Lord, I ask that you be with this family at this difficult time. May your love and protection, which is mightier than any evil darkness, enfold them. Father, I ask that you send your Holy Spirit so that Leila's family may rest and abide in your ever-faithful comfort until healing and restoration are theirs. I ask this in the name of your son, Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏
I’m so sorry 😣 here to support you. I can’t imagine 😭 last daze, friend, you are not alone. Thank you for standing up for what is right’eous. I feel like once each child knew my answer to everything I know, we then slowly become comrades … as we are all an individual, with free will… motivated by what we know Deep Breath 🫶🏼 Love you 🦋💜🦋
Watching you work your way to talking about your nightmare gave me a same sense of dread that I felt when my sister told me what happened. A year ago this month, my older sister told me that when she was 14 and my brother 16/17, he molested her while he thought she was sleeping on multiple occasions. It only stopped when he graduated from high school and was forced to move to Florida to live with my uncle. This was over 15 years ago when he did this. It breaks your brain. Mine is still broken. It is so inconceivable that you have to shut your eyes and shake your head at the reality. You wish that it was just them as a little child being curious because it's too painful to acknowledge that they were well old enough to know how indescribably wrong of a thing it was to do. You can't comprehend that it was even at all possible and that it happened. That's why I say it breaks your brain. It broke my brain because I liked my brother, he was nice to me. The shame and guilt of not realizing what had been happening and my continued interactions with my brother throughout this and after learning of his actions tried to drown me. It was until I fully accepted what had happened that I was done with him. He was too old to be fixed, perhaps your child can be helped. We went no contact with my mother due to her behaviors 10 years ago, and unfortunately she was who my sister went to when she was being molested. That was the worst thing for my sister. She did not get help either, nor did my mother allow my father to know. I weep inside for my father because his brain is broken too. We are his 3 babies and that's how he sees us. Having to tell him has been the only time in my life that I've seen him cry. Seeing what this has done to him only gives me a small idea of the horror you are experiencing. They are your babies and yet this happened. I am so sorry you are experiencing your brain being broken, like so many of us. It truly is a nightmare.
I don’t even have words to express how I feel about what’s going on with your family. So very sad when unforgivable things happen with your children. But as a mom I do understand how you must be feeling. I never went through anything like this. A messy divorce, yes. I had a child decide that he would rather be with my ex husband and that hurt tremendously. But nothing like what you have just said. I wish you love and healing and answers.❤
So, for me, one of my children or not, make the very best decision you can without prolonging the agony. Deal with it head-on and move towards the best positive outcome you can. You always do. Much love to you all Leila ❤ xxx
As a mom of 3 kids. I just can't. I just can't begin to imagine what you and your family have been going through. I wish I had more words. I just pray that the heavenly father wraps his arms around u and your family. You need the strength and peace to press forward. I am sending all of my love. ❤
My heart breaks for you Leila and your children! I wish i could hug you. I dont comment often but always watch you. I just want you to know i support you. Sending prayers and love.
I was expecting you to say an outside family member did something…I can’t imagine the shock you felt hearing it was another one of your kids. Been watching you since I was a child (I’m 25 now). I’m heavily praying for you.
I’m truly heartbroken for you. I am a survivor of a very similar situation. And I am proud to say my mother never doubted me nor did she blink an eye when dealing with family member. Tons of love & hugs from me to you!
Leila, I'm so so sorry you are going through whatever it is that you're going through. You remind me of myself in so many ways and watching this video broke my heart. I can see the pain in your eyes and the exhaustion and the broken feeling. I'm not the type of person to let many in because Ive learned the lesson the hard way over and over and over again. I feel your pain because I feel similar types of trauma. If you ever need someone to just talk to and have a conversation with, especially someone out of the situation please reach out to me. Doubt you will even see this but I had to give it a shot. Whether it's to vent or you need an ear and a shoulder or just someone to listen to you and help you get thru this. You are stronger than you give yourself credit for. Praying for you and your family 🙏🏾 Stay strong, Stephanie
I am so sorry this is all happening Laila … we spend our lives trying to protect them from strangers .. when most times it’s more not strangers that hurt them easiest .. it’s crazy. Hang in there mama … thank you for sharing ❤
Oh my Leila. I have no words. My heart hurts for you and your baby. No kid should go through this. I can see the pain, not only in your eyes but your soul. I pray God gives you light and helps you navigate through this horrible situation. You’re a strong woman and you will prevail. Im sending prayers to you and your baby. Sending you a strong hug.
