When Life Falls Apart, Does it Actually Fall Into Place? | A Buddhist Story

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  • When we’re hanging onto a root that’s chewed away by mice with a hungry snake below and an even hungrier tiger above us, what can we possibly do to get out of this situation? What is the best course of action when there seems to be no way out? When life falls apart, we might want to remember that everything changes all the time. Like night turns into day, bad fortune turns into good fortune, and a curse turns into a blessing. So, could it be that, eventually, life doesn’t fall apart but... into place?
    This video is based on a Buddhist story, that I originally heard from a Buddhist monk named Ajahn Brahm. You can find the original dhamma talk here: • What to do when everyt...
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    00:00 - Intro
    01:59 - An act of rebellion
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  • @muradtalukdar4401
    @muradtalukdar4401 Před 3 lety +7017

    The algorithm knows my life is falling apart.

  • @Jastro88
    @Jastro88 Před 2 lety +1512

    I'm 35 and I'm starting my life over again this year. Lost my job, lost my spouse... it's been very hard for me, I am alone and it seems like I have no way out of my present circumstances. I know I'm not the only person struggling in the world. I try to be grateful every day, for the simple things.
    I have thought to myself at times, "my life is falling apart"... but maybe it's actually coming together. The future can surprise us.
    Thanks for the vid, it was helpful. :)
    October 4th, 2022 edit: Thank you everyone for your responses, your kind words and supportive comments. I am truly touched, and grateful.

    • @yogotheomnigod9175
      @yogotheomnigod9175 Před 2 lety +94

      You’re not starting over, you’re starting from experience my brotha

    • @mini_Pills
      @mini_Pills Před 2 lety +9

      @@yogotheomnigod9175 thank you

    • @VV-cj5wc
      @VV-cj5wc Před 2 lety +27

      How are you doing now? I’m 34, and cannot make a decision and do not have the courage to start it over again 😢

    • @Jastro88
      @Jastro88 Před 2 lety +80

      @@VV-cj5wc Hey, thanks for reaching out.
      To answer the question, I'm surviving. I still experience difficulty, there are good days and there are bad days.
      It sounds like maybe you are looking for some feedback about your life situation. Obviously I don't know your circumstances, so I can't really give any specific advice. (Also, broadly speaking, I’m not sure that I’m qualified to be giving anyone advice about anything, so take what I have to say with a grain of salt.)
      I do think that there are some general “best practices” that can (probably) help anyone.
      1.) I think you have to try your best to be grateful for the good things. I’m not saying that you have to fake being happy about the bad things in life. “Oh, I’m so happy that I’m going broke, and my spouse is kicking me out of the house!” (etc, etc.) Obviously that would be insane.
      I just mean, did you eat today? That’s a good thing. Do you have shelter from the elements? That’s a good thing. Do you have a pet that keeps you company? That’s a good thing. Just try to be grateful for that. I know it can be really hard when you’re depressed or anxious, to see the good things.
      I think it’s important to try and acknowledge the good things, even if they’re small/minor. I think genuine gratitude can go a long way to protecting your mind from the chronic effects of depression, anxiety, etc.
      2.) Be kind, patient, gentle with yourself, especially when it comes to making change. It’s been my experience that change can take a long time. It’s hard to change. It’s a marathon, not a sprint; beating yourself up along the way isn’t going to help. Honour your own journey, honour the fact that you’ve come this far, in spite of all the difficulties.
      3.) This kind of ties into #2, but: do your best to stop comparing yourself to other people. It’s a trap, one that can be very hard to get out of… but in the long run, you’ll be so much better off when you stop setting unrealistic/unfair expectations for yourself, based on what other people have/are/do/etc. Their journey is their journey, not yours, and vice-versa.
      All of this is not like a light switch; I think it takes daily work, re-investment, to really add up to something.
      I’m not perfect. I struggle with these things daily; I am trying to change.
      I really hope this all helps, somehow.

    • @Jastro88
      @Jastro88 Před 2 lety +8

      @@yogotheomnigod9175 Thanks man, appreciate the kind words.

  • @EKSATable
    @EKSATable Před rokem +108

    CZcams is a better psychiatrist than an actual psychiatrist. Thank you for bringing me these teachings when I need them most

    • @budihao
      @budihao Před 5 měsíci +3

      and free charge 😂

  • @Betterversion09
    @Betterversion09 Před 7 měsíci +32

    If your currently scrolling through the comments while listening to these affirmations, I want you to know that whatever you may be going through now, won't last forever and you will find the light at the end of the tunnel. Be Positive and Motivated and Be blessed and more power to you and more love for this affirmations and Be Positive

    • @MrEOM41
      @MrEOM41 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @laere12345
    @laere12345 Před 3 lety +2557

    "Life has many ways of testing a person's will, either by having nothing happen at all or by having everything happen all at once"
    - Paulo Coelho

    • @NoSoulNoToll
      @NoSoulNoToll Před 3 lety +22

      Is this from The Alchemist?

    • @willfletcher2796
      @willfletcher2796 Před 3 lety +17

      Yes ,and nothing at all could mean perfect physical health and external sanctuary in the garden homestead

    • @pantsharad
      @pantsharad Před 3 lety +9

      This is perfectly matched with my life.

    • @BlondeManNoName
      @BlondeManNoName Před 3 lety +5

      @@pantsharad Mine too.

