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  • čas přidán 14. 08. 2020
  • This was the hardest video I've ever had to film. Editing it, I felt like there was more I could have said or things I could have worded differently, but it's difficult to sit sit and try to sum up something like this and talk through the most challenging time of your life. I hope anyone going through a dark time could find some comfort in knowing they're not alone and I want to thank you and every one of you for your love and support. I love you.
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  • @AimeeRebecca
    @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +40

    Today's video is extremely difficult to share and was even harder to film. I kept thinking that maybe I should have said more or maybe I should have said less or maybe I should have chosen entirely different words. Honestly, I didn't know what to say. So yes, it's all over the place, but right now so am I. Thank you so much for all your kind words and support. I love you all so freakin' much.

    • @zoekerr3932
      @zoekerr3932 Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you for sharing such personal information. Once the shock, hurt and annoyance has passed you will be ok. You sound resilient and when this challenge is over things will become clear and you will be destined for great things. You have a great personality and presence it can only stand you in good stead. Sending all the best wishes in the world to you. Z. xx Ps Have you any old crockery to declutter? If so, take them outside and have a smashing time! Z x

    • @maru45382
      @maru45382 Před 4 lety

      My prayers will be with you and all the support, you're stronger and will get through this.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +2

      Thank you so much. That's so kind of you. I think I might have to find some old crockery now that you mention it. That sounds very cathartic! x

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you so much for the support and your kind words.

    • @zoekerr3932
      @zoekerr3932 Před 4 lety

      @@AimeeRebecca You go girl! Z x.

  • @louiseruddock8622
    @louiseruddock8622 Před 4 lety +10

    Such a hard and brave decision to have made. I went through something similar and it’s so much more than a relationship ending, it’s like a hundred little deaths at once. I’m sure things feel uncertain, shaky and scary right now so don’t feel any pressure to put on the ‘right’ face. My friend once told me that she saw a broken bird’s egg on the grass in her garden and thought of me. She asked God why and felt him say ‘it had to be broken so something new could be born.’ Your days of soaring are coming, I promise!

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Aww Louise, this really spoke to me. A hundred little deaths is exactly how it feels. I'm sorry you had to go through something similar because it is so painful, but I'm so grateful for you sharing your experience. That story about the bird's egg is just what I needed to hear. Thank you!

  • @ElyVital
    @ElyVital Před 4 lety +11

    I’m sending you a hug, and lots of prayers, I can’t imagine how you feel right now, try to trust that no matter what the future holds, you are exactly where you are supposed to be, and even if you can’t see it now, great things will come, and you’ll be more ready and prepared has this not happened. Thank you for sharing

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate that and I'm trying to trust that good things are on the horizon.

  • @heathersalagovic8532
    @heathersalagovic8532 Před 4 lety +6

    So sorry to hear of your situation. I too split up w significant other last year after 17 years of being together, married and having 2 kiddos together. It was definitely the hardest thing I've ever gone through. I am stronger now than ever before. Head up girl, you got this! 😘

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +2

      I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I can't imagine how much harder it must be with kids involved and after all that time. It's so inspirational to hear you got through it and now you're feeling stronger. Thanks so much for sharing!

  • @norfolkreads
    @norfolkreads Před 4 lety +7

    My heart breaks for you lovely, break ups are so awful! My ex dumped me a couple of days after I'd given up my favourite job, sold my flat and moved across the country for him because he said it would be better for us to live by his family. I didn't think I'd get over it but 3 years later, I'm in the best place I've been mentally and everything worked out for the best. It's not easy to hear but you will end up where you're meant to be ❤️❤️❤️

    • @shan2222
      @shan2222 Před 4 lety +3

      He's a narcissist 100%

    • @norfolkreads
      @norfolkreads Před 4 lety

      @@shan2222 you're right, I couldn't see it at the time even though all my friends and family were telling me there was something really off about him, love really is blind 😂😂

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +2

      That's so awful. I'm sorry you had to go through that, but it sounds like it made you stronger in the end. I'm so glad everything worked out well for you. Thanks for sharing your story. It's really inspiring and it helps make me feel like I'm going to be ok too.

  • @doodleschucky
    @doodleschucky Před 4 lety +3

    I'm so very sorry to hear this :-( life really does suck. I am going through a marital separation at the moment, and know how painful it is to be without the person you love. And to have given up your job and home, you will feel like you have been hit by a truck at the moment. The shock can be frightening. But like you say, you WILL be ok. Within 2-3 months you will feel way better and starting to know where you are going with your life . But in the meantime cry, scream, indulge yourself as pain needs to be worked through. Take care of yourself x

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      I'm so sorry to hear about your separation. That must be awful. Thank you so much fo your kind words. And I really appreciate you telling me it's ok to scream and cry and I've been doing a heck of a lot of that lately and I was starting to wonder if that was normal! x

  • @khetawolf
    @khetawolf Před 4 lety +3

    Oh my goodness, I am so sorry. :( I am also going through a breakup right now, and it is so difficult. He was my only friend in the place I live at, so it is likely I will have to move. Losing a relationship is hard enough, but I think it's even harder to lose all of your future plans that you created with him. Thank you for making this video; it makes me feel less alone during this time. I hope you feel better soon.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      I'm so sorry you're going through that. It's really difficult and not having any friends nearby must make it feel even worse. I'm glad this video has helped you feel like you're not alone. Your comment has made me feel the same way. We're going to be just fine!

