Talk Habesha - Dating Outside Culture?

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  • čas přidán 31. 12. 2018
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    Abigail Belay @abigailbelay_ (Creator and Editor of Talk Habesha)
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Komentáře • 528

  • @ramondoxxrobinson
    @ramondoxxrobinson Před 4 lety +36

    My wife is Eritrean and Ethiopian, and I am German, African American, and Native American. Our son is gorgeous, our marriage is beautiful, and I know God would not have it any other way.

    • @sonnytewolde2792
      @sonnytewolde2792 Před 3 lety +6

      I'm Eritrean, my husband is African American, Native American, and Caucasian, and we've got 7 beautiful kid's. I agree God would not have it any other way

  • @somalidhalad3483
    @somalidhalad3483 Před 5 lety +146

    Beautiful friends love and respect from your brother somali, we are one nation ♥ peace and love Somalia Ethiopia Djibouti and Eritrea ' WE ARE ONE family

  • @asmaabdv
    @asmaabdv Před 5 lety +77

    Love this! Finally some UK Habesha representation! Can’t wait for more!!

    • @ahavatube2404
      @ahavatube2404 Před 4 lety

      czcams.com/video/m-JK44dcdY8/video.html

    • @yannicktenekeunde3205
      @yannicktenekeunde3205 Před 3 lety

      Hi dear is a plesure an privilage to meet you i wish to no you beter if you permit me thank possibl we thank so great

  • @user-yx5tm1tt9i
    @user-yx5tm1tt9i Před 5 lety +18

    I have 14years old teenager boys I completely understand what you talking about I myself thinking a lot it all the time my wish my dream would be my son to merry from my country I don't care Tigray, Amhara,Oomo or Eritria but if will not happen I except support him what ever he choose in his life
    I love you guys you all beautiful and wise I m sure you parents proud of you be good and kind each other

  • @aderasview9562
    @aderasview9562 Před 4 lety +12

    As an American that era mistaken for Habesha , Somali, or Nubian Egyptian I was almost engaged to an Eritrean and later North Sudanese, I think people should be open minded. So many people carry the same traditions and values that are not Habesha. I’ve experienced all worlds and honestly it’s e same lol. More of my Eritrean friends are open minded but going outside your race is an Amazing learning experience. I like guys from other backgrounds just wish more were open minded. 💕💕💕 that’s how we learn and love each other more. Especially in times like these.

    • @yannicktenekeunde3205
      @yannicktenekeunde3205 Před 3 lety

      How dear is a plesure to meet you i wish to no you beter if you permit me thank i am call apostle T D yannick from cameroon

  • @adams782003
    @adams782003 Před 5 lety +77

    I think as an African American it’s very hard pill to swallow, I understand the video and also respect all points of view. I wish I knew from an ancestor or heritage point of view where I come from in Africa, but that fact is I will never know. I can find a region, but I will never know my tribe! To not only be sold, but then generationally down the line be rejected by your own people is tough, and this is not what you are doing in this interview, but I say this if you find love, and it’s not necessarily from your culture embrace it. Because it could be what your culture has taught you, that makes you attractive, the reason I stated that I was African American is because I would love to marry any beautiful woman from Africa but my fear is because I’m American I would be demeaned, and it’s sad to say but for some Africans definitely not all, they will accept a white man, before an African American, but I do appreciate your perspectives, I am much a fan of Ethiopia and Eritrean cultures may y’all continue to live in peace! Shalom!

    • @yeshisew9457
      @yeshisew9457 Před 5 lety +24

      But now you are your own ethnic group... Okay you dont know what exaxt country/countries your ancestors were from but you can be proud of the many things african americans have contributed to the world. And why dont you just marry an african american women??

    • @fruitsarelife148
      @fruitsarelife148 Před 5 lety +12

      Trust me habeshas know where they are from but they dont value it, they breed out.. Soo
      Try to stick to your own, Cause that is where the value is.

    • @adams782003
      @adams782003 Před 5 lety +13

      The both of you made great points, but I was mainly trying to bridge love and culture together, I might not have succeeded in making my point, I love African American woman, they are some of the most strongest, loyal to a fault sometimes women I know, and to bring up culture as an African American we have made tons of contributions to the world, just wish at times we had our own land, because we tend to be exploited a lot, everyone has somewhere to go but us, but I will say this and it’s just for conversation I’m not saying the either of you were insinuating this, but I’m proud to be an African American, there is no shame in my blood, was just responding to the videos of my African brothers and sisters hoping they could see life from a different point of view!

    • @rigmarhaynes4197
      @rigmarhaynes4197 Před 5 lety +15

      Dont sorry about the people stating they will not marry non-habesha or whatever. Their opinions are often just in that particular moment.
      Me as an diasporic African myself from Curaçao living in the Netherlands it has become pretty normal to be in Black Intercultural relationships.
      However I still see sometimes that for example that a Somali, Eritrean or Ethiopian would rather marry a European than an African from a different branch. It stinks of the illusion of white supremacy. White/European is better.

