@@wrestlingjudoms1302 2:14:53 😂 "But Mashallah, 6 foot 6, handsome, good looking, charismatic, strong way of speaking..." **snaps fingers** _"honey to the bees"_ I'm done 🤣
There’s one thing that I acknowledge…. these dudes would rather live in England 🏴 than Africa…. and this is what I don’t understand if religious beliefs are superior to the materialistic things of this earth 🌍
It's really disgusting and degrading to be referred to as a sexual organ. How is Mehdi calling women P***Y ?? It just shows that all he think of women as, that's what he sees and the only value. It's disgusting. And I'm sure he wouldn't be okay as being referred to as d*** instead of as a man. Women are nurturers, mothers, a garb for you, your partner, emotional support etc etc. Mahdi doesn't understand what women are , we are much more complex then how he's putting it.
My mum married my father when he was poor and had nothing (while she was getting proposals from richer, more "handsome", higher in status men). She supported my father through everything and what made their marriage last and still be very strong today is both of their characters. As rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, look to their character and religion. My father thinks my mum is the most beautiful and best woman and she thinks he's the best allahumma barik lahum.
May allah reward parents with jannah, but what you're saying has no benifit to the average young Muslim man, most and almost all women wouldn't do what your mother did, young men gotta face reality and own up to it and seek what women really want, so they can get married and pursue halal.
Ya sister, our brothers shouldn’t fall in so called “high value” BS. Being high value in the current situation,wallahi, mahdi mentioned of taking multivitamins everyday,he doesn’t know most muslim man can’t afford it. In the same time,he acted like he was coming from common muslim man. NO,you’re not common muslim man,most common muslim man are to considered poor if his “high value” is taken into account. Most muslim toil hard day and night to bring food on the table,they have no time for pill and gyms. We should stop being so materialistic.
True, I agree M Ahmed, Mahdi stuck by his guns for what he believed in yet also acknowledged any miswords unintentionally. However I am yet to see Mohammed Hijab make an apology for the disrespectful stuff he said in his past videos
I think hijab was correct in regards to the language and refining of ur message in that regard. But ur content is really good most times. Inshallah just keep it up and work on that language akhi👍
Yes brother Mahdi, your content is refreshing for Muslim sphere. You speak reality which we cannot overlook. Im a single man and I experience what you cover. Keep up the good work
Brother Mahdi may Allah bless you. The First time I heard you talk in the 3 Muslim podcast you made me change my mind about divorce. I was about to divorce and thanks Allah I leasen to you points and I change my whole mind on this regard. Thanks.
You carried yourself well brother, mashallah. While I don't agree with everything you said, I know you mean well and have iman. As long as your intentions are pure, you remain humble and hold tight onto the deen Allah will bless your efforts inshallah.
When Mohammad Hijab talked about the real value of a man, just reminds me of why I subscribed to him in the early days when he DIDN'T have that many. He knows, he was in that position where $$$ wasn't much but yet he was content and understood what a real man is and should be like. Look at prophet Muhammad PBUH the realest man that lived on the face of the earth. Look at the companions. Islam is very clear. Hamdulilah, i was in that same boat. Money never made me insecure, and I was always satisfied of what I have hamdulilah. A very rich man came to me one day offering me his daughter, who was very well educated and well raised. And him KNOWING FULL WELL that i wasn't making much...BARELY. I still remember him saying "Money doesn't make real men" when I told him about my situation. "Let a man's character be his currency; that will tell you what he's really worth - Tony A Gaskins Jr Hamdulilah always stay humble and everything belongs to ALLAH
Also I love the way brother Hijab carried himself through this entire conversation. The brother is very intelligent masha Allah, and mixed with a calm style - he probably one of the best Muslim representatives out there! Keep making us proud bro.
You’ve got to be kidding!! The best representation of Islam and Muslims?? Just asking for a friend!! I lost count of times hijab has said some vile stuffs
@@mitchpeter5718 you lost count? Which videos. Produce your evidence if you're truthful. Also if it has anything to do with CP.... 😭😂 But anyways, let's see these *vile* comments you lost count on.
@@YusufIslam1 ngl I don't think hijab, May Allah bless him, is the best representative in terms of akhlaaq since he gets "passionate" sometimes although he's definitely very knowledgeable. I'm talking about akhlaaq specifically but better representatives imo would be Gabriel Al Roomani, Shariff from tap and saajid amongst others.
I have the utmost of respect for brother hijab. I have been watching him since the very beginning. He’s an absolute gem Allahuma barik. Such a classy individual. We need more ppl like him.
Sorry to say this, but anyone who is content with the final message that was revealed to our prophet Muhammad (s.a.w), will see this red pill as another tool for iblis.
He has disgraced Sumayya RA… she did not follow Rasulallah SAW for his status, she followed and died upon Islam. Also does he forget Quraysh mushrik leaders offered Rasulallah SAW money, women, leadership, status… and he turned it ALL down?! How dare we focus and drive our manhood using such gross amounts of dunya when Allah has offered us so much better. Allah and His Messenger commanded us to treat women well, we will not humiliate and disgrace ourselves by following these hedonistic ideologies.
She followed and died upon Islam, and who was Rasulullah again? Why was the prophet offered money women and leadership? Because of his status as Rasulullah, because he led the Muslims. Because he was the final messenger of Allah. And therefore if Islam was true was the man with the most status.
@@abdullahX001 it makes perfect sense if only you used your brain, why did the quraish offer the prophet all that and status amongst them? As a compromise because he already had status higher then theirs (why else offer him a compensation status, wealth, women), if Islam was indeed the true religion he was the man with the most status, as some quraish started to doubt their power since obviously the Muslims were growing and some of their own became Muslim. In the end most of Arabia became Muslim.
2:27:33 that ramble is gold. I cannot lie that parts of Red Pill affected me in a negative way and this debate really beat it out of my system. Thank you
the main idea of brother Mahdi is that look take the majority of men and ask them what do you want? they'll tell you " this thing and that thing " But that's not Islam. We are Muslims we see what Allah and his Messenger ordered us, not what the majority wants.
As a revert Muslim woman, I honestly think this man needs to go back and get a proper Islamic Education. He is talking out of emotion, feelings,ect... JazakAllah khair brother Mohammed for helping this man see his mistakes. InshaAllah he will acknowledge his errors.
Unfortunately sister, he is right..it has become an epidemic the way sisters are deviating and adopting western Liberal lifestyle but expect men to still remain Conservative when it comes to their responsibilities..but the women can take you to the cleaners because see decided she is not having enough fun..Mahdi is right on all points the only thing you can argue with is the delivery
@@Big_Berber how so? Anyone doing something wrong does not justify anyone else doing something wrong. Tidjani clearly made mistakes, and Brother Hijab clearly corrected him, with the evidences. There is no shame in making mistakes if you recognize, reflect, and ask for forgiveness on them. Everybody is constantly learning
@@Big_BerberMuslim women are adopting western liberal values, so men should adopt a red pill ideology? Mehdi comes across as a man scorned, you can clearly tell he has a bitter resentment towards women and is trying to reduce all women down to gold digging leeches and men to sexual predators. He refuses to look at things holistically, and focuses on one element. Of course women want a man who cant comfortably provide for them, but not at the detriment of other factors such as faith, race. love, personalities, ideological compatibility etc. I may be wrong but to me these red pill guys have an inferiority complex and are trying compensate through this movement. Here is a tip for the red pill Muslims out there, stop chasing sisters that have a western liberal mindset, but the irony is you can't! because your just as entrenched in western liberal values as the women you are trying to accuse.
It needs to appreciated that the disagreements were dealt with in a civil manner and Islam was the standard of value judgement and Mahdi was honest and retracted statements.
I’m Ngl, I’m hopelessly envious of my friends who managed to marry in their early twenties, when they were half broke, had nothing to their name. These guys can take comfort in the fact that their wife loved them for who they are, rather than a mechanical analysis of how useful they are in terms of what they can provide. As you go into your late twenties as a man, you have to increase your financial and social status because now, the period of finding someone naturally who loves you for you is gone. Now, you’re judged for how many boxes you can tick off. It’s really depressing
unconditional love does not exist. In islam you have to provide for your family and if you can't (meaning you are broke) you are in fact not doing what you are supposed to do.
Brother M.Hijab this was much needed your delivery was excellent and I think you definatley humbled MT. Like you mentioned his audience consists of young impressionable brothers who are taking his non-islamic ideologies. When you said "no-one should ever get left behind", that is exactly what islam is about having mercy and compassion for others we should be focusing on bringing muslims together not causing a divide. May Allah bless you because we truly need more brothers like you. Jzk
This guy really said the Prophet pbuh had his nine wives due to status, how insulting is that to the mothers of the believers. Making it out like they didn't recognize his perfected character. Smh.
@@tekkytekkers647 You are taking the stepping stone to the rafidhi ideology. The Quran is clear, however, 33:28. Btw, why just limit it to the wives of the Prophet (SAW) did the companions including Abu bakr, Omar, Uthman and Ali (RA) also follow the Prophet (saw) because of his status?
@@tekkytekkers647 He was known for his good etiquettes. The only think was him being married to more than 4 wife at a time. Only he was allowed. Prophet muhammad scw was orphan and poor so i think he didnt have that much social value
@@SlazeM7 First of all wash your dirty mouth before you ever call me a rafidhi- how is talking about the Prophet SAW status disrespectful. He was given the highest status known to man "THE MESSENGER OF GOD", are you going to deny that too? That is completely different- why are you comparing a relationship dynamic between a religious/political dynamic. Status plays a part in attracting a wife- just look at celebrities and how the woman chase after them. to deny this is idiotic.
The brother Mahdi is speaking from emotions , why has he made it his life’s purpose to speak about who has high value and who doesn’t? The words he speaks and the terms “toxic waste” for example are really inappropriate, UnIslamic and rude, why is it necessary to speak about women that way? Brother if you have an opinion on what you are seeking for marriage or what your immediate family are seeking no one would judge you for that BUT to put out these opinions and preferences and degrade and belittle women is wrong and goes against many principles in the Quran and Sunnah. It’s extremely sad that the brother is a Muslim and he is speaking so badly of sisters and putting women down to get views and likes from like minded people. Regardless of your preferences you need to be respectful and open minded and follow the sunnah that every Muslim man and woman are to be married and given their rights - everyone is different and you have no right to speak for this red pill women hating minority!
Not really no, see if men such as Mahdi wouldn't say these things, the newer and pre existing generation of Muslim men would be lost. The last words of our prophet (asws) were to take care of women. Unfortunately the "muslim women" these days are not on par or even remotely close to what women were prior to the sexual revolution and ( female empowerment bs ) that poluted them. So why should men remain playing by the same docile rules and regulations that were handed down to us when no women is playing by the same regulations. I can understand that two wrongs don't make a right but You can't expect us to be traditional old valued muslim men, and you are not a traditional old valued muslim women. Simply put, you don't deserve that treatment of respect and do actually define as toxic waste, that's in a respectful manner. Nowadays, we don't have many women and it saddens us, which is how the redpill praxology was born, you're just men with vagina's; so until women choose to overlap and change the disgusting learned behaviours they enjoy partaking in, nothing will change. The very least men like mahdi are doing is warning the majority of men of what's out their and how to steer ear of it.