  • @catherinemcmaster-christie465

    Thank you for being so brave for sharing this with us. And please don’t ever feel like you need to apologise for showing your emotions. You’re so brave for even telling all of us what’s going on, you don’t ever owe us anything but we all appreciate you sharing your life with us. Sending lots of love, thoughts and squishy cuddles your way ❤️❤️❤️

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you so much! You're so kind and I really appreciate all your support and lovely words. Thank you!

  • @lindsaygoodwin3140
    @lindsaygoodwin3140 Před 4 lety +1

    Girl, I've been there! I moved half way around the world to be with a man I thought I'd spend the rest of my life with, and he bailed on moving with me. I was alone in a foreign country I went to because of him. Fast word 5 years, I'm immensely more satisfied with my life and happy than when I was with him and everything was good. I don't resent him any more, and I still care about him and wish him the best... but I feel like I dodged a massive... a MASSIVE bullet. I've ticked off the biggest item I've ever put on my bucket list, and love myself more than ever before. Allow yourself time and space to grieve your loss, then start focusing on what you want out of life and all the benefits this newfounf freedom is giving you.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      That's so awful. I'm sorry you had to go through that, but I'm so happy for you that it worked out in the end. Thanks for sharing your experience. It's so inspirational and really uplifting to hear from someone who went through heartbreak and then came out the other side, stronger and happier than ever. That's amazing and I'm so thankful you shared that.

  • @wonderwoman2708
    @wonderwoman2708 Před 4 lety +2

    Yet again youre so relatable Aimee. I am in a long distance relationship of 2 years and have had "almost" breakups a few times. I felt everything you said when i was going through it. I am still with my partner but can still resonate with what youre saying. You can always go back to Bahrain. I think it might even be good for you if you go back to the place that made you happy. The world is your oyster :*

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +2

      Thank you. That's really sweet! I think in time maybe I'll go back to Bahrain. Right now I'm just grateful to be at home with my family so they can help pick me back up.

    • @wonderwoman2708
      @wonderwoman2708 Před 4 lety +1

      @@AimeeRebecca Also, make more videos :D it will keep you busy and take your mind off things.

    • @dianasimplifies
      @dianasimplifies Před 4 lety

      Aimee Rebecca I was thinking the same thing! Prob nice to be with fam right now.

  • @mavrick0ck
    @mavrick0ck Před 4 lety +1

    Just broke up too! Go back to bahrain and go back to what you had. I went back to what I had and the familiarity of surroundings and people was such a help

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Aww I'm so sorry. I'm glad you're able to go back and get some normality. That's really good to hear.

  • @elizabetha9630
    @elizabetha9630 Před 3 lety

    Watching this in 2021. Heartbreak is something I wouldn't wish on anyone. I hope you do feel stronger and happier now ❤️

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you. I definitely feel like I’ve come a long way since filming this. It was awful, but it’s made me stronger ☺️

  • @jaynevassar6526
    @jaynevassar6526 Před 4 lety +2

    Awwww bless you lovely, my heart goes out to you. You are a beautiful strong young woman it feels so raw for you at the minute but you will get there, give yourself time to grieve and each day will get a little easier for you. Take care my lovely sending hugs xxx❤❤❤

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Thanks so much Jayne. I really appreciate all your support and you always have such kind words for me. I really appreciate it!

    • @jaynevassar6526
      @jaynevassar6526 Před 4 lety

      @@AimeeRebecca You take care lovely always here if you need to get anything off your chest xx

  • @Amanda-uk2zi
    @Amanda-uk2zi Před 4 lety +4

    Sending you all the virtual best wishes and thoughts.

  • @faeriesmak
    @faeriesmak Před 4 lety +1

    I am so sorry that you are going through this Aimee. I really agree that it’s important to show people that life has its very low points as well. I am wishing you all of the best.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you. I really appreciate it.

    • @faeriesmak
      @faeriesmak Před 4 lety

      @@AimeeRebecca Also..your hair looks AMAZING in this video. So pretty!

  • @bigdeneen
    @bigdeneen Před 2 lety

    A year later, I pray you have healed ❤ it’s been 17 months for me, and I’m finally having a moment of acceptance and clarity.