    • @adams782003
      @adams782003 Před 5 lety +1

      maya garba appreciate that my brother, may peace continue to be with you! Thanks for your response!

  • @marakiabiy126
    @marakiabiy126 Před 4 lety +1

    Hey guys! I love what you’re doing here on your channel! Keep it up! Don’t mind the haters, you guys have created a platform which can connect so many different habeshas around the world through very interesting conversations! I just binge watched too many of your videos😂😂 and I’m happy to discover your community in London! All my love from Canada!💕💕

  • @princehall9037
    @princehall9037 Před 3 lety +18

    My wife is Ethiopian, we had absolutely no issues. Culture wise it was different but I learned and respected hers and she did mine. Her parents didn’t trip one bit now her older sister was something else. When we got married both families had a great time. My family loves her and hers loves me. It’s all about respecting each other’s culture. They were just happy she was treated well, finished school and she was happy at the end of the day. Our three children are immersed in both cultures. They speak the both languages and have the same religion. She doesn’t have to work if she doesn’t and the family is thriving. There are bums in all cultures as long I wasn’t a bum and respected her and the culture it was all good.

    • @abdi2166
      @abdi2166 Před 2 lety +1

      Ethiopians don't encourage mixing their DNA with Bantu blood from what I know

    • @BF-bb5us
      @BF-bb5us Před 2 lety +1

      @@abdi2166 well they better learn their history then.

    • @howtotieatie5845
      @howtotieatie5845 Před rokem

      @@abdi2166 And that's very good.

    • @Axiom61
      @Axiom61 Před rokem +1

      @@howtotieatie5845 you are in every video on CZcams discouraging Ethiopians or Eritreans having a relationship other than the their culture. Why is it?

    • @howtotieatie5845
      @howtotieatie5845 Před rokem

      @@Axiom61 I don't discourage anybody.

  • @Emebet24
    @Emebet24 Před 5 lety +2

    I love it! Looking forward for more videos
    ✌🏽💚💛❤️

  • @yonathanasefaw9001
    @yonathanasefaw9001 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm Ethiopian so it was great to see some opinions about Ethiopian life.

  • @babylane5449
    @babylane5449 Před 5 lety +11

    I agree with the girl wearing a cardigan next to the sheriff lol

  • @winnieooko
    @winnieooko Před 5 lety +11

    What happens when you meet someone who you connect with but is not from your culture!! I feel like times are changing and as we travel we meet different people from diverse cultures!!! We should not limit ourselves just saying

  • @user-sw5qw3lg4y
    @user-sw5qw3lg4y Před 5 lety +45

    date each other

  • @michaelt2625
    @michaelt2625 Před 5 lety +3

    Love love that British accent so beautiful...

  • @alemzewdholsey248
    @alemzewdholsey248 Před 5 lety +6

    Y’all should feel free to merry who ever you want to merry,there no low it says you have to marry your on people 💚💛❤️

  • @cecelila5844
    @cecelila5844 Před 5 lety +1

    I liked and subscribed! Yes to more videos!

  • @ashu5958
    @ashu5958 Před 5 lety +1

    Great start guys

  • @jordanmeko
    @jordanmeko Před 5 lety +6

    Amazing video 🎥❤️ Can’t wait for more 🎊

  • @abdoulayeadam6498
    @abdoulayeadam6498 Před 5 lety +9

    When I was a teenager I didn’t know that there were such different culture & tribes whether in Ethiopia or Eritrea.
    And I always used to prepare Ethiopian/Eritrean girl in my life and I’m Sudanese.
    For me you don’t look different at all 🇪🇹or 🇪🇷. and I don’t understand which is Habasha and which is Amhara or Tigri, and I don’t want to understand either because it’s all means to me is just increases division.
    Finally I got Eritrean friend he explained everything to me.
    But what I experienced is that most Africans in general understand how they should accept each other only after they travel overseas.

    • @ba5092
      @ba5092 Před 5 lety +5

      Abdoulaye Adam go marry ur Sudanese trash plz 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

    • @fruitsarelife148
      @fruitsarelife148 Před 5 lety +3

      You are absolutely right, Africa loves tribalism. But i think the future will be better

    • @abdoulayeadam6498
      @abdoulayeadam6498 Před 5 lety +3

      B A
      Don’t discriminate plz we should tell each other with calmness.

    • @rigmarhaynes4197
      @rigmarhaynes4197 Před 5 lety +2

      We are the generation we have been waiting for. Forget and neglect those who think around tribal lines. Let this generation Pan Africanize.

    • @abdoulayeadam6498
      @abdoulayeadam6498 Před 5 lety +2

      Mel King
      Lol My point is that you'll Africans.
      Bit some how there's colorism and tribalism going on that's reason why Africa is suffering.
      We should forget colorism & tribalism and establish Africanism and human values.

