Binge Watching DEPRESSION (How I ESCAPED my TV ADDICTION)

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  • BINGE WATCHING DEPRESSION (HOW I ESCAPED MY TV ADDICTION)
    Menace Monk is going to give you strategies to stop binge watching depression and anxiety. There was a time when she would binge watch certain shows that lead to a Netflix addiction. Then she overcame her binge-watching depression and got Netflix addiction help. The dangers of binge watching are still present and so not to succumb to tv binge watching, implement the strategies in this video. They will help you to escape your binge watching addiction.
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Komentáře • 119

  • @menacemonk4000
    @menacemonk4000  Před 5 lety +11

    Hi Beautiful Soul! If there are any other suggestions or tips you have to escape an addiction please comment below. I would I love hear and it could be helpful for others 🙏

  • @sonysherpa3184
    @sonysherpa3184 Před 3 lety +14

    Watching this after watching 12 hrs of Netflix binge 🙁

  • @wadetalks7989
    @wadetalks7989 Před 3 lety +37

    I recently finished a tv show and I am so sad, my only wish to have another season so I dream about that show

    • @user-io2rd8xi7x
      @user-io2rd8xi7x Před 3 lety +4

      Is it avatar the last air bender?

    • @wadetalks7989
      @wadetalks7989 Před 3 lety

      @@user-io2rd8xi7x no, it is called Lucifer on Netflix

    • @nasserlion5644
      @nasserlion5644 Před 3 lety

      same here it happen allways

    • @thirdplanet4471
      @thirdplanet4471 Před 2 lety +2

      Reading fanfictions can help

    • @MichelleDelRey
      @MichelleDelRey Před 2 lety +1

      A friend of mine was sad to hear that one of the shows he enjoyed watching was canceled after the third season. So he decided to write an ending for the show for fun. I think that is a cool way to close the chapter while getting creative.

  • @Healthevoid
    @Healthevoid Před 3 lety +25

    I can do this! I’m feeling horrible about myself right now! I gotta change my habits!

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000  Před 3 lety +1

      You can definitely do this!! ❤

    • @alexandraradeva3549
      @alexandraradeva3549 Před 3 lety +1

      Hi! I know how horrible you can feel about yourself and how destructive the guilt is after binge-watching, so I am just tuning in to tell you that you are not at fault and you are not alone.
      I hope that you have managed to overcome it, but if you have not, I would like to offer some guidance, as I wish that someone would have helped me, while I was still struggling with this.
      If you want to you can always reach out, I would be happy to help. If not, I wish you all the best and keep up the amazing energy from your comment. You can do this!

  • @wewe-fx6un
    @wewe-fx6un Před 3 lety +9

    You don't need background music.

  • @maaz2505
    @maaz2505 Před 3 lety +7

    I'm addicted to movies a lot I watch every night a movie. I keep thinking about it all day

  • @Capricorn197530
    @Capricorn197530 Před 2 lety +12

    I sat up straight when you mentioned your sexual assault. I am so sorry this has happened to you. Sending you love , lots and lots. I’ve been through different trauma and watch tv to forget about those. Take care. Praying for you .

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so very much for your love and high energy. I am sending you much love and light as well 🙏🏼💞

  • @danieladangelo766
    @danieladangelo766 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Self help books are also addictive because of all the illusions they give you

  • @Maaaatttttt
    @Maaaatttttt Před 4 lety +15

    My mother is behind a t.v on average of 19 hours a day now. Sleeps on recliner. Overweight. It's sad. If I confront her about it. I'm the bad guy. It's been like that along time but now worse then ever. Think the shape of her body has conformed to that of the recliner chair. So sad. Never went out for walks or anything. Just to the store then back to the chair.

