【The Boyfriend】Shun “What's in my mind”

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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
  • Shun is such a complicated yet pure human being.
    I made this video to try to tell the entire story from Shun's perspective.

Komentáře • 76

  • @beau8631
    @beau8631 Před měsícem +234

    “ I grew up with a different kind of common sense “ might sound like an excuse for someone else but that makes me fall in love with him. He knows himself and he trying his best on his own way. I wish him nothing but genuine happiness in his life from now on.

    • @ananyaa6664
      @ananyaa6664 Před měsícem +17

      I couldn't agree more with you. Although my life is nothing like his, I just get him. I get his insecurities, his desires, his tantrums, his authenticity, his little efforts to mend relationships because I can somewhat sense how hard that can be for someone like him!

  • @lazedaisies
    @lazedaisies Před měsícem +83

    what i love most about shun is that he’s honest with his feelings and there’s always a reason for his actions made towards dai. he’s actually a delicate person even though he puts up a tough front. i’m happy that he’s found love with dai and hopefully they’ll last long ❤

  • @DanmeiJie
    @DanmeiJie Před měsícem +66

    Omggg I'm crying bcz of this edits 😢 it really pictures that Shun want a serious relationship not just some flings and have fun, and he was trying and hoping Dai share that same thought, cz actually he already fallen for Dai, and he doesn't want to lose him too.

    • @spaceyume
      @spaceyume  Před měsícem +8

      @@DanmeiJie Exactly😭And the greatest part is, even he’s still not that sure, he was able to make that move and say “I Love you, I want to see you every day”

    • @cathystussi7165
      @cathystussi7165 Před měsícem +7

      @@spaceyumeand now they see each other every day. What a great love story. I love how mature they are for being 23 and 24 years old.

    • @DanmeiJie
      @DanmeiJie Před měsícem +8

      ​@spaceyume , Ikr??? he doesn't want to lose him so he brave himself. People only see the moody him but not how serious he is with Dai, boy even said it himself to Dai he never jump into relationship for FUN and I think that's when Dai get more serious too.
      I'm so glad you able to picture it in this edit, honestly u doin him justice more than Netflix 😭🤌

    • @AhdndhVsnshsb
      @AhdndhVsnshsb Před 25 dny

      ​@@DanmeiJieyup i also think the same. The moment shun said that he never be in relationship just for fun, is the moment that Dai really take serious about his and shun feeling

  • @NatureLover-on7bp
    @NatureLover-on7bp Před měsícem +80

    It's a beautiful edit. It perfectly captures Shun's side of their love story.
    Honestly, I'm so happy for them...❤ It makes me feel like I want to find my true love 😂

  • @TJSIlver
    @TJSIlver Před měsícem +40

    this edit is sooo beautiful .
    If Dai sees this, he's gonna cry a river 😭😭😭

  • @lovemoon.105
    @lovemoon.105 Před měsícem +30

    I hope this video will make people understand Shun's vision. We often paint people as black or white but forget that we are just human driven by our emotions. In the show Shun is a young boy trying to find a place for himself in the world, trying to find someone who he can come home to. Even if many may not agree with some of his actions in the show but I hope people will atleast try to understand where he is coming from.

  • @Hisoka1127
    @Hisoka1127 Před měsícem +39

    OMG!!! This is the best DaiShun edited video that can be used in their wedding day. Thank you for your hard work. You guys can send this video to your friends and welcome them to DaiShun nation.

  • @chanosaurus
    @chanosaurus Před měsícem +13

    i didn't expect to hear joshua's cover here at all!! pleasant surprise :)

  • @africantae2583
    @africantae2583 Před měsícem +6

    Thanks for the hard work. We wondered why Shun was ON and OFF... With this detailed edit its obvious and understandable ❤❤❤❤

  • @dgp6905
    @dgp6905 Před měsícem +6

    Wow this edit is chef's kiss. Thank you.

