For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
I’ve been really good friends with a Muslim girl since high school and we are now in our final year of university. I have met her parents and siblings and her family has entrusted me to kind of protect as we are in University in a different country. I genuinely see her as my little sister and we’ve helped each other so much and we’ve always kept it respectful like we haven’t been in a room alone. I just don’t understand how a mutually beneficial friendships that have helped you so much in life be a bad thing.
But if she offered you the cheeks would you do it.....Don't answer, I already know the answer. If the answer is truly "no" then she is very unattractive. Let's be real bro.
I'll tell you my story as a guy who have lots of ladies best friends. There are some differences. I see some girls as my sisters so we became best friends, because I was never physically attracted towards those girls so we can remain friends , but I also became close friends or best friends with some to get close and win her heart and even if she have boyfriend, just wait for correct opportunity if they ever broke up, you are there to fill that part . But those girls can't never decide what is the main purpose of that guy? To have sister/brother kinda healthy friendly relationship or the guy pretending to be best friend but is actually waiting for correct opportunity. And I'm saying this from my experience.
Yea tbh I don’t think men and women can be friends one of them always catches feelings, so if you are in a relationship you should never have a one on one friendship with someone of the opposite sex. From my experience the only ppl who disagree with this concept are either naive, gay or a cheater. Your only friend of the opposite sex should be your spouse.
Okay firstly, Sexual desire is an emotion, it’s called arousal. Women are just more used to dealing with arousal around others because guys like Muhammad be creeping on 12 year olds. Secondly, I find guys are usually far more naive. Assuming that if a women takes any interest in you they want to have sex, when believe it or not there are many people attempting monogamy who also want friends, crazy. I have multiple girl friends, and a partner, and my partner does not care, and rather when we have the opportunity we are usually having sex for at least an hour and a half a day every day, usually more. Ya’ll just insecure cause ya’ll don’t know how to eat cat or use your cocks properly lmao.
@@nomejest5919 there's nothing wrong with having acquaintances of either gender also I'm not Muslim, I'm Christian maybe the rules are different for both religions
@@nomejest5919 strange?, how is hanging out with my male cousins and female cousin strange? I view one of my male cousins as an acquaintance also not trying to use words ambiguously but I'm just saying I'm Christian so the Quran and Sunnah's laws don't apply to me, none of my cousins are Muslim either so the rules don't apply to them either
As a woman, a 100% agreed that men and women cannot be friends. They can be respectful and cordial towards the opposite gender, but that doesn't mean they should be friends. It is extremely disrespectful to your significant other and/or your spouse! Plus a lot of time the two of you are not on the same page regarding your intentions on being "friends".
Hey, totally agree w you and also Christian here.. when I used to have BMF throughout my 20s-30s, NOT anymore. Amazing we have these Values same w/ Muslims?? Reminds me of the Detroit school board Teaching Gender changing drama...
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
Subhan Allah ❤...this is so beautiful just notice how Allah said don't even go near it Just think if there are colorful electronic wires are open in the study of a man,, in the love and care of his children he would told them not to go in the room because he exactly knows if the children went there they might get attracted to the wires and may touch them and ultimately harm themselves...indeed he's Al Aleem and Hakeem
I've had this female friend Ive known for years , before I reverted to Islam. I still speak to her now, but I know it's wrong. Please make Dua for me to gain the strength leave this friendship, because I know Allah will replace it with something better
I'll tell you my story as a guy who have lots of ladies best friends. There are some differences. I see some girls as my sisters so we became best friends, because I was never physically attracted towards those girls so we can remain friends , but I also became close friends or best friends with some to get close and win her heart and even if she have boyfriend, just wait for correct opportunity if they ever broke up, you are there to fill that part . But those girls can't never decide what is the main purpose of that guy? To have sister/brother kinda healthy friendly relationship or the guy pretending to be best friend but is actually waiting for correct opportunity. And I'm saying this from my experience.
You're correct! for certain guys that is i have multiple girl FRIENDS and neither of us wanna take it further, stop making it seem like all guys want a relationship with their girl FRIENDS some do and some might yes but not all stop making it seem as if guys and girls cant be just friends lmao
I’ve been like this for years. I don’t believe guys and girl can be friends, especially when one ends up in a relationship, all of a sudden the ‘friend’ likes the one that got into a relationship
Friendship is a feeling, an experience and a journey. With some people it’s long but with some people it’s short. If you realise this, you can be friends with which ever person you want. 😁
Girls need to understand that boys just wanna use them so be modest be private and ignore them all don't be fooled and don't be showing yourself on the media as well whether or not you're wearing hijab because there is also rulings on that but not many people wanna speak about it.. (edit) Just to clarify I am not slandering as a comment has been made I am only talking about haram relationships for advice and not to go near it and to protect others falling into bad things well in some cases this can be marriage. Don't take it too seriously but the rulings of Islam stands things which are forbidden then avoid and things which are allowed no prob.