    • @Maaaatttttt
      @Maaaatttttt Před 4 lety

      5am - 11:30pm

    • @Maaaatttttt
      @Maaaatttttt Před 4 lety

      Then maybe goes to bedroom for a little bit

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000  Před 4 lety +1

      I'm sorry to hear that, I hope she finds other ways to occupy her time. I know it must be really hard for you to see your mom in this vicious cycle ☹

    • @Capricorn197530
      @Capricorn197530 Před 2 lety +2

      Take the plug out . Cut it off

  • @prudencemiddleton6620
    @prudencemiddleton6620 Před 3 lety +11

    I’m addicted and this was so incredibly helpful and relatable

  • @georginahmumbe9959
    @georginahmumbe9959 Před rokem +3

    When I was watching breaking bad, it was so interesting and was so hooked but on Season 2, I realized it was consuming my time, I just googled the whole storyline and I didn't need to watch all those seasons

  • @DiniVino
    @DiniVino Před 5 lety +3

    Beautiful video - congratulations on taking the first step with your video. Love your honesty and your BIG heart.

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000  Před 5 lety

      Thank you Dini, these videos definitely makes me feel very vulnerable so it feels good when other people appreciate the content 🙏

  • @isaiahwilson8912
    @isaiahwilson8912 Před 3 lety +8

    Great tips and great video! TV is the biggest illusion in my life and feeds me weird ideas that aren't grounded in reality. This video has inspired me to stop binge-watching!

  • @tuynanna
    @tuynanna Před 5 lety +4

    So proud of you and all your hard work!! Thanks for sharing 💕

  • @Polythene_Pam2
    @Polythene_Pam2 Před 3 lety +7

    I’m in the middle of a show and the way I’m hooked to it literally pains me to exist. I need to stop lmao

    • @emmagellar6023
      @emmagellar6023 Před 3 lety +1

      Same heree!! I'm so sad that Jess and Rory broke up in Gilmore girls and now I don't want to watch it anymore but I'm not able to stop myself either.

  • @MaxKasai-zm5mz
    @MaxKasai-zm5mz Před 11 měsíci +2

    This made me open my eyes more to my addiction thank you so much:)

  • @shanjanarajesh814
    @shanjanarajesh814 Před rokem +2

    thank you for these tips. they definitely changed my outlook on tv in a totally positive way. I am sorry that you had to go through that but i am grateful you're okay. anywaysss, ty for the tips as always. you are the best

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000  Před rokem

      I'm happy the video was helpful! And I appreciate the kind words. I'm wishing you all the best 💕

  • @alexiscook607
    @alexiscook607 Před 9 měsíci

    This was very helpful. I have to think of a hobby. I enjoy reading, however, my brain feels tired after work. I’m thinking some type of physical activity would help with the transition from work to doing something productive. Thank you for sharing your tips.

  • @chasingdowntruth
    @chasingdowntruth Před 2 lety +7

    wow this is such an interesting and unique take on tv addiction! I am working through more of my addictions this year, the 4 that I had really determined need to happen right now, are: Quitting caffeine, video games, tv and movies, and I am working on facing my fears this year. I thought it was really interesting when you mentioned it being an outlet for learning about how you could get away with murder. It made me realize that I was turning to tv and movies to try and teach myself how to survive another attack and not be hurt. I always was looking for shows that taught me how to deal with my own life, in a round about way. I think its time this stops. I can't keep living my life always planning for the worst, obsessed with safety. I won't live like this anymore, and you are right, I did not know that I was feeding that part of me, until now. Well, no more. Thank you for this very real and down to earth video.

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000  Před 2 lety

      I am happy to hear that this video was helpful for you.
      You mentioned that you are working on breaking 4 addictions, which can be tough, so I highly suggest you replace those activities with something else you enjoy that can be a positive outlet for you. I also suggest you look up habit cue or habit loop.
      Since you said "I can't keep living my life always planning for the worst, obsessed with safety" I would also recommend searching up grounding techniques and you can retrain your mind to see the positive things in life through positive affirmations. Maybe you can search "safety affirmations" and find recordings you like and listen to them on a consistent basis. It takes 21 days to create a habit and 90 days to make it a part of your lifestyle so I hope you can commit to that. You can listen to the recordings while you do other activities such as walking, sleeping, cleaning, etc. Your subconscious mind will pick it up while listening to them even if you do other things.
      I hope this was helpful and I wish you the best on your journey. You deserve peace and greatness!

