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  • The Emmy and Peabody Award-winning journalist Michele Norris was on her first book tour back in 2010 when she began inviting strangers to send her six words about race on a postcard. In the end, she collected more than one-half million personal stories in an online forum. This formed the basis for her new bestseller "Our Hidden Conversations." The author joins the show to discuss why these conversations are essential.
    Originally aired on February 26, 2024
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Komentáře • 191

  • @crafty-lady6853
    @crafty-lady6853 Před 3 měsíci +98

    My race card. I am a 72 year old Southern white lady. At age 5 I saw a water fountain in a downtown park that had a sign on it that said "Whites only." I asked my mother what the sign meant. I didn't know what the terms "whites and blacks " meant. My mother looked quickly around nervous ly and bid me to hush. I could tell she was afraid. She said she would explain it to me at home and she did. I was raised to believe people should be judged by their character and not the color of their skin. My friends and neighbors were very racists. I avidly followed the civil rights movement in the 60s. I spoke out to other white people that I wasn't racist and wouldn't give an inch. I lost friends. People got livid with me. I left my Baptist church because of racism. I know now you don't back down from a fight but i was only 18 years old. I thought naively that Americans had come of age. Racism was just put in the closet and now the white robes and pointed hats are being taken out and worn proudly. Racism turns my stomach. It did at 5 years of age and has all my life.

    • @kgblankinship
      @kgblankinship Před 3 měsíci +11

      You are a profile in courage, as John F Kennedy would have put it.

    • @saludicious
      @saludicious Před 3 měsíci +8

      I understand the feeling that as a society we are going backwards. It does seem that the only silver lining is that we are talking about race more openly

    • @benb6527
      @benb6527 Před 3 měsíci

      Have you had DNA done? Perhaps you are ethnic!! We are all to a degree, that is why “one drop” racism must end.

    • @thomasdequincey5811
      @thomasdequincey5811 Před 3 měsíci

      @crafty-lady6853 You don't have to write so many words to virtue signal. We get it. You're not racist.

    • @user-cz5lj2vx1f
      @user-cz5lj2vx1f Před 3 měsíci

      WHY did you feel the need to make that comment? She was SHARING HER EXPERIENCE. Do you feel racism is something to be proud of? @@thomasdequincey5811

  • @mranster
    @mranster Před 3 měsíci +8

    About seven years ago, I (middle aged white woman) was in the grocery store, and like a goofball, I had a tumbler of water with no lid on it, and of course, someone bumped my cart, and the water spilled. Totally my fault, totally predictable. But the other shopper was a black man, and he was clearly so worried that I was going to go off on him, and he had good reason to fear! It broke my heart that he should have to be afraid of me over something so harmless, and which wasn't his fault at all. We came so far, America, and then we turned around and went back the wrong way.

    • @nonya.bizness
      @nonya.bizness Před 2 měsíci

      ah, that brings back one of the most painful memories of my life, about 20 years ago now. my husband, a big, bearded, burly, loud talking bear of a black man, a vietnam war veteran, came home from a quick trip to the grocery store looking vacant, sagging, utterly defeated.
      alarmed, i urgently asked what happened?? he sat down, put his elbows on his knees and his face in his hands and silent tears started flowing. i had never seen him like this in 20 years of marriage, other than when his dad died. i thought his mom had passed.
      for a time he just kept shaking his head and quietly moaning words that sounded like "i would have died for her" through his tears and quiet sobs. so alarming, i started crying too. eventually he began to tell me what had happened.
      he had turned into an isle in the grocery store and immediately noticed an elderly, frail white woman, maybe in her 80s, standing at the other end of the isle staring at him in alarm. she hestitated and then began rushing down the isle toward him and toward the cart full of groceries she had left halfway down the isle.
      he stood still, watching this play out, wondering what he was seeing happen there. she got to her cart, grabbed her purse that she had left in the cart, clutched it to her chest, turned, and fled.
      stunned, he fled the store too, no groceries. it had been such a great, carefree happy day, we had been smiling and laughing before he ran to the store. this thing had just caught him so off-guard- he had forgotten to put his armor on.
      he's gone now but my veteran's six words still ring in my ears from time to time, like right now: "i would have died for her".

  • @neilifill4819
    @neilifill4819 Před 3 měsíci +49

    Race fatigue? I’m there. I’m as tired of hoping that a simple traffic stop doesn’t accelerate the end of my life as I am of hearing about race. I’m worn out. I don’t want to see another TV show about enslaved people or Jim Crow. I’m also tired of some sociopolitical leaders actively rewriting history to absolve themselves of the wrongdoings of their forefathers, trying to erase the suffering of the enslaved and the Native Americans. It’s so tiresome!