    • @sonnykim6755
      @sonnykim6755 Před 3 lety +9

      @@NoSoulNoToll on goodreads it is a quote from Winner Stands Alone by Paulo

  • @Dacademeca
    @Dacademeca Před 3 lety +1562

    "Nature Does Not Hurry, Yet Everything Is Accomplished."
    - Lao Tzu

    • @Scott-got-caught
      @Scott-got-caught Před 3 lety +4

      I love this one

    • @rohilthomson
      @rohilthomson Před 3 lety +10

      That is true, but it the nature of man to go beyond what is expected and what he deserves. Man pushes himself past his limit to ensure a better future for himself and his loved ones. Animals in nature don't plan more than a winter in advance, but we humans do. I can't blame people for doing that. It's the reason why humans are the most powerful animals on the planet. But for those not enamoured by power and pride, like me, it seems pretty pointless.

    • @dayvid_danger
      @dayvid_danger Před 3 lety +2

      I'd marry this one.

    • @Dacademeca
      @Dacademeca Před 3 lety

      @Shamus Beaglehole I think it sounds pretty cool.

    • @Dacademeca
      @Dacademeca Před 3 lety +1

      @Shamus Beaglehole Ok good to know my friend.

  • @salonimishra1075
    @salonimishra1075 Před rokem +148

    "Pain is certain, but suffering is a choice."
    So true!

    • @jesusbermudez6775
      @jesusbermudez6775 Před rokem +4

      No suffering is no choice. I never choose to suffer.

    • @Breakaway-ic5gj
      @Breakaway-ic5gj Před 9 měsíci +1

      ​@@jesusbermudez6775 You're calling it suffering, so yes, you do choose to suffer. Think of it more like a challenge in a game, difficulties are there to make you a better person. There's something to win in every situation, so it isn't suffering, it's a game.

    • @jesusbermudez6775
      @jesusbermudez6775 Před 9 měsíci

      Nobody is as good as me. I am so good three times I have been called God. I will tell you the occasions once when I set a business for a complete stranger a person seeing that said to me, "who do you think you are God?, then another person said to me, "Sr Jesús, I have never seen anybody like you before, to me you are like a God so humble and now you have shown courage come back with your head high, and an ex-student would say to me, "and does God Jesús knows where he is going?" What I have been doing is becoming a bad person because if you are a good person you end up chewed up and destroyed. @@Breakaway-ic5gj

    • @IramCoercere
      @IramCoercere Před 8 měsíci

      @@jesusbermudez6775If you enjoy the pain, than its not suffering

  • @casspower
    @casspower Před měsícem +4

    I’ve cried every night for the last 4 months wishing I could change my situation and honestly trying so hard but nothing changes. I just pray it gets better one day like I’ve known in the past.

  • @carnivoroussarah
    @carnivoroussarah Před 3 lety +1892

    I'm on disability, sitting in my messy apartment, in agonizing pain (emotionally and physically), barely able to get up. But after this video, I choose to be free from the shackles of my suffering. I may be in pain, but I'm choosing to slowly get up and go get some cookies and smile despite the pain. Thank you.
    Thanks to those who wished me well. Appreciate it. I'm in the process of looking for a job right now.

    • @carnivoroussarah
      @carnivoroussarah Před 3 lety +14

      @@johnmckenna1776 Thanks John. It's been rough. I think he did though as I learned why I'm suffering and how to fix it. Blessings to you. 😇

    • @justintorrex6676
      @justintorrex6676 Před 3 lety +24

      CLEAN YOUR ROOM AND TELL THE TRUTH.

    • @Johnwick-dt9vx
      @Johnwick-dt9vx Před 3 lety +7

      @@justintorrex6676 The greatest Truth of All time:
      There is no god but God and Muhammad is messenger of God,
      As God conveys to us in Quran Chapter 3 Verse 144
      Muhammad is not but a messenger.
      [Other] messengers have passed on before him. So if he was to die or be killed, would you turn back on your heels [to unbelief]? And he who turns back on his heels will never harm God at all; but God will reward the grateful.

    • @justintorrex6676
      @justintorrex6676 Před 3 lety +15

      @@Johnwick-dt9vx LOLOLOLOL EVEN BIGGER TRUTH: ISLAM IS CANCER

    • @Johnwick-dt9vx
      @Johnwick-dt9vx Před 3 lety +1

      @@justintorrex6676 Islam is submission to Ultimate reality either willingly or unwillingly,

  • @blueivy3357
    @blueivy3357 Před 3 lety +2841

    This video came into my life at just the right time.

  • @sticksteves7499
    @sticksteves7499 Před 2 lety +261

    Watching this on my birthday, feeling forgotten about and having been in a depressed state for almost a year. Definitely looking for the honey, as I know, this too shall pass.
    I wish the best to everyone who comes across this video and this short message of mine.

    • @emerchickenbk9457
      @emerchickenbk9457 Před 2 lety +6

      Ay I’m seeing this late but happy late birthday bro I hope life is going better

    • @kitty_s23456
      @kitty_s23456 Před 2 lety +4

      Late birthday greetings too. I hope you're in a better place now. 💐

    • @sticksteves7499
      @sticksteves7499 Před 2 lety +2

      @@kitty_s23456 Thank you so much!!

    • @sticksteves7499
      @sticksteves7499 Před 2 lety +2

      @@emerchickenbk9457 Thanks a lot, I really appreciate it!

    • @hugocamboim9315
      @hugocamboim9315 Před rokem +1

      Isto também passará. I should remember This.

  • @jerrycannon6940
    @jerrycannon6940 Před 2 lety +124

    When things go bad there are answers there. There are lessons there to be learned. Bad isn't always bad. It's a blessing in disguise

    • @perfectsplit5515
      @perfectsplit5515 Před rokem +3

      Chris Gardner was devastated to get evicted from his hotel room. It was even sadder to spend that night sleeping in the public restroom.
      But that painful experience of homelessness drove him to work so hard that he managed to beat out all other 19 competitive interns for that stockbroker job with Dean Witter. And later become a multimillionaire.
      Blessing in disguise?