    • @chasingdowntruth
      @chasingdowntruth Před 2 lety

      @@menacemonk4000 Thank you! I appreciate all your advice =) I did try grounding stuff for about 10 years, for some reason, it has not worked for me. I've been replacing TV and Video games with reading books though, that has helped, although I still find myself craving both of them. I've started a green drink and a morning workout instead of my morning coffee. I think that the safety thing, might be about me not wanting to let go of fear because I feel that it protects me. I was doing boxing workouts to help with that, but don't have access to a bag anymore. But I was thinking about trying to do it anyway but with weights or something. I do also plan to tackle smaller fear in my life, just to kind of get that fight or flight response to stop being so intense. Pretty scared of rollerblading but its something I love and I want to do, I'm sure I will have a lot of stuff to process as I work through just that one, so hopefully that helps me to start combating the other things that I am afraid of. It's sticking to my plan that I seem to have an issue with, but I definitely am gonna look up habit cue and habit loop, because I am not familiar with those words. Thanks again =)

    • @buzzcutbiene2211
      @buzzcutbiene2211 Před rokem

      Did you succeed with this? I`m struggling with all of this too.

    • @chasingdowntruth
      @chasingdowntruth Před rokem +1

      @@buzzcutbiene2211 I succeeded in having a bit more balance but not completely. I mostly switched to movies, having a one movie limit and making kind of a special ritual out of it once or twice a week and then rotating my hobbies. Also sticking to inspirational or feel good movies helps with that hook that is in other stuff. Like when they do cliffhangers and stuff or its really intense and it leaves it feeling not complete even if its concluded. I havent really binge watched anything in months but to be fair now im spending too much time playing video games lol so. Take that for what you will. I have recently learned tho with addiction in general, making smaller obtainable goals and excercising your self discipline seems to be more long lasting that trying to cut stuff out and avoid it completely. It does end up in more of a tug of war process but when you do make progress it seems to me that it ends up being more long lasting and you retain the ability to stop when you want to better.

    • @buzzcutbiene2211
      @buzzcutbiene2211 Před rokem

      @@chasingdowntruth Thank you for your answer. I think you already do really good, a lot better than most of us I think. Yes, it`s so easy to get addicted to all theses TV-Shows today and their Cliffhangers. The problem today is not that they aren`t any good, in fact they are TOO good, that`s what makes them so addictive. I start thinking about the content during my days, that`s so silly, I want to replace it with more and more real life hobbies too. Sometimes it feels like something is missing then.

  • @yashikaslife3459
    @yashikaslife3459 Před 4 lety +9

    You know the problem is that I show I loved and wanted to be the fictional character of ended. Its been a few years since it ended and now I want to be the fictional character so bad as I'm currently rematching it and am addicted

  • @marshininaidoo3535
    @marshininaidoo3535 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for making this video, your compassion and kindness and courage has made such a difference. bless you. you are a beautiful soul xoxoxoxo

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000  Před rokem

      Thank you for the kind words! I truly appreciate it. Bless you 🙏🏼 I'm sending you so much love and light 💫❤

  • @ryangordon133
    @ryangordon133 Před rokem +2

    I watch tv because I don't have any friends or a girlfriend and I'm lonely. I used to have many of both but after a million failed attempts I just said screw it.

  • @Alphaswifty
    @Alphaswifty Před 2 lety +1

    I can do this! 😊 thanks for uploading this video. I stumbled on it by chance and found your sharing very relevant and helpful

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000  Před 2 lety +1

      You definitely can do it 😊 I'm happy it was helpful 🙌🏼

  • @EliMagidsLuxuryHomes
    @EliMagidsLuxuryHomes Před 5 lety +2

    Super Video-- Open and Honest Soul-- Excercise is Great , I agree. Thankfully I don't watch to much tv !