The 1st one is very accurate some girls get jealous of the guy being in a relationship not because the girl actually likes him byt because the guys attention does not evolve around her anymore
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
Exception for me i left home at 15 i have two female friends that are older than me buy 20 years not peirs but friends in that people replace your family if your family kick you out , one is like a grnadmother / Aunt the other like a older sister in no way have i ever felt anything sexual toward them in 20 years since , again rare exception due to a extreme circumstance .
no actually guys and girls can be just friends people clearly don’t understand bc i have a lot of guy friends and we have no sexual connection between each other it’s called BEING FRIENDLY
I have women friends and I am a guy they are all casual friends. I have never and will never be sexually attracted to them because the relationship that I have with them is platonic
yes i do have a friend of mine who is my best friend and i always wan to see her happy but what if as i start leaving and closing the casual friendship, she gets angry or sad or as if she is not a good friend and im just ignoring her or smtg like i have now realized that i like her too but no i do not have any intimate desires i just want her to be happy and satisfied , so can someone tell what would be a good thing to do here
Leave her for Allah....if she is a Muslim then she will understand too... I went through this as well...I experienced this it was very hard for me but yeah now I'm over it.... Just do it for Allah.... Because u know it's wrong & if u still continue then it would be considered as a sin... Do u really wanna commit sin ??
What about children? When I was in elementary school, I had a lot of friends, both male and female. In secondary school, I also met a few boys who I befriended. I'm also not religious.
Lol, so a child is an unformed personality, and in childhood you don’t choose friends, but simply communicate with the same children from your environment
Well, yes. Are you saying that as a 10-year-old brat whose vacuum of interests consists of chips and videos on TikTok, you can filter your surroundings so that interesting and loyal people remain in it? Are you serious?
Alhamdulillah I'm not naive to realize that emotions are emotions. Nothing more serious. I actually dont like going into a relationship, because i dont want. If Allah SWT gave me a good husband, I'm happy. Alhamdulilah. But at the moment i wont go search one. Avoid contact with men very much.
but can we be friends in video games and i promise i wont ever come close to zina ever i have one boy as a friend and when he was trying to flrit with me i stopped him but other than that there is nothing and im not friending him bc i wanted to have someone to play with on roblox but if its haram plz tell me and i will unfriend him
Escape this cult! Save yourself from Religion. It will destroy you. Be critical. Be logical. Be friends with whom you love and care. Stop listening to these clowns.
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
Lost all respect as soon as u brought allah into this. I’m not against Islam. I’m against religion. And I hate to say that as I genuinely believe religion (as a most part) wants to do good and people to be kind etc etc But it’s caused a rather large amount of our human history to cause pain, suffering and ultimately death amongst our brothers and sisters. His tone, his explanation, everything had me on side from the start. And it’s rather obvious he’s a follower of Islam. And I know, and have known many many Muslims. I read the Koran whilst in Iraq. I spoke to many imam’s in the Middle East and the UK, and I love and respect what they stand for, to a degree of course. In my opinion I’m just not interested in hearing anyone quote any made up or not, religious prophet that was written about 1000’s of years ago speak about current day and modern things happening now. The underlying message of religion is still a good one I feel, but we’ve been killing and hating each other as a result of it for millennia. Anyway I’ve had my rant after my morning coffee. I hope I haven’t caused any upset and offence with my opinion and words written on social media (because I can guarantee that at least one person who reads my words will want to kill me as a result)
I have many guy friends, in fact about half. (11/35). I talk to the, daily and we have a great time. Some used to like me and I used to like some of them, but its not uncomfortable or anything. I dont believe in God or Allah, but I dont hate on it either. So this is only true for some people. My friends all dont have any guy friends, but Im sure some of the people in the comments do.
see this is what he is saying. allah swt has told us to not go near the steps of zina. So, as a muslim it makes complete sense to obey him and know that whats forbidden is forbidden. its just for our own betterement
@@audsjk Sure, but how you could live if you cant control it. What is it move by itself. No. Everyone exactly know everything cant move by itself right ? So Whos control it ? Allah(God) whoss control it. why you dont gratefull to your God ?
This guy is still 1000 years behind. Humans should adapt to the time. My question is why some of them misbehave. We need to find what makes them behave badly in comparison to well behaved people. The only solution is good parenting, teachings and input they get by surroundings.
how about a person u know him online and u are a friend with him only online 🙃🙃 but sometimes he saying he will visit my country one day can someone explain ?
