I recently watched some of your videos and I'm so sorry for all of your struggles. I wish you serenity, calmness, and peace. May the acquaintances, neighbors, and friends that surround you be kind people with good intentions in their hearts. Here is a blessing for your home: Let this place be a home, a sanctuary of peace. May serenity abide here. May camaraderie tread here May contentment and joy meet here with blessing and success.
It's just a terrible situation. Such miserable people shouldn't have so much power over others. This place, as nice as it is, obviously doesn't deserve a bright soul like you, so your move will be a win for you, trust me. It'll be OK 🤞
You're keeping your head above water, which is admirable considering your circumstances. I was in a similar situation a few years ago, realized I'm basically incompatible with apartment life. I now live in a space on the edge of the city, very quiet. The loudest things I can hear are distant sounds of children playing and cows mooing. Which aren't negative sounds.
Hey! Just found your channel and I hope you found a way out of this hell. I also have some experience with that but in my case I think my neighbor is taking drugs sometimes. I did a complaint because she blasted the same song over and over again throughout my flat and she was in a whole different dimension at the confrontation. The only good thing is that she works as a stewardess and therefore isn’t home in like 50% of the cases. But I also try to move into another flat because I just can’t handle it anymore.
I’m sorry you’re going through it, I know the feeling of not wanting to go to a place that you pay for and have to deal with bullies. I’d recommend a house if you can. You’re not alone. Don’t see it as them winning because miserable people can’t truly win. You’re winning because you’re not them.
Race has something to do with it. I'm assuming the other party are people that get sun burns easily. Your wrong and their right. The property manager is siding with the other party because of it. Best thing to do is move out because it ain't worth the stress. Good luck to you as I'm going through some BS myself.
@@lily10598 The door slamming isn't as bad as it use to be. They can't keep that up forever because door slamming jacks up the person doing it too. They are trying to harrass me by leaving their flood lights on all night long to the break of dawn. On top of the GTA in 2022, I never talk to them since forever because it never worked out anyway. Also by any chance, do you believe in the Bible?
I would love to hear their side of the story too..... there's always some truth in both sides, i live in a neighborhood too with dogs but i have a Bose Quite comfort ultra so we both can live in peace. They are wrong because they expect to be everything according to their wishes and yes it's about race too because they expect Asians to be submissive etc....too bad i didn't live in your neighborhood i couldn't let it slide....i know in these situations there's one thing that helps and that's showing dominance because otherwise they walk over you and control you. I feel bad for you but as i said last time your mental health is key so do what you have to do to find piece of mind ❤ How old are they do you think? anyway i had an alcoholic neighbor and i learned from his appalling behavior to be more assertive I hope you find that too because people can be nasty
@@lily10598 btw are your family and friends supportive and does that help to cope with the stress....a good cry, talking etc always helps Maybe I'm talking Basic shit now but you know what i mean
My friends and family are definitely tired of hearing about this situation but you’re right, talking does help lol. A good cry as well. I’m looking for other ways to cope though. I don’t have healthy habits. It’s tough.
You're not alone, I'm going through a similar situation at the moment with a jealous nasty old woman who has a history of doing the same to the previous tenant of my apartment! I hope you find peace in you new home, your dog is gorgeous! Mine is a Chihuahua x
Sorry to hear. I know precisely how it is to deal with this. You really are not alone. Ultimately, despite the inconvenience, moving will be more a worthwhile option for you. Please don’t dwell on this when it is behind you. The future will be bright.
Dont punish your dogs for them though.....just move as you mentioned...your already trying to move with your friend...your dog does what most dogs do..PROTECT...plus it scensed the bad energy😮
What does your mother think about all this?? My mom and me did NOT play whenever we had any issues with neighbors because when people think they can bully you or your a female,they try to turn it up a notch...go into dept girl,in this case you can start fresh! Sanity can have a HUGE tow. The next neighbor may or may not have to deal with it. They seem jelous of your beauty and since you havent snapped lol,they are going HARD😅. Boyyyy they wouldnt even look my way after im done💀🙆🏾♀️
My mom thinks this is all BS too but she won’t call them out because she doesn’t want to make it worse for me. I wish I had your courage to go off on them 🙃
Sorry to comment twice but sometimes I feel like they have the control. Like they can do whatever they want and I am not allowed to do anything for fear of their stupid behavior
It’s an awful feeling. Like you don’t have power in your own life. We might not be able to do anything but one day they will piss off someone who will put them in their place. I hope your situation gets better.
@@lily10598 honestly it would be a long drawn out fight and money wasted on legal fees, you mention you have a friend you could live with and jobs are plenty. Maybe that's what you need in life is a reset
Sorry to hear you are going through this. These Karens have nothing better to do than bully people and complain. They must be so miserable with their own lives. They say misery loves company, and that's exactly why these Karens cannot simply mind their own business.
