How little people can make a big difference | Charlie Cooper | TEDxJCUCairns

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
  • This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. Charlie Cooper is a nine year old boy who is wiser than his years. Charlie tells the story of how the buddy bench at Trinity Beach State School came to be a tool to address bullying. He explains how you can turn a negative situation into a positive outcome.
    Charlie Cooper was born in 2005 making him the grand old age of 9.
    He lives in Trinity Beach with his Mum, Dad and 2 siblings. He attends Trinity Beach State School and is currently in grade 3,
    He loves to play Lego, ride his bike and play on his Dad’s flight simulator.
    About TEDx, x = independently organized event In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organized.* (*Subject to certain rules and regulations)

Komentáře • 192

  • @cultofdumbpling4699
    @cultofdumbpling4699 Před 4 lety +105

    anyone else here for an English class or something like it

  • @MoshtheDay
    @MoshtheDay Před 9 lety +23

    This is just his first success. Imagine what he'll figure out when he's older! Bless him!

    • @forrtress5001
      @forrtress5001 Před 4 lety

      nothing really, hes in my grade. Kinda lost his mojo

    • @freepalestinehaveagreatday6843
      @freepalestinehaveagreatday6843 Před 3 lety

      @@forrtress5001
      Nah, I'm sure he gonna de something big:), he can.

    • @forrtress5001
      @forrtress5001 Před 3 lety

      @@freepalestinehaveagreatday6843 the only big thing hes done was working in maccas

    • @freepalestinehaveagreatday6843
      @freepalestinehaveagreatday6843 Před 3 lety

      @@forrtress5001
      he can make other big things as long as he wants, because he can and all of us also can. Plus, why are you talking about him like that..🤔

  • @Iguanaintrouble
    @Iguanaintrouble Před 9 lety +11

    My heart melts for this child and anyone that has had to go through isolation.

  • @360analyse
    @360analyse Před 9 lety +59

    Charlie you are really a great inspiration. I did listen. I listened carefully and a young friend of my daughter also shared with me that she is lonely in school. Hence I am determined to introduce your idea to our local school here in South Germany. You rock!

  • @pamelalove5598
    @pamelalove5598 Před 8 lety +23

    You will be very happy to know that my son's class made a buddy bench in their school in Kuwait this year. It works wonderfully and was featured in their yearly show as well. You are quite the inspiration young man! Thank you for spreading your idea.

  • @stewartlockie2665
    @stewartlockie2665 Před 10 lety +29

    Inspiring talk Charlie! Every time I see the Buddy Bench at Trinity Beach State School I smile. Even when it's empty, it's empty because all the kids have someone to play with.

  • @dontreadmyprofilepicture9841

    The young boy still has lots to learn and that’s perfectly fine! Young speaker - 9 years of age already has his own Ted Talk!

  • @diegoaviles4768
    @diegoaviles4768 Před 9 lety +15

    I love this talk, I'm homeschooled so it make it hard to make friends sometimes, but from my perspective you don't need everyone one in the world to be friends with you. I may have very few friends. But the ones that I do have, were great friends. we get along well, we keep in touch with each other, we can relate to each other. I love this talk, I think there should more buddy bench's. Not just in Australia, but a round The world.

  • @speakevermore
    @speakevermore Před 9 lety +33

    Such a cute kid!!!
    I love his sensitivity and willingness to help other lonely kids. Bravo

    • @freecontent4306
      @freecontent4306 Před 4 lety +1

      He is my Class has that buddy bench because my teacher showed me this

    • @DaniBoy-cb8le
      @DaniBoy-cb8le Před 4 lety +1

      @josh0482 josh0482 Tough guy over here

    • @martinluo6844
      @martinluo6844 Před 4 lety

      I agree.He is cute!!!

  • @hedyachibane8867
    @hedyachibane8867 Před 9 lety +3

    children like you are why i want to be a teacher. you are such a sweet little angel

  • @fh325
    @fh325 Před 9 lety +2

    I am so happy he came up with the idea of a "Buddy Bench". It would be so nice to see this in all schools. Just for children to enjoy some small talk or even to relax and get to know peers. Sure, now it may be difficult for children to make friends because of the over involvement in technology but schools could definitely, have a place where children put away all the gizmos and gadgets and 'chill-out'. Brilliant idea.

  • @addisonelizabeth8
    @addisonelizabeth8 Před 5 lety +2

    i live in america and my old school had a buddy bench. what a great idea from such a small kid! i would’ve never thought of that. good job :)

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 Před 3 lety +2

    Beautiful impressive amazing child. Inspiring. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true. Every thing is possible !

