36 Questions That Make Strangers Fall In Love (The LAB)

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    ALL 36 QUESTIONS:
    Set I
    1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
    2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
    3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
    4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
    5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
    6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
    7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
    8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
    9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
    10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
    11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
    12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
    Set II
    13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
    14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
    15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
    16. What do you value most in a friendship?
    17. What is your most treasured memory?
    18. What is your most terrible memory?
    19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
    20. What does friendship mean to you?
    21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
    22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.
    23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
    24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
    Set III
    25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “
    26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “
    27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
    28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
    29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
    30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
    31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
    32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
    33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
    34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
    35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
    36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.
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Komentáře • 9K

  • @ReneMcLaren
    @ReneMcLaren Před 7 lety +4061

    they're going into it with the expectation of falling in love

    • @boompowbop
      @boompowbop Před 7 lety +180

      Yeah exactly! it's the guinea pig effect

    • @poppyshauna
      @poppyshauna Před 7 lety +75

      Autumn Rosetta placebo effect you mean hahaha

    • @boompowbop
      @boompowbop Před 7 lety +43

      Shauna Bellew no I definitely mean guinea pig effect lol look it up

    • @colonelbrando
      @colonelbrando Před 7 lety +135

      participant bias

    • @mariaz4936
      @mariaz4936 Před 7 lety +92

      Rene McLaren ikr if they set it up as like a blind date thing or whatever it would've more fair

  • @haileydunn284
    @haileydunn284 Před 8 lety +1394

    "I like your face."
    "Oh thanks, your face is very symmetrical."
    Weirdest conversation ever

  • @breadhurts
    @breadhurts Před 7 lety +1379

    me: "i like your face, its a nice face"
    crush: ".."

  • @shh7252
    @shh7252 Před 7 lety +1096

    "Ohh I like your face..."
    "Ya I would definitely make out with you"
    He should win an award

  • @sattitude2652
    @sattitude2652 Před 7 lety +3396

    "I like your face, it's a nice face."
    Literally me when I try to flirt 😂

    • @stealing_society
      @stealing_society Před 7 lety +2

      Lucy Castro lmao same

    • @sattitude2652
      @sattitude2652 Před 7 lety +2

      Kinglom lol

    • @franceswelsh304
      @franceswelsh304 Před 7 lety

      Same

    • @HLB313
      @HLB313 Před 7 lety +51

      I like to tell people they have great ears. It's fun because they can't look at their own ears, but they will try to.

    • @3DN0oB
      @3DN0oB Před 7 lety

      Ha ha ha 4:01

  • @commonsense9610
    @commonsense9610 Před 8 lety +3217

    "i like your face"
    academy award winning pick up line

  • @Chimp221211
    @Chimp221211 Před 7 lety +864

    "Buster and Fluffy should meet one day"
    myyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy nigga.

  • @yazzze
    @yazzze Před 7 lety +551

    A Lot of these questions are very personal and emotional.
    If both are truthful and willing to share, it's a good chance they will get some feelings for each other.

    • @danbouckaert3475
      @danbouckaert3475 Před 6 lety +1

      Daniel Jackson 135th like

    • @jakevanzandy1123
      @jakevanzandy1123 Před 6 lety +11

      I agree. If this was a normal setting both parties wouldn’t necessarily talk so personally to each other.

    • @rockstar-mt6gp
      @rockstar-mt6gp Před 6 lety

      Daniel Jackson , i agree

    • @onee
      @onee Před 5 lety +2

      Daniel Jackson Yeah, if you read the study, it's not necessarily about the questions, but more about being mutually vulnerable towards each other which fosters closeness.

  • @Crick1952
    @Crick1952 Před 7 lety +3337

    Who else is figuring out how to ask their crush these questions in casual conversation 🙋

  • @DolphinsRule931
    @DolphinsRule931 Před 8 lety +7358

    Kid: "Dad, how'd you meet mom?"
    Dad: "We signed up for this experiment on CZcams..."
    Kid: O.O

    • @gracemalacad6155
      @gracemalacad6155 Před 8 lety +17

      hahahahahaha

    • @MaxAires
      @MaxAires Před 8 lety +78

      +Dolphins Rule
      Kid: "Dad, how'd you met mom?"
      Dad: "We signed up for this experiment on CZcams..."
      Kid: ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

    • @rodrigoappendino
      @rodrigoappendino Před 8 lety +112

      +M4SS6S
      Kid: "Dad, how'd you met mom?"
      Dad: "We signed up for this experiment on RedTube..."
      Kid: ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

    • @adekurniawan8907
      @adekurniawan8907 Před 8 lety +46

      +Rodrigo Appendino
      Kid: "Dad, how'd you met mom?"
      Dad: "We signed up for this experiment on RedTube..."
      Kid: I see what you did there ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

    • @AdnanAhmed
      @AdnanAhmed Před 8 lety +1

      +Dolphins Rule haha

  • @JohannaMariaAnette
    @JohannaMariaAnette Před 7 lety +708

    Read about this in a magazine, did it on a date with a guy I'd just met. That was two years ago and we're still together to this day. It really works!

    • @katieg905
      @katieg905 Před 7 lety +4

      Johanna Sjostrand how dju do it dju tell him or what

    • @bettylupu4440
      @bettylupu4440 Před 7 lety +16

      Now I wanna do this to my crush😂 but my bff will probably kill me😂😂 (she have a crush om him 2)

    • @Bellachris75
      @Bellachris75 Před 7 lety +4

      Johanna Sjostrand What did you tell him omg give me some tips

    • @JohannaMariaAnette
      @JohannaMariaAnette Před 7 lety +68

      Actually told him at the end of our first date that I'd read about these questions that make you fall in love, then I asked if he wanted to fall in love with me haha. So I don't think you can lure people into doing the questions, be straightforward! If they're not into it they're probably boring and not worth your time anyways!

