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"God hates divorce but not the divorcee" That's powerful!! Praise the Lord!
Violence or any form of abuse is never okay verbal, emotional, sexual, financial, spiritual or physical against your children or spouse.
The choice we make affected everyone
Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm!!!
Very true.
Very true always listing to your childeren she want s only protect her mother.
Nice one ☺️
I agree with all comments and the message. We heard that Min. Osinachi was removed by her mom from her matrimonial home for some months at one point but still decided to go back against her mom's advice. If true, 2 thoughts come to mind in the light of that which I haven't heard yet but hope u can spread as well:
- African faith women sometime "idolize" so much the "husband" concept that it has turned into an obsession. Something is deeply wrong when u can sacrifice even your kids to such an evil man. I know women who have shut their eyes to their husband's defiling their daughter due to "husband idolatry" or even told their daughter to close their eyes to their own husband's blatant cheating due to the same idolatry. Beware... a very subtle but evil belief in church with the "appearance of godliness" and yet we criticize Catholics, their rosaries and precious statues for the same thing...
- there is also a problem where there is a strong soul tie that is built between an aggressor and his victim of co-dependency. The victim or martyr becomes addicted to being back near her/his aggressor and can no longer reason well by herself in which case, others must take action on her/his behalf and laws should be erected for authorities to step in in such cases without needing the victim's statement. Families should be empowered to take over in such cases. Therefore it is not love but an emotional imbalance of dependency that cause them to keep going back.
My 2 cents.
Very well spoken...I hope people listen and act accordingly
I was a victim, you are on point on this,thanks to God Almighty that delivered me.
It was when I was meditating and praying that this idea was revealed to me. I got to to realize I was giving a man the love I supposed to give Jesus Christ my Saviour who died for me.
Everything about me then was husband welfare which was obsession.
May God Almighty open victim eyes and deliver them
U soooo right..but u also have a soul tie and addiction..THOSE STATUES AND YHE ROSARY..."Idols and repetitive prayers..rolling those beads..Read you Bible sister and ask the lord for a Revelation , wisdom and understanding ✌🏾💌🙏🏾
Very well said. I so agree with you. I'm seeing so much these days that women want marriage sooo bad. Like an addiction. They act like they can't wait and can't be alone. By any means necessary turns them into side chicks, affairs, bad choosing all in the name of having a man. Foolishness.
Thank you for this great lesson.I wish Mrs Osinanchi (Ekuweme) had cried out.Religion is killing so may believers.Pls kindly come out of that Abusive Relationship now before it's too late.Love is blind but marriage opens them up.Death does not respect anybody.Rest in peace Minister Osinanchi.
You're right.
I agree with you sister.
I also wanted to add that I’ve had a person tell me she held on to an abusing relationship because she didn’t want to seem that she was losing, to some degree the victims also end up victimizing themselves. And that’s one of many rare conversations us women need to have amongst ourselves, sometimes it’s not love that’s keeping us there, it’s pride, ego and even ignorance. I say this humbly because I’m a woman and I’ve heard many stories where it could’ve been prevented…It takes a long time before the victim can be broken down to the mindset of feeling that they have no choice, opportunities always present themselves to see an abuser for who they are, asking questions is important and holding the person you’re interested in accountable to their actions. My advice is for women to not turn blind eye, stay due to fear of what people will say…”it’s better to be safe than sorry.” When it comes to Christian woman (I’m a Christian), it grieves me to see them subject themselves to unhealthy environment in the name of religion, this shows an aspect of how well we’re connected to God which is not enough if you cannot heed to your Heavenly Father’s wisdom when you’re in a compromising circumstance(s), also before even getting into that marriage what has God told you about the person of interest? It’s so important to hear from God in every area of life, it’s always a life and death situation. This is VITAL!
Wauh great 👍 great God hates. Divorce but doesn't hate a divorceee
I don't understand what that mean the religion is true lots of people people need to read their Bible and believe what they read we about what Jesus said read about the life of Jesus I should say the words of Jesus yes we love we just have a problem with giving up what we love, the Mayors need to be taught how to love a woman and what it means to love a woman but all the violent that TV is teaching us and the bad words that means teach to each other evil against women, so we have to take a person at their word if they said they going to kill you and you got to believe it
So Yes
Let this video reach a million people - it shall save a life out there.
