Thov Koj Dua Ib Zaug Ntxiv. 9/4/22
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You are just a typical hmong man ... doing what hmong men do best. Great job ...
Your wife supported you and allowed you to do whatever you wished thru your marriage! She only spent her money for her two brothers’ wedding because she is their only hope! You are heartless, you cheat, and decided to take your money to play in another woman’s home. Also, you left your children to be fatherless! STOP the excuses and the guilt-trip on your ex-wife! PLEASE let your ex-wife have peace and independency! You can still love and be there for your kids when they need you!
He thinks he can use her sadness and weakness to take advantage of her, but those weakness and sadness are actually what made her strong. She is a good woman, being everything she never had.
To the wife and the two brothers. so proud of you all for stand by each other side.
To the husband, you deserve it. Move on
To the wife please don’t take your txiv dev back. Your kids will be fine since their big now so love yourself only. Don’t take back spit that’s on dog shit. He’s only begging now bc he have no where to go. It’s all lies don’t believe it!
I totally agree👍 this txiv dev no need to come back
Tuag2!!! You go to school for cheating only…..Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏👏👏👏
I am the oldest of all my siblings. I have always been their second mom.....I do everything for them even though my parents are still here and love & support all of us very much. If I was this niam tsev I would of done the same. It's sad that her husband did not have a big enough heart to help & support her and helping her brothers caused her marriage. I'm heart broken for her😭😭😭.
Thanks for sharing your story. However, You deserve every inch of pain you’re going thru right now. Hmong women have put up with hmong men far too long….the table is turning now. Nej Cov txiv tsev Tsis ua neeg zoo ces Yuav zoo li Tus txiv dev no nawb.
Amen...Hmong women they do need to wake up and wise up. Stop being groomed and accepting the Hmong cultural marriages bs. We live in the 21st century and in America. They need to understand that they can absolutely live without a man.
Sister, you did the right thing...I am glad that you are stand on your ground...
You don’t deserve a second chance. You’ve gone too far! She deserves someone who truly loves her.
cov mi txiv tsev hmoob mekas aw nej mus nyob teb chaws vam meej nej cov poj niam txawj ntse lawv ua tau yog kawg li os rsug peb siab tshaj li hmoob
Omg the audacity of this man. You knew her pains and struggles and choose to add to it. You don’t deserve her!
cov txiv neej no nej ua hluas zoo nej siab kawg tab sis yog poj niam tu siab txaus txaus poj niam mam txiav txim siab los pauv lub neej ces nej quaj tsis nrov li os thov los tsis rov lm
Her brothers should know by now that weddings are very expensive and they should have prepared themselves financially since they know what their family situation is like already. SMH
My thoughts exactly, the brothers should have at the very least come up with half of the cost. The wife should have not put her husband in the position of putting her siblings as priority. This was the cause of their separation. His support at the beginning went unnoticed/under appreciated
She can’t take the full responsibility for her two brothers she put her husband in the spot… sure the two brother / wife will not return her love like she does… she will regret if she loss her husband.
WOW.
after seeing your girlfriend go thru sooooooo much sadness in her life, you married her and can't be "siab loj" enough to love her and her siblings??? And then you cheated on her... and now you want her back??
Dear woman in this story, please don't ever go back to this small-hearted person.
@@souperlao3949 wow! Just because he’s a leader and sought by many women, she should calm him down after she made him angry? That’s what’s wrong here. Honest respectful men in leadership position should not use their position as excuse to cheat and disrespect their partners. They should lead by setting good example. I’m glad the wife finally put herself first and left. She didn’t need to put up with the emotional abuse
Koj yog ib tug neeg paj lhub me ,neeg siab me koj yuam kev ntau tshaj plaws vim koj tsis muaj lub siab lhub neeg.
Tu siab tshaj, uas yog niam txiv tuag g muaj ntxa!!
Lub neej zoo tsis yuav, xav tau lub neej ua txiv dev xwb ces pab tsis tau Thaum poj niam tu siab lawm mas nyuaj nawb
Mens don’t understand … if your wife has a big heart towards ur family than u need too do so too hers too. Marriage is not a one way street. I am glad you are sharing this story as it may open eyes to many other mens and other couples. This goes both ways!!!
Txaus tu siab tiag2 !!! Mloog npaum twg kua muag poob baum ntawd!!!!