    • @mmubarak5808
      @mmubarak5808 Před 7 lety +2

      I love you

  • @thierryboissiere6963
    @thierryboissiere6963 Před 7 lety +2209

    They shouldn't have been told what the experience was about

  • @spookysoup9
    @spookysoup9 Před 7 lety +3961

    "I like your face, that's a nice face"
    Me trying to flirt

  • @HeyYouPMme
    @HeyYouPMme Před 8 lety +3573

    It works, I fell in love with both of them.

  • @paula.nasmith
    @paula.nasmith Před 7 lety +585

    You should never tell the participants the aim of the study beforehand

    • @karencash39
      @karencash39 Před 5 lety +7

      Ikr then they know what to say and do to get around it

    • @user-ut7wi1if9q
      @user-ut7wi1if9q Před 4 lety +15

      Unless you’re studying the placebo effect -or want it to interfere with the results of the study, you definitely shouldn’t

    • @mariaaraujo1912
      @mariaaraujo1912 Před 4 lety +2

      Ok But then have them fall in love without their consent🧐 I think it’s better that they told them

    • @kalinatankova3578
      @kalinatankova3578 Před 4 lety +2

      Quite the opposite, because they have been told what might happen they subconsciously search for signs, which makes it easier.

  • @nishikanttyagi6145
    @nishikanttyagi6145 Před 7 lety +365

    these guys fell for each other in like 5 min and I can't even get a text back!

    • @theblessedlife2376
      @theblessedlife2376 Před 5 lety +1

      Nishikant Tyagi 😂😂😂 good one bro

    • @PhuongThao-lp7ff
      @PhuongThao-lp7ff Před 5 lety +3

      Nope, it took much more time but they edited this video and make it shorter. The list include 36 questions and as u see they just answered a few of them in this vid. I did this experiment and it took us around 1 hour and half. But who would want to watch video that long?

    • @The_Beast_666
      @The_Beast_666 Před 5 lety

      Nishikant don't be ignorant. No they have not fallen for each other at all. It's just an experiment and they could have said that because they were being filmed. I hope the very best for both of them.

    • @crystalstanborough4053
      @crystalstanborough4053 Před 5 lety +1

      cause you have no self esteem ! dont ask...take charge.... like, " so we going to byger king or kfc" , done deal ( nicer food joint then that obviously....

    • @publixpopcornchicken6141
      @publixpopcornchicken6141 Před 5 lety

      @ashish kumar BHqhabhaahahb L,FAOAOAHOABSKQHAJAF

  • @andivangreer
    @andivangreer Před 8 lety +2282

    I feel like the placebo effect took action here...

    • @emmanuel7283
      @emmanuel7283 Před 8 lety +5

      +party penguins
      to some extent though

    • @charlestwoo
      @charlestwoo Před 8 lety +155

      +party penguins It took way to much scrolling to find this. No scientifically valid experiment tells the subjects what the the expected outcome is. RIDICULOUS for a so called science channel.

    • @daddyleon
      @daddyleon Před 8 lety +29

      +party penguins You mean self-fulfilling prophecy?

    • @johnmeo1532
      @johnmeo1532 Před 8 lety +10

      Very true, and also how random was the selection? Also, I wouldn't want to act like a jerk during an "experiment" in which I'm supposed to fall in love.

    • @livelaughlovingthroughlife
      @livelaughlovingthroughlife Před 8 lety

      yees 😂😂😂

  • @AsapSCIENCE
    @AsapSCIENCE  Před 8 lety +5056

    Give the video a thumbs up if you want us to follow-up with Cam and Emily in the near future!

  • @Niallokk
    @Niallokk Před 7 lety +898

    "Do you like memes?"

  • @min1705
    @min1705 Před 7 lety +377

    "I would definitely make out with you" Ok....

  • @BearsThatCare
    @BearsThatCare Před 8 lety +2753

    You should try this with one person that is subjectively ugly.

    • @AlcarazClips
      @AlcarazClips Před 8 lety +12

      Gd point

    • @supermonkeyyyyyy
      @supermonkeyyyyyy Před 8 lety +18

      +Bear McBear MC Subjectively? But then since beauty is subjective there will be people who find that person beautiful.

    • @ProFoxPlayer
      @ProFoxPlayer Před 8 lety +11

      +supermonkeyyyyyy He means that you think that person is ugly

    • @gregchan7976
      @gregchan7976 Před 8 lety +4

      +NathanPowellx47 no it is subjective

    • @notsobigboi
      @notsobigboi Před 8 lety +27

      maybe we should try you

  • @lynn3570
    @lynn3570 Před 7 lety +1859

    me: do you have a secret hunch on how you die?
    crush: wtf

    • @andreamandic3010
      @andreamandic3010 Před 7 lety +7

      Fabio Alexandrino HAAHASH IM DYING HAHAHAA litteraly

    • @TheZesto
      @TheZesto Před 7 lety +4

      Leen the Queen 😂😂😂😂

    • @2TheSponge2
      @2TheSponge2 Před 7 lety +8

      this comment omg xD

  • @priyajoshi2323
    @priyajoshi2323 Před 7 lety +1237

    okay cool but what happened with them? It's like when the season ends in a cliff hanger

  • @SHADOWB3AR
    @SHADOWB3AR Před 7 lety +186

    "I like your face" pickup Line of the century XD

  • @SergheyKatastrofenko
    @SergheyKatastrofenko Před 7 lety +3037

    When you make an experiment that involves people, you don't tell your subjects what you expect from the experiment, because it might influence the outcome.

    • @nisot8401
      @nisot8401 Před 7 lety +6

      Marius Gabriel Lupu yes but people are not sure if it's really ethical to not tell them about the experiment.

