimberlyfeist7169 Před 7 lety +1

    I absolutely love this!!!!!

  • @kbbandtees8112
    @kbbandtees8112 Před 7 lety

    this is so beautiful

  • @alexandra.adventures
    @alexandra.adventures Před 6 lety

    Absolutely incredible. Thank you.

  • @sashamutesi8498
    @sashamutesi8498 Před 10 lety +3

    This Gives Me Vertigo❤️❤️

  • @iBe_Sarah
    @iBe_Sarah Před 7 lety +1

    I cried. Thank you. ❤️

  • @ShanTASTIC57
    @ShanTASTIC57 Před 7 lety

    Good God-finally another much needed artist for our time. Bravo.

  • @anniegolding1306
    @anniegolding1306 Před 8 lety

    I love your poems

  • @amandameth6365
    @amandameth6365 Před 8 lety

    Thank you, Blythe

  • @butterflybri14able
    @butterflybri14able Před 8 lety +2

    im so glad i found this

  • @xodancerxo312
    @xodancerxo312 Před 7 lety +1

    this is so powerful wow

  • @meaganday846
    @meaganday846 Před 8 lety

    Wow this is powerful! Much support. Thank you

  • @beearmy4823
    @beearmy4823 Před 7 lety

    This made me cry but I love it thank you

  • @ip79
    @ip79 Před 6 lety +2

    "if you aren't recovering , you're dying" that fucking hit me like a truck

  • @miriagreyhaven9460
    @miriagreyhaven9460 Před 7 lety

    Crying...
    Thank you so much

  • @xxo4914
    @xxo4914 Před 7 lety +2

    even the way you read it is moving and powerful ❤❤❤

    • @Freegreenwanderer
      @Freegreenwanderer Před 6 lety

      Hey, if you like spoken word you may like my stuff. Check it out and let me know what you think! :)

  • @nadiawolowik8582
    @nadiawolowik8582 Před 5 lety +1

    Hi Blythe. My name is Nadia, and I am 15 years old. When I was twelve, I got sick. I stayed this way for 2 years, and I was dying. I finally got help, and I can say that I’m finally recovering. I want to tell you that your poetry is one of the constants through everything I want to. There were nights where that little girl I used to be thought she should just give up, die. Thank you, for giving me something, something you didn’t even realize you had-something to hold onto. Thank you. I won’t ever forget all you’ve done for me.

  • @bellepover2470
    @bellepover2470 Před 6 lety

    You are so strong. This poem is a comfort to me, thank you.

  • @sarahharwood3380
    @sarahharwood3380 Před 10 lety +5

    This is amazing, well done darling

    • @Freegreenwanderer
      @Freegreenwanderer Před 6 lety

      Hey, if you like spoken word you may like my stuff. Check it out and let me know what you think! :)

  • @tunmiseakinyemi1762
    @tunmiseakinyemi1762 Před 8 lety

    You are such an inspiration!

  • @queenofspades1309
    @queenofspades1309 Před 7 lety

    *snaps* BEAUTIFUL!

  • @fareehashah1138
    @fareehashah1138 Před 6 lety

    i love this

  • @shawnneiland4988
    @shawnneiland4988 Před 7 lety

    Love your poetry so so much, really inspirational love you

  • @finnsparks8427
    @finnsparks8427 Před 4 lety +1

    The only language you speak in is numbers
    If you are not recovering you are dying
    This is beautiful and can save lives

  • @gothkyle7362
    @gothkyle7362 Před 6 lety

    The intensity of her live shows are amazing

  • @vxrxnx__5809
    @vxrxnx__5809 Před 7 lety

    beautiful.

  • @tessa6377
    @tessa6377 Před 4 lety +1

    I remember watching this video for the first time... it won my subscription

  • @daniellelmftcatp3890
    @daniellelmftcatp3890 Před 3 lety

    WOW, wow, wow. I could feel this. I could feel your angst and heartache. I could feel your soul step outside of yourself, and push you aside and begin to speak for you, when you couldn’t.
    This is powerful fellow Aquarian (Feb 7 here). I feel stupid I have not heard of you, yet angry that the entire world has not heard you.
    I have big news for you, you said “you will be a writer”, guess what, you ARE a writer. A beautiful, deep and very respected writer. You see, you write about things others want to push under the rug, and that is part of the allure and beauty of your work.
    You are healing every day. Every day. Thank you for sharing this profound poem.

  • @sabakhalid2056
    @sabakhalid2056 Před 3 lety

    Am crying 😭

  • @stoptalking85
    @stoptalking85 Před 10 lety +7

    Great job!

  • @lorelaiharris571
    @lorelaiharris571 Před 7 lety

    Amazing.

  • @gracelangford4794
    @gracelangford4794 Před 7 lety

    I lost it. This really spoke to me.

  • @eliedgecomb4903
    @eliedgecomb4903 Před rokem

    You don’t know what a gift this is.

  • @MichelleTorez
    @MichelleTorez Před 7 lety

    you are my favourite modern poet xxx subscribed

  • @katrinashaw2195
    @katrinashaw2195 Před 8 měsíci

    I love that this the before if ‘when the fat girl gets skinny’ i’ve changed poems as well and revamped them. It felt comforting to see another artist do that.

  • @hayleerose2988
    @hayleerose2988 Před 7 lety +1

    please look into making a book of all your poems.. you inspire me so damn much...

  • @alanaryan3490
    @alanaryan3490 Před 3 lety

    I remember watching this on repeat in high school and my eating disorder was on full blast. I remember thinking "I won't ever get better". Well, nearly 3 years later, and I'm getting better. I'm still recovering, but the yellow pigment faded, my veins don't bulge anymore, I can finish meals, I no longer feel happy with an empty stomach.
    I guess what I'm trying to say is, it does get better. And I hope this comment reaches at least one person who is still struggling to believe that they'll ever get better. Hang in there and keep fighting 💜

  • @prettygirliii7008
    @prettygirliii7008 Před 7 lety

    Crying. I love this, I love you. Subscribing

  • @wdwgirl9206
    @wdwgirl9206 Před 4 lety +1

    It is Baby Blythe! 😍

  • @kartermcclendon6129
    @kartermcclendon6129 Před 8 lety

    I love you queen B everything will be ok you are amazing

  • @letsgetcancer7265
    @letsgetcancer7265 Před 7 lety

    I love her hair. The cut and color are perfect for her face. She's so pretty.

  • @katelynmccorkle9902
    @katelynmccorkle9902 Před 7 lety

    Went unnoticed*

  • @lorelaiharris571
    @lorelaiharris571 Před 7 lety

    Love!!!!!!!!

  • @elisha_jane
    @elisha_jane Před 7 lety

    Thank you.