Txoj kev tu siab ntawm koj cov me nyuam yog Tim koj tib leeg xwb ov
Koj tej lus ma yog kawg li os mog me nus aw
Zoo kawg li os.
Tus txiv tsev aw txhob tu siab kaj tsij txaus siab rau koj txoj me kev siab me lig lig rau koj lawm
Kuv lub neej ces zoo li no os lawv kuv tus txiv rau tus yawj thiab tej nkauj muag thiab nian pog thiab txiv yawg los tsi nyiam kuv ho txoj kev pab ntawm txij nkawm ces tsi txawv koj zaj neej neeg no kuv tus lub siab me koj hais no os me txiv tsev aw thaum tu siab lawm ces zoo li no os
Txob tu siab os vim nws yeej 1 txwm txom2 nyem cas ho tsis hlub2 nws paub tias koj yeej tsis yog 1 tug neeg siab zoo
Her brothers need to understand that they need need to help their self too. Work and save up for marriage. Not just rely on the sister. No money, not atleast half then don't get marry until save up atleast 5k.
Tej yam zoo li no yuav tau nyoo poj niam!!! Yog ua li koj hais txhob ua li koj ua!!!
Zoo siab tus ntxhais no kawm ntawv deb es rau siab rau nws lub neej vim nws raug kev txomnyem ntau heev nws thiaj ua tau ibsiab. Pojniam yog cov tau kev txomnyem txhua kis loj rau me hauv lub neej. Tabsi zoo tsis txaus rau tus txij nkawm ces leejtwg Los yuav ua ibsiab ib yam. Vim luag tsuas siv yus thaum xav siv xwb tsis yog tuaj nruabsiab hlub
When you marry someone, you don't just marry that person, you married into the whole family. You knew your wife' situation from the beginning. Why did you make her choose between you and her family? If you had tried harder, she could have come back to you. You passed the point of no return when you cheated on her. Everything is forgivable, but not marital affair, its the ultimately betrayal. Move on and learn from this lesson.
@@souperlao3949 I don't think understand his point or understand how to a good hmong man or house wife. Tus txiv hlub tus poj niamtsev neeg li nws tsev neeg hos tus poj niam hlub tus txiv tsev neeg li nws tsev thiaj li.
Marry the whole family 😂 naw your marry your spouse only lol
Pab koj tu siab lau
I bet if he was an orphan and has a younger brother that wants to get married, of course he and his wife will be responsible for the younger brother’s wedding..
Thom kom koj tus poj niam txhob los yuav koj lawm mog txiv neej siab phem li kom ces yeej tsis ntxhiv qhov twg ntxhim os li koj ces kawg mus nriav tus tshiab os nawb
Zoo heev thov sib pab nawj tij 🙋🙋🙋
Koj kuj yog ib tug txiv neej uas siab phem tsis txawj hlub neeg li
Zoo heev ua peb cov ntxhais niam no
paub hlub yus tus kheej thiab hlub yus tsev neeg li no
Tus txiv neej no yog ib tug neeg siab me hlub tsis tau neeg ces txhob tos lawm
It takes a big person to take on the responsibility your ex wife did. You're energy doesn't match to her, let her be. Your kids are in good hands with her
It’s not the wife’s or the husband’s responsibility to pay for their siblings wife…PERIOD!! If you are a man and want to marry a women, be a god damn man and come up with ur own money. Your mamma or daddy is not obligated to nor does your other siblings. If you can’t come up with the money to marry a women than you definitely ain’t ready to be married. Now saying that, if this man expect his wife to do everything and anything financially like paying for his siblings wedding as well than yes, he is wrong if he is mad if his wife wants to help her siblings. Marriage should go both way equally regardless of man or women.
Everyone is saying that he's little hearted but they can help do the wedding and give a 2k to help or just lend the money and then the brothers can pay them back down the track. He makes little money so of course he will be mad. Money is both theirs I wouldn't be happy too if my spouse gave away 10k too. You can't pick up 10k off the streets.