    • @718junius
      @718junius Před 3 měsíci +3

      what are you talking about? what tv shows in the past 30 - 40 years have glorify or even dealt with slavery or Jim crow at all? who is erasing the history of the USA's relationship with the native Americans?

    • @neilifill4819
      @neilifill4819 Před 3 měsíci +12

      @@718junius I hope you’re being facetious because I don’t think they have enough characters to respond to what you said.

    • @718junius
      @718junius Před 3 měsíci

      @@neilifill4819 name all of these proslavery and Jim Crow shows that were on TV. Some black and leftist people live in some type of alternate universe where slavery, segregation, and the real racism of the past literally never ended.

    • @user-cz5lj2vx1f
      @user-cz5lj2vx1f Před 3 měsíci

      Only "shows" I've seen taht address these issues are DOCUMENTARIES on PBS. That guy must be someone of the "ignorance is bliss". @@718junius

    • @LlyleHunter
      @LlyleHunter Před 3 měsíci +3

      @718junius. Some of us are watching our society instead of tv shows

  • @joycesvarvar
    @joycesvarvar Před 3 měsíci +17

    Great conversation overdue. Where there is a will, there is a way. Thanks to this show for bringing this topic to the forefront.
    You can only change the future, by examining your past and present.
    Continue to put important issues in proper context without preying on fear. Education brings understanding.

  • @johnkelley1426
    @johnkelley1426 Před 3 měsíci +41

    Michelle, perfect example of how modern Germans moved forward from their past. The US is the nation of amnesia.

    • @davidk1493
      @davidk1493 Před 3 měsíci +2

      We did fight a war in part to end chattel slavery. 360,000 Americans died fighting for the Union. Of course, it didn't end institutional racism and discrimination.
      Here is an interesting conversation that Grant had with Bismarck
      "You are so happily placed," replied the prince, "in America that you need fear no wars. What always seemed so sad to me about your last great war was that you were fighting your own people. That is always so terrible in wars, so very hard."
      "But it had to be done." said the General.
      "Yes," said the prince, "you had to save the Union just as we had to save Germany."
      "Not only save the Union, but destroy slavery," answered the General.
      "I suppose, however, the Union was the real sentiment, the dominant sentiment," said the prince.
      "In the beginning, yes," said the General; "but as soon as slavery fired upon the flag it was felt, we all felt, even those who did not object to slaves, that slavery must be destroyed. We felt that it was a stain to the Union that men should be bought and sold like cattle."
      "I had an old and good friend, an American, in Motley," said the prince, "who used to write me now and then. Well, when your war broke out he wrote me. He said, ‘I will make a prophecy, and please take this letter and put it in a tree or a box for ten years, then open it and see if I am not a prophet. I prophesy that when this war ends the Union will be established and we shall not lose a village or hamlet.’ This was Motley’s prophecy," said the prince with a smile, "and it was true."
      "Yes," said the General, "it was true."
      "I suppose if you had had a large army at the beginning of the war it would have ended in a much shorter time."
      "We might have had no war at all," said the General; "but we cannot tell. Our war had many strange features - there were many things which seemed odd enough at the time, but which now seem Providential. If we had had a large regular army, as it was then constituted, it might have gone with the South. In fact, the Southern feeling in the army among high officers was so strong that when the war broke out the army dissolved. We had no army - then we had to organize one. A great commander like Sherman or Sheridan even then might have organized an army and put down the rebellion in six months or a year, or, at the farthest, two years. But that would have saved slavery, perhaps, and slavery meant the germs of a new rebellion. There had to be an end of slavery. Then we were fighting an enemy with whom we could not make a peace. We had to destroy him. No convention, no treaty was possible - only destruction."

    • @alphaomega8373
      @alphaomega8373 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Unfinished war.

    • @michaelodonnell824
      @michaelodonnell824 Před 3 měsíci

      And not only about Slavery.
      America also likes to forget that every inch of the land was Stolen from the indigenous Native Americans.
      Americans like to forget that their "Founders", "Framers" and ancestors Slaughtered the original population.
      Americans like to forget that a major reason for the War of Independence was because Britain was limiting their right to murder Native Americans.
      Slavery is often called "America's Original Sin" but there would have been no Slavery if the land hadn't first been stolen from the Native Americans.
      All of America's sins start from that....

    • @lamartruth6601
      @lamartruth6601 Před 3 měsíci

      Moved on how???? They didn't do anything for the millions they killed in nambia.

    • @sheli5483
      @sheli5483 Před 3 měsíci

      In Germany they can teach: "This is what the Nazis did ... what they thought, let's never be Nazis."
      In America we have to teach what the 'Supremacists' did and thought, to make sure none of us be supremacists.
      We ended the slavery but continue to compromise with the supremacy/inferiority idea, and reap the results.

