❤️Common Questions When Dating A Vietnamese Woman. Part #1
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- čas přidán 27. 08. 2020
- Common Questions When First Dating a Vietnamese Woman... Part #1
Hi, this is Vanessa Ho and in this video, I’m going to answer common questions I’ve been getting from you and other loyal viewers of this channel about dating a mature Vietnamese woman.
Before I jump into the Q&A, I want to express my gratitude and thanks to you for the amazing feedback and word of mouth you’ve been providing.
If you still have questions after watching this video, please comment below and I’ll answer them in the next video.
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Question #1: Does race matter when dating a Vietnamese woman?
My response is this: it used to be a bigger issue 10 to 20 years ago but now, interracial marriages are much, much more common. Having said that, you still want to acknowledge that you’re marrying an adult that was raised in another culture so keep that in mind as you develop your relationship.
Question#2: Do II need to learn Vietnamese to date a Vietnamese woman?
The short answer is no. Few Vietnamese women would expect you to learn their language because it’s not an easy language to learn. Having said that, if you can learn basic phrases or at least learn the major customs, that will score major brownie points. Of course, if you are willing to invest the time and energy to learn Vietnamese, then you’ll have a deeper appreciation and closeness to her.
Question #3: Are there major differences between women from the North and the South?
Broadly speaking, the people in the North are more reserved and more formal. For example, when saying hello in Vietnamese to an older person in Vietnamese, it’s more common to fold your arms and bow. Likewise, the table manners are more strict.
For example, if you’re a guest, you’re expected to wait until everybody sits down before you do. Likewise, if you’re the youngest person at the table, you’re expected to serve rice to all the others at the table even if you’re in the middle of eating your meal. However, to keep it simple, I would say these are fairly small compared to the common values such as respecting elders.
Question #4: Can I stay in Vietnam longer than 30 days at a time?
The standard visa only allows for 30 day stays as of August, 2020. However, we have a business partner that can help you get a visa for longer than 30 days. Just reach out and I can connect you with them.
Question #5 (The last question in this video): How do I show that I’m serious about a long term relationship vs. casual dating?
I recommend demonstrating vs. just saying. For example, even if you find Vietnamese difficult to learn, focus on learning simple phrases. Pay special attention on how to say hello to her parents and older siblings. You can get everything right and if you get that wrong, it can derail everything you’ve done. Watch my other videos on how to learn basic Vietnamese phrases and how to address elders. These are 2 or 3 word phrases that you can learn in a few days. Your lady doesn’t expect you to be fluent in Vietnamese, but if you can demonstrate that her values are important to you, that will communicate clearly that you respect and value her culture, which is a key component for a healthy long term relationship.
I hope you found this video valuable. If you have additional questions about what I shared here or other questions, please post them below and I’ll shoot more Q&A videos.
Again my name is Vanessa Ho, and I appreciate you allowing me to help you date and marry a Vietnamese woman. Please make sure to click "SUBSCRIBE" so you won't miss out on any videos from my channel.
Do you have any questions you want answers about dating or marrying a Vietnamese woman? Please feel free to ask them in the comments below...❤️
I like Vietnamese women
They are beautiful
I need help. My girl friend has some self shaming thing going on with her that I don't understand. She acta like she wants to be with me but wont look at me because she feels ashamed of how good man I am. She is very kind to me but the last two men in her life broke her heart and she feels she is bad and worthless. She is so self destructive with her words and actions that its been frustrating. I love her and her son. They are great people. They makes me feel complete. She says she needs time but keeps having these moments she describes as her being cold to me. Im learning Vietnamese, helping her clean and fix things in her home, lifting heavy stuff for her because she has a health issue with kidneys. I even offer to cook for her because shes so tired from working 12 hour job. I am also making her laugh a lot and she smiles a lot. These cold moments are very sad and confusing. I give her space when it's really bad. She follows most traditions but she dose have a beer once in a while. Doesn't bother me. I don't drink. I know she feels ashamed of having beer once in a while. Thank you for your time.
@@rustygun7309 did her parents accept you be her boyfriend Asian parents Asian Mom and dad hate they dating black men
@@rustygun7309 how well can she read in English? If it's at a good level, I can share some books that helped me.
Thank you very much for the information the back drop for today's video is absolutely beautiful stay well during these strange times
Thanks for sharing your feedback. Same to you. Have a blessed weekend!
Thank you Vanessa, I could watch and listen to you all day , I love the little mistakes you do with the English language and you are cute ❤️ . Great information too !
I have a few questions. 1) Why do Vietnamese women always carry and use the bottle of ( Green Medicated Oil ) or dau xanh ?. 2) Why do they eat so many meals each day.? Sometimes I see her eat 4 or 5 times a day, and she is not fat. 3) Why are the women always taking selfies and use an app in their phone to improve the picture ? I can think of a few more......
Thanks for these questions. Please submit as many questions as you can, I’ll shoot a series of videos regarding this topic.
Thanks for the valuable information.
Thanks for your video it is very good video. I want to know as you said what to do get visa to live there? I hope to arrive around April or May of 2021. Thanks for your beautiful video.
Joseph, please email us at findavietnamewife@gmail.com for the visa question.
1st date: good 2nd date: good Thank you. She has two daughters in early 20s. How do I greet them when we are introduced? Handshake? nothing?
Michael, glad to hear your date went well. Is she and her daughters in the US? If so, then a slight handshake is acceptable. If her daughters are in Vietnam and they have interacted with a lot of foreigners (from work or from school), then a handshake is also acceptable. If not, you can smile with a slight nod to say, "Hello."
Hello. I'm meeting a Young Vietnamese women next month for the first time. Was is considered a good first impression by Vietnamese standards.
Thank you for the video!
Sorry I was asking a question and forgot to put the question mark at the end of my sentence. Can you please answer thanks.
Ic. Did you mean “What is considered....”? not “Was is.....?” I just want to clarify so I can help to answer you the best I can, because I can’t understand your question as it was originally written . Thanks.
@@marryavietnamesewoman6384 Yes. Sorry for my typo.
I'm meeting a Vietnamese woman here in the states and I would like to give a good impression. Any advice?
Thanks
We do have a few videos already uploaded here on our channel. Check out the playlist of “Facts and Tips on Dating and Marrying Vietnamese Women”, you’ll find them there.
Merry Christmas in Advance to anyone reading this. May you have a healthy and prosperous new year
Thanks so much. Same to you and your loved ones as well.
Lauguage is important.
Can you suggest a good translation application? I am talking with a young lady that doesn't know english and I do not know vn nor proper customs. She seems rather traditional too and I do not wish to offend.
What is the vn word for "courting"?
Is it acceptable in holding the chair for a lady and the mother, as we do in the west.?
I have a question I've been dating a vietnamese woman for 3 years. I'm white guy when I want to help her with her family she wants me too. But then changes her mind next day ? Is this common with vietnamese woman ? I never dealt with that before from a woman. Thank you with your respond. Unless I push it on her then she takes my help. Thank you again.
What did she changed her mind about?
What age makes a Vietnamese woman mature
are vietnamese women willing to move to another country after marrying a man who is not from her own country?