    • @SergheyKatastrofenko
      @SergheyKatastrofenko Před 7 lety +11

      Nisot X, yes, on the other side you need their agreement to be able to publish the result. But if the experiment is not harmful to them, I don't really see the problem. In this case, telling them it's a social experiment (although lately this term is misunderstood, thanks to CZcams) would be enough. Experiments that involve the consciousness, like this one, are very likely to be altered by the subjects themselves, merely by knowing what is to be expected of them. Of course, other types of experiments should be fully disclosed, especially if it's about something that the subjects can not control (like the reaction of their bodies to different stimuli, for instance).

    • @SergheyKatastrofenko
      @SergheyKatastrofenko Před 7 lety +1

      But then again, this video does not claim to be scientific in any way, so it's ok. I was just saying that this experiment is of no real value.

    • @hufflepuffxxxx
      @hufflepuffxxxx Před 7 lety +1

      Omg did u take Ap statistics??

    • @itzahiraramos-gonzalez5429
      @itzahiraramos-gonzalez5429 Před 7 lety +2

      TaeTaeisBae you don't need to take ap stats to know that haha but you learn it in ap psych as well! Also, love your profile pic

  • @emmeepoop69
    @emmeepoop69 Před 7 lety +2427

    I feel like this could work really well if they didn't know what the experiment was. Knowing that they're sorta under pressure to fall in love can trick people actually into feeling in love.

    • @kennedyb.1683
      @kennedyb.1683 Před 7 lety +11

      Emma Larking yeah that's exactly what I was thinking

    • @rafirapii
      @rafirapii Před 7 lety

      Emma Larking yeah the purpose of the experiment could be suggestion to them for falling in love at the first sight

    • @salexxbrown1985
      @salexxbrown1985 Před 7 lety +52

      Emma Larking fr if someone tells me I like a certain person, I will unconsciously begin to like them.

    • @nada-fp1cx
      @nada-fp1cx Před 7 lety +1

      agree

    • @mediocrehaddie8920
      @mediocrehaddie8920 Před 7 lety

      Salexx Brown I really think you like me. 😜

  • @ayanawaves1914
    @ayanawaves1914 Před 7 lety +83

    I tried with my crush and it worked!!! Here we are, 8 months ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @carl_consumer.of.reality
      @carl_consumer.of.reality Před 6 lety +7

      Ayana Waves *I'm happy for you!*

    • @brookej8554
      @brookej8554 Před 6 lety +10

      ohmygod I thought you said you tried it with your cousin

    • @vixxyi4180
      @vixxyi4180 Před 6 lety +7

      Thing is... how do you ask your crush to do this "experiment" without being too odd?

    • @JoWinterz
      @JoWinterz Před 6 lety +2

      @ayana are you guys still together?

  • @savannahmoreno161
    @savannahmoreno161 Před 7 lety +469

    That guys eyes are beautiful

  • @Kunoichify
    @Kunoichify Před 7 lety +2151

    this felt so personal I almost felt uncomfortable watching

    • @jupis0990
      @jupis0990 Před 7 lety +284

      third wheel stuff...

    • @gilnaruk
      @gilnaruk Před 7 lety

      shannon marie uy

    • @ecchimonsan9026
      @ecchimonsan9026 Před 7 lety +6

      Almost??? I totally did

    • @vahalenakoel
      @vahalenakoel Před 7 lety

      I agree, this was terrible to watch..

    • @Kunoichify
      @Kunoichify Před 7 lety +37

      hasif azman because I wanted to lol? I didn't even say anything negative about the video

  • @loveofwonder
    @loveofwonder Před 8 lety +849

    Thanks for not subjecting us to 4 silent minutes of staring

    • @jamescarlyle2630
      @jamescarlyle2630 Před 8 lety

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @AntonioMartinez-ic5xj
      @AntonioMartinez-ic5xj Před 8 lety +51

      as soon as the staring started I looked at how much of the video was left to see if they actually made us look at them for 4 minutes

  • @moneyfraud
    @moneyfraud Před 7 lety +812

    My most terrible memory was from my old pc. It was 512MB DDR2.

    • @weinerglory
      @weinerglory Před 7 lety +17

      Chilly wow I'm so young that I've never heard of ram that's under 2gb

    • @mayazucchini7991
      @mayazucchini7991 Před 6 lety +6

      Chilly my most terrible memory was when I ran out of cupcakes

    • @silva6605
      @silva6605 Před 6 lety +7

      What a horrible memory.
      Did you get another one?

    • @xRedEagleHD
      @xRedEagleHD Před 6 lety +10

      bObs Felix I had 32 Mb Ram and 1Mb Ram video card :)) pentium 2

    • @ORIONGaming
      @ORIONGaming Před 6 lety +1

      I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @sasakiumiquema9608
    @sasakiumiquema9608 Před 7 lety +115

    When your crush hates you and you watch something like this...

    • @sleepyiswoke
      @sleepyiswoke Před 6 lety +1

      Sasaki Umiquema It's cause you're a weeaboo search up filthy frank for help

    • @prod.808sorcerer
      @prod.808sorcerer Před 3 lety

      @@sleepyiswoke this guy gets it

  • @supermonkeyyyyyy
    @supermonkeyyyyyy Před 8 lety +1058

    Yeah, but this only works if a third party FORCE the two people to do it. Otherwise the other person would think "what is this, an interview??"

    • @SyNcLife
      @SyNcLife Před 8 lety +110

      +supermonkeyyyyyy "First dates are interviews." -Van Wilder

    • @monke5100
      @monke5100 Před 8 lety +10

      Or you can tell the other person, what you are doing, and ask if they want to do it at all.

    • @supermonkeyyyyyy
      @supermonkeyyyyyy Před 8 lety +14

      Георгий Мошкин
      Maybe, but I am bad with words so if I ask "Hey, I wanna ask you some questions to make you fall in love in me" that sounds really weird and manipulative X)

    • @monke5100
      @monke5100 Před 8 lety +3

      +supermonkeyyyyyy maybe because it is?) you should make someone fall in love with you without their knowledge, don't you think so?