  • @barbaradobson9298
    @barbaradobson9298 Před 3 měsíci +20

    My race card… I very much respect this woman… a Caucasian woman responding to her.❤️

  • @22Too
    @22Too Před 3 měsíci +14

    What a cool, innovate project!
    Journalists should follow this example to delve into the authentic views people hold on important, urgent topics, such as race.

  • @love-si1kx
    @love-si1kx Před 2 měsíci +5

    I am so Grateful she included those who are invested in a divided US, that are busy at work and benefiting greatly! This is an important and usually invisible dimension.

  • @Ahmedkhan8802
    @Ahmedkhan8802 Před 3 měsíci +6

    A very thoughtful and intelligent conversation about a most difficult topic. Thank you both.

  • @gabbysch2625
    @gabbysch2625 Před 3 měsíci +12

    ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
    My six words: Remember; we are all Human Beings.

    • @lamartruth6601
      @lamartruth6601 Před 3 měsíci +2

      I hope you're talking to white people

    • @user-cz5lj2vx1f
      @user-cz5lj2vx1f Před 3 měsíci

      ALL people need to remember this! I'm 66 years old white, low-income woman. Sad to say that in recent years I've had experiences of HATE on the street (& obsreved other people having same experiences). The epithets thrown at me from young Black people of "Old, white bitch"--which in one incident included being pun ched in the face and shoved to the ground. @@lamartruth6601

    • @Still-Learning
      @Still-Learning Před 2 měsíci

      To "remember," one must first know of the first state.
      Without knowledge of the first state, there is only fantasy.

    • @sjacks3281
      @sjacks3281 Před 2 měsíci

      humanity doesn't erase the desire for hierarchy.

    • @williamcarter9066
      @williamcarter9066 Před 2 měsíci

      @@sjacks3281So very true classism is just another form nuance racism by trying make it seem that classism is justifiable and not a cleaner version of racism!!

  • @Eric-dz1we
    @Eric-dz1we Před 3 měsíci +14

    I'm a poor white 64-year-old man. I live in Oakland, CA in the hood. There needs to be more black owned and operated Businesses Concentrated Incentivized tax breaks whatever in Oakland CA
    Black people creating more opportunities for each other.
    I think Malcolm X had it right

    • @718junius
      @718junius Před 3 měsíci

      no more government favoring any particular race or gender is what we need.

    • @gloriaf6971
      @gloriaf6971 Před 3 měsíci

      We have seen from the past that black people are able to create successful business and thriving neighborhoods. Whites didn't like that, so those people, businesses, and neighborhoods were killed and burned to the ground.

    • @GoogleUser-wy2vv
      @GoogleUser-wy2vv Před 2 měsíci

      Yes u are right. We aren’t getting loans.

    • @williamcarter9066
      @williamcarter9066 Před 2 měsíci

      The gate keeper wants to keep of the power though economy which is nothing more than economic racism!!

    • @Eric-dz1we
      @Eric-dz1we Před 2 měsíci

      It's not the government.
      IT'S YOU. Lift up your brother
      Occupy oakland,
      NEEDED, Malcolm X , black panther party, MAKE A BETTER LIFE

  • @user-sx6yb1wn1t
    @user-sx6yb1wn1t Před 3 měsíci +8

    What insight! Fear and HURT. HURT the trama. Most people understand this. We need more love world wide.

    • @loriannrichardson7644
      @loriannrichardson7644 Před 3 měsíci +1

      To love doesn't mean to hide the truth. Love is working together through the truth, eventhough the truth may be hard.
      Running away means you never grow, you never learn to deal with the difficult aspects.

  • @davidolson8537
    @davidolson8537 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Great interview. Should be helpful to even the most skeptical.

  • @Mr.MBarrett
    @Mr.MBarrett Před 3 měsíci +8

    I just finished the audio book. It was such a fascinating, diverse approach to the topic of race. There were so many compelling stories. I'm getting a hard copy for my collection as well. I definitely recommend this book.

  • @tmmartinesq.6216
    @tmmartinesq.6216 Před 3 měsíci +5

    My six words: "Race is just a social construct." 🇺🇸

    • @sjacks3281
      @sjacks3281 Před 2 měsíci

      so is money, and look at how it controls us

    • @TheAngelaoddone
      @TheAngelaoddone Před 2 měsíci

      Race is a powerful social construct.

  • @witwisniewski2280
    @witwisniewski2280 Před 3 měsíci +23

    Humility is not an American virtue or characteristic. Lack of humility stifles individual and societal growth because pathological pride has to be protected from truth.

    • @gerrysharpe1958
      @gerrysharpe1958 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Very well said and true!