@@faresabushanab3669 But you MUST, did allah give you permission NOT to take care of and love women, even if ALL of them left islam and acted like non-muslim women (which is a claim I have a hard time believing) The answer is NOT red pill, treat the women as Allah commanded you to, with love, compassion & understanding, and as a society and community we can work together to improve ourselves. No one is saying fornication is okay or that being unjust is fine if done to a man from a woman, but the answer is NOT to crawl into the same gutter. there is no war between Men vs Women in the Muslim community we are ONE body, this Men vs Women is a non-muslim issue. furthermore, we have more important challenges to fave and actual enemies trying to kill muslims in the real world, focus more on them, this whole unionizing against women thing is dumb, and instead of that focus more on teaching islam instead of some bargain with the world's women to force them to cede to your demands.
Let me attempt to sum up this entire conversation: There is a couple that's fighting. They go to a third party to solve their problems. Hijab is like the spiritual guide that is telling them both how to behave and what is the ideal situation and how they should resolve their issues while Mahdi is the lawyer for the guy's side, working on his behalf and interest.
The high value man concept is based on dunya standards...alhamdullilah we have the best example of thE ideal man and it is our NABI S.A.W. We should aim to emulate him and we will be rewarded InshaAllah
MashAllah it’s nice to see those humbling moments in between where brother Mahdi is being quiet and listening to Brother Mohammad- and Where he asks him if he knows such and such and Mahdi humbly says he doesn’t know. I respect him a lot more in these moments & that he’s actually showing a willingness to be open. The humility is reassuring than those giving “narcissistic “ with all due respect- vibes. Mahdi is very intelligent mashAllah TabarakAllah but there things about the things he says that I find a bit hmm.. He is bold in his convictions..
This discussion leaves a bad taste in the mouth especially from this western influenced 'how to get women' brother. We are supposed to change people and societies brothers not confirm and accept its 'reality'. We have come as vessels carrying reformation for society. Pious men for pious women, yes the pious still exist and yes they do still marry but wallahi it's becoming a shrinking group in the west. Advice to brothers, don't fall for this nonsense of being a 'high value man' to fit into expectations of westernised muslim women of the west. Perfect your faith and more importantly...be willing to travel to the Muslim lands where you will more easily find a 'proper' muslim wife.
I agree with you but you need to know that we live in a small world and these feministic ideas are everywhere and the so called Muslims countries are full with corruption , still there is a need to combat these ideas with good ideas so men don't fall into the red pill loop
Yes I'm sure you can find nice Muslim woman in UK but it's getting hard. Not to mention the families at least in our local community often marry them off to people not suitable. Feminism and similar ideologies have not quite reached small villages in Muslim majority countries to the same extent.
Both feminism and red promote zina and fornication it’s not acceptable. Feminism is not necessary in Islam as women have the rights already the western women are still fighting for. Don’t need to copy the west their societies look rich and fancy but principally, spiritually, and morally it’s going through a crisis. We need to change as a ummah post colonization era tainted our societies. We need to go back to following the sunnah and Quran there is no need for feminism women are given rights and provided by the men in their walis or husband, and men have rights as well women needs to fulfill in the by taking care of the home it’s a joint effort marriage and both need to fulfill their rights.
sorry sister but this is wrong..in some points he said he was wrong in his use of language. others he said he was completely wrong; and some he said that he is still with his view.
@@ahmedgurey7870 Wasn't he the one who said experienced women are disgusting? He's basically calling some of the wives of the prophet SAW disgusting...
@M Ahmed "What a stupid comparison! How is the wives of the Prophet (saw) the same as the modern women in 21st century, Western world? He’s talking about women in the 21st century, not 7th century Arabia 🙄. Why do idiots keep comparing yourselves to our beloved Prophet (saw), his wives and also his companions. We are nowhere near to their stature in Islam. Stop taking people’s statements out of context. He’s clearly speaking of women today, especially women who jump from one man to another, without thinking about consequences and their children from those marriages. Many points of his, I agree with and many of the misogynistic (red pill type) undertones, I don’t agree with." I don't think you know that we're supposed to at least try to be like the sahaba. That's besides the fact that there is a hadith which mentions that some Muslims will be on the level of sahaba.
Don't be a child, marriage is a multi factorial decision. That should be religiously, socially, psychologically, and biologically conscious. People should ask their family, friends and people of wisdom from their knowing for advice, not the messed up social media influencers with their trendy pieces of complete nonsense philosophies.
How was your statement relevant to what mahdi was saying? All I am reading is fairytale accounts on is happening in real life. How is your statement of any substantial value that one can use beside getting likes???? Mahdi is telling people hey if you see signs like x, y, z, then do this or don’t do that BACKED by empirical data. Then you come to counter with a PC statement
@M Ahmed most people commenting here are still very young abd and can't understand, specially all this "white knights" they don't understand the nature of human behavior in relationships and how "modernity" has changed everything compared to how previous generations lived.
I was poor and not necessarily good looking when I got married to my wife 20 years ago. Nothing beats love and affection. I'm not saying it's ok for a man to be poor. No. It's only best to be with a woman of your social condition who has a pure and sincere heart.
@@Altair-El-Haddad The world works just like that.Birds of same feather flock together. You will able to spot a good woman only when you are good and you know the characteristics of a good woman. Don't expect something you don't deserve. Yes, good women are rare. But just do your part and leave the rest to Allah.
Both of them are my brothers🤝. Left you have a brother who tells the brother on right what he has done wrong and he admit it with beautiful humble. That's what our Ummah should do like our prophet peace be upon him said:"You are the best fellowship that rose for the people. You command the right and forbid the wrong and believe in Allah ... " May Allah forgive our shortcomings. Amin.
@@equityjustice2695you're tapped in the head like your cult leader Tidjani ... Brother Muhammad Hijab totally destroyed this DAMAGED REJECT NARCISSIST in a way that he resorted to buttering brother Muhammad Hijab up 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
EXACTLY....Love does give security to women ....we've been up and down and what kept us going was this...love....love requires patience,respect,communication,intimacy .....not money ....
Money does still play a role, agree with that it is not the absolute factor, but it is a important one, else why do you think people do work and do business.
@@user-kc8gz9dc3c I'm not a scolar to answer this question about divorce and I don't have the proper knowledge ; but I think they can work together to improve the relationship and if needed get qualified help from professionals (scholars, psychologist, doctor, etc).
@@paikuhansensei815 nobody say they don't....just not as much and definately not the most important in relationships for women like many seem to believe somehow ....
*Main principles of Dawah* - 1 Sincerity of the intention, that you are inviting people to Allah and no one else - 2 Only speak what you know and stay away from subjects you have no knowledge of. - 3 Be cautious, use your experience and utmost wisdom to call people to Allah.
Tijani learnt nothing from this discussion. The new video he made after this is spouting the same red-pill ideological nonsense. Brother Hijab, with all due respect, you were far too lenient with him. This disgusting new cancer in our community has to be rooted out.
@@samik3184 Akhi take back your words. You assume she is a feminist. I am a man, I don't agree with this red pill guy, neither do I support the feminist ideology.
@@samik3184 don't be silly, boy. Just because someone is against this filth that is red pill, doesn't make him or her a feminist. Red pill is as false as feminism.
@@samik3184 yes as a muslim women, I denounce the toxic ideology that is feminism and red pill! young Muslim children need to learn that Islam is complete, we don't need anything else!
Ofcourse women hate it. Youd rather watch Mufti Menk teach our youth to knit and continue to raise the collective estrogen levels of the ummah😂. Boys dont be fooled by anyone, do your own research and make your own decisions, and fear no one in the path of Allah. And if u can, be loyal.. to 4 women. 😊💪
47mins. What would the brother expect a woman who was sexually abused to do? She comes to Islam knowing it’s the truth to be judged and shunned by the Muslim men who wouldn’t choose her because of her past and deny her a chance of happiness? This is not Islam and defo not the sunnah
This guy is ridiculous. May Allah guide him. He sounds like a complete idiot and I'll be honest I feel sorry for whatever woman he is married to because from his views it sounds like he looks down on women and just sees them as a means for sexual satisfaction. He only takes on the responsibility of marriage because he gets to have sex. What a joke. We just need to look at the Prophet pbuh and his marriages. He showed so much love and mercy and compassion to his wives. He truly loved them. And was he not the best of men? He said about Khadijah ra "Her Love has intoxicated me." I mean come on. That's absolutely beautiful. Look at how the Quran talks about marriage, how Allah talks about marriage. Men and women are garments for one another. How beautiful is that? This man has reduced marriage done to the basics, stripped it of emotion and love, just a hollow contract, and made it an empty husk of what it should be. I feel sorry for the men who believe him. May Allah guide us all ameen.
@@aishaarshadalam3412 couldn’t agree with you more sis. Every woman has her journey and this man has no compassion. I agree. Feel sorry for any man or woman who listens to his rubbish. I can’t believe he had naima roberts on his podcast with her agreeing with him. I was shocked!
@@Abu-Kurdi May Allah grant you better women figures in your life if you agree with this guys ideas. I'm sorry if you have a terrible mother, sister or wife who apparently are exactly like this guy describes.
@@aishaarshadalam3412 alhamdulillah i have a good mother and sister. my mother married my father even though he was poor, and the mahr was low. she was with my father in both his good and bad times. my father was always good to her, never abused her. i don't think i can have a better woman figure in my life. i don't always agree with mahdi, but he's right about a lot of what he says on women.
"Redpill" and "feminism" are two sides of the same coin in addition to being misnomers. Just looking at their advocates' knowledge of Islam, manners, behaviors and married-lives tells you enough about their respective movements.
I totally agree Mahdi has a worldly and secular idea of "high value" Man and Woman. Muhammad, Aisha, Khadija whe´re high valuable people because they did put there trust and faith in Allah and lived there relations like Allah wants it. With respect, kindness, humbelness and most of all faith.
I have to be honest, as a Hijab fan, I agree with Mahdi, high valuable/status man and income is a priority in marriage these days even in so called muslim society. Its not the sunnah way but hey, thats the way the cookie crumbles. I say this because i had to go through this, i couldn't get married in the UK because i was broke while all my other friends could because they had money, car and a home(mortage) and the amount of bidah in the marriage ceremonies would put the ancient pagans to shame, as you know Islamic knowledge is never questioned when marriage is brought up. However, i had women lining up in Pakistan to marry me even though i was jobless, simply because i was a free ticket for them into the UK as this would raise the woman's status, her family will be like, 'my daughter lives in England now', she has a strong safety net. My status was very high in Pakistan simply because of my British passport and nothing to do with my character/islamic principles. Mahdi put it straight, Hijab is a VERY desirable man, and its not easy for him to relate to us. Im not so much into Mahdi (seen a few videos),
Hijaab killed me😂😂😂😂😂 he was eating popcorn and chilling while grilling Mahdi!!!!😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️really I have never seen such a hilarious conversation!😂😂😂
Hijab quotes Quran and Sunnah Mahdi quotes red pill movement. Mahdi makes an excuse every time that it's a poor choice of words and that he agrees with Hijab, but goed makes videos against what he is saying.