  • @BLESSINGMARIEE
    @BLESSINGMARIEE Před 5 lety +4

    Really interesting - love this!

  • @Flashkiiddo
    @Flashkiiddo Před 5 lety +2

    loved the video & the idea 👍🏼, but you should work more on the sound quality.

  • @theflagbearer9196
    @theflagbearer9196 Před 5 lety +46

    I cant imagine Marrying a non somali, like i live for having a banter in somali and having that cultural connection. Also somali women like other horners are absolutely stunning,like why look elsewhere.

    • @fruitsarelife148
      @fruitsarelife148 Před 5 lety +27

      I respect somalis for passing down what they have been blessed with. Give habeshas a piece of that. Lol.

    • @504_jts6
      @504_jts6 Před 5 lety

      not really my guy they prolly dont want u

    • @ba5092
      @ba5092 Před 5 lety +14

      Wiilka Qarniga same 🙌 I could never marry a non somali man . I’ve already had enough stress in my life to go and marry a ajnabi. No thanks. Idk how some people do it

    • @Nico.Robin7
      @Nico.Robin7 Před 5 lety +9

      Same. Can't possibly imagine marrying outside my culture.

    • @redoneberhe1817
      @redoneberhe1817 Před 5 lety +14

      I love my Eritrean women But Damn Somali women are Beautiful!!! Ayyy Abdi’s help me out, to find Somali women

  • @IbrahimAdam-fh4sr
    @IbrahimAdam-fh4sr Před 5 lety +20

    Why you don't have any Eritrean person with you guys, cuz we are Habesha too, specially we who speaks Tigrina as mother language "Tigrina & Jabarti tribes"
    Keep up the good work & all the love from Eritrea to our brothers & sisters in Ethiopia
    ❤🇪🇷🇪🇹

    • @TalkHabeshaUk
      @TalkHabeshaUk  Před 5 lety +6

      We will have cast members from Eritrea soon don't worry. Share the love. Thank you.

    • @yazzyab5798
      @yazzyab5798 Před 5 lety +4

      Shut up, we are not habesha wtf. Didnt fight for 30 years for your ass to downplay our ethnicity like that

    • @ghirmaiyosief8178
      @ghirmaiyosief8178 Před 5 lety +2

      Ibrahim Adam it is good that they kept it Ethiopian, I don’t feel comfortable among Ethiopians. I would rather be with Sudanese.

    • @betiselam
      @betiselam Před 5 lety

      @@ghirmaiyosief8178 jealousy will kill you, who cares about you any ways? beggars

    • @whiteeagleblackbat8338
      @whiteeagleblackbat8338 Před 5 lety

      I am habesha but weither you are Eritrean or ethiopian , I don't fucking like habesha!! Idiots!! I will sign up that I am not habesha then I am just human!

  • @lucasfekadu7108
    @lucasfekadu7108 Před 5 lety +6

    Omds I loved it 😍💗

  • @callmeeyu
    @callmeeyu Před 5 lety +1

    Noice loving this congrats pomi

  • @user-fe4pw1ww7m
    @user-fe4pw1ww7m Před 5 lety +2

    keep going u guys!

  • @dalac_93
    @dalac_93 Před 5 lety +20

    I am open-minded but why would habeshas want to date outside of their culture? We have all the amazing guys and girls in our culture. Just saying 😀

    • @mikelary6071
      @mikelary6071 Před 3 lety

      @First Name Last Name facts. u a dude ?

    • @samiraa3671
      @samiraa3671 Před 2 lety

      Exactly! Seems like many other cultures are obsessed with Ethiopian cultures, looks, etc, but our people don't see. Every country has it's own unique culture and uniquely beautiful people. That makes life interesting. It will be boring if everyone starts looking the same and acting the same.

  • @leinaddhm1221
    @leinaddhm1221 Před 5 lety +13

    4 girls & 4 young men , I hope on the next video you guys engaged each other & make momma Ethiopia proud

  • @alemzewdholsey248
    @alemzewdholsey248 Před 5 lety +2

    I understand our culture at the end you have to do what makes you happy letter you won’t be regret over all it your life no disrespect to Ethiopian parents I’m one of them💚💛❤️

  • @hanna6778
    @hanna6778 Před 5 lety +4

    Interesting discussion. I agree that race does matter but should it be the deciding factor on who you should date or marry? After all, we derive layers of our identities from our race, class, religion, educational background, etc. but they all don't hold equal weight. I think it's a matter of figuring out what's more important to you. If you're born and raised in London, do you think you'll have an easier time sharing common values/perspective in life with a non-habesha from London or a Habesha in Ethiopia? Would you marry a non-Christian Habesha vs a Christian non-Habesha?

    • @fruitsarelife148
      @fruitsarelife148 Před 5 lety

      Yeah its very interesting.
      To me its just much easier to stick to habesha. I love my people and want to pass it down.
      Also im not the type of person to constantly explain things to others. 😂😂😂
      I would love to just fly back to the country and the language, culture is not a barrier etc..