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000  Před 5 lety

      Thank you, that means a lot to me. Yes any form of movement or exercise is amazing! Nice, when people tell me that I feel like that's because they use their time more productively which is always nice to hear 😊

  • @BornAgainSebastian
    @BornAgainSebastian Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you for sharing this!
    We all worship something. Even if you're atheist, we are all wired this way.
    We naturally become attached and fanatic about whatever we spend the most time on.
    Your life will naturally revolve around whatever you most value and cherish in life. And your life will begin to see the fruit of whatever you worship.
    The challenge is in letting go of something you're very attached to when you know it is producing bad fruit in your life

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000  Před 3 lety

      Yes, everything you just said is the truth! And thank you for watching 😊🙏🏼

  • @justinsharp3268
    @justinsharp3268 Před 10 měsíci

    you're so real and beautiful! Don't stop making these please

  • @valuecalc
    @valuecalc Před 2 lety +5

    Folks, turn it off! Too much is bad. Get exercise.

  • @alekeblessingogechi6745
    @alekeblessingogechi6745 Před rokem +1

    I need help, I think am addicted to reading romantic novels like Wattpad, webnovel etc. I have been reading this novels since 2019 now and everytime I want to quit I will start feeling so depressed like my life depended on it.
    On December 2021 I told myself that I must quit and start implementing what I read from self help book but still I still ended procrastinating everything. The worst of it is that it's makes me feel like theirs nothing that will ever make me happy than reading novel

  • @maazcineedits
    @maazcineedits Před 3 lety +3

    I'm so much addicted to movies I watch per day a movie is it bad?if miss anyday I got such angry & frustrated

  • @silvacindy2469
    @silvacindy2469 Před 2 lety +1

    great video, I really like it. I have to change something in my life. Wish me luck, well luck won't be enough I have get active.

  • @thearc-lifecoachingleaders3949

    Wow, love, this is such a touch topic! Thank you for sharing!

  • @user-fk8rb8ue5h
    @user-fk8rb8ue5h Před 3 lety

    Listening to you I'll end up worse than I am already

  • @GauravKumar-vd9jn
    @GauravKumar-vd9jn Před rokem +1

    I am watching an episode daily. It is okay or not?

  • @justmadeit2
    @justmadeit2 Před 4 lety +6

    Addicted to staring at a screen? I just made something on it, just type in this to see it....'Addicted to a screen'

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000  Před 4 lety +2

      Sorry for the late reply I'm just seeing this message. I will take a look, thank you for sharing.

    • @justmadeit2
      @justmadeit2 Před 4 lety

      @@menacemonk4000 Its ok. Did you find it? Its actually the trailer on my channel at the moment :)

  • @Radianty_Ella
    @Radianty_Ella Před 11 měsíci +1

    I can for this. Just gotta finish 5 more seasons of The Walking Dead 😂

  • @shreyachaudhary06
    @shreyachaudhary06 Před 3 lety +14

    I just have one doubt... You started doing these things after completing that series or you left that in between?? 😂

  • @idwtdt
    @idwtdt Před 3 lety +2

    See the issue is that self help books don't capture my attention, and if I read fiction, it'll become my new TV - it's just another way to escape reality.

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000  Před 3 lety

      There's a lot of self help videos CZcams. Hopefully there is information you can gain that may be helpful to you through video?

  • @eileenlord8705
    @eileenlord8705 Před 3 lety +3

    I watch tv because I'm in the house with kids and nothing else to do. I so bored and lonely. I have no friends and I can't have hobbies because my kids take over whatever I'm doing. What do you say?