Hey Girl I honestly understand what Ur saying.... This happened between my Son and 1 of his sister's that lived with her Mom. My Son was 6 when he had, taken enough and told ME, I was very numb and didn't know what to DO AFTER the almost 2 hr talk with My Son in our bathroom.... ALL I can say Mama is BREATH ok? Ur OTHER kid's STILL need U, and I KNOW U KNOW how to fall apart in silence girl.... It's gonna TAKE a Lil bit of THAT for NOW until U KNOW what the NXT step IS, OURS was HEAVY counseling and it wasn't JUST our Son, we ALL talked with someone. It's something they offered in Florida and WE TOOK it! IDK HOW CA. work's on copays and stuff like that, BUT HERE it was the Rape crisis ppl and the social worker that helped US 💜 I HATE to HEAR of another Mom having to deal with THIS, it's NOT EASY at ALL!! I'm sending U prayers for peace of mind babe ❤ and clarity ❤ I know it strikes DEEPLY AND IT'S NORMAL AS A HUMAN WHAT UR FEELING!! If U need to TALK or U want to, U know where to find ME ❤️💯 I know the shits deep Girl!! And I'm very sorry to the 1 THIS happened to, and ALL of U's ❤ THIS is Life changing and No one asks for THIS ❤ I am so VERY sorry Mama!! 💜🌴💜
Leila looking at you speaking I could feel your pain I see such a hurt and broken person 💔 I'm so so sorry you like myself have had to endure so many heavy things in your lifetime 💓 my heart goes out to you. I'm also the skapegoat of my family and have been through so much 😢. Praying for you 🙏❤️
This I know makes you so sick inside,the only thing u can do is be there for the child that this happened to,, it’s not your fault,don’t ever take the blame ,unfortunately this happens more then people are willing to talk about ,wish we had the answers ,love you dear Leila ,,💗💙🧡💖💚♥️💜
So saddening. As parents, we want to do the best by our children but when push comes to shove, the right choice isn't always the easy one. I am a victim as well and could related to (a small degree) the anger that overshadowed everything else in that moment for you. I hope that your children both abused and abuser can find a path towards healing. So sorry that you have to face this.
Looking at the innocence of the 3 children that live with you is so hard to imagine it being anyone of them. Ive watched you for soooo many years and i feel basically like I've watched them grow just as much as watching you grow. Anyone of them being in this situation is tramatic and I'm hoping it's not Kamal thats done something. I wish it was neither of them but this kid has endured alot and thats no excuse at all but it would be very heartbreaking to hear that. I've been the victim of SA for many many years and i wish we we're outside social media friends to help you and talk to you and let you know how when it all surfaced how thing's got handled. Being a mother myself changes you when you have kids after being a victim of such crime. How we react how we think we would feel if it happened to one of our kids. Again I wish we could talk more privately to give you more personal details but your calmness at this moment speaks volumes. Sharing such vulnerable information speaks loud. Hopefully we could connect in some other form and I could help in some sort of way. This is not easy nor will it be any easier tomorrow you have a big battle heading your way. Strength and need to protect your other children is what is going to fuel you for whats to come. Please reach out so we could talk more openly if you feel you'd like to. Some people cross your path in life for many reasons and hopefully I could be some sort of friend in your time of need. Allow yourself grace and know you are doing the right thing and the best thing for your child, and thank the Lord you are the mother you are to allow your child to feel safe to discuss this horrible event without feeling like they will suffer for it.