I have a friend group and it’s two boys including me and three girls on of the girls think more like a guy well more like me and the other boy and none of us like each other like we want to marry anyone Elsa in the group
THAT'S EXACTLY, WHY JESUS CHRIST SAID THAT YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN, 🤔 SO YOU,DON'T SEE THEM AS A SEXUAL DESIRES TO BE FULFILLED, THEY ARE WOMEN AND EACH ONE OF US WAS MADE FOR 1 PARTNER 2, BECOMES 1 FLESH AFTER THAT WE ARE ALL BROTHERS AND SISTERS
When you think about it, every moral justification has to have its roots in religion. I am not talking about a moral opinion, but rather a moral justification. From an atheistic perspective, morality is a subjective feeling not an objective fact; it is nothing more than a figment of imagination or byprorduct of blind evolution. If an atheist is to justify an objective moral basis (by saying, "X things is evil" rather than, "I think X thing is evil"), he steals objectivity from religions.
@@zs7930 I am with you with that. The thing is that in this video there is an Islamic overkill. In my point of view it could nearly be any kind or form of religion. Religion is there to civilise mankind.
@@martijndorr6534 Yeah I totally agree with you on that, my friend. Religion does civilize mankind, and I think we should look at the bigger picture here for two reasons: A) Muslims acknowledge that God sent many messengers prior to propeht Mohammed (peace and blessings be upon him). They all called for the absolute, monotheistic worship of God: (Keep in mind that Allah means God in Arabic; even Arabic speaking Christians use Allah to refer to God) [An-Naḥl: 36] (36) And We certainly sent into every nation a messenger, [saying], "Worship Allāh and avoid ṭāghūt."[698] And among them were those whom Allāh guided, and among them were those upon whom error was [deservedly] decreed. So proceed [i.e., travel] through the earth and observe how was the end of the deniers. [698]- False objects of worship - like human beings or idols. Thus, many religions around the world have certain moral aspects that are indeed from God. However, humans have altered these original, divine messages; they inserted aspects like this: 1 Samuel 15:2-3 ESV - (2) Thus says the LORD of hosts, ‘I have noted what Amalek did to Israel in opposing them on the way when they came up out of Egypt. (3)Now go and strike Amalek and devote to destruction all that they have. Do not spare them, but kill both man and woman, child and infant, ox and sheep, camel and donkey.’' As muslims, we acknowledge that God didn't make such an unjust order; he wouldn't order the killing of sinless infants and defenceless women. In contrast, this is what Islam says about massacres against innocents. From the hadith (i.e. the teachings of propeht Mohammed PBUH): ------------------------------------------------- During some of the Ghazawat of the Prophet (ﷺ) a woman was found killed. Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) disapproved the killing of women and children. Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari (3014) and Sahih Muslim (1744a) ------------------------------------------------- From the holy Quran (i.e. the words of God): " ..whoever takes a life-unless as a punishment for murder or mischief in the land-it will be as if they killed all of humanity; and whoever saves a life, it will be as if they saved all of humanity. .." [ From surat Al-Ma'idah verse 32 ] " Fight in the cause of Allah against those who fight you, but do not transgress limits. Allah does not love transgressors." [ From surat Al-Baqarah verse 190 ] The concise tafsir of Al-Baqarah 190: 190. Fight in order to raise the word of Allah, against those of the disbelievers who fight you to turn you away from the religion of Allah; but do not overstep the limits of Allah by killing children, women, the elderly, or by mutilating the dead and so on. Allah does not love those who overstep the limits He has established and made sacred. B) I think we shouldn't have a narrow, secular-only approch on religion, my friend. Yes, religion civilizes humans, but that isn't the ultimate goal; the ultimate goal is to arrive at the truth that will please God. This truth will help us on the Day of Judgment - when all will be held accountable for their deeds. By that I mean, Islam is the only religion that truly reveres God with his proper reverence; God wouldn't be spit on and beaten - like some Christians believe. He doesn't need to rest after 6 days - like some Jews believe. He doesn't come down to ra**pe women - like hindus believe. If you search in all religions whilst genuinely looking for the truth, you'll see that only Islam appraises the attributes of God with their true and proper appraisal. If you want to understand why Islam represents the truth from God, you should read the Quran. Clear your mind of any biases, and read the Quran as if just now you're being introduced to Islam; that will help you in objectively judging it - based on its merits. After doing that, head to your nearest Islamic center. Ask them about anything you encountered. I suggest a site called "Quran . com" it has multiple translations if you click on settings (it also has an app). Or you can get a free physical copy if you prefer that: czcams.com/users/shortstAnoB_2-MBw?feature=share Honestly, that's the best way to learn how Islam represents the truth from God. May God show us the truth and guide us towards it 🙏❤️
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
I don't think chatting to know about the person without seeing each others face would be haram but I may be wrong. Also you can see the person once in photo or directly just to know wheather you find her physically attractive. Also her father must be aware of all of this. Allah knows best
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
Ladies, assess the difference between naive and stupid - even a highly academically educated or professional can be naive, but not stupid.