    • @paulosmebrahtom5018
      @paulosmebrahtom5018 Před 5 lety +1

      Common values in relationship are irrelevant but race matters.

    • @yannicktenekeunde3205
      @yannicktenekeunde3205 Před 3 lety

      I like that hi is a plesure an privilage to meet i wish to no more about you if you permit me thank

  • @rittys81
    @rittys81 Před 5 lety +49

    Is it just me or people having hard time understanding British accent? Half of the thing I don't know what they are saying 🤗🤗

    • @Akili369
      @Akili369 Před 5 lety +3

      Same

    • @Lazy_Bee
      @Lazy_Bee Před 4 lety +7

      Its u

    • @thefrenchfieldnigga8078
      @thefrenchfieldnigga8078 Před 4 lety +2

      I live in france and yes you are right i have a hard time understanding britsih accent unlike american one

    • @kaba_tka
      @kaba_tka Před 4 lety

      watch Game Of Thrones once or Twice. i Did it now i can understand all UK accents. British accent is so btw.

    • @theduke6174
      @theduke6174 Před 3 lety

      We speak the Queen's English.

  • @icekitty400
    @icekitty400 Před 5 lety +1

    It's great to have Ephiopian and Eritrean people living in my city of which two are my closest friends. But do you have always cook for me whenever I come down to their house? 😂 God bless you all. 😊

  • @thomass5128
    @thomass5128 Před 5 lety

    hey I like your channel, great to watch it! funny that this video has the most clicks :)
    why is your channel called "Talk Habesha" ?

  • @kassahunretta8826
    @kassahunretta8826 Před rokem +1

    Dear fellow citizens of Ethiopians, our unique culture is different from the rest of the world. Many women date other cultures. They have health issues. Their relationship never last forever. On the other hand, precious children are affected to have Ethiopians name and culture and religion. That is child cruelty. We must be careful love is not a felling it is a commitment and our bodies are not for sale! Many women even they can't walk properly. Once we get into marriage union and we get into the grave we can't get out of it. May God help us by His divine grace to be with the right person on the right time. Amen!

  • @chuasmare22
    @chuasmare22 Před 5 lety +1

    For me as long as you speak Amharic no problem.

  • @DeyCallMeGeeza
    @DeyCallMeGeeza Před 5 lety +8

    Excellent first video guys, keep it up :)

  • @amelwerkgher2506
    @amelwerkgher2506 Před 5 lety +3

    when it is Habesha wz Habesha it makes amazing....u all should date each other...

  • @theduke6174
    @theduke6174 Před 3 lety +2

    This is the most habesha people from london I've seen in one room.

  • @creativepicture2820
    @creativepicture2820 Před 5 lety +1

    Culture it would nt mater in real life challenges . personality matters the most but if you go dating someone who is quite diffrent from your mother land you have to accept the other culture that you bring to the table along with having the defense mechanism whenever you fail in some aspect concerning marriage, parents will try to pinpoint where does this come from . So I think its a bit more love related whenever you pick your soulmate. The newly generaion care less about culture .

  • @zhabesha3522
    @zhabesha3522 Před 5 lety +2

    One person is not interested on this topic OMG I can't focus on the video his reaction I love it tho

  • @saraxo6448
    @saraxo6448 Před 5 lety +34

    I thought the guy in the top left was cute until he opened his mouth and said he would want to date out side of his culture but not marry😂 PLAYERR “experience” he said 😂

    • @ola1707
      @ola1707 Před 5 lety +4

      Midnight Emperor lol I was in shock when I heard him 😂😂😂player hhhh

    • @abaypost
      @abaypost Před 5 lety

      aybalm

    • @easymoney1661
      @easymoney1661 Před 5 lety +9

      you should respect honesty. he keept it real and you here calling him names. this is the problem with society we invertly support liars by demonzing honesty

    • @saraxo6448
      @saraxo6448 Před 5 lety +3

      Easy Money that’s the stupidest argument I’ve ever heard.

    • @easymoney1661
      @easymoney1661 Před 5 lety

      @@saraxo6448 you have too small of brain to understand complex things so you discard them as stupid. its ok i blame your mother for raising you like this. maferya

  • @Rasdashen1
    @Rasdashen1 Před 5 lety +25

    Well, I would rather stick with my Ethio girls. Unlike others they eat injera & shero which is the main secret of their beauty. Boom!!

    • @ahadualkumelkamunneger4697
      @ahadualkumelkamunneger4697 Před 5 lety

      😝pizza

    • @binij5708
      @binij5708 Před 5 lety

      Sudan Nutella very true. Lol am currently in rship wit non-habesha girl. Zis is true for many habesha guys outder as well.

    • @binij5708
      @binij5708 Před 5 lety

      @Sudan Nutella lol u just said what I was about to say girl😂😂 the thing is habesha girls tend to date a lot outside their culture but they end up with habesha dude at the end lol.