These are not just skits but you are changing lives the Winlos!
Deep message. Marriage should be enjoyed not endured. God hates divorce but not the divorcee. Marrying the wrong person can terminate God's purpose for your life. When you're married to a man who hits you, my dear, that's an early grave knocking at the door. I love your message. God bless you for this.
Thank God for this video, I'm so glad that I separate myself from my ex-husband.... Eventho he's dead and gone, but so much abuse, not only physically, but spiritually, mentally, and financially too... Glory to God, He delivered me out of those year's of heartache, especially when children is involved.... I hope this will be an eye opener for other women as well... He tried to kill me too, but God had a plan for my life, thank You Lord Jesus Amen!!!
Great lesson!!! May we never be blinded in the name of love and ignore looming dangers. May God help us to number our days and be wise, In Jesus' Name, Amen!!! 🙏🙏
Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏
Powerful and timely sir, great grace sir. What she was afraid of has eventually happened; leaving her only child in emotional trauma, separation is better to death or abuse
True,is really timely,this was just the right time for this
This is lovely. I remember my aunt passing through domestic violence for years, having 5kids thank God she separated from her husband for two years and came back home and the house is now peaceful no more violence. I saw my aunt pray day in and out even after separation she kept praying and God heard her cry. She is leaving happy now in her home. Love you the winlosssssss
Yeah... but please this is a very small percentage, in general it ends badly as long as the man is not challenged and dealt with more harshly. So let's not encourage these returns without accountability. And you can never know if things are better with your aunt as women can hide pain for a long time... Can you tell us what caused her husband to change? Someone doesn't just change such behavior from sheer willpower unless something specific cured their aggressivity. Beside the fact that she prayed, what happened exactly so we know how to help others achieve the same results. For late Minister Osinachi, her own pastors only heard about it after her death, these things are normally hard to discover. Shalom.
Your aunt is wise and God is glorified.
@@mofimTV How do you know what the percentages are? You're not wiser than God. Her aunt did the right thing by exercising wisdom. Anyone in this situation should follow suit.
@@mofimTV GOD bless you.
It's a little percentage.
Because some of those abusers usually change tactics from physical abuse to verbal or mental abuse.
@@obiageliarisamadiebo4240 exactly, the abusers change their tactics
The choices we make affect not only us but those around us. Thank you and more grace!
Very true
You are right ✅️
Isn't it mind blowing how everyone else sees the death coming except the victim...the devil is indeed a liar..."my people perish out of lack of wisdom." May God help us.
People talk about Domestic violence which is very dangerous please also remember that their is also verbal abuse in marriage. From depression to suicidal. Ooh Lord help us all.
Don't be blinded by love. Your spiritual eyes should be 💯 active when you are about to choose your spouse.
I once heard “the covenant of life supersedes the covenant of marriage.”
Amen
I love the perspective of this! I know a lot of people are saying to refrain from victim shaming but it’s important to point out the errors of the victim (that’s not shaming, it’ll help someone who can relate), to help those who are in the same situation to learn from the unfortunate outcome so they themselves that are alive can gather strength to exit a marriage that’s tortuous and depleting. I also notice there are those that are even blaming the church, which makes no sense because there are many Christian content out there to help us make the right decisions before marriage and even during marriage, there are genuine leadership that are holding us accountable, I understand there are bad apples but the church as a whole cannot carry the blame for the outcome of our personal choices. I personally know friends who chose to stay in abusive relationships, they preferred to distance themselves from me than to listen to me when it opposed their desires. I’ve lost not one or two friends but many friends to ungodly relationships, God gave me dreams to warn them, I’ve cried my guts out on their behalf through intercession only for them to not have the same passion for their own safety because what they wanted meant more to them than wisdom, it’s a selfish attitude to have quite frankly, having to watch someone you love and care for go through hell in a relationship or having that person die while you weren’t aware of the degree of their mistreatments because they were good at concealing their abuser, it’s gut wrenching feeling as though you could’ve done something to help them given the opportunity…
There’s a point where it must become a personal choice for the victim to desire freedom, if they don’t acknowledge they’re bound they’ll never make the effort to seek safety because they don’t see it or feel it to be as dangerous as it actually is. It’s sad to say the least (by this point something is broken in them that they don’t even realize it’s damaging to their life and fo even those around them)…GOD HELP US!