  • @miryamhoren8767
    @miryamhoren8767 Před 4 lety +1

    I saw this video and cried with you.. I'm realy sorry for you and hoping for you to be ok soon as possible! 💝

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you so much! That's so kind of you

  • @michellefeona
    @michellefeona Před rokem

    I just got engaged 24 hours ago but it seems like I’m calling it off. I don’t think he is ready for a commitment. After posting our engagement on his IG some of her followers on IG unfollowed him which is disappointing him. He even brought up about a lady follower that I have asked him to unfollow. He seems to
    be disappointed that he unfollowed her. I mean if this things are much more important to him then maybe it’s not wise to continue with jt.

  • @nataliehayward2168
    @nataliehayward2168 Před 4 lety +2

    Stay strong your sailboat has changed course, but the journey ahead is still full of adventure and dreams fulfilled, the wind just changed course.

    • @dianasimplifies
      @dianasimplifies Před 4 lety

      Natalie Hayward I love this. It paints a beautiful picture.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      That's so beautiful! Thank you!

  • @Big_Steve11
    @Big_Steve11 Před 7 měsíci

    3:12 thank you for putting words to how I’ve felt since she left

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 7 měsíci

      It absolutely will get better. I promise.

  • @elizabethannferrario7113

    hi yes it happened to me and yes it rips your heart into bits but little did i know that my man was waiting down the road four months later , being very hurt and it was a chance in a million i met a man , my man we married six months later that was many years ago , he made me feel like the most important woman in the world , at that time we were not able to live together , so yes we got married and yes ups and downs as life throws at you be you will be fine ,
    my love liz xxx

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 3 lety

      This is such a beautiful story and I’m so glad you found your man ❤️ That’s so lovely! Xx

  • @shahadal-khamees5860
    @shahadal-khamees5860 Před 4 lety +1

    Aimee you are such strong and brave girl. I so sorry for your loss. Don't you ever think that breakup will stop reaching your dreams and goals. I am sending you hugs from Kuwait 💕💕💕

  • @r1ch4rd29
    @r1ch4rd29 Před 4 lety

    Aimee, you’re so amazing. I remember you talking about that at times it can be lonely working overseas and I was living in Kuwait and thought you were so brave to be so honest; I felt like that a lot in Kuwait. Lots of things went ‘wrong’ for me over the summer and I’m now working in Europe and have been so happy. The wheel of fortune will turn around again for you too, your such a pioneer and brave person. Thank you for being so honest and brave sharing the truth of your experiences with us. 👏🏻

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Aww you're so sweet. I'm so glad things are going so well for you. That makes me so happy for you and reminds me that eventually everything works out in the end. That's so wonderful of you to share! Thank you!

  • @bysarahalexander4426
    @bysarahalexander4426 Před 4 lety

    Sending you virtual hugs, drunken venting sessions, puppy pictures, whatever you need. I am glad you have your family right now to help you get through this. Hugs!

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much! I think puppy pictures are a must! I really appreciate the support. Thank you.

  • @the.h.is.silent
    @the.h.is.silent Před 2 lety

    I just found your channel today while looking up stuff about Bahrain and I am already so upset about this for you and I don’t even know you! 😭😭. I hope things are going well now! Hugs!!!!

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 2 lety

      Aww thank you so much. That’s really kind of you. I am definitely doing a lot better now ☺️

  • @johndoe-ec3dk
    @johndoe-ec3dk Před 3 lety

    5 days before engagement she says.. I don't have feelings for you after being together for an year. I cannot be happy with you. I still love him and I think I would be happy if you could broke the engagement.
    Can you imagine the situation ? She was everything for me. I thought I am the happiest person and within a second I had to burry the happiness 😭😭😭 Not sure how to deal with all this situation. How to deal with all of this

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 3 lety

      That's so sad and I'm really sorry. It might not seem like it now, but with time you will start to feel better.

  • @dr.claire.perfume
    @dr.claire.perfume Před 4 lety +1

    I'm so sorry Aimee! It seems trite but it will get better but it will take lots of time. Your videos are amazing and you are honestly so inspiring. Take care x

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much! That's so sweet of you x

  • @rachelmatthews4812
    @rachelmatthews4812 Před 4 lety +1

    I love your videos so much and I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I hope more than anything that you find happiness soon and you heal

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you so much. That's so sweet. You know what, my subscribers truly have given me that same feeling. All the lovely messages like this one have helped to pick me up and feel so much more positive.

  • @charlyly1265
    @charlyly1265 Před 4 lety

    I am so so sorry to hear that. This is so hard and aweful. I know how you feel because i am going through a bad break up myself. And not mutual at all.
    We will get through that and when enough time has past we will see it is for the best. I also gave up a dream job in abroad and moved to Europe, just to lose everything. You will be fine!!!!