  • @christinagaller4374
    @christinagaller4374 Před 3 lety +1280

    "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about learning how to dance in the rain.”

    • @Quietriot369
      @Quietriot369 Před 3 lety +13

      Riding the Storm

    • @priya-lj6qy
      @priya-lj6qy Před 3 lety +5

      Omg this Quote is so beautiful 🥺💙

    • @Dylan-bl7xl
      @Dylan-bl7xl Před 3 lety +12

      Yes. I always dance in the rain, sensual and naked, touching myself and anyone else nearby.

    • @graceoline
      @graceoline Před 3 lety +4

      I have this sticker on my car 🙌🏻

    • @DashieNCheekie
      @DashieNCheekie Před 3 lety

      I don't like rain 🌧 😒

  • @elucidqtor7507
    @elucidqtor7507 Před 3 lety +762

    “Pain is certain. Suffering is optional”

    • @user-fj5ec9zd2o
      @user-fj5ec9zd2o Před 3 lety +15

      That hit me hard...such a good quote

    • @shailajakotian9730
      @shailajakotian9730 Před 3 lety +2

      Agreed!

    • @NoSoulNoToll
      @NoSoulNoToll Před 3 lety +12

      Tell that to a child with cancer

    • @FlamingDagger126
      @FlamingDagger126 Před 3 lety +14

      @@NoSoulNoToll It isn’t relevant to everyone and every situation. This quote is not absolute.

    • @NoSoulNoToll
      @NoSoulNoToll Před 3 lety +13

      @@FlamingDagger126 I would say this is just wishful thinking. If push comes to shove most people will not be stoic but simply break down.

  • @vijaynaik7250
    @vijaynaik7250 Před rokem +81

    I really needed to hear this. I'm 34, jobless for 3 years living with my father and brother. Even though I'm not in any kind financial problems (brother & father helps me out) but my inner conscious is eating me for smooching on their money. I'm hoping to get a job soon, hopefully that day comes soon.

    • @Anto_81
      @Anto_81 Před rokem +7

      I'm sorry to hear that, I know what it feels like. Hang in there, you'll soon find something x

    • @peaa666
      @peaa666 Před rokem

      Join some call centre

    • @perfectsplit5515
      @perfectsplit5515 Před rokem +8

      And I was an adult burden on my parents for years during the Great Recession. I had a lot of free time to workout, though.

    • @robbykiller2323
      @robbykiller2323 Před rokem +2

      Chaiwala has got no jobs

    • @vijaynaik7250
      @vijaynaik7250 Před rokem

      @@robbykiller2323 True

  • @eldonscott9
    @eldonscott9 Před 3 lety +70

    “Joy is the justice we give ourselves.” -Drew Lanham
    This can be a challenge to get with, there’s no doubt. But try it on, there’s nothing to lose.

  • @TheDhammaHub
    @TheDhammaHub Před 3 lety +423

    Great suffering is also a strong impulse for change and improvement! The Buddha called suffering a "divine messenger" for a reason.

    • @dirtdiggler9293
      @dirtdiggler9293 Před 3 lety +3

      Wow

    • @19111959
      @19111959 Před 3 lety +1

      Profound...

    • @forsythez
      @forsythez Před 3 lety +9

      Jesus died for our sins and was buried. On the third day, God raised Him from the dead. Believe in Him and what He has done for us and receive the free gift of salvation. God bless you.

    • @HMohr
      @HMohr Před 3 lety +17

      Until a certain point. Too much suffering cripples from inside and you just freeze.

    • @rn3302
      @rn3302 Před 3 lety

      Suffering heals

  • @EErriic1
    @EErriic1 Před 3 lety +1171

    “The darkest hour of night comes just before dawn.” - Paulo Coelho

  • @cindisowder2182
    @cindisowder2182 Před 2 lety +44

    I’ve listened to this several times. My tendency is to completely fold when I’ve been used, abused, and thrown away because of childhood trauma. This made me remember the time my ex decided not to send my children back to me for my week of Christmas. We had kept things open because of his constantly changing work schedule. But with narcissists that was the wrong thing to do. I was in a deep depression because I had taken off the week and had plans but as usual he killed then. My husband kept trying to cheer me up. Instead I was in a ball on the bed crying. He finally gently but firmly said that I could continue crying over a situation that wouldn’t change or I could get up and get ready and he’d take me to a movie. It hit me that the time would pass either way. The first scenario I’d be exhausted and sad going back to work after the week. The second I could try to make the best of it. Going through a heartbreak with my adult daughter now because she chooses to be the same way as her dad. I want to roll into a ball, but I know that I’ll be ok if I just keep moving forward and concentrating on what is going right in my life. I’m pretty easy to please. Trying to please someone who is bottomless is so draining and what I have had to remind myself is completely pointless.

    • @fitnesspoint2006
      @fitnesspoint2006 Před rokem +2

      Wow men must have lots of emotional power over women, because they always seem tobe the topic to discuss with our girlfriends, family and the internet.