@@kakarote100 How so? If red pill is a praxeology rooted in navigating the current paradigm, then surely capitalism is the same, as an example. Islam has its own set of laws, policies, economics, etc. We would be foolish to ignore that reality in the name of "Qur'an and Sunnah," instead of navigating it through what is permissible. Red pill is the same. Mahdi doesn't encourage brothers to commit zina, to engage in khalwa, or anything that will lead to it. He simply takes what is the current reality and adapts. Anyone who doesn't adapt within the current financial system - for example - will be broke, save a few. Likewise, the majority of Muslim men will be unmarried, lonely, and sexually frustrated if they are experiencing being single into their 30s IF they continue to follow the descriptive rules of hypergamy and modern feminism that exists in the west.
@@consultmetech5841 but he accusing muslim women of being virgin or not! and redpill movement has some truth but it is has a lot of falsehood, its pseudoscience and taking certain studies that agree with them but i must say there are some truth to it and we should deal with these issues regarding marrige! also he talks bad about divored women
@@consultmetech5841 do you think Islam doesn't cover those subjects? Redpill goes directly against the quran and sunnah. It's a disgusting ideology for weak incel losers.
MashaAllah! Muhammad Hijab will InshaAllah be rewarded with a special place in Jannah, for the huge amount of effort he is making, in terms of guiding the muslim youth and preventing them from being misguided.
my wife had men in her life before me.. some men were kind to her and some not so kind... I was a virgin.. I knew it before I even married her....So what? We are 9 years married, going 10.. 4 kids and counting.. I am the happiest in my life.. I will never regret that decision of marrying her...
Watching some other videos I felt Hijab was an egotistical man always on men's side and being harsh and unkind to women but this video has changed that. I can see that he genuinely does care about his wife and Muslim sisters. Appreciate this video. Both feminism and redpill are toxic.
as a revert muslim woman i really want to thank mohammed hijab for defending our honor and i‘m quite disappointed to hear that there are brothers with this repulsiv mindset like mahdi‘s may allah guide him🙁
What repulsive mindset? All I see are facts, yes his language is questionable and needs to controlled which he has now changed a lot but the message still stands. What exactly do you disagree?
Ughh, total and foolish ignorance. Our mothers and sisters. May Allah bless them, regardless of whether they completed their deen by marrying or not. Divorced or not. Inshallah he will learn as he gets older and wiser.
@@JW-wh2jh loooool you’re sad asf to agree with mehdi 😂 and please don’t make me laugh you ain’t a woman. If you are your self worth must be in the gutter 😮💨🥴🥴🥴
Islam is from Allah and Allah created Humanity and knows what they are more likely to follow and what fits them. Allah didn’t create this life for men or women. Allah created this life and divided different responsibilities for each to see who do better. Always remember the key for heaven is not your gender or wealth or race…etc the key of heaven how to make all of this in the path that Allah created not what your desires created..~
Sumayah R.A. did not die for RasoulAllah s.a.w due to 'status'. She died for her deen, for her belief in Allah S.A.W. She died because she refused to turned back from the Kalimah. We can't stop the foolish amongst us from going against each other *HOWEVER* including RasoulAllah s.a.w, his family or his companions needs to be a hard no zone. As for this nonsense on both sides: "The believing men and believing women are allies of one another. They enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong and establish prayer and give zakah and obey Allah and His Messenger. Those - Allah will have mercy upon them. Indeed, Allah is Exalted in Might and Wise".
Y’all forgetting that Khadija(ra) actually really loved thr prophet(pbuh) for his character ! No wonder she stayed with him and helped him with his wealth during the rough few years of prophethood where there was oppression and hunger !
I think brother Tidjani is describing what he believes to be the reality on the ground. And brother hijab is describing what the Islamic ideal should be. So for example: Islamic ideal: marry someone for their piety and character. Reality: most people marry for looks and Status.
Yeh but if you train the muslim community to the reality and propagate to conform to it, it is a defeatist mentality. We should be propagating the ideal until it becomes reality, with the use of knowledge. A reality does not make it right. If one day society was such that the reality became - the only way to get women was to give up your religion completely and chase money (because women now find that attractive) - it doesnt justify us doing and propagating that. As muslims, we dont conform to the reality just because its reality. We seek to change that with our dawah. Reprogramming minds with islam the the haqq.
@@mohammed96011 Yeah, change their perception of reality so society has more deen minded people than duniya minded people. Tidjani and his followers themselves have become duniya minded to oppose other duniya minded people. Notice, how their topic of discussion is always about women, sex life, how to dominate women and how to look 'desirable'. Tidjani talking about these topics 24/7 in his channel, makes me wonder if this is all that swirl his mind. The deen is not in the heart. Such people perceives reality differently from the people of the deen. These people are the victims of "ideological subversion". If you ask them they won't be able to tell you what it means.
@@kakarote100 you dont understand mahdi is saying what muslims women now days are asking for what the demand is hes saying be religios dont neglet deen but alos be suscesful and make money and hes speaking facts . musmim women want the basics 5 daily prayers zekat if yoy uave those is oke but when it comes to money thay wont more
I would disagree with this point. What makes anything highly priced is scarcity and high demand. There's many detailed paintings that are selling for almost nothing.
@@MrDoubledDD not when it comes to paintings ..I have studied arts ...your disagreement means not much when it comes to this ...There is no high demand of paintings...the rarest with the best details and the oldest are the most expensive...The most expensive clothes,bags,shoes,bridal dresses are as such because of the details.... the most expensive cars are also expensive because of the details....demand doesn't make a thing more expensive actually ....it can very much make it cheaper as well....
@@andreeaboloca246 old paintings are valuable due to there being a set amount of it. If Picasso had a million paintings they would not be worth their current price. Cars, clothes etc the most valuable ones are the limit edition and only a set small amount are produced. Detail matters yes but I think scarcity is more important.
Use of proper language is always important. Don’t get stuck behind ego. You know what Allah says about ego. I agree with him with regards to second wife.
As a Muslim revert this is quite shocking that this is even being brought up and the inappropriate language. Allah s.w.t is the most merciful and is the only judge in this dunyia.
I have seen half of this video and making this comment: I found problematic the approach br. Mahdi has taken. Actually, he has chosen the red pill over the shariah. I don't know if he realizes that. He was saying that to see the whole picture. By saying this he was referring to what the red pill study has shown and In general what humans desire. But don't he understand that the red pill prescription comes from the study of human desire or their thinking. But the shariah comes from the wisdom of Allah(swt.). If you ask random man in the street whom they prefer to marry, a divorcee or a virgin. Despite what the people have responded to, shariah is true not because of what human thinks or desires rather it's from Allah. The whole picture is "does sharia tell us not to marry a woman who has been divorced three times? Does shariah says those women are evil?" If not then we don't care what does red pill or a study says.
He saying a virgin woman is better for marriage than a non virgin woman. Not that you can’t marry a non virgin which isn’t the point he was making.. actually in the western world if you ask the man who would he marry he will say non virgin mostly because they have experience and know what they are doing and that going after a virgin woman is weird..
Everything the red pill community preaches shouldn't "theoretical" apply to a muslimah on her Deen. If a brother is looking for marriage simple avoid feminist problem solved you don't need the red pill communities.
@@mustafaaziz343 what are you on about .. please learn your Deen before talking about what’s against Islam.. here is a Hadith that’s encouraging virgins over divorced older woman. Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah: While we were returning from a Ghazwa (Holy Battle) with the Prophet, I started driving my camel fast, as it was a lazy camel A rider came behind me and pricked my camel with a spear he had with him, and then my camel started running as fast as the best camel you may see. Behold! The rider was the Prophet (ﷺ) himself. He said, 'What makes you in such a hurry?" I replied, I am newly married " He said, "Did you marry a virgin or a matron? I replied, "A matron." He said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you may play with her and she with you?" When we were about to enter (Medina), the Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Wait so that you may enter (Medina) at night so that the lady of unkempt hair may comb her hair and the one whose husband has been absent may shave her pubic region. sunnah.com/bukhari/67/17-19 Wallahi most of us are just poisoned by western propaganda
This Guy is not entirely sincere when it come to his point of views. He does not have any acedemic background. He just define from his specific experience and generalise it to everyone else. And how he spoke to the reverted sister. The fact that you first need to discuss with your “seniors” to know whether you want to apologise. You made a very bad call there. You are an adult man. Is it that difficult to define that for your self
As a Muslim brother, I gave up listening to this conversation after about 15 or 20 minutes. I was so disappointed with brother Mahdi's attitude towards women. Keep up the good work Muhammad Hijab, may Allah reward you, and may Allah bring light where there is darkness
@@zarreen5467 its not beneficial to speak about his family members due to the fact that we never heard any evidence of hia family supporting this red pill belief of his. Also, how many people do things which their families are against? So the focus really should be on Mahdi alone.
Honestly some of mahdi’s point are valid and evident around us if we’re not being disingenuous. Hijab successfully corrected some of mahdis point but to say he schooled him completely is a stretch. And i wish mahdi wasn’t being interrupted constantly by Hijab.
Mountainfolk are not equipped for onslaught of the modern world, I'd say they'd do way worse. That said all three (Redpill guys and feminists, mountainfolk/older gen ) need to go back to the Quran and sunnah.
Brother Mahdi defo got his heartbroken and has gone deep down the red pill rabbit hole to the point where his ass is sticking out of the hole which he then uses to demonstrate his arguments.
@@hsundercover9234 I’m married so I really couldn’t care less, the fact that you had to bring that up shows how pathetic and miserable your life is😂 stop chasing women and get on your purpose brother.
@بُب بُب Dont know why your defending MT though. Salafi Sheikh I've asked said do not listen to this person. Why didn't you ask the ulema first before promoting? Do you want the sin of misguiding people? Better to ask people of knowledge then give ur own opinion.
@بُب بُب sheikh assim al Hakeem. I asked him myself. Go ask him if you doubt me.. He has a website where you can ask I didn't mention his name just some of what he what he does/says. He said do not listen to this person. And before you go saying 'I don't take from him' Do you really think the senior ulema will agree with MT as they are far stricter in these things. Fear Allah. Stop promoting/ defending him. Soon I will try to ask the senior ulema if I can.
@بُب بُب no I specifically asked him about this individual. Not mentioning his name but what he specifically says and does Thats another fatwa of his ur talking about which was on red pill not MT. Ask him if you don't believe me. But no ur besotted with the guy
they way he phrases it is also just werid ! also stuff like " women run out of value" . how can anyone talk about muslim sisters this way??? Alhamdulah in the eyes of Allah(swt) all belivers are held in high esteems due to our faith and good deeds and repentance!
