Penuel The Black Pen | In Conversation Mayihlome Tshwete. | ANC, Chris Hani, Malusi Gigaba, Divorce

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  • čas přidán 16. 10. 2022
  • Mayihlome Tshwete.
    Mayi is a businessman, ex-Director General of Home Affairs, Visual Artist, Cultured Man & son of late Political Leader and Struggle Stalwart, Steve Tshwete.

Komentáře • 243

  • @athmaasrai9903
    @athmaasrai9903 Před rokem +93

    Just a little thank you for the amazing podcast. Please keep up the good work

  • @khanyisagura4377
    @khanyisagura4377 Před rokem +21

    "I think the worst thing to do is to marry for love". That part! ❤️

    • @thembelamosele8295
      @thembelamosele8295 Před rokem +1

      Eish when he said that, a guy nog. It resonated with what I always say.
      At the end of the day ,love alone is not enough.

  • @SomeonesTswanaDad
    @SomeonesTswanaDad Před rokem +36

    When Mayihlome said the worst thing to do is marry for love. I differed. But I think he meant affection. Which is that feeling. The butterflies and stuff. But Love. Love is commitment. Love is choice. It’s a jacket you must put on every day. You don’t marry for it. It is instead a verb. An action you must take everyday. This interview got me thinking. Kudos to Black Pen and Mayihlome!

    • @lehlagaremogadime7494
      @lehlagaremogadime7494 Před rokem +8

      I think what he was trying to emphasize is love only cannot sustain a relationship. The things that affect our lives on almost everyday and how we view them and how decide to tackle them everyday is what sustain a relationship.... Well that's just my opinion.

    • @SomeonesTswanaDad
      @SomeonesTswanaDad Před rokem +3

      @@lehlagaremogadime7494 I most definitely agree. There are other practical things we must all consider when choosing a partner. We sometimes dismiss them thinking affection will be enough. When it really isn’t and won’t be.

    • @mochaleaves
      @mochaleaves Před rokem

      ​@@lehlagaremogadime7494I disagree with him but agree with your interpretation. love is what helps you tackle differences in decision making and the everyday how. The patience kindness etc.

  • @sibonisobuthelezi8271
    @sibonisobuthelezi8271 Před rokem +7

    Good work Pen. Please bring Vusi Thembekwayo.

  • @mashuduthidiela9643
    @mashuduthidiela9643 Před rokem +49

    Mayi is a great thinker. He balances a lot of Penuel’s “alternative” views with a more “neutral” view that gives the viewer a broader perspective on things which is how the audience learns. A podcast with the two of them sharing world views would be phenomenal

  • @matena843
    @matena843 Před rokem +13

    Mayi, a deep thinker, sensitive, extremely funny. Absolutely loved watching this.

  • @larrysilinda4150
    @larrysilinda4150 Před rokem +14

    Bring mayihlome regularly

  • @perfectmabaso5756
    @perfectmabaso5756 Před rokem +5

    I like how Mayihlome answers questions.... Big ups

  • @oaitsentlhore1757
    @oaitsentlhore1757 Před rokem +4

    *Your parents success is not your success* I love this phrase

  • @njaey374
    @njaey374 Před rokem +8

    This show is slowly becoming the benchmark of "Black excellence" and human excellence in general🙌

  • @yayaxaba2182
    @yayaxaba2182 Před rokem +5

    The composure in this man makes you wanna actually listen 😍

  • @eliasthibs3890
    @eliasthibs3890 Před rokem +7

    Hell, this conversation is so intelligent. I liked the insights on parenting and getting married for love, Mayihlome is spot on... Values such as mutual respect and shared goals are vital in sustaining a relationship... Deep thoughts. Greatness and black excellence displayed

  • @mrbrooks56
    @mrbrooks56 Před rokem +5

    This is clean, I are now a follower and will join , thanks to Mac G pushing us here

  • @t.m4314
    @t.m4314 Před rokem +16

    The esthetics of this set is dope the colors and the close up angles too nice, very intermate and engaging well done Pen and the team this is a wining formula when it comes to the look and feel of the show.