Dear Lily, what i am about to suggest may be a bit shocking but, it's something that millions have done and found peace, why don't you become a nomad and live in your car or a camper or an suv...i did it long time ago and found all the tranquility i wanted. It may sound intimidating but whenever someone makes a noise i can always move away from him , haven't you given it a thought? Please think about it ...thousands of youtube videos on how to get started.
I have thought about that! I’ve seen it work for so many people and I think I could do it. But right now I’m focused on getting a house because I want a place of my own. I’ve let people run me out of apartments so I want a safe place where no one has the power to make me move. Preferably a house far from people lol.
Omg. I'm so sorry. I'm hearing this by accident and I am going thru my own terrorizing scenarios. People are evil. I have to say- I don't know your time frame or whatever but worst case while you are still in that place- if it's your own apartment then try a 24 hour cam/audio set-up that you can export from and use it to audio and video ( if you feel comfortable with the video side) record a standard couple of days. That keeps them a little more in line maybe but if you need it to use as a backup later. I hate to add but you say they treat the white neighbors differently and if you can show it, I'd use it. I don't know about animal control and stuff so I can't say things there. I'd check your local ordinance and lease if you have one and look for the loopholes. I skimmed your videos so I see a two year gap. Idk if that's the real time or just what was on CZcams. You have a car and that's a plus. And if you think this ordeal runs even deeper, then look all ways around.And you are not crazy. Idk how to help but I hope you keep looking ahead. And maybe a cam until the next hurdle. You are very smart to put this out there. Follow the gut instincts you might have.
I recently watched some of your videos and I'm so sorry for all of your struggles. I wish you serenity, calmness, and peace. May the acquaintances, neighbors, and friends that surround you be kind people with good intentions in their hearts. Here is a blessing for your home:
Let this place be a home,
a sanctuary of peace.
May serenity abide here.
May camaraderie tread here
May contentment and joy meet here
with blessing and success.
Thank you ❤️
It's just a terrible situation. Such miserable people shouldn't have so much power over others. This place, as nice as it is, obviously doesn't deserve a bright soul like you, so your move will be a win for you, trust me. It'll be OK 🤞
Thank you. I needed to hear that.
Wish you the very best. Take care of yourself and your little dog!! ♥️🐾
Thank you ♥️
I hope you find peace Queen. ❤ I went through a very similar situation.
Thank you ❤️
You're keeping your head above water, which is admirable considering your circumstances. I was in a similar situation a few years ago, realized I'm basically incompatible with apartment life.
I now live in a space on the edge of the city, very quiet. The loudest things I can hear are distant sounds of children playing and cows mooing. Which aren't negative sounds.
That sounds so nice 😌
Hey! Just found your channel and I hope you found a way out of this hell.
I also have some experience with that but in my case I think my neighbor is taking drugs sometimes. I did a complaint because she blasted the same song over and over again throughout my flat and she was in a whole different dimension at the confrontation. The only good thing is that she works as a stewardess and therefore isn’t home in like 50% of the cases. But I also try to move into another flat because I just can’t handle it anymore.
I’m sorry you’re going through it, I know the feeling of not wanting to go to a place that you pay for and have to deal with bullies. I’d recommend a house if you can. You’re not alone. Don’t see it as them winning because miserable people can’t truly win. You’re winning because you’re not them.
Thank you for that perspective! I really am winning because I’ll never be like them.
Race has something to do with it. I'm assuming the other party are people that get sun burns easily. Your wrong and their right. The property manager is siding with the other party because of it. Best thing to do is move out because it ain't worth the stress. Good luck to you as I'm going through some BS myself.
You’re absolutely right. I knew I wouldn’t have a chance against them. I hope your situation gets better!
@@lily10598 The door slamming isn't as bad as it use to be. They can't keep that up forever because door slamming jacks up the person doing it too. They are trying to harrass me by leaving their flood lights on all night long to the break of dawn. On top of the GTA in 2022, I never talk to them since forever because it never worked out anyway. Also by any chance, do you believe in the Bible?
Same situation. Your mental health is more important. It is miserable living like that. You deserve to come home and feel comfortable and safe.
Don't worry, God will handle those people. It's pointless to try to reason with this type of person. I’ve been there. Trust me karma will get them.
I would love to hear their side of the story too..... there's always some truth in both sides, i live in a neighborhood too with dogs but i have a Bose Quite comfort ultra so we both can live in peace. They are wrong because they expect to be everything according to their wishes and yes it's about race too because they expect Asians to be submissive etc....too bad i didn't live in your neighborhood i couldn't let it slide....i know in these situations there's one thing that helps and that's showing dominance because otherwise they walk over you and control you.