    • @joycesvarvar
      @joycesvarvar Před 3 měsíci +6

      Yes, and America thrives on false fear. The past was real, it happened, thousands and thousands of Native Americans and enslaved African Americans perished to make America great?
      Why should it be difficult to admit wrongs and adjust to an appropriate solution.

    • @markaddison4642
      @markaddison4642 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@joycesvarvar Not AA, Freedman aka FBA'S. No foreigners or immigrants in Freedman linage. Symbolism and revisionist history are just as dangerous. Lost tribe's in America exists in real-time. Unapologetically

    • @LiquidSoul06
      @LiquidSoul06 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@markaddison4642 no one isswallowing your foolishness

    • @markaddison4642
      @markaddison4642 Před 2 měsíci

      @LiquidSoul06 American history is real, not a revisionist segregationist delusion. Only 1 group lies about American history past,present, and future. Justice and Truth matters, not cynicism in real-time.

  • @IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS
    @IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS Před 3 měsíci +6

    Racist behaving as if I'm white. (My 6 words. I am white and I don't feel shame. I grew up wondering why racists just assumed it was okay to be racist around other white people without any concern or consideration. I used to wonder what would happen if I said, "Wait, you must think I'm white." But it felt wrong to pretend as if I'm not 100% British isles white. One of the times I participated in a mixed group about how to deal with racism in our community, people were pissed off that I said that trying to teach about white privilege would backfire--it would be preaching to the choir--and that the only way to address the issue was to talk about how racism has harmed all of us. Years later Heather McGhee wrote a book with that premise: "Sum of Us." I felt like even though it was unlikely she heard my voice back then, I still felt heard. I have always thought that this was the only way to begin to heal... otherwise, many white people would resist talking about race because of the shame or blame that people have internalised while denying that. I thought people needed to learn how racism hurts us all. It certainly hurt me growing up in a racist country.)

  • @leemartinez2975
    @leemartinez2975 Před 3 měsíci +7

    I can understand being Hispanic American. It is uncomfortable being a minority which is why I choose to live in South Texas where Hispanics are 90% of the population. It is simply comforting to be surrounded by people that share common culture such as music (rock en espanol, corridos, nortenos), food (pozole, moles, caldos, chilles rellenos, etc), and traditions (carne asadas on weekends), music and dancing at parties, and other cultural aspects. From a male dating perspective, it is easier to meet women of the same race and background and start families. Life in America is at least less difficult when you are part of the group that is the majority. I grew up in San Antonio and went to a Baptist school where most students were white, it was a bummer being a minority. Then in college I naturally entered social circles of fellow Hispanics and Mexicans that were from the border regions and social gatherings were so much more enjoyable. It is understandable that some white Americans feel threatened about being a minority in the next 20+ years. By that time the definition of "white" will probably evolve. About 100 years ago Irish and Italians were not considered "white". Its not as if white people in 2050 will not be allowed to be "white". They will still listen to their country music and what not. I don't think they have anything to worry about. They may have to accept the probability that their future generations may be mixed race but that is an issue each person has to come to terms with on their own.

    • @kgblankinship
      @kgblankinship Před 3 měsíci +2

      My wife is Portuguese, which is a similar culture. We've been married 42 years and with five grandchildren. There are both similarities and differences between mainstream American and Hispanic-Lusitanic culture ("Lusitanic' being the term for Portuguese, Brazilian, and other former Portuguese colonies). For one, Hispanic-Lusitanic culture tends to be more authoritarian, going back to the old absolute monarchies of Spain and Portugal. England, from where mainstream American culture was derived, had a monarch back then with powers strongly limited by the Magna Carta. It was this, as well as the decline of serfdom after the Black Death (which hit Britain especially hard) that gave rise to the free-market and individualistic culture of Britain and the mainstream American one.

    • @leemartinez2975
      @leemartinez2975 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@kgblankinship I push back against your claim that "Hispanic" culture tends to be more authoritarian. Right now its white Americans that are comfortable with the idea of trump having unlimited terms and absolute immunity from prosecution. In any event, being in the majority is a lot better no matter how you look at it.

    • @kgblankinship
      @kgblankinship Před 3 měsíci +2

      @@leemartinez2975 : Good point. I was talking historically. American political views about democracy and individual rights changed dramatically over the past half-century.
      The Constitution established a liberal representative democracy by law, and it was an outstanding achievement at the time it was ratified (1788). The religious right never accepted it even at the time it came out. Also since then, we've seen other anti-democratic undercurrents: the southern business elite which congealed in the 1830s into a conservative aristocratic faction and corporate America beginning with the Vanderbilts and expanding greatly in the late 19th century. We also had large-scale immigration from non-democratic countries, most notably from Imperial Germany during the 1870s-1880s. It was Reagan who brought all these factions together, including the religious right into a political force that was to slay the Constitution. And most of the members of these factions are white. Now Trump promises to fulfill the aims of this movement.