I cant say what i want to say on here but just know im praying for you, your child, and family. Youre an amazing mother for taking the right steps to ensure your child felt heard about this dramatic situation. Youre not alone, just know youre doing great.
The sickness is real. It's called evil. The devil is always going to and fro. But has that older child ever been molested? It's common for hurt people to hurt people. Ask God to give you strength and courage to continue. I know we all have free will, but please, before you disown your own child, ask God.
♥️❤️🩹🫂 sending safe love and understanding from first hand experience. Xo you are a force to be reckoned with . Regardless, I’m so sorry for what is happening right now. 🌼Kimberly.
Interesting comments, some saying one boy some saying another. Let's just let her talk, we listen passing no judgement. Full story can not be told. May never be told.
I'm so so sorry I wish, I wish, I wish, I could just hug you an lend a ear for you which is so hard to find these days smh. 🫂 Just know I'll be praying for strength, peace, love and comfort for you during this season of disappointment. PLEASE keep praying, crying or whatever you have to do within reason. Your strong I just know it I've been subscribed to you for years an I've witnessed your strength but in times like these we need to be reminded...so stay strong Beloved time will heal all things but don't I say don't loose hope. This too shall pass this journey comes with alot of trials that we don't think we can't overcome. I'm a living witness that YOU and your Family can make it through. Again know that someone is praying for you. 🫂 💖 I'm so sorry!😢
Lord, I ask that you be with this family at this difficult time. May your love and protection, which is mightier than any evil darkness, enfold them. Father, I ask that you send your Holy Spirit so that Leila's family may rest and abide in your ever-faithful comfort until healing and restoration are theirs. I ask this in the name of your son, Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏
I’m so sorry you’re going through this again. I just can’t begin to imagine. Prayers sent up for you momma.
I’m so sorry 😣 here to support you. I can’t imagine 😭 last daze, friend, you are not alone. Thank you for standing up for what is right’eous. I feel like once each child knew my answer to everything I know, we then slowly become comrades … as we are all an individual, with free will… motivated by what we know
Deep Breath 🫶🏼 Love you 🦋💜🦋
Watching you work your way to talking about your nightmare gave me a same sense of dread that I felt when my sister told me what happened. A year ago this month, my older sister told me that when she was 14 and my brother 16/17, he molested her while he thought she was sleeping on multiple occasions. It only stopped when he graduated from high school and was forced to move to Florida to live with my uncle. This was over 15 years ago when he did this.
It breaks your brain. Mine is still broken. It is so inconceivable that you have to shut your eyes and shake your head at the reality. You wish that it was just them as a little child being curious because it's too painful to acknowledge that they were well old enough to know how indescribably wrong of a thing it was to do.
You can't comprehend that it was even at all possible and that it happened. That's why I say it breaks your brain.
It broke my brain because I liked my brother, he was nice to me. The shame and guilt of not realizing what had been happening and my continued interactions with my brother throughout this and after learning of his actions tried to drown me. It was until I fully accepted what had happened that I was done with him. He was too old to be fixed, perhaps your child can be helped.
We went no contact with my mother due to her behaviors 10 years ago, and unfortunately she was who my sister went to when she was being molested. That was the worst thing for my sister. She did not get help either, nor did my mother allow my father to know.
I weep inside for my father because his brain is broken too. We are his 3 babies and that's how he sees us. Having to tell him has been the only time in my life that I've seen him cry. Seeing what this has done to him only gives me a small idea of the horror you are experiencing.
They are your babies and yet this happened. I am so sorry you are experiencing your brain being broken, like so many of us. It truly is a nightmare.
I don’t even have words to express how I feel about what’s going on with your family. So very sad when unforgivable things happen with your children. But as a mom I do understand how you must be feeling. I never went through anything like this. A messy divorce, yes. I had a child decide that he would rather be with my ex husband and that hurt tremendously. But nothing like what you have just said.