Whats does having education have to do with social skills and common sense ?
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
(Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
_______________
Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
(Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
[Quran 28:24].
_________
Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
_______
@@noneofyourbuiznessthat's literally what he said.
What would he mean by a purposeful relationship
THIS
I’ve been really good friends with a Muslim girl since high school and we are now in our final year of university. I have met her parents and siblings and her family has entrusted me to kind of protect as we are in University in a different country. I genuinely see her as my little sister and we’ve helped each other so much and we’ve always kept it respectful like we haven’t been in a room alone.
I just don’t understand how a mutually beneficial friendships that have helped you so much in life be a bad thing.
But if she offered you the cheeks would you do it.....Don't answer, I already know the answer. If the answer is truly "no" then she is very unattractive. Let's be real bro.
💀
I'll tell you my story as a guy who have lots of ladies best friends. There are some differences. I see some girls as my sisters so we became best friends, because I was never physically attracted towards those girls so we can remain friends , but I also became close friends or best friends with some to get close and win her heart and even if she have boyfriend, just wait for correct opportunity if they ever broke up, you are there to fill that part . But those girls can't never decide what is the main purpose of that guy? To have sister/brother kinda healthy friendly relationship or the guy pretending to be best friend but is actually waiting for correct opportunity. And I'm saying this from my experience.
Yea tbh I don’t think men and women can be friends one of them always catches feelings, so if you are in a relationship you should never have a one on one friendship with someone of the opposite sex. From my experience the only ppl who disagree with this concept are either naive, gay or a cheater. Your only friend of the opposite sex should be your spouse.
YALL ARE CRAZY. MEN AND WOMEN CAN BE JUST FRIENDS💀💀
@@killer_cat-321 Id love to see how youre gonna feel about a close opposite sex friend of your spouse. Dont be naive and delusional
@@killer_cat-321exactly i’m watching these because i’m in the more than friends situation and some y’all comments are correct😭
This all is so stupid, does it apply to kids too? Good god
@@bpop9394 no not kids lol, it’s different after puberty kicks in
No. 3 is the No. 1
100% right
Okay firstly, Sexual desire is an emotion, it’s called arousal. Women are just more used to dealing with arousal around others because guys like Muhammad be creeping on 12 year olds. Secondly, I find guys are usually far more naive. Assuming that if a women takes any interest in you they want to have sex, when believe it or not there are many people attempting monogamy who also want friends, crazy. I have multiple girl friends, and a partner, and my partner does not care, and rather when we have the opportunity we are usually having sex for at least an hour and a half a day every day, usually more. Ya’ll just insecure cause ya’ll don’t know how to eat cat or use your cocks properly lmao.
I agree to an extent that guys and girls can't be just friends but you can have female acquaintances and be friendly with them
same here, I think that applies vice versa to with male acquaintances
NOOOOO !!!! ALLAH SAID YOU CANT
@@nomejest5919 there's nothing wrong with having acquaintances of either gender also I'm not Muslim, I'm Christian maybe the rules are different for both religions
@Madison0193 You should not have unnecessary interactions with strange females or males. This is from the sunnah. Stop using thr word so ambigiously.
@@nomejest5919 strange?, how is hanging out with my male cousins and female cousin strange? I view one of my male cousins as an acquaintance also not trying to use words ambiguously but I'm just saying I'm Christian so the Quran and Sunnah's laws don't apply to me, none of my cousins are Muslim either so the rules don't apply to them either
Islam says it's haraam, reason enough for me
Escape from this cult. Islam is haram to humans.
@NoorNoor16-vq8bxMost stupid question that i ever know
@NoorNoor16-vq8bx it's not haraam to breathe. I don't get your point? What's so difficult in lowering your gaze and respecting your sisters
Islam doesn’t fucking exist stop getting brainwashed
As a woman, a 100% agreed that men and women cannot be friends. They can be respectful and cordial towards the opposite gender, but that doesn't mean they should be friends. It is extremely disrespectful to your significant other and/or your spouse! Plus a lot of time the two of you are not on the same page regarding your intentions on being "friends".
Hey, totally agree w you and also Christian here.. when I used to have BMF throughout my 20s-30s, NOT anymore. Amazing we have these Values same w/ Muslims?? Reminds me of the Detroit school board Teaching Gender changing drama...
So you're saying that there are no two people out there that are opposite genders, and completely platonic friends?