    • @binij5708
      @binij5708 Před 5 lety

      @Sudan Nutella not all habesha guys are like that though. Tbh it's the habesha women who usually date outside their culture. Habesha women, especially those not living in ethiopia, seem to think habesha men are not worth dating lol. We habesha guys are labelled like that . Habesha guys on the other hand prefer dating habesha girls above anything. It's not that we don't do 'left overs' but what do you expect us to if habesha women dont value us as much in the 1st place lol?

    • @binij5708
      @binij5708 Před 5 lety +1

      @Sudan Nutella haha I'm not gonna lie I do love habesha women I mean everyone wants to date with in his/her culture. Ain't nothing wrong with that. But I think our habesha women need to stop labeling all habesha guys and value us more.

  • @Rainbow-bb5ef
    @Rainbow-bb5ef Před 5 lety

    How can we contact you ?
    Can you send your website or link.. thank you

  • @0505449553
    @0505449553 Před 4 lety

    Could somebody tell me the most popular channel in Ethiopia??

  • @shetakere935
    @shetakere935 Před 5 lety +6

    @Talk Habesha- This would be an opportunity for you guys to create a dating way/app/site for Habeshas born outside of Ethiopia and Eritrea. This will give you more options, life experiences...
    However, I also agree with being with who you love whether they are Habesha or not.
    One thing you have to ask your parents though, what is the real reason they want you to be with Habesha? In my opinion, it isn’t just because of the ease of culture, language..., it is because they wish for you to be connected with others, close to your friends and family or not to be lonely in this world.Most of Western life is based on individuality..., and your parents notice that because they came from close communities and families. These things truly matter in ones life.

  • @LamdaAlpha65
    @LamdaAlpha65 Před 5 lety +11

    It is good to have confidence; but do not act as if you have endless partner choices! It takes two to tango. What made you think the so called "others with other cultures" would choose you as a partner? They may not even know you being out there.
    I think you are focusing on topics that takes you nowhere.

  • @nefsoababelew9245
    @nefsoababelew9245 Před 4 lety +5

    Some times Outside of your culture means outside of your comfort Zone
    But when it comes to relationships love has no boundaries.
    You either love someone or you simply don’t.

    • @gerum009
      @gerum009 Před 4 lety +1

      Absolutely right - love has no boundaries. However, when you marry and have children, there is more to the equation than just boundless love between two persons. Your marriage brings two families together, who were never together before (not to mention from different cultural backgrounds). Your marriage also brings children. So, there are different levels , types and characteristics of relationships created: you and your wife, you and your children, you and your parents/siblings, you and your wife's family.....your wife and your family...etc...etc. Your love with "no boundaries" may be enough to sustain your relationship with your wife; however, is it enough to sustain all the others? Granted, you and your wife can run away to a remote land and decide not to have children, in which case there is nothing to worry about except your own love to each other.
      I would LOVE to believe "love conquers all" because that would be nice, wouldn't it? However, the real world works differently, unfortunately for the idealist.

  • @ml.thebeyene2687
    @ml.thebeyene2687 Před rokem +1

    Who ever make you happy love it doesn’t have boundaries

  • @user-qr8pb6vd6k
    @user-qr8pb6vd6k Před 5 lety

    Good job guys keep going

  • @bilienmhasion9411
    @bilienmhasion9411 Před 5 lety

    my people lovely. good job.

  • @peacewins3281
    @peacewins3281 Před 5 lety +2

    It gets complicated ,in practice not good

  • @soulsessionsradio4234
    @soulsessionsradio4234 Před 3 lety +1

    The things I find interesting is how here in the U.S they don't educate people on the diversity and awareness of other cultures in the U.K, Canada or even France...they place emphasis on these cultures just being caucasian....which is far from the case. Multiculturalism is everywhere.

  • @josef6258
    @josef6258 Před 5 lety

    I love you all. Keep it up nice

  • @shire4life
    @shire4life Před 5 lety +3

    Here for the British accent 😐

  • @IStyle714
    @IStyle714 Před 5 lety +2

    Ayy Natanim am single 😍

  • @fissehamengs5366
    @fissehamengs5366 Před 5 lety +3

    My mom says if you are happy then I am happy

    • @TalkHabeshaUk
      @TalkHabeshaUk  Před 5 lety +1

      That is great, everyone is free to make their own decisions.

    • @yannicktenekeunde3205
      @yannicktenekeunde3205 Před 3 lety

      Hi dear is a plesure to meet you how i wish to no more about you i am from cameroon

  • @selamfe1541
    @selamfe1541 Před 5 lety

    Sound system is not good. I can’t hear most off it.