We forget that the wife suffered from not having any supports from any “parents” in her life, she didn’t want her brothers to suffer and be burdened with what she went through. She was like a mother to them and she’s all they got. There is nothing wrong with paying for your siblings’ wedding if you’re able (she had the money ). She even split their money so that she doesn’t have to use his share. He said himself that his wife has always been frugal with her money and I’m sure she planned ahead (which many ppl lack these days) and wanted to help the only families she got. It takes special people to do that. He said his wife did everything for his family so why couldn’t he reciprocate? Love is a two way street.
@@Shoua608 Agreed. I can always replace a husband but not my children and my siblings.
May's voice is a powerful and a leader voice. A voice that can make people listen. Still more to say but will leave to this for now.
Mloog tau los2 kua muag kawg li zaj no na phim2 yus kawg thiab
Nrog koj tus pojniam tus siab tshaj, kuv los yog ib tus ntxhais tsis muaj niam. Kuv yeej tsuas nyob uas neej nrog kuv cov menyuam lawv thiab xwb, tus siab txaus lawm txiv neej mas thiaj paub lim hiam tshaj plaws lis?
Nrog koj tu siab kawg tus niam tsev hauv lub neej nov vim xaiv tsis tau los ua neeg es txais tau daim ntawv nyuajsiab los ua neeg me vivncaus zoo li nej pab nus muag mas tseem2 yog yug los ua ntsuag ciaj os
Qub neeg ceg qub siab swb qhov koj poj niam ua no yeej yog lawm
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Thaum us tu siab lawm tsis muaj kev sib lhub lawm tsis xav pw ua ke lawm pw los tsis zoo dab tsi
Cia koj pojniam nws tu nwssiab, Koj yuav tau xavtias yog nws hlub koj tiag2 she won't do that to you. Koj twb ua yam zoo rau nws lubneej dhau Los lawm txhob feel regrets and keep your head up bro! Good luck
Wow. U became her stepdad. I was routing for u. Shame.
Hmong women put up with so much pain that no one would ever understand. She only wanted you to love her as much as she loved you. Hmong men are only ok when the time and money is spent on their side. You obviously don’t understand how important family is to her, you don’t deserve this good woman.
Totally agree!!
She’s being under and over. She is hard as rock, nothing can break her than what she has gone through. Hope she learned to forgive you.
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Tsam no koj mam xav tau ces lig lawm os.
Nrog koj tu siab vim koj xa tau yuav kev lawm os tu nu...
Ua cas zaj neej neeg no yuav mus raws nkaus yus lub neej ua luaj li os
Koj yog ib tug txiv neej coj lub siab ti zog lawm thiaj zoo li no mas kab tsij rov mus ua dev pliaj dev phlu zov saib nws puas rov los nrog koj nyob dua lawm mog
Tsim nyog koj cov nus yuav tsum mus work kom tau nyiaj tso mam li yuav nyab. Tsis tsim nuog koj tus txiv neb los tsa koj cov nus yim. Pab me ntsis mas tau yog yuav take care the whole wedding is a bit too much.
Yog kawg
Koj lub neej plam vim koj tus kheej xwb tsi tim poj niam nawb
Vim koj lub siab me ne
Thov tej niam tej txiv sib zam txim. Ua siab ncaj ncees. Txhob cia niam thiab txiv tuag g muaj ntxa.!!! Zaj no ua tau kua muag poob!!!!
Koj yog ib tug neeg siab me thiab tsis muaj kev hlub tsis tau taub koj tus poj niam koj T hiaj plan nws
Peb ua neeg nyb ce tib neej lub siab yeej pheem thb zoo si txuam peb daw ma
People make mistakes, forgive and repent.
Koj tu poj niam nws yeej ntse tshaj koj hos vim nws raug kev txom nyem txaus lawm ces thiaj ntse ntag
Koj zaj db neeg tu sipab heev li o😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Cheating is the ultimate betrayal. Please understand that!
“12 steps How to know you married a typical 1975 hmong men”
1. Expects you to do everything for him and his family no question ask, but will argue with you when it comes to your family especially when it deals with “your” own money.
