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  • Marriage Short Film on Women empowerment. A heart touching story, motivational video from Content Ka Keeda. Marriage pressure is an issue in India. Watch this heart touching story of women empowerment. A motivational video, this short film would touch your heart.
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  • @ContentkaKeeda
    @ContentkaKeeda  Před 3 lety +1426

    Thank you Guys for supporting us! Your comments, your love means a lot to us. Keep supporting, keep subscribing. Nothing is possible without you guys! 🤗😍🙏

    • @ankit6936
      @ankit6936 Před 3 lety +24

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    • @saroj_choudhary2670
      @saroj_choudhary2670 Před 3 lety +5

      no subtitles needed 😊can't even see the video properlY

    • @princessbananahamack
      @princessbananahamack Před 3 lety +2

      @@saroj_choudhary2670 You can turn the subtitles off there is an option

    • @marutimoney7404
      @marutimoney7404 Před 3 lety +3

      Ok

    • @purplegirl893
      @purplegirl893 Před 3 lety +1

      @@ankit6936 yeh baat apne kisi se copy ki hain har jaga sirf yeh comment mujhe dikhai deti hain

  • @gayathriks3890
    @gayathriks3890 Před 3 lety +6338

    It's a truth. Every women needs to be financially independent before marriage.

    • @skullcandy9641
      @skullcandy9641 Před 3 lety +205

      And even emotionally stable so that you do not depend on your toxic relatives even if you have had a breakup

    • @justlistening7617
      @justlistening7617 Před 3 lety +56

      @DAMAN & DIU you go keep your bulshit

    • @pathaksushma377
      @pathaksushma377 Před 3 lety +78

      @DAMAN & DIU so according to you people who have jobs have no relation , what a stupid thought

    • @RUPESHKUMAR-lm8vu
      @RUPESHKUMAR-lm8vu Před 3 lety +13

      Yes absolutely 👍👍

    • @debasmitapatra9383
      @debasmitapatra9383 Před 3 lety +31

      @DAMAN & DIU old thinking people

  • @amvora777
    @amvora777 Před 3 lety +2671

    "Marriage does not mean security" - So true. Marriage also does not mean "happily ever after".

    • @BeingABitKind
      @BeingABitKind Před 3 lety +26

      @Посейдон Афродита Дионис lol . What about abusive non caring husband afterwards ? Security

    • @amvora777
      @amvora777 Před 3 lety +18

      @@BeingABitKind Valid point. Divorce such men. Difficult, but everyone deserves a happy rest of one's life.

    • @muskansyed2037
      @muskansyed2037 Před 3 lety +13

      @@amvora777 or avoid getting married to such men by finding out about their family history Their background behaviour everything if that custom is followed by the boys family before choosing their desired girl for the marriage sake why not the girls do the same with the boys family huh

    • @user-lm1bg5gs9c
      @user-lm1bg5gs9c Před 3 lety +5

      Neither does being single...thjere are no guarantees....

    • @muskansyed2037
      @muskansyed2037 Před 3 lety +11

      @@user-lm1bg5gs9c why only woman should think of getting married and settling down first and if there is a reason where they will have to remain single for life then what is it a forceable decision and men can stay single can have sex with anyone they desire get married many times have GFS even after marriage but the woman can't think of marrying later in life or staying single

  • @SL-my4fg
    @SL-my4fg Před 3 lety +324

    Ok..my blood was boiling was watching this especially because this is the reality.
    Repeat After Me:
    MARRIAGE IS A CHOICE.
    If you want to do it ,then do it and if not, there's no problem living alone!! It's amazing.
    If this was my home I would have run away(alone 😂)

  • @canadianasterixgmail
    @canadianasterixgmail Před 2 lety +214

    I am a man and I loved the message in this story - women need to be independent and that is where their strengths comes from. My dad left my mom and I when I was 5 years old. My mom was uneducated and we didn't have money so we used to live with our relatives at their mercy. I would have loved for my mom to be independent and successful. Hats off to this daughter and her mom to being strong.

    • @JyoSco007
      @JyoSco007 Před rokem +5

      No wonder, you're such a wonderful husband to your wife. I'm the same person who had those harsh arguments with a guy on another channel who was abusing you for sharing household chores with your wife.
      May this planet have more men like you.
      God bless you.

    • @canadianasterixgmail
      @canadianasterixgmail Před rokem +7

      @@JyoSco007 Thank you for your kind words and support. I don't understand that guy who wants to keep his wife as if she is a servant to him. It is a Neanderthal thinking.

  • @snigddharanidas4688
    @snigddharanidas4688 Před 3 lety +1704

    My Mom was brainwashed by her younger sister for my marriage though her sister daughter was an engineer and was unmarried...I was extremely hampered for my Mousi who constantly abused me mentally of being overaged and not getting married only because I was academically strong and was looking for a good job.....she was the one who would call my Mom and taunt her why her daughter is not married.... today I m a Govt Officer.

    • @ContentkaKeeda
      @ContentkaKeeda  Před 3 lety +141

      Kudos to you ♥️

    • @creamyhora4005
      @creamyhora4005 Před 3 lety +34

      You go girl 👍🏻✌🏻

    • @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook
      @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook Před 3 lety +35

      People act n believe n live their life thinking others want to do the same- your life your rules. As long as no animals property or people or children are being harmed.

    • @shevanigupta124
      @shevanigupta124 Před 3 lety +6

      😘😘

    • @AjitKumar-ro5xb
      @AjitKumar-ro5xb Před 3 lety +5

      Before Me & Mom ... After Me & Money ... Then After Only Money ... Later on Me LEFT aside by Relatives ... At the END ... (a) Someone support me not for my sake but ONLY DUE TO MY MONEY. (b) I had my OWN HOUSE, I left this mortal world in MY house dwelling in complete loneliness, my dead body left decaying till weeks before police arrived after getting information by neighbors on foul odours. (c) I donated my huge property which was earned on cost of youth & energy and I took last breath in an old age home.
      Life is yours decisions are yours. What you selected, what you preferred ... was your DESTINY.
      BE CONTENT ... BE HAPPY

  • @quero7245
    @quero7245 Před 3 lety +1488

    When the girl said "these age-old customs are senseless"..This so true and very deep😘😭👏👏👏

    • @abduldesezzxsexnfsalampzez6643
    • @fabercastell6237
      @fabercastell6237 Před 3 lety +11

      I loved that dialogue. It's true. All these customs are bakwass.

    • @vrattyohar9684
      @vrattyohar9684 Před 2 lety

      czcams.com/channels/Fb6H-aMHfGUBjkujh3u4_A.html .

    • @unknownperse
      @unknownperse Před 2 lety +13

      CUSTOMS ARE NOT BAKWAS
      TELL ME WHICH CUSTOMS SAYS TO FORCIBLY GET YOUR DAUGHTER MSRRIED?
      WHICH CUSTOM CONTAINS THIS MADE UP LINE PARAYA DHSN
      THEASE ALL COMES FROM MODERN ERA (BRITISH ERA) only not before that

    • @hibaaalam5078
      @hibaaalam5078 Před 2 lety +1

      L

  • @sagarbhukra8495
    @sagarbhukra8495 Před 3 lety +330

    A recent global survey has shown that those woman who become mother after 30 even after 35 can compliance their childs properly rather than others becoz those womans have gained much experience in their life and they can take the right decision for their childs education and their future also .... But the fact is in our society there are too less people to understand that fact....

    • @shibasami2919
      @shibasami2919 Před 3 lety +4

      Very true😔😔

    • @rutujapalkar4329
      @rutujapalkar4329 Před 3 lety +3

      True

    • @Akrsty
      @Akrsty Před 3 lety

      " Simp " spotted....!

    • @madvids8626
      @madvids8626 Před 3 lety +1

      @Посейдон Афродита Дионис I think you are belonged to stone age

    • @gamingvibes1042
      @gamingvibes1042 Před 3 lety +5

      Don't go for babies after 35......it's like seeing tom and Jerry at the age of 15 for a whole day ..........pregnancy at the age above 32 is not recommended for girls healthy life ........so plan accordingly and balance the life

  • @Ulg606
    @Ulg606 Před 2 lety +583

    Society be like:-
    Male frnd -No
    Boyfrnd -Big No
    But, MARRIAGE with a stranger:-Big YESS. 😏
    I think,
    A Single LADY is better than a frustrated WIFE.