  • @alemat897
    @alemat897 Před 5 lety

    Very interesting like it

  • @rezeneftwi6454
    @rezeneftwi6454 Před 5 lety +3

    Marry outside habesha is bad but u can date any race

  • @afe2947
    @afe2947 Před 5 lety +42

    As Ethiopian We have a map not a culture. We don’t have unique culture as a country rather we are a mixture of more than 84 cultures and languages.
    so I think as u guys said even if u date Ethiopians also still there is some cultural difference that we have to accept it.
    however that doesn’t mean that we have to marry outside habesha because at the end the cultural difference that we have in between different ethnicitys can be very easy to catch up but it’s hard if u date outside our tiny map from east Africa.
    It’s hard to feed shero for ur partner 😂
    Am very cultural influenced person so u may not like my opinion but you better stick with habesha so that you can eat shero and enjra.
    Just saying 😂
    It’s very fantastic job overall keep it up.

    • @kwameopoku3576
      @kwameopoku3576 Před 5 lety

      Haylemareyam የጣናው then fuking meet new ppl n learn kmt open ur mind

    • @mikreayenew7675
      @mikreayenew7675 Před 5 lety +2

      We have a MAP not a culture???? We do have culture and a map! You are mixing apple and oranges! Meaning you have political agenda first and followed by erasing nationality.

    • @zorroronnie
      @zorroronnie Před 5 lety +4

      Mikre Ayenew diaspora ethiopians cannot even communicate since they learn their ethnic language not national language. Just accept that ethiopians are difffent people culturally and in terms of language

    • @VeraLarissa
      @VeraLarissa Před 5 lety +4

      I am german and I love injera and shiro. It's my favorite dish and the only food I missed when I was in Spain for five months... If you are open minded you can learn sooo much from other cultures. I am dating an eritrean guy for almost two years now and our relationship is not always easy for both of us but at long last it's definitely nothing but a profit.

    • @yonifirst9243
      @yonifirst9243 Před 5 lety +1

      none seance, we have more simillarity than differentes

  • @Meronzed
    @Meronzed Před 5 lety +1

    Since when did rich the kid been habesha

  • @kalif3056
    @kalif3056 Před 5 lety +5

    Sooo funny omgg😂😂😂😂

  • @Nico.Robin7
    @Nico.Robin7 Před 5 lety +5

    Honestly I've never met a lot of Ethiopians in London.The only one i've met is my friend from uni. Lol Idk where you guys hide xD

    • @livcbef1336
      @livcbef1336 Před 2 lety

      In any Ethiopian or habesha bar/restaurants in Finsbary park station area, brixton area. Follow the habesha event' s organizators

    • @howtotieatie5845
      @howtotieatie5845 Před 11 měsíci

      Why do you want meet them ?

  • @bethsene9129
    @bethsene9129 Před 5 lety +1

    Habeshas with British accent...cute cute!

  • @meronmeron5583
    @meronmeron5583 Před 5 lety

    Proud of u

  • @Sage1821
    @Sage1821 Před 5 lety

    😍@Natanim

  • @brandonloudermilk2430
    @brandonloudermilk2430 Před 2 lety

    I love this black life

  • @valerieshinia8526
    @valerieshinia8526 Před 2 lety +1

    Am kenyan was dating an eritean my family was soo supportive of him: but his family nope esp his sister wanted him to date her bestfriend it was hard: the family said am black and am not eritean so it can never work unless I was eritean it hurts sooo bad ; but life must move on.

  • @0505449553
    @0505449553 Před 4 lety

    I need a lot information about Ethiopia 🇪🇹 Who could help me ?!

  • @summerwulsebo6147
    @summerwulsebo6147 Před 5 lety +12

    I saw on the comment how come there is no Eritrean in the group.i could ask how come there no Muslim in your grouo.Diversity brings you range of idea.

  • @Somali-Puntite
    @Somali-Puntite Před 4 lety +5

    As a Somali i won’t marry out, i only date Horn African women, why would I marry out when I have my beautiful Somali and Ethiopian women ?

    • @exposedsomalis
      @exposedsomalis Před 4 lety

      @Suad Ali 💯 some somalains are delusional s

    • @mikelary6071
      @mikelary6071 Před 3 lety +3

      stick to your own be proud. ethiopian women are for ethiopians.

    • @mikelary6071
      @mikelary6071 Před 3 lety

      @Ebro Big boy yeah but those are not habesha. you and oromos are not ethiopian habesha. you guys are somolian. we dont see oromos and never have as habesha. anyways the point is why do you guys always dip in? lol this shid is mad funny.

    • @mikelary6071
      @mikelary6071 Před 3 lety

      @Ebro Big boy oromo and harari are NOT ethiopian. thats what im trying to tell your dumbass.

    • @Liya653
      @Liya653 Před 3 lety +2

      @@mikelary6071 who are you to decide that tf? Ethiopian women aren't yours to gatekeep.

  • @hailehaile3090
    @hailehaile3090 Před 4 lety +2

    Habsha love only. Keep it cultural

    • @giftofgodstarnorth6363
      @giftofgodstarnorth6363 Před 4 lety

      habeshas are very nice. I think we need to bridge the gap between as African culturally and unite because i think there is a lot we can learn from each other. I think all women from Africa are beautiful and we can enjoy the different aspect of our women and culture.