@@strongwoman5129 you are right sister. But with "high value" he means value in the "dating-marriage market". Please understand things with it's real context. A woman who is attractive has more possibilities to get married earlier for example and the same with a man ; it is because their "value in the marriage-dating" market is high because they are very demanded. It's not difficult to understand this. It has nothing to do with value as a human being and it's "worth"
@@strongwoman5129 rather than policing his choice of words. You should see the value of his message. It's to prevent divorce and promote a more wholesome and stable life for both genders. Stop judging him base on your emotions. I thought you a "strong woman" 🤷♂️🥴
When I seen the title of the video I didn't realise that by 'red pill' men you meant those types who have sex with women and throw them away. As one brother to br. Suboor and br.Hijab, thank you so much in talking about this and may Allah bless you guys. I did see the red pill movement working its way into young Muslims minds and it's so evil. Its just the flip side of feminism. On a personal level, I do agree that as a man I have to work on many things like my assertiveness and taking control of situations before I get married but insha'Allah I will get there, w/o any of this red pill nonsense.
That’s not what red pill is fundamentally based upon. It’s just mainly avoiding marriage and commitment to modern women due to the gynocentric laws in the west and liberation of women.
This guy has gotten his knowledge from the fresh and fit podcast, where they bring a panel of women and put them on the spot and speak about high value men yada yada yada blah blah blah the thing is a high value man doesn't refer to themselves as high value. Islam is perfect and the teachings of the prophet are complete. Women and men need to follow the sunnah not red pill
What hijab has done here, making a presentation of mahdis clips while he was arguing with a woman, if mahdi does the same with hijabs speakers corner videos and debates he had it will not be very hard to prove hijab something similar. You should not have such confronting attitude towards muslim brother. Hijab didn’t have any major points but mahdis poor choice of words.
I think most Muslim women don't care about money as much as they care about the man's character. But this is my opinion from how I and the women (muslim and non muslim) I've met, feel. He could be rich but if he doesn't respect me, I'd rather be alone. The only way I can see a woman caring about a man's money more than his character is if she needs his money to support the lifestyle she needs/wants, or she wants someone who has the same amount of money as her or more because she doesn't want to feel used, but even in many cases some women go for men who make less money than them (like me for example, at first my husband made a lot less than me but now we are somewhat equal). And I know women who have left their husbands even if it meant they had to be homeless, purely because of how bad their husband's character was. I know a handful of women (muslim and non muslim) right now who are looking for a spouse/partner and money was literally never mentioned and most of the men they are choosing make less money than them. And when he mentioned the fact that men have more power over women because they make more money... Why do you think feminism started?? Why do you think women want to be financially independent??? it's because of this stupid mentality and lack of respect for stay at home wives/mothers. We are tired of being disrespected and some women would prefer to be alone than to be with some arrogant man who thinks that just because he makes money he can talk to you how he likes and boss you around and order you around like you are his maid/s*x slave. The fact is men like this are entitled. They are upset that women are not falling at their feet and they need to blame anything but themselves (e.g.: They don't have money) and if they can't fix that well then they start abusing women by taking away their rights and doing everything they can to lower our confidence in hopes that we would even notice stupid men like him. It's extremely manipulative but they do it because they know, no respectable woman would waste their time with them. Instead of just trying to be a genuinely good Muslim man, he'd rather do what he wants and blame everything else for his issues. They see women as some candy machine. If you put a quarter in it, candy will come out, the more you put, the more candy comes out. Women are complex, and not all of us are the same. And I would not say that most women care about money as much as he makes it seem. Yes it is important, but there are many other factors women consider.
This man clearly does not understand what marriage is. He's just stripped it down to black and white and hollowed it out. It's emotionless the way he talks about marriage. For instance there was a part in this video where he said a man only marries to get sex. That's the only reason he would marry and the only reason he would shelter and feed and support a wife is so that he can get sex in exchange. I'm sorry but that's not marriage at all. Yes, intimacy is a part of marriage but it's not the only part. Does a man not feel any care or compassion towards his wife and wants to shelter and provide for her? Does a man not want companionship and friendship and love? I'm seriously thinking this guy must have either had a terrible father who showed a terrible example of being a husband or he just didn't have one. How else can someone come to the conclusion that this is all a wife is for? So when a wife can no longer provide intimacy then he can divorce her and move on? If she has a long term illness or anything that would prevent intimacy would a husband leave her? A man like that is not a man. He's just a terrible person. And his wife is better off without him. May Allah grant us spouses and offspring who will bring us peace and be a coolness to our eyes. Ameen.
Let's say there are 4 men. One earns 20k, next one 40k, the other one 60k and the last one 80k. All of them being a good practicing Muslim. Who is going to be chosen by a woman who is considering a marriage? Obviously the 80k guy! And, all men want to be the 80k guy. So, yeah money is an inescapable reality.
@@96muslimgirl seems like you don't want to say it. Let me tell you the woman will go for the 80k guy. Why would she reject the 80k for the 40k guy when they both are good practising Muslim?
*Mohammad Hijab & Mahdi Tijdani*
0:00:00 | Start Of Stream
0:02:57 | Clarifying Some Points
0:34:04 | Is Redpill an ideology?
0:40:36 | Divorcees & Pair Bonding
0:48:24 | Divorcees vs. Virgins (part 1)
1:00:20 | High Value Man
1:08:17 | Divorcees vs. Virgins (part 2)
1:22:30 | High Value Man, Hypergamy, & Homogamy
1:55:06 | Is Redpill reductionist?
2:12:09 | Concluding Points
2:18:56 | Post-Discussion Comments
May Allah bless you akhi. From 9 hour DH to 3 hr Mohammed hijab, Jazakallah for navigating these videos easier.
@@wrestlingjudoms1302 it’s more complements. Nothing wrong with complementing each other.
@@wrestlingjudoms1302 2:14:53 😂
"But Mashallah, 6 foot 6, handsome, good looking, charismatic, strong way of speaking..."
**snaps fingers**
_"honey to the bees"_
I'm done 🤣
There’s one thing that I acknowledge…. these dudes would rather live in England 🏴 than Africa…. and this is what I don’t understand if religious beliefs are superior to the materialistic things of this earth 🌍
It's really disgusting and degrading to be referred to as a sexual organ. How is Mehdi calling women P***Y ?? It just shows that all he think of women as, that's what he sees and the only value. It's disgusting. And I'm sure he wouldn't be okay as being referred to as d*** instead of as a man. Women are nurturers, mothers, a garb for you, your partner, emotional support etc etc. Mahdi doesn't understand what women are , we are much more complex then how he's putting it.
May Allah allow the preservation and elongation of the life and knowledge for Akhi Mohammed Hijab & Akhi Mahdi Ameen
Ameen
Ameen and the same for brother MAHDI 💯👍ameen
Аmeen
What knwoledge?
Ameen Yaa Rabbil Alameen 🤲🏽
My mum married my father when he was poor and had nothing (while she was getting proposals from richer, more "handsome", higher in status men). She supported my father through everything and what made their marriage last and still be very strong today is both of their characters. As rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, look to their character and religion. My father thinks my mum is the most beautiful and best woman and she thinks he's the best allahumma barik lahum.
Ameen
Mashallah
May allah reward parents with jannah, but what you're saying has no benifit to the average young Muslim man, most and almost all women wouldn't do what your mother did, young men gotta face reality and own up to it and seek what women really want, so they can get married and pursue halal.
That's nice but that is not gonna help the average guy whose looking to get married. He has to deal with the reality of most women.
Ya sister, our brothers shouldn’t fall in so called “high value” BS. Being high value in the current situation,wallahi, mahdi mentioned of taking multivitamins everyday,he doesn’t know most muslim man can’t afford it. In the same time,he acted like he was coming from common muslim man. NO,you’re not common muslim man,most common muslim man are to considered poor if his “high value” is taken into account. Most muslim toil hard day and night to bring food on the table,they have no time for pill and gyms. We should stop being so materialistic.
A pleasure
True, I agree M Ahmed, Mahdi stuck by his guns for what he believed in yet also acknowledged any miswords unintentionally.
However I am yet to see Mohammed Hijab make an apology for the disrespectful stuff he said in his past videos
I think hijab was correct in regards to the language and refining of ur message in that regard. But ur content is really good most times. Inshallah just keep it up and work on that language akhi👍
Yes brother Mahdi, your content is refreshing for Muslim sphere. You speak reality which we cannot overlook. Im a single man and I experience what you cover. Keep up the good work
Brother Mahdi may Allah bless you. The First time I heard you talk in the 3 Muslim podcast you made me change my mind about divorce. I was about to divorce and thanks Allah I leasen to you points and I change my whole mind on this regard. Thanks.
You carried yourself well brother, mashallah. While I don't agree with everything you said, I know you mean well and have iman. As long as your intentions are pure, you remain humble and hold tight onto the deen Allah will bless your efforts inshallah.
When Mohammad Hijab talked about the real value of a man, just reminds me of why I subscribed to him in the early days when he DIDN'T have that many. He knows, he was in that position where $$$ wasn't much but yet he was content and understood what a real man is and should be like. Look at prophet Muhammad PBUH the realest man that lived on the face of the earth. Look at the companions. Islam is very clear. Hamdulilah, i was in that same boat. Money never made me insecure, and I was always satisfied of what I have hamdulilah. A very rich man came to me one day offering me his daughter, who was very well educated and well raised. And him KNOWING FULL WELL that i wasn't making much...BARELY. I still remember him saying "Money doesn't make real men" when I told him about my situation.
"Let a man's character be his currency; that will tell you what he's really worth - Tony A Gaskins Jr
Hamdulilah always stay humble and everything belongs to ALLAH
Alhamdulilah brother
Alhamdulillah that is beau brother. But alot of women are rejecting men for financial reasons.
That's a beautiful story brother, SubhanAllah
I pray you two lead a happy life. Ameen
(Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam)
Also I love the way brother Hijab carried himself through this entire conversation. The brother is very intelligent masha Allah, and mixed with a calm style - he probably one of the best Muslim representatives out there! Keep making us proud bro.
You’ve got to be kidding!! The best representation of Islam and Muslims?? Just asking for a friend!! I lost count of times hijab has said some vile stuffs
@@mitchpeter5718 you lost count? Which videos. Produce your evidence if you're truthful. Also if it has anything to do with CP.... 😭😂
But anyways, let's see these *vile* comments you lost count on.
@@YusufIslam1 ngl I don't think hijab, May Allah bless him, is the best representative in terms of akhlaaq since he gets "passionate" sometimes although he's definitely very knowledgeable. I'm talking about akhlaaq specifically but better representatives imo would be Gabriel Al Roomani, Shariff from tap and saajid amongst others.
@@Adam10412 where besides what I already mentioned is the vile comments? Let's not shift it over to someone being aggressive or stern.