    • @dmitridimitriev
      @dmitridimitriev Před 8 lety

      +Георгий Мошкин *should ;)

  • @philipjohansson3949
    @philipjohansson3949 Před 8 lety +3629

    I think I just fell in love with both of them...

    • @AsapSCIENCE
      @AsapSCIENCE  Před 8 lety +133

      +Philip Johansson Haha we fell in love with both of them too while editing and watching them answer all 36 questions over and over.

    • @dismissing
      @dismissing Před 8 lety +4

      +AsapSCIENCE just wanted to say, nice outfit! (not joking)

    • @donaldstanfield8862
      @donaldstanfield8862 Před 8 lety +8

      same...thinking what beautiful babies they'd have...

    • @MaddiSteeves9700
      @MaddiSteeves9700 Před 8 lety +23

      SAME. WHAT THE HECK. BUT AHHHH IT WAS SO CUTE AND THE END I WAS SCREAMING

    • @foodie_friend_dee
      @foodie_friend_dee Před 8 lety

      same lol

  • @jaredl1480
    @jaredl1480 Před 7 lety +284

    Two words: Placebo effect.

    • @superhawk8921
      @superhawk8921 Před 7 lety +14

      OH MY GOD. I never even thought of that.

    • @begreat6896
      @begreat6896 Před 6 lety +9

      The Placebo effect is still an effect

    • @tiagomarquesdasilva4969
      @tiagomarquesdasilva4969 Před 6 lety

      Whats the placebo effect?

    • @begreat6896
      @begreat6896 Před 6 lety +18

      The Placebo effect is when you expect something to happen when you undergo a treatment and it actually happens. Like when you are told a pill will cure your cold, and it does despite it being a only a sugar pill.
      It doesn't really apply to this study though. Most psychological treatments don't work unless you expect it to. In psychological studies such as this, you're essentially measuring and wanting to find the Placebo effect.
      Not that I'm defending what the two guys in the video are saying. If you read through the actual study, the researchers even say that their findings were ambiguous and were not confidant in their style of study. Also, as someone who just graduated with a degree in psychology, psychological studies are often vague and misleading anyway.

    • @jasonryan6388
      @jasonryan6388 Před 6 lety +4

      I would say the only way to know if this was truly not a placebo effect was to have one person ask another unsuspecting victim.

  • @hivaidz3250
    @hivaidz3250 Před 7 lety +36

    that kiss. my BOI got him SOME

  • @nataliesoutlet
    @nataliesoutlet Před 8 lety +4708

    "I like your face, its a nice face" n_n

    • @dipesh7512
      @dipesh7512 Před 8 lety +46

      +Natalies I lost it that time

    • @sage0x
      @sage0x Před 8 lety +64

      +Natalies Outlet I'll start saying that to strangers.

    • @guy67usm
      @guy67usm Před 8 lety +81

      +Natalies Outlet " your face, man I like that shit! " -__-

    • @thesciencedude24
      @thesciencedude24 Před 8 lety +3

      +Natalies Outlet CCCCCHHHEEEECKKKK OUUUUUTT LIIIFEEFFFEEEEENNNOOOWWWHOOWW OON YOOTUUBE!!!!
      free gold to whoever can userstand that :)

    • @stuff4ever
      @stuff4ever Před 8 lety +27

      +Natalies Outlet I don't like sand. It's coarse and rough and irritating, and it gets everywhere.

  • @chaosvixenxoxo
    @chaosvixenxoxo Před 7 lety +2192

    "I like your face, it's a nice face." 😂

  • @sebs2932
    @sebs2932 Před 7 lety +886

    I couldn't imagine how this would go if I did this
    Not well....maybe

    • @laraoliver3514
      @laraoliver3514 Před 6 lety +2

      Dank M3mes yeah, I kept thinking of how straight forward I would be. they were so cute and calm and lost the opportunity of making a lot of puns...

    • @rebeccashunn7976
      @rebeccashunn7976 Před 6 lety +1

      Dank M3mes lol I would fall in love right quick

    • @StyrbjornStarke
      @StyrbjornStarke Před 6 lety +5

      I would need a bottle of Vodka first and then it would go pretty well.

    • @uniquelodeon
      @uniquelodeon Před 6 lety

      Rebecca Shunn u give me your what's app and we would make every thing u want :)))

    • @abbassrour4373
      @abbassrour4373 Před 5 lety

      SHOUTOOOOOO

  • @tachawazowskeey
    @tachawazowskeey Před 7 lety +122

    the guy's really cute wtf

  • @mature111ster
    @mature111ster Před 8 lety +1341

    A lot of these questions are designed to make someone feel negative emotions and feel insecure, then to have comfort emotionally. The complements bring affirmation that the other person will accept you. Once you feel safe with the person, staring into someone's eyes for a duration brings with it a strengthened bond. Like with anything, wanting to fall in love increases the likelihood you'll actually fall in love. Since love is seen as an addiction, it almost seems like the mind deludes itself to keep the high, but if all parties are happy then indulging in a little fantasy isn't a bad thing.

    • @Tayloraurrekoetxea
      @Tayloraurrekoetxea Před 8 lety +65

      +Tony McLean I see where you're coming from but I'd say that, instead, these questions are designed to make them emotionally vulnerable and enable them to be open, this establishes a bond and creates an atmosphere of honesty and openness, which lead to the compliments because it's established they're being honest and not trying to be kind but honestly saying what they like about each other.
      The eyes thing is to deepen that empathy to each other, after all, in a way, we communicate through our eyes.