  • @kuroneko7022
    @kuroneko7022 Před 20 dny +1

    I swear, Dai is boyfriend material. He’s so sweet and thoughtful and loving. ❤

  • @aarzookunwar1282
    @aarzookunwar1282 Před měsícem +4

    i love this edit !! it perfectly tells how shun fall in love with dai gradually, i love them together (wish them all the happiness💞)

  • @kiwigirljacks
    @kiwigirljacks Před 19 dny +3

    This was beautiful. As someone who had a very traumatic childhood also, I truly understood Shun. His confidence will grow as he ages, I believe. And his ability to allow himself to be loved, knowing he deserves it. We can only speculate at what he’s been through but it seems like a lot. I hope he can get healing from his past (therapy will be good) and his relationship with Dai continues to be a blessing for them both. Dai is a special guy also ❤

  • @hiitsme2024
    @hiitsme2024 Před 11 dny

    This was such a beautiful edit. Had me teared up the whole time. I love how Shun kept his priorities straight and how Dai managed to undertand amd handle it. After all that they went through they're so in love now and tht's what matters.

  • @anamatei6933
    @anamatei6933 Před měsícem +8

    Nu s ar fi potrivit niciunul cu niciun băiat de acolo, sunt făcuți UNUL PENTRU CELĂLALT!❤❤❤❤
    Ii iubesc!😘🤗🕊️

  • @user-xi6iz1nd7v
    @user-xi6iz1nd7v Před měsícem +5

    Такие трогательные и милые. Мальчики чудо❤❤❤❤

  • @taehung8172
    @taehung8172 Před měsícem +27

    Whoever is calling Shun toxic is speaking from a place of privilege. First of all: 1) his moves are defensive mechanism : Imagine being a baby or a kid who knows that no one will be there for him, and the only one who is going to protect him in this scary world is himself. Being an orphan is way harder than growing in bad environment.. he was alone in this world.. 2) He must have been surprised that some people fall in love at first sight. That's why he wanted to know if Dai was serious or if it was just a temporary feeling. He wanted to understand why Dai liked him. That's obviously because he never experienced unconditional love. He never experienced being cared for; he was abandoned. That's why, when Dai love-bombed him, he was uncomfortable and wanted space and to be just friends. It’s not his common sense-his common sense is fight or flight. 3) Shun made an incredible effort because, at first, Dai wasn't his type. (I’m pretty sure most of us have a type, and it's hard to give someone who isn't our type a chance.) He didn't want to give Dai hope that he would be with him or interested in him just because Dai had a crush on him. 4) He grew and became better. He was afraid because he knew that when he falls in love, he will fall hard. That's why he was stopping himself from falling in love with Dai, trying to find reasons to prove himself wrong-that he doesn't deserve love and that it was just a phase. That’s why he was testing him. 5) You can tell he is neurodivergent. For example, he gets overwhelmed by noise, which is expected because of where he grew up. Any way let's be kind and an understanding people because we have no right to judge a person we know nothing about him or about the demons in his head especially if that person is aware of his problems and is working on himself to be better 🤍🌸

    • @apri355
      @apri355 Před 6 dny

      You did a great job here. 💯

  • @user-hj5rk3kv1s
    @user-hj5rk3kv1s Před měsícem +5

    美しいSTORY✨
    ありがとうございます♡♡

  • @ekinekin3970
    @ekinekin3970 Před měsícem +5

    Love your edit. It really tells the essence of their love story

  • @davidbulmer1944
    @davidbulmer1944 Před 4 dny

    Shun has had le😊a😊rn about himself with no help or support from family. His self knowledge at that time was😊 impressive given the circumstances. His growth in his year with Dai is so gratifying. Clearly he has found his perfect person/soulmate.❤❤❤❤

  • @rgmalpass1918
    @rgmalpass1918 Před měsícem +4

    OMGGG🥰🥰 Shun is like a idol is very pretty 🔥

  • @guadalupemendez8956
    @guadalupemendez8956 Před měsícem +11

    I am happy for both of you 👧😊🖐️👍🫰❤️❤️

  • @taleathamcfarlane4806
    @taleathamcfarlane4806 Před 26 dny +1

    Absolutely fantastic edit ❤ I love DaiShun!