Thank you so much for this, I agree totally. I have equally lost 2 relatives to domestic violence, all in the name of staying in marriage. One of them never told people and when anyone finds out, she begs them not to tell her relatives.
Why- It won’t be in her own marriage that people will suddenly hear something is wrong, according to her. She paid with her life unfortunately.
God help us and deliver women especially from this stronghold they have and impression they try to make.
Like you said, the Church has enough content for anyone before and after marriage.
Very key for me however, is building & having an intimate relationship with your Father God. Read your Bible yourself not just what you heard in church. Be like the Berean Christians, who went back to check the WORD for themselves. Selah
@@insidiarlimited3191 You’re making so much sense. It’s usually not love alone that’s keeping the person there, it’s ego, pride, ignorance…And I say this humbly but the truth must be said so we can examine our hearts as to what is appealing in staying in a circumstance/marriage where you’re being kicked, slapped, spit on, chairs are being broken on your body. Saying you’re staying for the children only expose them to witness you be a day closer to your death, they are witnessing behaviors that’ll deploy them into the same pattern, it’s a logic that cannot be justified. In the case of our beloved minister who unfortunately passed away, the abuser instructed her children to beat her…What conclusion can a victim draw from this? It should be an exit plan, imparting violence to the children towards their mother is despicable. Alas!
I think this is a new conversation we women can have amongst ourselves. It’ll be preventative, to help us examine our hearts and mindset so we can be in a better condition before entering a marriage, because it’ll give you as the woman an advantage to choose well.
This is deep!🙇♀️
Divorce isn't same as fighting the devil from a distance .........
RIP Osinachi💙Died in a similar way❤Very strong woman❤
I wish this is what spiritual leaders could be telling people in form of a advise.
Not telling them that everything will be ok...It doesn't add up
Most times people disobey their pastors forgetting that these men of God are anointed by God and God gave them watch over the sheep.
Or they obey fake pastors that advise them to stay in these evil relationships
Thank you for this. My ex husband set our house on fire with me and our 3 children all under the age of 5 , we were sleeping in our beds. I couldn't sleep because I was hungry when I got up and went downstairs he was coming into the house from the garage. He had knocked a hornets nest down off the edge of the house and had it leaning up against the house, he soaked it with gasoline and lit it on fire catching the back wall of the house on fire.
Family members thought I should stay with him and worked it out and I wasn't having anything to do with trying to work things out with him. Sometimes the very thing we're trying to keep together God's trying to break apart. Who can know the ways of God. Dutoranamy 24 is were God gave us divorce so if you're one of those that doesn't believe in divorce, just so you know God does. 😉
l remember my mum and my father but later the Lord turned things around and now my parents are living a very happy marriage full of love and peace.
Let this be a Teaching Moment for all of us. I Corinthians 6 v 19" What?Know ye not that your body is the Temple of the Holy Ghost, which is in you, which ye have of God and ye are not your own"?
#letthatsinkin
The choices we make in a bad relationship have no meaning I remember being abused physically, emotionally & verbally but is stayed for 10 years one day I nearly killed him & I kneeled down & asked for guidance from God he helped me to move out today am happy with my kids🙏🙏
Thank you winlos for this wonderful drama. In as much as I don't support divorce I encourage separation in an abusive marriage. This will sound a note of warning to so many of still single to wait on God and follow His leading when saying yes to the young man. It also very important that we don't ignore the signs that the Holy Spirit is showing us during courtship because those signs shows who they really are. We should stop making choice of marriage by what we see but allow the Holy Spirit to lead us because He sees our end before our beginning.
Don't be desperate about marriage but desperation will be cloud your sense of judgment.
Follow God and listen to the godly mentors God has placed over you and you won't enter into destruction.
Peace of mind is important to everyone.