    • @mature111ster
      @mature111ster Před 8 lety +10

      +Tayloraurrekoetxea I could see that. Many couples lack skills in open communication, so a test like this helps bring that skill to light.

    • @5432223g
      @5432223g Před 8 lety

      interesting

    • @Nick-ds9vo
      @Nick-ds9vo Před 8 lety +4

      I must be the most secure guy in the world then.

    • @corrinereyes3835
      @corrinereyes3835 Před 8 lety

      On point

  • @joshuaochoa9825
    @joshuaochoa9825 Před 8 lety +3550

    I won't believe it until they do this with my crush and i.

  • @coriej2284
    @coriej2284 Před 7 lety +76

    She looks like the girl from White Chicks

  • @96KIKE96
    @96KIKE96 Před 7 lety +264

    Can you guys please pass me the 36 questions? It's for a homework I swear

  • @brookelee9745
    @brookelee9745 Před 8 lety +1273

    There is no way i could do this. I laugh everything off so i would just sit there and laugh and smile the whole time and dodge serious questions like a mofo.

    • @ningen7736
      @ningen7736 Před 8 lety +72

      Meanwhile I would be staring at those melons you got there.

    • @KyrkRTG
      @KyrkRTG Před 8 lety +54

      +Son Goku The Legendary Super Saiyan Master of romance right here.

    • @gavilesm
      @gavilesm Před 8 lety +24

      +Son Goku The Legendary Super Saiyan Smooth like butter.

    • @CoconutJewce
      @CoconutJewce Před 8 lety +5

      +Brooke Dendiu I'm sure some guy would find that attractive, though. You never know.

    • @TheJammingman23
      @TheJammingman23 Před 8 lety

      +Son Goku The Legendary Super Saiyan W

  • @Trampka1234
    @Trampka1234 Před 7 lety +3892

    I think this guy fell in love before questions when he saw her 😂😂😂

    • @ahmadalmasri1792
      @ahmadalmasri1792 Před 7 lety +7

      Trampka lmao he did

    • @sarahbeara7084
      @sarahbeara7084 Před 7 lety +88

      Trampka it's been said men fall in love faster than women so yeah I'm sure he did

    • @EngPMgt
      @EngPMgt Před 7 lety +116

      Trampka thats true, look at his face expression when they have been told to kiss each other 😂 he was super excited and happy 😘

    • @ariadnabarragan6583
      @ariadnabarragan6583 Před 7 lety +54

      Ohio Boy dude, don't be so mean, I personally thought she was really pretty

    • @Trampka1234
      @Trampka1234 Před 7 lety +10

      Ariadna Barragan yes i thought this too :))))

  • @MirandaNoel98
    @MirandaNoel98 Před 7 lety +84

    I wonder if they're still dating

  • @mbt3850
    @mbt3850 Před 7 lety +234

    I like how they are better looking than average...

    • @thatfactguy4042
      @thatfactguy4042 Před 7 lety +49

      MBT -Smarty Games I dunno they look pretty average

  • @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge
    @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge Před 8 lety +359

    They should have found two strangers who are not physically attracted to each other to see if this experiment works. The girl in this experiment was pretty, and the guy was not ugly, so regardless of the questions, these two people could have hit it off based on looks.

    • @MultiMrvideogames
      @MultiMrvideogames Před 8 lety +22

      +Tiffastic Nguyen human nature dictates that physical attrition is an important part if not paramount to match making. If the two were not physically attracted to each other, they most likely would have not 'hit it off' as well as they did, especially since a lot of their compliments to each other were on appearance. physical attraction is the first step to a relationship. I doubt you go out on the street and say, "Hmm that guy looks like he has a great personality, lets go hit him up (If it helps, please change pronoun to sexuality you prefer)!". Now if you do that's fantastic, well done for you you're a great person, but most people don't work that way.

    • @MartijnCoppoolse
      @MartijnCoppoolse Před 8 lety +15

      +MultiMrvideogames physical _attrition_? I guess I know why I'm still single, then...

    • @justinm4173
      @justinm4173 Před 8 lety +2

      +Martijn Coppoolse (this is multimrvideogames alternate account) haha that's great! Typo my bad it's still attraction. Sorry you're single!

    • @cooljesusknifedance3689
      @cooljesusknifedance3689 Před 8 lety +2

      +MultiMrvideogames the only girl i ever loved i didnt think was attractive at first. dont say humans act on an instinctual level. humans can be very cerebral

    • @GranTurismoFanWorlD
      @GranTurismoFanWorlD Před 8 lety +6

      what is wrong? They look very average...

  • @Whattnow
    @Whattnow Před 7 lety +597

    "i like your face,its a nice face" bro i died 😂😂😂

  • @adamemac
    @adamemac Před 7 lety +37

    Well it's been 1.5 years.. update??

    • @adamemac
      @adamemac Před 4 lety +1

      @Ajmal Moha'd 😂 Well seeing how my comment is 3 years old and the video had already been close to 2 years old.. yup, that's how time works.

  • @luciajameswxx240
    @luciajameswxx240 Před 7 lety +80

    Omg that was very very uncomfortable to watch! 😂😂

  • @xenon_monster
    @xenon_monster Před 7 lety +731

    ARE YOU KIDDING IM WRITING THESE QUESTIONS DOWN AND TAKING THEM EVERYWHERE WITH ME HOLY SHIT

    • @dineomogoru3
      @dineomogoru3 Před 7 lety +11

      yuritanndesu lmao!!!!