    • @cyndimoring9389
      @cyndimoring9389 Před rokem +2

      @@fitnesspoint2006 women can be tricked by men they thought they knew and vice versa

  • @Gsinghthegreat
    @Gsinghthegreat Před rokem +10

    My life is falling apart and things seem so stagnant and difficult, this video is like a sign from the heavens

  • @Rahulsingh-mq2ny
    @Rahulsingh-mq2ny Před 3 lety +292

    To all the people reading this the pain shall pass stay strong 💪

  • @Dacademeca
    @Dacademeca Před 3 lety +482

    "Do Not Dwell In The Past, Do Not Dream Of The Future, Concentrate The Mind On The Present Moment."
    - Buddha

    • @annabellacrewe8858
      @annabellacrewe8858 Před 3 lety +10

      Yep. And what a rehearsing according to the mind(ego). As Shakespeare said: There's Nothing good or bad - thinking makes it so !

    • @mindofgod1737
      @mindofgod1737 Před 3 lety

      It's means there's no birth and death mentally makes it so.............

    • @elonever.2.071
      @elonever.2.071 Před 3 lety

      @@mindofgod1737
      The body is the car, Consciousness is the driver..cars come and go and the driver keeps on driving.

    • @normabeatriz4247
      @normabeatriz4247 Před 3 lety +3

      I find something contradictory between this assertion and a fragment of the video. Regarding the king, it's said "when the times were good, he prepared for bad times ..." Then, the king was thinking about the future.

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 Před 3 lety +2

      The present moment could mean your demise,fool❌☠️💥💲

  • @exildur
    @exildur Před 2 lety +40

    This channel has mentally and emotionally saved me numerous times. Please don't stop making content.

  • @trina7881
    @trina7881 Před 2 lety +67

    Before this year ends, i just want to thank you for this video because it really did helped me through my darkest moment of this year. That moment seemed endless and hopeless until this was recommended to me by yt. I managed to pull myself up and go on. You don't know how much this means to me. Im sincerely grateful ♥️

    • @stephfeels555
      @stephfeels555 Před rokem +3

      Beautiful. It’s helping me too 💜🪷

  • @MuhammadAliGOAT
    @MuhammadAliGOAT Před 3 lety +284

    "The way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that even our own actual existence is an act of rebellion"

  • @corsicana6868
    @corsicana6868 Před 3 lety +193

    Don't worry about things you can't control, you can't change them
    Don't worry about things you can control, you can change them.

  • @seananderson7153
    @seananderson7153 Před rokem +54

    I needed this SO MUCH today. My mind is always worrying about the future, imagining the worst case scenario, or dreading the past. I’ve lost sight of the present so much that I’m almost blind to it, that I haven’t been enjoying the where I am and what I have. I’ve only been imagining the worst future scenarios. I need to get myself under control. I’ll keep this video handy. Again, thank you. ✨💖✨

    • @purpledreamer9654
      @purpledreamer9654 Před rokem +5

      I feel the same way we are living in such an uncertain world atm 😟
      I try and concentrate on the small things that I am grateful for each morning and each night
      Watching something funny before I go to sleep helps
      Stay strong you got this
      Sending some gentle virtual hugs your way 🙏🤗🌻💜🙏

    • @seananderson7153
      @seananderson7153 Před rokem +2

      @@purpledreamer9654 Thanks. My life is actually pretty amazing. There is just a few elements I can’t fix or expedite, and I choose to suffer because of them. I let fear consume me, maybe because it’s easier to play the victim than taking a risk and fixing my situation. I really appreciate this video, and your comment. Both some extra strength to get me through the day. ✨💎✨

    • @fruits36
      @fruits36 Před rokem +1

      Just live in the moment. Take a deep breath when everything feels like overwhelming.

    • @seananderson7153
      @seananderson7153 Před rokem

      @@fruits36 Thanks. I really appreciate the advice. ✨🙏✨

  • @ngangompravinadevi8065
    @ngangompravinadevi8065 Před rokem +8

    Pain is certain, suffering is optional.
    Beautiful❤❤❤

  • @ShardsofWisdom
    @ShardsofWisdom Před 3 lety +363

    "Even death is not to be feared by one who has lived wisely.”

    • @lisajohnson6351
      @lisajohnson6351 Před 3 lety +18

      I’m pretty sure I haven’t lived that wisely, yet I am not afraid of death. I’m afraid of being incapacitated.

    • @Ansh-vajra
      @Ansh-vajra Před 3 lety

      My favorite quote

    • @maxd3783
      @maxd3783 Před 3 lety +1

      Death is a blessing

    • @j.a.fligor97
      @j.a.fligor97 Před 3 lety +1

      I've already died. I didn't want to come back... So I know for me it will be joyous compared to living here.
      But for many I realized this will not be so.

    • @aegisreflector1239
      @aegisreflector1239 Před 3 lety

      @@j.a.fligor97 how do u know? Isnt just infinite darkness...

  • @astraeusgodofthestars676
    @astraeusgodofthestars676 Před 3 lety +592

    I'm jobless and alone and this video gave me hope. Thank you Eizelganger. 🙏

  • @j.a.c3813
    @j.a.c3813 Před rokem +3

    Sometimes life may fall apart, but what may happen next is even better than what was going on before. I know it sounds odd, but there are many lessons to learn from suffering. I almost died in a horrible car accident. My recovery was and is long, I lost my job, car, income, house, etc... I lost many people who I thought were friends. There was a point I even felt I would lose my sanity over it all. But during the hardest time of recovery, I realized so much about myself. I forgave myself and others for pains I dragged with me every day. I just had to breath and ask myself, what is the universe trying to show me and day by day I went with that feeling. Life is all about perspective.