  • @SD-ft1pe
    @SD-ft1pe Před 3 lety +861

    My mom is totally the opposite.
    She told me first career then marriage!
    And even after having stable career they never forced me to marry.

  • @rcarora2157
    @rcarora2157 Před 3 lety +1598

    Beautiful; Everyone needs to be financially and career-wise independent.

  • @RSRJ15
    @RSRJ15 Před 3 lety +63

    Loved mom's acting!!! Very natural showing her emotions!

  • @sonamverma208
    @sonamverma208 Před 2 lety +39

    I'm 21 yrs. Old and i can feel this pressure 🙂hats off to indian household and their thinking 🙌

  • @maibramjamessingh5696
    @maibramjamessingh5696 Před 3 lety +303

    Domestic violences against women happen and they can't easily get out from that because they are not financially and mentally indipendent. They have to tolerate their whole life with that sufferings. Therefore, it is very important that parents who have daughter should make their daughters financially and mentally independent so that they don't suffer in future. If they are independent then any unwanted situations happen to their life, they could easily handle it without having any fear and insecurity.

    • @RUPESHKUMAR-lm8vu
      @RUPESHKUMAR-lm8vu Před 3 lety

      Yes!!! Good thought 👍👍

    • @dimpalrawat4748
      @dimpalrawat4748 Před 3 lety +1

      Kash meri family b ye bat smjh pati... That I want to be financially independent... 😢😭

    • @poorvisharma555
      @poorvisharma555 Před 3 lety

      Aap jese logo ke tadayat jyada Kyu nhi hai knha hoti hai esi soch

    • @drnagamalarmanoharan8620
      @drnagamalarmanoharan8620 Před 3 lety

      Rightly said 👍👍👍

    • @maibramjamessingh5696
      @maibramjamessingh5696 Před 3 lety +7

      So far, in our country after getting independence we had only one female prime minister. Being a man, i am very ashamed of it. What is usage of this policy like "Beti padhao beti bachao" when there is less implementation. Even in this generation, giving birth a baby girl is considered to be a liability of the family, even the mother herself things like that. I think, it is because of our outdated customs like women are born to be housewife, they can't go for outdoor activities, parents have to arrange for dawry from the time they are born, all these factors are responsible for the situations which women usually face. I won't say, every parents have thoughts like that for their daughters, there are some parents who are trying very hard to make their daughters independent but it is a bitter truth that maximum parents in our country have these kind of thoughts. I think, to have sons like rapists, drug addicts, gunda mawalis it is far better to have daughters who have huge potential to become great personalities. So, ladies try to make yourself independent as much as u could so that you can take any decisions when time comes. Don't think that you cannot survive without being dependent of someone. Always try to have this attitude that u can go shoulder to shoulder with men, even being a woman you can also take care of your own parents even if you get married. You "women" are the ones who can prove yourself an asset not liability. We "men" like us are also there to support u but it's only u who can change this stereotypical thought about you. Jai hind!

  • @riverofknowledge771
    @riverofknowledge771 Před 3 lety +633

    Career First choice and Marriage second so that no one could challenge someone abilities

    • @ContentkaKeeda
      @ContentkaKeeda  Před 3 lety +27

      We hope they do

    • @nandinisharma7096
      @nandinisharma7096 Před 3 lety +5

      But main kya karu yar i am alredy 30 nd i left my job for becoming an actor nd shadi ka bhi man hai

    • @riverofknowledge771
      @riverofknowledge771 Před 3 lety +1

      @@nandinisharma7096 Choose one thing

    • @sangitagupta3946
      @sangitagupta3946 Před 3 lety +6

      @@ContentkaKeeda My parents are very angry people. My parents do everything in my sister’s words .she insulted me from a young age and made me do it with my parents. According to Didi, everything is done at home. My parents forced me to follow her wishes. Didi will marry her 6 year old boyfriend. Didi will marry her 6 year old boyfriend. Didi's boyfriend stays at our house all day later. He will stay in our house after marriage.Opened an account for my marriage. My parents are asking me to marry them. My parents are pressuring me to get married. I don't want to get married. Marriage is very scary.I want to stand on my own two feet. I got a small job. I want to do something on my own. I can't live without my mother. Didi says she will marry by force. Relatives say that mother and father are being pressured to get married. Next year my sister's wedding will come when everyone will pressure me to get married. What should I do?
      Help me

    • @nandinisharma7096
      @nandinisharma7096 Před 3 lety +2

      Lekin shadi ka bhi pressure hai society nd family se

  • @aditisharma5063
    @aditisharma5063 Před 2 lety +6

    Mujhe aisa ldka chahiye jo rotiyan gol gol banata ho.
    Omg literally the best video.
    Yesterday, my family were having discussion about this topic. I am pursuing chartered accountancy and I have exams in may. So, my relatives were like, ab toh isse cooking sikha do. And some of them were like, exams k baad shuru hoga iska cooking course. Until my chachi stood up and said, hum iske liye MasterChef dhund denge taki ise khana banana na pade. And damn, it felt great to have her in my life..❤️

  • @Dr.dna1
    @Dr.dna1 Před 3 lety +183

    Yaa my Parents specially my Mom always tells me to be independent in each and everything and that's what my thinking now !
    My Parents are really open-minded and I'm really thankful to Allah for having such an amazing parents ! ✨

  • @anushapargi3452
    @anushapargi3452 Před 3 lety +2540

    Settlement for a Girl in India means Shaadi and Bacche..!! Why can't we just get out of this stereotype???😤 Girls have an equal right to decide about their future and career. Why can't she be Single,Independent and Happy at the same time?😶

    • @shreyayadav1746
      @shreyayadav1746 Před 3 lety +18

      Exactly

    • @sakshigoyal2104
      @sakshigoyal2104 Před 3 lety +17

      That's true

    • @holistichealthhub8061
      @holistichealthhub8061 Před 3 lety +12

      Exactly

    • @chotuchannel4767
      @chotuchannel4767 Před 3 lety +10

      Yaa

    • @pakeezaqadir4170
      @pakeezaqadir4170 Před 3 lety +16

      Well why mother parenting matters because it has reason that mother focus towards children affect better following western culture where women works professionally their focus towards children is not that better ..please don't disregard the housewife responsibility

  • @ritughosh1807
    @ritughosh1807 Před 3 lety +520

    Everyone forgets that a women has her own life too and her own dreams too.....

    • @santoshpaswan9923
      @santoshpaswan9923 Před 3 lety +1

      Women shd help her husband construct better environment in husband home

    • @bhumika0890
      @bhumika0890 Před 3 lety +19

      @@santoshpaswan9923 women's do what mens so just took another girl and left

    • @krasuuuee
      @krasuuuee Před 3 lety +19

      @@santoshpaswan9923 so should men :)

    • @sanchitabarman5458
      @sanchitabarman5458 Před 3 lety

      Exactly

    • @aanyavalli3762
      @aanyavalli3762 Před 3 lety +16

      @@santoshpaswan9923 why not men

  • @rasmitabehera6398
    @rasmitabehera6398 Před 3 lety +16

    ' Women Empowerment ' it's perfect Caption for It .
    And I ' m in 18 but my mom is very supportive as case of mine ,nd I would telling to him that when I have own job and settled ,then u talked about Marriage .
    She said 'Yes '
    Love you Maa ♥️

  • @nibeditaroye2227
    @nibeditaroye2227 Před 2 lety +32

    Beautiful message conveyed....really important to be financially independent....every woman should have a house of her own .

  • @aliakhan4524
    @aliakhan4524 Před 3 lety +332

    She is right. Marriage doesn't bring security in life. Marrying under pressure is a forced marriage. A girl must become financially empowered before getting married and she shouldn't accept beatings from her husband and in laws.

    • @user-lm1bg5gs9c
      @user-lm1bg5gs9c Před 3 lety +2

      neither does being alone and making money....being with a family and a partner and having children is not cultural BUT A BIOLOGICAL NEED.