    • @Liya653
      @Liya653 Před 3 lety

      No

    • @prodbyseiyun
      @prodbyseiyun Před 3 lety

      @@Liya653 no to what ?

  • @maznaabukar3026
    @maznaabukar3026 Před 3 lety

    I’m dating habasha/Eritrean guy same religion but different culture but I’m Somali
    Will your his family accept it
    We have so much similarities in culture

  • @warsameadam5572
    @warsameadam5572 Před 5 lety +6

    The world is mixing wether you like it or not. We are no longer living in isolated villages anymore. Great video

  • @krazywu
    @krazywu Před 4 lety

    what about religion?

  • @kassagetu408
    @kassagetu408 Před 5 lety

    You guys are so cute

  • @webdev4786
    @webdev4786 Před 5 lety

    wow, your accent...really hard.

  • @ashtesera6949
    @ashtesera6949 Před 5 lety +4

    i think the boys are more lost in the middle of the sea. girls are so attached to there culture and heritage, as always, girls see things for long term as well immediate joy. i can see that the boys are going to be like Jamaican boys. my appreciation go to the girls

    • @Jstar697
      @Jstar697 Před 5 lety

      Your very negative, you know nothing about the boys to judge them.

  • @ShalomAlem
    @ShalomAlem Před 5 lety +3

    I think the environment in where you grow up also affects the way you may be a attracted to someone or even a group of people-maybe ?

  • @tigrayfirst2261
    @tigrayfirst2261 Před 4 lety

    The UK patent want thier kid to marry an Ethiopian but Ethiopian parents who live in Ethiopia want their kids to marry from different countries special from the west.... just my observation

  • @Eva-fd1fz
    @Eva-fd1fz Před 5 lety

    😘😘😘love ya

  • @hollybishu2613
    @hollybishu2613 Před 5 lety +17

    To speak to this, I actually intended to marry a habesha and that was where my mind was at. Then I met my husband and it changed. We connected so well and our values aligned (faith, goals, etc.) more than with any other man I’d ever met. And we got engaged and it was so exciting, but I still honestly had to mourn the loss of that, I guess, dream.
    Now, I feel like I’m blessed because my family totally accepts him and he LOVES Ethiopian culture. We even plan to live in Ethiopia for some time. There has been some hardship, but overall, it’s been good.
    It probably also helps that I married a white man who is very habesha by tsebhai (if y’all get what I mean).
    Let’s be real, habesha parents care what race you marry outside of the culture and white people are the most acceptable (from what I’ve heard, at least).

    • @hollybishu2613
      @hollybishu2613 Před 5 lety +1

      GODESTINY sure are! My husband loves the Lord and loves me, and that’s what they really wanted so...

    • @hollybishu2613
      @hollybishu2613 Před 5 lety +3

      Lu na yeah, totally!! There are prejudices in the previous generation towards non-Habesha Africans. Lots of Ethiopians honestly think they’re better than, say, Nigerians or Congolese or whatever other country in Africa. And they harbour the same prejudices against black folks in America/Canada. I find that there is a view that Ethiopians are just set apart.
      So i likely have it easier because when I married outside of the culture, I married a white person. Because of the lack of colonization (and other reasons), I think white is the most acceptable to a lot of Ethiopians if outside the culture.

    • @BBGL02
      @BBGL02 Před 5 lety +3

      Girlll but you have to teach your kids your language and religion bc there isn‘t more gold worth than orthodox tewahedo 🙏🏽

    • @yeshisew9457
      @yeshisew9457 Před 5 lety +8

      @@hollybishu2613 habesha parents dont prefer white people to other east africans tho.

    • @bruck2723
      @bruck2723 Před 5 lety +4

      Bedwench alert!

  • @theduke6174
    @theduke6174 Před 3 lety

    American Habesha are more open to dating out than UK Habesha, thats what I've observed

  • @Rainbow-bb5ef
    @Rainbow-bb5ef Před 5 lety

    It's looks like.... your own dating

  • @twinkitten1
    @twinkitten1 Před 4 lety +1

    Well caribbean people are so mixed up we find it hard sometimes knowing where we originated, we know we are of African linkage but our African culture it is lost, I'm from barbados, #rihannahomeland

    • @redsea334
      @redsea334 Před 4 lety +2

      then create your own culture.

  • @ketzergaw2593
    @ketzergaw2593 Před 5 lety

    Ladies and gentlemen, please speak Amharic too.

  • @yetu0983
    @yetu0983 Před 5 lety +1

    እዋይ!!!! ምንድነው ጫጫታ? i like this channel it is interesting keep it up i am with u

    • @yannicktenekeunde3205
      @yannicktenekeunde3205 Před 3 lety

      Hi dear is a plesure to meet you i wish to no you beter if you permit me thank God i wish to meet an ethiopian lady for serious reletionphip

  • @asmeretjallow7705
    @asmeretjallow7705 Před 5 lety

    💜🧡💜🧡🧡

  • @Mesfin887
    @Mesfin887 Před 2 lety

    Sorry to say this but everyone is free however I’m against the interracial marriage . I don’t know it could be good but preserving culture is good as well .