    • @spidyduzit
      @spidyduzit Před 7 lety +6

      yuritanndesu how's it working out for you

    • @TheXDsunny
      @TheXDsunny Před 7 lety

      ?:o

    • @and_I_am_Life_the_fixer_of_all
      @and_I_am_Life_the_fixer_of_all Před 7 lety +27

      Of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
      Would you like to be famous?
      When did you last sing to yourself?
      Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
      If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
      What is your most terrible memory?
      What roles do you love and affection play in your life?
      Your house catches fire. If you could save any one item what would it be?
      Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner
      Complete this sentence: "I wish I had someone with whom I could share..."
      Tell your partner something you like about them
      Final Task: stare into each other's eyes for 4 minutes

    • @KristinaMaca8
      @KristinaMaca8 Před 7 lety +2

      thats not 36

  • @justindie7543
    @justindie7543 Před 8 lety +698

    This test is biased. The experiment was influenced when the participants were told that the questions could help them fall in love.
    For all we know, this could be little more than a placebo effect.

    • @dedm3m317
      @dedm3m317 Před 8 lety +13

      Wasnt that the actual point of the video? ._.

    • @KarimaKadaoui
      @KarimaKadaoui Před 8 lety +7

      Whether it works due to the questions themselves or the flacebo effect doesn't matter all that much.

    • @chickys1292
      @chickys1292 Před 8 lety +5

      That's the point. If you asked me, I'd do it the same way.

    • @TheTrueEnderLord
      @TheTrueEnderLord Před 8 lety

      DAMN YOU NOCEBO EFFECT!!!!!

    • @romeocopiedme
      @romeocopiedme Před 8 lety

      I dont think they would tell them the purpose of the test, that would be an unneeded variable

  • @suranda.
    @suranda. Před 7 lety +22

    the girl seemed passionate about the kiss

  • @angiea8022
    @angiea8022 Před 4 lety +1

    She seemed sincere. He seemed prepped for it, but--they were both adorable to start with. What's not to fall in love with.

  • @fickyni2
    @fickyni2 Před 7 lety +881

    So did Fluffy and Buster meet?

  • @Zoe_allen_x
    @Zoe_allen_x Před 8 lety +1423

    Wishing someone would sign me and my crush up to this

  • @appleorange3112
    @appleorange3112 Před 6 lety +2

    1. Of anyone in the world, whom you want as a dinner guest?
    2. Would you like to be Famous?
    3. When did u last sing to yourself?
    4. Do you have a secret hunch how you are going to die?
    5. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability , what would it be?
    6. Most terrible memory?
    7. What roles do Love and affection play in your life?
    8. Your house catches fire , if you could save one item what would it be?
    9. Postive characteristic of your partner
    10. Complete this sentence"I wish I had someone with whom I could share..."
    11. Tell your partner something you like about them
    Final Task : stare into each other's eyes for 4 minutes

  • @potatoesarelove178
    @potatoesarelove178 Před 7 lety +5

    "Um I like your face, it's a nice face"
    Me: Oh dang better take notes!

  • @xKeniaLisethx
    @xKeniaLisethx Před 7 lety +1255

    I would definitely not be able to stare into a strangers eyes for that long I can barely stare into anyone eyes for more that 7 seconds

  • @hamsterdoom360
    @hamsterdoom360 Před 8 lety +905

    This series of questions only reminded me of how sad, bitter, alone, and unloved I am. Awesome....

  • @sarariley8696
    @sarariley8696 Před 7 lety +3

    And this is how their love started...oh how beautiful

  • @housienalsabag800
    @housienalsabag800 Před 7 lety +16

    one word... AWKWARD!

  • @greganzi8874
    @greganzi8874 Před 8 lety +550

    "I like your face, it's a nice face" Best one-liner ever.

    • @greganzi8874
      @greganzi8874 Před 8 lety +1

      +Greg Anzi Damn it, somebody commented on this before me ;-;

    • @awsome14619
      @awsome14619 Před 8 lety

      +Greg Anzi ok

    • @persongoesnuts9311
      @persongoesnuts9311 Před 8 lety +4

      It's like in shrek, instead it's face not boulder

    • @MrMafiale
      @MrMafiale Před 8 lety +3

      +Greg Anzi I laughed so hard. 90% cause it's just a funny statement. 10% cringe.

    • @atthaero2382
      @atthaero2382 Před 8 lety

      +Greg Anzi I cringed alot during this video, but that one liner, ohh man.. it was WAY TOO FUNNY! XD

  • @undergroundalcoholsi
    @undergroundalcoholsi Před 7 lety +463

    i feel like they didn't fall in love... they bonded, but they expected to fall in love. that's why we got that ending.

    • @jahews6902
      @jahews6902 Před 7 lety +20

      Platonic love is a thing.

    • @boseit28
      @boseit28 Před 7 lety +1

      undergroundalcoholsi how do you expect someone to fall in love in just 30min?

    • @edgarszeikars54
      @edgarszeikars54 Před 7 lety +2

      They had 2 dates since! :3

    • @MissSchnickfitzel
      @MissSchnickfitzel Před 7 lety +4

      undergroundalcoholsi ofcourse they didnt fall in love. do you have any idea how brains work?

    • @marina6424
      @marina6424 Před 7 lety +2

      Amal H They didn't necessarily fall in love in that short ammount of time, but in the beginning, it said it would increase the likelyhood that two strangers would fall in love, which is true. When talking to a stranger, it has been proven that when you open up more to them and find out more about them in a short time, than your brain releases more Oxytocin (the love chemical) than usual and could make you feel more attracted to that person or even fall in love with them.

  • @nkelly5851
    @nkelly5851 Před 6 lety

    “Your face is very symmetrical, which is something we subconsciously look for…but because I know that it’s something I consciously look for…”
    So true.

  • @illusion2937
    @illusion2937 Před 7 lety +10

    Dayum i have no idea how they maintain the eye contact all the time

  • @Ronythethird
    @Ronythethird Před 8 lety +531

    I fell in love with the girl before the 1st question.
    They should try this but without the 2 people seeing each other face to face.

    • @Senator-KO
      @Senator-KO Před 8 lety +59

      Or maybe use two people who don't find each other attractive, and see if it's the same results?