  • @Livhebe
    @Livhebe Před rokem +7

    IL listen to this conversation for many years to come. A very progressive conversation held by two intellectuals.
    I appreciate you gents. I loved it

  • @samthingtranskei4829
    @samthingtranskei4829 Před rokem +6

    He must come back as he suggested he'd love to come back and have more conversations with Pen.
    Please Pen bring him back.

  • @God_is_an_Atheist666
    @God_is_an_Atheist666 Před rokem +19

    Half a mill equipment no wonder your shit clean bro👌. And the aesthetics of the show are simple, undistracting and themed to engage the psyche like a blank piece of paper and the conversation is the writing.

  • @amogelangkgomo2655
    @amogelangkgomo2655 Před rokem +12

    Mayi has this crystal sobriety to his views. He presents very calm and healed, an all-round worked on individual(evidently)! I find him grounding. If there is any published literature from him, I will definitely be getting my hands on it. A beautiful sit-down👏

  • @Beatbanguni
    @Beatbanguni Před rokem +10

    I appreciate this podcast,soon i will be a paying member ✊

  • @greatgift8268
    @greatgift8268 Před rokem +5

    I really agree with this part of Father's day. My daughter's school has got father- daughter movie night and us with no husbands we must look for people to take our kids there. And you have to trust this person as he will spend a night with your daughter

  • @ncedisamdekazi4886
    @ncedisamdekazi4886 Před rokem +5

    This was one of the best conversations ever. I thoroughly enjoyed it.
    Mayihlome brought all his emotional intelligence on the table.
    Thank you for inviting him Penuel.

  • @ericricky8460
    @ericricky8460 Před rokem +4

    This is by far the cleanest podcast in the continent

  • @thandekaduduziletwala3055

    I love this! I wish I could have everyone and everyone watch it!!!

  • @missnobodie2503
    @missnobodie2503 Před rokem +5

    This was a great conversation. I appreciate These gentlemen touching on the topics they touched on especially on intentional parenting and black parenting.

  • @siyandamasala1136
    @siyandamasala1136 Před rokem +21

    This is probably one of the most powerful pieces of information on the internet; It's so groundbreaking and refreshing, I am looking forward to part 2. Without sounding tribal but we as a Xhosa tribe do not have such profound speakers in our time except maybe those who are political affiliated and as a 2nd biggest tribe in the country after the Zulu's I always wonder if whether we are ignorant, complacent or maybe just not equipped enough and my conclusion is that we are too segregated as a tribe as opposed to the Zulu's who more often than not show unity and solidarity nonetheless thank you Penuel and your team for unearthing these great minds and bringing them to our attention.

    • @TlhakisiM
      @TlhakisiM Před rokem

      You bloody tribalist...we one as Afrikans...what is it with you..you grew up in the village or deep rural in EC🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @akosuamvotyo1655
    @akosuamvotyo1655 Před rokem +7

    two smart black men🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @obakengneo5220
    @obakengneo5220 Před rokem +6

    Penuel, keep this kind of content going. We need these OG conversations

  • @geek.6743
    @geek.6743 Před rokem +5

    Thanks Pen - great conversation with Mayihlome - we appreciate your content all the time...🌿🥀🌲🌴🍍🍉🍇

  • @jamestimana4801
    @jamestimana4801 Před rokem +6

    Very powerful and educating convo, I like the mindset of Mayihlome.

  • @tholyndlovu9912
    @tholyndlovu9912 Před rokem +5

    Great conversation, young aspiring Philosophers, indeed our country has capable leaders. Congratulations Penuel for the Podcast, your contributions are impactful 👏👏👏💪❤️

  • @godmodeforexmasters148
    @godmodeforexmasters148 Před rokem +5

    Is platforms like this that we can utilize to move this country forward, Not celebrity gossips.

  • @abtshoni
    @abtshoni Před 6 měsíci

    I love the "African way" conversation, it shed some new light on the notion. Thank you for this conversation.

  • @1bonganizulu
    @1bonganizulu Před rokem +23

    Penuel has deep network dammit

    • @Beatbanguni
      @Beatbanguni Před rokem +1

      Damn im like were does he dig this great minds😅🔥

  • @ayandankundla7850
    @ayandankundla7850 Před rokem +3

    Mayi Oozes confidence 👏🏻🤝 very insightful. Great interview ever 🎉🤝

  • @lerato8157
    @lerato8157 Před rokem +6

    Waze wakhula Mayi. An insightful conversation! Re. school comment, we also noticed that our local school has done away with mother/father's day. Those are now referred to as "family day" or "special person(s) day". Key progressive changes brought upon by visionaries. 🙂 To intentional parenting and living.