Make your life before you become someone's wife. Being a housewife is no longer good every woman should be financially capable so u can stand for yourself at anytime. Many suffer because they have no where to go or not capable to stand alone. Every girl should learn
The Winlos! You people are really passing a message!
This is so enlightening. Thank you so much sir and ma for putting this out here.
People need to speak out and if need be move out, to fight while away. We need them alive even more than the abusive marriage, be it physical or emotional. Anyway choose right 👌
Very timely message Winlos...Let the world become aware please .🙏
Great message!
Proverbs 28:6 It is better to be poor and honest than rich and evil. Be blessed 🙏
Great message. The little girl looks so much as her mum
This is amazing, this is just what must women are facing in their home, some can't speak up because of what people will say. God help us🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
God bless you the winlos, I love you Guys
Thanks for this wonderful message ❤️
God bless you. This is timely indeed
Powerful video, and a great lesson not stay in an abusive marriage or relationship
Teach us Lord to number our days,that we may apply our hearts to wisdom
I agree, the choices we make have consequences we have to be very wise...This is so sad though
Thank you Winlos for responding to this present issue. I think God is using this situation to renew the minds of his church. Thank you again.
No it needs videos for transformation and rehabilitation methods. You are the one to help people who are watching build better lives not just for themselves but to change the stigma to a new vision of hope.
Thank you God for rescuing me. I thought my situation was hopeless and my end was going to be depressed & miserable ( or death). But Your plans for my life were way better❤🙏🙌☝️
Father I pray for every women who are currently in their hopeless situation , please extend Your grace & mercy to them. Let them see Your goodness in their situation, in Jesus mighty name🙏
It was a blessing in deed ,I thank God ,he allowed you to make this video for me and other viewers
wowww Amazing!! Praise YAH!
Very beautiful I went through it too so blinded by my own foolish understanding of what love is, believing he is going to change which he never did, until I made up my mind to leave him with a lot of scared on my body.I have to be honest it was God on my side that's why am still alive today, many don't have that choice,I give Him glory every time I think back on how He took me out of the house of hell
Sorry for what you went through sis, I hope you're better now🧡
Great lessons 💪
Great message,thank you .
I lost a daughter through an abusive son-in-law, it takes to both have the choice to change and both have the choice to leave. There are some good points in this video but there are some bad points the man could have stopped it was his choice to kill her.
This video must reach out to so many people ,strong message coming from a man
Sometimes we need to take actions and not pray alone.
Maybe, she felt she couldn't TRUST ANYONE...revealing that personal sensitive situation...😥😥😥😥
@@wandaanderson8779 It's well
Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous MAN availeth much. James 5:16
ONE man of you shall chase a thousand: for the LORD your God, he it is that fighteth for you, as he hath promised you.
You don't need a crowd. One with God is majority.
Big lessons 💯
This is a great message
Wow wonderful content ✨💞 one of my best shows😍
Great message 😢
Wow this is going to be a good lesson thanks you guys you always bring good movies for us to enjoy and watch and learn from it may God continue to bless you all may he always be the glory much love 🙏😘👍🙂🙋🌹
So sad but what people forget is that domestic violence is not just being physically assaulted. Domestic violence is also verbal abuse financial abuse emotional abuse isolation from friends and family. We need to wake up to this and know this is where it starts and progresses from there.
Great video
EXCELLENT VIDEO!!! GREAT SEED PLANTED!!!
great lesson 👍
I love the content of this, I hope that when women watch this video if they're through anything like what the video is showing. It will encourage them that no form of abuse at all shouldn't be acceptable.
GOD BLESS U FOR THIS
It is WRITTEN, how can two walk together except they be agreed..
It is WRITTEN, be not UNEQUALLY YOKED WITH UNBELIEVERS
thank you so much for teaching us and to remember that God he has his way to save his children
Love the video and this is so True, People need to understand God doesn't put every marriage together.