2. They will go out all night and or go eveywhere without you.
3. Start judging you and the life they have with you.
4. They have “friends” that tells them to cheat
5. They go cheat with women who have small children(but they are neej siab me)
6. They cheat periodt!
7. They will take there half of yall money and leave to be with the other woman.
8. Tell you they found better and divorce you.
9. Find out they cant love other woman n her kids.
10. Begs your relative to tell u to take him back.
11. Tries to tell you to get back with him for both of yall kids.
12. Go on youtube May vang channel to tell wife “pls take me back understand me why i cheated”.
It's not just the 1975 Hmong men, all Hmong men's are the same way, those who have a graduate degree are not any better too
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@@leahvon5905 I have to disagree. Not all Hmong men are as you ladies have described above. I must just be one of the lucky gal who married a wonderful HMONG men. 🤷🏻♀️
@@leahvon5905 I have to disagree. Not all Hmong men are as you ladies have described above. I must just be one of the lucky gal who married a wonderful HMONG men. 🤷🏻♀️
@@leahvon5905 not all hmong mens. If you state all that mean all hmong women are the same too.
tus txiv tsev aw lig rau koj lawm lau
Koj siab me koj Yeej paub nws lub Neej zoo
Li cas koj yeem yuav nws ua cas koj siab ne ua luaj na.
Koj ces twb tss tau txaus koj txoj kev qia qub os mog tss tas yuav los thov kav tsij mus raws koj txoj hmoo koj ntsaw os mog
No No pab tsis tau koj lawm lau cov niag siab me me hlub tsis tau neej tsa li koj ces pab tsis tau
Siab me li koj ces koj poj niam thiaj tsis kam yuav koj lawm ntag
Ntawm kuv tus kheej yog koj tus poj niam: kuv hlub koj thiab koj tsev neeg tag kuv lub siab. Kuv muab lawv tso ua ntej tab sis thaum hais txog kuv tsev neeg koj cem kuv. Koj thuam kuv. Txog thaum koj tau kev tws koj mam xam muaj kuv ces lig dhau…pab tsis tau. Koj muab kuv siab ntsws hlawv kub nhyiag tag, kuv txais tos tsis tau koj rov qab lawm. Tus dej tsuas muaj ntws mus xwb, tsis muaj ntws rov.
Koj mas yog ib tug txiv neej siab me qia dub dhau leej twg thiaj xav rov qab los yuav koj ma.
I see you fought very hard in the beginning for such a worthy person and later on you fell short and tired to keep working for the best life. Thaum lub neej twb zoo2 lawm es yus tsis tuav khov kho os... Tam sim no pab tsis tau... nyob ntawm koj tus zoo niam tsev txiav txim lawm xwb os. You will have to work even harder to get her now... lesson learned.
Koj yog ib niag txiv neej siab nqaij heev li...tsis tsim nyog tau tus poj niam zoo..vim koj siab tsis loj ...hlub tsis taus koj tus poj niam ....koj tsuas hlub nws pob nyiaj xwb...koj tsis hlub nws tus kheej hlo li ...yog nrog koj ua neej ces lwj siab txog hnub tuag ...
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Yog kawg tu me txiv tsev aw
Tseem yog zoo li ko es nej cov niag txiv neej cem222 peb npaum li ca lo lam uv nyob uv nyob lo ma
Kv yeej g zam txim os yog zoo li kj thiab kv tus ces tuag fab lwm tias lawm xb
Muaj lis thiab yog yug tau es tsis kam tsa yim rau ces txhob yug xwb
I believe this is your testimony brother!
Txhua tus neeg yeej txawj yuam kev. Txoj kev sib hlub yuav tau kawm, Kawm ua lub siab loj ua lub siab zoo.
I believe you have learned and changed to be a better person.
Love is forgiveness, if you wife don’t forgive you then let her follow her own way of life, she need to learn too..one day she will understand you.
Just become someone good for yourself brother.
thov kom koj tus poj niam tsis txhob txais koj mus ntxiv lawm nws ua tau zoo lawm kav tsij nyob koj txoj niag kev qia dub thiab cuaj khaum es puag koj li nyiaj pw nyob nrog koj li nyiaj xwb os
Me nus aw tu222222 siab heev lawm nw tsi los lawm mog koj ua ib siab os mog
Yog kuv lo shev tsi lo lawm os vim tu222 siab txau lawm os .
Txhob raug lwm tus haub ntxias yus mus yuam kev li zaj no.
Cas tus neej hmoob no yuav siab me2 ua luaj koj poj niam muaj kev zoo ua luaj muaj kev txawj ntse khwv nyiaj pab tus txiv zoo npaum no ces tus txiv neej hmoob no yuav siab me2 ua luaj li koj tus poj niam no ntse dua koj lawm koj yuav tau yoog nws nws thiaj pab tau koj.