    • @ShaniaDeville
      @ShaniaDeville Před 8 lety +18

      +Karl MANSON Yeah. That would actually be a good idea!

    • @aviron3295
      @aviron3295 Před 8 lety

      +Karl MANSON part of the experiment is for them to see each other, also you can't do the last task if you won't allow them to see each other

    • @thc4825
      @thc4825 Před 8 lety

      I doubt the people would even sign up

    • @SmashBrosBrawl
      @SmashBrosBrawl Před 8 lety +15

      +Evil Paradise
      If they were both fat, this probably would not have worked at all.

  • @Scheurthiaume
    @Scheurthiaume Před 7 lety +199

    This reminds me of a conversation I once had with a guy at a party... we started chatting and talked, just the two of us, for more than an hour. I was 16 and he was 22 and I felt so grownup and lucky to be talking to a college guy. Anyway, we talked about if we could see anyone in concert who would be, our dream jobs, and our family. It's wasn't awkward, just two people getting to know each other, but it was so much deeper than small talk. I never saw him after that. I've never had another connected with a boy since then on that level... even though we only talked for an hour it was so deep it felt much longer

    • @ActivM4
      @ActivM4 Před 7 lety

      Scheurthiaume Ahh shut up woman

    • @haleybids3427
      @haleybids3427 Před 7 lety +7

      Scheurthiaume that's cute but damn that's a pretty big age difference

    • @pagethreemodel
      @pagethreemodel Před 7 lety +6

      Scheurthiaume Awww. It happens babe. Maybe the universe's way of telling you what signs to look for when you do meet a guy. And one day you will meet one who you can have a deep and meaningful convo with...or maybe you'll bump into the same guy again.

    • @orgil7008
      @orgil7008 Před 7 lety +7

      He probably slept with you and ran away

  • @amia560
    @amia560 Před 7 lety +34

    Gonna randomly text these to my crush.

    • @yeti6347
      @yeti6347 Před 5 lety

      Please answer whether it worked or not xD

  • @adrianamiranda3232
    @adrianamiranda3232 Před 6 lety +17

    Time to go and ask all of this questions to my crush😂 bye yall wish me luck

  • @reiokimura6519
    @reiokimura6519 Před 8 lety +1392

    What kind of sorcery is this?

    • @marcotuliocnd
      @marcotuliocnd Před 8 lety +26

      Reio Kimura Anti mage

    • @tejmouse6869
      @tejmouse6869 Před 8 lety +8

      +Marco Túlio Candeo nah, its just a hex used by your lvl 85 cleric using you chime. you need 28 INT. and 35 FTH. i used it to beat the mytha the bane a beautiful.

    • @jeremyunderwood1816
      @jeremyunderwood1816 Před 8 lety +2

      +Tej Mouse ah dark souls

    • @tejmouse6869
      @tejmouse6869 Před 8 lety

      Jeremy Underwood finally someone gets it.

    • @marcotuliocnd
      @marcotuliocnd Před 8 lety +1

      I though it was about dota 2, the Anti Mage

  • @gotf
    @gotf Před 8 lety +847

    Fall in love is a bit of an exaggeration

    • @gotf
      @gotf Před 8 lety +17

      chris ce Or get two strangers to have a crush on each other or a just a fling. And I don't get why she said they had lot in common cuz I didn't see it.

    • @book.lion1676
      @book.lion1676 Před 8 lety +9

      +gotf we didn't see them answer all of the questions so we don't know everything thwt happened

    • @steezystumps
      @steezystumps Před 8 lety +28

      +gotf They said at 0:19 that it would "increase the likelihood" not make them fall in love right away, and I can actually see how it could happen

    • @gotf
      @gotf Před 8 lety +2

      steezystumps I'm going by the title.

    • @castertroy6347
      @castertroy6347 Před 8 lety +3

      +Marc Swanson A very symmetrical troll face

  • @lauraesmerino6463
    @lauraesmerino6463 Před 6 lety +1

    I just spent 1 hour and 20 minutes answering these questions for myself... It was pretty refreshing actually, I even cried a little when thinking of the most terrible memory I have. I encourage you to do the same, you can really get to know yourself better.

  • @eranhaim9913
    @eranhaim9913 Před 7 lety +6

    I imagin them telling theyre kids how they met LOL

  • @jellybeansandtherocketsoff5294

    PART TWO I WANNA SEE WHAT HAPPENS WITH THEM

    • @gabbylorennn
      @gabbylorennn Před 7 lety +80

      Jelly beans and the rockets official lmao ur profile pic with this conment

    • @2c-x345
      @2c-x345 Před 7 lety +31

      Jelly beans and the rockets official Part two is on YouPorn

    • @serienfreak132
      @serienfreak132 Před 7 lety +2

      Jelly beans and the rockets official SAME

    • @myawesomevideosmav7834
      @myawesomevideosmav7834 Před 7 lety +3

      Jelly beans and the rockets official this is what happens ❤️❤️❤️😍😘👄👄💋💋💋💋💍💍💍💍👎🏿💔💔💔

    • @Moslem-Moslembande
      @Moslem-Moslembande Před 7 lety +1

      Jelly beans and the rockets official im the 1k like😎

  • @hannahalexandra341
    @hannahalexandra341 Před 8 lety +477

    I'm at the part where they're looking into eachothers eyes and I can't stop laughing. She's so anxious and he's all calm.WHY AM I LAUGHING SO HARD OMG. HELP.

    • @hannahalexandra341
      @hannahalexandra341 Před 8 lety +6

      OMG DID THEY SERIOUSLY JUST KISS ASDFHJJKL. sorry im a spoiler. i had to.