I feel bad for you but as i said last time your mental health is key so do what you have to do to find piece of mind ❤
How old are they do you think? anyway i had an alcoholic neighbor and i learned from his appalling behavior to be more assertive I hope you find that too because people can be nasty
Haha I wish you lived in my neighborhood. No one wants to call them out. They are probably mid sixties. They’re retired and grumpy.
@@lily10598 btw are your family and friends supportive and does that help to cope with the stress....a good cry, talking etc always helps Maybe I'm talking Basic shit now but you know what i mean
My friends and family are definitely tired of hearing about this situation but you’re right, talking does help lol. A good cry as well. I’m looking for other ways to cope though. I don’t have healthy habits. It’s tough.
@@lily10598 describe "i don't have healthy habits" 🤔
You're not alone, I'm going through a similar situation at the moment with a jealous nasty old woman who has a history of doing the same to the previous tenant of my apartment!
I hope you find peace in you new home, your dog is gorgeous! Mine is a Chihuahua x
Thank you! I hope your situation gets better… I love chihuahuas! My childhood dog was a long haired chihuahua 🫶🏻
Sorry to hear. I know precisely how it is to deal with this. You really are not alone. Ultimately, despite the inconvenience, moving will be more a worthwhile option for you. Please don’t dwell on this when it is behind you. The future will be bright.
Thank you.
Dont punish your dogs for them though.....just move as you mentioned...your already trying to move with your friend...your dog does what most dogs do..PROTECT...plus it scensed the bad energy😮
Also if you ever can’t sleep try using brown noise with earbuds.
What does your mother think about all this?? My mom and me did NOT play whenever we had any issues with neighbors because when people think they can bully you or your a female,they try to turn it up a notch...go into dept girl,in this case you can start fresh! Sanity can have a HUGE tow. The next neighbor may or may not have to deal with it. They seem jelous of your beauty and since you havent snapped lol,they are going HARD😅. Boyyyy they wouldnt even look my way after im done💀🙆🏾♀️
My mom thinks this is all BS too but she won’t call them out because she doesn’t want to make it worse for me. I wish I had your courage to go off on them 🙃
Sorry to comment twice but sometimes I feel like they have the control. Like they can do whatever they want and I am not allowed to do anything for fear of their stupid behavior
It’s an awful feeling. Like you don’t have power in your own life. We might not be able to do anything but one day they will piss off someone who will put them in their place. I hope your situation gets better.
Get your family to hire you a lawyer and sue them for discrimination
I really want to but I feel like it would just be my word against theirs?
@@lily10598 honestly it would be a long drawn out fight and money wasted on legal fees, you mention you have a friend you could live with and jobs are plenty. Maybe that's what you need in life is a reset
Sorry to hear you are going through this. These Karens have nothing better to do than bully people and complain. They must be so miserable with their own lives. They say misery loves company, and that's exactly why these Karens cannot simply mind their own business.
💯. I wish they would pick on someone their own size/age though.
4:56 BAM there it is....all the proof they are haters😅
Are you still in Greece?
No. I wish I was.
Dear Lily, what i am about to suggest may be a bit shocking but, it's something that millions have done and found peace, why don't you become a nomad and live in your car or a camper or an suv...i did it long time ago and found all the tranquility i wanted. It may sound intimidating but whenever someone makes a noise i can always move away from him , haven't you given it a thought? Please think about it ...thousands of youtube videos on how to get started.
I have thought about that! I’ve seen it work for so many people and I think I could do it. But right now I’m focused on getting a house because I want a place of my own. I’ve let people run me out of apartments so I want a safe place where no one has the power to make me move. Preferably a house far from people lol.
Omg. I'm so sorry. I'm hearing this by accident and I am going thru my own terrorizing scenarios. People are evil. I have to say- I don't know your time frame or whatever but worst case while you are still in that place- if it's your own apartment then try a 24 hour cam/audio set-up that you can export from and use it to audio and video ( if you feel comfortable with the video side) record a standard couple of days. That keeps them a little more in line maybe but if you need it to use as a backup later. I hate to add but you say they treat the white neighbors differently and if you can show it, I'd use it.
I don't know about animal control and stuff so I can't say things there. I'd check your local ordinance and lease if you have one and look for the loopholes. I skimmed your videos so I see a two year gap. Idk if that's the real time or just what was on CZcams. You have a car and that's a plus. And if you think this ordeal runs even deeper, then look all ways around.And you are not crazy. Idk how to help but I hope you keep looking ahead. And maybe a cam until the next hurdle. You are very smart to put this out there. Follow the gut instincts you might have.
Thanks for the advice! And I hope your situation gets better.
just leave this place. it’s hard but it’s not worth the pain
It’s so hard but you’re right. Not worth it.
where in the crap part of the USA do u live in ew
East coast :P
@@lily10598 shes totally racist
I agree. I just don’t know how to prove it.