    • @sandycheeks1580
      @sandycheeks1580 Před 3 měsíci

      Whites whitewashed country music too! 😢

  • @newpilgrim
    @newpilgrim Před 2 měsíci

    Beautiful project and thanks so much for highlighting!

  • @dune3j
    @dune3j Před 3 měsíci +3

    That discussion was excellent and I hope we can have an ongoing comprehensive curriculum about our country’s history in this way.
    It’s unfortunate and a lost opportunity to limit information about our country’s social development.

  • @sandrakillett9242
    @sandrakillett9242 Před 3 měsíci +1

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💕We have many tools to help us move forward and your project work is one of the tools! Thank you 💕

  • @JustAThought155
    @JustAThought155 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Great topic! Fabulous conversation. But as a dark skinned American, my six words are: God! Americans, GET OVER racial division!
    We are ONE RACE: HUMANS! We HAVE TO STAND TOGETHER, especially in America, for divided, WE WILL FALL…and know this: our enemies can ruin the s from the inside out. Seriously. UNITE!

  • @edmallon2851
    @edmallon2851 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Michele I am white 70 old male, Thank you

  • @mswildi
    @mswildi Před 2 měsíci

    I love the questions and I love her answers. So glad I watched this video. I'm sharing it.

  • @Foulball0206
    @Foulball0206 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Great video

  • @user-nq8ho9vq1i
    @user-nq8ho9vq1i Před 3 měsíci +3

    Very proud of this fellow human, it is really tough to be a role model. Very commendable. I think an issue on the terms of “pay back” is a fundamental belief that the world works as “an eye for an eye”. My therapist said the full sentence was “an eye for an eye makes the world go blind”. Someone can fact check, but that’s not a unique principle, it actually is very prevalent just dismissed. Now, doesn’t mean mean-spiritedness doesn’t exist. When are we going to get the disabled into the conversation, because that’s where this root might be heading- challenging the “survival of the fittest “. I don’t know, truly :(

    • @user-nq8ho9vq1i
      @user-nq8ho9vq1i Před 3 měsíci +1

      I also wanted to add that my family lineage is directly affected by disability. So not on a horse anywhere up there. Just I have spent a lot of time digging into the soil, and I know my thoughts are not that that unique, gratefully so.

  • @Mach7RadioIntercepts
    @Mach7RadioIntercepts Před 3 měsíci +2

    11:35 OMG... That quote... I lived in the west Baltimore neighborhood with Lucille Clifton's family. It is a small world.

  • @vivianwong56
    @vivianwong56 Před 2 měsíci

    I’m 68 lives in states since 1981. Still working I’m grateful for this country for being so generous to me and my short coming fa

    • @vivianwong56
      @vivianwong56 Před 2 měsíci

      I’m working since I was 7 and only have 7&1/2 years of education. In life we fixing each other and sharing our lives and hoping we bare our differences and make peace with each other. Life is difficult regardless who we are and how well we were. We constantly need to adapt ourselves to change. What I see is that the world is changing so unsustainable that we should look for less and forwards. Burden from the past has been getting heavier because I don’t see the future on human race. I’m pessimistic. But I do grateful for this country gave me some good years. God have mercy on earth!

  • @dianewiegel7136
    @dianewiegel7136 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Yes, that is a good key talk across our differences.

  • @ksairman
    @ksairman Před 2 měsíci +1

    I feel intense sadness when I consider the problem of race and race relations. It comes from a strong sense of empathy and the failure of my efforts to help.

  • @kasondaleigh
    @kasondaleigh Před 3 měsíci

    Excellent interview.

  • @witwisniewski2280
    @witwisniewski2280 Před 3 měsíci +8

    I wish sociologists and psychologists would research and explain tribalism, the us versus them mentality. It appears to be harmful to all parties involved, and serves no higher purpose. No well meaning person benefits from polarization.

  • @ninemoonplanet
    @ninemoonplanet Před 3 měsíci +12

    I live as a minority in my own neighborhood, as a "white" person, but I am not uncomfortable with this. I go to a mall, for example, and the majority of people don't converse in English. I can enjoy cuisine from around the world. I can find clothing that's decorated with all sorts of things, embroidery, colours that are gorgeous. It makes my life far more vibrant.

    • @christinerichardson6596
      @christinerichardson6596 Před 3 měsíci

      It's wonderful to be able to immerse ones self in other cultures! I come from NYC, and I remember walking across town and smelling foods from all across the world! Small mom and pop restaurants! That was over 55 years ago!