@@keifer7813I can tell you this… 5 of my 9 friends are girls! All Platonic with a capital P
@@CaptainQuoll Yeah because you're not attracted to any of them
and if theyre both single?
killed it bro 💪 💯
@@user-yt2mo8ze7y jazakallah khair bro
even though i dont read the Quaran and not islam i agree 1,000,000%
Subhanallah. May Allah give us a good wife/ husband and jannah 🤲🏾 Aaaaamiiiiiin ☺️
Ameen
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
(Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
_______________
Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
(Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
[Quran 28:24].
_________
Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
_______
آمين
Subhan Allah ❤...this is so beautiful just notice how Allah said don't even go near it
Just think if there are colorful electronic wires are open in the study of a man,, in the love and care of his children he would told them not to go in the room because he exactly knows if the children went there they might get attracted to the wires and may touch them and ultimately harm themselves...indeed he's Al Aleem and Hakeem
I've had this female friend Ive known for years , before I reverted to Islam. I still speak to her now, but I know it's wrong. Please make Dua for me to gain the strength leave this friendship, because I know Allah will replace it with something better
Ameen brother
Ameen, all the best. Marry her and introduce her to islam if it's an option. Otherwise, best wishes
Escape this cult. And be a human being
Ameen
Ur last line is beautiful
Best response that I heard for this question 👌❤
I'll tell you my story as a guy who have lots of ladies best friends. There are some differences. I see some girls as my sisters so we became best friends, because I was never physically attracted towards those girls so we can remain friends , but I also became close friends or best friends with some to get close and win her heart and even if she have boyfriend, just wait for correct opportunity if they ever broke up, you are there to fill that part . But those girls can't never decide what is the main purpose of that guy? To have sister/brother kinda healthy friendly relationship or the guy pretending to be best friend but is actually waiting for correct opportunity. And I'm saying this from my experience.
You're correct! for certain guys that is i have multiple girl FRIENDS and neither of us wanna take it further, stop making it seem like all guys want a relationship with their girl FRIENDS some do and some might yes but not all stop making it seem as if guys and girls cant be just friends lmao
I’ve been like this for years. I don’t believe guys and girl can be friends, especially when one ends up in a relationship, all of a sudden the ‘friend’ likes the one that got into a relationship
Brother you are absolutely correct.
Friendship is a feeling, an experience and a journey. With some people it’s long but with some people it’s short. If you realise this, you can be friends with which ever person you want. 😁
Idgaf I’m still gonna be friends with a girl. Her name is Emme. We get along so well and I’m not gonna get rid of her
This is sad but 100% true and as a Muslim we can't denie it
Girls need to understand that boys just wanna use them so be modest be private and ignore them all don't be fooled and don't be showing yourself on the media as well whether or not you're wearing hijab because there is also rulings on that but not many people wanna speak about it..
(edit) Just to clarify I am not slandering as a comment has been made I am only talking about haram relationships for advice and not to go near it and to protect others falling into bad things well in some cases this can be marriage. Don't take it too seriously but the rulings of Islam stands things which are forbidden then avoid and things which are allowed no prob.
You would be surprised how many women, especially those in western countries, are just after intimate activity.
@@Mohammed-yc6nn wow the dunya.. 😭 I didn't really know that exactly
@@Mohammed-yc6nnwhy always looking at western like Asia like Middle East and other countries are any less ?
@@knightrider2863 because theres less
There is no rulings about this matter, please show where it is stated in the Quran that a girl can’t post on social media with a hijab.
Baraka Allah film brother ❤❤❤
Ya ALLAH
Make me and my whole family and friends true muslims
Allahumma ameen
Jazakumullahu khairan
Prb
The 1st one is very accurate some girls get jealous of the guy being in a relationship not because the girl actually likes him byt because the guys attention does not evolve around her anymore
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
(Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
_______________
Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
(Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
[Quran 28:24].
_________
Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
_______
I think me and my male friend can be just friends, I know it because I know he likes someone else
Perfectly explained
absolutely right
I have so many male friends nd they r just friends to me
Counter.
What if the guy is gay?
Having a gay partner is equivalent to zina
It's still it's a men
Men will be men
@@MakiChoo-fs3pnnahhh !!! Not all men are same!!! Stop telling this dialogue!!
@@manwithmonstervoice1100 nobody knows the desire of a man so you can't tell who is good and who is bad
@@MakiChoo-fs3pn lol I'm a man 😂😂😂 i don't have that desire to have s*x with friends!!!
Jazzaka Allahukhaira❤
Exception for me i left home at 15 i have two female friends that are older than me buy 20 years not peirs but friends in that people replace your family if your family kick you out , one is like a grnadmother / Aunt the other like a older sister in no way have i ever felt anything sexual toward them in 20 years since , again rare exception due to a extreme circumstance .
Very well said.. 🥰🥰🥰
no actually guys and girls can be just friends people clearly don’t understand bc i have a lot of guy friends and we have no sexual connection between each other it’s called BEING FRIENDLY
How are you so sure there are no feelings on their side?