  • @marilynegoogan6463
    @marilynegoogan6463 Před 25 dny +2

    stay strong good health shundai🙏🥰🥰🥰

  • @syaniisya
    @syaniisya Před 17 dny

    It’s really hard to listen someone like Shun without having bad thought about him. He must be faced this kind of treatment by many people, especially from his ex.
    I really hope they can be together for really really longtime. Their happiness looks equal for me ❤

  • @7476-n5j
    @7476-n5j Před 15 dny

    I love this beautiful couple so much! I couldn't stop watching them even now, I still do. Aphrodisiac 💯😍🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @danygom5504
    @danygom5504 Před měsícem +4

    i’m so happy for them☺️🤏🏻

  • @user-xt7kf5ph4g
    @user-xt7kf5ph4g Před měsícem +1

    « do you know who a confidant is? I do, I’m listening. ». Winter Begonia theme song.

  • @reinajayden4785
    @reinajayden4785 Před 20 dny

    fantastic edit ❤ loved seeing them grow into the beautiful couple they are today

  • @naomimt987
    @naomimt987 Před měsícem +1

    These lyrics fits so perfectly 😍!

  • @divaaaprlia
    @divaaaprlia Před měsícem +4

    thank you for made this omg❤

  • @user-lv1ci2fz1k
    @user-lv1ci2fz1k Před měsícem +3

    i love this edit thank you

  • @user-nm4uk1bo8h
    @user-nm4uk1bo8h Před měsícem +2

    Best edit I’ve seen ❤❤❤

  • @kshitijaj986
    @kshitijaj986 Před měsícem +3

    it's a beautify edit...

  • @BT-rf7qt
    @BT-rf7qt Před 21 dnem

    So touching. All the best to ShunDai❤

  • @BonBon-g4d
    @BonBon-g4d Před 17 dny

    the best edit on the boyfriend and daishun story on the internet! thank you for this beautiful edit. you made it with love and understanding of Shun as a person who has had a very different life than most of us. im absolutely in love with this edit. P.S. I am staring at the to be continued though :D Waiting for edits on their vlogs.

    • @spaceyume
      @spaceyume  Před 17 dny

      @@BonBon-g4d Thank you very much!Actually I have already made two edits on their vlogs, but since I used Chinese songs for bgm, I need a little bit time to translate then upload to CZcams. :)

    • @BonBon-g4d
      @BonBon-g4d Před 15 dny

      @@spaceyume oh! will be waiting for those edits.

  • @user-gf2tf2jw1e
    @user-gf2tf2jw1e Před měsícem +1

    this is so beautiful im crying

  • @BTSARMY-hd2zg
    @BTSARMY-hd2zg Před měsícem +6

    Dai y shun juntos por siempre the boyfriend 🌈💛⭐️🌠🌌🌅🌄🎇🦋🇯🇵💜⭐️💛🌈🌠🌌🌈

  • @dianamarciagomesbenicio1076
    @dianamarciagomesbenicio1076 Před měsícem +1

    A química entre eles é impressionante, casal super fofo, DaiShun aqui do Brazil uma super fã🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️🇧🇷🇧🇷

  • @allyzavallar4847
    @allyzavallar4847 Před měsícem +2

    This is beautiful 😫❤️

  • @pohboonyeo8768
    @pohboonyeo8768 Před měsícem +2

    He asked :"What do you think is the best thing about summer ?"
    He looked at him :" At this moment , there is sea breeze , coffee and you ."

  • @rinsha33
    @rinsha33 Před měsícem +3

    Joshua’s cover version ❤

  • @zhejiangyingfengopticalcom6306

    Please release more moments of ShunDai.

  • @DiemTrinhNguyenTran
    @DiemTrinhNguyenTran Před měsícem +4

    i love this videooo

  • @pertuniamannzwa9907
    @pertuniamannzwa9907 Před měsícem +2

    Best video ever❤❤❤❤

  • @bntshiabalaskhar3731
    @bntshiabalaskhar3731 Před měsícem +1

    shun i hope you are now happy❤❤❤

  • @Dazirignon
    @Dazirignon Před měsícem +2

    C’est trop mignon ❤

  • @user-qi5wo6ge8d
    @user-qi5wo6ge8d Před měsícem +2

    Оба такие милые

  • @neaturexiong
    @neaturexiong Před 29 dny +3

    Shun's personality and outlook on life are so negative sometimes, I just really hope they work out and he doesn't throw away such a genuine person like Dai just because of his insecurities. No matter how patient or understanding a person is, they too can get tired or worn out if a negative person tests them over and over again. I hope Shun truly wakes up and sees what he has instead of constantly comparing Dai to his precious relationship. Hope they stay happy, their relationship stay healthy and the both of them make it. ❤❤❤