    • @leonid4781
      @leonid4781 Před 8 lety +11

      she is shy and he really wants her (my experience)

    •  Před 8 lety +6

      Omg I was the same, I was laughing so loud abd seriously couldn't stop myself 😂

    • @diyandimov5104
      @diyandimov5104 Před 8 lety +2

      I would stare into your eyes all day xD PS I was laughing my as off as well :D

    • @lyalya6822
      @lyalya6822 Před 7 lety

      That is so sweet of yours^^

  • @breannaquesada8705
    @breannaquesada8705 Před 7 lety

    "Um, you make me feel at ease. I like your shirts, the colors, they really complement you, and... make you look handsome"
    *I like your face*

  • @kukuhaldyanto
    @kukuhaldyanto Před 7 lety +21

    It's been more than 1 year, so what happened to them now?

  • @justindie7543
    @justindie7543 Před 8 lety +460

    For number 34: "Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be?"
    A Fire extinguisher

  • @beccadavis2287
    @beccadavis2287 Před 8 lety +675

    I ship buster and fluffy

  • @Unknowssss332
    @Unknowssss332 Před 7 lety +32

    I would save my house

    • @three7446
      @three7446 Před 6 lety

      Golden Block u know what that’s the best point ever made in the comment section

  • @victorcarpio8231
    @victorcarpio8231 Před 4 lety +1

    Watched this on our second date 4 years ago. It’s 2020 and we’re more in love than ever. Rings coming soon. Thanks for the video.

  • @daprof2930
    @daprof2930 Před 8 lety +435

    she had him at "hi"

  • @fahmyboy1
    @fahmyboy1 Před 8 lety +562

    This couple kinda seemed pretty compatible from the start

    • @anilaclarke
      @anilaclarke Před 8 lety +32

      Yes, looks like they would be a nice couple. Also she's beautiful and he's so cute :)

    • @skunktheshrink
      @skunktheshrink Před 8 lety +11

      the fact that they agreed to participate in this experiment already puts them in a subset. Which makes one question the design of the experiment.
      edit
      or what culversketch wrote -_-

    • @parrisnia72
      @parrisnia72 Před 8 lety +1

      Yeah exactly!

  • @str791
    @str791 Před 4 lety

    “I like your face, it’s a nice face.”
    *WORDS OF A CHAMPION*

  • @elizabethe.4789
    @elizabethe.4789 Před 7 lety +2

    i would love if this was a series, i wanna see more videos like this with different people

  • @amkurthy6640
    @amkurthy6640 Před 7 lety +1813

    Less than a minute in and there is a huge problem. The two participants knew the hypothesis which compromises the internal validity of the experiment.. They are expecting to fall in love. That's a problem.

    • @magilicious14
      @magilicious14 Před 7 lety +10

      i was thinking this too

    • @1337pianoman
      @1337pianoman Před 7 lety +1

      amkurthy I thought the same thing. Also, did they have professional hair and makeup? Regardless, they definitely found attractive, age appropriate people that were both single 😛

    • @idontneedaname318
      @idontneedaname318 Před 7 lety +1

      amkurthy yeah. They should've have completely uninformed people do the test.

    • @JunglePsyche
      @JunglePsyche Před 7 lety +4

      amkurthy I wouldn't call it problem. Falling in love is cool

    • @anknees2352
      @anknees2352 Před 7 lety

      amkurthy Lmao me in ap stats, recognizing flawed experiementd

  • @aishwarya2426
    @aishwarya2426 Před 7 lety +165

    I literally said "I like your face, it's a nice face" to a guy yesterday. This guy is me.😂

    • @FawksClips
      @FawksClips Před 7 lety +1

      Aishwarya Singh but your profile pic is a girl.

    • @jimsonv3
      @jimsonv3 Před 7 lety +6

      Bro she meant that guy is like her in personality.

  • @sakurasteel9191
    @sakurasteel9191 Před 7 lety

    I love how he is so straight forward

  • @jessbest931
    @jessbest931 Před 7 lety

    I got so giddy when the text popped up that they've been on two dates. That made me so happy lol

  • @ryanbrown2517
    @ryanbrown2517 Před 8 lety +748

    Who else thinks they should follow this up?!?!

  • @Jasemae
    @Jasemae Před 7 lety +754

    so it has been a year, where are they now?

    • @bobfred3206
      @bobfred3206 Před 7 lety +77

      Steffany Dravis right?! No one seems to know

    • @koollee
      @koollee Před 7 lety +1

      she got knocked up ..... nah J-k

    • @catejoshua6017
      @catejoshua6017 Před 7 lety +15

      koollee I think he got knocked up. XD

    • @anon877
      @anon877 Před 7 lety +2

      isken joshua LOL Figaro is a real g

    • @MRINSANE32
      @MRINSANE32 Před 7 lety +72

      Steffany Dravis they live among us

  • @99txgh
    @99txgh Před 7 lety +3

    I really want a follow up

  • @juliannnicoleodonnell7032
    @juliannnicoleodonnell7032 Před 7 lety +122

    "i expected to be more awkward" you were ....

    • @mysticmeadows-e2w
      @mysticmeadows-e2w Před 6 lety

      Juliann Nicole O'Donnell dumbass keot fidgeting her hands😂

  • @ugandriawomack1249
    @ugandriawomack1249 Před 8 lety +2328

    who's gonna use this experiment on their crush

  • @bessscott7554
    @bessscott7554 Před 7 lety +981

    I hope they get married

  • @ReginaTorres15
    @ReginaTorres15 Před 7 lety +4

    I need a follow up video I really hope they got together

  • @TheN1H1LL
    @TheN1H1LL Před 7 lety

    My advice? make a huge effort when going on a date.. aftershave, fancy dinner, flowers, smile, rehearch questions and keep the conversation going as much as possible. Make an effort so that if you like the person he/she may meet again, its horrible meeting a person you like that doesn't want to meet again and you regret not making more of an effort for a better date. Good luck 🌹