When the Avoidant Just Doesn’t Care & What You Need to Do

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
  • #avoidant #avoidantattachment #breakupadvice

Komentáře • 18

  • @lizardluminals9324
    @lizardluminals9324 Před měsícem +16

    It’s really painful when someone you care about has deactivated towards you. One moment everything is fine, the next moment it’s like you’re absolutely nothing to them that they can’t even acknowledge you.

  • @beatamonikawiktoria
    @beatamonikawiktoria Před 28 dny +1

    Thank You.

  • @tabarnakopoulos
    @tabarnakopoulos Před měsícem +1

    I did the best thing when she discarded me, 5½ months ago. I mourned the relationship and moved on. Never looked at her social media and never got curious about what she's up to. It was hard at first, but today, I'm happy to have stood my ground and be where I'm at!

  • @zevfarkas5120
    @zevfarkas5120 Před měsícem +1

    In some cases, you might want to think about what you might have done that made the other person stop caring.

    • @PreparewithRealEstate
      @PreparewithRealEstate Před 26 dny

      Have you been watching her videos? They're themed for us that love avoidants.

  • @petitcoeur-q6r
    @petitcoeur-q6r Před měsícem +1

    Yep I’ve given up trying to make them care. He ghosted me three weeks ago and I’m not reaching out to them. They know how to contact me. I tried so much to make it work but they gave nothing.

  • @johnny4062
    @johnny4062 Před měsícem +1

    And then what? Wait for them to come back? Or dump them and find someone who will care?

    • @theheartbreakhypnotherapist
      @theheartbreakhypnotherapist  Před měsícem +4

      Depends on what you want. Do you want more of the same with that person, do you think there’s scope for the relationship to change and grow into something that would allow your needs to be met or do you want something different with someone different?

  • @Aufwiedersin
    @Aufwiedersin Před měsícem

    Its ben 47 days and Inam still struggling. 35 days of my last contact and ghosting. Should I give up and accept that he never cares about me?

    • @MakaXFG
      @MakaXFG Před měsícem

      Depends, is that the type of relationship you want?

    • @ritapeters1330
      @ritapeters1330 Před měsícem +2

      Yes, you should give up if you are ready

    • @theheartbreakhypnotherapist
      @theheartbreakhypnotherapist  Před měsícem +2

      You need to protect your own peace of mind, does he add to this or take away from it?

  • @Nonfiction.Reader
    @Nonfiction.Reader Před měsícem +1

    Thank you.