He is to agressive, he can never be a representative of islam with that aggressivenes
Mohamed hijab has the potential to be one of the best Muslim thinkers of our era. I really admire the guy. Ma shaa Allah, Allahumma barik
I have the utmost of respect for brother hijab. I have been watching him since the very beginning. He’s an absolute gem Allahuma barik. Such a classy individual. We need more ppl like him.
He is a gem 100%
Brother hijab is so intelligent and eloquent mashAllah. May Allah keep him steadfast and make him a pillar for the ummah and Islam, ameen.
Very respectful and important conversation. Appreciate it. Especially loved the ayat MH recited. Subhanallah
Sorry to say this, but anyone who is content with the final message that was revealed to our prophet Muhammad (s.a.w), will see this red pill as another tool for iblis.
Misusing the truth will always be a tool for the Iblis
exactly muslims should stay far away from this crap
Redpill is like feminism. Tiny bits of truth mixed with whole lot of batil.
@@SlazeM7 like awaken feminism you mean :)
Keep the same energy with feminism
This reading Quran part is just so Beautiful 1:01:15
These live streams about different topics/issues in the community are extremely useful. Baraka Allah feekum
He has disgraced Sumayya RA… she did not follow Rasulallah SAW for his status, she followed and died upon Islam. Also does he forget Quraysh mushrik leaders offered Rasulallah SAW money, women, leadership, status… and he turned it ALL down?! How dare we focus and drive our manhood using such gross amounts of dunya when Allah has offered us so much better. Allah and His Messenger commanded us to treat women well, we will not humiliate and disgrace ourselves by following these hedonistic ideologies.
Mahdi is a clown.
She followed and died upon Islam, and who was Rasulullah again? Why was the prophet offered money women and leadership? Because of his status as Rasulullah, because he led the Muslims. Because he was the final messenger of Allah. And therefore if Islam was true was the man with the most status.
@@Kubilay3502 what on earth are you on about? Whatever you said makes no sense.
@@Kubilay3502 I don't think you got the point made.
@@abdullahX001 it makes perfect sense if only you used your brain, why did the quraish offer the prophet all that and status amongst them? As a compromise because he already had status higher then theirs (why else offer him a compensation status, wealth, women), if Islam was indeed the true religion he was the man with the most status, as some quraish started to doubt their power since obviously the Muslims were growing and some of their own became Muslim. In the end most of Arabia became Muslim.
2:27:33 that ramble is gold. I cannot lie that parts of Red Pill affected me in a negative way and this debate really beat it out of my system. Thank you
MashaAllah I'm Happy for you. Us women should stay away from Feminism and men from Red Pill that's the ONLY way it will ever work
the main idea of brother Mahdi is that look take the majority of men and ask them what do you want? they'll tell you " this thing and that thing "
But that's not Islam. We are Muslims we see what Allah and his Messenger ordered us, not what the majority wants.
🎯 This! JazakAllah Khair akhi.
Yet Islam did not come to suppress the fitrah, rather to put boundaries and guidelines to it…
also if I like something it does not mean this thing is good for me
As a revert Muslim woman, I honestly think this man needs to go back and get a proper Islamic Education. He is talking out of emotion, feelings,ect... JazakAllah khair brother Mohammed for helping this man see his mistakes. InshaAllah he will acknowledge his errors.
Unfortunately sister, he is right..it has become an epidemic the way sisters are deviating and adopting western Liberal lifestyle but expect men to still remain Conservative when it comes to their responsibilities..but the women can take you to the cleaners because see decided she is not having enough fun..Mahdi is right on all points the only thing you can argue with is the delivery
@@Big_Berber how so? Anyone doing something wrong does not justify anyone else doing something wrong. Tidjani clearly made mistakes, and Brother Hijab clearly corrected him, with the evidences. There is no shame in making mistakes if you recognize, reflect, and ask for forgiveness on them. Everybody is constantly learning
@@Big_BerberMuslim women are adopting western liberal values, so men should adopt a red pill ideology? Mehdi comes across as a man scorned, you can clearly tell he has a bitter resentment towards women and is trying to reduce all women down to gold digging leeches and men to sexual predators. He refuses to look at things holistically, and focuses on one element. Of course women want a man who cant comfortably provide for them, but not at the detriment of other factors such as faith, race. love, personalities, ideological compatibility etc.
I may be wrong but to me these red pill guys have an inferiority complex and are trying compensate through this movement. Here is a tip for the red pill Muslims out there, stop chasing sisters that have a western liberal mindset, but the irony is you can't! because your just as entrenched in western liberal values as the women you are trying to accuse.
@@wackypeace1135 strawman and false equivalence.
@@wackypeace1135 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👌
It needs to appreciated that the disagreements were dealt with in a civil manner and Islam was the standard of value judgement and Mahdi was honest and retracted statements.
I’m Ngl, I’m hopelessly envious of my friends who managed to marry in their early twenties, when they were half broke, had nothing to their name. These guys can take comfort in the fact that their wife loved them for who they are, rather than a mechanical analysis of how useful they are in terms of what they can provide.
As you go into your late twenties as a man, you have to increase your financial and social status because now, the period of finding someone naturally who loves you for you is gone. Now, you’re judged for how many boxes you can tick off. It’s really depressing
there is no unconditional love
unconditional love does not exist. In islam you have to provide for your family and if you can't (meaning you are broke) you are in fact not doing what you are supposed to do.
@AlYamani its from islam to spend your money on your family and towards sadaqa.
Brother M.Hijab this was much needed your delivery was excellent and I think you definatley humbled MT. Like you mentioned his audience consists of young impressionable brothers who are taking his non-islamic ideologies. When you said "no-one should ever get left behind", that is exactly what islam is about having mercy and compassion for others we should be focusing on bringing muslims together not causing a divide. May Allah bless you because we truly need more brothers like you. Jzk
Bless you brother Mohamed Hajib,real man
2:39:50 that was amazing. You guys are good together. We need this show every Saturday.
This guy really said the Prophet pbuh had his nine wives due to status, how insulting is that to the mothers of the believers. Making it out like they didn't recognize his perfected character. Smh.
So deluded into his ideology that he does not even realize the blasphemy upon the mothers of the believers.
To say the prophet SAW status didn't play is very delusional
@@tekkytekkers647 You are taking the stepping stone to the rafidhi ideology. The Quran is clear, however, 33:28.
Btw, why just limit it to the wives of the Prophet (SAW) did the companions including Abu bakr, Omar, Uthman and Ali (RA) also follow the Prophet (saw) because of his status?
@@tekkytekkers647 He was known for his good etiquettes. The only think was him being married to more than 4 wife at a time. Only he was allowed. Prophet muhammad scw was orphan and poor so i think he didnt have that much social value
@@SlazeM7 First of all wash your dirty mouth before you ever call me a rafidhi- how is talking about the Prophet SAW status disrespectful. He was given the highest status known to man "THE MESSENGER OF GOD", are you going to deny that too? That is completely different- why are you comparing a relationship dynamic between a religious/political dynamic. Status plays a part in attracting a wife- just look at celebrities and how the woman chase after them. to deny this is idiotic.
The brother Mahdi is speaking from emotions , why has he made it his life’s purpose to speak about who has high value and who doesn’t? The words he speaks and the terms “toxic waste” for example are really inappropriate, UnIslamic and rude, why is it necessary to speak about women that way?
Brother if you have an opinion on what you are seeking for marriage or what your immediate family are seeking no one would judge you for that BUT to put out these opinions and preferences and degrade and belittle women is wrong and goes against many principles in the Quran and Sunnah.
It’s extremely sad that the brother is a Muslim and he is speaking so badly of sisters and putting women down to get views and likes from like minded people. Regardless of your preferences you need to be respectful and open minded and follow the sunnah that every Muslim man and woman are to be married and given their rights - everyone is different and you have no right to speak for this red pill women hating minority!
Not really no, see if men such as Mahdi wouldn't say these things, the newer and pre existing generation of Muslim men would be lost. The last words of our prophet (asws) were to take care of women. Unfortunately the "muslim women" these days are not on par or even remotely close to what women were prior to the sexual revolution and ( female empowerment bs ) that poluted them. So why should men remain playing by the same docile rules and regulations that were handed down to us when no women is playing by the same regulations.
I can understand that two wrongs don't make a right but You can't expect us to be traditional old valued muslim men, and you are not a traditional old valued muslim women. Simply put, you don't deserve that treatment of respect and do actually define as toxic waste, that's in a respectful manner.
Nowadays, we don't have many women and it saddens us, which is how the redpill praxology was born, you're just men with vagina's; so until women choose to overlap and change the disgusting learned behaviours they enjoy partaking in, nothing will change. The very least men like mahdi are doing is warning the majority of men of what's out their and how to steer ear of it.
@@faresabushanab3669 But you MUST, did allah give you permission NOT to take care of and love women, even if ALL of them left islam and acted like non-muslim women (which is a claim I have a hard time believing)
The answer is NOT red pill, treat the women as Allah commanded you to, with love, compassion & understanding, and as a society and community we can work together to improve ourselves.
No one is saying fornication is okay or that being unjust is fine if done to a man from a woman, but the answer is NOT to crawl into the same gutter. there is no war between Men vs Women in the Muslim community we are ONE body, this Men vs Women is a non-muslim issue. furthermore, we have more important challenges to fave and actual enemies trying to kill muslims in the real world, focus more on them, this whole unionizing against women thing is dumb, and instead of that focus more on teaching islam instead of some bargain with the world's women to force them to cede to your demands.
Love Hijabs recitation of Quran 🥳
Alhumdulillah for Islam
I wish brother hijab would open up a school. I have 3 children and wish for them to be as eloquent as him.
The school of youtube
Same as u sister
Encourage your children to read books. All kinds. Non fiction and fiction. Expand their knowledge. Allah will grant them eloquence in speech.
Homeschooling is the best root in shaa Allah
Sister he has sapience institute for this very purpose
Love brother Hijab's references to Quran and hadith 💯
In ibadat muʿāmalāt we don't have to reinvent the wheel
Alhamdulillah
Bint detected
Let me attempt to sum up this entire conversation: There is a couple that's fighting. They go to a third party to solve their problems. Hijab is like the spiritual guide that is telling them both how to behave and what is the ideal situation and how they should resolve their issues while Mahdi is the lawyer for the guy's side, working on his behalf and interest.
😂Thanks saved me couple of hours
🤣 this is excatly what it is.
🤣🤣
The high value man concept is based on dunya standards...alhamdullilah we have the best example of thE ideal man and it is our NABI S.A.W. We should aim to emulate him and we will be rewarded InshaAllah
It's nice to see two brothers with different ideas have a healthy discussion
MashAllah it’s nice to see those humbling moments in between where brother Mahdi is being quiet and listening to Brother Mohammad- and Where he asks him if he knows such and such and Mahdi humbly says he doesn’t know. I respect him a lot more in these moments & that he’s actually showing a willingness to be open. The humility is reassuring than those giving “narcissistic “ with all due respect- vibes.