  • @slowandeasy8581
    @slowandeasy8581 Před 2 měsíci

    Susie served as a therapist for my parent who were facing divorce. She lived across the hall, and my parents would call her over when they had problems. Susie was wonderful. She also shared over the years that she grew up on a plantation where her parents had been slaves. She said that that the two families (slave and and white) grew close and her family stayed on the plantation with positive results. I value her and those of us who can forgive and work together. I lived on one of two streets in a small town, these streets had all of the black population of the town. A great way to grow up, knowing the finest of all in both races.

  • @jocosus3
    @jocosus3 Před 3 měsíci +4

    15:28 Land of the free, home of amnesia = #Merica

  • @ragnarlothbruk5090
    @ragnarlothbruk5090 Před 2 měsíci +1

    “ USA really stands for the United States of Amnesia
    Nobody remembers anything past Monday morning”
    Vidal Gore.

  • @nitrro1
    @nitrro1 Před 3 měsíci

  • @user-bs4wz2fw6p
    @user-bs4wz2fw6p Před 3 měsíci

    Very interesting I need to find this…sounds of race!? 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

  • @jasonalaimo4787
    @jasonalaimo4787 Před 3 měsíci +2

    MY MOM TAUGHT NO RACISM HERE
    I’m 62

  • @sandycheeks1580
    @sandycheeks1580 Před 3 měsíci +1

    🎉😂 My 6 words: Get ready for a brown America 🇺🇸!🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @bravoeventproductions7773
    @bravoeventproductions7773 Před 2 měsíci

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @cherylnelson8716
    @cherylnelson8716 Před 3 měsíci +1

    My race card: I exist, some can’t except that.

  • @issakleonard1
    @issakleonard1 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Germany's Nazis lost... Our Nazis won... that's the difference

    • @THATBOISHAD
      @THATBOISHAD Před 3 měsíci +1

      No they just haven't been brought to justice. So they keep poking the bear.

  • @22Too
    @22Too Před 3 měsíci +4

    My race card:
    My beloved nanny was black. Unforgettable.

    • @robinvolpi
      @robinvolpi Před 2 měsíci +1

      The nanny. 😬
      Interesting.... ;).lol

    • @Mindingmybusinessyadig
      @Mindingmybusinessyadig Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@robinvolpi the fact that you commented in that way was not cool...

  • @deemorgan5046
    @deemorgan5046 Před 3 měsíci

    I am shocked the 60s had such promise!!
    Godspeed
    It's 8

  • @emergebyal8054
    @emergebyal8054 Před 2 měsíci

    It would be OK to erase history if their plan was to make a better history for ALL people. However, we still believe the quote that says, “those who fail to remember their history are destined to repeat it“. I’m afraid the political pundits want to repeat that portion of history that was so beneficial to them…

  • @jamielunes1841
    @jamielunes1841 Před 3 měsíci

    Name of the book?

  • @patriciajump9511
    @patriciajump9511 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Well, just publish the book. Just keep sending out postcards to return. Imo, discussion is too hard to figure out how to do in enough volume that will facilitate the exchange of information such that it improves understanding and improves relations, etc., etc. Please, don't believe the solution is to leap from postcards to face to face discussions. That will lead to the discussions being false. Keep sending out postcards, analyze the data gathered, and keep publishing the results. This will prevent the opinions and words of quiet people from being neglected.

  • @stefangonzo
    @stefangonzo Před 2 měsíci +1

    A Debt is owed. Reparations. That fact is so blatantly obvious once I became "woke". Once I learned the true history and current systems.
    Also explains the desperate reaction to hide the history and oppose being "woke". The reactionaries want to everyone to behave as if Reparations have already been paid.
    Of course an honest Reparations from individual people is impossible. The living do not owe for the dead. (Over-simplified, I know)
    But Reparations from institutions, organizations and most importantly, corporations, is possible. Reparations need not burden the Have-not's. Only the Haves...

  • @JackycClark
    @JackycClark Před 3 měsíci +1

    Starting in Kindergarten children should be encouraged to speak aloud the differences between them . We are after all unique . If we are free to talk about it then , it could go a long way towards teaching children to be open minded .
    I remember saying the Pledge of Allegiance and singing patriotic songs in elementary . Those things are ingrained for life .

  • @bernardwylie9760
    @bernardwylie9760 Před 3 měsíci +1

    America: “land of the free, and home of the amnesia”. And yes, compared to Germany and the holocaust we’ve done a terrible job.

  • @LRD113
    @LRD113 Před 3 měsíci +14

    There is only one Race, Human race, different cultures, i don’t understand why Americans have so hard to grasp genetics 🧬 facts?