  • @raelenehollier3335
    @raelenehollier3335 Před 25 dny

    See the guy prowling around S/ D!.🤔

  • @madhumitakar7277
    @madhumitakar7277 Před měsícem +2

    Can we get a DaiShun's series!!!!! Pleaseeeee😍😍😍🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @roadhouse_blues8081
      @roadhouse_blues8081 Před měsícem +3

      Ikr...I wish they had a youtube channel, where they would post their everyday vlogs with all their fights and bickering..

    • @hassanolamide7482
      @hassanolamide7482 Před 28 dny

      @@roadhouse_blues8081they have a CZcams channel now,so pls subscribe

  • @ilovepiegeon4101
    @ilovepiegeon4101 Před 8 dny

    where can i found all episodes plz someone tell me🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @MariaDosocorro-dp4px
    @MariaDosocorro-dp4px Před měsícem

    Dai é mais tranquilo e espera e Shun administra a relação.

  • @ThabileDiliza
    @ThabileDiliza Před měsícem

    How I wish I could post this on tik tok wher Shun got hate the most😢

  • @mariadefatimaalmeidafatima2082

    Poderia ser legendado em português

  • @user-hl8yy5kw1e
    @user-hl8yy5kw1e Před 24 dny

    Hey traducción al español 🙏🙏🙏🙏💜🩵🤍🧡♥️💛💚🩷❤️

  • @kuroneko7022
    @kuroneko7022 Před 4 dny

    Shun really was making demands on Dai telling him to show him? He was really saying Dai overreacts? That’s a part of Dai’s personality, he’s an extrovert!
    He says Dai was least of the ones he liked at first? Well, Mr Shun, who else was chasing you? When letters were written and put in mailboxes I only saw one for you, that was from Dai and it was anonymous. Dai had about three in his box so it’s not like he didn’t have choices.
    You wanted Dai to prove so much to you but what did you prove to him? He didn’t make demands on you, he just wanted you to like him because he already liked you.
    Dai was so patient and kind. I would have walked away from Shun, trying to give me orders!
    Dai, you have a good heart. I really thought you were better suited to Ikou. Please stop trying to be a pleaser and remember that it is not your job to solve Shun’s problems he brought into the relationship - only the ones the two of you make together.

    • @kushaniperera57
      @kushaniperera57 Před 3 dny +1

      Just because someone liked you does not mean that you automatically should like them also. Shun's had his priorities from day one. It just that Dai decided Shun would be his end game from the day one also. There are no right or wrong in their relationship. Dai just decided he does not want to give up on Shun no matter what. And that is what made Shun fall for him also. He was looking for someone who had only eyes for him.
      Shun was firm on what he wanted in a relationship from the start. Dai just took some time to grasp the meaning of his unsaid words and adjusted himself to make Shun secure in a relationship. Because Dai knew he WOULD HAVE to put more work in the relationship in the start. And looking at their recent interactions, I would say Dai took the biggest gamble in his life and won. That man is super loved by Shun. What more else would you want for Dai?

    • @ninomi_-_
      @ninomi_-_ Před 2 dny

      Shun was thinking about getting married, and 0 to 1 is difficult but 1 to 50 is fast . That’s why he so cautious.
      In a way, I think he participated in the most serious state of the cast.
      It’s just a process where different people meet and match each other perfectly. They‘re now in a perfect relationship.

  • @alienbride101
    @alienbride101 Před měsícem

    What's the name of the song played on the second half?

    • @spaceyume
      @spaceyume  Před měsícem +1

      @@alienbride101 the light

  • @stellasteven4077
    @stellasteven4077 Před měsícem +1

    熊吉妈 是你吗🥹

    • @spaceyume
      @spaceyume  Před měsícem

      @@stellasteven4077 哈哈是我,这是个有着10几年网龄的老账号哈哈哈哈哈哈

  • @nisham4477
    @nisham4477 Před měsícem +1

    Someone hire @spaceyume