  • @tebogomoema9024
    @tebogomoema9024 Před rokem +3

    Mayihlome has so much depth

  • @tokolohomokoena7882
    @tokolohomokoena7882 Před rokem +33

    Phenomenal conversation. I felt like i was receiving game from OG’s. Seeing you men armour-down to dissect and engage is extremely refreshing and has consequently unearthed a lot of wisdom and knowledge. Thank you, Men.
    P.S
    These are the sort of conversations we would have if you stayed for drinks after touch , Pen 🌚🌚

    • @godpenuel
      @godpenuel Před rokem +3

      😂😂😂 Thank you for supporting, TK! I should definitely make an effort.

  • @gracesitsha7906
    @gracesitsha7906 Před 7 měsíci

    Oh my goodness, Wow.Beautiful conversation between intelligent people.Wow.Mayihlome.Does not criticise anyone.I love the sensitivity ❤

  • @sizwevuyo8445
    @sizwevuyo8445 Před rokem +14

    Mac G, is right the picture quality of this Podcast is way better than the quality of Podcast and Chill😅

    • @kaizerpursuits7086
      @kaizerpursuits7086 Před rokem +3

      He should have asked Robert for a 40k 'start-up' or capital injection instead he asked him if his parents named him Bob.😅😅

    • @kholofelolebepe9637
      @kholofelolebepe9637 Před rokem

      They using 4k cameras

    • @monwabisiqutu4383
      @monwabisiqutu4383 Před rokem

      I even saw that shoulder angle Sol was talking about...the background and the table have a serious impact

  • @gomolemomanche257
    @gomolemomanche257 Před rokem +4

    Important conversation, so delicious, I could eat it up! Thank you brothers 🤌🏽

  • @mogalematsose
    @mogalematsose Před rokem +3

    An interesting and important conversation gents especially on education and culture. We really need to create a new African

  • @sicelomtabane6480
    @sicelomtabane6480 Před rokem +1

    ANC no where to go 🤝I like that 🤝

  • @Moddulus_Prime
    @Moddulus_Prime Před rokem +11

    Refreshing conversation gentlemen, I'm glad African men can have an honest exchange about their ideas & beliefs.

  • @highandmightyqueen79
    @highandmightyqueen79 Před rokem +4

    I always enjoy these conversation and your guest Pen hopefully we can get 2 or 3 episodes a week.

  • @lucymacks2256
    @lucymacks2256 Před rokem +2

    I didn't anticipate teary points.....Jo!!!!!! #ThankYou

  • @siyandarasi8494
    @siyandarasi8494 Před rokem +5

    Very thoughtful guy this guy is 🙌🤝

  • @glenmalesa8902
    @glenmalesa8902 Před rokem +7

    It's amazing how much you can learn on these podcasts. Mayihlome is a very smart fella 👌 . I've learn a lot.

  • @mweziqoma2096
    @mweziqoma2096 Před rokem

    This is a great interview to watch and listen to. Pen always takes out the best from his guests, he is a genius. Then juxtapose that with this great orator, Mayihlome. Wonderful. I will wait for part 2.

  • @thabohlalele3125
    @thabohlalele3125 Před rokem +5

    Big ups on the rapidly growing subscriber base..it shows people are hungry for informative content yol produce

  • @NkosinathiMasango012
    @NkosinathiMasango012 Před rokem +2

    Very good conversation. It felt light, like guys just chilling and not an intense discussion. I fully agree with Mayihlome's view on Politics not being a family business, someone cannot lead simply because their parent led.

  • @leratolitlhakanyane8445
    @leratolitlhakanyane8445 Před rokem +4

    Remember Touch Rugby Sundays with these gents. Great interview 👌

  • @pinealgland668
    @pinealgland668 Před rokem +2

    Very insightful conversation, gents. Thank you!

  • @ThokoTwala
    @ThokoTwala Před rokem +11

    Please have Shaka Sisulu on your show.

