Ben Platt - Ease My Mind [Official Video]

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    Fans worldwide fell head over heels for Ben Platt during his Tony® Award-winning turn in the title role of Dear Evan Hansen and on-screen in films such as the Pitch Perfect franchise. As the vocalist, actor, and performer sang life into a host of nuanced and fascinating characters, audiences embraced his voice wholeheartedly. By dusting off the piano, picking up a pen, and singing his own truth straight from the heart, he shared another side of himself as a solo artist.
    Ben achieved superstar status as Evan Hansen in Dear Evan Hansen, originating the lead role. The New York Times lauded him as a “breakout star,” and he went on to receive the 2017 Tony® Award for “Best Actor in a Musical.” Other honors included “Best Musical Theater Album” at the 2018 GRAMMY® Awards for the Original Broadway Cast Recording of Dear Evan Hansen, “Outstanding Musical Performance in a Daytime Program” at the Daytime EMMY® Awards for a cast performance of “You Will Be Found” on The Today Show, and more. Not to mention, he joined forces with Hamilton mastermind Lin-Manuel Miranda to craft a mash-up of “The Story of Tonight” and “You Will Be Found,” benefiting the “March for Our Lives” anti-gun violence movement.
    Signed to Atlantic Records by Chairman and C.E.O. Craig Kallman and President of A&R Pete Ganbarg, he explored his formative influences, ranging from timeless singer-songwriters such as Joni Mitchell and Carole King to legendary crooners like Donny Hathaway, Ray Charles, and Stevie Wonder. As a result, the music delivers confessional lyricism by way of soulful intimacy as part of one cohesive narrative on his 2019 full-length debut, Sing To Me Instead. The 12-track album, which was primarily produced by Jenn Decilveo, chronicles the highs and lows of a transformative relationship. Showcasing his story, Ben penned several songs solo and co-wrote the remainder of material alongside the likes of Ben Abraham, Eg White, Nate Cyphert, Michael Pollack, and more.
    #BenPlatt #EaseMyMind #SingToMeInstead

Komentáře • 3,4K

  • @MaggieMcMahon
    @MaggieMcMahon Před 4 lety +3009

    WHY IS NOBODY TALKING ABOUT HOW AT THE END OF THIS HE PUTS ON THE OUTFIT THAT HE WEARS IN GROW AS WE GO ???

    • @risarideb4763
      @risarideb4763 Před 4 lety +28

      omg he does DX

    • @christinamarina6008
      @christinamarina6008 Před 4 lety +29

      Doesn't he always wear that cost though? Isn't that kind of his signature thing? I'm new here, so maybe I'm wrong.

    • @dumanayo
      @dumanayo Před 4 lety +66

      Omg!!! Right!!! I think its like a story line thingy

    • @marienfjras972
      @marienfjras972 Před 4 lety +47

      Brilliant observation. Only seeing this now. I really love timelines in albums.

    • @mrsyamo36
      @mrsyamo36 Před 4 lety +10

      Oh, shit.

  • @AmyLovatt1
    @AmyLovatt1 Před 5 lety +2595

    WE LITERALLY DONT DESERVE HIS TALENT. MY HEART. I CANT COPE.

  • @ghostiebruh8195
    @ghostiebruh8195 Před 4 lety +1938

    Habit? Bad.
    Mind? Eased.
    Address? Shared.
    Hurt? Once.
    Loving Ben platt and his new album? Yes.

  • @magiv4205
    @magiv4205 Před 5 lety +2283

    When his boyfriend was comforting him through his panic attack, that was the final straw. I absolutely lost it. Ugly crying and everything. More often than not, they happen silently, and there were so many times I was desperate for someone to simply hold me and tell me it'll be alright again, even though everything in my body is currently screaming otherwise. I will never not be thankful to the people that actually DID have my back, and still do. Without them, I might not be here today.

    • @emilygrondin7949
      @emilygrondin7949 Před 4 lety +18

      im crying

    • @franciscomunoz8631
      @franciscomunoz8631 Před 4 lety +6

      What happened at the end?? Why did he leave??

    • @caitm8209
      @caitm8209 Před 4 lety +20

      This comment is a virtual hug for you.

    • @sokkasboomerang1589
      @sokkasboomerang1589 Před 4 lety +4

      i was about to comment nearly the same when i saw your comment

    • @ev8038
      @ev8038 Před 4 lety +27

      I agree, but for me, I'm usually alone. I have to struggle and claw myself out of the inky depths of my mind. I can't breathe, I'm suffocating on nothing but my own fears. "I can feel my sanity start to unwind". I have no one to ease my mind. It's terrifying, and I can't do anything about it but beg and pray for it to be over. I have no anchor, I'm just thrashing in the ocean, floating on a lifeboat alone.

  • @logan.weisberg
    @logan.weisberg Před 5 lety +2594

    Last time I was this early, Ben Platt was Evan

    • @ovo1252
      @ovo1252 Před 5 lety +109

      The last time I was this early Evan and Jared were still friends

    • @moriahsuarez6347
      @moriahsuarez6347 Před 5 lety +97

      Last time I was this early Ben Platt was Benji

    • @tetessa...
      @tetessa... Před 5 lety +22

      You want me to cry again?!?!?

    • @zacharybrinegar2060
      @zacharybrinegar2060 Před 5 lety +28

      Last time I was this early “A Little Bit Of Light” was still in the show

    • @thatplantfern
      @thatplantfern Před 5 lety +7

      Qwerty Content I CANT BREATH

  • @Fenixfyre1976
    @Fenixfyre1976 Před 5 lety +1909

    I came out in 1995. I never had hope for music, videos or songs to show my life. Show my love. Gay love and music were exclusive to the clubs and we didn't have anything mainstream to look at or reach for. You just did that, Ben. You gave us an anthem, a song a bit of peace that even though it should be standard now, it isn't and it was a hell of a lot worse back in my day. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you! You have no idea what this song has become for me.

    • @pilotrieul
      @pilotrieul Před 5 lety +43

      I know; it;s so nice to see gay love... 'normalised' like this. How I wish music videos like this were playing on TV when I was growing up.

    • @nTrophy
      @nTrophy Před 5 lety +21

      Sam Smith did that a couple of years ago tho ;)
      They are both brilliant tbf.