I wish you love and healing and answers.❤
So, for me, one of my children or not, make the very best decision you can without prolonging the agony. Deal with it head-on and move towards the best positive outcome you can. You always do. Much love to you all Leila ❤ xxx
My heart breaks for you momma 😭💜
As a mom of 3 kids. I just can't. I just can't begin to imagine what you and your family have been going through. I wish I had more words. I just pray that the heavenly father wraps his arms around u and your family. You need the strength and peace to press forward. I am sending all of my love. ❤
My heart breaks for you Leila and your children! I wish i could hug you.
I dont comment often but always watch you. I just want you to know i support you. Sending prayers and love.
Oh, this is so horrible. Prayers for the victim and for you.
I was expecting you to say an outside family member did something…I can’t imagine the shock you felt hearing it was another one of your kids. Been watching you since I was a child (I’m 25 now). I’m heavily praying for you.
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I’m really sorry Leila you are going through this and I’m here for you ❤
I’m truly heartbroken for you. I am a survivor of a very similar situation. And I am proud to say my mother never doubted me nor did she blink an eye when dealing with family member. Tons of love & hugs from me to you!
Your whole life is a real mother’s nightmare.
Leila, I'm so so sorry you are going through whatever it is that you're going through. You remind me of myself in so many ways and watching this video broke my heart. I can see the pain in your eyes and the exhaustion and the broken feeling. I'm not the type of person to let many in because Ive learned the lesson the hard way over and over and over again. I feel your pain because I feel similar types of trauma. If you ever need someone to just talk to and have a conversation with, especially someone out of the situation please reach out to me. Doubt you will even see this but I had to give it a shot. Whether it's to vent or you need an ear and a shoulder or just someone to listen to you and help you get thru this. You are stronger than you give yourself credit for. Praying for you and your family 🙏🏾
Stay strong,
Stephanie
I am so sorry this is all happening Laila … we spend our lives trying to protect them from strangers .. when most times it’s more not strangers that hurt them easiest .. it’s crazy. Hang in there mama … thank you for sharing ❤
Oh my Leila. I have no words. My heart hurts for you and your baby. No kid should go through this. I can see the pain, not only in your eyes but your soul. I pray God gives you light and helps you navigate through this horrible situation. You’re a strong woman and you will prevail. Im sending prayers to you and your baby. Sending you a strong hug.
Hey Girl I honestly understand what Ur saying.... This happened between my Son and 1 of his sister's that lived with her Mom. My Son was 6 when he had, taken enough and told ME, I was very numb and didn't know what to DO AFTER the almost 2 hr talk with My Son in our bathroom.... ALL I can say Mama is BREATH ok? Ur OTHER kid's STILL need U, and I KNOW U KNOW how to fall apart in silence girl.... It's gonna TAKE a Lil bit of THAT for NOW until U KNOW what the NXT step IS, OURS was HEAVY counseling and it wasn't JUST our Son, we ALL talked with someone. It's something they offered in Florida and WE TOOK it! IDK HOW CA. work's on copays and stuff like that, BUT HERE it was the Rape crisis ppl and the social worker that helped US 💜 I HATE to HEAR of another Mom having to deal with THIS, it's NOT EASY at ALL!! I'm sending U prayers for peace of mind babe ❤ and clarity ❤ I know it strikes DEEPLY AND IT'S NORMAL AS A HUMAN WHAT UR FEELING!! If U need to TALK or U want to, U know where to find ME ❤️💯 I know the shits deep Girl!! And I'm very sorry to the 1 THIS happened to, and ALL of U's ❤ THIS is Life changing and No one asks for THIS ❤ I am so VERY sorry Mama!! 💜🌴💜
Leila looking at you speaking I could feel your pain I see such a hurt and broken person 💔 I'm so so sorry you like myself have had to endure so many heavy things in your lifetime 💓 my heart goes out to you. I'm also the skapegoat of my family and have been through so much 😢. Praying for you 🙏❤️
my heart breaks for you leila. I am so sorry you’re dealing with this ontop of everything. Ugh, i’m praying for you and your babies mama ♥️♥️♥️
This boy needs serious help hun...stay strong ❤
This I know makes you so sick inside,the only thing u can do is be there for the child that this happened to,, it’s not your fault,don’t ever take the blame ,unfortunately this happens more then people are willing to talk about ,wish we had the answers ,love you dear Leila ,,💗💙🧡💖💚♥️💜
So saddening. As parents, we want to do the best by our children but when push comes to shove, the right choice isn't always the easy one. I am a victim as well and could related to (a small degree) the anger that overshadowed everything else in that moment for you. I hope that your children both abused and abuser can find a path towards healing. So sorry that you have to face this.