  • @babazi
    @babazi Před rokem +6

    It may have looked like MacG is bashing *Uncle Ruckus* but that has created attention/interest to this channel. I had to come here for the first time to preview the 8K picture :)

  • @ayandamabombo8824
    @ayandamabombo8824 Před rokem +2

    There's more to people than naratives & media. Great conversation and I like the fact that we understand that not all "black" people should be in politics to be excellent.

  • @duduzilembhele8576
    @duduzilembhele8576 Před rokem +1

    Another amazing, and attention gripping episode 👏 . I love the range of the topics covered in these conversations.

  • @mkhululinkomo1413
    @mkhululinkomo1413 Před rokem +1

    Yoooh this 1 i havee beeeeeeeen waiting for.

  • @patricknkosi5412
    @patricknkosi5412 Před rokem +1

    Wow.. this conversation is awsome, this what men should constantly do, not about bragging about what you have, but you could contribute to the society. I like these young, i can't wait for the 2nd round, you could even make it a round table and gather those young men Pen

  • @ThokoTwala
    @ThokoTwala Před rokem +3

    Great interview 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @ndofiretv
    @ndofiretv Před rokem +2

    This was nice. Very insightful 👏. Thanks Pen.

  • @lungipinda9961
    @lungipinda9961 Před rokem +2

    Entirely captivating. Great conversation guys👍

  • @mbobileo933
    @mbobileo933 Před rokem +1

    Mayihlome is strong and also very profound on his views he is factual, Penuel need to do his research the undertone of Penuel is Patriachal and the disclaimer he is making for loving and respecting black women is not here or there. Can really be possible true that all the women he impreganted were wrong and he was right? Thank you Mayihlome for schooling Penuel of Fatherhood and Parenting .

  • @siphonkabinde7115
    @siphonkabinde7115 Před rokem +2

    Great dialogue, refreshing and clarity in thought 👌🏾. Pls try to organise Sizwe, Dr Mpofu

  • @MiaN3420
    @MiaN3420 Před rokem +4

    I think it's admirable to be a revolutionary, but allow your children to grow up to be able to live in a new & different world.

  • @wendymapholo7313
    @wendymapholo7313 Před rokem +7

    The absent father issue is sensitive and it played a big role in my life. Grew up with so much hate for men and my relationships never lasted.
    I broke down seeing a child brought to our practice for a dental procedure and the dad was there reassured the girl that she is brave and he was proud of her.
    I was torn apart, to date I do not have a baby.
    I want my baby to expirience love from present parents.

    • @ayandankundla7850
      @ayandankundla7850 Před rokem +2

      🤗🤗🤗🤗🥺🥺🥺

    • @godpenuel
      @godpenuel Před rokem +1

      ❤️💔

    • @palesamogorosi8939
      @palesamogorosi8939 Před rokem +2

      Have you tried attending therapy? You need to see a professional and heal before engaging in romantic relationships because your childhood traumas will insist on haunting you and causing ripple effects in your life. You may have suffered from the fatherless daughter syndrome (colloquially referred to as daddy issues). It's not your fault whatsoever and you shouldn't feel ashamed, which is why you need to see someone. I will also add that I am glad you have a good sense of self-awareness which is a good start to resolving your past. I wonder if you grew up experiencing mental health issues that are actually probable and justified.
      This is a very sensitive matter and I am speaking from a position of the same experience.
      I wish you grace.
      Please do not be so hard on yourself 😊

    • @busisiwefukweni
      @busisiwefukweni Před rokem +1

      Sending love ❤️

  • @PrinceLekota
    @PrinceLekota Před rokem +2

    This should be interesting!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @thandisizwetyler8954
    @thandisizwetyler8954 Před rokem +3

    Great minds, enkosi madoda.