Mahdi is very intelligent mashAllah TabarakAllah but there things about the things he says that I find a bit hmm.. He is bold in his convictions..
This discussion leaves a bad taste in the mouth especially from this western influenced 'how to get women' brother. We are supposed to change people and societies brothers not confirm and accept its 'reality'. We have come as vessels carrying reformation for society. Pious men for pious women, yes the pious still exist and yes they do still marry but wallahi it's becoming a shrinking group in the west.
Advice to brothers, don't fall for this nonsense of being a 'high value man' to fit into expectations of westernised muslim women of the west. Perfect your faith and more importantly...be willing to travel to the Muslim lands where you will more easily find a 'proper' muslim wife.
I agree with you but you need to know that we live in a small world and these feministic ideas are everywhere and the so called Muslims countries are full with corruption , still there is a need to combat these ideas with good ideas so men don't fall into the red pill loop
Well said brother I agree.
However, I'm sure you can find a good pious woman in the west too. Dont generalise like Mahdi does.
Yes I'm sure you can find nice Muslim woman in UK but it's getting hard. Not to mention the families at least in our local community often marry them off to people not suitable. Feminism and similar ideologies have not quite reached small villages in Muslim majority countries to the same extent.
@@thepathofguidance5684 I absolutely agree.
I'm looking to get married from back home.
Both feminism and red promote zina and fornication it’s not acceptable. Feminism is not necessary in Islam as women have the rights already the western women are still fighting for. Don’t need to copy the west their societies look rich and fancy but principally, spiritually, and morally it’s going through a crisis. We need to change as a ummah post colonization era tainted our societies. We need to go back to following the sunnah and Quran there is no need for feminism women are given rights and provided by the men in their walis or husband, and men have rights as well women needs to fulfill in the by taking care of the home it’s a joint effort marriage and both need to fulfill their rights.
May Allah Accept your works, and make it a means of acceptance and Guidance for the Ummah!
mohammed is so intelligent, I feel like I'm watching a father talking to his teenaged son going through that rebellious phase
Hijabs recitation was beautiful truly have me power while working from home.
Pashtunistan inshallah
@@94A4.GH01 inshallah rora
All I hear this guy saying is “I accept your premise but I’m still gonna say what I said” so basically he just doesn’t want to admit that he is wrong.
Strawman argument what did he say wrong? All he did was use poor language.
sorry sister but this is wrong..in some points he said he was wrong in his use of language. others he said he was completely wrong; and some he said that he is still with his view.
Stay mad bushra
@@ahmedgurey7870 Wasn't he the one who said experienced women are disgusting? He's basically calling some of the wives of the prophet SAW disgusting...
@M Ahmed "What a stupid comparison! How is the wives of the Prophet (saw) the same as the modern women in 21st century, Western world? He’s talking about women in the 21st century, not 7th century Arabia 🙄. Why do idiots keep comparing yourselves to our beloved Prophet (saw), his wives and also his companions. We are nowhere near to their stature in Islam. Stop taking people’s statements out of context. He’s clearly speaking of women today, especially women who jump from one man to another, without thinking about consequences and their children from those marriages. Many points of his, I agree with and many of the misogynistic (red pill type) undertones, I don’t agree with."
I don't think you know that we're supposed to at least try to be like the sahaba. That's besides the fact that there is a hadith which mentions that some Muslims will be on the level of sahaba.
Don't be a child, marriage is a multi factorial decision. That should be religiously, socially, psychologically, and biologically conscious. People should ask their family, friends and people of wisdom from their knowing for advice, not the messed up social media influencers with their trendy pieces of complete nonsense philosophies.
Well said....subhanAllah what a world we live in today.
How was your statement relevant to what mahdi was saying? All I am reading is fairytale accounts on is happening in real life. How is your statement of any substantial value that one can use beside getting likes????
Mahdi is telling people hey if you see signs like x, y, z, then do this or don’t do that BACKED by empirical data. Then you come to counter with a PC statement
@M Ahmed brother the early muslim societies and the Muslim golden age was also capitalistic, but with a moral integrity not like now.
@M Ahmed most people commenting here are still very young abd and can't understand, specially all this "white knights" they don't understand the nature of human behavior in relationships and how "modernity" has changed everything compared to how previous generations lived.
اللهم صبرنا كما صبرت محمد حجاب وزدنا وإياه صبرا
Muhammad WELL DONE 👏 ✔
Subhanallah the faces of the believers and their behaviour always shine and the opposite also applies.
He is eating while the Quran reciting it shows a level of respect
Thanks for this. Love and respect ❤️🥰❤️💚
Lots of respect for mahdi for owning up to his mistakes.
I was poor and not necessarily good looking when I got married to my wife 20 years ago.
Nothing beats love and affection.
I'm not saying it's ok for a man to be poor. No.
It's only best to be with a woman of your social condition who has a pure and sincere heart.
Yeah that was 20 years ago, times are different, women are money hungry now.
@@Altair-El-Haddad
I hope you'll find the right one for you.
@@Altair-El-Haddad If you are pious, you will attract a woman who is pious. Don't worry about "Most of the women" part
@@nightrider6830 the world doesn't work like that, it isn't Disney world.
@@Altair-El-Haddad The world works just like that.Birds of same feather flock together. You will able to spot a good woman only when you are good and you know the characteristics of a good woman. Don't expect something you don't deserve. Yes, good women are rare. But just do your part and leave the rest to Allah.
MashaAllah…JazaakAllah Khair..for this much needed, and appreciated Clean Up Job. Respect due to ALL 🤲🏽👍🏽👌🏽🎯
Pleas don't put this Video down. It is one of the best streams.💪🏼❤️
I agree, Especially since Mahdi made excellent points. Bro HIJAB wasn't getting the point.
Both of them are my brothers🤝. Left you have a brother who tells the brother on right what he has done wrong and he admit it with beautiful humble. That's what our Ummah should do like our prophet peace be upon him said:"You are the best fellowship that rose for the people. You command the right and forbid the wrong and believe in Allah ... "
May Allah forgive our shortcomings. Amin.
Agree! Brother Hijab knocked the red pill out of this confused little man. 👌
@@equityjustice2695ur mahdi is misleading
@@equityjustice2695you're tapped in the head like your cult leader Tidjani ... Brother Muhammad Hijab totally destroyed this DAMAGED REJECT NARCISSIST in a way that he resorted to buttering brother Muhammad Hijab up
😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
EXACTLY....Love does give security to women ....we've been up and down and what kept us going was this...love....love requires patience,respect,communication,intimacy .....not money ....
@@user-kc8gz9dc3c yes, it is a duty in marriage brother.
Money does still play a role, agree with that it is not the absolute factor, but it is a important one, else why do you think people do work and do business.
@@user-kc8gz9dc3c I'm not a scolar to answer this question about divorce and I don't have the proper knowledge ; but I think they can work together to improve the relationship and if needed get qualified help from professionals (scholars, psychologist, doctor, etc).
Unless you're red pill then all you measure is the red on the baboons arse...
@@paikuhansensei815 nobody say they don't....just not as much and definately not the most important in relationships for women like many seem to believe somehow ....
This was all love and what a big man the guest was. Good on you all
*Main principles of Dawah*
- 1 Sincerity of the intention, that you are inviting people to Allah and no one else
- 2 Only speak what you know and stay away from subjects you have no knowledge of.
- 3 Be cautious, use your experience and utmost wisdom to call people to Allah.
Tijani learnt nothing from this discussion. The new video he made after this is spouting the same red-pill ideological nonsense. Brother Hijab, with all due respect, you were far too lenient with him. This disgusting new cancer in our community has to be rooted out.
will you denounce toxic feminism that's rising within Muslim women just as passionately?
@@samik3184 Akhi take back your words. You assume she is a feminist. I am a man, I don't agree with this red pill guy, neither do I support the feminist ideology.
@@samik3184 don't be silly, boy. Just because someone is against this filth that is red pill, doesn't make him or her a feminist. Red pill is as false as feminism.
@@samik3184 yes as a muslim women, I denounce the toxic ideology that is feminism and red pill! young Muslim children need to learn that Islam is complete, we don't need anything else!
Ofcourse women hate it. Youd rather watch Mufti Menk teach our youth to knit and continue to raise the collective estrogen levels of the ummah😂. Boys dont be fooled by anyone, do your own research and make your own decisions, and fear no one in the path of Allah. And if u can, be loyal.. to 4 women. 😊💪
47mins. What would the brother expect a woman who was sexually abused to do? She comes to Islam knowing it’s the truth to be judged and shunned by the Muslim men who wouldn’t choose her because of her past and deny her a chance of happiness? This is not Islam and defo not the sunnah
This guy is ridiculous. May Allah guide him. He sounds like a complete idiot and I'll be honest I feel sorry for whatever woman he is married to because from his views it sounds like he looks down on women and just sees them as a means for sexual satisfaction. He only takes on the responsibility of marriage because he gets to have sex. What a joke. We just need to look at the Prophet pbuh and his marriages. He showed so much love and mercy and compassion to his wives. He truly loved them. And was he not the best of men? He said about Khadijah ra "Her Love has intoxicated me." I mean come on. That's absolutely beautiful. Look at how the Quran talks about marriage, how Allah talks about marriage. Men and women are garments for one another. How beautiful is that? This man has reduced marriage done to the basics, stripped it of emotion and love, just a hollow contract, and made it an empty husk of what it should be. I feel sorry for the men who believe him. May Allah guide us all ameen.
@@aishaarshadalam3412 couldn’t agree with you more sis. Every woman has her journey and this man has no compassion. I agree. Feel sorry for any man or woman who listens to his rubbish. I can’t believe he had naima roberts on his podcast with her agreeing with him. I was shocked!
@@aishaarshadalam3412 "I feel sorry for the men who believe him" most of what he says about women is true.
@@Abu-Kurdi May Allah grant you better women figures in your life if you agree with this guys ideas. I'm sorry if you have a terrible mother, sister or wife who apparently are exactly like this guy describes.
@@aishaarshadalam3412 alhamdulillah i have a good mother and sister. my mother married my father even though he was poor, and the mahr was low. she was with my father in both his good and bad times. my father was always good to her, never abused her. i don't think i can have a better woman figure in my life. i don't always agree with mahdi, but he's right about a lot of what he says on women.
"Redpill" and "feminism" are two sides of the same coin in addition to being misnomers. Just looking at their advocates' knowledge of Islam, manners, behaviors and married-lives tells you enough about their respective movements.
Yeah and we can't kill Redpill before we kill feminism.
Any man who calls himself a 'high value man' 🤢
Who did that?
High valu man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I totally agree Mahdi has a worldly and secular idea of "high value" Man and Woman. Muhammad, Aisha, Khadija whe´re high valuable people because they did put there trust and faith in Allah and lived there relations like Allah wants it. With respect, kindness, humbelness and most of all faith.
I have to be honest, as a Hijab fan, I agree with Mahdi, high valuable/status man and income is a priority in marriage these days even in so called muslim society. Its not the sunnah way but hey, thats the way the cookie crumbles.
