Well heard this song too many time but it's still great. And one advice from me is that to make this song little slow then it will be even great because it's a little too fast I think.
Sure boys feel sad. So fecking what? Loving yourself doesn't mean shit nor does loving yourself replace survival instinct or standing up for yourself against abuse. To be a shit by howling "look at me" to people who don't give a damn or telling those same people to go doesn't make a difference. The brother in the song didn't lie. And of course he KNEW boys feel sad because he'd felt sad and gave his brother who felt sad the same advice that worked best for him in all likelihood. There's no place of ignorance-to-pain to fault for giving advice on how to manage pain. Management of pain is a response to the pain. IGNORING pain like the claim of love as a replacement to is what comes from an ignorance or perhaps self'deception more likely. Claiming that putting a strong front in public is a mistake and will cause you to blow up violently at and chase off your wife/kids/lovedones is terrible as an assumption and shows a severe lack of comprehension to human behavior and shows disrespect to traditional masculine behavior as well, claiming that healthy coping mechanism to stress somehow leads to destructive impulse. It's fecking disgusting as an ideology, the stuff which goes behind songs like these. It's outright irresponsible to say that every show of grief should be made public spectacle instead of being kept private. It's a healthy behavior for not just boys, but girls as well I'd reckon; to have emotional control of oneself a show of strength rather than janked around like some insipid puppet. A fecking repulsive song and genre from.
Yeah OK you made a few good points there the brother in the song wasn't all bad and didn't necessarily lie. But he didn't tell the truth either he told his brother not to show sadness or pain or any kind of weakness. That is unhealthy when your hurt (physically pain especially) its not only ok to show it but can be healthy. For example what's healthier in your mind in that situation hiding your pain and suppressing any screams or tears only to make yourself angry until you punch what caused you pain, or crying screaming cursing whatever it is you feel like doing to get it out of your system so you can pick yourself back up and move on. My brother does the former just ends up hurting himself even more I do the later and come out looking like a whimp (according to my brother). In the second situation with the bullies the brother gave the right advice fight back don't let them push you around and I doubt anyone would argue that's the right answer but doesn't mean you can't feel sad about the situation. it's not as simple as the brother was right or wrong or if he lied or not it's not just a always suppressing your emotions is best or always expressing them is best. You need balance you need to know when it's OK to show weakness and when you have to act touch even if you're sad on the inside. That applies to both men and women so no always keeping private isn't the answer either. Ultimately the reason the guy singing is saying his brother lied to hin is because he never offered another option in any situation it was always hid your pain don't shoe weakness and that is definitely unhealthy not to mention unhelpful advice.
@@ryansather1908 and yea before you say anything I do have to much free time on my hands. but I'm not a girl just an insomniac who scrolls though CZcams when he can't sleep that and reads and replies to comments every now and then to kill time.
You didn't quite get the song mate, sure everybody should know how to stand up but it doest mean that your only coping mechanism should be violence, if your getting bullied for example, you really should cry or fight back, the best way to handle is to ignore their advances and report later, but if you get punched out of the blue sure retribute the favor they started anyway, even if your sad or angry you shouldn't only handle a single way, if you do it's gonna create behavioral problems and make you miserable, if your only response to trauma is violence them your gonna hurt people close to you for little anger problems, if you just ignore everything(i myself is culprit of this) your gonna create a barrier between you and anybody i ln due time and ultimately isolate yourself for being antipatic, if you can only cry you will not be able to stand up when nessesary in your life, you need to respond correctly to your conflicts in order to live a healthy life
This song is happy to me
It's sad and sweet at the same time I love it ❤️
loving this so much :)
love thissss
Perfect 😍👍
Well heard this song too many time but it's still great. And one advice from me is that to make this song little slow then it will be even great because it's a little too fast I think.
i can't, its too good
Thad is good song i rly like it👍
Thanks for the advise
Who the hell are you even thanking and why?
Bro it took my emotions too😯
Just listion this while my cosion screams for no reason ( he is 6😐😑)
fun fact: i have never heared any nightcore song in its orignal version
Sure boys feel sad. So fecking what?
Loving yourself doesn't mean shit nor does loving yourself replace survival instinct or standing up for yourself against abuse. To be a shit by howling "look at me" to people who don't give a damn or telling those same people to go doesn't make a difference. The brother in the song didn't lie. And of course he KNEW boys feel sad because he'd felt sad and gave his brother who felt sad the same advice that worked best for him in all likelihood. There's no place of ignorance-to-pain to fault for giving advice on how to manage pain. Management of pain is a response to the pain. IGNORING pain like the claim of love as a replacement to is what comes from an ignorance or perhaps self'deception more likely. Claiming that putting a strong front in public is a mistake and will cause you to blow up violently at and chase off your wife/kids/lovedones is terrible as an assumption and shows a severe lack of comprehension to human behavior and shows disrespect to traditional masculine behavior as well, claiming that healthy coping mechanism to stress somehow leads to destructive impulse. It's fecking disgusting as an ideology, the stuff which goes behind songs like these. It's outright irresponsible to say that every show of grief should be made public spectacle instead of being kept private. It's a healthy behavior for not just boys, but girls as well I'd reckon; to have emotional control of oneself a show of strength rather than janked around like some insipid puppet. A fecking repulsive song and genre from.
lol
How do you have that much free time,(are you a girl).
Yeah OK you made a few good points there the brother in the song wasn't all bad and didn't necessarily lie. But he didn't tell the truth either he told his brother not to show sadness or pain or any kind of weakness. That is unhealthy when your hurt (physically pain especially) its not only ok to show it but can be healthy. For example what's healthier in your mind in that situation hiding your pain and suppressing any screams or tears only to make yourself angry until you punch what caused you pain, or crying screaming cursing whatever it is you feel like doing to get it out of your system so you can pick yourself back up and move on. My brother does the former just ends up hurting himself even more I do the later and come out looking like a whimp (according to my brother). In the second situation with the bullies the brother gave the right advice fight back don't let them push you around and I doubt anyone would argue that's the right answer but doesn't mean you can't feel sad about the situation. it's not as simple as the brother was right or wrong or if he lied or not it's not just a always suppressing your emotions is best or always expressing them is best. You need balance you need to know when it's OK to show weakness and when you have to act touch even if you're sad on the inside. That applies to both men and women so no always keeping private isn't the answer either. Ultimately the reason the guy singing is saying his brother lied to hin is because he never offered another option in any situation it was always hid your pain don't shoe weakness and that is definitely unhealthy not to mention unhelpful advice.
@@ryansather1908 and yea before you say anything I do have to much free time on my hands. but I'm not a girl just an insomniac who scrolls though CZcams when he can't sleep that and reads and replies to comments every now and then to kill time.
You didn't quite get the song mate, sure everybody should know how to stand up but it doest mean that your only coping mechanism should be violence, if your getting bullied for example, you really should cry or fight back, the best way to handle is to ignore their advances and report later, but if you get punched out of the blue sure retribute the favor they started anyway, even if your sad or angry you shouldn't only handle a single way, if you do it's gonna create behavioral problems and make you miserable, if your only response to trauma is violence them your gonna hurt people close to you for little anger problems, if you just ignore everything(i myself is culprit of this) your gonna create a barrier between you and anybody i ln due time and ultimately isolate yourself for being antipatic, if you can only cry you will not be able to stand up when nessesary in your life, you need to respond correctly to your conflicts in order to live a healthy life