Praying for you man 😢
Looking at the innocence of the 3 children that live with you is so hard to imagine it being anyone of them. Ive watched you for soooo many years and i feel basically like I've watched them grow just as much as watching you grow. Anyone of them being in this situation is tramatic and I'm hoping it's not Kamal thats done something. I wish it was neither of them but this kid has endured alot and thats no excuse at all but it would be very heartbreaking to hear that. I've been the victim of SA for many many years and i wish we we're outside social media friends to help you and talk to you and let you know how when it all surfaced how thing's got handled. Being a mother myself changes you when you have kids after being a victim of such crime. How we react how we think we would feel if it happened to one of our kids. Again I wish we could talk more privately to give you more personal details but your calmness at this moment speaks volumes. Sharing such vulnerable information speaks loud. Hopefully we could connect in some other form and I could help in some sort of way. This is not easy nor will it be any easier tomorrow you have a big battle heading your way. Strength and need to protect your other children is what is going to fuel you for whats to come. Please reach out so we could talk more openly if you feel you'd like to. Some people cross your path in life for many reasons and hopefully I could be some sort of friend in your time of need. Allow yourself grace and know you are doing the right thing and the best thing for your child, and thank the Lord you are the mother you are to allow your child to feel safe to discuss this horrible event without feeling like they will suffer for it.
I'm sorry mama. A lot of times, children that hurt their siblings, have experienced their own trauma if you understand what I'm saying😢
Praying for you and your family.
Im sending all My Mom love!! Im so sorry babe! Stay strong xo
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I’m so sorry!
💔💔💔 Love you, sweet girl.
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How awful. I’m sorry. Why so many police?
To hold me back from taking it into my own hands. I’m strong I guess 🤷🏻♀️
@@leilaslife wow. I respect how you are handling this. Your child or not, you are not letting them off the hook with excuses. Good for you.
I cant say what i want to say on here but just know im praying for you, your child, and family. Youre an amazing mother for taking the right steps to ensure your child felt heard about this dramatic situation. Youre not alone, just know youre doing great.
The sickness is real. It's called evil. The devil is always going to and fro. But has that older child ever been molested? It's common for hurt people to hurt people. Ask God to give you strength and courage to continue. I know we all have free will, but please, before you disown your own child, ask God.
♥️❤️🩹🫂 sending safe love and understanding from first hand experience.
Xo you are a force to be reckoned with .
Regardless, I’m so sorry for what is happening right now.
🌼Kimberly.
I’m keeping you in my Prayers 🙏🏻
Iam so sorry. Prayers to you
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Interesting comments, some saying one boy some saying another. Let's just let her talk, we listen passing no judgement. Full story can not be told. May never be told.
I'm sorry, momma :(
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who called the police
How horrible
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I'm so so sorry I wish, I wish, I wish, I could just hug you an lend a ear for you which is so hard to find these days smh. 🫂 Just know I'll be praying for strength, peace, love and comfort for you during this season of disappointment. PLEASE keep praying, crying or whatever you have to do within reason. Your strong I just know it I've been subscribed to you for years an I've witnessed your strength but in times like these we need to be reminded...so stay strong Beloved time will heal all things but don't I say don't loose hope. This too shall pass this journey comes with alot of trials that we don't think we can't overcome. I'm a living witness that YOU and your Family can make it through. Again know that someone is praying for you. 🫂 💖 I'm so sorry!😢