I say this because i had to go through this, i couldn't get married in the UK because i was broke while all my other friends could because they had money, car and a home(mortage) and the amount of bidah in the marriage ceremonies would put the ancient pagans to shame, as you know Islamic knowledge is never questioned when marriage is brought up. However, i had women lining up in Pakistan to marry me even though i was jobless, simply because i was a free ticket for them into the UK as this would raise the woman's status, her family will be like, 'my daughter lives in England now', she has a strong safety net.
My status was very high in Pakistan simply because of my British passport and nothing to do with my character/islamic principles.
Mahdi put it straight, Hijab is a VERY desirable man, and its not easy for him to relate to us. Im not so much into Mahdi (seen a few videos),
Make it a win win situation, and stop whining!
@@homtanks7259 not moaning just stated an opinion on how this discussion went.
And for the record, im happily married. (Alhamdulila)
@@freeyourmind7538 Al hamdulilah, brother. May Allah fulfill your prayers, amin.
It's hard bro finding the pious women.
@@homtanks7259 ♥
Ameen, and one of my prayers is to see you and chill with you in heaven 😉
I love this guys! This guys are lions!!!
Mahdi speaks a lot of what is in most man's minds
Which is far from Islam
@@areejshams3253 not really , I agree he has poor choice of words .
are you a mind reader?
And that is sad
Hijaab killed me😂😂😂😂😂 he was eating popcorn and chilling while grilling Mahdi!!!!😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️really I have never seen such a hilarious conversation!😂😂😂
Hijab quotes Quran and Sunnah
Mahdi quotes red pill movement.
Mahdi makes an excuse every time that it's a poor choice of words and that he agrees with Hijab, but goed makes videos against what he is saying.
Do you say the same when it comes to business, politics, law, etc?
@@consultmetech5841 apple and orranges?
@@kakarote100 How so? If red pill is a praxeology rooted in navigating the current paradigm, then surely capitalism is the same, as an example.
Islam has its own set of laws, policies, economics, etc. We would be foolish to ignore that reality in the name of "Qur'an and Sunnah," instead of navigating it through what is permissible. Red pill is the same.
Mahdi doesn't encourage brothers to commit zina, to engage in khalwa, or anything that will lead to it. He simply takes what is the current reality and adapts.
Anyone who doesn't adapt within the current financial system - for example - will be broke, save a few.
Likewise, the majority of Muslim men will be unmarried, lonely, and sexually frustrated if they are experiencing being single into their 30s IF they continue to follow the descriptive rules of hypergamy and modern feminism that exists in the west.
@@consultmetech5841 but he accusing muslim women of being virgin or not! and redpill movement has some truth but it is has a lot of falsehood, its pseudoscience and taking certain studies that agree with them but i must say there are some truth to it and we should deal with these issues regarding marrige! also he talks bad about divored women
@@consultmetech5841 do you think Islam doesn't cover those subjects? Redpill goes directly against the quran and sunnah. It's a disgusting ideology for weak incel losers.
MashaAllah!
Muhammad Hijab will InshaAllah be rewarded with a special place in Jannah, for the huge amount of effort he is making, in terms of guiding the muslim youth and preventing them from being misguided.
my wife had men in her life before me.. some men were kind to her and some not so kind... I was a virgin.. I knew it before I even married her....So what? We are 9 years married, going 10.. 4 kids and counting.. I am the happiest in my life.. I will never regret that decision of marrying her...
Happy for you!
As long as you are both happy and raising your kids with Islamic values, that's all that matters. May Allah bless you and your marriage.
Mash’Allah 🥺🥲 beautiful may Allah continue to bless your marriage.
Takes a different type of man to turn a blind eye to something like that. may Allah grant you barakah in this life and the next, ameen
Watching some other videos I felt Hijab was an egotistical man always on men's side and being harsh and unkind to women but this video has changed that. I can see that he genuinely does care about his wife and Muslim sisters. Appreciate this video. Both feminism and redpill are toxic.
as a revert muslim woman i really want to thank mohammed hijab for defending our honor
and i‘m quite disappointed to hear that there are brothers with this repulsiv mindset like mahdi‘s
may allah guide him🙁
What repulsive mindset?
All I see are facts, yes his language is questionable and needs to controlled which he has now changed a lot but the message still stands.
What exactly do you disagree?
@@muhammadomar1319trust me he didn’t change
Ughh, total and foolish ignorance. Our mothers and sisters. May Allah bless them, regardless of whether they completed their deen by marrying or not. Divorced or not. Inshallah he will learn as he gets older and wiser.
well said
this guy just making money
*Today*
*Everybody knows* the Price
of *Everything* and the Value
of Nothing
*And who Knows* it ALL Best
Except *ALLAH*
Mahdi getting checked by a real man 😮💨💪🏽 go on hijab may Allah bless you in every endeavour!
No one got checked
You hurt to hear the truth
And that’s from a woman telling you this
Real men more like a beta simp
@@JW-wh2jh loooool you’re sad asf to agree with mehdi 😂 and please don’t make me laugh you ain’t a woman. If you are your self worth must be in the gutter 😮💨🥴🥴🥴
Exactly what I said .
You know that Tidjani has competed in Luton's most strongest and won several powerlifting competitions? I doubt MH would beat him in wrestling
Islam is from Allah and Allah created Humanity and knows what they are more likely to follow and what fits them. Allah didn’t create this life for men or women. Allah created this life and divided different responsibilities for each to see who do better.
Always remember the key for heaven is not your gender or wealth or race…etc the key of heaven how to make all of this in the path that Allah created not what your desires created..~
Mahdi , was right the essence is still true
1:00:00
You nailed it brother
So called "Value Man = Qaroon"
Love most of the show and knowledge, excellently finished off. Love the ending of both saboor and hijab.
JazakumAllah khair brothers, Subboor in the end ma sha Allah dropped gems Allahuma barek♡ may Allah guide and bless mahdi as well...
Sumayah R.A. did not die for RasoulAllah s.a.w due to 'status'. She died for her deen, for her belief in Allah S.A.W. She died because she refused to turned back from the Kalimah.
We can't stop the foolish amongst us from going against each other *HOWEVER* including RasoulAllah s.a.w, his family or his companions needs to be a hard no zone.
As for this nonsense on both sides:
"The believing men and believing women are allies of one another. They enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong and establish prayer and give zakah and obey Allah and His Messenger. Those - Allah will have mercy upon them. Indeed, Allah is Exalted in Might and Wise".
Y’all forgetting that Khadija(ra) actually really loved thr prophet(pbuh) for his character ! No wonder she stayed with him and helped him with his wealth during the rough few years of prophethood where there was oppression and hunger !
How many women do you know who would love going for months on end eating only dates and drinking water in their household?
@L Drago
Vost is speaking facts
I think brother Tidjani is describing what he believes to be the reality on the ground.
And brother hijab is describing what the Islamic ideal should be. So for example:
Islamic ideal: marry someone for their piety and character.
Reality: most people marry for looks and Status.
Yeh but if you train the muslim community to the reality and propagate to conform to it, it is a defeatist mentality.
We should be propagating the ideal until it becomes reality, with the use of knowledge.
A reality does not make it right. If one day society was such that the reality became - the only way to get women was to give up your religion completely and chase money (because women now find that attractive) - it doesnt justify us doing and propagating that.
As muslims, we dont conform to the reality just because its reality. We seek to change that with our dawah. Reprogramming minds with islam the the haqq.
@@mohammed96011 Yeah, change their perception of reality so society has more deen minded people than duniya minded people. Tidjani and his followers themselves have become duniya minded to oppose other duniya minded people. Notice, how their topic of discussion is always about women, sex life, how to dominate women and how to look 'desirable'. Tidjani talking about these topics 24/7 in his channel, makes me wonder if this is all that swirl his mind. The deen is not in the heart. Such people perceives reality differently from the people of the deen.
These people are the victims of "ideological subversion". If you ask them they won't be able to tell you what it means.
Of course, you guys are right, we should strive for that Ideal. But it's easier said than done.
@@gajiburrahman7378 no one said it would be easy. Everything is earned in life.
@@kakarote100 you dont understand mahdi is saying what muslims women now days are asking for what the demand is hes saying be religios dont neglet deen but alos be suscesful and make money and hes speaking facts . musmim women want the basics 5 daily prayers zekat if yoy uave those is oke but when it comes to money thay wont more
A women will stay with her husband through thick and thin, if he treats her kindly and respects her. A woman will sacrifice everything to help him.
Muslim women and men should be respectful to each other, even if they disagree on some points.
With all due respect..it is the detail that makes the painting valuable and highly priced...
I would disagree with this point. What makes anything highly priced is scarcity and high demand. There's many detailed paintings that are selling for almost nothing.
@@MrDoubledDD not when it comes to paintings ..I have studied arts ...your disagreement means not much when it comes to this ...There is no high demand of paintings...the rarest with the best details and the oldest are the most expensive...The most expensive clothes,bags,shoes,bridal dresses are as such because of the details.... the most expensive cars are also expensive because of the details....demand doesn't make a thing more expensive actually ....it can very much make it cheaper as well....
@@andreeaboloca246 old paintings are valuable due to there being a set amount of it. If Picasso had a million paintings they would not be worth their current price. Cars, clothes etc the most valuable ones are the limit edition and only a set small amount are produced. Detail matters yes but I think scarcity is more important.
@@MrDoubledDD no there aren't...it is because of the details...they have to check the details to make sure are real and worth the price 🤦♀️
@@MrDoubledDD czcams.com/video/J7YRlz5ofY8/video.html
Here some short lessons :)
Use of proper language is always important. Don’t get stuck behind ego. You know what Allah says about ego.
I agree with him with regards to second wife.
As a Muslim revert this is quite shocking that this is even being brought up and the inappropriate language. Allah s.w.t is the most merciful and is the only judge in this dunyia.
Mohammed hijab maa sha allah with out love the is no relationship if a man does not love his wife the will be no strong marriage keep it up Muhammad.
Brother Hijab I really appreciate you and for having this discussion with this man.
I have seen half of this video and making this comment: I found problematic the approach br. Mahdi has taken. Actually, he has chosen the red pill over the shariah. I don't know if he realizes that. He was saying that to see the whole picture. By saying this he was referring to what the red pill study has shown and In general what humans desire. But don't he understand that the red pill prescription comes from the study of human desire or their thinking. But the shariah comes from the wisdom of Allah(swt.). If you ask random man in the street whom they prefer to marry, a divorcee or a virgin. Despite what the people have responded to, shariah is true not because of what human thinks or desires rather it's from Allah. The whole picture is "does sharia tell us not to marry a woman who has been divorced three times? Does shariah says those women are evil?" If not then we don't care what does red pill or a study says.
He saying a virgin woman is better for marriage than a non virgin woman. Not that you can’t marry a non virgin which isn’t the point he was making.. actually in the western world if you ask the man who would he marry he will say non virgin mostly because they have experience and know what they are doing and that going after a virgin woman is weird..