    • @user-lm1bg5gs9c
      @user-lm1bg5gs9c Před 3 lety +2

      Seen only half of this movie. Same SJW, Woke XXXX without understanding human psyche. And movies are all contrived, "so you create a mother who is divorced" easy plot. Mariage is NOT FOR TWO PEOPLE, its is for a society and for the children. Marriage is for families. as for career. MOST PEOPLE, INCLUDING MEN HAVE JOBS, NOT CAREERS. most of these career women work with the help of maids, what's the big deal. should see the world outside of india, where kitchen help is expensive and people work all the time, broken families and tired communities. sad life in the long run.
      Start making some films without thoughtfulness ok...Marriage is the name we have given to decently cohabiting. You may not call it marriage but living together is another thing that shows NO ONE IN THE WORLD LIVES ALONE. They get pets and plants and live in painters. Marriage allowed for security. When you do not have that, it is harder for women, who move from man to man to man...oh btw, check out divorce rates, single parenthood in countries where marriage is not honoured. Use your brains and research some. Idiots.

    • @braveimposter
      @braveimposter Před 3 lety +16

      @@user-lm1bg5gs9c just shut up, and respect people's choices. If someone is okay being a house wife let them be, if someone is happy being alone and make money let them be. And if someone wants to get married and make money, let them be.. stop judging people.

    • @Sara-un3zz
      @Sara-un3zz Před 3 lety

      Yes mam

    • @cadonline
      @cadonline Před 3 lety +3

      @@user-lm1bg5gs9c you first try to complete things. half knowledge is harmful. you only watched half of it and posting the same comment repeatedly. If you haven't even watched the full video, what makes you eligible to pass on judgement ?
      Same way, I'm sure you never ever talked to girls to understand their opinion. Ask people about their experiences. Try to understand in FULL, why so many people are saying the same things. There must be something, right ?

  • @jyotswadhwani3429
    @jyotswadhwani3429 Před 3 lety +356

    Brilliant acting i would say.... . Marriage should take place when mind is ready, not physical body . We need to change our perspective.

    • @i3riyashah237
      @i3riyashah237 Před 3 lety +1

      Yess exactly , we all need to change our perspectives on this

    • @Myself_Megha
      @Myself_Megha Před 3 lety +2

      Yes but ur body will not remain younger forever, it will age with time & u will get complications in childbirth at ur old age! I'm not against this. I hate forceful marriage but time & body won't stop for our career, it will age!

    • @harchu-thefoodiequeen5014
      @harchu-thefoodiequeen5014 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Myself_Megha ur right dea .. body vill age .. n whoes gonna merry u den

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      @saritavishwakarma5908 Před 3 lety

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  • @prakritinegi331
    @prakritinegi331 Před 2 lety +15

    My father said "just build your career and stand on your own feet then marrying or not marrying ....love marriage or arrange marriage do whatever you like"

  • @preetishivjeeprasad4064
    @preetishivjeeprasad4064 Před rokem +17

    In Indian society women are dependent on their father after marriage they are dependent on their husbands and when they become old they are dependent on their son. We need to change this things every girl should be financially independent before marriage .....it's very important.

  • @suhasdwarakanath4877
    @suhasdwarakanath4877 Před 3 lety +2380

    Stop forcing your child to get married . Marriage is when they are ready to marry , not becoz of age . This my request to all 🙏

    • @ishaniraula1014
      @ishaniraula1014 Před 3 lety +27

      100th like by me 🤣🤣

    • @navagujarati2820
      @navagujarati2820 Před 3 lety +18

      So does it mean that age doesn't matter for marriage?????

    • @bhavyjyotisharma3642
      @bhavyjyotisharma3642 Před 3 lety +96

      @@navagujarati2820 Exactly it doesn't. U should marry when u r ready instead of marrying before an age limit just because ur parents or society said the same. Being in an unwanted marriage or marrying at an immature age can make things a lot worse in a marriage.

    • @bhavyjyotisharma3642
      @bhavyjyotisharma3642 Před 3 lety +6

      @Dibya Mahapatra exactly💯💯👍🏻

    • @savitripathi6958
      @savitripathi6958 Před 3 lety +2

      I love your rply

  • @anjalibhardwaj2973
    @anjalibhardwaj2973 Před 3 lety +294

    Only thing I have learned in my life is to be financially independent is of utmost importance...!!! This is the reality of our society. Even after being independent,a women is expected to take care of household chores and everything... How can u expect this, she is not a machine, she also needs rest and care.
    A girl is not born only to take care of others....She has a life of her own. This has to end.

    • @thatipuditeja9367
      @thatipuditeja9367 Před 3 lety +7

      Everyone do there personal chores in home ..😁😁don't expect others to do your family chores ...

    • @explorer5245
      @explorer5245 Před 3 lety +3

      ❤️

    • @user-ew7bi2wi4f
      @user-ew7bi2wi4f Před 3 lety +4

      You can hire a maid if working find solutions not problem in everything

    • @himanshuarya892
      @himanshuarya892 Před 3 lety

      @@soummyatilloo1761 Instead of all these things, there must be love, understanding among family members

    • @himanshuarya892
      @himanshuarya892 Před 3 lety

      @@soummyatilloo1761 sorry but I can't get your words

  • @madhu1956sharma
    @madhu1956sharma Před 3 lety +2

    Parents rishtedaron ki aur logo ki parwah na karke yeh socen ki unke bachchon ki khushi kisme hai to unke aur bachchon, dono ke liye behtar hoga. Bahut hi achhi film. As a parent mujhe bahut achhi lagi.

  • @sunitayuvrajpatil3381
    @sunitayuvrajpatil3381 Před rokem +41

    I am doctor I married at 31
    I am independent women
    And now I am 37
    I don’t have kids
    Infact I don’t want kids
    Very happy and practising well
    For women it’s not just to get marry and to get pregnant we also want to do so many things in world .

    • @boss-zv8qg
      @boss-zv8qg Před rokem +1

      Bohot buri halat hai tumhari zindagi ki to

    • @srishtiarmaanianasha6253
      @srishtiarmaanianasha6253 Před rokem +9

      @@boss-zv8qg who the hell are you judging her ....Ki life Kharab hai.... Don't Bark Your Patriachy here

    • @user-yc5gc7pr6w
      @user-yc5gc7pr6w Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@@boss-zv8qgI think you have everything....how you can judge someone's life on the parameters which u have designed, such a big jerk

  • @shanaya4275
    @shanaya4275 Před 3 lety +293

    It touched my heart because m 28yrs & unmarried. The same thing my parents keep me telling every other day. 😑😞

  • @farhanafarid3394
    @farhanafarid3394 Před 3 lety +447

    So relatable.. I'm 21 now & my whole relatives are forcing me for marriage.. I'm ready or not, they don’t even care..I just want to complete my studies.. That’s it

    • @aasthatyagi3001
      @aasthatyagi3001 Před 3 lety +36

      Wtf? You're just a kid

    • @reemadas3529
      @reemadas3529 Před 3 lety +68

      You are too young to get married..just take your parents into confidence and concentrate on your life...purpose of life is to be happy not to please others...

    • @pinkysingh7127
      @pinkysingh7127 Před 3 lety +10

      Same here 😫

    • @shaistaperwaiz7918
      @shaistaperwaiz7918 Před 3 lety +48

      Dont get married at least before 25

    • @futurepilot9077
      @futurepilot9077 Před 3 lety +35

      You are a bacchi yourself.
      .🙄🙄🙄

  • @Rinetto
    @Rinetto Před 2 lety +14

    I'm 26 and my mother also constantly reminds me about how all my classmates are already married and have kids. But in my case, I'm asexual and don't want to get married or have any childern, I just haven't told my parents about it.