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      I'm so sorry you're going through that! But you're so right that we will get through it. I am rooting for you. I know that you'll pick yourself up and create an even better life than before. Sending my love and positive vibes your way!

  • @shan2222
    @shan2222 Před 4 lety

    Aimee!!! Right now you need to be where your support system is💕 I know you have that at home, but if you have that in Bahrain then go back! I don't know if he's a narcissist, but this similar situation happened to me and then I learned all about narcs and what they do and when they choose to leave. Either way, this clears the way for the right person to come into your life, and now you know what you want for your life and what you want it to look like. Sending love girl.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Thank so much for the support and advice. He's truly a wonderful person and I can't say a bad word about him. I think it just wasn't meant to be. But I hope that you're right that now the right person can come into my life and I can start making some new dreams come true. Thank you.

  • @combatbunny9820
    @combatbunny9820 Před 4 lety +1

    Your very brave I admire your honesty remember after time you will feel better take care x

  • @TheMrsB13
    @TheMrsB13 Před 4 lety

    I’m so sorry you’re going through this, and you’re absolutely right - You are going to get through this, you will be ok, and eventually you will be good again.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you so much. I really appreciate it.

  • @Brigitte_Cantin
    @Brigitte_Cantin Před 4 lety +1

    I am so sorry and never apologize for your feelings. You have every right to cry. I wish you all the best and hope you feel better soon.

  • @keelylouise5622
    @keelylouise5622 Před 4 lety

    Hey hun, I can relate to you and I no it is horrific as I experienced the same thing this year, you sit and wonder how am i going to get through and that you can’t but I promise you it gets easier each day, it’s been 3 months and I honestly don’t no how I got where I am today you just do and become stronger than ever. Thinking of you ❤️ x

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much. I appreciate you sharing that. It really makes me feel like I'm going to be ok. I'm glad you're feeling stronger. That's really inspirational! x

  • @xasasux
    @xasasux Před 4 lety

    My heart hurts for you. You are right about making this video and it being able to help people. I already felt like you, watching the netflix lady, knowing you will be ok. Hopefully I will be able to think that way for myself too. Sending love.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much. I hope it helped you feel like you'll be ok too because you definitely will be

  • @nataliehayward2168
    @nataliehayward2168 Před 4 lety +1

    If you fight the change of wind you will become exhausted, but if you pull in paddles and go with the wind you will find your peace again

  • @MoominAlanna
    @MoominAlanna Před 4 lety +6

    In a years time when you are on top of the world again this will all feel like it happened for a reason. Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all right? You are a star and I am sending you an e cuddle xxxx

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      You're so right. I will always have the memories and now I just need to see what's waiting around the corner. Thank you!! xxx

  • @teresachick6015
    @teresachick6015 Před 4 lety

    I'm so sorry! You're very brave to share this and so sweet to be concerned about others. I hope sometime in the future you'll gamble it all and win big in love. I know you will because you're amazing!! Sending love.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much Teresa. That's so sweet of you!

  • @alba_Pi
    @alba_Pi Před 4 lety

    Thank you so much for sharing Aimee :) I know it's hard and sometimes may feel like a punch in your stomach (no butterfly survivors) but eventually it WILL get better. It's normal to feel like you're lost so take and give yourself the time that you really need, it's more like a marathon than a speed race. Fortunately, you are at home with your family, and now you have a blank canvas to paint and draw whatever you want to look like your future :) And in case you need to read this: you are worthy, more than enough, beautiful, there's nothing wrong with you nor your decisions, you are intelligent, funny and a strong woman. Lots of hugs

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you so much. You are so, incredibly sweet and have really lifted my spirits. I really appreciate it and those words mean a heck of a lot to me right now.

    • @alba_Pi
      @alba_Pi Před 4 lety

      @@AimeeRebecca I'm so glad to hear that ❤️ Eventually you will get back down to business 💪 (with the Mulan soundtrack). That moment made my day haha You got it ❤️

  • @carolyncarder4977
    @carolyncarder4977 Před 4 lety +1

    I’m so very sorry and l’m so sorry this has happened to you. Thinking and praying for you. (Hugs )

  • @koroshiya_1
    @koroshiya_1 Před 3 lety

    Babe I've been there...I was ready to give up my life to move to the Netherlands with my ex. I thought he was my soulmate. I absolutely adored him and have never felt a love like this before. Safe to say I thought he was the one. Anyway, around the time I was ready to go, he started backing out. We carried on long distance (UK to Amsterdam), but he obviously wasn't invested any more. The worst part was that he dragged it on for another year, while I was hanging on to the hope that we could stay together. I finally broke it off. And my god it hurt. The grief I felt was insurmountable. For two weeks, I didn't eat, I couldn't sleep, I couldn't work. All I could do was cry hysterically and live off a diet of coffee and cigarettes. I felt incredibly heartbroken. But now, years later, I don't think of him any more, and I thank God that it ended. Your soulmate is out there. The universe will bring them to you...sometimes you have to learn lessons before that happens. ❤️❤️ Much love Hun 😘