    • @plaguedr6748
      @plaguedr6748 Před 5 lety +11

      Chad Miller I’m so glad you came out to the world. I’m proud of you

    • @SK-tk5lc
      @SK-tk5lc Před 5 lety +8

      You should check out Calum Scott! Glad you resonated w/ this song.

    • @leoooskiii7316
      @leoooskiii7316 Před 5 lety +16

      I'm very thankful to be growing up in a society today that (for the most part) is very supportive of lgbt. I'm glad you are so strong because I couldn't have been.

  • @kerlysolon4837
    @kerlysolon4837 Před 5 lety +2704

    In the words of the Great Lin Manuel Miranda:
    Love is love is love is love is love is love is love
    ♥️

    • @ameliaturner732
      @ameliaturner732 Před 5 lety +71

      and he couldn't be more right

    • @MakoLikeTheShark
      @MakoLikeTheShark Před 5 lety +28

      @@ameliaturner732 agreed.

    • @blind_t2
      @blind_t2 Před 5 lety +24

      Kerly Solon and to think those 2 partnered up!

    • @kristinberchak9219
      @kristinberchak9219 Před 5 lety +29

      Cannot be killed or swept aside! Yes!!🏳️‍🌈

    • @panchaliparbhoo3263
      @panchaliparbhoo3263 Před 5 lety +41

      @@blind_t2 Yeah! They partnered up for a song called "Found/Tonight" which is a mix of "You Will Be Found" from Dear Evan Hansen and "The Story Of Tonight" from Hamilton in support of the March For Our Lives movement.

  • @juliajames4623
    @juliajames4623 Před 5 lety +5449

    "wow look at those two dudes being dudes, what a beautiful friendship"

  • @ovo1252
    @ovo1252 Před 5 lety +2293

    Ears?Blessed
    Eyes?watering
    Heart?Melted
    Mind?eased
    Hotel?Trivago

  • @cadyisawkward1289
    @cadyisawkward1289 Před 5 lety +1906

    *when you literally have a facial paralysis that prevents half your face from moving at all and leaves your tear ducts paralyzed on that side and yet i’m crying from both eyes i think ben just cured me. literally*

    • @fu_raha
      @fu_raha Před 5 lety +18

      😯😯😯!!!!

    • @CupcakeCloud
      @CupcakeCloud Před 5 lety +56

      do you really? I had that ten years ago for a few months I couldn't move the left side of my face. Are you better now? do you know how it happened? I don't know the cause of mine

    • @lastand09
      @lastand09 Před 5 lety +7

      @@CupcakeCloud Sounds like you had Bell's Palsy.

    • @blebssocks
      @blebssocks Před 5 lety +3

      :0 Oh my God! You good now?

    • @cadyisawkward1289
      @cadyisawkward1289 Před 5 lety +18

      Cupcake Cloud it’s bell’s palsy, i’ve had it twice before turning 16 (i am now) but it left some left over side effects

  • @raemakenzie
    @raemakenzie Před 5 lety +3135

    Fans **watching DEH**: could be gayer
    Ben: hold my beer
    Fans: HOLY SHIT--

  • @Lauren-pl8no
    @Lauren-pl8no Před 4 lety +1554

    when they showed Ben's relationship with that guy I started bawling my eyes out
    it means so much to me that Ben shows that it's ok and it's possible to be successful as a gay man.
    as a gay teen I still struggle with denial and hatred, and it helps me so much to have people in the world who are proud to be the way they are.
    Ben platt is honestly my biggest inspiration,, in musical theatre, and now in regular life ❤️
    ironic that my name is Ben too lmao

    • @dolceapril
      @dolceapril Před 4 lety +35

      joojsko I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling with some denial & hatred... sending you a virtual hug ❤️

    • @davv6628
      @davv6628 Před 4 lety +34

      If you like this guy and want to see another like him there's a guy called Thomas Sanders. He's more Goofy and not for everyone but if you fall in love with his work then your gonna find yourself in a loving community. It's just so wholesome. But honestly, I feel like a preacher/salesmen. Sorry. I just really want more people to feel validity and loved.

    • @regine587
      @regine587 Před 4 lety +22

      Kyran AFK yes yes yes yes listen to this reply. Thomas sanders is the best when it comes to knowing yourself and how to deal with things like this. Thomas is one of the best watch when you feel a certain way no matter who you are.

    • @unnaturaldisaster9093
      @unnaturaldisaster9093 Před 4 lety +6

      joojsko wait.... Are you good at riffs. Cause you're in musical theatre and your name is Ben. We all know Ben Platt is amazing. And our other God Ben Fankhauser with "the poor GUYS head is spinning." soooooo

    • @ttade8077
      @ttade8077 Před 4 lety +9

      Coming to terms with who you are is one of the hardest part of growing into the person you're meant to be. You are loved, and never forget you aren't alone.

  • @asdfjkldn
    @asdfjkldn Před 5 lety +415

    MY SON. PRIDE IS NOT THE WORD I'M LOOKING FOR-
    Okay but for real, I got chills. This is beautiful in every way. It feels so real and relatable and I'm awestruck

  • @shayla1179
    @shayla1179 Před 5 lety +1378

    Oh wow I didn’t know Ben platt was gay. Fantastic song and music video. I’m glad he’s not pretending he’s in a relationship with a girl. Some of the best artist show every part of themselves and that makes the song all the more meaningful. Great song I hope you keep writing!
    Edit: This hit over 1k likes thanks for all the likes

    • @coyfish4610
      @coyfish4610 Před 5 lety +27

      I mean, who didn't know? He even talked about a boyfriend in 2016 on that video interview.

    • @shayla1179
      @shayla1179 Před 5 lety +110

      Ive been living under a rock

    • @lestella693
      @lestella693 Před 5 lety +18

      @@coyfish4610 oh I didn't see that. People are saying he talked about a wife, too and I was just like ???