  • @AdityaSingh-ll4ld
    @AdityaSingh-ll4ld Před 2 lety +24

    I'm just in a very bad dark place in life and your videos have just been a splendid help. Thank you. This too shall pass🙏🏼

    • @SK-cs5pk
      @SK-cs5pk Před rokem +1

      How are you now brother?❤

  • @moominmay
    @moominmay Před 3 lety +383

    *”Pain is certain. Suffering is optional”.* I’ve recently come to this conclusion myself after a series of catastrophic events including losing my father and my home. I was unable to put that thought into a concise impactful sentence so this video has helped so much with that. This is my mantra from now on most likely.

    • @karlag478
      @karlag478 Před 3 lety +16

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I know you’re strong and you got this! I’m happy that you have found a mantra that helps you :) you are so strong and things will get better

    • @sciencylopedia7717
      @sciencylopedia7717 Před 2 lety +2

      Pain IS suffering. "Pleasure is certain. Happiness is optional." See how fking stupid that sounds.

  • @MJA5
    @MJA5 Před 3 lety +461

    This one is definitely worth watching twice, at least for me. The message is stoic, be at peace with the inevitable change around us, when it is good, enjoy, for we know the ebb and flow. When it is bad, take heart, it is not permanent and something will change for the better. The waves of life like the waves on the shore..

    • @punkyoliverio
      @punkyoliverio Před 3 lety

      🙏 True

    • @t-bone6467
      @t-bone6467 Před 3 lety +7

      Basically "amor fati"

    • @MJA5
      @MJA5 Před 3 lety +2

      @@t-bone6467 I suppose that's right. Why obsess over the unchangeable?

    • @forsythez
      @forsythez Před 3 lety +3

      Jesus died for our sins and was buried. On the third day, God raised Him from the dead. Believe in Him and what He has done for us and receive the free gift of salvation. God bless you.

    • @silpheedTandy
      @silpheedTandy Před 3 lety +5

      i'm not convinced by the idea that "when it is bad, it is not permanent". some people end up living years of misery only to then die. this is where i am not convinced by the video.

  • @joegolife
    @joegolife Před 4 měsíci +2

    what i searched in youtube is "would things really fall in place?", and i was already expecting at the back of my mind Einzelganger has something for this. I love the story of the man in the well, that the future and our perception of it and preparation for it are things that we should be mindful of rather than the suffering. Thanks once again mate!

  • @talisay2942
    @talisay2942 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank God, I stumbled into this when I was at my lowest ebb. How very timely this was... I was jolted back to life.🙏🏼🙏🏼😥😊

  • @phoenixveal6517
    @phoenixveal6517 Před 3 lety +821

    “Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and today is a gift. That’s why it’s called the present”
    -Master Oogway

    • @ilovecoffeev
      @ilovecoffeev Před 3 lety +23

      I love so much that this amazing quote is literally wisdom from a tortoise to a panda, yet is one of the most crucial truths that absolutely changed my perception of life.

    • @garylkwoodlardl3951
      @garylkwoodlardl3951 Před 3 lety

    • @nvp9095
      @nvp9095 Před 3 lety

      😮

    • @anythingthoughanythingthou2453
      @anythingthoughanythingthou2453 Před 3 lety +5

      @@ilovecoffeev it’s an old saying not originally from the movie

    • @ilovecoffeev
      @ilovecoffeev Před 3 lety +2

      @@anythingthoughanythingthou2453 makes it no less inspirational though

  • @NoName-oj5pl
    @NoName-oj5pl Před 3 lety +90

    I lost a lot of so called friends a few years back. They were the type of people who were quick to call me for a favor but forget to call me when there was an event. It was difficult to get over it, but now that I'm on the other end I thank God they are out of my life. It was an eye opener and taught me how to navigate away from users in my life.

    • @perceptortron
      @perceptortron Před 3 lety +3

      They gave you freedom 😉

    • @mdjawed9937
      @mdjawed9937 Před 2 lety

      I feel u man am falling down myself

    • @COSMICCFREQUENCY144
      @COSMICCFREQUENCY144 Před 2 lety

      same but im grateful to be free from all of the users in my life, the attachments set me free. I have so much better relationships now with people that actually care about my well being, people that dont put their well being over mine. Its a blessing, ain't It ?

  • @dolly22
    @dolly22 Před rokem +2

    It's showed up on my recommendation when I'm feeling dejected.....
    Truly made me calm..... hopefully I'll heal from the pain I'm going through 😔

  • @terryheaton31
    @terryheaton31 Před 2 lety +7

    “Pain is certain, suffering is optional “. Well said.

  • @JonnyChaos
    @JonnyChaos Před 3 lety +205

    The future NEVER plays out how we imagine it. The way we imagine things has a 100% fail rate, it might be similar but it's never ever the same as we imagine it, yet we give our imagination so much credit. It's pretty stupid how much credit we do give it when you see just how unreliable it actually is hahaha.

    • @MistaGoodStuff
      @MistaGoodStuff Před 3 lety +5

      Some cold hard truth right here

    • @karlag478
      @karlag478 Před 3 lety +4

      Wow that’s so true. That just changed my perspective wow thank you fr

    • @retrovintagething7013
      @retrovintagething7013 Před 3 lety +14

      Do not discount the purpose of your imagination. Its evolutionary biology that kept our species alive for millions of years

    • @aljongreat1900
      @aljongreat1900 Před 3 lety +1

      Thx for this

    • @DhruvDua88
      @DhruvDua88 Před 3 lety +1

      Needed this today.

  • @elonever.2.071
    @elonever.2.071 Před 3 lety +95

    When life falls apart and you have no control, focus on maintaining your mental fortitude, strengthen it, nurture it and soon you will see that the Universe has rewritten your destiny for a reason.

  • @ALofiLife
    @ALofiLife Před rokem +5

    Sometimes life just drives you insane. Or perhaps I've always been?