  • @gurjeet2292
    @gurjeet2292 Před 3 lety

    Ohh i am sorry to hear that

  • @bilalkaziofficial
    @bilalkaziofficial Před 4 lety +1

    Stay Strong Girl. Stay Blessed

  • @kiracox9041
    @kiracox9041 Před 4 lety

    Sending the most love and best wishes to you Aimee ❤️ It’s cliché to say but having been through some horrible stuff over the past few years, I promise everything happens for a reason and you will get through it and come out stronger the other side!

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you. I try to keep telling myself that too. In time, I'm sure it will get better. I really appreciate the support. Thank you!

  • @briangich389
    @briangich389 Před 4 lety +1

    Hey Aimee
    It is well,feel every emotion,feel everything,and take as much time as you need,even a break from everything even doing the vlogs,it’s understandable
    We need you grounded and wholey once again but we shall understand if you need all the time,all the Support system
    You deserve all the Happines,love and Kind
    You loved,it makes you human,it’s okay to be vulnerable and I believe in each struggle,you become better,emotionally,mentally and spiritually,we support you and we love you so so so much Aimee,praying for you
    All is well

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much. I really appreciate your support, prayers and very kind words. It's very kind of you.

  • @gwmagnoliaful
    @gwmagnoliaful Před 4 lety

    Im crying with you and i feel your pain... Sending lots of love and hugs to you! Take care of yourself 🤗🙏🏼💕

  • @karenann7083
    @karenann7083 Před 4 lety

    Oh Aimee, so sorry to hear this. You’re so brave and strong, you’re absolute right life is really sh!t sometimes but in time you’ll get through this and have our support all the way. Here if you need a chat xx

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thanks so much. That support means a heck of a lot to me and I really appreciate it xx

  • @danabucheeri4682
    @danabucheeri4682 Před 4 lety +1

    I’m sorry this happened to you. You are not alone and it must hurt so much. Take all the time you need to heal and I hope that you will be okay. Sending you virtual hugs and best wishes from Bahrain. Take care dear Aimee 🙏🏻

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you so much! It means so much to me to have that support and kind words.

  • @rl3938
    @rl3938 Před 4 lety

    I'm so sorry Aimee. Sending you big virtual hugs of support. I know there is nothing anyone can say to make your pain less right now. Feel your feelings but yes, know in the end you will be OK. If I could tell you anything, it would be that no matter what the issue was that made you part, it is better you found out now, before the marriage. It would have been much worse to spend a decade married to the wrong person.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much. I think that's really good advice and I truly appreciate it. Thank you!

  • @AmyMarks
    @AmyMarks Před 4 lety

    Oh, pal. Thinking of you and sending you so, so much love. My heart really goes out to you. x

  • @lauraliemusic5114
    @lauraliemusic5114 Před 4 lety

    Sending you a hug virtual hug. I love you so much. Thank you for being so honest and real with us. I really admire you for how raw you are. You have helped me through some of my toughest times in the past. Watching your videos always puts a smile on my face. You're so incredibly strong and you will get trough this. Love you so much xxx

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you so, so much! It makes me so happy to hear my videos have helped you in the past. That means so much to me. And I really appreciate your super sweet words and your support!

    • @carlenenehra7337
      @carlenenehra7337 Před 4 lety

      Thank the

    • @carlenenehra7337
      @carlenenehra7337 Před 4 lety

      Aimee Rebecca has

  • @Jasmineofarabia88
    @Jasmineofarabia88 Před 4 lety

    So sorry to hear ♥️ I hope you’re ok, you will get through it, and maybe you guys will work it out, you dunno whats gonna happen so stay strong

  • @LivingLaVidaLudo
    @LivingLaVidaLudo Před 4 lety

    I only just managed to watch this, and it's absolutely heartbreaking to see you like this Aimee! Didn't see this coming at all...I'm sorry girl

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Aww thanks so much. I'm glad I'm at home with my family right now because you're so right that I need to surround myself with loved ones. It's really helping. Thanks so much for all your kind words. You're so sweet!

  • @LifeAsWendyRN
    @LifeAsWendyRN Před 4 lety

    I’m very sorry to hear this. Sending you hugs. And yes, you will be okay 💓

  • @marynorton6068
    @marynorton6068 Před 4 lety

    Just want to hug you. I admire your strength of character. You WILL be ok.x

  • @hllb
    @hllb Před 4 lety

    you have been so brave in even making this video... sending the biggest virtual hugs!

