The Bride Price: Grassroots Corruption in Chinese Marriages

The Bride Price: Grassroots Corruption in Chinese Marriages - Is It Worth Accepting Bribes to Get Married?
In a society rife with corruption, bribery infiltrates every aspect: Can surgery proceed without a red envelope? Can I get the project without a kickback? Can married life be sustained without a bride price?
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[@fengqingli816]

默认互害

[@Yelvlv]

中年夫妻那种相爱相杀，真的让人头皮发麻。🥶😱

[@spikespiegel5112]

你总是试图从逻辑上寻找这里面的原因，其实我觉得更多是来自于潜意识的因素。男孩女孩儿从小父母那一辈就是互相争吵指责对孩子控制的环境中长大，小孩自己根本体会不到什么是爱。所以为爱结婚根本不在他们思维的那个维度以内，只知道物质价值交换。女人是这样，男人也是这样。男人觉得我给不了对方什么好东西，从来都处于一个自我矮化的环境，觉得自己唯一能拿得出手的只剩钱了。买方卖方互有供应和需求事情才会变成这样。

[@Yelvlv]

你说得很对，家庭环境言传身教，对于孩子的心理健康很重要。爱这件事，需要互动才能学会，需要经历才能感受到珍贵。🫶🫶