This couldn't be more precise
I was once in this situation,But to God Be The Glory,the same plans my husband had to kill our children in front of me Saints of GOD I went into a full fast and PRAY without stopping and The Lord Jesus Christ made A Way for peace for me,I didn't understand the Work of GOD for years after he died I cried and cried mist him so much ,left with 3 children ,no job and a. falling down house , not a penny and rejection from all family and friends, relatives.But Jesus Christ bought us out . There's nothing like Fasting and Praying .It took me Years to realize that was the Hands of GOD.For those who feei they can't or afraid to get out look to GOD
Wooooow this is powerful.... Thanks so much 🥰🥰💖
Thanks!
May God help every person going through this n may he give us wisdom on how to approach situations like this
Many at times,we are expected to do somethings but we leave it to God to do n hence not playing our parts well
May God help us
Waw!! This video looks really awesome 👍👍👍🇭🇹🇭🇹
God bless this ministry in Jesus mighty name
Amen
Very interesting video thank you 🤔.
Blessings upon your lives in the name of Jesus.
We also pray for the grace to listen to His voice. We pray for those in this kind of abuse in the name of Jesus Christ.
Lord, grant us your strength.💥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Some times we are in abusive relationships and God show us the signs and send us help and we too blind to see them thank you for this video waiting for more
Thank you for making this video.People canearn from this.
God bless you all for this message to those in toxic relationships called marriage. I talk am like them talk am but some people are holier than even the angels. May our eyes never encounter this evil in Jesus mighty name. Let him that have ears hear.
Hhmmm, don't light yourself on fire trying to brighten someone else's existence. I hope we all don't realise this when it's too late
God bless you The Winlos always.
I remember when I was beaten with cutlass and cane in 2016.
I left same year.
I am grateful for today.
Happily single
You did good sister🤍🤍
A replicas of late Sis Osinachi’s story.. to whom it may concern, let he who has ears hear ohh
Hey God from the mouth of babies , God I thank you for lives that you saved for your Glory.
Woow, well done
I have been confused but after this video av made up my minds thank you Lord there's a reason am seeing this video its not a coicedence🙏🙏🙏😢
Good video. ✝❤
This is something I tried desperate to avoid maybe that's why I'm never married scared of running into something like this
Always pray for God's will in marriage and before you can know God's will in marriage, you need to first of all give your life to Christ before you can know God's will in marriage.
What a great message 👏🏿
This is pathetic, we've got to rebuke and come out of ignorance. This ignorance is a weapon the devil is using for many. May God help us all
Very good msg 👍 👏
Nice vedio and my friend is now going through a situation like this,anyways she is going to divorce her husband.Thankyou so much for this kind of vedio.
The Apostle Paul clearly states what love is and the responsibilities of a husband, if your own doesn’t fit that description… go and pray.
And separation isn’t divorce, believers separate and keep praying for their spouse.
Don’t let yourself be indoctrinated by falsehoods, if you can’t leave for yourself, think of the unseen scars being inflicted on your children.
This is a lovely video we don't wish for anyone else to die this way again can't live you run.
Thank you Lord Jesus Christ Amen 🙏
Faith without work is dead.
There is time to act.
AMEN THANK YOU I NEVER RESIVE THIS IN MY LIFE THANK YOU FOR THIS KIND OF LOVE BECAUSE I SURFER TO MUCH IN MY LIFE I KNOW YOU STILL LOVE MY N YOU WANT ME CLOSER TO YOU IN MY MINISTRY I ALWAYS TELL YOU I LOVE YOU FOR YOUR WORDS THANK YOU LORD 🙏🏼📖🙇🏼♀️
It is well. MORE GRACE TO YOU SIR & MA...
I think We just have to balance the message cos some men also find themselves in such situation... Men also get killed by women and vice versa even if the percentage isn't the same... GOD HELP US
Getting killed as a result of a helpless woman in self defence most times, draw closer to those women who murdered their husbands and hear their stories, you will understand what women go through in the name of marriage
Yes God hates divorce but it’s better for you to be alive and tell the story than be silent in the grave. It’s time the government in Africa starts fining those abusive partners. 🤦🏾♀️
Yes! 20 years imprisonment for both men and women who abuse their spouse.
Sad but very true!
Nice one again. God bless the Winlos.
But come to think of it, I've never heard any testimony of how God changed an abusive husband in real life, why can't they change?
Because GOD has no control over your will
So interesting 😢