  • @ananeves8515
    @ananeves8515 Před 4 lety

    Wish i could hug you and remind you of what we all see: You are so strong and courageous!!! You followed your dreams and you achieve them, and you show so many people that it is possible to follow your dreams and live the life you want. So i just wanted to remind you that you are allowed to mourn your relationship and take your time to get up. Soon you'll be on your feet again! I send you all my love and wish you all the best! And i admire you so much for your strenght!!! ❤

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      This comment made me want to cry...but happy tears this time! You're so sweet and you've really lifted my spirits. Thank you so much for your support and for cheering me up.

  • @LouisaRubyDDD
    @LouisaRubyDDD Před 4 lety

    Aimee, I am so sorry to hear this. But I love how you have realized that you will be okay. And you will be! Take as much time to heal as you need and you will emerge out of this as a stronger person.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you. I really appreciate the support!

  • @sincerely_kiera405
    @sincerely_kiera405 Před 4 lety

    I’m sorry. I know it’s tough and I pray for your strength. You’re so brave to be honest and vulnerable on social media.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you so much. That's really kind of you and I really appreciate your support

  • @RMD1520
    @RMD1520 Před 4 lety

    Lots of prayers and love coming your way. 🙏🙏❤️❤️

  • @dianasimplifies
    @dianasimplifies Před 4 lety +1

    Oooohhhhh Aimee I know I asked you about it and I’m so sorry! I hope I didn’t cause you more pain. 😰😰😰😰😰 by the way I’ve been married a long time. It’s not always rainbows and sunshine. Nothing is fb or IG perfect. I love you girl! 💜💜💜

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Don't apologise for a second! It's really ok. I love you too and really appreciate all your love and support! Thank you!

  • @zesharijean2978
    @zesharijean2978 Před 4 lety

    Sending love from Kenya Babe! I'm so sorry 💔. I pray that you find greater happiness than what you found I Bahrain!

  • @andreawinkletjones8381

    Sending lots of love and cwtches lovely girl. You will get through this xxxxx

  • @theatreg33k
    @theatreg33k Před 4 lety

    I am so sorry, Aimee. Your Oddballs will always have your back.

  • @omgthatsrita
    @omgthatsrita Před 4 lety

    im a nrew subscriber just ran into your videos. you have such a beautiful aura - keep your head up babe

  • @MakeupTutorialsWithAndie

    Sending you my thoughts at this very difficult time . I understand what your going through . I went through a divorce 6 years ago and it took me a long time to get over the hurt and loss of my marriage . Your right you will be ok ❤️👌

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you for sharing that. It makes me feel so much better to hear from other people who have gone through heartbreak and came out the other side. It's really helpful!

    • @MakeupTutorialsWithAndie
      @MakeupTutorialsWithAndie Před 4 lety

      Aimee Rebecca your very welcome hun ❤️

  • @bindupandit9653
    @bindupandit9653 Před 4 lety

    Good morning Aimee! I love you and always missing you and rest on you thank you

  • @ashrafshaiksgt
    @ashrafshaiksgt Před 4 lety

    Stay strong... what ever the thing it is time will heal the pain...💐💐

  • @BiteSizedBeet
    @BiteSizedBeet Před 4 lety

    Sending lots of love your way!

  • @classicashley3925
    @classicashley3925 Před 4 lety

    Oh, Aimee. I’m so sorry. My heart goes out to you. Somehow, as humans, we are able to move on from terrible things, but it doesn’t make it any less painful. Just remind yourself that time does heal and you are strong enough to get through this.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much. I appreciate the advice and all your super kind support.

  • @beachgirl9823
    @beachgirl9823 Před 4 lety +1

    Aw I’m so sorry Aimee. {Hugs}

  • @iyakida2053
    @iyakida2053 Před 3 lety

    I knew what it feels like,.... To gave up happiness and security for the life you thought you will have,... ending up with nothing,... like a big beautiful cake that accidentally drop in your face,.... You will need to push through this and see the light at the end of the tunnel,.... hugs and prayers to you,....

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 3 lety +1

      That's exactly what it's like. Thank you!

  • @miriammachoka
    @miriammachoka Před 4 lety

    I’m really sorry Aimee.. We are not meant to have just one beautiful life. We can always create new beautiful lives over and over again. I went through this and had to move to Bahrain to start over. Where no one knows me. And I made it. Take your time to heal and feel better. It will get better. Sending you lots of love and hugs. If you ever back to Bahrain and need a friend I’m here 💕

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you so much, Miriam. I'm so glad you were able to start over and create a beautiful new life in Bahrain. That's so motivational!