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000  Před 3 lety +3

      I found a bunch of hobbies to do to replace the amount of TV I watched. So I partake in activities such as reading, exercise, meditation, writing, cooking. You're hobbies may look different than mine. If you don't know what you enjoy doing, you'll have do do self discovery. I recently wrote a book about how to do this, if your interested in learning more it's called "Growing Young- Mind,Body and Soul Cohesion" you can get it on Amazon. The people who have read it so far have said it's very helpful, I'm hoping it can be helpful for you as well.

  • @harrythornton9947
    @harrythornton9947 Před 2 lety +1

    I can do this ! thanks you so much xox

  • @harpreetgill4944
    @harpreetgill4944 Před 5 lety

    So proud of you. This is amazing

  • @zthealchemist
    @zthealchemist Před 2 lety

    thx

  • @vipinkumar5955
    @vipinkumar5955 Před 5 měsíci

    u r goddamn right 🎩

  • @esraa2235
    @esraa2235 Před 3 lety +1

    So can I make myself a life, like Sherlock Holmes one 😭 I'm highly devistaed right now

  • @sydneyrittscher4831
    @sydneyrittscher4831 Před 3 lety

    i can do it

  • @happyme9010
    @happyme9010 Před rokem

    I can do this!!!

  • @pranjalisargar9159
    @pranjalisargar9159 Před rokem

    I can do this

  • @viperyt5684
    @viperyt5684 Před 7 měsíci

    i can do this

  • @maazcineedits
    @maazcineedits Před 3 lety +1

    Please make one video on Movie's Addiction too please

    • @nasserlion5644
      @nasserlion5644 Před 3 lety

      sucks same here bro movies are dangerous too
      that make me sad when they end

    • @maazcineedits
      @maazcineedits Před 3 lety

      @@nasserlion5644 yeah man

  • @siimplii3moiisiimplii3moii38

    Your amazing, Thank you for this💕💕💕

  • @thesanctifiedbride389

    I can do this!

  • @Tommys_mcu123
    @Tommys_mcu123 Před 3 lety +1

    But I love tv

  • @liliang4436
    @liliang4436 Před 3 lety

    I got you😍

  • @MartealLamb
    @MartealLamb Před 23 dny

    nice 🎉

  • @yaari3006
    @yaari3006 Před 2 lety

    Abhi mera favorite show end hooe 3 months ho Gaye show ki happy ending hooi hai , but abhi bhi main show ko lekar THEORY making karti rahti hnu sad ho jaati hnu ✋😞
    I want to stop myself
    Others show bhi mujhe temporary distract karte hai again I ended up with that favorite show & charecters
    So sad

  • @vipinkumar5955
    @vipinkumar5955 Před 5 měsíci

    background music is just too annoying 😢 I can't hear u properly

  • @user-gg8ij9qj8p
    @user-gg8ij9qj8p Před 3 lety

    I like you, thanks......we should talk, i like this

  • @IamNoTaBotBruh
    @IamNoTaBotBruh Před 5 měsíci

    I thought about asking my child today if it was OK with her to llik myself

  • @IamNoTaBotBruh
    @IamNoTaBotBruh Před 5 měsíci

    Sleeping pills and ideation

  • @ryangordon133
    @ryangordon133 Před rokem

    I watch tv because I don't have any friends or a girlfriend and I'm lonely. I used to have many of both but after a million failed attempts I just said screw it.

  • @Jochi...
    @Jochi... Před 10 měsíci

    I can do this

  • @sabrinakinder6164
    @sabrinakinder6164 Před 2 lety

    I can do this!

  • @pragya2403
    @pragya2403 Před 4 lety +3

    I can do this

  • @pranjalisargar9159
    @pranjalisargar9159 Před 2 lety

    I can do this

  • @daisy.elvira
    @daisy.elvira Před 2 lety

    I can do this

  • @dorianeirakoze3144
    @dorianeirakoze3144 Před 2 lety

    I can do this

  • @Listening_2_Still_Small_Voice

    I can do this