  • @carolyn7691
    @carolyn7691 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Excellent movies about racism and cops: Birth of a Nation, and Queen & Slim.

    • @mareerogers364
      @mareerogers364 Před 2 měsíci

      Queen and Slim was 2 Africans pretending to act ADOS. It was awful. I'm sure native born ADOS actors would bring an authentic identity to it.

  • @gemmeldrakes2758
    @gemmeldrakes2758 Před 3 měsíci

    I am not sure that racism is a problem that can be solved. The word "solving" suggests that the difficult aspects of the past can somehow be resolved or fixed, in way that ensures it cannot affect the present or the future. Which is impossible, unless a deliberate decision is made to omit or obfuscate. Such attempts always backfire when the truth comes out.

  • @alphaomega8373
    @alphaomega8373 Před 3 měsíci

    They think 13 use to be 6.

  • @bollweevil8112
    @bollweevil8112 Před 3 měsíci +2

    There are many forms of discrimination, racism is only one
    Respect, dignity, compassion,…
    Please stop judging others based on your insecurities

  • @ReidVV
    @ReidVV Před 3 měsíci

    Who is this reporter?

  • @intheshell35ify
    @intheshell35ify Před 3 měsíci +1

    My 6....At least we didn't attempt genocide. Looking at you Israel.

    • @marianmiller2802
      @marianmiller2802 Před 3 měsíci

      A person could go to jail for killing someone's property.

    • @intheshell35ify
      @intheshell35ify Před 3 měsíci

      @@marianmiller2802 the truth in your statement makes me need to puke.

    • @michellem6826
      @michellem6826 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Genocide was committed in claiming this land. Many indigenous tribes were completely wiped out. Today, the US still does not acknowledge many of the crimes committed against Native Americans.

    • @intheshell35ify
      @intheshell35ify Před 3 měsíci

      @@michellem6826 not a genocide. Close to it, but not the same thing. The US stopped killing them and now it gives them money for nothing.

  • @CeeGeeZ
    @CeeGeeZ Před 2 měsíci

    ... "WiSDOM" vs (50%~current populations' adoration in practicing...) "WiLLFUL iGNORANCE" ...

  • @rael5469
    @rael5469 Před měsícem

    Open conversations are strictly forbidden on Google platforms like CZcams and Yahoo. A person's account will be summarily and permanently deleted.

  • @calm1047
    @calm1047 Před 2 měsíci

    My grandfather told me his grandfather told him that his best friend was killed because he accidentally stepped on a dog's tail owned by a white man.

  • @user-iq3th6ff6q
    @user-iq3th6ff6q Před 2 měsíci

    Pretending it didn't happen will not help.

  • @narcissismrehabilitation
    @narcissismrehabilitation Před 2 měsíci

    It’s called perpetrator trauma. Look it up.

  • @polythewicked
    @polythewicked Před 3 měsíci +4

    I, as an American woman, have never understood racism and never will. It’s strictly an evolutionary advantage for those living closer to the equator. Nothing more. It’s frustrating and infuriating that people care about skin color rather than how decent a person is. Many of the stereotypes exist because *we* as white people caused them. We did this to others. We have only ourselves to blame.

  • @sjacks3281
    @sjacks3281 Před 2 měsíci

    Ethnic conflict
    I keep saying, The United States isn't special.
    Every country in the world that is not completely homogeneous has ethnic conflict
    People outside the U.S. who say, "everything is about race in the US."....
    Yes and no.
    When you are one of the most ethnically diverse countries in the world, You will have ethnic conflict.
    We just call it racial. It's actually ethnic conflict.
    Especially when one ethnic group came to this land thinking they were superior. Taking land from indigenous people because they thought they deserved the land and resources more.
    And we aren't even among the worse
    Sunni and Shia
    Israeli and Palestinian
    Immigrants in any European nation
    Uyghur and Chinese
    Africans in China
    Meitei and Kuki
    Hindu and Muhajir
    Hindu, Muslim and Sikh in India
    Tamil in Sri Lanka
    Chakma in Bangladesh
    Nobody is immune.
    Again, the U.S. is not special

    • @sjacks3281
      @sjacks3281 Před 2 měsíci

      so my six words are
      ethnic conflict exists around the world

  • @davidk1493
    @davidk1493 Před 3 měsíci +2

    More than 40% of all living Americans can trace their roots to ancestors who came through Ellis Island (1892 - ). Their ancestors were not living in the country during
    the period of chattel slavery. 13.6% of Americans or 45 million + living in the US today were not even born in the US.

    • @gerrysharpe1958
      @gerrysharpe1958 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Not sure how long your family roots have been here has to do with experiences of racism today.