  • @candicejfathi
    @candicejfathi Před 9 lety +2

    brilliant! I was touched. I cried happy tears. I wish I had a buddy bench growing up in public school. I LOVE this idea! I want to introduce the Buddy bench to the kids schools. God bless Charlie and his parents!

  • @ben_and_jace
    @ben_and_jace Před 4 lety +6

    Wow. Amazing, kid, amazing.

  • @jens.4858
    @jens.4858 Před 5 lety +1

    You are an incredible being Charlie Cooper! The world needs more people like you. ❤

  • @RockyAbduljabar
    @RockyAbduljabar Před rokem +2

    Hello Charlie,
    We watched your video today in class, my students were inspired to come with similar ideas to make a big difference in school! Thank you for your spark!

  • @naoquerotercanal
    @naoquerotercanal Před 9 lety +1

    how can anyone dislike this kid??
    way to go, buddy!!

  • @laauar
    @laauar Před 7 lety +1

    Cool he really shared a lot of his feelings

  • @sarahsheppard3202
    @sarahsheppard3202 Před 9 lety +36

    IT WOULD BE NICE TO HAVE A FREINDSHIP BENCH EVERYWHERE

  • @AnimeshSharma1977
    @AnimeshSharma1977 Před 10 lety +28

    I would have never come up with such an idea growing up in India, where we have the opposite problem, that is lack of personal space ;) Jokes apart, Buddy bench is indeed a cool idea to "beat loneliness and make friends" :)

    • @minimanofiron2501
      @minimanofiron2501 Před 7 lety

      but in india, a lot of places have a lot of crazy children, mostly boys, and the children who are somewhat less crazy have nobody to play with. in certain parts of india, there are schools where smart people are laughed at and idiots are normal. so this bench thing could acually work there too.

    • @krystiegould4538
      @krystiegould4538 Před 5 lety

      Stringent than the money that I am so hopeless at getting better off 90oo9996i99962 I have ujfgy f

    • @aliesyah2920
      @aliesyah2920 Před 5 lety

      Animesh Sharma aa

    • @Andvirginia
      @Andvirginia Před 3 lety

      @@minimanofiron2501 no, in India the IDIOTS are laughed at

  • @debschmidt2317
    @debschmidt2317 Před 7 lety

    Every school needs a buddy bench. I taught for 32years and this is a great idea!

  • @kathleenhilchey6667
    @kathleenhilchey6667 Před 7 lety +3

    What a powerful talk Charlie! And, what a powerful idea... You have eliminated so much pain with this creative idea, and with your excellent leadership. I'm glad that the world has you!

  • @soniyaraj3875
    @soniyaraj3875 Před 3 lety +2

    It's really an amazing idea to spread.
    I also have part of my dream through which I want to help many people as long as I live .♥️

  • @davidhudson4
    @davidhudson4 Před 9 lety +11

    Good on you mate. Nice to have met you out at JCU. I wish you well with your schooling. You may not have realised it but you have had 61,965 folks view your talk.
    From little things big things grow. Keep up your great work. Cheers Dave

  • @thatasiankid45
    @thatasiankid45 Před 9 lety +8

    I love this idea, but Australian school kids are fucken brutal. There was this girl in our year/grade who had leukaemia, so she had to shave her hair. Some people bullied her because of that, and they bullied her so much, that she had to move schools. I hope that bench doesn't get vandalised. Lovely kid

  • @yadirasaucedo1314
    @yadirasaucedo1314 Před 5 lety

    I try to make a deference in my school by inspiring kids and play with kids that are lonely

  • @jazmintorres2245
    @jazmintorres2245 Před 10 lety +29

    Amazing, amazing.
    Also, his cards are laminated!
    Oh jeeze :')

    • @cattybound2011
      @cattybound2011 Před 9 lety +4

      LOL :-)

    • @cosname
      @cosname Před 9 lety +2

      A. Clancularius The point is how many efforts and quality was done for simple cards... There would be enough to have some kind of note or smth.

    • @Tozzie50
      @Tozzie50 Před 9 lety

      Hews sew cewt

  • @hannah96gazoo
    @hannah96gazoo Před 7 lety

    I would love to implement this beautiful idea in my sleepover summer camp. I would love to connect with Charlie Cooper to send a video message to our campers about the buddy bench! Charlie, you're brilliant and your simple yet profound idea is expanding throughout the world! Thank you.

  • @uhmusagi6947
    @uhmusagi6947 Před 4 lety +1

    Great Prep for his speech. This speech is heartwarming ♥

  • @jpwood08
    @jpwood08 Před 9 lety

    Charlie Cooper you are an inspiration to all and a true little innovator, your story made me cry, but this is something that is worth spreading and not only here in Australia for schools all around the world to adopt this great initiative and call it Charlie's Buddy Bench!