Then they're gay lol
@@dtk8266nahhh !!! Boys who are not sexually attracted to their female friends , can be platonic friends!!! You don't know what you're talking!!!
I have women friends and I am a guy they are all casual friends. I have never and will never be sexually attracted to them because the relationship that I have with them is platonic
U shouldn't be like near around them most if the time tho
?
@@T_nicklehead Like next to them alot. In proxemic terms. Also no touching.
Why
They are people to
Masha ALLAH❤❤❤❤😊
No, girls are not naives! She thinks I
love her when I just want to be friends!
THATS NORMALLY WHEN THINGS START…… whaaatttt?? 😅
I keep learning this over and over with my guy friends.😏
So true mashallah. Just like how our beloved Rasool Allah s.a.w. and Abu Bakr RA were more than just friends.
I’m Christian and I do not understand what the Quran says, but I felt that it was right.
Just get one and read it ❤
Guys who joke and hang out with their overweight older female lesbian coworkers 💀
Its good to see that it doesn't matter your religion, guys will be guys and girls are naive.
The no1 is so true 🌟.
The Amount of Insecurity's is strong with this one
Facts I agree, islam the religion of insecurity
in short you can be just friends in work or school related but not casual because men think differently and girls uses men for utility
yes i do have a friend of mine who is my best friend and i always wan to see her happy but what if as i start leaving and closing the casual friendship, she gets angry or sad or as if she is not a good friend and im just ignoring her or smtg like i have now realized that i like her too but no i do not have any intimate desires i just want her to be happy and satisfied , so can someone tell what would be a good thing to do here
i would love a reply from @thesunnahguy
Leave her for Allah....if she is a Muslim then she will understand too... I went through this as well...I experienced this it was very hard for me but yeah now I'm over it.... Just do it for Allah.... Because u know it's wrong & if u still continue then it would be considered as a sin... Do u really wanna commit sin ??
Just wondering, where are you from?
What about children? When I was in elementary school, I had a lot of friends, both male and female. In secondary school, I also met a few boys who I befriended. I'm also not religious.
Lol, so a child is an unformed personality, and in childhood you don’t choose friends, but simply communicate with the same children from your environment
@@deedarklord I don't know about you but I definitely chose my friends.
@@bpop9394 And how old were you then? If it's below 16, then I'll fall laughing
@@deedarklord What? Do you really think kids younger than 16 can't choose who they're friends with?
Well, yes. Are you saying that as a 10-year-old brat whose vacuum of interests consists of chips and videos on TikTok, you can filter your surroundings so that interesting and loyal people remain in it? Are you serious?
MashaAllah ❤
SubhanaAllAH
Girls make up like 4/8 of my friends 😂😂😂
# 2 us real
Guys and Girls can be just friends...if the guy is gay....🎉
My only female best friend is my sister, not sister by blood or cousin but we're related🤍✨
Guys and girls CAN BE best friends
After married ? Yes
@@ResZCreator Or before
@@sharkgrenadevrnot before
@@MakiChoo-fs3pn They can be friends before
@@sharkgrenadevr no they can't
Point number 3 should be point number 1 akhi.
can someone drop the hadith that says its prohibited
Alhamdulillah I'm not naive to realize that emotions are emotions. Nothing more serious. I actually dont like going into a relationship, because i dont want. If Allah SWT gave me a good husband, I'm happy. Alhamdulilah. But at the moment i wont go search one.
Avoid contact with men very much.
He doesn't know what he's missing. Women can and do get led by their sexual desires❤
But guys is more but yeah women are more emotional
He is speaking in general to the majority not the minority
Facts
While you have a good argument, it still seems going straight to a romantic relationship instead of working up to it seems sorta unhealthy
but can we be friends in video games and i promise i wont ever come close to zina ever i have one boy as a friend and when he was trying to flrit with me i stopped him but other than that there is nothing and im not friending him bc i wanted to have someone to play with on roblox but if its haram plz tell me and i will unfriend him
Escape this cult! Save yourself from Religion. It will destroy you. Be critical. Be logical. Be friends with whom you love and care. Stop listening to these clowns.
Don't talk with him just play the game and
Go😂
Me as an aro/ace. Mhm interesting
ALHAMDULILLAH
Facts.
Number 3 always first
Nasheed plzzzz!!
I’m a Christian but I agree
Theres this girl I talk to sometimes but if she asked me out I'd def decline
Stop talking to her. It'll give her false hope.
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
(Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
_______________
Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
(Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
[Quran 28:24].
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Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
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@Soldier368 they obviously have desires to date guys but much less than men
Cause maybe its not the girls that are the problem but its the guy.
@Soldier368 it's clearly the guy. You proved my point.
Me being gay and all my girl friends being lesbian 🍵🗿
this is not for you.
Go to a hospital dude
I have an freind she lives far away from e and it can't led to zina so can we stay freinds or its haram
I no longer talk to any of my female friends
I am friend with a muslim boy since childhood and we are going to do a bussines and thats work related and i dont see him that often but its that ok?
Yes for business is ok
@@Footballfan9912it's harram
Lost all respect as soon as u brought allah into this.
I’m not against Islam.
I’m against religion.
And I hate to say that as I genuinely believe religion (as a most part) wants to do good and people to be kind etc etc
But it’s caused a rather large amount of our human history to cause pain, suffering and ultimately death amongst our brothers and sisters.
His tone, his explanation, everything had me on side from the start. And it’s rather obvious he’s a follower of Islam. And I know, and have known many many Muslims.
I read the Koran whilst in Iraq.
I spoke to many imam’s in the Middle East and the UK, and I love and respect what they stand for, to a degree of course.
In my opinion I’m just not interested in hearing anyone quote any made up or not, religious prophet that was written about 1000’s of years ago speak about current day and modern things happening now.
The underlying message of religion is still a good one I feel, but we’ve been killing and hating each other as a result of it for millennia.
Anyway I’ve had my rant after my morning coffee.
I hope I haven’t caused any upset and offence with my opinion and words written on social media (because I can guarantee that at least one person who reads my words will want to kill me as a result)
Religion doesn't teach hate it's the people who do it even atheist hate other people hate is a part of life and love too it's in the blood of humanity
I have many guy friends, in fact about half. (11/35). I talk to the, daily and we have a great time. Some used to like me and I used to like some of them, but its not uncomfortable or anything. I dont believe in God or Allah, but I dont hate on it either. So this is only true for some people. My friends all dont have any guy friends, but Im sure some of the people in the comments do.
see this is what he is saying. allah swt has told us to not go near the steps of zina. So, as a muslim it makes complete sense to obey him and know that whats forbidden is forbidden. its just for our own betterement
@@ifrahshah8135 what? im not religious. god has nothing to do with my relationship
@@audsjkWell. So can you control yourself your heart ? Your periods ? Your Blood in your body ?
@@ResZCreator what? nobody can
@@audsjk Sure, but how you could live if you cant control it. What is it move by itself. No. Everyone exactly know everything cant move by itself right ? So Whos control it ? Allah(God) whoss control it. why you dont gratefull to your God ?
This guy is still 1000 years behind. Humans should adapt to the time.
My question is why some of them misbehave. We need to find what makes them behave badly in comparison to well behaved people.
The only solution is good parenting, teachings and input they get by surroundings.
me being best friends with a girl (were both autistic [not severely])
It's a person to person thing.
Everything was right but naive...when Islam says respect women than its respect..there is no way around
Then how'd you explain my friendship with a girl?
my best friend is a guy and he is my best friend from my childhood and now i am 23 years old
how about a person u know him online and u are a friend with him only online 🙃🙃 but sometimes he saying he will visit my country one day can someone explain ?
I’m friends with girls if they tried to move to me Id back hand them respectfully
I have a friend group and it’s two boys including me and three girls on of the girls think more like a guy well more like me and the other boy and none of us like each other like we want to marry anyone Elsa in the group
What is the background sound?
holy humming
Uhm..im gay bro..😭😭😭😭
THAT'S EXACTLY, WHY JESUS CHRIST SAID THAT YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN, 🤔 SO YOU,DON'T SEE THEM AS A SEXUAL DESIRES TO BE FULFILLED, THEY ARE WOMEN AND EACH ONE OF US WAS MADE FOR 1 PARTNER 2, BECOMES 1 FLESH AFTER THAT WE ARE ALL BROTHERS AND SISTERS
Right😢
❤❤❤❤
Im not a girl or a boy does that mean i can be friends with whoever i want or does that mean i cant be friends with anyone?
There are only 2 genders
Then your not a muslim if your not a girl or a boy.
@@khalidibnal-waleedsayfulla6868 bro he is not even a human 💀
@khalidibnal-waleedsayfulla6868 why not?
Who's the Allah chal hat🤬Our Hinduism shows the beauty of the platonic nd pure friendship between krishna nd Draupadi ❤
Allah-Hu-Akhbar❤🤲
Most are not quite as naive as you seem think
Absolutely right 🙌🏼
i have experienced in my life ✅
But ALHAMDULILLAH I'm on a right path now 🥹❤️🩹 ALHAMDULILLAH
Don't use this sound it's from an Indian movie it's not Nasheed
I agree although this has nothing to do with religion.
When you think about it, every moral justification has to have its roots in religion. I am not talking about a moral opinion, but rather a moral justification. From an atheistic perspective, morality is a subjective feeling not an objective fact; it is nothing more than a figment of imagination or byprorduct of blind evolution. If an atheist is to justify an objective moral basis (by saying, "X things is evil" rather than, "I think X thing is evil"), he steals objectivity from religions.
@@zs7930 I am with you with that. The thing is that in this video there is an Islamic overkill. In my point of view it could nearly be any kind or form of religion. Religion is there to civilise mankind.
@@martijndorr6534
Yeah I totally agree with you on that, my friend. Religion does civilize mankind, and I think we should look at the bigger picture here for two reasons:
A) Muslims acknowledge that God sent many messengers prior to propeht Mohammed (peace and blessings be upon him). They all called for the absolute, monotheistic worship of God:
(Keep in mind that Allah means God in Arabic; even Arabic speaking Christians use Allah to refer to God)
[An-Naḥl: 36]
(36) And We certainly sent into every nation a messenger, [saying], "Worship Allāh and avoid ṭāghūt."[698] And among them were those whom Allāh guided, and among them were those upon whom error was [deservedly] decreed. So proceed [i.e., travel] through the earth and observe how was the end of the deniers.
[698]- False objects of worship - like human beings or idols.
Thus, many religions around the world have certain moral aspects that are indeed from God. However, humans have altered these original, divine messages; they inserted aspects like this:
1 Samuel 15:2-3 ESV -
(2) Thus says the LORD of hosts, ‘I have noted what Amalek did to Israel in opposing them on the way when they came up out of Egypt.
(3)Now go and strike Amalek and devote to destruction all that they have. Do not spare them, but kill both man and woman, child and infant, ox and sheep, camel and donkey.’'
As muslims, we acknowledge that God didn't make such an unjust order; he wouldn't order the killing of sinless infants and defenceless women.
In contrast, this is what Islam says about massacres against innocents.
From the hadith (i.e. the teachings of propeht Mohammed PBUH):
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During some of the Ghazawat of the Prophet (ﷺ) a woman was found killed. Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) disapproved the killing of women and children.
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari (3014) and Sahih Muslim (1744a)
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From the holy Quran (i.e. the words of God):
" ..whoever takes a life-unless as a punishment for murder or mischief in the land-it will be as if they killed all of humanity; and whoever saves a life, it will be as if they saved all of humanity. .."
[ From surat Al-Ma'idah verse 32 ]
" Fight in the cause of Allah against those who fight you, but do not transgress limits. Allah does not love transgressors."
[ From surat Al-Baqarah verse 190 ]
The concise tafsir of Al-Baqarah 190:
190. Fight in order to raise the word of Allah, against those of the disbelievers who fight you to turn you away from the religion of Allah; but do not overstep the limits of Allah by killing children, women, the elderly, or by mutilating the dead and so on. Allah does not love those who overstep the limits He has established and made sacred.
B) I think we shouldn't have a narrow, secular-only approch on religion, my friend.
Yes, religion civilizes humans, but that isn't the ultimate goal; the ultimate goal is to arrive at the truth that will please God. This truth will help us on the Day of Judgment - when all will be held accountable for their deeds.
By that I mean, Islam is the only religion that truly reveres God with his proper reverence; God wouldn't be spit on and beaten - like some Christians believe. He doesn't need to rest after 6 days - like some Jews believe. He doesn't come down to ra**pe women - like hindus believe. If you search in all religions whilst genuinely looking for the truth, you'll see that only Islam appraises the attributes of God with their true and proper appraisal.
If you want to understand why Islam represents the truth from God, you should read the Quran. Clear your mind of any biases, and read the Quran as if just now you're being introduced to Islam; that will help you in objectively judging it - based on its merits. After doing that, head to your nearest Islamic center. Ask them about anything you encountered.
I suggest a site called "Quran . com" it has multiple translations if you click on settings (it also has an app).
Or you can get a free physical copy if you prefer that:
czcams.com/users/shortstAnoB_2-MBw?feature=share
Honestly, that's the best way to learn how Islam represents the truth from God.
May God show us the truth and guide us towards it 🙏❤️
❤
Alhumdulliah
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
(Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
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Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
(Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
[Quran 28:24].
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Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
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Is long distance relationship wrong when you plan on getting married as soon as you meet in person
Delete her contact, and get in touch with her father
I don't think chatting to know about the person without seeing each others face would be haram but I may be wrong. Also you can see the person once in photo or directly just to know wheather you find her physically attractive. Also her father must be aware of all of this. Allah knows best
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
(Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
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Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
(Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
[Quran 28:24].
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Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
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Ok but I’m the only Muslim is my family in I’m the female
@@moneylovepower5675 contact an imam local to you and inshaAllah he can help