  • @nishaa7038
    @nishaa7038 Před 3 lety +106

    I am 30+ and suffering with the same issue since 4-5 years still focusing on my career

    • @nabilaislam9766
      @nabilaislam9766 Před 2 lety +11

      Amazing👏. More power to u

    • @mussique
      @mussique Před 2 lety +4

      Aww nice

    • @srishtisharma6652
      @srishtisharma6652 Před 2 lety +6

      I am 24 and suffering this pressure from 3-4 years...
      And my mental health is hampered now

    • @believeinreality7624
      @believeinreality7624 Před 2 lety +7

      bahan ab tu apni life mei mast rah aur akeli rah....ab kabhi shadi matt karna....abhi toh kuchh nahi baad mei jab akelapan aayega tabb pata chalega

    • @srishtisharma6652
      @srishtisharma6652 Před 2 lety +4

      @@AyushBhardwaj-nk6cg me civil service aspirant hu

  • @explorethethingss
    @explorethethingss Před 3 lety +1444

    No one understands when girls talk about their career. Ladka kamata h to acha h tera kya h roti bnana 😔 it hurts a lot...

    • @ankitkumar6988
      @ankitkumar6988 Před 3 lety +24

      Taking care of home is also a job , 15 thousands is salary for home taker .just demand from them

    • @nandanirocks
      @nandanirocks Před 3 lety +51

      @@ankitkumar6988 they will never provided..bcoz they think it's not a job..it's our duty.. a duty without payment and leave

    • @sunandabehera5075
      @sunandabehera5075 Před 3 lety +29

      @@ankitkumar6988 it's not you to tell what is job and What's not . Ghar pe kaam karna sabko pasand nhin hota

    • @sunandabehera5075
      @sunandabehera5075 Před 3 lety +26

      @@ankitkumar6988 girls are not ascribed to stay in home and do household chores .

    • @user-lm1bg5gs9c
      @user-lm1bg5gs9c Před 3 lety +3

      Seen only half of this movie. Same SJW, Woke XXXX without understanding human psyche. And movies are all contrived, "so you create a mother who is divorced" easy plot. Mariage is NOT FOR TWO PEOPLE, its is for a society and for the children. Marriage is for families. as for career. MOST PEOPLE, INCLUDING MEN HAVE JOBS, NOT CAREERS. most of these career women work with the help of maids, what's the big deal. should see the world outside of india, where kitchen help is expensive and people work all the time, broken families and tired communities. sad life in the long run.

  • @harshitapawar703
    @harshitapawar703 Před 3 lety +339

    I wish every Indian parents will learn something from this 😊

    • @saritavishwakarma5908
      @saritavishwakarma5908 Před 3 lety +1

      czcams.com/video/G4B8a-ogQ8o/video.html

    • @Prekshawholsale
      @Prekshawholsale Před 3 lety +6

      My parents always say me that make career and enjoy 3-4 years and then think about marrige

    • @harshitapawar703
      @harshitapawar703 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Prekshawholsale same here😂

    • @Prekshawholsale
      @Prekshawholsale Před 3 lety +4

      @@harshitapawar703 I am a girl but my mother and father never burden me ki tum ladki ho tumhe ye kaam karna chahiye
      Mummy lehti hai kaam karne ko lekin lekin kehti hai ki tum ladka hoti phir bhi tumhe ye karna hota kyuki ladka ladki dono ko kaam aana chahiye
      And papa to mummy ko khud kehte hai ki rehen do nahi karegi kaam to kuch ho nahi jaayega
      Use ghar ka kaam baad me pehle padhaai karkeoffice ka kaam karna hai

    • @laxmi_dancer04
      @laxmi_dancer04 Před 2 lety

      @@Prekshawholsale 🥰👏

  • @dharashah9744
    @dharashah9744 Před rokem +11

    proud to be My parents...bcz firstly said settle your career after that do marriage ...!!

  • @beenaagrawal3041
    @beenaagrawal3041 Před rokem +2

    Literally my eyes filled with water when she said this line"ek aurat ka ghar kaunsa hua maa"😥😥

  • @bhartiverma7415
    @bhartiverma7415 Před 3 lety +509

    Just turned 22 and they started talking about my marriage but I know how to fight for myself....I don't want to listen from someone mouth that ye to paraye ghar se aayi hai.....I will clear UPSC and will get my own lovely house😊❣️

    • @parakhp9498
      @parakhp9498 Před 3 lety +20

      Off course you will
      But make sure to choose optional wisely 👍😊

    • @bhartiverma7415
      @bhartiverma7415 Před 3 lety +10

      @@parakhp9498 polity is my strongest sub. I will choose that only

    • @meghanayak92
      @meghanayak92 Před 3 lety +8

      Same problem yrr 😓 plzz tell me. How you handling this situation...🥺

    • @bhartiverma7415
      @bhartiverma7415 Před 3 lety +18

      @@meghanayak92 by ignoring and doing my study

    • @mrunalkamble9848
      @mrunalkamble9848 Před 3 lety

      Best of luck dear

  • @manishayadav7374
    @manishayadav7374 Před 3 lety +127

    7:49
    I literally have goosebumps
    From listening that dialogue
    'Ek aurat ka ghar konsa hua maa'🥺☹️
    So sad for our typical indian thought

    • @ruchikanarang1151
      @ruchikanarang1151 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes in parental house a girl has no place and at husbands house at the mercy of in-laws then uska ghar kaunsa hai atleast the society shld decide and even govt shld look into it.

    • @santoshpaswan9923
      @santoshpaswan9923 Před rokem

      Women shd help her husband nd create better environment in husband Home

    • @manishayadav7374
      @manishayadav7374 Před rokem

      @@santoshpaswan9923 women was helping, women is helping and women will be helping,
      But atleast she should know her own house and ti whom she is say that ,
      Haa it is ' MY ' house

    • @santoshpaswan9923
      @santoshpaswan9923 Před rokem

      @@manishayadav7374 women hv no particular home her husband Home is her home

    • @santoshpaswan9923
      @santoshpaswan9923 Před rokem

      @@manishayadav7374 so husband ki seva kro wohi tumhara sbkuch h

  • @Jyotisharma----.....-----..

    I'm only 21yrs old and feel very disappointed to say that my parents was invited some so called guests to show me
    in front of them for getting marriage....without my permission even both of them doesn't informed me about that all....suddenly my mom said to me to be ready , we are going to home ....she doesn't tell me why we are going there suddenly....
    Then I pressurized her that why I should go there I doesn't want to right now ...
    So finally she tell me ...
    And after listening I'm feeling very nervous, scared, angry and sad and many more emotions are coming in my body /mind ...which totally depressed me....
    Next day I go to saloon and cuts my long hair in boy cut ...
    And when my mother saw me she takes a hunger and beat me a lot even my father too he also beats me...and both of them abused me mentally...
    I cried and weeping for around 2 months when I remember...
    Even still now I'm not well ...And most important thing maine apni so called mummy se bat krna bnd kar diya h ...mujhe nhi pta ki y kitna sahi aur glt hai ...pr mere atma agree nhi krta mai dil se unse phle ki trh respect aur pyar nhi kr skti jaise phle krti thi....
    I don't known what god thinks or plan for me....Inspite of these all I'm still alive😅 this is a very difficult for me still alive with this type of family in a room...
    Bhagne m v badnami....
    Marne m v badnami....
    Kahi ka chhora hi nhi h y samaj aur priwar walo ne...
    Bas itna kahna chaungi ki afsos h mujhe baal katwane ka jiske karn mujhe is ghar m rhna pr rha h ...bas baal badhe aur aur sadi ho jaye aur kya kr skti hu...Uske bad dekhti hu carrier....filhal jitna ho ske padhne ki korshis kr rhi hu..

    • @srijasarma4635
      @srijasarma4635 Před rokem

      Same here dear

    • @anonymousk5487
      @anonymousk5487 Před rokem

      Worship hanuman ji and shri ram ji..offer him a plastic gaya on either Tuesday or Saturday and ask him for help. Chant shri ram jayam daily 108 times and hanuman chalisa too. Girls can read hanuman chalisa. He will help you 200%. And your parents will stop asking you for marriage untill you get settled. You will be independent for sure

    • @monikakumari885
      @monikakumari885 Před rokem +2

      Tumhare he jaise bahut se larki aise narak bhaari zindagi beeta rahe hai....ek baat bolna chahenge etta sab kuch tolerate kee ho to thora koshish aur karo or independent ho jao baal badhne se pehle ...! Musibat to aate he hai girane par humme girna nhi hai....