  • @bobjones3623
    @bobjones3623 Před 5 lety

    they will all say that to date someone Wh,facts especially women

  • @fruitsarelife148
    @fruitsarelife148 Před 5 lety +16

    If you find the one outside of your culture, then it's alright and good luck.
    But the amount in which habeshas date outside their race is exaggerated, they litteraly breed out the whole diaspora.
    No pride.
    Thousand years of habesha genetics gone.

    • @hollybishu2613
      @hollybishu2613 Před 5 lety +5

      What genetics? Habesha LITERALLY means mixed.

    • @eliran9231
      @eliran9231 Před 5 lety +1

      @@hollybishu2613
      It means mixed but still there was a line of ancestry that continued for thousands of years in in between habeshas.

    • @eliran9231
      @eliran9231 Před 5 lety

      @GODESTINY
      An ethiopian jew, not many of us are thought ethiopic languages from birth, we speak hebrew as our language.

    • @fruitsarelife148
      @fruitsarelife148 Před 5 lety +6

      @Wedi Misgun yes we are, but once we are not in our homeland we breed out in like 2 generations.
      That is mental weakness.

    • @handdownmandown4567
      @handdownmandown4567 Před 5 lety +1

      @@hollybishu2613 i think it means mixed as in mixed nation, like theres different people living in the country, but the people historically associated with being habesha(amhara,Tigrinya, etc.) have their own genetics, like on 23andme they can literally guess if you're habesha just by looking at your dna

  • @semharita
    @semharita Před 5 lety +1

    What I will say, my Eritrean family at first if my significant other was not of them same tribe was not accepting but only due to language and culture barriers. My husband now is black American but he took it upon him to educate and learn about the Eritrean culture and he is the first person to make sure my grandmother is comfortable and tries to learn what she likes and doesn’t like.

  • @funnycrow4462
    @funnycrow4462 Před 5 lety

    Oml Habesha Uk sound funny af

  • @ihavefaithingod.godisgood.1188

    😘😘😘😘😘 ✌️✌️👍👍👍

    • @yannicktenekeunde3205
      @yannicktenekeunde3205 Před 3 lety

      Hi dear is a plesure an privilage to meet you i wish to no you beter if you permit me thank God bles you

  • @nicholastoo858
    @nicholastoo858 Před 5 lety +1

    Someone was like a prop, hardly said anything.

  • @lucybelay9153
    @lucybelay9153 Před 5 lety

    You guys know the fact that marriage by itself has its own challenges and when you cross a culture and married you will add to your challenges. As long us you ready and committed to work it out with your differences, just marry a person whom you love. Don’t worry about the rest. It takes a committed couples for a marriage to stay last.

    • @MrTruth98
      @MrTruth98 Před 5 lety +1

      In Orthodox religion it is big crime to marry outside your faith.

  • @lilystargem
    @lilystargem Před 5 lety

    Girl on the front has the DEADDEST side parted wig I’ve ever seeen 😭😩

    • @TalkHabeshaUk
      @TalkHabeshaUk  Před 5 lety +5

      Lily W Proud to say all the girls in the video have their natural hair. Thank you very much.

  • @manewalew2845
    @manewalew2845 Před 4 lety +1

    What is it's importance having this from Westerns it's not dating it's fornication and adultery no date it's fake name to do sin I don't agree with it but still am sinner and please share good stuff's for yr people

  • @koriewilliams7076
    @koriewilliams7076 Před rokem

    so basically, it is frowned upon to date a black American.

  • @selamlehagery5718
    @selamlehagery5718 Před 5 lety +7

    Ok 🤔 but we have lots of problems in Ethiopia right now, why not discuss that? Maybe an idea for your next video?

    • @selamlehagery5718
      @selamlehagery5718 Před 5 lety +3

      @@Jstar697 keep your hair on, its only a suggestion 😂

    • @TalkHabeshaUk
      @TalkHabeshaUk  Před 5 lety +1

      That's very true and we are aware of the different issues. We will try to cover as many topics as possible. Stay tuned.

    • @selamlehagery5718
      @selamlehagery5718 Před 5 lety +1

      @@TalkHabeshaUk wow can't believe you responded to me 😁 thank you, I've subscribed. Love and peace ✌

    • @TalkHabeshaUk
      @TalkHabeshaUk  Před 5 lety

      @@Jstar697 Thank you for sharing. We will all have a read.

    • @meganhey2582
      @meganhey2582 Před 5 lety

      Okay... and? There are problems in America but do you see CZcamsrs discussing them? Like that's bullshit, it's their channel and their content. They shouldn't be defined by their country's problems wtf