    • @coyfish4610
      @coyfish4610 Před 5 lety +15

      @@lestella693 Here he talks about his first break up with his first boyfriend. :)
      czcams.com/video/xDaKEymggXs/video.html&t=156

    • @teaganl4610
      @teaganl4610 Před 5 lety +10

      I thought he was with zoey deutch for the longest time

  • @faeezramli1227
    @faeezramli1227 Před 4 lety +769

    [Lyric]
    Most days I wake up with a pit in my chest
    There are thoughts that I can't put to rest
    There's a worry that I can't place
    Most nights, I am restless and quiet won't come
    So I lay there and wait for the sun
    There's a trouble that won't show its face
    You came out of nowhere and you cut through all the noise
    I make sense to the madness when I listen to your voice
    Darling, only you can ease my mind
    Help me leave these lonely thoughts behind
    When they pull me under, and I can feel my sanity start to unwind
    Darling, only you can ease my mind
    I'll admit, for a moment I felt so afraid
    Just to show you the mess that I made
    There are pieces I usually hide
    But when you collect me with your steady hand
    With a language that I understand
    I feel put back together inside
    You came out of nowhere and you cut through all the noise
    I make sense of the madness when I listen to your voice
    Oh Darling, only you can ease my mind
    Oh help me leave these lonely thoughts behind
    When they pull me under, and I can feel my sanity start to unwind
    Darling, only you can ease my mind
    Darling, only you can ease my mind
    Help me leave these lonely thoughts behind
    When they pull me under, and I can feel my sanity start to unwind
    Darling, only you can ease my mind

  • @marelywilson8590
    @marelywilson8590 Před 4 lety +723

    Now I am picturing this music video with River and Payton and my heart can’t take it 😭😭😭💔💔💔

    • @mollymsmith6
      @mollymsmith6 Před 4 lety +29

      Same. That show made me cry harder than I have in a while.

    • @Sarahr98998
      @Sarahr98998 Před 4 lety +6

      oh my god, me too

    • @jonadol
      @jonadol Před 4 lety +22

      can someone make a video of them with this as the background music AHH I want to cry

    • @Bloodymarryxxx1989
      @Bloodymarryxxx1989 Před 4 lety +7

      Well shi ima cry

    • @rielletambaoan_
      @rielletambaoan_ Před 4 lety +10

      WHO GAVE YOU THE RIGHT TO DO THAT IM CRYING ALREADY THE FUCK MAN

  • @mas.4347
    @mas.4347 Před 5 lety +887

    I’m so happy to see Ben going from broadway to being his own artist making his own songs❤️❤️✨

    • @PixieLowe1
      @PixieLowe1 Před 5 lety +32

      Word but I still hope he returns to Broadway at some point in the future. I know there are talks that he will be in the DEH movie. :))

    • @sharonaschnall4674
      @sharonaschnall4674 Před 5 lety

      @@PixieLowe1 really?? :D

    • @PixieLowe1
      @PixieLowe1 Před 5 lety +5

      Yes really, lol but if it happens or not I dunno.. The article about who would play Evan was posted ages ago. Have a great day, I need to get some zzzz in!! :))

    • @shaunireland5501
      @shaunireland5501 Před 5 lety

      That is good to know

    • @sharonaschnall4674
      @sharonaschnall4674 Před 5 lety +1

      @@PixieLowe1 get some rest and I hope it happens and if not someone else great!

  • @chrissiek8706
    @chrissiek8706 Před 5 lety +471

    Ok, anyone else feels like intruding in some very private moments, and blessed to be allowed to see them at the same time?

    • @yuii.6633
      @yuii.6633 Před 5 lety +31

      I agree. It’s feels so personal and I think that it was a huge decision for Ben Platt to be so candid in these videos, but I’m glad he did it. They just fill me with so much fuzzy feelings and I think that both songs (both the music and the videos) are simply beautiful. I can’t wait to see more!!!

    • @mollyfsm
      @mollyfsm Před 5 lety +2

      Chrissie K YE

    • @bartonted
      @bartonted Před 3 měsíci

      Enjoy there intimacy, 2024 and my partner still won't hold my hand in public.

  • @zidan9255
    @zidan9255 Před 4 lety +1868

    historians: and they were roommates

  • @teddyghowe2616
    @teddyghowe2616 Před 5 lety +2513

    "no not because we're gay"
    ben: HA u thought

  • @x-evan-hansen-x9722
    @x-evan-hansen-x9722 Před 5 lety +543

    underrated opinion: i love ben's expressions when he sings. they add a lot more to the performance.
    (sorry for my grammar, I was crying when I wrote this)

    • @sejcai
      @sejcai Před 5 lety +13

      wait- an opinion can be underrated??

    • @joeybaldini5202
      @joeybaldini5202 Před 5 lety +11

      Yeah like how he moves his mouth when when he goes "woOoOoOaHo" idk if that makes sense for example 2:50

    • @RandysaurusRex
      @RandysaurusRex Před 5 lety +16

      You can tell he's an actor; he knows how to sell emotion through his facial expressions.

    • @x-evan-hansen-x9722
      @x-evan-hansen-x9722 Před 5 lety +2

      @@sejcai yes it can. why? because im an idiot and i say so.

  • @beckwells25
    @beckwells25 Před 5 lety +725

    This isn't representation, this is real, authentic life and that's something not even the best TV shows can replicate and honestly this is just the most amazing thing ever. I'm a melted ball of cheese. Love you Ben!!!!

    • @AngelusHale
      @AngelusHale Před 5 lety +2

      Are Charlie and Ben actually together? If so, there must be a God :)

    • @maramorales5322
      @maramorales5322 Před 5 lety +13

      I agree. This video isn’t representation. It’s showing that a man and a man can love each other exactly like a man and a woman can. They don’t have to be obsessed with Broadway or do each other’s makeup. There’s just love. No matter your gender.

  • @nickram5061
    @nickram5061 Před rokem +13

    2:08 That fast vibrato is insane. Ben is definitely the King of Vibrato.

  • @juliam2726
    @juliam2726 Před 5 lety +887

    Damn, for a 25 y/o this boy got soul.