  • @alinawong4226
    @alinawong4226 Před 6 lety +3

    At my school, we have a bench used for ‘detention’

    • @passion7037
      @passion7037 Před 4 lety

      Yes. When I went to school we had a dunce cap and sat in a corner to be humiliated. I learned not to trust teachers and/or authority; and much much more of the ilk.

  • @sophiabeckman7902
    @sophiabeckman7902 Před 7 lety +5

    im so sorry you felt that way!i wish i lived in Australia so i would be your freind!

  • @ericmichell
    @ericmichell Před 9 lety +6

    Beautiful idea and your idea is worth sharing and spreading :-)

  • @mackenziewalters8498
    @mackenziewalters8498 Před 7 lety

    Great talk Charlie! I love how you thought about what you could to make yourself feel better; and in the process you have helped other children make connections, and think about making friendships with others. Sometimes a simple hello can start a great friendship, or a nice chat to feel more connected to people. Well done.

  • @sarahcarnegie9118
    @sarahcarnegie9118 Před 9 lety +1

    my old elementary has one thank you

  • @flicksbyhans
    @flicksbyhans Před 9 lety +4

    Well done Charlie!

  • @justgreenn4938
    @justgreenn4938 Před 7 lety

    well done to this kid for stand up to lots of at just 9 years old

  • @BratBustersParenting
    @BratBustersParenting Před 9 lety +4

    Great job Charlie!!!

  • @amandaggogo
    @amandaggogo Před 9 lety +2

    One of the elementary schools here in my area of TN has these! And they are inscribed with "Buddy Bench" on them. :0)

  • @lilyfae7197
    @lilyfae7197 Před 6 lety

    I saw a school start building it, but never started it. Too bad, it could help.

  • @mohamedabdulaahi519
    @mohamedabdulaahi519 Před 9 lety

    This is an interesting topic that contributes a lot to the over all involvement of the people in all activities and shows that every one can initiate and every one is good in way or other so this young wise boy is amazing.

  • @tatianaloa9574
    @tatianaloa9574 Před 9 lety +1

    This is sooo incredibly inspirational!!

  • @davidjin5802
    @davidjin5802 Před 3 lety +1

    This idea could change schools I think it’s great but the down side is people wouldn’t listen to the rules but really it’s a good idea Charlie and how could ours school help?

  • @sleepy10111
    @sleepy10111 Před 9 lety +2

    Awesome !

  • @krystinavincent9010
    @krystinavincent9010 Před 9 lety

    This is a very powerful ideal it made me cry

  • @heyitshades7552
    @heyitshades7552 Před 4 lety

    ayo charlie wherever u are hope u doin good bro, these kids who bullied you need to get a beating in the head dont worry when they face reality well teach em a lesson knock sum sense into them

  • @shaniekanayake8996
    @shaniekanayake8996 Před 2 lety

    You are an amazing kiddo Charlie🌈

  • @enkhbatch6589
    @enkhbatch6589 Před 5 lety

    oh, such a cute boy. his speech is worth listening

  • @davidsellars2245
    @davidsellars2245 Před 9 lety +1

    Great idea.

  • @jameskaleti5839
    @jameskaleti5839 Před 9 lety +3

    Im inspired by you Charlie! God Bless your Heart

  • @ahmetustunt
    @ahmetustunt Před 9 lety

    In these times, peple get lonely because of schools, jobs, etc. That's great idea to eliminate loneliness in schools. Because schools are the core of loneliness what we complain about.

  • @812graciela
    @812graciela Před 9 lety

    What a sweet boy

  • @haleighmichelle622
    @haleighmichelle622 Před 7 lety +1

    i have a buddy bench at my school

  • @elaineprock4199
    @elaineprock4199 Před 7 lety

    The Buddy bench is a great idea.

  • @letsgetit7997
    @letsgetit7997 Před 5 lety +3

    OMG Charlie!!!!!!! You were so young 😂

  • @peterzhang6735
    @peterzhang6735 Před 4 lety

    I have a friendship seat at my school!!

  • @denaedelarosa2319
    @denaedelarosa2319 Před 4 lety +1

    this is so good

  • @malekezzatelsayedkotb6767

    you`re a great kidow

  • @squeakybeak7832
    @squeakybeak7832 Před 7 lety

    Brilliant idea! Charlie, you rock! What about buddy benches in public places for everyone?

  • @samuelisaza2695
    @samuelisaza2695 Před 6 lety +1

    I love lego too

  • @supernewuser
    @supernewuser Před 10 lety

    Great idea, Charlie.

  • @iremalbayrak6055
    @iremalbayrak6055 Před 2 lety

    Wow this is amazing!