  • @damilendagane4788
    @damilendagane4788 Před rokem +2

    Respect to Mayi and The Black Pen

  • @lullo9852
    @lullo9852 Před rokem +6

    Thanks

    • @godpenuel
      @godpenuel Před rokem

      Wishing you love and blessings, Lullo ❤️

  • @thando_t1723
    @thando_t1723 Před rokem +2

    Just a chiller here to spectate😭

  • @ikhekhelethuourcake412
    @ikhekhelethuourcake412 Před rokem +1

    Profound, time well spent

  • @KhauheloPhatela-jn5ix
    @KhauheloPhatela-jn5ix Před 10 měsíci

    Unpacking the traumas of being a conquered people.There are no more true africans only Black Englishmen. This convo is very eye opening

  • @globeviewpoint9075
    @globeviewpoint9075 Před rokem +3

    I enjoyed this convo particularly the Co parenting part because im going through similar issues.

  • @ratibamohale
    @ratibamohale Před rokem +4

    Mayihlome is very smart. A sound guy

  • @buyisiwembatha6698
    @buyisiwembatha6698 Před rokem +1

    Such a refreshing conversation 💯

  • @Watsha_The_A
    @Watsha_The_A Před rokem +3

    Damn guys am literally laughing with you guys on them side jokes!! Shout out am not even half-way but am already satisfied but still intrigued to watch some more!💥

  • @tiisetsomalunga2457
    @tiisetsomalunga2457 Před rokem +6

    Great interview

  • @andilentuli8261
    @andilentuli8261 Před rokem +3

    Dope conversation 🔥🔥

  • @RJPups007
    @RJPups007 Před rokem +2

    "Black people has the responsibilty to be great" M Tshwete.

  • @mrmanq9517
    @mrmanq9517 Před rokem +1

    Mayihlome = intellect 😎...great insightful conversation

  • @siphomakeleni1649
    @siphomakeleni1649 Před rokem +3

    Totally agree on the volatility of love part

  • @startswithmesinawekee7668

    This show is too good .. ✌

  • @solomonmthombeni5061
    @solomonmthombeni5061 Před rokem +2

    Great conversation.

  • @mbusowanda6027
    @mbusowanda6027 Před rokem +4

    This guy being interviewed is star struck by penuels intelligence 😅😂

  • @aneleminisi471
    @aneleminisi471 Před rokem

    Great show Penuel as always.

  • @victorphenyosako9840
    @victorphenyosako9840 Před rokem +1

    Achievement in commerce is very important.

  • @sellomagubane3959
    @sellomagubane3959 Před rokem +2

    Great conversation 👍

  • @khumbuzacele2362
    @khumbuzacele2362 Před rokem +2

    What an excellent dialogue 👏🏿🫶🏾

  • @rethabilenxumalo9742
    @rethabilenxumalo9742 Před 11 měsíci

    Mayihlome seems like a really great guy.

  • @hawed19
    @hawed19 Před rokem +1

    Thanks!

  • @kealebogapule1559
    @kealebogapule1559 Před rokem

    Great conversation 🙌🏽

  • @Siyambonga_Mbasane
    @Siyambonga_Mbasane Před rokem +1

    Yho mfana this is an excellent interview. Bravo to you god Penuel. MacG wants to be a gatekeeper and is threatened by other people entering the podcast space but you need to shut down the noise and put a mental block to him.

  • @mandisandongeni1743
    @mandisandongeni1743 Před rokem +2

    Great conversation

  • @_Monde_
    @_Monde_ Před rokem +3

    This podcast is a gift that keeps on giving. Loved this interview. We have great black men living in our midst. I have no doubt that young minds watching are being shaped to epitomise black excellence. 💛👏

  • @buyisiwewendytembe4841

    Intellectuals, this conversation is very interesting..

  • @nthabisenglerato496
    @nthabisenglerato496 Před rokem +5

    This show really needs a slot on our TV 🔥 episode

  • @mrmsports2419
    @mrmsports2419 Před rokem +6

    Once u get past his laid back personality, Mayihlome is a wise man!

  • @tebogomaphefomodiba4232
    @tebogomaphefomodiba4232 Před rokem +3

    Also those stats in high school "by show of hands how many of you have a father, mother, no parents" That was cruel and mean. We found out we had orphan classmates who would have not wanted to divulge that information. Even me I didn't want the whole class to know that my father was alive but absent.

  • @tshepomotshepana7635
    @tshepomotshepana7635 Před rokem +2

    Nice interview

  • @IsaacOEF
    @IsaacOEF Před rokem +9

    Peneul's circle 🤩❤‍🔥🔥🔥🔥