WHY EVERYONE SUCKS AT DATING. (EP. 50)
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(EP. 50) WHY EVERYONE SUCKS AT DATING. The fellas talked about some of theirs trials and tribulations when it comes to dating. The interesting part of the conversation is, they were the focal point, looking inward and seeing where they personally couldâve been better was the focus of this episode.
There were many takeaways regarding accountability, vulnerability and relational discipline.
Dating with a purpose is dating to find someone to create and sustain a healthy relationship. Think of dating like interviewing someone for the most important role as your partner. Itâs important to prepare, plan, and decide what you want and who you need to be, for what you want.
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I donât see anything toxic about Lori HarveyâŠsheâs literally just dating like anyone else. People are just in her business and making A LOT of assumptions because she doesnât talk.
AMEN
Agreed, people just canât stand to see women being highly selective and disposing of those who donât align đ€·đŸââïž
Lori is progressive. Future comes with multiple baby mothers and doesn't care about all the broken homes he created (hence part of the toxicity). Comparing future and Lori is like comparing apples to sneakers.
Yea Iâm surprised they barely mentioned that. Duke slightly brought it up, but they didnât explicitly give that comparison haha
We definitely need a Know For Sure and Nice & Neat Collab. I think the conversation would be amazing!!
We most definitely do !!!!!!!!!
Duke said a WORD about lazy dating!! Itâs partially our fault though for not requiring more.
Great discussion kings đ„đ„đ„đ„đ„đ„
Itâs becoming difficult to know who ACTUALLY likes you, nowadays. Guys will just talk to you just to kill time, while they juggle other women
YUP. Girls too.
Ohhh thatâs a word!!
@@ImPerfectlyTwitta thatâs wack af, either way. I donât see how people can even sleep at night knowing that they are actively toying with people. đ€·đŸââïž
Facts
Women do the same. Just had someone waste my time about a month agoâŠshit crazy
LightSkin Keisha would be awesome. She's so level headed and I love her take on relationships.
I like this convo with Lori Harvey, I think she can date for whatever reason she wants.. Toxic to me implies lying, cheating, verbally abusive etc..
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I think a lot of women are told if you date multiple men or leave a relationship, âyouâll never find better and youâre a h*eâ.. Sheâs 25, enjoying her Life, never speaks negatively about her exes, and looks beautiful doing it.. Doesnât drag out a relationship when itâs over just for perception or shame.. Definitely some qualities everyone could take from that philosophy..
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Love the convo â€ïž
I really enjoy listening to you guys perspective. It's refreshing to hear young men with such character. I am older with not much experience in the dating world bc I married young and was married 23 years. I've been single 6 years and I'm sad that dating is so difficult. I'm Ole school and I value connection so online dating doesn't work for me. Your show helps me understand that I'm not alone and understanding myself as a single woman and adjusting to the climate that society has created. Thanks again for investing in our community. Respectfully
I would love to see Shan Boody from lovers and friends podcast and B. Simone and Megan from the know for sure podcast on here. The convo would be amazinggg
Agreed, Shan Boody would be amazing
Omggg yes love this idea
Intentionality has been my mantra for the past year. Iâve fallen into my relationships byway of situationships and didnât really even know the person well.
Doing the self work now so I can use better discernment. âš
You brothers have no idea how much I needed this video. In a past relationship my ego would be hurt instead of me taking it as constructive critics. I found myself going crazy in situations that should have made me laugh. I'm going to be slower in relationships, dating and ask my partner what I can do better once in a while. This vid is golden!
10 minutes in and I already know this is going to be a good convo.....Keep up the good work guys. Duke has such a good head on his shoulders and perspective.
Fact check: The woman who was in the car accident was actuallyproven to not be drinking, or having an argument with her boyfriend. She was a nurse and was asked to leave by the hospital for having a mental breakdown during her shift. Still enjoyed the episode!
Thank you! đ„đ„đ„
Iâm with Omar she isnât toxic for her to date to find her person. People fail to realize she was in a long term relationship really young and was almost married. Something happened that made her realize she shouldnât settle and that is ok. The whole narrative of being toxic is loosely used these days. Future is considered toxic for making babies in different households same thing Nick is doing not necessarily dating!
It takes such a blow to my ego to say, "I NEED MENTORSHIP LIKE THIS FROM MEN" but my emotional space needs this. Great King Talk..
Definitely need to do a Know for Sure x Nice and Neat collab!! đđŸđđŸđđŸ Loved, loved, loved this episode!
For sureeee! â€
Yes we are out here looking for love! Lol. Progression is always the end goal. If someone is showing you that they are not willing to step up to the plate and make the necessary changes first for themselves, and then the relationship.. There's nothing wrong with walking away đ€·đŸââ No matter who it is. Better will come once you know you deserve it.