  • @jehad78
    @jehad78 Před 4 lety

    It takes bravery and true inner strength to make a video like this and to share to the world how you feel. My prayers and thoughts are with you 🙏

  • @YayaBolender
    @YayaBolender Před 4 lety

    It’s better now than after twenty years of marriage with kids and when you are just about to move to another country. That’s what happened to me and yes, I confirm we eventually are ok. You are still young and you have your life in front of you. If you really want to teach abroad, maybe you can organize a new adventure once you feel better. Things happen for a reason. The Universe probably has better plans for you. In the meantime, take all the time you need to recover. Big hugs from L.A. where the things are not as magic as they may look. And you still have your channel and us! :-)

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +2

      I am so, so sorry that you had to go through that. I can't even imagine how much harder this would be twenty years down the line and with children too. If you can make it through that then I can make it through this. Thank you so much for being a ray of sunshine right now!

    • @YayaBolender
      @YayaBolender Před 4 lety

      Aimee Rebecca And I moved away from France to L.A. with my youngest, my oldest son moved to Japan for work. My younger son and I, we got to have this adventure. It was hard without the husband but doable. Just decide what you really want for yourself and try to find the way to make it happen. And it will happen.

  • @Benjaber74
    @Benjaber74 Před 4 lety

    Don't worry sister there is always hope. You are strong raise your head and look ahead sometimes life is hard.

  • @drey67utube
    @drey67utube Před 4 lety

    I'm so sorry Aimee but cry and get it out of your system. You are so sweet, so real and you deserve to be happy. Learn the lesson and then let him go. You are stronger than you think. You deserve happiness and so does he.
    You've missed a bullet now take a drive down to BSPCA and choose a darling to take for a walk. You will feel so much better. Then time to start planning the next chapter.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much. That's really sweet of you!

  • @bealea_lea_
    @bealea_lea_ Před 4 lety

    I was already wondering because you weren't wearing your ring but I didn't want to comment on this. I hope you find love and happiness again. You deserve all the good things!

  • @thetigerlyon
    @thetigerlyon Před 4 lety

    I’m so sorry for you Aimee. You will be ok again, eventually. Xxx

  • @chemt4684
    @chemt4684 Před 4 lety

    Dear beautiful Aimee. Sorry to hear this news. I hope you will recover quickly. You are a wonderful girl and you will soon find a better man who will truly love you. Xxx ...

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety

      Aww thank you so much. That's so kind of you xxx

  • @sonya1lg
    @sonya1lg Před 4 lety

    Aimee I've just seen your video about your break up. I'm really sorry to hear this sad news. And to be honest I did notice from one of your previous videos that you weren't wearing your Engagement ring. Guess a part of me already knew.
    You know what Aimee you are an amazing person. A fun spirit that has a lot going for you. I don't want to say I know what you're going through, but you will and for sure bounce back strong.
    You've a great network of followers who care about you. You've touched their lives in some way Aimee. Like me they're not alone because you're there. So it's only right that your followers are with you though this difficult time.
    I said it before Aimee I will say it again keep doing what you do. We are loyal to you and will always be.
    You're amazing and I love that about you. Stay strong Aimee your followers have got you hun truly You're tougher than you think ..Xxxx

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you so, so much! Seriously, I can't express how much this means to me. At the times when I feel my most down, it's so heart-warming and inspiring to know that there are people who believe I am strong enough to get through. Your kind words have really lifted me up and made me feel so supported. Thank you so much! xxx

    • @sonya1lg
      @sonya1lg Před 4 lety

      Hey Aimee
      No truly thank you hun. You believe it or not lifted me through a difficult time. If you remember I sent you a message, it was stating that your vlogs about Bahrain helped me. This was because my girlfriend lives out there. I needed info and visuals about Bahrain and your Vlogs helped for my visit out there.
      What you don't know is that I too went through a breakup last year with an ex. The trip to Bahrain was to meet my new girlfriend and clear my head. Before the trip I did receive alot of negative from famliy as to why I'm going out to Bahrain. They said it was dangerous I shouldn't be going out there. It left me feeling unsure of what to do.
      But truly Aimee nothing was going to change my mind once I saw your Vlogs. That and my girlfriends advice ensured I had a great time.
      So you see Aimee I needed you then and I know there are followers including myself that will need you again. And sure enough we will be there for you always hun.
      I'm a 50 year old man from Birmingham uk. I love what you stand for. But I know women out there can and will relate to you.
      We your followers love you and need you. As long as we stick together we be ok. Love you loads Aimee you're amazing and inspirational don't stop. Right when and what is the next video.Xxxx

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      @@sonya1lg That's so sweet and it makes my heart so happy that I could help. I remember you reaching out for advice and I'm so glad it was helpful and that it helped! xxx

  • @irenejerezsuita4829
    @irenejerezsuita4829 Před 4 lety

    I am really sorry Aimee. God bless you, take care xx

  • @missverito90
    @missverito90 Před 4 lety

    Aimee so sorry to hear this, sending all the love and best wishes to you 💕

  • @annabellehicks578
    @annabellehicks578 Před 4 lety

    Beautiful clever funny girl, sending you all the love, you will get through this ❤