  • @adityapujari8
    @adityapujari8 Před rokem +2

    Everyday I learn a little, fail a little but I want to appreciate my life as it is. Thank you.

  • @henryearnest5098
    @henryearnest5098 Před 3 lety +44

    "Pain is certain, suffering is optional" This freed my soul... Thank You 🙏

  • @FutureMindset
    @FutureMindset Před 3 lety +133

    When times are good, prepare for the bad times. When times are bad, look ahead to the good times.
    Remind yourself of fluctuating nature of life and detach yourself from the reactions that come with it.

    • @punkyoliverio
      @punkyoliverio Před 3 lety +1

      🙏 True

    • @emmettcorley2310
      @emmettcorley2310 Před 3 lety +1

      You missed the point. Just live in the present moment, for the moment - you cannot prepare for what you don’t know

  • @faultycommodity
    @faultycommodity Před 3 lety +14

    "Pain is certain; suffering is optional." I'm sold!

  • @watcherworld5873
    @watcherworld5873 Před 2 lety +2

    I am desperately trying to get through the next 22 months of misery in order to get my retirement package. I am watching videos such as this one to help me frame my situation as something tolerable. Wish me luck.

  • @Chinosavage98
    @Chinosavage98 Před 3 lety +74

    Don't demand that things happen as you wish, but wish that they happen as they do happen , and you will go on as well. -Epictetus, Enchiridion 8

  • @ShardsofWisdom
    @ShardsofWisdom Před 3 lety +117

    “One clings to life although there is nothing to be called life; another clings to death although there is nothing to be called death. In reality, there is nothing to be born; consequently, there is nothing to perish.”

    • @rhabdob3895
      @rhabdob3895 Před 3 lety +4

      Hmmm....I don’t know about all that.

    • @celticandpenobscot8658
      @celticandpenobscot8658 Před 3 lety +5

      “One clings to life although there is nothing to be called life; another clings to death although there is nothing to be called death. In reality, there is nothing to be born; consequently, there is nothing to perish.” The Bodhidharma. Thanks for the quote!!

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Jackgritty28 The hell you smoking?

    • @forsythez
      @forsythez Před 3 lety +1

      Jesus died for our sins and was buried. On the third day, God raised Him from the dead. Believe in Him and what He has done for us and receive the free gift of salvation. God bless you.

    • @errata938
      @errata938 Před 2 lety

      .

  • @uuu098
    @uuu098 Před 2 lety +7

    Reminds me of the ancient story of the farmers horse running away but returning with another horse with it. Life certainly seems to fall into place instead of having "bad luck" or "good luck". Also if there is no free will, then everything has already "happened" and we just have yet to experience it.

  • @Rard.
    @Rard. Před 2 lety +5

    The world is falling apart, I needed this thank you!

  • @thomashenshallhydraxis
    @thomashenshallhydraxis Před 3 lety +51

    My entire life was turned upside down September 3 2020, been struggling since.
    Something happened today that started to change my mind, then I saw the video on same day...
    This video seem to come at the exactly the right time for me to make sense of what happened in my life.

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 Před 3 lety +2

      You've been struggling financially💲

    • @kashhere4778
      @kashhere4778 Před 3 lety +2

      My life began to fall apart the same time.... in still struggling...

    • @Violet-fg9db
      @Violet-fg9db Před 3 lety

      @@kashhere4778 Mine started falling appart end 2019. 2020 and 2021 are the continuation. But yesterday i watched a video and another on this channel that changed my mindset. And today i was recommended this one.
      I'm greatfull.

  • @BigE.Celula
    @BigE.Celula Před 3 lety +71

    To all reading this life will fall in its place 🙏🏻🍯

    • @Amal757
      @Amal757 Před 3 lety

      I really hope so.

  • @zoyaali9545
    @zoyaali9545 Před 9 měsíci +1

    The Piano playing in the background is so beautiful and heart touching. It makes me so sad.💔

  • @uniquestatustv6532
    @uniquestatustv6532 Před 3 lety +1

    I really needed this video. “ Pain is certain but suffering is optional “👏🏾

  • @Dacademeca
    @Dacademeca Před 3 lety +236

    "Life Is Really Simple, But We Insist On Making It Complicated."
    - Confucius

  • @takforce06
    @takforce06 Před 3 lety +32

    The Future is undetermined. People die, fortunes appear, skills are learned, people come into your life. Pray things happen as they will. Dance to the music in your heart. Pursue the visions in your mind. Love those around you. Tomorrow is not guaranteed and yesterday is not what you remember. Now is an opportunity to beat to your own drum.

  • @processofweedingout
    @processofweedingout Před 3 lety

    That message came at the right time and made me feel so much better. Thank you. 🙏🏻

  • @gretathegarbo
    @gretathegarbo Před 2 lety

    I’m pretty obsessed with this at the moment. It is helping me through a very tough time. So wise.

  • @poulomimondal6145
    @poulomimondal6145 Před 3 lety +41

    This video came as recommendation at a perfect time when I am going through a dark tunnel of misery and hopelessness. Lost my father few months back, after his demise me and my brother handling his businesses and struggling a lot. On top of that I am so lonely I don't have anyone to get comfortable with.

  • @nhmooytis7058
    @nhmooytis7058 Před 3 lety +19

    “I hope for nothing, I fear nothing, I am free.” Epitaph of Nikos Kazantzakis (author of Zorba The Greek).

  • @xuannguyen-db4jc
    @xuannguyen-db4jc Před rokem

    I am healing by myself each day of my struggling life. so grateful that such kind and beautiful videos exist.