Tsi ntev ces koj poj niam muaj hluas nraug ces koj tag vim txoj kev lim hiam ces pab tsis tau lau
Peb cov txiv neej txoj kev khav theeb ces thaum kawg yeej xaus li no yog feem ntau. Tus me muam, koj txoj kev xav yeej yog 💯 lawm. Tab sis kuv hais rau koj tias yog koj tus txiv willing to change lawm tiag no muab 2nd chance rau nws hloov os mog. Vim li cas kuv hais li ntawd? Base raws cov nws hais no nws yeej paub nws txoj kev txhaum lawm tej nws yuav hloov los ua ib tug zoo txiv los kuj tsis paub. 2. Neb pab me nyuam yog 2 leeg li 2 leeg thiaj hlub. Yog thaum kawg nws tsis ua li nws hais, koj mam muab ncaws tawm los yeej tsis lig os mog.
nyuam qhuav zoo swb txiv neej hmoob ma nw xav tias nw yog tu zoo tu thwj xwb cis cawj xav thiab siab me me kawg
Tus txiv Neej no, nyuam qhuav Ntxim xwb! Txhob tos lawm mog! I am so proud of this lady! Keep it up lady, don’t give in!
To the sister in this story, stand your ground and don't take your cheating ex husband back. You deserve more, love yourself and your children. You don't need a man to complete your life. Best wishes to you.
I never understand why hmg men/boys are always wait for someone to pay for their bride...
If you love her you’ve got to be there for her, stand by her and make her happy just like how you would want her love.
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cov txiv neej uas twb ua tas mam xav tau thiab tseem cav yuav los qhuab ntuas neeg zoo li koj nav kuv tsis paub hais tias xyov koj hov tau ua tus coj hauv nej cov kwv tij tau li cas no xwb os
I think it's too late for you to get her back. She's been through enough and all those pain has made her strong and independent. Move on. You did this to yourself.
I feel so sad for this uncle ex-wife, she went thru so many hardship and became a very strong women at the end. Do your thang girl you’re on the right path.
Kuv yog koj poj niam ces kuv yeej tsi yuav koj lawm niag neeg phem li koj ces cia kom nyob qab choj Txawm zam txim rau los niag neeg phem ces li cas los yeej phem cua kom txom nyem thiaj li paub kom cia quaj quaj txog hnub tuag es tsi muaj lub chaw tuag koj thisj paub os cov txiv neej ua tsi muaj lub chaw tuag coob coob vim yog coj zoo li koj ntag
Siab me ua luaj yog ib tug txiv neej coj li no g yv lo tau lawm o
Brother telling the story, you need to keep moving forward and let the ex-wife find someone who truly loves her since you couldn't!!!
2 late Mr. Leave her alone she needs peace in her life. How dare of you. She's an independent woman she'll survive and stand tall.
Tsis zoo dab tsi lawm os rov los los lub siab tawv2 yus nrog nws pw nws tsis muaj siab nrog koj phov ciaj phov tuag li qub lawm puas uv tau lawm os
Once he cheat, he will always cheat. He only want her back because he need a place to stay. I hope she does not take him back.
Thov kom nwg ua sab tawv txhob rov lug lawm. Zoo sab ib tug nug tsis yuam nwg rov qaab vim Yog le ob tug has. Koj rov qaab lug thov vim koj kev twg koj yeej tsis hlub nwg tag. Thaum ua tshoob koj twb muab nyaj faib nwg xum yoo mov es ob tug nug muaj neej. Cov miv nyuas yuav tsis txom nyem le puab cov nug muag lawm vim twb muaj nwg Nyob tsuaj ntseeg khov Kho nrug ob tug nug lug tsaa yim. Tej zag koj Yog tug tsis muaj chaw Nyob es txha rov qaab thov. Moog le koj ntshaw mog.
Pab tsis tau… pab tsis tau…
Some people think it’s so easy! Just because you have a good spouse doesn’t mean all spouse are like yours! Remember not everyone think like you! Not everyone is nice and kind like you and not everyone will love you back! Even if you marry a black, white, brown, or Asian spouse, not everyone is nice and kind!