  • @Yodavilla
    @Yodavilla Před 4 lety +1

    Aimee, sometimes we don´t understand why? But the Universe knows why, and you will appreciate it later. You are stronger than you think, even two years ago when you decided to go to the middle east by yourself. I know that is hard, but be grateful to Cody and the time you spend together because there is a lesson in it. The only advice that I can give you is One day at a time, and now you have to focus on where you want to be, in another country or even at home, you can choose. I know you are going to be ok and very happy again. A send you a big hug. Sorry about my English my native language is Spanish. Love you

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Gracias. Tu eres muy amable. I've been trying to learn Spanish for the last couple of months and it's given me a whole new level of respect for people who can speak more than one language! But thank you so much for your very kind words. That's really useful advice and I will always keep that in mind. Thank you!

  • @montserratgandara4723
    @montserratgandara4723 Před 3 lety

    I really understand you ❤️ my ex after one year of our relationship has a new girl friend and I feel like dying. Stay strong.

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 3 lety

      I'm so sorry. That must be heartbreaking. I'm sending lots of positivity your way ❤️

  • @amandarussell6298
    @amandarussell6298 Před 4 lety

    Sending healing thoughts

  • @beccajanestclair
    @beccajanestclair Před 4 lety

    Sending lots of love xx

  • @abzyfabzy6055
    @abzyfabzy6055 Před 4 lety

    Life's a b@tch sometimes, at least you are back at home near your day one supporters (your parents). You've lived and taught in so many places and that was all you, not anyone else, you'll be back to your normal self soon and you'll come back recharged, no ones lives are normal atm thanks to covid anyway. This is just a blip and things happen for a reason, stay positive and true to yourself, things will work out. You deserve more than 10k subscribers (even though that's still quite a lot), what's up with that?

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      You're so right - everyone's lives are upside down right now and soon things will start to look up again. Thanks so much for the encouragement. That's really sweet.

  • @louiseburgundyice3958
    @louiseburgundyice3958 Před 4 lety

    Just remember to be kind to yourself, look after yourself and look forward to a time weeks/months from now when you Will feel better than you do right now x

  • @maluspezzano7928
    @maluspezzano7928 Před 3 lety

    Aimee, I love you because you are real. Sending love. Love love. ❤️

  • @bobajaj4224
    @bobajaj4224 Před rokem +1

    seeking validation from the internet won't do you any good. it's destructive and sometimes misleading.
    Pour your 'heart' to your 'in real life' friends.. nothing here is 'real'.
    sigh...

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před rokem

      Thanks for your ‘opinion.’ Sharing my experience candidly has helped many other women dealing with similar experiences. I get messages from them every day. I actually went on to write a book following this, which was really therapeutic for me and helped others feel seen and comforted too. Sometimes sharing your sense of humanity with others and admitting to your faults and weaknesses is very powerful. Learning to do that changed my life for the better so, thankfully, your assessment could not be more wrong ☺️

  • @NorthStar3922
    @NorthStar3922 Před 4 lety

    I just wanted to send you love and a virtual hug ❤️

  • @glendaw5221
    @glendaw5221 Před 4 lety

    Thinking about you today. Sending love and good thoughts. ❤️

  • @daniellecolebourne5803

    Oh Aimme I'm so sorry hun x

  • @linasameh9257
    @linasameh9257 Před 4 lety

    Aimee ur the best we all love you 😍

  • @mariampor8536
    @mariampor8536 Před 4 lety

    Good morning ! Hope you are fine ! CZcams suggest your video ...Im from Greece sorry for my English ! I just want to say to you dont worry you gonna be ok soon .

    • @AimeeRebecca
      @AimeeRebecca  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you so much. That's so kind of you!

  • @PumpkinMozie
    @PumpkinMozie Před 4 lety

    I know it hurts so badly, but it will get better. In the meantime, we’re all here for you ❤️

  • @MohammedARahim-wi3to
    @MohammedARahim-wi3to Před 3 lety

    Hi dear....
    I'm Very sorry for what happened, but Live goes on
    If you guys Love each other try to patch things between each other and forget about what happened (Give your selves some time)
    if you Love him and He dose not give a dam ... forget him ... time will cure your pain
    and You will find some one .... who really loves you for you as a person
    I advise you not to talk about Personal Issues out in Public and on CZcams (Some Bad People might use it against You specially if they don't like You.
    Keep Personal Issues within the family Only (Not Every body has to know even the Good things)
    Wish you all the best in life...
    Mohammed A. Rahim
    Bahrain

  • @karenwong1715
    @karenwong1715 Před 4 lety

    Hugs!