    • @paytongluza4159
      @paytongluza4159 Před 5 lety +42

      julia m - this 25 yo boy is Ben freaking Platt google it

    • @mahzabinrahman2648
      @mahzabinrahman2648 Před 5 lety +10

      HE A FETUS AND IM 13

    • @keishamarseille6332
      @keishamarseille6332 Před 5 lety +8

      Ah we’re the same age! So happy I discovered him ❤️

    • @sophiewong9588
      @sophiewong9588 Před 4 lety +17

      julia m this kind of statement always confusing me, the younger you are I feel you’ve got more soul, as you grow you become more jaded... not always true but why is youth with soul always surprising to people

    • @caitm8209
      @caitm8209 Před 4 lety

      @@sophiewong9588 false 😉

  • @nyahhx
    @nyahhx Před 5 lety +5071

    Ben is the gay icon we all deserve

    • @hallepupo4340
      @hallepupo4340 Před 5 lety +311

      Do we REALLY deserve him? I think not. So children, every night, thank god for Ben Platt

    • @mariskakok7397
      @mariskakok7397 Před 5 lety +138

      He is the gay unicorn we all don't deserve. God bless Ben Platt

    • @Sun_Dreamer
      @Sun_Dreamer Před 5 lety +109

      Hollie Don’t forget George Salazar. 😩👏🏻

    • @yamiletteflores3043
      @yamiletteflores3043 Před 5 lety +72

      @@Sun_Dreamer We can never forget George Salazar ❤️

    • @binkbonl
      @binkbonl Před 5 lety +23

      Isn't he bisexual...

  • @Domisdrawings
    @Domisdrawings Před 5 lety +406

    Honestly, this is the most beautiful way to come out. Also, the music is just perfect, and it's so wonderful with the clip.. I'm proud of him.

    • @SakuroAlex
      @SakuroAlex Před 5 lety +34

      He's been out for a while.

    • @andrewkukawski5477
      @andrewkukawski5477 Před 5 lety +35

      A.J Johnson Not very publicly. This album is him announcing it to the world

    • @theinsanelycooljaredkleinm6077
      @theinsanelycooljaredkleinm6077 Před 5 lety +14

      He's been out to everyone since he was twelve

    • @andrewkukawski5477
      @andrewkukawski5477 Před 5 lety +29

      The insanely cool Jared Kleinman
      Once again, the majority of people didn’t know. That is why so many people think he’s coming out. In a way, he is.

    • @andrewkukawski5477
      @andrewkukawski5477 Před 5 lety +13

      The insanely cool Jared Kleinman
      “Out to everyone” like we all know him personally smdh

  • @shevaschwartz
    @shevaschwartz Před 5 lety +433

    okay so the tears started pouring right about 2:19. that’s exactly how my panic attacks look (minus the person beside me).
    i’m so grateful i found out about ben platt.

    • @blackarosskir
      @blackarosskir Před 4 lety +18

      yeah, I got teary eyes when I recognised the restless shaky movements, cuz I also have panic attacks, but a bit worse that this...not often, just like 2times a year, but they usually happen when I'm overwhelmed by something and I tend to hide or lock myself somewhere (usually a bathroom) cuz I just break down, I'm a complete all-over-the-place mess and I want nobody to see me like this...but it'll be nice to have somebody to help me calm down :T

    • @emmab5424
      @emmab5424 Před 4 lety +5

      Dude I WISH my panic attacks looked like that... Usually there's more screaming and throwing things

    • @ugh7781
      @ugh7781 Před 4 lety +5

      My panic attacks are more like I start breathing strange, then I start crying ‘till I have a headache as bad as hell and then I get sleepy

    • @kimvictoria5822
      @kimvictoria5822 Před 4 lety

      Okay I have similiar thing but before crying I also throwing things and screaming... I thought it was more like meltdown tho...
      (Also sorry for poor language and punctuation, I'm not native speaker)

    • @sarahmacke9366
      @sarahmacke9366 Před 3 lety +1

      yea that part hurt a little bit, purely bc of the “minus the person beside me”

  • @elizabethi.839
    @elizabethi.839 Před 4 lety +295

    This is one of the purest, most genuine and heartwarming music videos about true love I have ever seen. It touched me so deeply, specially when he had anxiety and started to cry and his partner helped him 'ease his mind'. I wish all of us could experience love like this. If you're reading this, *you deserve it too!*

  • @julialarder
    @julialarder Před 5 lety +498

    OH MY GOD I'M GONNA CRY WHY IS HE SO TALENTED ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💗🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

    • @res3334
      @res3334 Před 5 lety +2

      Julia Larder wait is Ben platt gay or is this a story me confused

    • @res3334
      @res3334 Před 5 lety

      elder poptart thanks I was getting confused for like a long time

  • @muhamadrezeky380
    @muhamadrezeky380 Před 5 lety +526

    Most days I wake up with a pain in my chest
    There are thoughts that I can't put to rest
    There's a worry that I can't place
    Most nights I am restless and quiet, won't come
    So I lay there and wait for the sun
    There's a trouble that won't show its face
    You came out of nowhere
    And you cut through all the noise
    I make sense of the madness
    When I listen to your voice
    Darlin', only you can ease my mind
    Help me leave these lonely thoughts behind
    When they pull me under
    And I can feel my sanity start to unwind
    Darlin' only you can ease my mind
    I'll admit, for a moment I felt so afraid
    Just to show you the mess that I made
    There are pieces I usually hide
    But when you collect me with your steady hand
    With a language that I understand
    I feel that we're back together inside
    You came out of nowhere
    And you cut through all the noise
    I make sense of the madness
    When I listen to your voice
    Oh darlin', only you can ease my mind
    Oh help me leave these lonely thoughts behind
    When they pull me under
    And I can feel my sanity start to unwind
    Darlin' only you can ease my mind
    Darlin', only you can ease my mind
    Help me leave these lonely thoughts behind
    When they pull me under
    And I can feel my sanity start to unwind
    Darlin' only you can ease my mind

    • @krisinallcaps
      @krisinallcaps Před 5 lety

      no hate but uh
      you just copied and pasted that off google m8

    • @donnafigures1784
      @donnafigures1784 Před 5 lety +2

      Dont hate cause they thought of it first.

    • @al0kvs768
      @al0kvs768 Před 5 lety +8

      @@krisinallcaps I don't want to open Google and not being able to listen and read at the same time so I'm happy someone did

    • @krisinallcaps
      @krisinallcaps Před 5 lety

      @@al0kvs768 sorry this may come of as rude but
      if you're too lazy to fucking open google then you got some issues you need to deal with

    • @wickyhendy74
      @wickyhendy74 Před 5 lety +4

      thank you for posting these lyrics... I wonder what it takes to pen such a song's lyrics.. He is truly gifted..