  • @parvathy.539
    @parvathy.539 Před 2 lety +11

    I am 24 , facing it from my relatives and neighbours but my mom she stand with me. Because she know the pain of financially dependent women.

  • @swetabhusal5240
    @swetabhusal5240 Před 3 lety +120

    I can feel it deeply since I am facing this situation these days😞😞
    Never force a girl for marriage . When she decides, she will. Firstly every girl should be financially and emotionally stable on herself☺️☺️

  • @geishas5248
    @geishas5248 Před 3 lety +393

    Loved it! I remember I married at 32..I actually lost my dad when I was just 16 so I was kinda sceptical about having a family or being in a relationship. I was literally so scared of losing someone that I love. So it was my mom who raised both her kids as she's always been independent but her life never seemed to be easy unlike most mothers..so I kinda got the jitters everytime I looked at her and thought about marriage and once we got on our feets and be ourselves everyone around kept on asking my mom.. *when are you going to get your daughter married?* Everyone's kid got married aap kab karoge uski? But what I liked about my mother is she never pressurized me to do something that I wouldn't want to unlike other parents. She once told me that I know when the right time comes you yourself come to me and say that you want to marry this guy and that's the reason why she never forced me to.. she'd always held this belief that there comes a day in my life when I'd realize the importance of having a family and that marriage is not a bad thing..she always acted as a powerhouse of positivity to me .. even I didn't know that I'd ever marry until I met this guy who happened to be my colleague. He taught me the worth of having someone by your side.. the value of true love.🙂

    • @madihadehalvi9357
      @madihadehalvi9357 Před 3 lety +7

      M scared too to trust someone

    • @dr.darshanjotkaur
      @dr.darshanjotkaur Před 3 lety +4

      ♥️

    • @mahamkhan7365
      @mahamkhan7365 Před 3 lety +5

      @@madihadehalvi9357 same I will never able to trust anyone

    • @yoginiatkekar3431
      @yoginiatkekar3431 Před 2 lety +1

      @@mahamkhan7365 why?

    • @diyaangel108
      @diyaangel108 Před 2 lety +4

      Great to know that u have stand on ur own choices..
      This video has given very informative message 👏
      But in reality parents don't agree nor not ready to change their mindset so easily..
      Typical mindset..

  • @kavitashaw2117
    @kavitashaw2117 Před rokem +3

    Realy so touching story
    Aise hi sbhi samjhdar rhe.🤗

  • @AnshuMishra369
    @AnshuMishra369 Před 2 lety +10

    *Ps:-* *Girls are just not anyone's 'Paraya Dhan', She's her own 'Dhan' itself, isn't it enough!?*

  • @moupalim2
    @moupalim2 Před 3 lety +383

    Excellent content. Women are the worst sufferers in case of failed marriages. Only if she is financially independent,she can overcome all difficulties in life. But somehow in India, many people prefer marriage to career. We should atlest try to change this type of mindset. Vital decisions of our lives cannot be taken only due to pressure.

    • @ContentkaKeeda
      @ContentkaKeeda  Před 3 lety +19

      Very true... We hope we can change someone's mindset thru this video.

    • @jigglybear9713
      @jigglybear9713 Před 3 lety +1

      Very true yo

    • @VENOM-tx6gp
      @VENOM-tx6gp Před 3 lety +6

      In case of failed marriages....unemployed women get alimony from their husbands
      Then how are women worst sufferers???

    • @moupalim2
      @moupalim2 Před 3 lety +18

      @@VENOM-tx6gp Alimony isn't automatic & isn't ordered in every divorce case. In cases where a spouse requests alimony, it is the Hon'ble Judge who determines whether an alimony should be awarded or not. Alimony depends on how a case is represented in court.
      If a woman belongs to a comparatively well off family, she may not get the maintenance money and she may not even get adequate financial support
      from her parents after divorce.
      If husband looses his job at the time of divorce or if he absconds, without properly ending marriage in court, who
      will pay the alimony?
      Alimony is not an alternative of financial independence for a woman. Due to the social stigma attached to failed marriages, women are the 'worst sufferers'. Financial independence doesn't only mean money but the confidence obtained thru it to face this world.

    • @meenakshi5362
      @meenakshi5362 Před 3 lety +2

      You are absolutely right....

  • @kashishjhala8801
    @kashishjhala8801 Před 2 lety +4

    Kitne bhi ameer ladke se shaadi krlo jb tk ladki independent nhi hai ladka apko dabaega. Request to all girls be strong and determined koi kitna bhi pressurise kre ap phle apna career bnao. Kisi k aage jhukne ki zarurat nhi.. not even husband and law's. Dikhaa do duniya ko ki hum kya kr skte hai. All the best girls.✨👍🏻

  • @sarahk8512
    @sarahk8512 Před rokem +9

    Indian Marriage is all about pleasing society and your parents. You have to live very carefully in your husband's house. It's a lot of pressure. I'm doing my bsc and my family is mentioning about marriage frequently. Right now they are calm but I can see after 4 months, when my graduation is over they will sell me off. I wish I could finish my masters before marriage 😭

    • @boss-zv8qg
      @boss-zv8qg Před rokem +1

      You doing bsc is a very good measure of your academic potential.... nothing will be lost if you do not complete masters.

  • @aashritanayak1999
    @aashritanayak1999 Před 3 lety +74

    This type of content should be made mainstream coz many people still watch our stereotype indian dramas where marriage is given the priority before career.the type of things we read or see helps us to open our minds

  • @sahanakammar2188
    @sahanakammar2188 Před 3 lety +71

    Every women should be independent financially and in all other ways🔥💯

  • @deepamaniar8908
    @deepamaniar8908 Před 2 lety +1

    Age old khayal logonke dil se easily jate nahi. Ladkiyonko bahot mehnat karni padegi sabka mindset change karne ke liye. GOOD LUCK TO THEM

  • @SeemaSingh-ex9nw
    @SeemaSingh-ex9nw Před 3 lety +63

    The women, who played role of mother,is brilliant 👍👍

  • @dipannitamukherjee6588
    @dipannitamukherjee6588 Před 3 lety +106

    Really impressed by that!! The bonding between a mom and her child is most powerful than everything in earth.....💙💙💙

  • @simplerecipes356
    @simplerecipes356 Před 3 lety +7

    love the ending .my mom is just like her mom.always supports me in my career n evrythng.My mom is worlds best mother for me.❤️❤️

  • @nishakamdar7460
    @nishakamdar7460 Před 2 lety +7

    Very well shown the emotions of a girl as daughter n as mom...and very well tackled with the society!! 👍

  • @arpitasingh3676
    @arpitasingh3676 Před 3 lety +261

    It's really touching nd realistic story..every grl should b financial independent before marriage..becoz uska koi ghar nhi hota 😞😞

    • @Julie-sw5th
      @Julie-sw5th Před 3 lety

      Hii Arpita...

    • @aleenajoseph2899
      @aleenajoseph2899 Před 3 lety

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    • @ginny2922
      @ginny2922 Před 2 lety +1

      Sickkk....the moment someone says this to u ki ldki ka koi ghar nhi hota just throw them out of ur life....they don't deserve to be the part

    • @vrattyohar9684
      @vrattyohar9684 Před 2 lety

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  • @shaikmahaboobjanu9682
    @shaikmahaboobjanu9682 Před 3 lety +70

    This is good short film ,,,every girl is facing this type of marriage pressure

  • @gurmitpaul609
    @gurmitpaul609 Před rokem +1

    Hats off. Girls should be independent. I have two daughters and I am proud of them. They getting well educated to be independent.

  • @surbhimishra1649
    @surbhimishra1649 Před 3 lety +96

    Don't you think 26 years is too early as shown in this video (according to 2021) ? I've seen working girls around me who are getting married around 30 and non- working around 25.

    • @surabhisumedhganu5286
      @surabhisumedhganu5286 Před 3 lety +11

      Video is quite realistic..... The moment a girl crosses 25, the marriage discussion begins...because 25 is considered to be the perfect age for a girl to get married. If she's not married by then, then woe betide her....