Always look forward to these episodes & I'm happy to see y'all doing great đđŸđđ„
You done said a word!! This is exactly where I am at. I'm out here looking but I've been meeting men that are not matching my worth. So, I've been doing a lot of walking away and I feel so proud of myself.
I think this is a great topic to start a conversation but I donât think Lori is neither toxic nor progressive, I think sheâs a young lady in her 20âs dating in public with no need to settle down. Sheâs said publicly sheâs finding herself. As Wendy Williams would say â in your 20âs, date them allâ until you learn what you like. Glad you guys are back, yâall on here talking that talk! đ„
This half-time topic is spicy! lol Shout out to Omar, because I believe he has a better understanding of what dating entails. We have to remember that Lori is about 25 years old and she's at the height of her career. She may be looking for love, but since she's successful at such a young age, her needs may be different than the average woman. We don't know what happened with her in her last relationship, but we haven't seen her out and about with a new man, so comparing her to Future, who has like 8 kids with 8 different women is very sexist! Leaving relationships that aren't serving you anymore is progressive, and many more women should do the same. Glad you guys are back :)
on a weekly/bi weekly basis I do the checking with my best friend (a dude) and my girl (emotionally, physically, mentally, talk about money, goals, etc.) so itâs good to see that thatâs a new practice other ppl do with their inner circles as well
Yeah me too next relationship Iâm going to take my time to know the person and develop a friendship first!!!
I think Future is looked at as toxic because heâs having kids with some of these ladies and then leaving! Lori is just dating.
Welcome back fellas!!
Great episode. Every episode tops the other
Great content and great questions. I love that you guys really think about what youâre saying before you say it. Also happy to hear more from Jalon in this episode. I try to click on the ads when watching so yâall can get a profit, keep up the good work fellasâŒïžđđżđđż
NICE AND NEAT!!!!! This is dopeee guys. I listen to every single episode. Keep.it up!!!
I love this podcast. Thank you gentlemen for great topics like this and giving a thoughtful and calm opinion based on your experience and the experience of others. You guys really are Nice and Neat.
Such amazing episode, the narrative is so profound and mind blowing and, a whole of food for thought⊠đđŸ
Great episode Iâm really reflecting on myself and Iâm tryna hold myself accountable for my actions and words đŻ
This was such a powerful episode with a lot of key takeawaysđđŸ
I think it's misogynistic to even ask if what Lori Harvey is doing is toxic. She's a young woman and dating around. That's it.
How can she be compared to Future who has created 9 broken homes and counting?
"If she's just dating and doing it because it's fun and she's young, I think that's toxic" how could that be considered toxic? đ
Exactly
This was so good!!!!! âđŸ and yes for the live Q and A!
Any mission without a goal donât make sense! đđđ
I would like to see B.Simone and her best friend come on the show!
I would like to see yâall Collab with #KnowForsure Podcast
@ 42:20 ⊠that quote! I too feel this way, Iâm not sure if I met the man of my dreams but for me it is necessary to take care of areas where I feel I may come up short before going into a serious relationship or even dating intentionally.
Iâm happy to see yâall back
Iâm so glad you guys are backđ€đ„°
yess... the ladies (this lady) of nice and neat is looking for love, but more so looking to perfect the type of love i can and will give to my future man. which is why this podcast, from three men's perspective, is SO important. so much value.
Congrats guys for joining revolt network !!
Most definitely a live Q&A would be awesome.
I would LOVE to see yâall have Shan Boody, both Bridget and Mandi from âsee the thing isâ podcast, and yâall at some point HAVE to get Jessie Woo on here fam.
I love Shan!! Sheâs been doing this for a super long time and dating, sex, and relationships is her realm. I would love for them to bring her on for a sex convo because it would be fun and educational. TBH they should be on her podcast as well.
Iâm lookin for love and my good brother in the middle w the locs, said đđœ the đđœtruthđđœđđœ!! I just started watching so Iâm learning yalls names, please forgive me đđœđđŹ but Lori is just dating. Sheâs not out here sliding and having babies like future. Thatâs what makes him toxic. Plus heâs older than her and still not tryin to settle down w anyone (so they say! Lol)
Really loving this episode so farâŠ
Yâall gotta have all 3 of your significant others on for the ladies!
Great Episode!
That was a bar đ„đ„
âwe are doing the bare minimum to get the maximum out of the next personâ -Duke
Duke & his dance moves are unmatched lmao.
Personally I would like to see your partners on the show
Yes Live Q&A Tour so I can see yâall in ATL
I liked Dukeâs story at 38:49. Solid point made đđœ
KFS , know for sure! Get the ladies on there!
Love the perspectives on this episode. Would love to see quotes from your previous episodes on your merch! We need Bsimone and Meghan on nice and neat!! And also the lady whose tweet Jalon referred to.
You guys should have Shan Booty on the show! I think that would be so dope!
I love it here. The dating pool is scary. I only know to let God lead me cause Iâll make mistakes that I can avoid without him.