  • @sclark29
    @sclark29 Před 4 lety +23

    Everyone is ignoring the best part of this video, which is the panic attack at 2:16. Coming from a person who has had many panic attacks beginning at a very young age, this is EXACTLY what it looks and feels like. The shortness of breath, the pacing around the bedroom, the struggling, the holding the hands over the head, just desperately trying to get air into the lungs. Ben Platt does it all to a tee. It is easily the best, the only truly accurate portrayal of a panic attack I have ever seen. 100% accurate. It makes me cry every time I watch it. I fell in love with the lyrics of this song because of their true, honest depiction of mental health struggles before I ever watched the video, but the video made me fall even more in love with Ben Platt because of that one simple moment. It could not be executed more excellently.

    • @amyc9917
      @amyc9917 Před 2 lety +1

      The whole video is a piece of art but 2:16 is the most accurate representation of what’s it’s like to have panic attacks. I’m also a sufferer of anxiety, panic attacks and have been since I was 15 I’m now 22. I pace, my chest is tight, I fidget, lay on the floor with my arms above my head or stand up with them above me. This has only made me fall more in love with Ben and his music. The lyrics are simply stunning, so honest and true of someone who has mental health struggle. I completely agree he execute it amazingly

  • @averymartin321
    @averymartin321 Před rokem +4

    What I wouldn't give for a guy like this. I'm highly functioning autistic and I have BP2 and BPD. It would so nice to have someone like this

    • @morgan_c
      @morgan_c Před rokem +1

      I’m autistic as well and I wish for my dream person. I’m sure that you’ll find your person who loves you like this.

    • @SamanthaGibbs-kk4wm
      @SamanthaGibbs-kk4wm Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@morgan_cit's morgan again

  • @0-wahaj-013
    @0-wahaj-013 Před 5 lety +670

    Gay + Sad + Amazing + Super Talented = Ben Platt
    Edit1: omg thank for 490 likes-
    Edit2: holy crap 600 likes guys whats wrong with y'all?
    Edit3: this is the last edit ill do but woah 709 likes holy f-

  • @alanaweirbach7695
    @alanaweirbach7695 Před 5 lety +321

    I don’t think you realize how inspiring you are to me (and a lot of others.) Please, keep singing. Keep inspiring. Keep being that Ben Platt I know. We love you. ~Alana

  • @daniellankford5898
    @daniellankford5898 Před 4 lety +79

    That vibrato in his voice that makes him sound like he's crying, gets me vehklempt Everytime! I love you Ben

    • @deepmind5318
      @deepmind5318 Před 4 lety +3

      He sings like he's so emotional, his voice is unique. What a gorgeous man Ben Platt is.

  • @priscillenavas6556
    @priscillenavas6556 Před 5 lety +3

    His voice is just like BUTTER!! the talent this man has is just outrageously unfair.

  • @christienauheimer
    @christienauheimer Před 5 lety +346

    ok i’m loving the black and white it’s just so...beautiful and somehow more genuine than color would be

  • @cscheil2014
    @cscheil2014 Před 5 lety +129

    you don’t understand how many times a day I tell my friends how talented Ben is

    • @rhea_khurana
      @rhea_khurana Před 5 lety +1

      GOD SAME

    • @sexy_socks
      @sexy_socks Před 5 lety +1

      I do the same to my mom XD I’ll be sitting in the front and blasting Ben platt and my mom’s like “This guy again!?”

  • @psychoillogical4368
    @psychoillogical4368 Před 5 lety +225

    I'm crying so hard rn,,, not because i miss having a love like this. But because I don't think I'll ever experience a love like this (edit: it's been 11mths and I'm currently in a relationship that's helped me feel understood and loved and i thank him so much for saving me when i didn't think i needed saving. Looking back, it's hard to believe that I'm here as i am now so don't lise heart !!! For as much as you don't feel love for yourself, there's someone out there who will love you twice as much. I hope yall find the love you deserve even if you don't see it at first !!)

    • @esmeralda9712
      @esmeralda9712 Před 4 lety +6

      psycho illogical oh my gosh I wasn’t even crying until I read this comment cuz it’s so true.

  • @billyjoel5316
    @billyjoel5316 Před 4 lety +48

    Y'all the outfit he changes into at the end - goes directly into the "Grow As We Go" Music video. I'm not okay.

  • @jaydamorgan8824
    @jaydamorgan8824 Před 5 lety +211

    Ben Platt has gone and destroyed our emotions with yet another beautiful song and video🥰💕🎉

  • @wowieitssam9457
    @wowieitssam9457 Před 5 lety +261

    *you’ve outdone yourself and you’ve literally only released two songs*
    *not prepared for the whole album, but I excitedly await it*

  • @fenixstone4168
    @fenixstone4168 Před 4 lety +63

    Platt, I understand you're probably not gonna see this, but I just want to thank you for being an amazing icon of mine, a great musician, and a wonderful person all together. Your music is on a constant playlist of mine, and it gets me through my day-to-day life. Thank you for everything you do. Thank you, Evan Hansen. Thank you, Payton Hobart. Thank you, Ben Platt. For everything.

  • @dogsdontsweat
    @dogsdontsweat Před 5 lety +54

    mental health in relationships is such a sensitive topic but that being said, it’s an important one too.
    ben and the team did a truly wonderful job at capturing anxiety in a relationship and how it can effect it drastically.
    we’re so proud of you, ben

  • @kenshults1889
    @kenshults1889 Před 5 lety +470

    Representation matters so much. So many LGBTQ artists now making songs and videos with LGBTQ representation and same sex pronouns - Ben, Troye, Greyson - just to name a few. It's beautiful. If only this would have been around when I was struggling in my teens and early 20s...

    • @NynyDaravy
      @NynyDaravy Před 5 lety +9

      Ken Shults maybe that’s why I’m single.... I have crushes on gay people lol

    • @lennyd5854
      @lennyd5854 Před 5 lety +7

      This is not about LGBTQ... It's about love.

    • @kingpinning_
      @kingpinning_ Před 5 lety +10

      @@lennyd5854 yeah, but it's rep for LGBTQ love, which they never got to experience when they were younger. So this is important

    • @KaijaSchmauss
      @KaijaSchmauss Před 5 lety +2

      @@lennyd5854 Yeah, but the video for this song is explicitly gay.

