Agree with Irina - getting together with men that has kids is like becoming a mistress. His ex-wife and kids will become part of your life, but you will never truly become part of theirs. And on top of that, sharing finances of your household with a woman from a previous marriage and kids… whilst he, like Irina said, most probably will not desire to have anymore kids with you bc he already had those experiences - will leave you feeling used and empty. Even if he has lots of money - his ex-wife took his money and he definitely won’t want to be going through same experiences again. You will be getting the “crumbles”.
Very true, I've had that and even though he wanted another kid, the way their family dynamic was and the way everything was how he treated me, how his ex looked at me, how everything happened really was what made me run away and yes, I was used, even though I loved his kid and his kid was probably the only one in that family (besides his animals) who truly loved and appreciated me, but nothing to do with the child, it's the adults who make it impossible.
A man who seeks validation is huge red flag, I dated a guy like that, I used to boost his confidence all the time (he was nice to me btw, usually they are nice and look innocent), he wouldn’t look to any girls or speak to them, after few years I felt the change he started flirting with girls and started dating his female colleague. So run !
I think children come first, if a guy is putting you before them he isn’t much of a father or a man. Also never tell your boyfriends or husbands about issues with your girlfriends, we just want to ‘fix it’ sometimes being unhelpful and go into protective mode, only mention issues when the friendship is over. A lot of men don’t have developed emotional intelligence and strong empathy which results in aggressive behaviour get him help or leave.
Well hello Emma and Irina, thank you for this insightful video! I appreciate your advice and many more will-you have encouraged more awareness and assertiveness to those who struggle with uncertainties in this area of relationships. You are the best!
Good day here I just watched your video about red flags and gave a lot of good and beautiful bent And I really have to praise that you are very nice both two and you very nicely have a red color a nice greeting
Thank you girls, I had such an annoying day, fuming, because of other people trying to make me a scapegoat... You made me laugh, instantly feeling better 💞🌞🤗. Oh and Irina is right about the man with kids, they're usually very self-centered and even 8f they value kids, they might not value the women who gave the kids to them
Not fine with dating a close girlfriend's ex, but I also don't really like them and lose interest in guys who's trying to play both fields. And thankfully my real friends won't even go there
Agree with Irina - getting together with men that has kids is like becoming a mistress. His ex-wife and kids will become part of your life, but you will never truly become part of theirs. And on top of that, sharing finances of your household with a woman from a previous marriage and kids… whilst he, like Irina said, most probably will not desire to have anymore kids with you bc he already had those experiences - will leave you feeling used and empty. Even if he has lots of money - his ex-wife took his money and he definitely won’t want to be going through same experiences again. You will be getting the “crumbles”.
Very true, I've had that and even though he wanted another kid, the way their family dynamic was and the way everything was how he treated me, how his ex looked at me, how everything happened really was what made me run away and yes, I was used, even though I loved his kid and his kid was probably the only one in that family (besides his animals) who truly loved and appreciated me, but nothing to do with the child, it's the adults who make it impossible.
I totally agree with Irina about the 90 days rule, it’s the best strategy. Steve Harvey talked about this in his book.
Irina is so smart love her way of thinking
A man who seeks validation is huge red flag, I dated a guy like that, I used to boost his confidence all the time (he was nice to me btw, usually they are nice and look innocent), he wouldn’t look to any girls or speak to them, after few years I felt the change he started flirting with girls and started dating his female colleague. So run !
The best thing to do is to stay single 😂 so much peace.
I 100 agree with the 90 days
Love a good girltalk! Irina and you are the best combo
It would be hilarious if you kept a little red flag in your bag and start waving it when Irina is trying to talk to a man LOL Love this!! 🙂 :-))))))))
Another banger video, Emma. Great tips. I’ve been married almost 23 years 🎉 I can’t imagine dating these days 😂
Same here, I've been married for 9 years, I can't imagine what's going on out there.
I would pay to watch this channel ❤❤ both of you are so incredibly funny and positive and confident ! ❤❤❤ definitely inspiring
You're the best!
This was an amazing video. If you ever do ‘dating disasters’ LADIESSS, do i have a story for you!!!! You’re both fab. Strong, beautiful, wise women. X
You forgot when they ask "What you bring to the table?" ha ha! I wonder what the British word is for "dusty." 🤭
I think children come first, if a guy is putting you before them he isn’t much of a father or a man. Also never tell your boyfriends or husbands about issues with your girlfriends, we just want to ‘fix it’ sometimes being unhelpful and go into protective mode, only mention issues when the friendship is over. A lot of men don’t have developed emotional intelligence and strong empathy which results in aggressive behaviour get him help or leave.
Enjoyed watching. Excellent advice. Love you both❤️❤️
Love this.
Well hello Emma and Irina, thank you for this insightful video! I appreciate your advice and many more will-you have encouraged more awareness and assertiveness to those who struggle with uncertainties in this area of relationships. You are the best!
Glad it was helpful!
Irina gives Jodie Comer vibes from her role as Villanelle in the TV series "Killing Eve. Super badass. Emma, love you always!
Good day here I just watched your video about red flags
and gave a lot of good and beautiful bent
And I really have to praise that you are very nice both two and you very nicely have a red color a nice greeting
Sounds like Irina has read Steve Harvey’s book. Don’t give away the cookie before 90 days.
I totally agree 😻& love you both 💕💕💕
Listening to this I am realizing how much of a red flag I am 😂
Greetings from California. You are creating excellent CZcams contents Emma. Fantastic team , Emma & Irina. Good models. Happy autumn from our channel.
Haha nice bonding love it ❤❤❤
Thank you girls, I had such an annoying day, fuming, because of other people trying to make me a scapegoat... You made me laugh, instantly feeling better 💞🌞🤗. Oh and Irina is right about the man with kids, they're usually very self-centered and even 8f they value kids, they might not value the women who gave the kids to them
The pets part.... here in America men are so obsessed with their pets. It’s very over the top.
Ei Emma, loved the video! Did anyone catch the book Irina mentioned?💕
Emma never clicked so fast and I really really love your vlogs so so much you are my inspiration and please reply me nice comment 😊😊❤
Thank you so much!! 💕
Very beautiful 😍👍
Thank you so much 😊
Beautiful
Not fine with dating a close girlfriend's ex, but I also don't really like them and lose interest in guys who's trying to play both fields. And thankfully my real friends won't even go there
love irina
IRINAAAAAAAA 🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Jeez give a guy a break 😂
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I’m with you both about them being crazy about their pets .🥱😖