Necessary Endings | Exit Strategies | Part 7 | Issac Curry
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- čas přidán 21. 08. 2024
- Sometimes people leave. This message is designed to help us not be so focused on who left that we're not in anticipation of who God is sending.
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This was so powerful and beyond needed. Just was crying over other people setting boundaries and releasing me out of their life. I truly needed this confirmation.
There comes a time in life when the relationships you need the most are the relationships you need to pursue. If you don’t do friendships well, you won’t do your purpose well. Increase the right people that God wants around you. Relationships are essential. Every believer who accomplishes anything great must first achieve a level of mastery in the area of relationships. The greatest threat to your spiritual growth is the fact that you don’t know how to do relationships. Many people will stay in the relationships because of the history vs the health. When seasons change, so will your circle. Your network is a group of people who influence you. Your influence should always be by invitation only. Some people aren’t called to you through the Holy Spirit. Some of us have people in our space taking up space that the Spirit hasn’t assigned to us. There comes a point in your life where you need to seek out the people in your life. They won’t always come to you.
VRP - Very Resourceful People, Older, More Experience, Ignite your passion.
VIP - Very Important People, Share Passion, Give Permission to speak in your life, challenge you, talk to you, help you in your journey
VTP - Very Trainable People, catches your passion.
VNP - Very Nice People, enjoy your passion. Never will invest in it.
VDP - Very Draining People, sap your passion through conflict, negativity, and contention.
In order to put people in the right place in your life, sometimes that involves dismissing them.
You have to release people when you sense that the priorities are shifting. We’re in a different season. There can still be love there. But it’s necessary. In your life, you have to be okay with having empty seats. Clarify your life according to your purpose. Let God fill the seats with the right people. Your purpose is connected to your relationships.
Four People You Need Sitting at Your Table
1 Coach; Help clarify what God is doing in your life, and give perspective
2 Compass; They have been where you are trying to do. Some relationships you have to pursue.
3 Confidant; Don’t rush into your friendship and be prayerful. Someone you can pour into. Be vulnerable.
4 Colleague; God didn’t call to be a reservoir. Just to receive. As I am being blessed, I will find someone else to bless.
When the wrong people leave, the mission will not be compromised. Be prayerful, release, and receive. If you keep releasing people every year, you’re the common dominator.
So powerful!
THANK YOU🎯🙏🏿
Powerful, God bless you.
This is a very necessary sermon! A lot of key points provided especially the one about letting people linger out of desperation/trauma or case you need to fill a position- this one hurt! I pray that the LORD helps us see that we can free up seats in our life and he fill send his ordinated people to play the proper position in our lives 👏🏼👏🏼
The first relationship you need is a relationship with God.❤
In your life you have to be okay with having empty seats because in your life God will fill those seats with the right people.
Yes! We attract who we want to become.
Also the saying show me your friends and show me your future. It's okay to have empty seats indeed because when the right people come, those destiny helpers are incredible beyond imagination
@@abeekuworldchanger380 Yes indeed.❤️
Thank you God for this.♥️Teach me to let the people that are not supposed to be in my life go lord.Teach me to accept the right people in my life and not push them away.Thank you Jesus♥️
Yes Lord, teach us 🙌🏾. A much needed word in this day and age. It's crazy how we try to keep people around that the Holy Spirit hasn't assigned to us, or when our seasons change, our circle does too. God has a funny and odd sense of humor at times, but it's all for his glory.
When seasons change, so will your circle. Amen. Thank you Lord, Jesus. Thank you Lord. Thank you Lord. Amen. Thank you Lord.
It's so true. One of the biggest detriments to peoples spiritual growth are the people they keep around. I see this a lot with social media with friendships I add where a lot of the people I knew always hang around each other and it's like those friendships didn't grow when I would interact with them. Praise God for discernment when he reveals these things to us. Your circle has to change if you're growing in Christ. Growth means agitation for us and for others because it's going beyond a version of you that people used to know.
If you do not do your friendships well you will not be able to do your purpose well.
Relationships are essential
When seasons change so will your circle
Five types of people you have in your life:
1. Very Resourceful People - Has more experience than you and ignite your passions
2. Very Important People - They share your passion. People given permission to speak into your life and challenge you.
3. Very Trainable People - Newer in faith and catch your passion. You invest and help.
4. Very Nice People - Enjoy your passion but they never will invest innit.
5. Very Draining People - All they do is sup your passion with negativity etc
Four people you need to have in your life:
1. Coach - Someone help clarify what God is doing in your life. Gives perspective.
2. Compass - Seek after someone who has what you desire.
3. Confidant - Reveal things to this person no one else knows.
4. Colleague - Person in your life you've been called to disciple, serve and pour into.
Whew!!! This is most definitely an ON-TIME-WORD! My mother and I have both been in this transition and she recommended me here!
💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽Just this morning while out, a woman I frequently saw around college passed by and the Holy Spirit IMMEDIATLEY told me to get her contact ! I did after we conversed; come to find out, she's a believer and in a similar transition as I am and lives locally! We had so much in common!
I've been praying that God exposes insincere friends in me and my husbands' lives and to attract genuine, loving couples and friends. Well, within two weeks, three friends (one being a family member) have been exposed! I even entertained the thought of rekindling an old friendship, and pastor hit the nail on the head when he spoke concerning history vs. health.🔥
I'm in a serious season of transition, in an amazing space I've never been before and it's so important I pray concerning my circle. Thank you pastor Flowers, Pastor Isaac, and Holy Ghost 🤸🏽♂🤸🏽♂🤸🏽♂
When a season changes so should your circle
This is a very powerful sermon, and a very important one at best. One of the things I'm realizing especially as of recently is that draining people can consume in ways we don't realize if we don't utilize boundaries. I loved the analogy in this message and the types of people Pastor Issac Curry mentioned.
Friendships are tough, but what he said about pursuing them is necessary. That being said, knowing when to release people is important. I had someone message me on Social media recently after the Lord told me to release her, but I'm not compromising and continuing to trust God with the decision. Many times, you need to be at peace with these decisions despite the history and longevity a friendship had. Its interesting to because the devil can send distractions in our lives that can deter our relationships if we aren't careful. Something I want to mention to that will be a word for someone is keep in mind the kind of peace you have in a friendship. If there is more angst than peace and stillness, chances are its a friendship that is very draining or toxic. Watch for ones too where certain people don't respect your boundaries, or where people only know a past version of you that no longer exists. Those friendships are very evident and you have to see where you're at spiritually. Everything about this sermon hit for me. I will be continuing to evaluate who the Lord wants me to pour into, and who he wants me to release and let go.
May the Kingdom of God remind us of our God given purpose. When your season changes, so will your circle. Loved that. Its so true. There will be people in your life who you will outgrow and if you are trying to get around people, but some are holding you back, ask God to show you clarity and wisdom. We are either doing friendships correctly or incorrectly. Once you know where to categorize people, it changes everything with how you interact with people. Certain individuals will allow you to go deep with them. Others are individuals you encounter in your life that will only enact surface level talk. Either way, God is always good. A powerful sermon, and one of the greatest of this century. May the Lord show you provision through this incredible sermon.
Relationships are essential
When seasons change so will your circle.
This man is awesome! I love when Isaac preaches. This was absolutely amazing 🤩. He just put a new spin on how we view people and judge them based off their exterior when they hold keys that GOD has placed them in our life to give us. Man oh man. I will download this to my phone. Pastor Isaac you did an amazing job. I believe I have gotten the answer to my question about why a job opened up for me in another state rather the ones I applied for in my own state. GOd has a divine plan and now I’m even more eager to find out. I have been anxious and fearful this whole time, thinking about all the bad that could come about this 1,000 mile journey. You have spoken life and light into my darkness. 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
AMEN! Thank you Lord, Jesus, for allowing this channel and message to find, teach, reach, and meet me where I'm at. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. AMEN!!!!
This came right on time for me … I had to let some people go a few months ago and I knew it it was bothering me so bad … but now I understand and I’m at peace hearing this message and knowing the type of people I NEED in my life and not just so I won’t be alone thank you
Dr. Dharius Daniels wrote a book about how to identify people in your life and what position they should occupy. Real good read.
Relational Intelligence. Super great book .
This sermon is so on point for me. Thank you Pastor Curry for breaking down the types of people. I have experienced a new revelation and how to allow and deal with all types of people. Now I understand how to deal with people and to release them. Praise God 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾
I can already tell this is going to hurt real bad. I was the releasee and that's not easy to say but that person had to release me becuz I was very draining on them. Mainly becuz I hadn't found my place in life and used them for my happiness. Sad but true. God help me.
Sometime they will leave 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Yes. One pastor I follow on Instagram in a post of his said that "you think you're losing friends? It's the Lord removing them from your life. " Forever changed my life. The people who leave are the people who's part of our story in life is over. It's the same when the Lord tells us to remove people and be at peace with it.