    • @vrattyohar9684
      @vrattyohar9684 Před 2 lety

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  • @vaibhavi990
    @vaibhavi990 Před 3 lety +233

    They say, all 'others' have gotten married. But, will never reveal 'how' those are living now.

    • @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook
      @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook Před 3 lety +1

      Spiritual warfare is real please read up about it on CZcams. People are casting spells juju on married couples so they fight all the time. Know the signs.
      Satan uses people to do his nasty works breaking friendships, prostitution which are available 24/7. Creating misunderstandings, oppression, cheating in relationships, cheating in business, adultery,affair, rap*, abortion, miscarraige, prostitution n alcohol abuse, domestic abuse.
      When people don't look after their children hurting them. Stop taking care of thrm- That's satan. Spiritual warfare is real. Laziness is from satan. Start questioning why u feel the way you do?. Doesn't matter what Religeon or background one is from spiritual WARFARE is real. Understand your enemy know it's weaknesses.

    • @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook
      @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook Před 3 lety

      Through the Grace Of Almighty God we are living happily married. We have gone through spiritual WARFARE- aswell. It can effect how one makes decisions and act. Demons don't like it when 2 great people get together. Creates doubt n misunderstandings so 2 people don't get married.
      Forced MARRAiGES are from satan putting sports of rubbish into parents minds and gossip rumours hate is from satan who uses women especially to create hate n rumours.
      I have experienced this and many other things too. I have seen the unseen both Good and not so good. I broke my engagement at age 17. Stopped my abusers at age 8 then another one at age 12. I understand how satan uses humans to do his dirty work.
      We have THE POWER to achieve anything Positive. - never give in to any form of abuse- some parents are under a spell. Black magic exists. My sister was hypnotized by her teacher he cast a spell on her so she falls in love with him- some people have learned to do this. Even other men out there when you look into their eyes. There are energy vampires too they drain energy out I have had experience of this when I used to be a cashier. It's important to have some sort of belief system to gain confidense and helps with consciousness. Educate yourself. These are life skills learning a different language, driving vehicle, cooking building fixing sewing are not only for women but for boys and men too.

    • @vrattyohar9684
      @vrattyohar9684 Před 2 lety

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    • @raphfilms6243
      @raphfilms6243 Před 2 lety

      So proud of this film and so proud my film got selected alongside "Women Empowerment" as well! czcams.com/video/nSC4ptU79-8/video.html

    • @vrkdkdksks
      @vrkdkdksks Před 2 lety

      @@Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook at first i thought you will say that forced marriage is a way to go but this is really a good way to see things

  • @Someone-rj3fm
    @Someone-rj3fm Před 3 lety +1703

    Maa :- Tum paraya dhan ho
    Sasu maa :- tum paray ghar se aayi ho
    So girls just chill jab khud ka ghar hoga tab safai karna 😂
    Edit : Thankx for 1k likes first time I get these much likes 😂

    • @mahisinghvi4092
      @mahisinghvi4092 Před 3 lety +43

      Bro reelss 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ContentkaKeeda
      @ContentkaKeeda  Před 3 lety +70

      😂😂

    • @user-lm1bg5gs9c
      @user-lm1bg5gs9c Před 3 lety +6

      Seen only half of this movie. Same SJW, Woke XXXX without understanding human psyche. And movies are all contrived, "so you create a mother who is divorced" easy plot. Mariage is NOT FOR TWO PEOPLE, its is for a society and for the children. Marriage is for families. as for career. MOST PEOPLE, INCLUDING MEN HAVE JOBS, NOT CAREERS. most of these career women work with the help of maids, what's the big deal. should see the world outside of india, where kitchen help is expensive and people work all the time, broken families and tired communities. sad life in the long run.
      Start making some films without thoughtfulness ok...Marriage is the name we have given to decently cohabiting. You may not call it marriage but living together is another thing that shows NO ONE IN THE WORLD LIVES ALONE. They get pets and plants and live in painters. Marriage allowed for security. When you do not have that, it is harder for women, who move from man to man to man...oh btw, check out divorce rates, single parenthood in countries where marriage is not honoured. Use your brains and research some. Idiots.

    • @factreact4001
      @factreact4001 Před 3 lety +13

      Same dialogue bola saasu ko to usne to 1 mahine kalesh rkha ghr me... Jina mushkil kr diya ab tk.. Bola agr tera nhi h to nikl ja kyu rotiya tod rhi he

    • @user-lm1bg5gs9c
      @user-lm1bg5gs9c Před 3 lety +2

      @Sunny Sorry bro Sunny, you are a paid writer. And you did have the time to let me know that you had no time..funny....Funny Sunny

  • @soniadhillon3067
    @soniadhillon3067 Před 2 lety +2

    This is so true, totally based on the current situation of our SO CALLED Indian culture 💯💯

  • @nishthagupta1220
    @nishthagupta1220 Před rokem +29

    My mom is completely opposite. ..lucky to have her ❤️

    • @santoshpaswan9923
      @santoshpaswan9923 Před rokem +1

      Women shd help her husband nd create better environment in husband Home

    • @live-pf4ur
      @live-pf4ur Před rokem

      My mom also.. she's not believe all this nonsense things.

  • @Legalstudybites
    @Legalstudybites Před 3 lety +65

    This short film should be must watch by every mom and dad so that they can understand what actually a girl feels nd wants....... I also want to be an independent girl ❣️...... My aim is getting a better job so I can take care of my parents lifetime 😊

  • @anjanatk9765
    @anjanatk9765 Před 3 lety +122

    I came to see this today amd i am struggling to make my parents understand that career is important and not marriage...i dont have a person to support me .. thankyou for making such a beautiful short film❤️

    • @adityajaiswal2696
      @adityajaiswal2696 Před 3 lety +3

      Same I'm suffering with this to

    • @anjanatk9765
      @anjanatk9765 Před 3 lety +2

      @@adityajaiswal2696 stay strong dear...thats the only thing we could do

    • @manishagupta7570
      @manishagupta7570 Před 3 lety +1

      Take care

    • @dipanwita7121
      @dipanwita7121 Před 3 lety +4

      I was facing this situation... Now I am financially independent . Everyday girl should make her career first. Be strong and achieve your goal. You will succeed definitely

    • @chetanaghoghari6615
      @chetanaghoghari6615 Před 3 lety +6

      @@anjanatk9765 don't worry...it happen in every home and that doesn't mean ur or anyone's parents are wrong...it's just their fear....
      Just ignore the situation....no need to exaggerate by thinking that parents are not supporting n all...if you don't wanna get married then don't go for that decision....
      But ....utilise the time given to you by ur parents...so that uhh can be something...
      Be something with the fire in ur heart.....only thinking that I wanna be something is not enough
      Just don't pay attention towards marriage discussion for some months and be something in some months that your parents feel proud....
      If uhh will still keep thinking that my parents are not supporting parents are not supporting then you will stuck in that situation only and time will keep passing....
      Do Something...action is required dear....
      And after some months make ur parents feek proud...they could think like yes...now mu daughter did something...."Ab toh sabse....mere doston me ...ristedaron mein ...proud se kahunga meri beti yeh hain...""

  • @chanchlsharma9220
    @chanchlsharma9220 Před rokem +2

    I like this movie very much. Women must be powerful by her financially growth. Encourage our daughters to be strengthened. Yes!!

  • @srushtisomani5503
    @srushtisomani5503 Před 2 lety +29

    "MARRIAGE SHOULD BE AN OPTION, NOT A COMPULSION."

  • @sreejadebroy2529
    @sreejadebroy2529 Před 3 lety +58

    I just want to be financially independent so badly because I know how much important it is . All must be financially independent in their respective lives. It's a necessity.