    • @supermojo9672
      @supermojo9672 Před 5 lety +1

      Amen

  • @annalovesart284
    @annalovesart284 Před 5 lety +194

    Did I ask you to make me cry?!?!?! I'm like actually sobbing

  • @shazzeah
    @shazzeah Před 3 lety +11

    WHY IS BEN SO UNDERRATED OML

  • @emilianuotio6603
    @emilianuotio6603 Před 5 lety +31

    I agree that Ben is truly A Gay Icon, and that this music video is an AMAZING representation of anxiety disorders in relationships BUT ALSO! HAVE YOU SEEN HOW BEAUTIFUL IT IS?? It's easily one of the most gorgeous music videos I've seen in a while - so simple yet so breathtaking.

  • @anix2677
    @anix2677 Před 5 lety +1649

    LOOK AT MY SON! PRIDE IS NOT THE WORD IM LOOKING FOR!-

  • @SammieL80
    @SammieL80 Před 5 lety +401

    Wow Ben this was such a dope video to watch. Love Charle. Y'all did amazing. Can't wait to watch the next part of your story.

  • @robear54
    @robear54 Před 5 lety +18

    This song sows how universal love is. Very moving...

  • @berlheyrosa
    @berlheyrosa Před 5 měsíci +2

    Used to think of my boyfriend when I listen to this song. After six years, we’ve finally called our relationship quits. As much as it pains me to hear this song, it’s now a song I dedicate to myself. All along it’s been ME who’s been with me. I’m the one who can help me ease my mind. ❤️

  • @jessidavis3306
    @jessidavis3306 Před 5 lety +562

    I think that its so beautiful that this is his "coming out" story in a beautiful piece of work that doesnt feel like it's centered around his coming out at all. It feels like its centered around love. And that is a beautiful, wonderful, and organic thing he made. Thank you for your art

    • @emmab5424
      @emmab5424 Před 4 lety +13

      It's not. He literally came out like three years ago in an interview when asked to describe his first breakup

    • @christinamarina6008
      @christinamarina6008 Před 4 lety +15

      He came out to his family & friends when he was 12, before becoming a celebrity. So as far as Hollywood, he was never really in the closet.

    • @ev8038
      @ev8038 Před 4 lety +16

      In an article he said specifically that this wasn't a 'coming-out' album, but it is amazing and beautiful

  • @musicismydrug58
    @musicismydrug58 Před 5 lety +264

    Wow. Up until 5 minutes ago I had NO idea who this man was, and now I know he'll be one of the most played musicians on my playlist. Can't wait for his debut album to come out, will be definitely purchasing it. I love the tone of his voice, the cracks, the imperfections. Spot on. SO glad I "stumbled" across this music today. :)

    • @samanthamasannat142
      @samanthamasannat142 Před 5 lety +7

      @Lisa C. He going on tour in May! You should see if he playing in your city. General ticket is being released on Feb 22!

    • @underscoredee
      @underscoredee Před 5 lety +9

      You should listen to dear Evan Hansen the original cast he played the lead character. The emotion in the song anf the way he songs it is amazing.

    • @siobhanlyons1907
      @siobhanlyons1907 Před 5 lety +7

      I envy you! You have Dear Evan Hanson ahead of you, not to mention everything Ben Platt has ever done. He's astonishing. Enjoy.

    • @brookelynj5766
      @brookelynj5766 Před 5 lety +2

      Lisa C. me right now

  • @Emily-ei9gx
    @Emily-ei9gx Před 5 lety +92

    I knew no straight man could sing with such emotion and talent and literally make me breathless
    I am so so so glad there is more representation in our community and I mean there's the fact that....MY FAVORITE ACTOR/SINGER IS LGBT LIKE ME
    im crying, this is the best day ever
    god he's so beautiful

    • @bck2bck-750
      @bck2bck-750 Před 4 lety

      Ever heard of tom odell?

    • @TigerPrawn_
      @TigerPrawn_ Před 3 lety

      @@bck2bck-750 Yeah, but nah :D

    • @ayushikaushik2287
      @ayushikaushik2287 Před 3 lety +1

      Or heard of Hozier? Maybe?

    • @jesus_says_chill8688
      @jesus_says_chill8688 Před 3 lety +1

      @@ayushikaushik2287 I think Hozier is the one outlier, mainly because he’s such a huge ally of the community lol

  • @berlheyrosa
    @berlheyrosa Před rokem +2

    I just cry everytime I watch this

  • @Esmeralda-fo1dk
    @Esmeralda-fo1dk Před 5 lety +52

    4:03 I don’t know if this was intentional but I love that the picture of Ben’s parents appears in the background while he holds up the photo. I know Ben admires the resilience of his parents’ relationship so I think it was put there as a reminder of how he wants his relationship to be- strong and full of love.

    • @mollyfsm
      @mollyfsm Před 5 lety +3

      Esmeralda Pineda woah some great observational skills there my dude

  • @Lamontjunior
    @Lamontjunior Před 5 lety +54

    Only my fave male voice in the world. Get Ben a Grammy asaps. 🥰

    • @theinsanelycooljaredkleinm6077
      @theinsanelycooljaredkleinm6077 Před 5 lety +6

      He already has one! But honestly he deserves every award ever

    • @Lamontjunior
      @Lamontjunior Před 5 lety +5

      The insanely cool Jared Kleinman I know this, ofcourse. 😂 But a few for this coming album wouldn’t hurt. 💁🏻‍♂️

  • @skipwinston6910
    @skipwinston6910 Před 3 lety +12

    I like the scene where Ben’s boyfriend brought dinner to him. As if to say “if this is where you are emotionally and physically, that is where i want to be.” My husband did this recently. after 10 years together. I almost started to cry. He asked why I was sad and I couldn’t answer for a few moments.

  • @kelynnrose4653
    @kelynnrose4653 Před 5 lety +7

    My wedding song

  • @amparobracho9255
    @amparobracho9255 Před 5 lety +441

    did anybody else notice this was like the first part of "Grow as we go"?

    • @charleyrose8724
      @charleyrose8724 Před 5 lety +27

      Amparo Bracho you mean bad habit where he goes to a gallery and the photos are on the wall?

    • @TokyoBlue587
      @TokyoBlue587 Před 5 lety +19

      And the prequel to Bad Habit

    • @RiriChanElric
      @RiriChanElric Před 5 lety +27

      I THOUGHT SO TOO!
      Like the jacket looks the exact same.
      And he has the same expression before "Grow as we go"
      Like, he feel so...sad and lost, and this is probably why

    • @emmymatt
      @emmymatt Před 5 lety +2

      Yaaa. Now I see.

