How to Deal with Gossips and Rumors
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Gossip is defined as sharing detrimental information with those who are not part of the problem or part of the solution. Yet, when left unchecked - gossip spreads like wildfire because it contains such an attractive mixture of truth and fiction! People love to hear gossips because it actually makes them feel good to have someone else look bad. This video clip shares with you three difficult steps to take if you are encountering gossips in a personal way.
This is one reason I hate soap operas. They teach young people (and old) nothing but how to Lie, Gossip, and betray one another behind peoples backs. They are so false! Every one of them does it. This is satan working his evil into "so-called harmess and innocuous" tv programmes.
R Lovell lifetime movie network and the housewives franchise also
R Lovell I agree! Daytime t.v. , and really t.v. in general, is so awful and teaches a worldview of moral relativism.
I have had my t.v. off for 6 months, and I don't miss it at all!
Loves Jesus amen
I guess I am gossiping about my family. It is more like a venting. My parents, my aunt, and my sister are all birds of a feather who flock together. They gossip. That's why I stopped being around them.
Yeah... the gossipers are NASTY!!! LIKE my neighbors
Be so glad when this calm down, or stop!!! It is murder and you are killing someones character . Just as bad as killing someone physical 🙏🙏🙏please be careful with this ..Thank you for this information and I call these gossipers preacher and report them to get the help amen amen
This is an excellent video about gossiping. Thank you for sharing this. I think the advice you gave is good for dealing with people who are gossiping about you in your physical world. But it's kind of difficult using some of your approach with some people who have started gossiping about people online - people they have never even communicated directly with. This has not only happened to me and many friends I know online. But it has happened to many CZcamsrs and CZcams Gurus here. I've seen so many times in the past and recently, some people writing malicious gossip about people online they have never talked to or DIRECTLY communicated with. They write malicious gossip stuff about people they have never interacted with - and make them the subjects of their messageboard and forum thread, their blogs, their website discussion, harassing them on social media and through private messages, etc.
You nailed it on the head when you said that people who write or say gossip about others online and in the physical world are making the people subjects that they are writing about the "scapegoats" for whatever they are having issues with. I understand that feeling, because a few times I have been gossiped about and bullied online, and I feel that they were making an example out of me and making me a "scapegoat" for whatever issues they were having at that time in their life. I wish they talked to me directly instead of saying stuff behind me and other people's backs and doing the passive aggressive thing. I would rather talk directly to a person and communicate directly with them, then seeing them gossip and saying hurtful things behind people's backs and making me & others the "scapegoat" for their issues, anger, frustrations, and problems.
I agree with some of what you said in this video, but there are some people who hate on, write about, gossip, say disrespectful things, take their anger out on people who have never talked to them or communicated with them. They write social media posts, thread posts, blog posts about people who have never talked to them or engaged in any conversation with them prior to them writing negative, critical, or gossipy stuff about them. So, it's kind of hard to give those people who gossip about people they don't know - a good, positive, benefit of the doubt report - if me and other people who have been the subjects of their ridicule, harassment, bullying, gossiping, etc. have never even communicated or talked to them to begin with. How do you deal with people who gossip about you and others when the subjects have never even communicated with that person or are not even acquaintances or friends with that person? How about people who gossip about celebrities, public figures, CZcamsrs, online people - people they don't personally know? I think what you said is good for applying to people you have communicated with and know in your physical world. But it's kind of hard to apply the tips you said to people who are gossiping about people online.
I feel that the people who started gossip about people online - writing posts, threads, blog entries, social media messages, etc. about people they have never communicated with - ARE the ones who didn't show their subjects any courtesy, respect, or any benefit of the doubt. They didn't think of being patient before giving unfair character assessments of their subjects. What they did was leapfrog into making someone - any random person - a "scapegoat" for their cause or issue to gain support. The thing is that they threw someone they didn't know under the bus and at that victim aka person's expense - to gain attention and support - for a cause and issue that the person aka victim they criticized wants NO connection, association, or relation with. I think people who gossip don't realize that when they gossip and write things about people they hardly know - they are connecting and associating their scapegoat - victim of their gossiping - to a subject, issue, or cause that they never wanted any association with. So, in a way, it's kind of selfish of the gossiping person to be using some random person as the subject of their gossiping, bashing, ridiculing, etc. And it makes that person look like they didn't and couldn't find better use of their time - lack of productivity - than to pick on others who have never talked to them begin with. That they have spent their time bringing people down and gossiping about others instead of spending their time helping others and making this world a better place by helping all humans and living souls. Anyways, thanks for sharing. And have a good week and 2015!
people who gossip .is jealous
This might work for some lesser gossips, but it’s awful & dangerous advisor dealing with more evil people.
Sound advice. Many times it comes from envy or perhaps somebody had lied about you to the gossip, e.g. so and so is saying so and so about you. Sometimes it is best t to talk one and one and ask directly "why". If gossip is a lie and harms a good reputation, then that gossip is being totally sinful and eventually people find the truth.
How I wish I had discovered this years earlier, I could have used this information to approach my bestfriend. He is now in Sweden and I am in the Philippines. We've parted ways and so did our friendship.
I'm having this problem at work :(
Wonderful advice!
I have a male cousin nearly 40 and he gossips,he can't keep his mouth shut. You can console in him about someone then that someone looks at you next time with a side eye.
Thanks Joseph. A very good and practical video. Oh! How different things would be if we didn't gossip. However, it will happen so learning how to deal with it is an excellent approach. Thanks.
I know I'M right & these ppl KNOW I'm RIGHT!!!... I'm NOT going to FLUFF ANY BODY!!!....🙌
I have this problem in my life. That you for this video 😇
Great video
Singaporean smart sharing. TKS.
Josef eres lo máximo!
Nice
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School kids from alford been spread rumours about me gossiping about me spread rumours gossiping posting messages about me on line and spread rumours around alford make me feel turmoil uncomfortable
Hey I'm in middle school and my ex friend has been trying to fight me lying and calling me a bitch behind my back and yelling at me for no reason her name is scarlett what do I do she won't leave me alone I have reported her 4 times already 😢
Here's a video which shows how to stop gossiping and backbiting in the workplace czcams.com/video/i_1bHQmXYHs/video.html based on Socrates triple filter test. There are also links to resources on our website.
I recently moved into a neighborhood , and I have a problem with one of my neighbors. She hates me ,and spread rumors on me with other neighbors. I tried talking to her but it hasn't done any good . I have trouble making new friends , because they believe the lies . I love God with all my heart, and I don't want to hurt anyone . what is the resolution to my problem ?
Assuming that you have tried your best to connect with the source of the gossip, the next best thing to do is to "let your light shine" i.e. let your consistent good works and acts of kindness speak for itself. Let the accuser be ashamed om the account of the light that you constantly emanate. Sometimes the less of a fuss we make, the better and just concentrate on shining for a greater good.
Joseph Tan , thanks for the info . I tried talking to the woman who gossip on me . I invited her to a family gathering I had . I gave her my phone number , and told her I hope we could be friends . It didn't work , so I will try to talk to her friends and let them know I am not the bad person they think .