  • @mohitaahuja4956
    @mohitaahuja4956 Před 3 lety +31

    The way mom replied to her sister-in-law, I just loved it 👌👌👌👌👌👌😄😄😄😄

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      @vrattyohar9684 Před 2 lety

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  • @mownicadutttabeti6647
    @mownicadutttabeti6647 Před 2 lety +3

    My paternal uncle has 2 daughters. When I was pursuing my engineering, his wife used to always tell my mom that girls should get married at an earlier age and both of them have searched for a match for me. Now and then, she always tries to make her elder daughter better than me in every aspect (she feels it like competition). At present, her elder daughter is pursuing her Post graduation and she's still not married. These people just say to others, but don't follow what they said. By god's grace, I work with SBI now since 3 years. Due to this marriage pressure, I couldn't follow my dream (Civil services). But one day surely I'm gonna do it. I hope that atleast from now, everyone first thinks about their children rather than wasting their time thinking about marriage of other's children 👍👍

  • @deepthoughts8249
    @deepthoughts8249 Před 2 lety +1

    "Ladki praya dhan hoti hai kisi aur Kay ghar jaungi wo bhi khengay ki ik prayi ladki ayi hai to phir ladki apni kiski hoti hai " that line literally relate to me

  • @swetajh9008
    @swetajh9008 Před 3 lety +1065

    My uncle once said, "If a woman marries after 30, she might lose the chance to become a mother."
    I said, "So she can adopt"
    "Adopted kids will never look after you once you're old"
    "What is the guarantee that your own children will?"
    He is the one who didn't look after my grandmom. Guess who did? My mom. A daughter.

    • @palkeshrivastav3706
      @palkeshrivastav3706 Před 3 lety +66

      what nonsense i delivered a healthy child in normal delivery at the age of , 34 yrs 8 months
      these stupid ppl. dont know anything about health, biology

    • @redheart8875
      @redheart8875 Před 3 lety +12

      @@palkeshrivastav3706 aapki 1st baby h?? actually mai 31 above hu aur next year shadi h meri.. isliye jara dari rehti hu baby ko lekr..

    • @palkeshrivastav3706
      @palkeshrivastav3706 Před 3 lety +24

      @@redheart8875 yes first baby . but i have taking care of my health a lot since my twenties
      exc..... yoga post 30.. juice,Vegetables, no junk

    • @hnah8680
      @hnah8680 Před 3 lety +41

      I was born when my mom was 43 lmfao

    • @redheart8875
      @redheart8875 Před 3 lety +4

      @@hnah8680 how this possible??

  • @uttampaul8004
    @uttampaul8004 Před 3 lety +106

    Exactly a girl should make her career first, afterwards she should think about her marriage and further life, wonderful and meaningful story and hats off to "content ka keeda" for such meaningful stories😊🥰

  • @DCM2463
    @DCM2463 Před 3 lety +4

    It is always good that parents have an open conversation with their children and not force their ideas on them. All is well that ends well. 😊

  • @Arjun70275
    @Arjun70275 Před rokem +5

    There is no problem in age gap between mother and child these days .one of my di got married at 31 due to some family problems and she is the mom of two healthy twin baby girls 😊❤️

  • @ayshabinthnoor
    @ayshabinthnoor Před 3 lety +189

    I liked how the girl talked to her mother and made her understand. It is important that we create solidarity among the women in our lives. Mostly women seem to pull us down , but it is only because the society has put the burden and pressure on them to discpline and pass on its patriarchal characteristics. Making them see how they are also being used by the system will be an eye opener. We should do it without mocking them but with lot of empathy.❤️❤️❤️ Power and love to all the women out there. Kudos to the team.❤️

    • @ContentkaKeeda
      @ContentkaKeeda  Před 3 lety +7

      Well Said Ayisha. Thanks for appreciating :)

    • @rekhasingh126
      @rekhasingh126 Před 3 lety +1

      Same i m feeling about women home... Which u expressed in this.

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      @vrattyohar9684 Před 2 lety +1

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    • @wintergerman
      @wintergerman Před 2 lety +1

      they wont understand dear.They are conditioned in their thought process.So just do want you want to do.

  • @bhoomisharma6713
    @bhoomisharma6713 Před 3 lety +450

    Iam almost 31 & still unmarried only becoz I want to live alone in my entire life.

    • @anoopmohan4998
      @anoopmohan4998 Před 3 lety +24

      Me too.

    • @andysmudge4849
      @andysmudge4849 Před 3 lety +21

      Hey, great to hear that. I am a man and I too don't want to get married, not anytime soon. Is it lonely to not be with someone or do we regret it later?

    • @Sona42579
      @Sona42579 Před 3 lety +7

      Good yrr,live her life happily

    • @harchu-thefoodiequeen5014
      @harchu-thefoodiequeen5014 Před 3 lety +23

      Me too yaar same 31.. mera toh jeena haram ho Gaya hai..Ron thane aur fights hote hai .. m fedup of all dis drama of marraige

    • @andysmudge4849
      @andysmudge4849 Před 3 lety +10

      @@harchu-thefoodiequeen5014 Dude. I've read a news recently. A wife used to fight with husband regularly and leave home to their mom's. She don't even want to divorce him and he's pleading the court for divorce. Marriages can be hell,

  • @beginning2790
    @beginning2790 Před 2 lety +2

    Aakho se aasu aa gaye 🥺😔

  • @sumbul_ka_samandar
    @sumbul_ka_samandar Před 3 lety +2

    If you are independent then good people will automatically come in your life who respect you and your dreams.. doesn't matter what your age is!❤️

  • @kirtisrivastava8551
    @kirtisrivastava8551 Před 3 lety +102

    Here I'm 27+.. but my family members even don't want to think about my wedding..😂
    They want my career first.. they are regularly motivating me for building my career well..
    After watching this video.. I'm feeling blessed....😊❤️

    • @Arjun70275
      @Arjun70275 Před rokem +6

      Kirti you are so lucky 😞.... I am 27 and my father daily argues with me for marriage......

    • @RAKSHANDASPoetry
      @RAKSHANDASPoetry Před rokem +3

      You are very lucky !!

    • @gkshorts9965
      @gkshorts9965 Před rokem +2

      Same here😊

    • @rishitalodh387
      @rishitalodh387 Před rokem +5

      Same here... My parents don't even want me get married. They said you can live independently after you become fully established, if you want you can do live in as well, no need to get married

    • @Arjun70275
      @Arjun70275 Před rokem +1

      @@rishitalodh387 you are so lucky yrr.....😔

  • @vashnavigupta820
    @vashnavigupta820 Před 3 lety +58

    Every woman needs to be financially independent, Good story 👍

  • @VandanaMegaStar
    @VandanaMegaStar Před 3 lety +7

    Hi Team @Contentkakeeda Loved the end. Huhu, woofu, hufu for all the independent, smart & confident women especially those who've learnt not to give up in life. Thank you so much for making a women oriented, inspiring film, cheers 💐

  • @Alisha-xn8vn
    @Alisha-xn8vn Před rokem +1

    True every girl women be independent be confident and successful carrier content la keeda is right always

  • @minakshirabha546
    @minakshirabha546 Před 3 lety +173

    Women are not meant for sacrificing their dreams all the time... beyond doing household activities even we have lots of dreams to fulfill...it that case m lucky dat my parents always support me....

    • @ContentkaKeeda
      @ContentkaKeeda  Před 3 lety +17

      We are happy to hear that

    • @asmrks2153
      @asmrks2153 Před 3 lety +1

      It's good to hear but some women has their own life coureer so please don't say that.

    • @asmrks2153
      @asmrks2153 Před 3 lety +1

      @Ridhima Saxena yes sister you are right.

    • @archanabansal5261
      @archanabansal5261 Před 3 lety +1

      @Ridhima Saxena in a world where people don't have a house to sleep in, you have a house, people don't have food and water but you do, in countries like syria where there is no guarantee that a bomb may drop near your house, you are living in peace in your house, don't you feel lucky or do you feel entitled?