    • @lilyadnydeleon5988
      @lilyadnydeleon5988 Před 4 lety +1

      I see it but it look more like bad habit

  • @josefbautista9350
    @josefbautista9350 Před 5 lety +66

    Wow i have never felt more single than ever. Haha

  • @PixelResolution
    @PixelResolution Před 5 lety +91

    Straight up didn't even know he was gay until I saw this, but I'm not too surprised. Love this dude and his music to death, and hope to see more songs like this! Love seeing gay culture normalized by icons like Ben, it's a great change of pace for the musical culture nowadays.
    Edit: Gay love, not gay culture I guess - Not sure which phrase fits better for this.

  • @caitlynmlodzik3164
    @caitlynmlodzik3164 Před 3 lety +5

    This is beautiful. This man should be a global icon, he is incredible.

  • @stinkyassclown4602
    @stinkyassclown4602 Před 5 lety +987

    This is so beautiful, I love that the videos are continuing a story❤️

    • @samanthavictoria3308
      @samanthavictoria3308 Před 5 lety +2

      Fellow panic! fan!!!

    • @cowboyhatcat
      @cowboyhatcat Před 5 lety +6

      PANIC! AT THE FANDOMS I FRICKING LOVE YPUR TASTE IN MUSIC! panic and ben geez😱😍😂😂

    • @michaelgoracoff92
      @michaelgoracoff92 Před 5 lety +2

      Ben you take me back to the first time I heard Josh Groban sing only Josh has never admitted he was gay if he is. Your voice makes my ears sing your words make my heart sing. If I were in New York I swear to God I would stalk you with love that is

    • @lamusiclover2264
      @lamusiclover2264 Před 5 lety

      @@michaelgoracoff92 Josh Groban husband married for a few years now to a woman

    • @mikeygilyard5508
      @mikeygilyard5508 Před 5 lety

      Love your account name!!

  • @andrianam.3276
    @andrianam.3276 Před 5 lety +114

    I cried when I first heard it
    I cried when I saw this after the 58385th time hearing the song anyway
    Thanks Ben, making me bawl since 2017 😭😭

  • @Rock_Lee_Simp
    @Rock_Lee_Simp Před 4 lety +10

    Can we talk about his acting skills? Damn, he's good.

    • @user-vm4jt2ue2w
      @user-vm4jt2ue2w Před 3 lety

      Okay yes! He had to film all of that 💕💕 so talented

  • @jeremyratliff5175
    @jeremyratliff5175 Před 5 lety +1

    It’s nice seeing music and theatre representing OUR truth. If only I had this in my realm when I was younger.

  • @darrylmorrison6127
    @darrylmorrison6127 Před 5 lety +165

    Ah, Ben. You're cornering the market on emotionally bruised, longing, ruminative songs that I can't stop listening to.

  • @CatchTheLoveBug
    @CatchTheLoveBug Před 5 lety +8

    2:16 I just can't handle these lyrics combined with what seems to be him panicking/having anxiety 😭🙏

  • @peterwillis5657
    @peterwillis5657 Před 5 lety +4

    All I do is cry......his music is so beautiful.

  • @danielboakye8425
    @danielboakye8425 Před 4 lety +13

    I'm a from country in West Africa where it's forbidden for two people the same gender to be this close. I grew up without parents. And family never showed deep love to me so I couldn't tell them my problems. I couldn't tell them when I'm hungry,needs some clothes or money . I get depressed sometimes, felt like I never existed. Praying I find a friend who will love me and help me ease my mind.

  • @ashylan
    @ashylan Před 5 lety +110

    Seeing music videos with a couple other than cisgender straight couples just warms my heart cause it means we are evolving in the right direction. I feel so proud right now. I'm gonna cry.

  • @rea_keebz
    @rea_keebz Před 5 lety +110

    it's fine it's not like i needed my heart anyway

  • @pedrroyuri
    @pedrroyuri Před 7 měsíci +2

    Ben, I'm Brazilian and I'm always very moved by your songs. I still don't have anyone who can calm my mind, but I hope one day I can, I'll come back here to tell you how it was. I love you. Write more about us on the next album, us gays need this.

  • @breen481
    @breen481 Před 5 lety +2

    beautiful- just- wow. absolutely beautiful

  • @maggiemarma477
    @maggiemarma477 Před 5 lety +45

    Ben really demonstrates what anxiety is like and I think that’s great representation for all of us. Thank you for doing what you’re doing :) we love you and we will never stop being inspired by you.

  • @mollymo1490
    @mollymo1490 Před 5 lety +217

    This is so beautiful, the lyrics and your voice, the cinematography and storyline of the video, just everything. Can't wait to see where you go

  • @aaliyahprz
    @aaliyahprz Před 4 lety +4

    The “darling only you can ease my mind” hits so different and it’s so beautifully done

  • @sibeliusan
    @sibeliusan Před 4 lety +10

    I'm not crying it's just lemonade in my eyes

  • @mandyblumenthal2209
    @mandyblumenthal2209 Před 5 lety +171

    Great. Ugly crying at work. 😭 😭 😭
    Just gorgeous. The song and the video.

    • @KenBernardez
      @KenBernardez Před 5 lety +1

      Last thing I know I'm eating lunch. Now, I'm crying endless! I want to hug my love right now. Damn it, Ben!

  • @tessav1287
    @tessav1287 Před 5 lety +33

    Do you know how hard it is to watch this at work and try to hold back the tears? Beautiful song, beautiful video, beautiful voice. The most angelic voice I’ve ever heard. Can’t wait to see him on tour.

  • @afforgoto
    @afforgoto Před 5 lety +14

    1:08 can we all just take a moment to admire how adorable this looks

    • @panchaliparbhoo3263
      @panchaliparbhoo3263 Před 5 lety +4

      I find it oddly calming too. Seeing him calm and at ease helps to calm me. It's kinda weird.

    • @billmarshall5040
      @billmarshall5040 Před 5 lety

      Agreed! It’s absolutely adorable! ❤️

    • @SuperMovieLvr933
      @SuperMovieLvr933 Před 4 lety

      Isn't this like a dream we all have? No?