    • @lokijordan
      @lokijordan Před 3 měsíci +5

      Ooooh, that's a good one. I must tell my Black friends from Nigeria and the UK to use that when they're pulled over by the police for no apparent reason.

    • @davidk1493
      @davidk1493 Před 3 měsíci

      Yep, recent immigrants are responsible for the behavior of the police.

    • @thomasdequincey5811
      @thomasdequincey5811 Před 3 měsíci +1

      What does it matter if every white American has an ancestor who owned slaves anyway? Firstly, Slavery was legal and had been the norm for millenia. Secondly, no American alive today is responsible for how people acted over 150 years ago, or even 60 years ago. Slavery was legal and people owned slaves. Get over it.

    • @lokijordan
      @lokijordan Před 3 měsíci +2

      @@thomasdequincey5811 Let's revisit your last sentence in about a decade when Whites are decidedly in the minority in the US and The West and someone floats the notion that slavery is not such a big deal.

  • @rodneymclin3130
    @rodneymclin3130 Před 2 měsíci

    Lol, they feel uncomfortable or blamed? Thats cuz their the ones doing it a majority of the time, hintz the support for Trump!!!!

  • @kgblankinship
    @kgblankinship Před 3 měsíci +2

    Here's my postcard for what it is worth: There are racial differences and they are both genetic and anthropological. Race is only a social construct when it comes to a precise definition of a term. Anthropology is the proper lens upon which to base comparisons of human cultures.
    Some cultures will be more capable than others, and this is intellectual (beliefs and practices) and environmental. Should African-Americans choose to value education over sports, embrace science, and work hard to detoxify their home environments from stress, they will be far more competitive. For environmental, the high stress levels in African-American homes stunt brain development in children due to high cortisol levels and the stress comes from being discriminated against. We also need to better fund education in African-American areas the lack of funding hold them back. America should be a meritocracy. The way forward is clear.

    • @sjacks3281
      @sjacks3281 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Racial differences are not genetic. Even geneticists and Anthropologists have come to a consensus on this.
      Some cultures are not more capable than others.
      Franz Boas, Anthropologist, Learned that people are adapted to their environment. Biologically and culturally.
      If you take someone out of their environment and put them somewhere else, they will not be capable of surviving if they practice the culture of their old environment.
      They either need to change the current environment to fit their old one, or they need to change their culture to fit the environment.
      The problem with the United States is that Europeans believed their culture was superior to every other in the world. They came to the Americas and found that they could not adapt, so they chose to transform America into Europe.
      and look where we are now. In some decades, if you don't die of extreme cold, you'll die from the extreme heat. That's if the air pollution and toxic food and water don't get you first.
      The issue with African Americans is that they refuse to assimilate. Because the global majority knows that the European way of living is not more capable than others. It is the most destructive

  • @SL-eh6hp
    @SL-eh6hp Před 3 měsíci +3

    "Racial fatigue" perfectly describes today. This card has been so overplayed by one demographic that all of the other demographics have become tone deaf to the endless replay. We all have stories of horrible bigotry against our families and demographics. We don't need to commiserate endlessly in virtue signaling laziness. Our country is now much more racially divided than just 5 yrs ago. Conversations have stopped and will likely not return for the foreseeable future. Michelle started out broadly, but, unfortunately, seemed to devolve into the same narrative that is dividing us more and more. Unfortunate

    • @THATBOISHAD
      @THATBOISHAD Před 3 měsíci

      That's weird to say because America is the only country that is intentionally mixed race and everybody here wants to be the top dog.

  • @NicoFord-tc5nl
    @NicoFord-tc5nl Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hey, Can i make a recommendation? We dont really need to see the expressionless faces of your correspondent when your guest is speaking.

    • @intheshell35ify
      @intheshell35ify Před 3 měsíci +6

      You are wrong. Walter Isaacson is one of the best interviewers out there. He asks thoughtful questions and engages with the guest. The panning back and forth allows us to see his reaction to what is being said. And yes...I do care what he thinks.

    • @nitrro1
      @nitrro1 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@intheshell35ify❤

  • @thomasdequincey5811
    @thomasdequincey5811 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I thought she was gonna say something different. But it's the same old, same old. It gets very boring.

    • @THATBOISHAD
      @THATBOISHAD Před 3 měsíci +4

      Maybe because the solution has been in our faces a looooong time and we just keep pushing it aside.

    • @MM-dv9hp
      @MM-dv9hp Před 3 měsíci +4

      What would you add to the conversation to make it different and compelling?

    • @user-cz5lj2vx1f
      @user-cz5lj2vx1f Před 3 měsíci +1

      More trolling from Thomas

  • @tonialloyd6238
    @tonialloyd6238 Před 2 měsíci