  • @jakejake6070
    @jakejake6070 Před 6 lety +1

    This kid goes to my school

  • @mryam1471
    @mryam1471 Před rokem

    God bless you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Iswhars
    @Iswhars Před 10 lety +4

    cool

  • @waqastalib8370
    @waqastalib8370 Před 4 lety +1

    It was very good and inspiring: keep up🤗

  • @godaughter4044
    @godaughter4044 Před 2 lety

    He's adorable. I'm a year older than him.

  • @thescruffy360
    @thescruffy360 Před 8 lety

    I used to go to Trinity Beach State School.

  • @felipetroncoso4920
    @felipetroncoso4920 Před 9 lety +4

    I get the feeling that he wanted the idea to be spread, because it was worth spreading. Right?

  • @thaiquang8740
    @thaiquang8740 Před rokem

    I like this talk🎉

  • @BJMCM11
    @BJMCM11 Před 9 lety +8

    Okay it is official, anyone can present a Ted conference.

    • @flicksbyhans
      @flicksbyhans Před 9 lety +9

      this is NOT a Ted Conference. This is a Tedx event. The criteria is you have an idea that is worth spreading. When we started organising this, Charlie stood out because he had a personal story which he initiated in his school and the community.

  • @tiarnimaree9104
    @tiarnimaree9104 Před 2 lety

    This kid is so cute!

  • @EmeraldView
    @EmeraldView Před 6 lety

    Super adorable.

  • @alistairharsant6008
    @alistairharsant6008 Před 4 lety

    Good video and great in depth

  • @mansimakwana5715
    @mansimakwana5715 Před 4 lety

    Wow lil heart..thats awesomee

  • @ronjaharatian5932
    @ronjaharatian5932 Před 9 lety

    such a beautiful idea!

  • @T1m1th
    @T1m1th Před 5 lety

    This kid is a god 🙏

  • @anaisc493
    @anaisc493 Před 9 lety

    Good Job. A lot of kids that age would be peeing their pants with something like that!

  • @lilycoughlan3723
    @lilycoughlan3723 Před 5 lety +2

    Its a good idea, but having gone to 2 school with what we called "the buddy bench", no one every sat there and it was ignored

  • @BlackcobraCobra-rx8fe
    @BlackcobraCobra-rx8fe Před 9 lety

    If my school had a stool I would be sitting on it every day even because nobody likes me and if a teacher tried to force someone to play with me I would refuse because nobody should have to be forced to play with someone they don't like

  • @kams7170
    @kams7170 Před 7 lety +1

    great job Charlie!!!

  • @SugarcaneCocktails
    @SugarcaneCocktails Před 9 lety +1

    This is soooo cuuute, tear. (:

    • @MrSickness6666
      @MrSickness6666 Před 9 lety

      Sugar Caine So are you my Dear:) and yes this talk was awesome:)

  • @simplyafish9090
    @simplyafish9090 Před 8 lety

    I'm 9 and go to trinity beach state school

  • @vedanthwarriors1506
    @vedanthwarriors1506 Před 7 lety +2

    Nice

  • @danielhaslam5179
    @danielhaslam5179 Před 9 lety +4

    You're a great person, Charlie! :)

  • @Grace4ever22
    @Grace4ever22 Před 9 lety

    so, the question is, after the talk he went and sat on that bench, did the adults join him?? did someone in the public join him??

  • @tasneem3m
    @tasneem3m Před 4 lety

    Beautiful 👌👌

  • @alexandramakarenko6536

    I would like to know what he is doing now.

  • @Jeremy27cool
    @Jeremy27cool Před 2 lety

    nice

  • @lifeismeaningful913
    @lifeismeaningful913 Před 5 lety

    ı wish ı were his friend..

  • @alexanderlindholm9620

    G DAY MATE BE EATING VEGIMITE

  • @aliesyah2920
    @aliesyah2920 Před 5 lety

    U are smart

  • @pankajnagar2167
    @pankajnagar2167 Před 4 lety

    I like this cute kid that was nice.

  • @WillMezz
    @WillMezz Před 3 lety

    I’m here for TLT hai Blue

  • @delaneypalafox6896
    @delaneypalafox6896 Před 7 lety

    this is my homework

  • @rosemariedruash624
    @rosemariedruash624 Před 9 lety +5

    That's me !!!!!!!!!!! But a girl. :P♥♥♥♥♥♥♥I'm just like him

  • @tranthuthao823
    @tranthuthao823 Před 9 lety +7

    Charlie, you're so cute! :)

  • @lemonlenivy
    @lemonlenivy Před 7 lety

    lol he was in my class 2 years ago hey charlie! Remember me?

  • @ayaanfarazi5705
    @ayaanfarazi5705 Před 6 lety

    I feel so sorry for you
    But I'm nine and nothing is happening
    Nines awesome