  • @Pilkkukatti
    @Pilkkukatti Před rokem +1

    I have an existental crisis which started during summer. No job, clueless who I even am and what I should do in my life, middle of breaking up. I’m too scared and confused to even take any step to any direction, I don’t know what to do.
    Things haven’t got much better even though months has passed and I’m starting to feel hopeless, maybe this will never get better. But I just have to believe that my life will turn around someday. Someday I will be happy again and know who I am and what I wanna do in my life and I actually enjoy what I’m doing. I just have to push forward until then.

  • @chrisleguen2813
    @chrisleguen2813 Před 3 lety +10

    My life is definitely falling apart, there is very little joy in this universe at this point in life

    • @silverwind8120
      @silverwind8120 Před 3 lety +3

      mine too.

    • @matthewdonovan6073
      @matthewdonovan6073 Před 3 lety +3

      Time for a reset! It's never too late to start from scratch. Never give up on Hope.

    • @chrisleguen2813
      @chrisleguen2813 Před 3 lety

      @mz. white I used to love people, I uesd to love art and music and freedom to just be, these corporate elitist have ruined it all, made everything worthless, I'm just sick of being a slave to the dollar because that's how they want it, but they don't own me

  • @GearsinMotionGraphics
    @GearsinMotionGraphics Před 3 lety +16

    Life's Timing is so mysterious, because I just got the book When Things Fall Apart... and life is a cycle full of changes so thank you for this powerful video

  • @pleaseusernamework
    @pleaseusernamework Před 2 lety +5

    This was actually really good advice. Words to live by. I wish I did so 15-20 years ago. Time flies and life is short. Enjoy these small moments.

  • @truthcerum1222
    @truthcerum1222 Před rokem

    This is now one of my favourite channels, the eloquence and accent of the narrator makes it very special. Thank you 💕

  • @nehainthebay
    @nehainthebay Před 3 lety +14

    - Things change.
    - Our perceptions decide our reactions.
    Really appreciate the clarity with which you present the thoughts. Great video 👍🏽

  • @yedhukrishnan6700
    @yedhukrishnan6700 Před 3 lety +56

    I guess the CZcams algorithm understands me better than my psychologist

  • @K.etanak
    @K.etanak Před 2 měsíci +1

    I was hit by a health condition and went unemployed. Moreover, I just got rejected from a new job that I just applied for. I'm not sure what the future holds for me, but i can say that I have hit rock bottom, and from now on, there's only one way which is up. This video really helped to readjust my whole perspective.

  • @aljongreat1900
    @aljongreat1900 Před 9 měsíci

    This still remains one of the best video you ever made. Whenever life is not good to me, i replay this video. Its very uplifting, thank you and all philosophers in history.

  • @johnglavis2358
    @johnglavis2358 Před 3 lety +16

    "To be truly radical is to make hope possible rather than despair convincing." - Raymond Williams

  • @LearnWithAsma_
    @LearnWithAsma_ Před 3 lety +54

    Have been watching your channel for a long time and I just want to say, that I really like your content! Much appreciation. ✌

    •  Před 3 lety +5

      Thank you :)

    • @NotLawBDO
      @NotLawBDO Před 3 lety +5

      @ Today I learnt that one of my worst nightmares has been a reality for months. It was complete coincidence this video appeared in my inbox. Despite the despair I feel now because of my realization, I feel that many walls have been destroyed in my mind and I understand so much more because of that despair. I thank you for making this video.

  • @timothyroy20111
    @timothyroy20111 Před 3 lety +3

    I am not trying to exaggerate at all but I want to say that your work is a gift to humankind. Thank you so much for being so useful. I am hoping to be one of your patrons soon. Your work is impacting the way I think of life in a deep way. Stay blessed.

  • @shreyabhangare6509
    @shreyabhangare6509 Před rokem +1

    This video found me at the right time. Thank you. I needed this.

  • @SpodyOdy
    @SpodyOdy Před 3 lety +50

    I’m sure I am not alone but weird how this goes with events in my life yesterday.

    • @SpodyOdy
      @SpodyOdy Před 3 lety

      @@Jackgritty28 😄interesting how you interpreted that or realized it could be interpreted.

    • @SpodyOdy
      @SpodyOdy Před 3 lety

      @@Jackgritty28 😄

    • @shawnhampshirehick101
      @shawnhampshirehick101 Před 3 lety

      Me too

  • @kinmin7324
    @kinmin7324 Před 3 lety +14

    I'm in the darkest hours of my life, building my hopes by watching such beautiful videos 🙏🌸 thank u so much..

  • @vanessakesselring2002
    @vanessakesselring2002 Před 2 lety +2

    I just wanted to say that your videos helped me through a very intense time of my life where I just didn't know where to go or what to do. Everything seemed unsure and out of my control and your videos gave me the courage to let go of the desire to control everything. It helped me to trust and not force something! Thank you! You don't even know how powerful your videos are.

  • @madness5693
    @madness5693 Před 3 lety +1

    you have no idea, how much I needed to hear this

  • @klausgartenstiel4586
    @klausgartenstiel4586 Před 3 lety +39

    in the end we are all dead.
    but there's always honey.

  • @censoredanon8928
    @censoredanon8928 Před 3 lety +24

    Life at time changes, ebbs and flows, but no matter how desperate the situation, as long you draw breath, you can still live and still fight.
    I love that you mentioned Albert Camus, I adore him as a philosopher.