A collaboration with Know For Sure podcast would be so interesting!!
Tagging myself âšđđŸâ
Great episode per usual. Would love to see you bring your partners back for that female energy
A collab with the ladies from Know For Sure podcast would be great (B.Simone and Megan)
Future is toxic because of the things he says and the way he treats/openly disrepects the women he dates. Lori is just livin her life dating, while in the public eye. There's nothing toxic about dating until you find what you want
A woman looking for love, looks like a woman dating on her own terms. If it doesn't service you , don't stay , move on. That's what Lori is doing . It's progressive.
Well said. âšâš
I would love to see Pour Minds on the podcast and I also love the Q&A idea as well
Lori just did an interview with Teyana Taylor about this. Sheâs dating for love but she stated who she wanted when she was 23 isnât who she wants when sheâs 24. She canât live her life based on who sheâs âinfluencingâ
In regard to the open Q&A.. Yâall should allow a segment where people can call in and ask questions
I would also like to see Lip Service with Angela yee on the show
B.Simone & Meg on nice & neat!!!
Iâd love to see yâall interview Tabitha Brown!
Unsure if itâs just me but thereâs no link for the merchandise on the linktree?
Iâd fly out to LA for the live Q&A, from Atlanta
Man duke's point at 37:28 hit me like a two piece
Omg! I would love to see Angelica Ross on your podcast. I feel they could be a new perspective and great conversations!
Lets GO OMAR! WE MOVE TOO FAST. Forever is a long-term game.
B. Simone & Megan Brooks from KNOW FOR SURE Podcast âŁïžđđŸ
Know for sure podcast
"Is this hurting me or my ego." That was my biggest take away, damn i hve to do the work. Lol
â @Jessie Woo deserves an invitation!
Yâall should definitely have âSix The Goddisâ on the show!
Also Roxane Gay! Omg - she would be so great!!! Sheâs the author of Bad Feminist. Great book, I highly recommend. But she is so great and I feel like her perspective and what she has to say would be a great addition to your podcast!
Yâall could do listener questions if live QA is a big commitment.
Would love to see Shan Boodram, B Simone & Megan Brooks, or even just bring Candice and Chanel back on.
They got a new camera b/c this look like a movie đ€š
A sit down with Issa Rae, Iâm speaking it into existenceâŠđžđđ!
Iâd be interested in hearing all speak to Tony Gaskins, he has a lot of content on dating etc.
Yes, TG would be a good one!
Iâd be so down for a Q&A but not in north Hollywood and the Valley. Thatâs a push lol.
Cynnamon RĂ© would be a nice addition to the nice & neat family. đ
I would love for yâall to sit down with Khadeen and Devale Ellis and interview them about h
The success of their relationship and marriage. I love their podcast I feel like the collab would be amazing.
Shan Boody x100 !!!
Shan boodram would be great to have on the show!
Get April Mason on here!!!
B Simone & Megan Ashley from the Know For Sure podcast would be great guests đ«¶
Iâm sorry but Jalon you lost me with the âI wouldnât want my daughter doing thatâ What Lori is doing that you are so against ? as far as we know sheâs dating like most women in their 20 so you wouldnât want your daughter to date or you would want your daughter to stay in a situation just so people wonât say that she jump from man to man ?
Yâall should have Love Your Natural (aka Bella Barz) on here
I really think IamKiraJ would be such a great feminine touch to this podcast! I believe that was the person Jalon was speaking about when she tweeted that the guy was out of her league! I love her! Sheâs great with doing inner work!
Amirah from self care and chill with Maui would be nice female energy. Also would like another episode with the ladies in your life đ«¶đŸ
Iâm confused like O. Calling Lori H, the female Future??? Thatâs grossly unequivalent!!
Whatâs toxic about literally choosing to date WHO you want when you want? Sheâs not misleading anyone or leaving babies.
People just donât like that she moves unapologetically. And a lot of ppl would hang onto Michael & Future. She got OPTIONS. DEAL!
ExactlyâŠ..it made no sense
I donât think he meant any harm because people do call that. They didnât bring up futureâs baby mommas which is why he is deemed toxic.
i wanna see blue tulesma , jessie woo , bridget kelly there really good at poding
-Nice and Neat ft Know for Sure
-Lightskin Keisha
KFS!
Why is it âprogressiveâ to watch a woman date? Like Omar said if you arenât happy leave. Whatâs so âtoxicâ about that? Sheâs a beautiful girl and if she wants some fine man candy on her arm⊠let the purse match the shoes darling! She could be dating for love but she could also be dating because she likes dating. Sheâs dating like other women do, we just see her on ENews. Nothing major or âprogressiveâ about it lol
Hey ! I think you guys should invite B.Simone and Meghan . I think you guys will mesh well !
B. Simone & Megan Brooks!!!
You should bring in Jessie Woo.
Issa Rae would be awesome on the show, since sheâs from LA too.