    • @TigerPrawn_
      @TigerPrawn_ Před 3 lety

      And 0:54 It was like I could physically feel that ♥

  • @itsjaymeyeahh
    @itsjaymeyeahh Před 4 lety +6

    He's got the voice of an angel. This is so raw and real. Ben knows how to get me in my feelings!!!

  • @joylessjoyce3653
    @joylessjoyce3653 Před 5 lety +122

    [Verse 1]
    Most days I wake up with a pit in my chest
    There are thoughts that I can't put to rest
    There's a worry that I can't place
    Most nights, I am restless and quiet won't come
    So I lay there and wait for the sun
    There's a trouble that won't show its face
    [Pre-Chorus]
    You came out of nowhere and you cut through all the noise
    I make sense to the madness when I listen to your voice
    [Chorus]
    Darling, only you can ease my mind
    Help me leave these lonely thoughts behind
    When they pull me under, and I can feel my sanity start to unwind
    Darling, only you can ease my mind
    [Verse 2]
    I'll admit, for a moment I felt so afraid
    Just to show you the mess that I made
    There are pieces I usually hide
    But when you collect me with your steady hand
    With a language that I understand
    I feel put back together inside
    [Pre-Chorus]
    You came out of nowhere and you cut through all the noise
    I make sense of the madness when I listen to your voice
    [Chorus]
    Oh Darling, only you can ease my mind
    Oh help me leave these lonely thoughts behind
    When they pull me under, and I can feel my sanity start to unwind
    Darling, only you can ease my mind
    Darling, only you can ease my mind
    Help me leave these lonely thoughts behind
    When they pull me under, and I can feel my sanity start to unwind
    Darling, only you can ease my mind

  • @Ously6
    @Ously6 Před 5 lety +78

    The fact that this only has 400,000 views is a crime

    • @billmarshall5040
      @billmarshall5040 Před 5 lety +1

      Conscious_Whisper Heading to 2 million now. There should be more! Never thought I live to the day when there would a video like this. Pride is not a big enough word!

    • @angeltears8370
      @angeltears8370 Před 4 lety

      Conscious_Whisper No, it's not a crime. We're just very privileged & blessed to be here & be able to 'love' Ben.

  • @absinthe-crow
    @absinthe-crow Před 5 lety +4

    "When you collect me woth your steady hands" just warms my heart

  • @eddiemartulin3422
    @eddiemartulin3422 Před 3 lety +4

    Im still here, crying over this masterpiece for the nth time

  • @jazzy7319
    @jazzy7319 Před 5 lety +1227

    90% comments: gaygaygaygaybigaygaypangaygaypolygaygaygay
    5% I love how amazing and talented Ben is, I love this song so much
    5% Both (me)

    • @asherschmidt9820
      @asherschmidt9820 Před 5 lety +4

      Turtle bois all the way down

    • @nagito6315
      @nagito6315 Před 4 lety +6

      I s e e t h a t p o l y

    • @dakotabridges3213
      @dakotabridges3213 Před 4 lety +1

      Right, why do people need to center things around sexual orientation? Im heterosexual and still feel this strongly. It's all about soul

    • @Emma_Wrox
      @Emma_Wrox Před 4 lety

      Dakota Bridges I think a lot of comments are commenting about it since it isn’t as represented, but even then I don’t think they should be commenting about his sexuality that much, as it more often than not also puts you in a bad spotlight. Kind of like instead of being hated you’re loved for being a circus animal.

  • @bee-jb7rl
    @bee-jb7rl Před 5 lety +83

    great. another year of ben making me cry with his talent

  • @niachavis4507
    @niachavis4507 Před 5 lety +38

    this video>> BUT ARE WE NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT HOW THIS IS THE INTERN FROM THE OFFICE?

    • @KenyaJewelz
      @KenyaJewelz Před 4 lety +12

      BUT ARE WE NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT HOW THIS IS THE GAY WEREWOLF FROM TEEN WOLF

    • @snibbubzik3566
      @snibbubzik3566 Před 4 lety +5

      The intern from Office is actually Charlie Carver's twin brother, not him. I thought it was him too when I watched it!

    • @adav135
      @adav135 Před 3 lety +2

      ARE WE NOT GOING TO TALK ABOUT"The Boys In The Band"????

    • @cayl6007
      @cayl6007 Před 3 lety +1

      @@adav135 THANK YOU🙌💙

  • @Katastrophe2007
    @Katastrophe2007 Před 3 lety +6

    whether you're here from DEH, the Politician, or your Spotify recommended, you're here, and you're listening.
    and i think that's pretty cool :)

  • @sexy_socks
    @sexy_socks Před 5 lety +79

    Is it weird I relate to this on a STRONG UNWORLDLY emotion level?

  • @madisonsummerfield2610
    @madisonsummerfield2610 Před 5 lety +302

    Performing gives me such a rush

  • @eleonor2258
    @eleonor2258 Před 5 lety +6

    i dont understand how everyone is STILL sleeping on this incredible album

  • @realitin5752
    @realitin5752 Před 3 lety +1

    It's not so much about our looking to others to fix us; it's about our letting them create the best cushion they can. Because they love us.

  • @isaacthedrawer1457
    @isaacthedrawer1457 Před 5 lety +25

    i started bawling when hes having an anxiety attack and the guy started holding his hand, THIS IS EVERYTHING

  • @billyshakes1643
    @billyshakes1643 Před 5 lety +806

    When you realize this is both gay and about mental health. Ben and I are basically the same person!

  • @io3560
    @io3560 Před 4 lety +1

    I don't what it is about him but I started with his 'grow as we go' to 'older' and then this. And everything is on point. Like every song is for me and it's like telling me 'you're not alone fam'. making me cry a river here.

    • @PhoebePrimost
      @PhoebePrimost Před 4 lety +1

      ioucholi geek i can sort of relate but in a different way with the same songs you mentioned.

  • @anthonyfourie6905
    @anthonyfourie6905 Před 3 lety +2

    This is our best life to live, and you truly make me want to live my life truthfully and wholeheartedly!
    May your Blessings bring to many, the Blessings you have brought to my life!

    • @gemstonepoints
      @gemstonepoints Před 3 lety +1

      You deserve a lot of good things in life. You deserve whatever good thing you want, whenever you want, to change your life for the better.