When the wrong people leave, the mission will still continue 🙏🏾
Jesus! So impactful! What a Word as well as visual on what we should and should not do! This was so necessary!
Prioritize health over history of the relationship
I found this on Instagram and I'm glad I came here
I Pray That God The Father God the Son And God the Holy Spirit keep you guys Humble and Hungry In Jesus name Amen
Sometimes people leave.
Gonna watch it a 3rd time and take notes! This is a WORD !!
This was so good I want to scream. Thank you
This came at a perfect time, God is so good! Bless you❤️
Whew I have some VDPs. It’s crazy when you offer therapy to them they get offended. If therapy is good enough for me why isn’t it good enough for you?
This is deep! Spiritual friends are the best
Such a great teaching 🔥🔥🔥 much needed
I definitely resonate with this word as I'm in a season of transition and transformation! 🙌🏾✈️💪🏾🦋 Thank you JESUS!!!!!
Come on precious Holy, Spirit. Come on Lord. Come on Lord. Thank you Lord, Jesus. Thank you Lord. Thank you Lord, Jesus. Thank you Lord. 💜💛💗💕❤️💙🌞😊🤗
This message was such a necessary and timely word. I received everything that was laid out. Thank you pastor.
What a powerful demonstration, and a challenge to get free! Bless you Pastors!! Amen.
Amen! Thank you! This message blessed my life Pastor Curry!!!
COME ON PASTOR ISSAC CURRY!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
1.) Coach 2.) Compass 3.) Confidant 4.) Colleague
Congratulations Brother! Thank You Jesus
Amen. Exactly. Thank you Lord, Jesus. Amen. Exactly.
This was so timely!!! Thank you, my fellow Memphian!!!!
God is using you 🙏 Bless you!!
Preach Brother
This was a right on time message for me!I need to hear every word that was spoken in this message! Thank you!!
What an amazing word as always…To God be all the Gloryyyyyyy!! I don’t know why I just won’t go ahead & join .. I’m there almost every Sunday!!!
Come on cousin Isaac!! This msg was soooooooooooooooo on point. Thanks for providing the language to use too. Blessings 🔥🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
RELATIONSHIPS ARE ESSENTIAL. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. AMEN.
COME ON JESUS. COME ON JESUS. AMEN. EXACTLY.
Come on Sir!!!
I am okay with Empty Seats 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen!
This Blessed me!
I wish that I had asked others for help while I took care of my mom. I should have been my honest about how hard it was to take care of her.
This is very helpful! I will be using these categories moving forward! 👏🏾👏🏾
Wow!!! I’m so blessed with this message-😊
God please send me family similar caring people like me to come into my life and bless me...Thank you
My God my God my God!!
Great message, sir!!
I get it! I get it!
The rental assistance dude looked sad leaving the pulpit. LOL.
Thissss is another necessary video
Necessary Endings
So necessary!!
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Thanks!
THIS IS GOOD.
I enjoy redefined tv and the message God gives through the pastors. I was wondering about a call to salvation. Am I missing it? I have accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as my savior according to Romans 10:9. Is it assumed that people streaming online are saved? Or is it cut short by accident or time online?
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AMEN 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
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Confidant!
CONFIDANT-ABIGAIL WHETHER MALE OR FEMALE
Amen
Amen ❤️
How can we know it’s an invitation so I won’t mess my life up
SOMETIMES PEOPLE WILL LEAVE. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. AMEN. HALLELUJAH. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS. I PRAISE AND THANK GOD, THAT HE BROUGHT UP THAT THIS IS APPLICABLE TO ALL RELATIONSHIPS. HALLELUJAH. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS. BECAUSE WE NEED TO HEAR THAT, RECEIVE THAT, EMBRACE THAT, ACCEPT THAT, AND BELIEVE THAT. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY/PEOPLE WILL TRY TO TELL YOU AND CONVINCE YOU OTHERWISE. BUT THE DEVIL IS A LIE. WE WILL NOT RECEIVE OR BELIEVE HIS LIES ANY LONGER. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. HE AND HIS LIES MUST RETURN BACK TO THE PITS OF HELL WHERE THEY BELONG. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. AMEN.
What happens if the vdp is one of yo kids!🤔
Lol
SOOO, Then You AGREE With BLACK Women DIVESTMENT ?
The issue isn’t race. You’ll find horrible , leeching and unmotivated men in all races.
Sometimes people leave.
Amen!
Preach Brother
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen