You 100% nailed it, and one huge reason many people (Men & Women) are on the Dating Apps is because they lack Adult Friendships and feel the loneliness of not having a community of friends to socialize with. When I got Divorced following 23 years of marriage, my goal was to focus of Female Friendships. Sadly, as a 45 year old Woman it is MUCH more challenging to find Female Friends than ever before, as Single Women prefer to sit at home watching Netflix while browsing Social Media or pursuing Male Attention, and Coupled Women often are burdened with Career/Kids/Partners and often feel "threatened" to have a Single Woman around them. Thankfully, I've got my 3 young children, my dog, and my Doll Collection to fill my time outside of work.
Awww you’re so cute! It is hard to make friends as an adult. I have to be mindful of coming across as too excited to meet new people, but that’s just who I am so if the person vibes with my energy right off the bat it’s a good sign. If they don’t? Well I guess they’re just not for me then lol. Idk it’s hard. Ppl already have really close friends from high school and college and stuff and I made the mistake of investing my time in the wrong people during those times. So I’m gradually trying to make more friends these days. I’m 28. So it’s hard. I understand. I’ll be moving to the UK sometime next year so we can be friends then! LOL ❤️
At one point, I believe a more recent video you states you would move to another place. With or without that factor, have things changed as far as making more friends? In the past, I've had to move to a new area and make new friends. In some social settings I've made friends like at church or even from work. Did you make any friends of other CZcams creators?
Hey. I haven't made any friends in my new town and haven't really tried to be honest. I guess because I see it as a temporary place so just hang out with my family instead. But I definitely don't want to be here forever. No, haven't made any CZcamsr friends, think that will come in time.
Hey it’s me again, well first of all nice video. I think you covered some interesting and relatable stuff in here… Well certainly where you live and the culture you’re in could make you have different opinions on this matter, in my opinion i think that when you get older you lose the flexibility and the carefreeness if so to speak about making friends. When you are young you are flexible you can do whatever you want with other people but when you get older you know what things interests you and you’re responsibilities grows so that gets on the way. And also older people tend to have a strong social circle not all the time but mostly and also they tend to be less out there because they feel ashamed or so to speak about seeming desperate. And also another thing you touched on is that people can smell that you’re desperate or idk how to say it i guess more like out there and that scares them, like i moved away to a new city and whenever i try to make friends and put a label on it quickly it usually doesn’t work because it feels like you’re forcing it and it is less organic. So that’s i agree with you on. So yeah it’s hard to make friends if you force it because it doesn’t feel right you seem desperate. Hmmm.. Ig that’s enough on this point lol. About being an introvert and CZcams i think it’s fine because basically introverts (I don’t like labels but it helps to get the idea across) but yeah introverts feels that people around people and big social events energy consuming, but in CZcams you’re basically talking about your life and opinions on life experiences I don’t think it’s against each others. Lastly I don’t have a CZcams channel but i like making online friends in fact my BFF is an online friend (is that petty?) lol. Anyhow but im not from the UK although I wish i was. Anyhow yeah keep the great work i really enjoy watching your videos. Also idk if you replied on my comment on the other video but I’ll check it anyway, because i think you shout out to me when you said the gay friends and stuff because i said it XDDDD
Yes, I was was talking about you. Hope you didn't mind! I did reply. I reply to virtually everyone at the moment. It doesn't always flag the second comment. But if I recognise the name I will make sure to reply.
I have a suggestion for you; have you ever looked into your astrological cartography? Its basically a system that gives you places to travel to based on your birth chart and measures how much success you may get in there (in terms of career and love, relationships, struggle) you may be in an unfavorable location
👍👍👍 Nice video.....
Thank you :-)
You 100% nailed it, and one huge reason many people (Men & Women) are on the Dating Apps is because they lack Adult Friendships and feel the loneliness of not having a community of friends to socialize with. When I got Divorced following 23 years of marriage, my goal was to focus of Female Friendships. Sadly, as a 45 year old Woman it is MUCH more challenging to find Female Friends than ever before, as Single Women prefer to sit at home watching Netflix while browsing Social Media or pursuing Male Attention, and Coupled Women often are burdened with Career/Kids/Partners and often feel "threatened" to have a Single Woman around them. Thankfully, I've got my 3 young children, my dog, and my Doll Collection to fill my time outside of work.
This comment is spot on tbh.
Awww you’re so cute! It is hard to make friends as an adult. I have to be mindful of coming across as too excited to meet new people, but that’s just who I am so if the person vibes with my energy right off the bat it’s a good sign. If they don’t? Well I guess they’re just not for me then lol. Idk it’s hard. Ppl already have really close friends from high school and college and stuff and I made the mistake of investing my time in the wrong people during those times. So I’m gradually trying to make more friends these days. I’m 28. So it’s hard. I understand. I’ll be moving to the UK sometime next year so we can be friends then! LOL ❤️
That's cool. How come you are moving to the UK?
@@text_ghost_love my fiancé lives there
At one point, I believe a more recent video you states you would move to another place. With or without that factor, have things changed as far as making more friends? In the past, I've had to move to a new area and make new friends. In some social settings I've made friends like at church or even from work. Did you make any friends of other CZcams creators?
Hey. I haven't made any friends in my new town and haven't really tried to be honest. I guess because I see it as a temporary place so just hang out with my family instead. But I definitely don't want to be here forever.
No, haven't made any CZcamsr friends, think that will come in time.
Hey it’s me again, well first of all nice video.
I think you covered some interesting and relatable stuff in here…
Well certainly where you live and the culture you’re in could make you have different opinions on this matter, in my opinion i think that when you get older you lose the flexibility and the carefreeness if so to speak about making friends. When you are young you are flexible you can do whatever you want with other people but when you get older you know what things interests you and you’re responsibilities grows so that gets on the way. And also older people tend to have a strong social circle not all the time but mostly and also they tend to be less out there because they feel ashamed or so to speak about seeming desperate.
And also another thing you touched on is that people can smell that you’re desperate or idk how to say it i guess more like out there and that scares them, like i moved away to a new city and whenever i try to make friends and put a label on it quickly it usually doesn’t work because it feels like you’re forcing it and it is less organic. So that’s i agree with you on.
So yeah it’s hard to make friends if you force it because it doesn’t feel right you seem desperate. Hmmm.. Ig that’s enough on this point lol.
About being an introvert and CZcams i think it’s fine because basically introverts (I don’t like labels but it helps to get the idea across) but yeah introverts feels that people around people and big social events energy consuming, but in CZcams you’re basically talking about your life and opinions on life experiences I don’t think it’s against each others.
Lastly I don’t have a CZcams channel but i like making online friends in fact my BFF is an online friend (is that petty?) lol. Anyhow but im not from the UK although I wish i was. Anyhow yeah keep the great work i really enjoy watching your videos. Also idk if you replied on my comment on the other video but I’ll check it anyway, because i think you shout out to me when you said the gay friends and stuff because i said it XDDDD
Yes, I was was talking about you. Hope you didn't mind! I did reply. I reply to virtually everyone at the moment. It doesn't always flag the second comment. But if I recognise the name I will make sure to reply.
@@text_ghost_love yes i just saw tysm! I don’t mind it actually made me happy so ty :))))
I have a suggestion for you; have you ever looked into your astrological cartography? Its basically a system that gives you places to travel to based on your birth chart and measures how much success you may get in there (in terms of career and love, relationships, struggle) you may be in an unfavorable location
Ooooohh, have never heard of that. Sounds like something I would be in to. I do feel this town is unlucky for me though.