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 Před 3 lety +1

      Albert Camus is not known,first time anybody has heard of that jerk💥

  • @loueydimaunahan907
    @loueydimaunahan907 Před 2 lety +1

    What a timely message. Thank you for this. This is a big help

  • @chloehugaga2203
    @chloehugaga2203 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for preparing this video. My heart was in deepest pain just now. It heals at least 40% of pain. Thank you

  • @karsim83
    @karsim83 Před 3 lety +24

    Your channel along with Awaken insight and Academy of Ideas have saved me.
    I cant thank you enough.
    Thank you!
    Regards from Nepal

  • @Kitbats
    @Kitbats Před 3 lety +30

    Wow, recent events occurred that affected me negatively and this shows up. Maybe it does.

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 Před 3 lety +2

      And it's called social distancing,fool🏳️‍🌈

  • @user-nh6mx7xs3i
    @user-nh6mx7xs3i Před rokem +2

    I am feeling glad that such videos exists in the world.

  • @phildavidx
    @phildavidx Před 3 lety +1

    I sure needed this video today. Thank you for your videos.

  • @bossmtc6620
    @bossmtc6620 Před 3 lety +8

    I’m currently facing a very hard financial situation and I’ve been stressed all day overthinking about how this could only get worse ... I’m watching this video before I go to bed and I for the first time today, feel calm, relaxed and suddenly clear minded enough to find a solution to turn my situation around, I’ll come back and edit this comment once I over come this obstacle 🙌🏻

    • @silverwind8120
      @silverwind8120 Před 3 lety

      In the story actually the situation solves by itself. Without the man having to do anything about it. The video states that the situation can get really painful. The video is actually for when there's nothing we can do..

    • @AB-lv8jz
      @AB-lv8jz Před rokem

      How are you

  • @misskymbo
    @misskymbo Před 3 lety +26

    This was such a good lesson in fears, expectations, perspectives and faith in the future. I have struggled with my last year of university, grades have been slipping, relationships and opportunities lost, and just overall quality of education and life have been less than ideal. I have seen my grades drop, depression set in and anxiety take me over. This was SO helpful and adjusted my perspective so it's more about the "big picture". If I don't graduate with honours, don't get a MSc/ MIM, maybe there are other options I'm not seeing being so hyper focused. Anxiety gave me tunnel vision and his video broadened it! Thanks so much for this and all your content! Sincerely, a new subscriber. (Greetings from 🇨🇦)

  • @mel1v
    @mel1v Před 2 lety

    This channel has been so important for me for the past months, quite the impact

  • @BlakeKnight311
    @BlakeKnight311 Před 2 lety

    You have no idea how much this just helped me. Thank you

  • @robotone2812
    @robotone2812 Před 3 lety +188

    I asked my 12 year old son, "How come you are so (emotionally) consistent all the time?"
    He replied, "Have no expectations."

    • @mrsomebody8514
      @mrsomebody8514 Před 3 lety +17

      That's something else, ain't it? It always seems like kids are tapped into something lol

    • @mrsomebody8514
      @mrsomebody8514 Před 3 lety +25

      3 years ago my wife took off with my two very young girls at the time about 6 hours away, we would still meet up to exchange kids so they could see me, in the first time I had my children on my own my 4 year old one day caught me crying, I didn't want her to see that but she looked at me and said "it's okay daddy, its only the beginning" it was enough to make me turn as white as a ghost, she had no idea why I was crying, but it was like she was tapped into to something. Life is strange and wonderous sometimes.

    • @mariec.9102
      @mariec.9102 Před 3 lety +5

      Robot One - really? Your 12 year old said "have no expectations"? Come on!😆🤭 Stop it!😆😆

    • @jessacorpin528
      @jessacorpin528 Před 3 lety +3

      Bullshit HAHAHA

    • @caroconga
      @caroconga Před 3 lety +4

      He's like a Buddha

  • @crymeariver221
    @crymeariver221 Před 3 lety +27

    I always go back to an interview with reggae artist Bob Marley from time where he explained that when he was piss poor, he never saw it as being poor. He even goes as far to say that he never once felt like he suffered and it was all state of mind. This is coming from a mind who grew up in one of the poorest areas in Jamaica. He had no family, no support, nothing. Can only imagine the level of consciouness you have to be at, to come to a conclusion like that at a young age.

    • @tnt01
      @tnt01 Před 3 lety

      he had no family?

    • @utualan
      @utualan Před 3 lety

      To be alive and not suffering is enough.

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 Před 3 lety +1

      Some people should do some research on why Jamaica is poor,the algorithm in reggae music is called the off beat,I hope it's not dancehalls fault🇯🇲🦇💲❌

  • @jameshasbeenjammin
    @jameshasbeenjammin Před rokem

    Honestly. I really needed this today. I was freaking out about something.
    Thank you.

  • @shrutigupta2563
    @shrutigupta2563 Před rokem +3

    Overcoming depression.. came long way.. and long way to go..
    Everyone has their own problems, but I think it's always about the state of mind and perceptions. Feed your mind with positive thoughts, accept whatever happened and focus on your health and next move, and have faith😊😇 sending love and blessings to all of you 🙏😇

  • @timmymendez9156
    @timmymendez9156 Před 3 lety +6

    Whenever things change for me and get better I’ll appreciate this video for teaching me to stay down for the come up no matter how bad shit gets

  • @sarasdiver3188
    @sarasdiver3188 Před 3 lety +10

    When life falls apart,it is actually falling into place. Love it!

  • @lovetrustandpixiedust
    @lovetrustandpixiedust Před rokem +1

    Found this video at the right time. Thank you for making these videos. ❤️

  • @blaisemarak
    @blaisemarak Před 3 lety +6

    I've been having a tough week ... Finding this video is truly a blessing ...