Being Very Honest About Something - Remrov's World of Autism #85
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- čas přidán 14. 02. 2019
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In this video I'm giving an update about how everything is going. And I have to get something off my chest.
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Your videos are so very insightful and the listening world is grateful that you speak to them.
Thank you very much!
I've come to realise that it is a strong impulse in NTs to try and make everyone all the same. I don't think they intend to hurt us, but I think they really don't realise how much it hurts us. We simply want our difficulties to be recognised, and we're not that bothered about how different we are to other people (not as much as NTs anyway.) So, I really understand where you're coming from. What we can do is continue explaining what it's really like for us. Eventually, people will understand.
Indeed, I totally agree with you. Thank you very much!
Nice to see you Remrov! I think its so important to talk about and share your feelings and everyday struggles with autism. People can learn so much from you. By the way, you really look wonderful!❤
Thank you very much Robin!
I am so proud of you for speaking up about this issue. I am NT myself, but I work with individuals on the spectrum and I agree that it is very frustrating when NT individuals try to force everyone into a box instead of embracing our differences. Yes, everyone struggles at work and in life but not everyone handles or reacts to those struggles in the same way or at the same intensity.
Do what makes you comfortable and please continue to educate the public about autism.
Thank you very much. Everybody would agree that person in a wheelchair has more difficulties, or that it is even impossible, getting up the stairs. And everybody has understanding for that, because the wheelchair is visible. We as autistic people have more difficulties with daily things that come easy, or easier, for NT's, but because people don't see our 'wheelchair' people tend to dismiss our difficulties. And this is extremely frustrating. The person in the wheelchair has, because he always has to push himself forward, developed great muscle strength in his arms. And this should be embraced and could be used as an asset, rather than expecting him doing a job that requires getting up the stairs 100 times a day.
Wishing you the best, Remrov.
Thank you :)
Here's hoping they can find a spot for you. You deserve the best❤ i know it's easier said than done but try not to stress. Everything will work out. You're writing such a brave story! From watching all your videos, I sometimes feel with these last few videos it seems like you're taking a lot on your shoulders and I know how much more stressful that can feel. Talking to us can give you an outlet in a way, even when you get the not so positive comments. I know there's many of us who would love to help keep you positive and motivated to continue to inspire us. My 7 year old daughter loves to watch your videos with me and I can't think of many better people to inspire her.
Thank you very much Marianne!
You are amazing. I learn from your posts, i enjoy hearing your updates, i am an absolute fan of your art, and although my diagnosis is ADD, i identify with a lot of the aspies 'tickboxes'; I really appreciate hearing your experiences and views. I'm also part of the lgbtqi community.
So i'm totally only on the fringes of your experiences, and i'm additionally lucky that my antidepressants have had a HUGE positive impact on my ADD...(not sure if i'll ever be comfortable with eye-contact, though!).
But Ive shared the above because i want YOU to know that people are 'out there' looking up to you. (Wow, you are so brave) seeing who You are, and maybe relating to a small part of your journey.
But mainly i want to say that, as a depressive, i encounter the mindset you are speaking of, often. Even if its not spoken, its on people's faces. 'Everyone feels sad sometimes. Pull yourself together. get a grip' etc.
What i have eventually found is that a) i do hide behind a mask, most of the time. i'm not brave enough to drop that, but b) there is a biblical phrase (I am not religious, it is not my personal belief system, but the phrase helps me); "Forgive them, (lord - but for me, its addressed to myself), for they no not what they do"
Ok, thats way too long, thanks for reading this far, you are awesome. Those 'nay-sayers' can really knock a person hard. They don't get it. You've got this.
I hope things work out for you. Please don’t stress out too much.
Thank you very much Jeff :)
Pleases take easy don't stess to much!
Thank you :)
Stay strong Remrov.. Just out of question.. Do you like mechanical things..
Yes I do like mechanical things :)
Awesome Remrov.. It is just a suggestion..but there are a shortage of pinsetter mechanics a real shortage.. Its not as loud as it seems on my videos..my phone makes it seem louder than it really is..plus most bowling alleys have more modern machines..that are so much quieter.. You work by yourself most always..no experience required..they will train you.. You have free roam of the machine room and shop..no time requirements..take breaks when you want.. It mostly involves watching things run..and responding to service calls.. It may not suite you..but its worth a shot.. Personally l love it..lm left alone..l dont have to deal with the public..and its decent pay..
@@andynorvell4953 Cool, that's a great idea! How much is the pay actually, if I may ask?
Well its not bad..you will never get rich.. I only make 12 per hour.. But that has to do with where l live.. Most make 14 to 18..