    • @user-lm1bg5gs9c
      @user-lm1bg5gs9c Před 3 lety +1

      Have you never seen divorced women who make high amount of money....respect and love are intertwined.....money is too small --we need to have a better understanding of human relationships.
      shaadi and children and companionship and belonging are NOT CULTURAL DICTATES BUT BIOLOGICAL NEEDS
      Seen only half of this movie. Same SJW, Woke XXXX without understanding human psyche. And movies are all contrived, "so you create a mother who is divorced" easy plot. Mariage is NOT FOR TWO PEOPLE, its is for a society and for the children. Marriage is for families. as for career. MOST PEOPLE, INCLUDING MEN HAVE JOBS, NOT CAREERS. most of these career women work with the help of maids, what's the big deal. should see the world outside of india, where kitchen help is expensive and people work all the time, broken families and tired communities. sad life in the long run.
      Start making some films without thoughtfulness ok...Marriage is the name we have given to decently cohabiting. You may not call it marriage but living together is another thing that shows NO ONE IN THE WORLD LIVES ALONE. They get pets and plants and live in painters. Marriage allowed for security. When you do not have that, it is harder for women, who move from man to man to man...oh btw, check out divorce rates, single parenthood in countries where marriage is not honoured. Use your brains and research some. Idiots.

  • @rheaanglesey6913
    @rheaanglesey6913 Před 3 lety +156

    A great story to boost the morale of every young woman who wants to be independent and financially self sufficient. India needs many more such movies to be made. Well done ContentkaKeeda 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @gamingbaffi5580
    @gamingbaffi5580 Před 2 lety +2

    Our country and culture really needs such kind of content to be putting a light in there minds regarding certain stupid myths ... And some girls really need to say NO, to the things they don't like and Should not be ready to suffer and sacrifice for stupid things🔥💔

  • @Mohann5
    @Mohann5 Před rokem +1

    finally someone stood for a women

  • @smilypuza6616
    @smilypuza6616 Před 3 lety +208

    Marriage is not a compulsion it's a choice

  • @dollmishra2914
    @dollmishra2914 Před 3 lety +36

    When her mom says : aap apna ghar smvalo🥰🥰🥰nice lines. Every mom should say like this✌

  • @habibahtariq4129
    @habibahtariq4129 Před 2 lety +3

    I lovedddd This short film. Can't describe in words how much I felt this.

  • @Phoolprooff
    @Phoolprooff Před 2 lety +1

    BEST BEST BEST BEST BESTTTTTTTTTTT THING I SAW TODAY. ❤

  • @riddhisinha3496
    @riddhisinha3496 Před 3 lety +77

    I literally cried during this video. The acting was superb and it was so heart touching ❤️. I really wish that those so called relatives start minding their own business, seriously that is the dream of every girl on entire earth✨

  • @sarmistachoudhury
    @sarmistachoudhury Před 3 lety +83

    I got married at 31 after 2 degrees and 6 years of job.My parents never pressurized me for marriage.Although 33 now, I am not pressurized for having children as they know I have other life goals. But yes,that's not the scenario with all the families.Blessed to have such parents and husband

  • @gopalsharma4146
    @gopalsharma4146 Před 3 lety +23

    both characters r really very appreciative but in true love doesn't matter about financial independent . Marriage is not a contract ,to live happily we need true soulmate.

  • @saajidaafreenmohammad8500

    Iam very lucky to have a mom like this 💖 Allah aapko laakh laakh shukar hain ki 🤲🥺 mujhe ithni achi maa ko diya hain..!! Meri har problem ku samaj thi hain..!! Meri har wish ko poori karthi hain😍..!! She never told me to step back always encourages me to do everything..!! Love you 😍ma ur my best friend 💓💗😘

  • @justsomeone389
    @justsomeone389 Před 3 lety +1007

    Our frustrated parents dont know a thing about mental health

  • @dr.darshanjotkaur
    @dr.darshanjotkaur Před 3 lety +112

    I was 23 when according to my parents a good rishta came. But till that time I never thought about marriage….it was out of theme for me. I said no but they again and again asked me and said that this rishta came two years back and now again and don’t let go the opportunity. But I knew I am not at all ready and my studies are going on. That was the first time I felt strength and confidence inside me to say a ‘NO’ as I was very shy. Since then, I have been saying no and learnt to ask for time with confidence. I am 25 and doing a PhD now. But yes my mind itself has started thinking of marriage now….not completely ready but yes finding the concept of marriage right and learning more and more about it as I have seen a lot broken and toxic marriages since childhood. I am still taking my time but ready for the whenever the moment comes! Yes, I would say my parents have always supported me with this.♥️🌈

    • @rekhasingh126
      @rekhasingh126 Před 3 lety +6

      Let me tell u .. doing marriage would never be good option untill u get better understanding patner. Suru me sab accha banne ki koshish hoti h pr baad me aapko srif vastu ki tarh use karte h... Aur puri famliy us bahu ke khilaf kaam karti h taki usko gulam bana kar rakh sake aur husband bi apne famliy ki sunta h. Ye myth h ki larki ko sadi ke baad apni famliy mil jaati h asal me kuch ni h. Mera tow manna h ki saadi karo pr pahle kamao aur kamne ke baad jisse sadi karo wo bi tumhare itna hi finacial independent ho aur jada ameer ghar ka rishta bilqul ni karna warna gulam tow wo pir bi banayege. Sidha sidha baat ye h ki marriage ek gulam banne ki prath h jisme girl ko target kiya jata h. Aur uska experiance ke liye mai hu.

    • @user-lm1bg5gs9c
      @user-lm1bg5gs9c Před 3 lety

      Have you never seen divorced women who make high amount of money....respect and love are intertwined.....money is too small --we need to have a better understanding of human relationships.
      shaadi and children and companionship and belonging are NOT CULTURAL DICTATES BUT BIOLOGICAL NEEDS
      Seen only half of this movie. Same SJW, Woke XXXX without understanding human psyche. And movies are all contrived, "so you create a mother who is divorced" easy plot. Mariage is NOT FOR TWO PEOPLE, its is for a society and for the children. Marriage is for families. as for career. MOST PEOPLE, INCLUDING MEN HAVE JOBS, NOT CAREERS. most of these career women work with the help of maids, what's the big deal. should see the world outside of india, where kitchen help is expensive and people work all the time, broken families and tired communities. sad life in the long run.
      Start making some films without thoughtfulness ok...Marriage is the name we have given to decently cohabiting. You may not call it marriage but living together is another thing that shows NO ONE IN THE WORLD LIVES ALONE. They get pets and plants and live in painters. Marriage allowed for security. When you do not have that, it is harder for women, who move from man to man to man...oh btw, check out divorce rates, single parenthood in countries where marriage is not honoured. Use your brains and research some. Idiots.

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  • @akkshitaakkshita9591
    @akkshitaakkshita9591 Před 2 lety +6

    I have decided to be Bharamachari for lifetime at age of 25 for Lord Krishna because he is Bharamachari and I want to support him plus I have big dreams as a women I know how I will get judged but I love my god so much I will do anything for him. I am not saying every devote should take Bharamacharya but I took that from my heart. That's happiness for me. I don't care what society thinks.

    • @PrashantSingh-rq9ie
      @PrashantSingh-rq9ie Před 26 dny

      Hare Krishna ji a am very happy to hear that you follow bramchari life I am a govt officer I wania life as same thinking and I am worship of lord krishna's.where you belongs?

  • @anonymousk5487
    @anonymousk5487 Před rokem +9

    Relatives say the same as 01.22
    I am 31 and now I m settled in my career but when now I m looking for guys then some become insecure because of my ambitious nature of grow. Finding supportive husband is too difficult

    • @sri123-56
      @sri123-56 Před rokem

      Ryt

    • @PrashantSingh-rq9ie
      @PrashantSingh-rq9ie Před 26 dny

      I am settled in life I am doing central government job as a officer what are you doing and what is your demands?

  • @user-lg8ob3lx7o
    @user-lg8ob3lx7o Před 3 lety +81

    Even I'm the victim of this pressure for last seven years... Damn crying while watching this.

    • @seeuinhell000
      @seeuinhell000 Před 3 lety +4

      7 years?????....so how's it going now I mean did u marry????

    • @AnkurLEGUM
      @AnkurLEGUM Před 3 lety

      Haha

    • @babitarani2112
      @babitarani2112 Před 3 lety +1

      Me too😔

    • @soniachaudhary777
      @soniachaudhary777 Před 3 lety

      @@seeuinhell000 yes people never mind their own bussiness..fr girls it started as they turn 21

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 Před 3 lety

      @@user-yk5lv8iw8x how did u go abroad i wanna go away too for a bachelors seems expemsive tho