Everything the red pill community preaches shouldn't "theoretical" apply to a muslimah on her Deen. If a brother is looking for marriage simple avoid feminist problem solved you don't need the red pill communities.
@@tiktokasylum5186 this is against Islam
@@mustafaaziz343 what are you on about
.. please learn your Deen before talking about what’s against Islam.. here is a Hadith that’s encouraging virgins over divorced older woman.
Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah:
While we were returning from a Ghazwa (Holy Battle) with the Prophet, I started driving my camel fast, as it was a lazy camel A rider came behind me and pricked my camel with a spear he had with him, and then my camel started running as fast as the best camel you may see. Behold! The rider was the Prophet (ﷺ) himself. He said, 'What makes you in such a hurry?" I replied, I am newly married " He said, "Did you marry a virgin or a matron? I replied, "A matron." He said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you may play with her and she with you?" When we were about to enter (Medina), the Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Wait so that you may enter (Medina) at night so that the lady of unkempt hair may comb her hair and the one whose husband has been absent may shave her pubic region.
sunnah.com/bukhari/67/17-19
Wallahi most of us are just poisoned by western propaganda
This Guy is not entirely sincere when it come to his point of views. He does not have any acedemic background. He just define from his specific experience and generalise it to everyone else.
And how he spoke to the reverted sister. The fact that you first need to discuss with your “seniors” to know whether you want to apologise. You made a very bad call there. You are an adult man. Is it that difficult to define that for your self
As a Muslim brother, I gave up listening to this conversation after about 15 or 20 minutes. I was so disappointed with brother Mahdi's attitude towards women. Keep up the good work Muhammad Hijab, may Allah reward you, and may Allah bring light where there is darkness
Pursuit of women, men, wealth... Is making those things ilah ..false idols.
Pursue Allah...only He is worthy of worship. ❤️
Mahdi " men are the customer of women"....wow, his mom brought him up well...
No dont bring his mom into it. He himself is clearly hurt from past experiences and that is why he is saying such idiotic things.
@@maxezaz7694 oh pls....he is continually attacking women! He mom is defo so proud of him. His mom is a customer of men.
@@zarreen5467 its not beneficial to speak about his family members due to the fact that we never heard any evidence of hia family supporting this red pill belief of his. Also, how many people do things which their families are against? So the focus really should be on Mahdi alone.
@@maxezaz7694 then he needs to stop disrespecting ALL muslims sisters. I hate his guts. Lanat on him!
Honestly some of mahdi’s point are valid and evident around us if we’re not being disingenuous. Hijab successfully corrected some of mahdis point but to say he schooled him completely is a stretch. And i wish mahdi wasn’t being interrupted constantly by Hijab.
The simple life is underrated. Redpill guys and feminists can learn a thing or two from my mountainfolk grandparents.
Mountainfolk are not equipped for onslaught of the modern world, I'd say they'd do way worse. That said all three (Redpill guys and feminists, mountainfolk/older gen ) need to go back to the Quran and sunnah.
You are from Crazy mountain
Lol I like it
Welp, I'd better start packing for Afghanistan.
Brother hijab lots of respect!
Brother Mahdi defo got his heartbroken and has gone deep down the red pill rabbit hole to the point where his ass is sticking out of the hole which he then uses to demonstrate his arguments.
😂 😂
whatever lets you sleep peacefully knowing that mahdi gets more women than you...
@@hsundercover9234 I’m married so I really couldn’t care less, the fact that you had to bring that up shows how pathetic and miserable your life is😂 stop chasing women and get on your purpose brother.
@@hsundercover9234 You shouldn't use that argument as a muslim akhi comparing who gets the most girls
@@makaveliii2476 married monogamously* let's make that clear. because peasants can get 1 wife too.
Aaaah!!!! Mehdi trying to look chill!!😂😂 starts munching like squirrel does out of anxiety!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Basically, Brother Mehdi has two types of ideas
1) Correct ideas but he delivers them with bad language.
2) Unislamic ideas.
@بُب بُب Dont know why your defending MT though. Salafi Sheikh I've asked said do not listen to this person. Why didn't you ask the ulema first before promoting? Do you want the sin of misguiding people? Better to ask people of knowledge then give ur own opinion.
@بُب بُب sheikh assim al Hakeem. I asked him myself. Go ask him if you doubt me.. He has a website where you can ask I didn't mention his name just some of what he what he does/says. He said do not listen to this person. And before you go saying 'I don't take from him' Do you really think the senior ulema will agree with MT as they are far stricter in these things. Fear Allah. Stop promoting/ defending him. Soon I will try to ask the senior ulema if I can.
@بُب بُب no I specifically asked him about this individual. Not mentioning his name but what he specifically says and does Thats another fatwa of his ur talking about which was on red pill not MT. Ask him if you don't believe me. But no ur besotted with the guy
He was also imprisoned for beating his ex wife.
@بُب بُب I say it again. Go ask the sheikh if you don't believe me.
It seems to me that Mahdi had bad experience in the past and now he puts his cringe views on youtube which are outside Quran and Sunnah
they way he phrases it is also just werid ! also stuff like " women run out of value" . how can anyone talk about muslim sisters this way??? Alhamdulah in the eyes of Allah(swt) all belivers are held in high esteems due to our faith and good deeds and repentance!
@@strongwoman5129 you are right sister.
But with "high value" he means value in the "dating-marriage market".
Please understand things with it's real context.
A woman who is attractive has more possibilities to get married earlier for example and the same with a man ; it is because their "value in the marriage-dating" market is high because they are very demanded.
It's not difficult to understand this.
It has nothing to do with value as a human being and it's "worth"
Regardless of his past. This doesn't negate the truth of his message. Infact his past can actually give him a more enlightened view of things.
@@strongwoman5129 rather than policing his choice of words. You should see the value of his message. It's to prevent divorce and promote a more wholesome and stable life for both genders. Stop judging him base on your emotions. I thought you a "strong woman" 🤷♂️🥴
@@equityjustice2695 No, his past can say a lot about his intentions
When I seen the title of the video I didn't realise that by 'red pill' men you meant those types who have sex with women and throw them away. As one brother to br. Suboor and br.Hijab, thank you so much in talking about this and may Allah bless you guys. I did see the red pill movement working its way into young Muslims minds and it's so evil. Its just the flip side of feminism. On a personal level, I do agree that as a man I have to work on many things like my assertiveness and taking control of situations before I get married but insha'Allah I will get there, w/o any of this red pill nonsense.
You obviously don't understand what redpill is.
@@abdirahman292 exactly what a nacas fam
@@ahmedgurey7870 these beta men are comfortable living in fantasy lala land and they happy to perpetuate it to young men.
@@abdirahman292 what beta ideas were perpetuated in this vid?
That’s not what red pill is fundamentally based upon. It’s just mainly avoiding marriage and commitment to modern women due to the gynocentric laws in the west and liberation of women.
you dont talk like that about your mothers (ummahatulmumineen) as if they married the prophet for worldly status. may Allah guide us. ameen.
This guy has gotten his knowledge from the fresh and fit podcast, where they bring a panel of women and put them on the spot and speak about high value men yada yada yada blah blah blah the thing is a high value man doesn't refer to themselves as high value. Islam is perfect and the teachings of the prophet are complete. Women and men need to follow the sunnah not red pill
What hijab has done here, making a presentation of mahdis clips while he was arguing with a woman, if mahdi does the same with hijabs speakers corner videos and debates he had it will not be very hard to prove hijab something similar. You should not have such confronting attitude towards muslim brother. Hijab didn’t have any major points but mahdis poor choice of words.
I think most Muslim women don't care about money as much as they care about the man's character. But this is my opinion from how I and the women (muslim and non muslim) I've met, feel. He could be rich but if he doesn't respect me, I'd rather be alone. The only way I can see a woman caring about a man's money more than his character is if she needs his money to support the lifestyle she needs/wants, or she wants someone who has the same amount of money as her or more because she doesn't want to feel used, but even in many cases some women go for men who make less money than them (like me for example, at first my husband made a lot less than me but now we are somewhat equal). And I know women who have left their husbands even if it meant they had to be homeless, purely because of how bad their husband's character was. I know a handful of women (muslim and non muslim) right now who are looking for a spouse/partner and money was literally never mentioned and most of the men they are choosing make less money than them.
And when he mentioned the fact that men have more power over women because they make more money... Why do you think feminism started?? Why do you think women want to be financially independent??? it's because of this stupid mentality and lack of respect for stay at home wives/mothers. We are tired of being disrespected and some women would prefer to be alone than to be with some arrogant man who thinks that just because he makes money he can talk to you how he likes and boss you around and order you around like you are his maid/s*x slave. The fact is men like this are entitled. They are upset that women are not falling at their feet and they need to blame anything but themselves (e.g.: They don't have money) and if they can't fix that well then they start abusing women by taking away their rights and doing everything they can to lower our confidence in hopes that we would even notice stupid men like him. It's extremely manipulative but they do it because they know, no respectable woman would waste their time with them. Instead of just trying to be a genuinely good Muslim man, he'd rather do what he wants and blame everything else for his issues. They see women as some candy machine. If you put a quarter in it, candy will come out, the more you put, the more candy comes out. Women are complex, and not all of us are the same. And I would not say that most women care about money as much as he makes it seem. Yes it is important, but there are many other factors women consider.
This man clearly does not understand what marriage is. He's just stripped it down to black and white and hollowed it out. It's emotionless the way he talks about marriage. For instance there was a part in this video where he said a man only marries to get sex. That's the only reason he would marry and the only reason he would shelter and feed and support a wife is so that he can get sex in exchange. I'm sorry but that's not marriage at all. Yes, intimacy is a part of marriage but it's not the only part. Does a man not feel any care or compassion towards his wife and wants to shelter and provide for her? Does a man not want companionship and friendship and love? I'm seriously thinking this guy must have either had a terrible father who showed a terrible example of being a husband or he just didn't have one. How else can someone come to the conclusion that this is all a wife is for? So when a wife can no longer provide intimacy then he can divorce her and move on? If she has a long term illness or anything that would prevent intimacy would a husband leave her? A man like that is not a man. He's just a terrible person. And his wife is better off without him. May Allah grant us spouses and offspring who will bring us peace and be a coolness to our eyes. Ameen.
This is so true! You worded that so perfectly. Love it.
Let's say there are 4 men. One earns 20k, next one 40k, the other one 60k and the last one 80k. All of them being a good practicing Muslim. Who is going to be chosen by a woman who is considering a marriage? Obviously the 80k guy! And, all men want to be the 80k guy. So, yeah money is an inescapable reality.
@@Blaze72sH Depends on the kind of woman she is. Her needs and her character.
@@96muslimgirl seems like you don't want to say it. Let me tell you the woman will go for the 80k guy. Why would she reject the 80k for the 40k guy when they both are good practising Muslim?
Conclusion, he is a mess and he should stop 🛑 talking in the name of Islam in any way.
* If he insists He should represent him self only